Sometimes it's not about the woman needing to hold accountability. You could've literally been in a relationship where you held up the entire relationship while the dude did nothing and he knows it's his fault y'all didn't work out. Blame is not always on both sides; you literally could've just had a terrible partner.
@@mslove2913 That happens and that's not the point. I was giving an example. The broader point to be made is that as a woman if a relationship ends, yes, it can totally just be the other person's fault and none of your own. A simpler example could be if they cheated and that was a known deal breaker; it's not for you to be held accountable for anything.
@@MsSwankie10 It's my point.. It's giving low self-esteemed and needing to be had.. Example or not, if a Woman allow a Man to do nothing she needs to watch every Tony Gaskins and Sealz Video they ever made🙏🏽
Ladies ! please do not be fooled by these type of questions! Most of these questions will be asked by a man who has a "lukewarm" attraction for a woman he is not too sure about. He likely views the woman as an option who needs to " audition" for his love and attention. When A man meets a woman that he is highly attracted to physically and emotionally, he is going to automatically put her on a pedestal and trust that she is the best thing ever... whether he has the answers to those questions or not! These questions probably won't even cross his mind.He will Automatically assume that this woman is special, and wont have to do research on her to confirm that she is " good enough"
Know yourself, your worth, what you want, what you are willing to work through, set boundaries..Really!! Set boundaries, and set a time to see real growth.. Not imaginary, nor potentially, but real healthy substantial growth. If you don't hold yourself accountable to your conditions, or don't establish standards, neither will anyone else.
And a person with time, can spend said time with you and not ask questions nor really answer them, and be wasting your time. Only spending time with you, but not getting to know you. If that makes sense.
Sealz the man... I've been asked all said questions and them some... I also ask similar questions...Thank you for being so honest and transparent to us women ❤
I feel like that worst trait question from an ex is a set up for manipulation😭. It would be better if it was a “what do you think/ how can you work on/ be better for yourself & relationships.
Yes all my man's question i have experienced that he is serious when asked so i answered all his questions truthfully and that is also true when i talk to him he wants you to be on fucos not other things you are doing as long as you concentrate when i talk to him ok yesss Sealz the man great topic thank you peace and blessings👍🙏🏽❤️
Thank you for these insights. However, some men will ask all this only to be validated and ego boost. So I think to do what feels natural as in ask questions as they align.
Hey Sealz yes am rocking with u as usual OMG story time My boyfriend once asked me this exact question What was the reason for your last breakup ? Believe me I wanted to be transparent told him the exact reason Could u believe this ? My answer backfired on me negatively Do men really deserve the truth ? Sealz am depending on you for your honest opinion and answer Blessings and goodnight
Very true. Happened to me with my ex fiance. I was honest with him. I told him I broke up with my ex boyfriend after he cheated on me and I have no tolerance for cheating then he started acting different towards me and changed to a different person.
Well seems that it sounds like your holding on to your standards and boundaries. And keep on who is for will come and your still. Relatively Young. I'm 38 I wish I had sense enough.
Since im in love with my God Holy Spirit guides me in the word when he or she admits for one word wich applayies contacting with the ling of God that's is immediately.tacchis my heart wich is not at all i can agree but inside me the Holy Voice speak to me I love youand this applies for me with God Accepting me this is a small diogol between me and my God but still for me was not that easy to accept but in the end i had to accept becouse i myself had put for the Will of God
I don't know how I lijed you but i ask God for a man who i don't know him but i said to God give me a man about God's knows him because i trust God more than I trust myself
HAVE BE DONE WITH PAST TOO MOVE FORWARD!!! Most Men will deflect questions won't answer or tell TRUTH !!!! PUT ALL OUT THEIR SEE IF HE SHE RUNS !!!! STOP HIDING !!! Going have BE TRUTHFUL ONE DAY !!! TRY TRUTH ON FOR ONCE GUYS !!!!
Sometimes it's not about the woman needing to hold accountability. You could've literally been in a relationship where you held up the entire relationship while the dude did nothing and he knows it's his fault y'all didn't work out. Blame is not always on both sides; you literally could've just had a terrible partner.
What woman will be with a Man and do everything? I find this Krazy, low self-esteemed, and wanting to be loved. I would Never!!!
Exactly!!! Just like that..
What woman would be with a guy where she does everything,?
@@mslove2913 That happens and that's not the point. I was giving an example. The broader point to be made is that as a woman if a relationship ends, yes, it can totally just be the other person's fault and none of your own. A simpler example could be if they cheated and that was a known deal breaker; it's not for you to be held accountable for anything.
