@kelli Miguez im recently going through my 4th misscarriage and ur vid came up to me im shocked, u helped me so much but i wanted to ask did u get tested for chromosome? And how did ur reports came back ? Plz do reply
My doctor told me its a chromosomes abnormality 100% and there's no treatment for it i cry every night just thinking about it and here in UAE this test is expensive and im so scared what should i do i dont want to hear a bad news about it? Plz tell me about yours it may encourage me ??💔💔💔
Hey fazal, please don't loose hope, trust me ur rainbow baby will come, i had blighted ovum, and two others my babies just stopped growing. I do have a rainbow daughter now. Don't loose hope
That perinatal mood and anxiety disorders (PMAD) and postpartum depression (PPD) can occur in pregnancy loss, and that postpartum infections can still happen no matter the gestation period.
I’m trying to look at this as optimistically as possible. Maybe it’s stupid, but that what I have to do right now. I had a miscarriage at 21, and just experienced my second miscarriage at 30 (on Thursday), no other pregnancies- so no earth-side children yet. I’m looking at this as an opportunity to research more to lower my exposure to toxins. I’m switching out my shampoo and cleaning chemicals. An opportunity to learn more about which supplements I want to be taking prior to and during pregnancy. I’m currently obese, so maybe this is a chance to lose a couple pounds. Granted, right now I’m just eating so much junk food and takeout and probably setting myself back further. Hopefully what I learn I will have the strength to implement and therefore provide a better nutritional foundation for the next pregnancy. I feel like there’s something hidden- some other issue I don’t know about. But I’m thankful I’ve been able to get pregnant relatively quickly and I was thankful for every day I was able to carry my children. It gave me hope to be the best version of myself. I pray that everyone here gets the rainbow baby they’re praying for. ❤️
Hi Kelli, I just came across your video. I agree with everything you have said. And the main thing is to not give up hope. I have been trying for 13 years. I have had 6 miscarriages. My 1st @ 18 weeks. My second @ 17 weeks, 3rd and 4th in the first trimester, 5th @ 14 weeks and my most recent @ 22 weeks. It is the hardest thing to have to bury your children. Everytime I think it can't get worse, well my recent son, was born alive, but doctors couldn't save him. I held him until he passed away. But what doesn't kill you makes you stronger. At one point I did blame myself, but at the end of the day it's no one's fault. I have been asked if I feel jealous of other people who have children and my answer is no, because they are giving birth to their children, not mine. If they were giving birth to my children, then yes of course I would have an issue with that. I have lost alot of friends over time due to this, some don't know how to deal with it, so have chosen to distance themselves instead of comforting me, some have said indirectly that I should not try again as I know that my babies do not survive, so I am basically killing them. It's been a tough road. But I believe that God gives his hardest battles to his strongest soldiers. One thing that keeps me going is that I have to be strong, because when I do have a child, I have to be fully there, so I cannot break. Also if I can get through this, if one day, when I do have a child, if my child had to experience anything tough, then I know he/she will also be able to cope and manage. I hope anyone who is reading this that has gone through any losses, stays strong, and keep reminding yourself that nothing is your fault and if someone says something nasty to you, you don't need them in your life.
Those who have childeren, these childeren have been given to them GOD. He is the creator of all. This life is a test we are all tested with happiness sadness poverty wealth health sickness and with childeren and with moscarriages and with no children at all. Its incredible how u stand strong during the test of miscarriages and i know GOD will also test u with a beautiful healthy baby that will grow into a good human like you INSHALLAH. soon very soon and u wont forget GOD even when u r the happiest in ur life. I wish u all the best
I am just in your same boat ....I hv one daughter of 15 yrs old and after that I had six miscarriages ,,,and haven’t lost hope still,,,I m trying for the best,recently I have done hysteroscopy and nothing is wrong in my womb,,in previous pregnancies I have been given celaxan inj ,aspirine,progesterone, but nothing works for me,,,,but still I have hope on my God,,,I pray for you that Allah give you a cute 👶 baby very soon ,,pls share with me that what treatment hv you taken so far ,,,,
I resonate so much with #2. I felt bad for even beginning to think that after my first and second loss. After my third loss, when people finally started to listen to me and recommended me to a high risk OB, I finally came to the conclusion that the medical industry is basically inadequate on the subject of recurrent miscarriages. It’s baffling and frustrating to hear a high risk OB at one of the best clinics in the nation tell you that only 30% of women who experience RPL ever find anything wrong with them. It is also heartbreaking and astounding to know that when you lose one baby and fear losing another, that no one (in the medical field) will take you seriously. During my third early pregnancy, I was miserable night and day, calling my doctors and asking them what I needed to do. In my mind, I kept thinking, “Hey, I’m going to miscarry. Guys, what do I do?” Local OB assures me she was not worried about this pregnancy and sent me home without even looking at anything. Why do we have to lose 3 or more babies for someone to take action? It’s not right, and my only conclusion is that the medical field is clueless.
Am so glad i found this video. I have been through 2 recurrent miscarriages one after the other. I was so devastated. As you said iT i kept comparing my situation with other people and keep asking myself why me😔. I just found out today am 4weeks and am hella scared of going through it again
So true me too I kept comparing my self with others who are just dont want the baby and being pregnant health and having healthy baby any way then send the baby away😭
From 18/10/2019 to 9/10/2020 I have miscarry 3 children... as I am typing I am on the hospital bed like I just want to die very heart broken and devastating.
I’ve genetically analyzed over 100,000 miscarried and aborted fetuses and I felt the pain for all those couples. I would just like to let you know that those babies did not die for no reason. Their deaths served a purpose. Fetal genomic data is very important to understanding what humans are all about. Scientists need data to analyze abnormalities so they can find ways to correct it. From analyzing the beginnings of life, scientists will discover new ways to extend people’s lives. Please don’t give up hope and faith for having a baby. My advice to you is simply try to reduce your stress levels and be happy. Once you can train your mind to do that, your system will be ready to develop a new life. Anti-depressants and many other drugs increase the risk of miscarriages. I’m not a stupid doctor but I do wish you all the best.
