Luckily my narc ex let me know from the start that I’m not his mother so why would he wish me a happy Mother’s Day when we were together. I’m trying to divorce him we’ve been separated for a long time. He actually filed but won’t finalize it. Now that his latest supply has left him he sends me random videos of birds. He know I love birds. It’s his way of hoovering . He is trying to Chk my temperature, I just ignore him. I want nothing to do with that diabolical demon who would give me the silent treatment all day just to sexually assault me once I fell asleep. Telling me you can’t rape your wife. He lied, cheated, and verbally abused me through out the relationship. Our son is grown and he’s never been a present father. He’s too busy trying to get supply for his fragile ego. I want nothing more than to be divorced so I can delete his number and block him.
So, I have been divorced for almost 3 years. Back in February after being in therapy since September of 2023, he reached out on February 15. He attempted to sext with me. Mind you he has remarried. I almost fell for it again. But I’m so proud of myself I didn’t. The only reason we communicate is because we have a child together.
True, true and true! My narcissistic, alcoholic ex is trying to get his lawyer to bully me to have contact. I haven't had contact since June 2020 when the police arrested him. I absolutely refuse to fall for his b.s. Be strong! Stay blessed!
I swear, women have psychic powers. Truly. I don't know if it's pheromones. Genetic DNA memories. Some cosmic phenomenon. Radio frequencies. I don't know. But they have something.They know when you are juuuuust starting to fully let them go and move on. Maybe you just started dating someone. Or THOUGHT about dating someone else. And bam. She reaches out to you.
I’ve said that too, they just know. That kind of behavior and character flaw are influenced by the demonic. In the same category as a temptation, all they have to do is nudge our ex and like magic they appear at the “right” moments to sabotage
I was taken to the hospital in an ambulance and was PISSED later when I was told the hospital contacted my “husband” when I first arrived and he informed them that he didn’t know what was going on with me as we’d been separated for four months. I told them we’d been separated for 2 years. I know there’s no way they could’ve known and I guess it was on me for not making sure my emergency contact info was up to date but it was a horrible feeling to be in a vulnerable state and have the professionals who were supposed to be helping me, reach out to that monster and stir that hornets nest up. Who actually thinks they need to make a special trip to the hospital to make sure they know not to contact the ex if you ever show up unconscious? It’s just one of those things you figure you’ll deal with the next time you’re there for stitches or something like that, if it even crosses your mind at all. They apparently ended the call immediately upon learning that and told him they were unable to provide any information about why I was there. A couple weeks later on Mother’s Day, I woke up to a text from him that was something to the effect of “I just wanted to send best wishes on this Mother’s Day. I hope you’re okay. Thinking of you.” With a picture I’d never seen before of us curled up with our hands on my very pregnant belly when I was carrying our now deceased daughter. As soon as I saw the text I knew. He was scrambling. He was panicked because he knew I really didn’t need him anymore. If I was in the ER having some kind of medical emergency and I didn’t contact him, he knew there was nothing that would make me reach out. He knew I was strong again if I’d rather go it alone than to call him. Had that ER phone call not happened, there’s no way I’d have gotten that text. I didn’t respond. I knew by then, the only way that plays out is I respond, we trade a couple of texts and then he abruptly stops with no explanation. I wasn’t going to give him the upper hand again. I wasn’t going to disrespect myself again.
I never miss him and I see him often. I have no choice he has temporary custody of our grandchildren. But I’m smarter than him and he knows it. He’s told me so many times. I win 🎉
I messed up and responded reaffirming to leave me be and why i left in the first place. But afterwards i blocked this new email addy he used but he might create a new email address again. but then again he may not know he is blocked again. I think they cant tell if they are blocked.
I found out my daughter's father was living a double life about 2wks ago. He had a stroke and almost died. I'm very hurt, but if he hadn't had the stroke I would've never known what was going on. His girlfriend came to the hospital and was more than happy to introduce herself to the nurse as his girlfriend. She said they've been together for 16yrs; our daughter is 19. She enjoyed seeing the shocked look on my face. He has no remorse. I have to pray not to take revenge, but considering selling some of the tools I helped buy. Is that wrong? Can someone let me know? I'm glad I came upon your channel. It helps to read others stories and advice. Thank you.
