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"Sometimes I can totally see the red flags in a person, but I still give them a chance until I see actual behavior from them. If they don’t like the good things happening to me, I know they shouldn’t be my friend. But at the same time, I struggle with whether it’s really the right move to cut them off. If I let go of all the not-so-great friends, I won’t have anyone left. And please don’t say something like ‘you’ll find a good friend’ because I’ve been on my own for years now."
Hello my dear, I'm really sorry that you had such a bad experience with friends. But I also think that you didn't understand me and what I was trying to explain in this video. In order to give new people the chance to come into your life, you have to let go of the bad ones. Until you do that, no "good and true friends" will come. Bc you haven’t allowed yourself to be treated better & people will feel your desperation 🥺💞
Listening to you, I realized how much I have compromised myself for the people around me and how unnecessary that was. I learned once again how valuable it is to be surrounded by people who accept us as we are. Thank you🙌
Omg Thank you so so much!! Sometimes we don’t see what’s in front of us but that’s okay!! Next time we’ll be prepared & I’m so thankful for your comment 🤲🏼✨
Instantly subscribed because I so so relate to what you just said. Not everyone grew up in the same house and have different upbringing. So pure intention isn’t something everyone has. ❤
@@SeymaDertliogluthe views and comments obviously indicate that people did!! 🥹just went through a difficult friendship breakup and a lot of what you spoke about resonated as to why things didn’t workout between us - for the best though, I know we’ll both grow in a more healthy direction because of it!
Omg girl this video just came on up a week after I cut off one of my “close friends” that just was really problematic and I realized a year and a half later but I LOVED THIS VIDEEOO AND YOUR POSITIVITYYY that’s another red flag abt people is if they’re soo negative about everything and everyone !! Just subscribed rn! May Allah bless this channel for you, YOUR A QUEENNN🩷 Also side note lol: What is that lip gloss your holding?? girl let us know cause I love a glossy and cute lipgloss
Could you please make a video on hijabi haircare, I have a small bald spot in my middle part ever since I started to wear it, I don’t know what should I do
@@Nunayoun Same here!!! But I really want to improve my skills 🥺 If you already know the basics + you’re from Switzerland it shouldn’t be a problem for you queen!! 💞🥺
maybe idk…really but all of my friends hype me up. Even when people Im not that close with compliment me I make sure to at least like their story once. Don’t reply to people who won’t even like your story !!
"Sometimes I can totally see the red flags in a person, but I still give them a chance until I see actual behavior from them. If they don’t like the good things happening to me, I know they shouldn’t be my friend. But at the same time, I struggle with whether it’s really the right move to cut them off. If I let go of all the not-so-great friends, I won’t have anyone left. And please don’t say something like ‘you’ll find a good friend’ because I’ve been on my own for years now."
Hello my dear,
I'm really sorry that you had such a bad experience with friends.
But I also think that you didn't understand me and what I was trying to explain in this video.
In order to give new people the chance to come into your life, you have to let go of the bad ones. Until you do that, no "good and true friends" will come. Bc you haven’t allowed yourself to be treated better & people will feel your desperation 🥺💞
4:49 "I‘m never alone. I like my own company"
Thats so true und I love that you talk about it ❤️
Listening to you, I realized how much I have compromised myself for the people around me and how unnecessary that was. I learned once again how valuable it is to be surrounded by people who accept us as we are. Thank you🙌
Omg Thank you so so much!! Sometimes we don’t see what’s in front of us but that’s okay!! Next time we’ll be prepared & I’m so thankful for your comment 🤲🏼✨
Instantly subscribed because I so so relate to what you just said. Not everyone grew up in the same house and have different upbringing. So pure intention isn’t something everyone has. ❤
So glad & grateful that you could relate to what I was trying to explain 🥺 Pure intentions radiates outwards 💞✨
Thank you for the support 🥺🤲🏼
So glad you uploaded this even when you weren’t feeling like it - just found this and subscribed!:D
Thaank you soo so much my love!! I really appreciate it & I’m endlessly grateful 🤲🏼💞✨
Sometimes I’m just “afraid” that people won’t understand what I’m trying to explain here 🥺
@@SeymaDertliogluthe views and comments obviously indicate that people did!! 🥹just went through a difficult friendship breakup and a lot of what you spoke about resonated as to why things didn’t workout between us - for the best though, I know we’ll both grow in a more healthy direction because of it!
Omg girl this video just came on up a week after I cut off one of my “close friends” that just was really problematic and I realized a year and a half later but I LOVED THIS VIDEEOO AND YOUR POSITIVITYYY that’s another red flag abt people is if they’re soo negative about everything and everyone !! Just subscribed rn! May Allah bless this channel for you, YOUR A QUEENNN🩷
Also side note lol: What is that lip gloss your holding?? girl let us know cause I love a glossy and cute lipgloss
The fish who keeps his mouth shut never gets caught
This will be my new fav quote & I’ll for sure use it in my next videos 💞
If friends want to walk - let them walk
This will be my new fav quote ❤
Love this 💞
facts !!!!!! as a guy she aint wrong. 👏👏👏👏
@@Dreamjr95 No wayy men watching my vids 🥹😂 Thank you!!! 🥺
@@SeymaDertlioglu on the fake friends and stufff your right I thought I was the only one my bad this video was actually interesting 🙌🙌🙌
@@SeymaDertlioglu can you also do one on like if you like someone like dating tips for guys
Thank You So Much For This !
I think we all needed to hear this 💞🤲🏼
You’re most welcome 💞
Appreciate your views , it’s refreshing. Salam from Miami Florida 🙏🏽
Omg my video reached someone in Miami 🥺 I’m soo so grateful!! Thank you so muchhh 🤲🏼💞
@@SeymaDertlioglu may Allah grant your channel success sister
Could you please make a video on hijabi haircare, I have a small bald spot in my middle part ever since I started to wear it, I don’t know what should I do
So soory to hear this 🥺 And other things you’re interested in? Then I would consider filming this video 💞
Omg you’re German!! I’m Swiss🥰
Omg yesss!! No way really?? Do speak German / French? 💞
@@SeymaDertlioglu german:) I just learned French at school, but I’m not really good at it🥹
@@SeymaDertlioglu btw, I really liked your take on fake friends!!
@@Nunayoun Same here!!! But I really want to improve my skills 🥺 If you already know the basics + you’re from Switzerland it shouldn’t be a problem for you queen!! 💞🥺
@@SeymaDertlioglu aww, you can do it girl, I believe in you🫶🏻🫶🏻
Thanks for this valuable informations
I’m so glad that you liked it 🥺🤲🏼✨
Do you think friends that don’t like your story and compliment you is red flag ? ( I always compliment them and like their story)
maybe idk…really but all of my friends hype me up. Even when people Im not that close with compliment me I make sure to at least like their story once. Don’t reply to people who won’t even like your story !!
Selam Seyma! Nice topic :)
Alaykum salam!! Thank youu 🤲🏼