Very helpful video....I had four miscarriages....and now I am mother of two...feel blessed 🙏.. but can not forget ... I miss my angel babies. ..this is very painful.. mentally and physically both...
Thanks for sharing Kelli, this is very encouraging. I’ve just lost my baby girl at 4 months, I was told I had a early miscarriage 2 years ago, I had 2 scans the week lost her and was told everything was perfectly fine baby growing perfectly heartbeat was fine and there was nothing wrong it to worry about. I bed rested for 2 months prior due to being told I had a small bleed. So I agree when you say it’s not our fault as what happens when you have an ideal pregnancy and haven’t done any lifting etc. I have to just trust that it wasn’t Gods will in this time for us and not lose hope! We’ve been waiting on God and battling infertility for 5 years and we will continue to keep trusting cxx
I’m so sorry. I know that broken feeling all too well 😔 I wish I could say something to make it better, but I haven’t figured that out yet. Please know you are not alone though. I’m here if you ever need to talk about it. ❤️
Kelli Miguez You’re video helped me A TON. I put it on while i hopped in the shower and I just sobbed, but it felt good to actually cry. Thank you for your kind words, and helping. Me pick these pieces back up again. 💕
In so sorry for your loss hope u and your wife have so many people to hug and support you and your wife you need support as much as she do and you did nothing wrong so does your wife did nothing wrong and I pray that you and your wife will find support you need
We are on number 4. We are going to get some tests now. One of the tests alone is costing us £1,000 it’s going to cost a fortune by the end but this lady is right we have needed to go do research ourselves. We have no idea what’s going on. Fingers crossed for you both
Thanks for putting this channel up. My wife and I have been thru 3 RPL. I just finished reading a 3rd book about this subject and that happens to be Dr Beer’s book. Searching for videos about him and ended up finding your UA-cam channel. I hope treatment is going well for you. Praying everything goes well. I will continue to watch your videos and share them with my wife.
Lost my daughter at 16weeks. Another at 8 weeks, then a chemical pregnancy (loss at 4 weeks). Im now pregnant and started Lovenox. I have no idea if that was the issue (clotting) but we will see and wait with hope.
Praying 🙏🏽 This is my 2 loss. We found out yesterday at our 12 week appointment our baby Heart beat wasn’t there anymore. I was a weekly follow up since weeks then was graduated/ transferred back to my OBGYN. We were seen my fertility specialist after the first miscarriage so we had to undergo multiple work ups but didn’t opt for IVF and tried on our own but unfortunately our baby was strong in the beginning however didn’t make it. I’m so confused and heartbroken 💔 I just know our baby was thriving and now I’m left wondering what went wrong
I totally agree with you that drs are clueless and don’t know how to handle RPL. They automatically classify you as infertile, when in reality they have no explanation for it.
Thank you for making this video and I am so sorry for your losses. I had three miscarriages, the last one was a missed miscarriage; before that I had no idea such a thing existed. My doctor actually laughed when I showed concern during my last pregnancy because of having lost the two before it and she said it was NOT likely (that even the second was pure bad luck) I felt stupid for sharing my concern which really made it so much harder at the end when I did lose my baby. I realised doctors don't know anything about recurrent miscarriages and they keep saying the same things about chromosomes and bad luck and non of it is helpful or answers the question "why?".
My ob/gyn told me to do ivf. I asked him how will it guarantee a positive pregnancy throughout the 9 months. He said he cant guarantee. So...i can conceive naturally...but i miscarried. How can he be sure it wont happen again if i did ivf. What if genetic testing is done but I still miscarry? I do not like their approach and their beside manners is severely lacking. I am sorry for your loss. I went through one miscarraige and i feel crap. I cant imagine what you are going through. I am watching Marc Sklar here on youtube to get answers for alternative methods
@@KITCHENWITHNAGYET I had 5 missed abortion btw 6 to 8 wks.... What you did? Now you have baby? Plz reply.... Im so worried... I can't control my feelings plz reply...
I’ve had multiple tries with my husband and I’m 20. But the thing is that I’ve always had miscarriages within 4-22 weeks. Today would be my 6th miscarriage within the year but it’s still sad that I can’t have kids.. my mom would shame me saying it’s easy to have kids, you just don’t want kids. but I just can’t and there’s always more we can do to have kids such as adoption
It’s important to feel hope but I wondered if there’s anyone who feels the same as I do - stories of people getting the babies after years and years of trying SCARE me… I mean , I always think ‘it’s time if you life …it’s all your finances ..it’s all the pain you had to go through ‘ - was a baby really your life goal or did that person become obsessed cause it wasn’t happening ? I know it will sound rediculous but I spent my 20s becoming a lawyer through so many hurdles just to realise I hated it. I’m now 34, I had 2 miscarriages already and I can see that my life could be good if I never wanted a child …not like I can fix my desires but I already feel I’m becoming fixated and going into this long painful process and it scares me 😔😔😔 I want a baby , but realising a have to dedicate my life and leftovers of my youth and go through all this pain upsets me so much :((( I know people will say ‘well may you don’t really want one!’ But I did more than anything . I wanted 3… two are now gone (((
I know what you mean! I struggled with this too. Sometimes I would work to try to convince myself I didn’t really want a baby. I found stopping a desire, especially one rooted in biology and hormones, to be very difficult for me. In hindsight I can say that I believe my life would have been good either way, but I don’t know if I would have believed that while in the middle of the struggle. I’m sorry for your losses and I’m extra sorry if anything I’ve shared has scared you. Sending you love and light 💖
Hey Tanu, how are you doing? I know a doctor who can help you he helped after losing five pregnancies due to severe preeclampsia but I'm a mother of two
What was your course of treatment for the egg maturation issues and implantation failure? Thank you for documenting your journey and congratulations!!!