@@MsSwankie10 It's my point.. It's giving low self-esteemed and needing to be had.. Example or not, if a Woman allow a Man to do nothing she needs to watch every Tony Gaskins and Sealz Video they ever made🙏🏽
Ladies ! please do not be fooled by these type of questions! Most of these questions will be asked by a man who has a "lukewarm" attraction for a woman he is not too sure about. He likely views the woman as an option who needs to " audition" for his love and attention. When A man meets a woman that he is highly attracted to physically and emotionally, he is going to automatically put her on a pedestal and trust that she is the best thing ever... whether he has the answers to those questions or not! These questions probably won't even cross his mind.He will Automatically assume that this woman is special, and wont have to do research on her to confirm that she is " good enough"
Some people play people no matter what .
Know yourself, your worth, what you want, what you are willing to work through, set boundaries..Really!! Set boundaries, and set a time to see real growth.. Not imaginary, nor potentially, but real healthy substantial growth. If you don't hold yourself accountable to your conditions, or don't establish standards, neither will anyone else.
My boyfriend asked me if I believe in marriage. He values marriage. I said only if it’s with you.
women also ask these questions to get their bearings!
I love your conversations. You are so amazing and truthful.
Great post. Ive found that spending time and paying attention are more important than questions. Anyone can provide a crafty answer to a question.
And a person with time, can spend said time with you and not ask questions nor really answer them, and be wasting your time. Only spending time with you, but not getting to know you. If that makes sense.
@@Intuitivelyspeaking13 it does make sense, that's where the "pay attention" part comes in. Some end up telling on themselves.
I totally agree, spending time, and communicating naturally you will find out a lot, of what you want to know
It should be QUALITY time and again what you both are engaged in
Matters
Think about this
This makes a lot of sense to me now. Ong! This is so o true. Thank you.
🎵Remember the Time 🎶is one of my faves! ❤️
I was asked by someone who ended up using it against me. He said no wonder you went through this and that. Now am a bit not sure to share.
Sealz the man... I've been asked all said questions and them some... I also ask similar questions...Thank you for being so honest and transparent to us women ❤
I feel like that worst trait question from an ex is a set up for manipulation😭. It would be better if it was a “what do you think/ how can you work on/ be better for yourself & relationships.
Yes all my man's question i have experienced that he is serious when asked so i answered all his questions truthfully and that is also true when i talk to him he wants you to be on fucos not other things you are doing as long as you concentrate when i talk to him ok yesss Sealz the man great topic thank you peace and blessings👍🙏🏽❤️
You are the best Sealz🎉
@Sealztheman..... YESSSS Remember The Time.....I do the same thing and with commercials too🤦🏾♀️ Keep the GOOD content coming 😊
😅 me too, always remembering a song. Great content
Your content be so on point i have been ask most of the Questions.Thank you for this now i have a better understanding.
Facts 💯
I'm not gonna lie that Micheal Jackson song came to mind as well and then you said it 😂 at least I'm not alone in my crazy 😂
Love you’re show
Thank you for these insights. However, some men will ask all this only to be validated and ego boost. So I think to do what feels natural as in ask questions as they align.
Hey Sealz yes am rocking with u as usual
OMG story time
My boyfriend once asked me this exact question
What was the reason for your last breakup ?
Believe me I wanted to be transparent told him the exact reason
Could u believe this ? My answer backfired on me negatively
Do men really deserve the truth ?
Sealz am depending on you for your honest opinion and answer
Blessings and goodnight
Very true. Happened to me with my ex fiance. I was honest with him. I told him I broke up with my ex boyfriend after he cheated on me and I have no tolerance for cheating then he started acting different towards me and changed to a different person.
I just started dating this guy and he asked and do all things he says in his video about none toxic men
Thanks
❤u are the best u are a king
Truueee
Pls do a cover of MJ's remember the time!!
How about if the lady answers that she is single for a long time?
Im 29 and i have never been in a serious relationship. No one can ask me these questions lol
Well seems that it sounds like your holding on to your standards and boundaries. And keep on who is for will come and your still. Relatively Young. I'm 38 I wish I had sense enough.
Since im in love with my God Holy Spirit guides me in the word when he or she admits for one word wich applayies contacting with the ling of God that's is immediately.tacchis my heart wich is not at all i can agree but inside me the Holy Voice speak to me I love youand this applies for me with God Accepting me this is a small diogol between me and my God but still for me was not that easy to accept but in the end i had to accept becouse i myself had put for the Will of God
Im a widow
I don't know how I lijed you but i ask God for a man who i don't know him but i said to God give me a man about God's knows him because i trust God more than I trust myself
If a man who im not in a relationship with say to not be on phone the whole time its not because he loves me , but he care about me👍🥰
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HAVE BE DONE WITH PAST TOO MOVE FORWARD!!!
Most Men will deflect questions won't answer or tell TRUTH !!!!
PUT ALL OUT THEIR SEE IF HE SHE RUNS !!!! STOP HIDING !!! Going have BE TRUTHFUL ONE DAY !!! TRY TRUTH ON FOR ONCE GUYS !!!!
I just ask her about herself and eventually the truth always comes out anyways. Move slow and listen intentionally