Luckily my narc ex let me know from the start that I’m not his mother so why would he wish me a happy Mother’s Day when we were together. I’m trying to divorce him we’ve been separated for a long time. He actually filed but won’t finalize it. Now that his latest supply has left him he sends me random videos of birds. He know I love birds. It’s his way of hoovering . He is trying to
Chk my temperature, I just ignore him. I want nothing to do with that diabolical demon who would give me the silent treatment all day just to sexually assault me once I fell asleep. Telling me you can’t rape your wife. He lied, cheated, and verbally abused me through out the relationship. Our son is grown and he’s never been a present father. He’s too busy trying to get supply for his fragile ego. I want nothing more than to be divorced so I can delete his number and block him.
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So, I have been divorced for almost 3 years. Back in February after being in therapy since September of 2023, he reached out on February 15. He attempted to sext with me. Mind you he has remarried. I almost fell for it again. But I’m so proud of myself I didn’t. The only reason we communicate is because we have a child together.
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@@marydellgeorge2425 thanks
Saying nothing drives them crazy. 😂
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True, true and true! My narcissistic, alcoholic ex is trying to get his lawyer to bully me to have contact. I haven't had contact since June 2020 when the police arrested him. I absolutely refuse to fall for his b.s. Be strong! Stay blessed!
@@Zen-xn8gk good job
I swear, women have psychic powers. Truly. I don't know if it's pheromones. Genetic DNA memories. Some cosmic phenomenon. Radio frequencies. I don't know. But they have something.They know when you are juuuuust starting to fully let them go and move on. Maybe you just started dating someone. Or THOUGHT about dating someone else. And bam. She reaches out to you.
I’ve said that too, they just know. That kind of behavior and character flaw are influenced by the demonic. In the same category as a temptation, all they have to do is nudge our ex and like magic they appear at the “right” moments to sabotage
It’s called soul ties = now there’s two way communication break the bond in Jesus Name 👏
@@reecespbcups oh Jesus christ
They “Know” because they are Stalking you via their flying monkeys.
I was taken to the hospital in an ambulance and was PISSED later when I was told the hospital contacted my “husband” when I first arrived and he informed them that he didn’t know what was going on with me as we’d been separated for four months. I told them we’d been separated for 2 years. I know there’s no way they could’ve known and I guess it was on me for not making sure my emergency contact info was up to date but it was a horrible feeling to be in a vulnerable state and have the professionals who were supposed to be helping me, reach out to that monster and stir that hornets nest up. Who actually thinks they need to make a special trip to the hospital to make sure they know not to contact the ex if you ever show up unconscious? It’s just one of those things you figure you’ll deal with the next time you’re there for stitches or something like that, if it even crosses your mind at all. They apparently ended the call immediately upon learning that and told him they were unable to provide any information about why I was there. A couple weeks later on Mother’s Day, I woke up to a text from him that was something to the effect of “I just wanted to send best wishes on this Mother’s Day. I hope you’re okay. Thinking of you.” With a picture I’d never seen before of us curled up with our hands on my very pregnant belly when I was carrying our now deceased daughter. As soon as I saw the text I knew. He was scrambling. He was panicked because he knew I really didn’t need him anymore. If I was in the ER having some kind of medical emergency and I didn’t contact him, he knew there was nothing that would make me reach out. He knew I was strong again if I’d rather go it alone than to call him. Had that ER phone call not happened, there’s no way I’d have gotten that text. I didn’t respond. I knew by then, the only way that plays out is I respond, we trade a couple of texts and then he abruptly stops with no explanation. I wasn’t going to give him the upper hand again. I wasn’t going to disrespect myself again.
Adult children too.......make sense ....
I never miss him and I see him often. I have no choice he has temporary custody of our grandchildren. But I’m smarter than him and he knows it. He’s told me so many times. I win 🎉
@@lisathomas1622 amen
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I messed up and responded reaffirming to leave me be and why i left in the first place. But afterwards i blocked this new email addy he used but he might create a new email address again. but then again he may not know he is blocked again. I think they cant tell if they are blocked.
The Best advice!!!
She left crazy notes at my home....won't reply
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I found out my daughter's father was living a double life about 2wks ago. He had a stroke and almost died. I'm very hurt, but if he hadn't had the stroke I would've never known what was going on. His girlfriend came to the hospital and was more than happy to introduce herself to the nurse as his girlfriend. She said they've been together for 16yrs; our daughter is 19. She enjoyed seeing the shocked look on my face. He has no remorse. I have to pray not to take revenge, but considering selling some of the tools I helped buy. Is that wrong? Can someone let me know? I'm glad I came upon your channel. It helps to read others stories and advice. Thank you.
@@tracieross9928 wow
Do some for women brother mad respect though you hit my buttons
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i took the bait (back then)
Nope, my ex`s hate me.
Are you ASSuming Narcs are men?
@@CHDean not all
@@The_coach_scott exactly
@@CHDean yes