Really needed this. I've had 4 very early Misscariges this year. We have been ttc 10 months. Me and my husband do have 3 children so very blessed. Have had 3 other losses in the past but have never experienced 4 in a row. I agree with you I wudnt wish it on my worst enemy. Thanks for the video.
Thank you for this video, it was really helpful. I’ve had 3 early miscarriages and the process has been unbearable. Making people understand the emotional pain of it has been the hardest part!
Hang in there. How many weeks along are you? I am spotting right now and cramping at 6 weeks, I’ve already had a miscarriage at 8 weeks last February. I might be going through my second too. I don’t know….
Go to a really good fertility specialist. Take your sac for testing after miscarriage. Demand answers. Always do genetic testing first. Don’t lose help
This kinda hurt Ngl, I was 15 when I lost my first baby and hearing you say drug addicts get pregnant and then immediately saying kids kinda hurt, I was a kid but I promise if my baby was born she’s have had the best life im 20 now
Your definitely not alone I had 3 miscarriages to two at 9 weeks and one at 13 weeks emotionally ,physically , mentally really takes a toll on u man ., I pray I have a successful baby one day and hope u do to
I'm so sorry yo hear that.. please stay strong , I just came out the hospital yesterday the baby died in me for over a week, D& C was one of the option if the inserts did not work but I prayed and God deliver... so be strong my dear and pray .
I was 8 weeks and the baby died in me after knowing it had a heart beat of 155 at 7 weeks, the pill didn’t work, and I had a D&C last month, then after the d&c I had 2 chemical pregnancies month after month, I feel your pain.
Had an ectopic on New Years day after finding out on Christmas day i was pregnant😢, would have been due on my birthday. I just had a chemical miscarriage may 5th. MY cycle came on exact time it should three days ago. We hope to try again shortly. It is crazy what this does to our minds and bodies, still feel out of body and this isnt real
What u said all r true! Specially about the doctors! I am on the same boat as u. Went Through 4 miscarriages, the last one happened just yesterday. I am so devasted. Take my Love dear. Thanks for this great vdo!
I have had 2 miscarriages and I agree that I have to deal with self image and wondering if I have done something wrong. I am trying not to over think that. I have also been seeing a therapist and that has helped greatly!! I cannot say that I have the same experience you did with your Doctors. I have a great ObGYN and I wish everyone could have someone as great.
Point no 2 was so so so right.itnis 1000 percent right. I thought i am stupid that i couldnt find a good doctor but now i listened to u and it is so true.
I’ve had three in the last year. And I currently have four family members that are pregnant. I’m happy for them but sad for me. I have my almost 4 year old so thought having a second would be easy and it’s not. It’s hell. And I’m not sure yet about trying again.
Thank you for bringing up the doctors and medical field stuff. On my third miscarriage and it’s like I’m asking a stranger off the street for advice, not a medical professional. 🙄
I found out last week (at 13w2d) that I had a miscarriage. This is the 3rd miscarriage. We did IVF and it was genetically tested "normal". Something happened with the placental development. I can't control that; neither can the doctors. I feel so broken. I'm also angry at myself for not trying for a baby earlier in my life in my 20s. I just figured when I was ready it would happen. Wow so far from the truth. I made a huge mistake and didn't have my priorities straight. Now I don't know if I'll be blessed with a baby at all. I'm shattered
I'm so sorry for your losses. I seem to have issues with the placenta and blood supply too. It sucks. Please don't be so hard on yourself about when you started trying. So much is unknown. You couldn't have known this would be what would happen, and even if you had started earlier, you might still be in this same place. There are plenty of women that start in their 20s and still have trouble through their 30s etc. I do understand the anger though... I've felt it too, but please go easy on yourself. This is not your fault and you are doing the best you can. ❤
I lost my IVF twins a month ago at 22 weeks after a very healthy pregnancy. Still in shock and battling everyday. Blame myself for waiting until I was older, also thinking it would be okay. It sucks cause I didn’t want to be a mom when I was younger cause I was living my life. Now it’s all I want. Hopefully one day I’ll be okay with never being able to be a mom. Much love
Yeah i too had 3 miscarriages in a row. Its just heart breaking.. Being in helpless condition. I am tested for immunological issues which came out negative but the SSA n SSB were high. Probable cause for loss but proved. Same treatment plans offered. But no success.
I have had five. My last one was a boy and considered a late miscarriage. It was the most horrible pain ever! My other miscarriages were not nearly as painful. The doctor told me I should stop trying and get on birth control.
I too had 4 miscarriage, I'm also planning to consider lit the next time. Please let me know if you did the therapy? Did it worked out or not. Please reply
Try these for your next pregnancy: - folic tablet, progesterone, vitamin tablet - after crossed 12 week tie your cervix - take complete rest throughout pregnancy - don't eat papaya, pineapple, non-veg. Eat only fruits, vegetables and drink plenty of water. - sleep only in sides - sit with legs wide open - first trimester just take full rest, no travel in bike or bumpy road.. - second trimester dont carry anything more than 5kg. Take food on time and drink more water. - third trimester - drink 1/2 cup of rice water for cervix strong , eat healthy foods more - * important no stress throughout pregnancy, be happy and don't think too much (which is difficult for recurrent miscarriage persons just like me. So just put small goals - cross this week ) - if you conceived normal first 2 times then don't go for ttc or ivf .. just wait for few months then try. If more miscarriage ask your partner to eat more peanuts and good foods too, that way sperm be healthy one too. These are just my ideals which i gathered from many youtube videos and trying to follow. If it suceed i hope ... I will msg here with good news .
