He said he's in the top 1% of men in all categories! Has many options but wants the best woman.

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  • He said he's in the top 1% of men in all categories! He has many options but he’s looking for the best woman
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  • @AdonisUnchained
    @AdonisUnchained 4 місяці тому +990

    Why does a top 1% dude with many options need to come on here to find the best woman? 🧢🧢🧢

    • @moblaze212
      @moblaze212 4 місяці тому +125

      You'll never find out...like most in the comments yall have no idea what it's like for successful black men. U up here chatting like a broad

    • @lynnlakotich6331
      @lynnlakotich6331 4 місяці тому +96

      Because he can. Simple as that. 💯

    • @Fat-bananas
      @Fat-bananas 4 місяці тому +136

      Because he's not 1%

    • @dionthornw9838
      @dionthornw9838 4 місяці тому +60

      ​@moblaze212 most with options would try to be as invisible as can be. Especially today, no pictures, no video, no social media.

    • @frostnova2144
      @frostnova2144 4 місяці тому +43

      Sometimes, your circles don't really have what you might be looking for and you might be averse to dating apps etc. Kendra isnt always a last ditch effort for people
      That being said, true or not you couldn't catch me ever saying Im a 1% man 😂

  • @tlw32
    @tlw32 4 місяці тому +691

    This felt like a teams meeting 😫😂

    • @humbleheart2650
      @humbleheart2650 4 місяці тому +47

      Right, giving coworker energy! He’s too serious and picky, not chill or fun. That is hurting himAll those other good attributes mean nothing.if your ‘tude ie wack

    • @I_dont_read_replies_555
      @I_dont_read_replies_555 4 місяці тому +45

      You funny! It did tho…I zoned out a few times. lol

    • @konye618
      @konye618 4 місяці тому

      ​@@humbleheart2650 that's why he's making more than 80k/month

    • @PinkyxWinky
      @PinkyxWinky 4 місяці тому +18

      Especially since I watch at work…with popcorn

    • @paigenicholespeaks6172
      @paigenicholespeaks6172 4 місяці тому +7

      😂😂

  • @traciedaniel4949
    @traciedaniel4949 4 місяці тому +304

    Unpopular opinion...men like him look good on paper but I'm willing to bet he's highly opinionated, judgy, and probably disconnected. With sooooo much good and with plenty of options, why is he here?

    • @TDS621
      @TDS621 4 місяці тому +38

      Showing off😂

    • @MenofValueSpeaks
      @MenofValueSpeaks 4 місяці тому +32

      Name a upwardly mobile business owner that isn't?
      I guarantee the CEOs you worked for fall in that category. Also high earners don't get there without making the right choices, discipline, and discretion. If you want someone with money, but none of the other qualities.
      You're looking for a rapper or entertainer.
      He's here bc he's looking for the best. This is like asking why Usher did the superbowl for free. "Publicity and reach"

    • @keishajoy3622
      @keishajoy3622 4 місяці тому +11

      I mean he confidently said he’s better than others and then threw the “in some capacity” on the end to try to soften in.

    • @rvandoom
      @rvandoom 4 місяці тому

      Ahhhhhh shut up!!!!!Another woman hating!!!

    • @truettadevil
      @truettadevil 4 місяці тому

      His expectations are high and not worth it to the women he seeks out. He's not even giving big 🍆 energy and his money is not enough to bypass his character flaws.

  • @MrNobodyJones
    @MrNobodyJones 4 місяці тому +141

    Imagine being a top 1% man and coming on Kendra’s show to find a wife? That’s like going to a Buy-Here-Pay-Here car dealer to buy a Lamborghini.

  • @afro_buddha4977
    @afro_buddha4977 4 місяці тому +444

    As a woman without children i would never date a man with children who doesn't want a woman with children...