@@guaponeela So very thanks for all the tips. I really appreciate. But I don't go pass through 6-7 weeks. Basically the heart beat of the baby don't appear I wait and wait but no heartbeat in the end I had to get a d&c done or I start bleeding after 9 weeks.
@@adeebaaqil1938 very early miscarriages are difficult to analyze. Only thing you have to do is take folic tablet regularly even if you don't conceive. Wait for 3 months then try, within this 3 months eat the following food: - daily papaya fruit 2 to 3 pieces - morning 1 raw egg (if you happen to get neem leaves crush those and make as balls and eat that too) - beetroot and nuts weekly 4 times These foods will make your uterus strong and gets your period cycle well.. 2nd try consume dry ginger powder with jaggery as tea - this helps in bringing the uterus back to normal. Other than this only one thing that works for many : If you believe in god pray god to have healthy baby, if not believe in god daily wake in morning and say to yourself "I am healthy and i will have healthy baby one day". Trust me it works. In india they pray for "Garbarakshamba" god who is pregnancy god.. mostly women who pray for that god daily before and after pregnancy start they bear healthy baby. More thab anything believe in you. God be with you. Bless you
Hey if you are trying to coceive,then the man that help my aunt manifest twins into her womb can also help you too,after many years.without miscarriage
The hard part for me is that I do still feel like it’s my fault because I’m almost 38. I just had 2 back to back missed miscarriages. Waiting on genetic test to see if it was chromosonally abnormal which still kinda makes me feel like it’s my fault. Not giving up I’m just so scared. Also waiting on other blood tests to see if I have blood clotting issues where I might need blood thinners to have successful pregnancy or if we just need to keep trying to have a healthy one at some point 🥹❤️
Had three miscarriages, I was tested and I had a MTHFR mutation. I was put on a Folate prenatal instead of a Folic Acid prenatal along with a baby aspirin. Recently got pregnant after taking the "right" supplements and just had my 4th miscarriage. I have to go into deeper genetic testing now. It just sucks because I can get pregnant, but It doesn't stick.what's
Same thing going on with me I can get pregnant but I always have miscarriages and I’ve had 4 all together and now I’m at least 4 weeks and now I’m alil scared that I’ll go through it again but I’m praying my baby will be fine ❤️praying for all you guys 🤍🙏
Those are the three biggest things I have learned, but what have you learned after your losses?
@kelli Miguez im recently going through my 4th misscarriage and ur vid came up to me im shocked, u helped me so much but i wanted to ask did u get tested for chromosome? And how did ur reports came back ? Plz do reply
My doctor told me its a chromosomes abnormality 100% and there's no treatment for it i cry every night just thinking about it and here in UAE this test is expensive and im so scared what should i do i dont want to hear a bad news about it? Plz tell me about yours it may encourage me ??💔💔💔
Hey fazal, please don't loose hope, trust me ur rainbow baby will come, i had blighted ovum, and two others my babies just stopped growing. I do have a rainbow daughter now. Don't loose hope
That perinatal mood and anxiety disorders (PMAD) and postpartum depression (PPD) can occur in pregnancy loss, and that postpartum infections can still happen no matter the gestation period.
I’m trying to look at this as optimistically as possible. Maybe it’s stupid, but that what I have to do right now. I had a miscarriage at 21, and just experienced my second miscarriage at 30 (on Thursday), no other pregnancies- so no earth-side children yet.
I’m looking at this as an opportunity to research more to lower my exposure to toxins. I’m switching out my shampoo and cleaning chemicals. An opportunity to learn more about which supplements I want to be taking prior to and during pregnancy. I’m currently obese, so maybe this is a chance to lose a couple pounds. Granted, right now I’m just eating so much junk food and takeout and probably setting myself back further.
Hopefully what I learn I will have the strength to implement and therefore provide a better nutritional foundation for the next pregnancy.
I feel like there’s something hidden- some other issue I don’t know about. But I’m thankful I’ve been able to get pregnant relatively quickly and I was thankful for every day I was able to carry my children. It gave me hope to be the best version of myself.
I pray that everyone here gets the rainbow baby they’re praying for. ❤️
Hi Kelli, I just came across your video. I agree with everything you have said. And the main thing is to not give up hope. I have been trying for 13 years. I have had 6 miscarriages. My 1st @ 18 weeks. My second @ 17 weeks, 3rd and 4th in the first trimester, 5th @ 14 weeks and my most recent @ 22 weeks. It is the hardest thing to have to bury your children. Everytime I think it can't get worse, well my recent son, was born alive, but doctors couldn't save him. I held him until he passed away. But what doesn't kill you makes you stronger. At one point I did blame myself, but at the end of the day it's no one's fault.
I have been asked if I feel jealous of other people who have children and my answer is no, because they are giving birth to their children, not mine. If they were giving birth to my children, then yes of course I would have an issue with that.
I have lost alot of friends over time due to this, some don't know how to deal with it, so have chosen to distance themselves instead of comforting me, some have said indirectly that I should not try again as I know that my babies do not survive, so I am basically killing them.
It's been a tough road.
But I believe that God gives his hardest battles to his strongest soldiers.
One thing that keeps me going is that I have to be strong, because when I do have a child, I have to be fully there, so I cannot break. Also if I can get through this, if one day, when I do have a child, if my child had to experience anything tough, then I know he/she will also be able to cope and manage.
I hope anyone who is reading this that has gone through any losses, stays strong, and keep reminding yourself that nothing is your fault and if someone says something nasty to you, you don't need them in your life.