    • @jmar385
      @jmar385 4 місяці тому +23

      Woman look for stepfathers, don’t provide.
      Men will have to provide for something that isn’t his & doesn’t look for a stepmother

    • @afro_buddha4977
      @afro_buddha4977 4 місяці тому +81

      @@jmar385 I understand your logic . But not waiting to date yourself is weird

    • @myronbourne6937
      @myronbourne6937 4 місяці тому

      Nobody cares. You're not special

    • @ultimateenigma6038
      @ultimateenigma6038 4 місяці тому +15

      He wants someone to fit into his life. He understands time and expense. If he is looking for an east African woman in America, he will likely need to convince her family and show he will take care of her.

    • @tincredible
      @tincredible 4 місяці тому +30

      He didn't say he didn't want a woman with kids. He said that if a woman has kids, her parenting situation has to be drama-free like his is. In that regard, he's not asking for a standard that he doesn't meet.

  • @MzMoBetta
    @MzMoBetta 4 місяці тому +308

    Wait I didn’t realize Kendra said y’all be looking like radio Raheem 🤣🤣🤣

    • @CassieBbyLLMM40
      @CassieBbyLLMM40 4 місяці тому +22

      😂😂😂😂I giggled sooooo hard 😂😂

    • @ghariiscool
      @ghariiscool 4 місяці тому +14

      I forgot that you can't put gifs on here lol
      I was trying to put in one with his "love hate" brass knuckles

    • @thekidzback344
      @thekidzback344 4 місяці тому +8

      😂🤣💀

    • @rarejourneys
      @rarejourneys 4 місяці тому +8

      💀💀💀

    • @crow2swann5
      @crow2swann5 4 місяці тому +13

      Kendra can be funny AF. 😂

  • @TonyMac1
    @TonyMac1 4 місяці тому +251

    🧢 He definitely in the top 1% of having his eyebrows strategically lined up extra crispy, more than any woman I’ve ever saw😂😂😂

  • @81easton
    @81easton 4 місяці тому +227

    Wasn’t ready for marriage but was ready to have not 1 but 2 kids. Those dam Geminis.

    • @myronbourne6937
      @myronbourne6937 4 місяці тому

      Men can't have kids

    • @mrod87
      @mrod87 4 місяці тому +42

      With a woman he didn’t want?!?! So perplexed.

    • @Ambitiousgirl22
      @Ambitiousgirl22 4 місяці тому +27

      Gemini males are super confused about what they want.

    • @81easton
      @81easton 4 місяці тому +1

      @@mrod87 just didn’t make sense to me

    • @DeepBreathingMeditation
      @DeepBreathingMeditation 4 місяці тому +3

      Aye stap it😂

  • @Enjoylifetoday30
    @Enjoylifetoday30 4 місяці тому +229

    Them brows are DONE DONE

  • @loyalandkindsunshine3382
    @loyalandkindsunshine3382 4 місяці тому +169

    can we let child free people have child free people I'm begging.

    • @nancyfancy1956
      @nancyfancy1956 4 місяці тому +18

      Imma beg with you😅

    • @XxCaptNKnucklesxX
      @XxCaptNKnucklesxX 4 місяці тому +5

      Where the childfree women at? Only saw 1 on this show

    • @KeithSmith.
      @KeithSmith. 4 місяці тому +3

      Her body her choice. If she wants a rich man with kids, let her be "happy".

    • @myronbourne6937
      @myronbourne6937 4 місяці тому

      Nah. Denied

    • @loyalandkindsunshine3382
      @loyalandkindsunshine3382 4 місяці тому

      If I said my preference is a childless man I'd be beyond delusional I have a little girl.

  • @tabethmwema
    @tabethmwema 4 місяці тому +282

    Men like him will always remind you he has 'options' because why did he feel the need to stress that out? He'll never offer you any security. You'll always be on your toes.

    • @fortunatemd3253
      @fortunatemd3253 4 місяці тому +13

      Well, the one for him won't see that the way u see it

    • @serious7179
      @serious7179 4 місяці тому +34

      ​@@fortunatemd3253they should, but sadly you are right. And that's why people keep ending up in bad relationships where they feel unloved.