Thank you for posting this ❤️♥️
Those who have childeren, these childeren have been given to them GOD. He is the creator of all. This life is a test we are all tested with happiness sadness poverty wealth health sickness and with childeren and with moscarriages and with no children at all. Its incredible how u stand strong during the test of miscarriages and i know GOD will also test u with a beautiful healthy baby that will grow into a good human like you INSHALLAH. soon very soon and u wont forget GOD even when u r the happiest in ur life. I wish u all the best
I am just in your same boat ....I hv one daughter of 15 yrs old and after that I had six miscarriages ,,,and haven’t lost hope still,,,I m trying for the best,recently I have done hysteroscopy and nothing is wrong in my womb,,in previous pregnancies I have been given celaxan inj ,aspirine,progesterone, but nothing works for me,,,,but still I have hope on my God,,,I pray for you that Allah give you a cute 👶 baby very soon ,,pls share with me that what treatment hv you taken so far ,,,,
You have become an inspiration to many lovely ladies who had faced the same issue... Stay strong and stay healthy.... God is always with you..
😫😭thank u so much for your words i also have 5,the last one was yesterday
I resonate so much with #2. I felt bad for even beginning to think that after my first and second loss. After my third loss, when people finally started to listen to me and recommended me to a high risk OB, I finally came to the conclusion that the medical industry is basically inadequate on the subject of recurrent miscarriages. It’s baffling and frustrating to hear a high risk OB at one of the best clinics in the nation tell you that only 30% of women who experience RPL ever find anything wrong with them.
It is also heartbreaking and astounding to know that when you lose one baby and fear losing another, that no one (in the medical field) will take you seriously. During my third early pregnancy, I was miserable night and day, calling my doctors and asking them what I needed to do. In my mind, I kept thinking, “Hey, I’m going to miscarry. Guys, what do I do?” Local OB assures me she was not worried about this pregnancy and sent me home without even looking at anything.
Why do we have to lose 3 or more babies for someone to take action? It’s not right, and my only conclusion is that the medical field is clueless.
I had miscarriage today. It makes 4 losses. This video was great. I went through all the things you said. Thank you for sharing
Im by 5
Am so glad i found this video. I have been through 2 recurrent miscarriages one after the other. I was so devastated. As you said iT i kept comparing my situation with other people and keep asking myself why me😔. I just found out today am 4weeks and am hella scared of going through it again
I pray your baby is doing well now! I’ve had 3-4 miscarriages it’s very difficult!
@@Etse-dj1wm yes thank God its going on well. Although the anxiety doesnt end until i have baby in my arms
23 Years Old of Gold Congratulations! I’m glad to hear that! You are almost to the finish line! 🙏🏾
So true me too I kept comparing my self with others who are just dont want the baby and being pregnant health and having healthy baby any way then send the baby away😭
Now how is your baby. It's my 5th miscarriage. I'm very disappointed now
From 18/10/2019 to 9/10/2020 I have miscarry 3 children... as I am typing I am on the hospital bed like I just want to die very heart broken and devastating.
I just had a miscarriage I feel you.
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I’ve genetically analyzed over 100,000 miscarried and aborted fetuses and I felt the pain for all those couples. I would just like to let you know that those babies did not die for no reason. Their deaths served a purpose. Fetal genomic data is very important to understanding what humans are all about. Scientists need data to analyze abnormalities so they can find ways to correct it. From analyzing the beginnings of life, scientists will discover new ways to extend people’s lives. Please don’t give up hope and faith for having a baby. My advice to you is simply try to reduce your stress levels and be happy. Once you can train your mind to do that, your system will be ready to develop a new life. Anti-depressants and many other drugs increase the risk of miscarriages. I’m not a stupid doctor but I do wish you all the best.
Very helpful video....I had four miscarriages....and now I am mother of two...feel blessed 🙏.. but can not forget ... I miss my angel babies. ..this is very painful.. mentally and physically both...
Hey ...which treatment have u Done ....kindly tell me .....am Suffering from this alot.....
Please help me. I've 3miscarriages....Please tellabout your treatment
What was the of your recurrent miscarriage?????
@@naseratabassum69 wat treatment u undergoing dear me too in the same boat
Can u tell the treatment it will help so many people because many are suffering from it plz tell
i dont know but im crying while watching this😓😪 i had 3 pregnancy loss and still trying to conceive🙏🙏🙏
Thanks for sharing Kelli, this is very encouraging.
I’ve just lost my baby girl at 4 months, I was told I had a early miscarriage 2 years ago, I had 2 scans the week lost her and was told everything was perfectly fine baby growing perfectly heartbeat was fine and there was nothing wrong it to worry about. I bed rested for 2 months prior due to being told I had a small bleed. So I agree when you say it’s not our fault as what happens when you have an ideal pregnancy and haven’t done any lifting etc. I have to just trust that it wasn’t Gods will in this time for us and not lose hope!
We’ve been waiting on God and battling infertility for 5 years and we will continue to keep trusting cxx
It's well. I just lost mine just this Friday
Currently expand third miscarriage. This has been back to back, and I’m so broken. 😔
I’m so sorry. I know that broken feeling all too well 😔 I wish I could say something to make it better, but I haven’t figured that out yet. Please know you are not alone though. I’m here if you ever need to talk about it. ❤️
Kelli Miguez You’re video helped me A TON. I put it on while i hopped in the shower and I just sobbed, but it felt good to actually cry. Thank you for your kind words, and helping. Me pick these pieces back up again. 💕
Thanks this helped me a lot with my wife’s miscarriage were on 5 now smh hopefully she’ll listen to this
In so sorry for your loss hope u and your wife have so many people to hug and support you and your wife you need support as much as she do and you did nothing wrong so does your wife did nothing wrong and I pray that you and your wife will find support you need
We are on number 4. We are going to get some tests now. One of the tests alone is costing us £1,000 it’s going to cost a fortune by the end but this lady is right we have needed to go do research ourselves. We have no idea what’s going on. Fingers crossed for you both
Thanks for putting this channel up. My wife and I have been thru 3 RPL. I just finished reading a 3rd book about this subject and that happens to be Dr Beer’s book. Searching for videos about him and ended up finding your UA-cam channel. I hope treatment is going well for you. Praying everything goes well. I will continue to watch your videos and share them with my wife.