    • @candorsspot2775
      @candorsspot2775 4 місяці тому +22

      That's the nature of type A go getters. They demand excellence. A woman who wants to chill or run the show isn't going to work. A woman who loves adding to a man's life, puts here family first and is willing to put lots of work into keeping things successful is what every man wants. But a man has to be at a certain caliber to get and keep that woman too.

    • @meloran2571
      @meloran2571 4 місяці тому

      interesting statement to me made in a generation where its ok to be in a relationship with a man but on social media half naked seeking attention and validation from other men.

    • @danieltucker632
      @danieltucker632 4 місяці тому +13

      I don’t think there’s any man in the top 1 % that wouldn’t keep you on your toes on one way or the other .

  • @InsertAliasHere1154
    @InsertAliasHere1154 4 місяці тому +201

    A high-earning man with low vibrations will always reveal himself the longer he speaks.

    • @humbleheart2650
      @humbleheart2650 4 місяці тому +13

      Preach

    • @Feed-My-Mind-Not-My-Ego
      @Feed-My-Mind-Not-My-Ego 4 місяці тому +22

      Unfortunately, this comment probably went over so many people's heads. 🙄

    • @frostnova2144
      @frostnova2144 4 місяці тому +13

      So do you want "Vibrations" or high earnings? I never hear women on here talking about vibrations but I always hear women on hear talking about earnings

    • @jess_is
      @jess_is 4 місяці тому +18

      ​@@frostnova2144a good wan needs a good man. Not just man that makes good money.

    • @demetriusjames9535
      @demetriusjames9535 4 місяці тому

      ​@@frostnova2144You'll hear it the more you hang around these spaces, and it will show you who to avoid! 😉

  • @hey_atw4711
    @hey_atw4711 2 місяці тому +12

    Most military men ‘present’ this way but once you’re married it’s hell. I’ve heard sooo many stories of "perfect’ couples I think most just aren’t used to meeting grown men. There’s a reason he’s single too.

  • @454lin
    @454lin 4 місяці тому +424

    Most women without kids , don’t want a man with 2 kids. Bruh

    • @jamesjackson4264
      @jamesjackson4264 4 місяці тому +91

      They do if the bag is big enough.

    • @myronbourne6937
      @myronbourne6937 4 місяці тому +29

      Nah. Thats not how it works. His nanny does all the work.

    • @RockyMaiviaMiami
      @RockyMaiviaMiami 4 місяці тому +22

      They don’t care. They will argue they care to be equal in the comments but reality is that ladies are looking for the best deal on a man, and the best men generally have kids by 30’s

    • @jmar385
      @jmar385 4 місяці тому +24

      That’s definitely cap most women be sleeping with married men & have a low bar. You haven’t seen enough of the world yet

    • @AGFootyFan87
      @AGFootyFan87 4 місяці тому +25

      lol yeaaaaa sure. If that man is 6ft, in shape, attractive, and makes say $250k+ then I guarantee many will.

  • @afro_buddha4977
    @afro_buddha4977 4 місяці тому +126

    Gathering leads .....took me out 😂

    • @Bklyn112
      @Bklyn112 4 місяці тому +11

      That is exactly what he's doing. He is trying to grow his business even more. This man has no problems dating. Especially where he lives. This was better than him paying for a Super Bowl commercial!

    • @afro_buddha4977
      @afro_buddha4977 4 місяці тому +11

      @@Bklyn112 the headphones and talking points were a dead give away ...

    • @EB-ok3io
      @EB-ok3io 4 місяці тому +7

      Like he solving a crime 😂

    • @ItzD
      @ItzD 4 місяці тому +3

      @@Bklyn112 If he didn't have a problem dating then he wouldn't be on this show tbh 😬

    • @love_reka_777
      @love_reka_777 3 місяці тому +4

      He’s insufferable & probably extremely boring & rigid

  • @Age_Of_Aquarius84
    @Age_Of_Aquarius84 4 місяці тому +74

    He may be top 1% but his lack of humility is very unappealing. When you lead with your wealth, you attract A1 gold diggers who will bleed a ninja dry. Good luck sir!

    • @humbleheart2650
      @humbleheart2650 4 місяці тому +11

      Agreed! He is too serious and not fun. Women are probably uncomfortable around him once they get over his looks. Arrogance off the chain.

    • @str8visionatl
      @str8visionatl 4 місяці тому +11

      Lack of humility is a woman being 5"1 saying she need a man 6"6 to look up at. Bih you look up to every man

    • @Age_Of_Aquarius84
      @Age_Of_Aquarius84 4 місяці тому +2

      @@str8visionatl touché 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @craigjoyner9857
    @craigjoyner9857 4 місяці тому +48

    Ladies, if yall reach out, just remember, you asked for that misery. Soon as something go wrong, he gonna let you know that he's a 1% man and you can be replaced. Just go find yourself a regular type dude ladies. We out here being good husbands to good women.

    • @angelacleveland75
      @angelacleveland75 3 місяці тому +3

      Amen. We see through him.

    • @user-is7ey9of5z
      @user-is7ey9of5z 3 місяці тому +4

      Sounds like you are jealous

    • @craigjoyner9857
      @craigjoyner9857 3 місяці тому

      @@user-is7ey9of5z why would I be jealous?!? I’m happily married.

  • @taynicholson9537
    @taynicholson9537 4 місяці тому +71

    I really don’t think he was bragging, I just think his lifestyle is different and he was just explaining what was asked of him. He seems like a really great guy that wants something specific and he doesn’t mind explaining in detail. He actually seems rather humble but confident.

    • @djohn8687
      @djohn8687 4 місяці тому +4

      Yes he sounds very confident which is a great think. Great guy, I think he's a good catch.

    • @shakiramcgee2023
      @shakiramcgee2023 4 місяці тому +1

      This 💯

    • @danayi_
      @danayi_ 15 днів тому

      The less said the better, let us see that you’re a catch rather than ram it down our throats. If he’s that good a catch why come on here to sell himself. 🤔🤔🤔

  • @DestinysMom
    @DestinysMom 4 місяці тому +202

    I would love to see more black men with his credentials on this show.

    • @DeepBreathingMeditation
      @DeepBreathingMeditation 4 місяці тому +18

      You already know they gone say, there's not enough quality women on this show that line up with that😂

    • @TheeCookingChannel
      @TheeCookingChannel 4 місяці тому +10

      Why they don’t date black women. He just said Eritrean

    • @moniqueboyce4507
      @moniqueboyce4507 4 місяці тому +2

      Same!!!

    • @shadae68
      @shadae68 4 місяці тому +13

      @@TheeCookingChannelThey’re Black

    • @TheeCookingChannel
      @TheeCookingChannel 4 місяці тому +17

      @@shadae68 they don’t see themselves as black. The rhetoric of East Africans is insane.

  • @faithandgrace1638
    @faithandgrace1638 4 місяці тому +45

    Served his country, educated, what majority of women are looking for. Has plenty of options yet… here we are. For you single ladies my advice to get close to him is to “LET HIM TALK “ he’s going to fall in love with you. 😂

  • @Mariobloomart
    @Mariobloomart 4 місяці тому +31

    Ladies, don’t get mad, if you don’t qualify, stop tearing this man apart! This brother got his ish together and he knows it! Pop your ish king! Be as picky as you can be! What I’m starting to realize is that lots of women want a six figure man, who’s six feet, but they don’t want that man to have standards! Lol! It doesn’t work like that! Be picky brotha, be picky, you have the handle and they have the blade! ✊🏿✊🏿

    • @ammarie9167
      @ammarie9167 4 місяці тому +3

      I agree good representation of a black man. This show needs more of these type of men.

    • @indigobeauty1
      @indigobeauty1 4 місяці тому +2

      Yeah Men like tht have the privilege of being selective...Women, step your game up 😅 the children turned me off, havin non myself but i wish him luck 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @elleinthea1678
      @elleinthea1678 3 місяці тому

      It’s interesting that you choose to insult women to validate this man when if I look at these comments the negativity seems to be general among both sexes. Truth be told I can tell by the type of comment, misspellings and assumptions made what the education level and life experience level of the commenter. Which is more telling than generalizing the ladies. Not picking on you but I challenge you to not generalize women and look a little deeper.