My partner would never research anything for me. I've just had my fourth loss in under 12 months 😔
Im having my 3rd miscarriage now 😭😭😭💔💔💔💔
I am 42 ,i had 2 MC back to back ,its physical and emotional torture. So i gave up and planning for iud 😔..All the best to all xxx
I'm so sorry for your losses. It is absolute torture! Sometimes giving up is the best option for our mental health and wellbeing. ❤️
I live on a different continent, but what you said about the doctors is so true. It is like we went to the same doctors. Thank you for this video!
Lost my daughter at 16weeks. Another at 8 weeks, then a chemical pregnancy (loss at 4 weeks). Im now pregnant and started Lovenox. I have no idea if that was the issue (clotting) but we will see and wait with hope.
Praying 🙏🏽
This is my 2 loss. We found out yesterday at our 12 week appointment our baby Heart beat wasn’t there anymore. I was a weekly follow up since weeks then was graduated/ transferred back to my OBGYN. We were seen my fertility specialist after the first miscarriage so we had to undergo multiple work ups but didn’t opt for IVF and tried on our own but unfortunately our baby was strong in the beginning however didn’t make it. I’m so confused and heartbroken 💔
I just know our baby was thriving and now I’m left wondering what went wrong
Weekly follow up since 4 weeks
Thanks for sharing dear.. I will pray God that he blesses you with a baby. I had 3 miscarriages.. Cause not known yet....
I have learned that it is so hurtful that do many people are ignorant about miscarriages and not just that they are ignoring the case
I always get miscarriage at 8 weeks,now 5 times....am really stressed up n almost giving up.. brightened ovum all the time, kindly advise
Hey just came across your video today.I'm 24 years old and I have lost 5 pregnancies.at this point I do not know what to do anymore 😢
Youre Lovely honest and brave❤ thank you for sharing your experience ❤
I totally agree with you that drs are clueless and don’t know how to handle RPL. They automatically classify you as infertile, when in reality they have no explanation for it.
Thank you for making this video and I am so sorry for your losses. I had three miscarriages, the last one was a missed miscarriage; before that I had no idea such a thing existed. My doctor actually laughed when I showed concern during my last pregnancy because of having lost the two before it and she said it was NOT likely (that even the second was pure bad luck) I felt stupid for sharing my concern which really made it so much harder at the end when I did lose my baby. I realised doctors don't know anything about recurrent miscarriages and they keep saying the same things about chromosomes and bad luck and non of it is helpful or answers the question "why?".
Thank you so much I’m going though my 3rd missed miscarriage in everything you said help so much
My ob/gyn told me to do ivf. I asked him how will it guarantee a positive pregnancy throughout the 9 months. He said he cant guarantee. So...i can conceive naturally...but i miscarried. How can he be sure it wont happen again if i did ivf. What if genetic testing is done but I still miscarry? I do not like their approach and their beside manners is severely lacking. I am sorry for your loss. I went through one miscarraige and i feel crap. I cant imagine what you are going through. I am watching Marc Sklar here on youtube to get answers for alternative methods
I had four missed miscarriage between 7 to 11 weeks. Am 6 weeks pregnant now I hope this survives.
How is your current pregnancy going? Hopefully good.
@@anaml3879 I lose the baby too. Missed miscarriage for the 5th time. Thanks for asking
@@KITCHENWITHNAGYET I had 5 missed abortion btw 6 to 8 wks....
What you did? Now you have baby? Plz reply.... Im so worried... I can't control my feelings plz reply...
@@rizanaskhan7119same problem. Today is my 5th miscarriage. Do you get any solution?
Thank you for making this video.
Hi,l am also accros4 miscarriages.l mentally and physically exosted
I’m balling...but you’re the only person who’s made me feel better
I’ve had multiple tries with my husband and I’m 20. But the thing is that I’ve always had miscarriages within 4-22 weeks. Today would be my 6th miscarriage within the year but it’s still sad that I can’t have kids.. my mom would shame me saying it’s easy to have kids, you just don’t want kids. but I just can’t and there’s always more we can do to have kids such as adoption
It’s important to feel hope but I wondered if there’s anyone who feels the same as I do - stories of people getting the babies after years and years of trying SCARE me… I mean , I always think ‘it’s time if you life …it’s all your finances ..it’s all the pain you had to go through ‘ - was a baby really your life goal or did that person become obsessed cause it wasn’t happening ? I know it will sound rediculous but I spent my 20s becoming a lawyer through so many hurdles just to realise I hated it. I’m now 34, I had 2 miscarriages already and I can see that my life could be good if I never wanted a child …not like I can fix my desires but I already feel I’m becoming fixated and going into this long painful process and it scares me 😔😔😔 I want a baby , but realising a have to dedicate my life and leftovers of my youth and go through all this pain upsets me so much :((( I know people will say ‘well may you don’t really want one!’ But I did more than anything . I wanted 3… two are now gone (((
I know what you mean! I struggled with this too. Sometimes I would work to try to convince myself I didn’t really want a baby. I found stopping a desire, especially one rooted in biology and hormones, to be very difficult for me. In hindsight I can say that I believe my life would have been good either way, but I don’t know if I would have believed that while in the middle of the struggle. I’m sorry for your losses and I’m extra sorry if anything I’ve shared has scared you. Sending you love and light 💖
China is pretty advanced in this area.
Mam thanks for sharing this video i have facing 5 misscarrage plz help me.