    • @Mariobloomart
      @Mariobloomart 3 місяці тому

      @@elleinthea1678 awwww! I hit a nerve huh? 🤣FOH!!! Since as we’re picking UA-cam commentary apart, proof read your paragraph and search for punctuation errors before you send it out “English language” major! Bye!✌🏿 😂😂😂

    • @gideoninc8687
      @gideoninc8687 Місяць тому

      They want us to have standards but never any that don't fit them specifically

  • @eddielongo7770
    @eddielongo7770 4 місяці тому +34

    He runs a consulting firm....he helps vets get 100% disability.

  • @nnena3631
    @nnena3631 4 місяці тому +47

    I'm disturbed by this man having two teenaged daughters that he has full custody of being raised by a nanny, while he tries to take over the world with a living mother I would have liked to go into further detail on this point bc I have a feeling....🤔

    • @myronbourne6937
      @myronbourne6937 4 місяці тому +6

      What's the issue?

    • @mkmeabeliever
      @mkmeabeliever 4 місяці тому +3

      Lol! Wow! You're using "disturbed"? Interesting choice of words. 🤔He said he also has a nanny, his nanny is not taking care of his kids.

    • @jzloveinfinite
      @jzloveinfinite 4 місяці тому +4

      We are just not used to a father having custody. Nothing wrong with that Sis. He may be the better parent.

    • @nnena3631
      @nnena3631 4 місяці тому +4

      @@jzloveinfinite Perhaps, I def need more information, I've known of cases that present this way that are far different in nature than they appear...

    • @t.mcgill2461
      @t.mcgill2461 3 місяці тому +3

      I have HUGE concerns about this too after he made the statement twice about having full custody and put emphasis on it I was IMMEDIATELY triggered about it! I feel like something is off but I could be wrong

  • @chronometa
    @chronometa 4 місяці тому +92

    He's cool. But you're definitely going to be a business partner vs a romantic partner.

    • @iam1remnant
      @iam1remnant 4 місяці тому +5

      That’s so important for women to know about “high value” men

    • @sheheals_wounds5169
      @sheheals_wounds5169 4 місяці тому +1

      MO relationships are business partnerships (they should be).

    • @angelacleveland75
      @angelacleveland75 3 місяці тому +1

      Yeah. This sounded like a job interview.

  • @erykahnickles
    @erykahnickles 4 місяці тому +49

    I love seeing black excellence- Happy Black History Month, kousins!👏🏾

  • @nmmboy
    @nmmboy 4 місяці тому +151

    He kept trying to slide in that watch, by any means 😂😂💀

    • @tmcurly
      @tmcurly 4 місяці тому

      He is 🤡 .
      Making 80K calling himself a 1% man.
      Didn’t bother to research what a 1% man is.

    • @sheilae.9670
      @sheilae.9670 4 місяці тому +17

      😂😂🤣 by any means necessary 😂😂

    • @nmmboy
      @nmmboy 4 місяці тому +6

      @@sheilae.9670 Lmao telling you! He wasn’t playing 😂😂😭

    • @nmmboy
      @nmmboy 4 місяці тому +1

      @@jessicas.3110 😂😂💀💀

    • @sheilae.9670
      @sheilae.9670 4 місяці тому +2

      @@nmmboy facts 🤣😂

  • @demetriusjames9535
    @demetriusjames9535 4 місяці тому +61

    Love to witness a Black man who excels and is on his purpose! 🙌🏾 Keep inspiring and excelling, brother!
    Chas is the prize ✅️

    • @serious7179
      @serious7179 4 місяці тому +3

      Come on, that just sounds weird calling anyone, especially a leader or head of household, a prize. A prize is a possession. Back in the day, men knew that their woman was the prize because they were the leaders and they possessed the prized jewel, i.e. their wives.