Hey Tanu, how are you doing? I know a doctor who can help you he helped after losing five pregnancies due to severe preeclampsia but I'm a mother of two
I just had my third miscarriage in a row. I really needed to hear some of the things you were saying, thank you.
So sorry I had a blighted ovum in aug and an ectopic last week so sad dk if I will try again I dk
What was your course of treatment for the egg maturation issues and implantation failure? Thank you for documenting your journey and congratulations!!!
I took DHEA for 6 weeks. Best of luck to you!!
Chemical, ectopic and recent miscarriage, I needed to hear this. So thank you.
I just felt you are speaking my heart out.... I am 8 weeks pregnant , baby is not growing and doctor has advised D& C
How re you dear?
Miscarriages
Really needed this. I've had 4 very early Misscariges this year. We have been ttc 10 months. Me and my husband do have 3 children so very blessed. Have had 3 other losses in the past but have never experienced 4 in a row. I agree with you I wudnt wish it on my worst enemy. Thanks for the video.
Thank you for this video, it was really helpful. I’ve had 3 early miscarriages and the process has been unbearable. Making people understand the emotional pain of it has been the hardest part!
Going through my second right now 😔 I feel so lost
Hang in there. How many weeks along are you?
I am spotting right now and cramping at 6 weeks, I’ve already had a miscarriage at 8 weeks last February.
I might be going through my second too. I don’t know….
Go to a really good fertility specialist. Take your sac for testing after miscarriage. Demand answers. Always do genetic testing first. Don’t lose help
This kinda hurt Ngl, I was 15 when I lost my first baby and hearing you say drug addicts get pregnant and then immediately saying kids kinda hurt, I was a kid but I promise if my baby was born she’s have had the best life im 20 now
I had 3 miscarriages and im just broken inside its really hard to gain hope again :(
Don't loose hope, i had three miscarriages, now I have a daughter, but just had another miscarriage....don't loose hope, you blessing will come
@@sandravijedi2370 thank you :( i m praying
Your definitely not alone I had 3 miscarriages to two at 9 weeks and one at 13 weeks emotionally ,physically , mentally really takes a toll on u man ., I pray I have a successful baby one day and hope u do to
@@ashleyharper3993 yeah and its just fearful to try again. Thank you so much one day i have faith ❤❤ stay strong
Diz is painful mentally + physicaly
I have had 6
Safiya Steel I’m so sorry to hear about ur lost. I had four and it’s heart breaking 💔
Keep faith and ur rainbow baby will arrive🌈
😞 I'm so sorry for your losses Safiya.
Having a d&c friday 3rd miscarriage and 1 ectopic 😔 life is so hard right now i am
Hurt and sad
I'm so sorry yo hear that..
please stay strong , I just came out the hospital yesterday the baby died in me for over a week, D& C was one of the option if the inserts did not work but I prayed and God deliver... so be strong my dear and pray .
I was 8 weeks and the baby died in me after knowing it had a heart beat of 155 at 7 weeks, the pill didn’t work, and I had a D&C last month, then after the d&c I had 2 chemical pregnancies month after month, I feel your pain.
Had an ectopic on New Years day after finding out on Christmas day i was pregnant😢, would have been due on my birthday. I just had a chemical miscarriage may 5th. MY cycle came on exact time it should three days ago. We hope to try again shortly. It is crazy what this does to our minds and bodies, still feel out of body and this isnt real
Hi im hema here from malaysia, i had 6 miscarriage's and still scared to get pregnant. This video was great. i needed to hear this, Thank you.
Thanks for shering sister, may the Lord bless you❤
I just had my second miscarriage 3 days ago 💔
I’m so sorry for your loss. I think I’m going through my 2nd MC right now 😭
OMG!! I needed such a film right now ❤ I feel 100% just like you! Thank you so much :*
What u said all r true! Specially about the doctors! I am on the same boat as u. Went Through 4 miscarriages, the last one happened just yesterday. I am so devasted. Take my Love dear. Thanks for this great vdo!
I agree 100% about drs not knowing how to handle multiple miscarriages. They’re jerks about it
Thank you! I’m having me second miscarriage and this is the first help I’ve received.
I just lost our son on Mother’s Day…your video helped so much
What a wonderful video, i needed to hear this, thank you. Had my 12 week scan and my baby died at 8 weeks.
I’ve had 5 recurrent miscarriages with no live baby and I’ve been going through this for 6 years straight now
I bet 5 unlike are doctors 🥼 smh
Hello Kelli,
Just want say thanks for yours advises.
I had 3 miscarriages and it really hard time but your video helps. Thanks again.
Omg so true. Im a provider and if didnt research my own it would never happen
One biochemical and then a missed miscarriage at 10 wks.. how long we should wait for the next?? Kindly answer
Thank you for the video and the support ❤
I have had 2 miscarriages and I agree that I have to deal with self image and wondering if I have done something wrong. I am trying not to over think that. I have also been seeing a therapist and that has helped greatly!!
I cannot say that I have the same experience you did with your Doctors. I have a great ObGYN and I wish everyone could have someone as great.
❤️💜💜congratulations on your baby
I had a missed mis carriage recently on 9 th of march 2021.ur video made me strong and positive.
Point no 2 was so so so right.itnis 1000 percent right. I thought i am stupid that i couldnt find a good doctor but now i listened to u and it is so true.
Thanks for sharing. Its very appreciated.
You are so right. Thank you for this video
Still sad. But thank you Kelli
Thank you so much for sharing this ❤️ you are godsend
I’ve had three in the last year. And I currently have four family members that are pregnant. I’m happy for them but sad for me. I have my almost 4 year old so thought having a second would be easy and it’s not. It’s hell. And I’m not sure yet about trying again.
I can relate with the feeling, feeling happy about others but so so sad for yourself.. its sometimes hard to pretend and go along.. Hugs to you 💖
So nice voice
Thanks for this words.
Thank you
I m feeling exact same😭😭
Thank you for bringing up the doctors and medical field stuff. On my third miscarriage and it’s like I’m asking a stranger off the street for advice, not a medical professional. 🙄
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I found out last week (at 13w2d) that I had a miscarriage. This is the 3rd miscarriage. We did IVF and it was genetically tested "normal". Something happened with the placental development. I can't control that; neither can the doctors. I feel so broken. I'm also angry at myself for not trying for a baby earlier in my life in my 20s. I just figured when I was ready it would happen. Wow so far from the truth. I made a huge mistake and didn't have my priorities straight. Now I don't know if I'll be blessed with a baby at all. I'm shattered
One day you will hold your baby healthy and alive. Bless you
I'm so sorry for your losses. I seem to have issues with the placenta and blood supply too. It sucks. Please don't be so hard on yourself about when you started trying. So much is unknown. You couldn't have known this would be what would happen, and even if you had started earlier, you might still be in this same place. There are plenty of women that start in their 20s and still have trouble through their 30s etc. I do understand the anger though... I've felt it too, but please go easy on yourself. This is not your fault and you are doing the best you can. ❤
I lost my IVF twins a month ago at 22 weeks after a very healthy pregnancy. Still in shock and battling everyday. Blame myself for waiting until I was older, also thinking it would be okay. It sucks cause I didn’t want to be a mom when I was younger cause I was living my life. Now it’s all I want. Hopefully one day I’ll be okay with never being able to be a mom. Much love
Yeah i too had 3 miscarriages in a row. Its just heart breaking..
Being in helpless condition.
I am tested for immunological issues which came out negative but the SSA n SSB were high. Probable cause for loss but proved.
Same treatment plans offered. But no success.
I have had five. My last one was a boy and considered a late miscarriage. It was the most horrible pain ever! My other miscarriages were not nearly as painful. The doctor told me I should stop trying and get on birth control.
Thats horrible! I just had my 2nd today. Dont stop trying! What is meant to be will be!
I too had 4 miscarriage, I'm also planning to consider lit the next time. Please let me know if you did the therapy? Did it worked out or not. Please reply
Try these for your next pregnancy:
- folic tablet, progesterone, vitamin tablet
- after crossed 12 week tie your cervix
- take complete rest throughout pregnancy
- don't eat papaya, pineapple, non-veg. Eat only fruits, vegetables and drink plenty of water.
- sleep only in sides
- sit with legs wide open
- first trimester just take full rest, no travel in bike or bumpy road..
- second trimester dont carry anything more than 5kg. Take food on time and drink more water.
- third trimester - drink 1/2 cup of rice water for cervix strong , eat healthy foods more
- * important no stress throughout pregnancy, be happy and don't think too much (which is difficult for recurrent miscarriage persons just like me. So just put small goals - cross this week )
- if you conceived normal first 2 times then don't go for ttc or ivf .. just wait for few months then try. If more miscarriage ask your partner to eat more peanuts and good foods too, that way sperm be healthy one too.
These are just my ideals which i gathered from many youtube videos and trying to follow. If it suceed i hope ...
I will msg here with good news .
@@guaponeela
So very thanks for all the tips. I really appreciate. But I don't go pass through 6-7 weeks. Basically the heart beat of the baby don't appear I wait and wait but no heartbeat in the end I had to get a d&c done or I start bleeding after 9 weeks.
@@adeebaaqil1938 what food you eat during pregnancy?
@@adeebaaqil1938 very early miscarriages are difficult to analyze. Only thing you have to do is take folic tablet regularly even if you don't conceive. Wait for 3 months then try, within this 3 months eat the following food:
- daily papaya fruit 2 to 3 pieces
- morning 1 raw egg (if you happen to get neem leaves crush those and make as balls and eat that too)
- beetroot and nuts weekly 4 times
These foods will make your uterus strong and gets your period cycle well..
2nd try consume dry ginger powder with jaggery as tea - this helps in bringing the uterus back to normal.
Other than this only one thing that works for many :
If you believe in god pray god to have healthy baby, if not believe in god daily wake in morning and say to yourself "I am healthy and i will have healthy baby one day". Trust me it works.
In india they pray for "Garbarakshamba" god who is pregnancy god.. mostly women who pray for that god daily before and after pregnancy start they bear healthy baby.
More thab anything believe in you. God be with you. Bless you
Hi Adeeba! The LIT helped lower my cytokines, but I still miscarried again 😞 I'm so sorry you're going through this too...
It was god's plan, that's what it is
Its usually blood clotting disorders, abnormal placenta or uterus, males sperm, or other underlying medical issues.
Hey if you are trying to coceive,then the man that help my aunt manifest twins into her womb can also help you too,after many years.without miscarriage
The hard part for me is that I do still feel like it’s my fault because I’m almost 38. I just had 2 back to back missed miscarriages. Waiting on genetic test to see if it was chromosonally abnormal which still kinda makes me feel like it’s my fault. Not giving up I’m just so scared. Also waiting on other blood tests to see if I have blood clotting issues where I might need blood thinners to have successful pregnancy or if we just need to keep trying to have a healthy one at some point 🥹❤️
Had three miscarriages, I was tested and I had a MTHFR mutation. I was put on a Folate prenatal instead of a Folic Acid prenatal along with a baby aspirin. Recently got pregnant after taking the "right" supplements and just had my 4th miscarriage. I have to go into deeper genetic testing now. It just sucks because I can get pregnant, but It doesn't stick.what's
Same thing going on with me I can get pregnant but I always have miscarriages and I’ve had 4 all together and now I’m at least 4 weeks and now I’m alil scared that I’ll go through it again but I’m praying my baby will be fine ❤️praying for all you guys 🤍🙏