    • @demetriusjames9535
      @demetriusjames9535 4 місяці тому +2

      @@serious7179 What does your wife have to say about it?

  • @semwen737
    @semwen737 4 місяці тому +13

    This guy is a great representation of a black man. I am proud of you bro.

  • @onceuponasavage
    @onceuponasavage 4 місяці тому +59

    My boy said gathering leads 😂

    • @humbleheart2650
      @humbleheart2650 4 місяці тому +8

      On a dating show. Wild af

    • @j.k.3
      @j.k.3 4 місяці тому +1

      😂😂😂😅

  • @jess_is
    @jess_is 4 місяці тому +95

    He seems okay. Only red flags I picked up on is the fact that he prefers a childless woman even though he has children, and he seems like he would be very unforgiving and cut you off fast. You can't have a relationship with longevity if you're cutting people off every time they do something you don't like.

    • @kevinmathis7352
      @kevinmathis7352 4 місяці тому +14

      Why is him wanting a childless woman a red flag? If what he says is true and he is top 1 percent financially he can command that on the dating market.

    • @fortunatemd3253
      @fortunatemd3253 4 місяці тому +9

      ​@kevinmathis7352 I wondered the same thing, too. My only red flag was that he came to the show. At his 1% level and his position in life, he has absolutely no business looking for love on this show.

    • @kevinmathis7352
      @kevinmathis7352 4 місяці тому +4

      @@fortunatemd3253 now that I agree with. He's going to pollute his real dating pool. Now he has more women to pick from but too many won't be what he wants.

    • @ThreehoodooSisters
      @ThreehoodooSisters 4 місяці тому +17

      The biggest red flag was he was married, but never lived in the same home. He has major commitment issues. NOBODY is good enough for him.

    • @TruCunt
      @TruCunt 4 місяці тому

      Really? I picked up a lot. One major one is the fact that he nonchalantly admitted to defrauding the government, made it seem like he got married because of his children, he said I don’t want a mother to my children but say I want a woman who can be a good mentor. That bs about (I have a 17 & 12 we are pass step mother) what a gaslighting tactic 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️. This man is a waking red flag when you actually know what you are listening to. He’s 1% but out here looking for women on a show? Nah he’s looking for a pounding to dip. This man was telling people what they wanted to hear. He’s a red pill listener. Even Andrew Tate left red pill. 😂😂😂😂 he gives me that feel that he wants him prioritized over the woman. I don’t think he wants a relationship that about a relationship. He wants a woman that will be about him and him alone. He will not reciprocate that same love. He gives that energy that it’s him or the highway

  • @bnj6876
    @bnj6876 4 місяці тому +123

    This dude need to be pinned to the top of all her videos. On paper he’s what women want. But they can’t handle him or his requirements. They’ll still have a problem with this dude. He is who he is because of what he has and what he’s accomplished.

  • @DonnyGang88
    @DonnyGang88 4 місяці тому +22

    This brotha killed it. 💯✊🏾

  • @njmac460
    @njmac460 4 місяці тому +16

    This was GOOD!! I'll admit I watched the snippet on IG and thought he was arrogant. Not at allI! He's very well established, confident, secure, humble, and knows what he wants, and rightfully so taking nothing less (seriously, Anyway Lol). This is what 90% of women claim they want and only 2% may qualify TO WHAT HE WANTS. I would've loved to hear more of his deal breakers so women can snap onto reality. I wish him the best coming to Houston and finding her. Cuddos especially to him gaining full custody of his teenage girls in today's society! I'm glad I watched the entire interview. Thank you for the great representation Black Man!! 💜

  • @Risha-Rene
    @Risha-Rene 4 місяці тому +12

    Successful, sapiosexual, leader, great father, marriage minded, tall, dark, handsome, well spoken, professional, not sex driven, mature, confident, actually wants to date a blk woman,,, & also date in his age range. Good luck to him 🌸

  • @sgriffin414
    @sgriffin414 4 місяці тому +66

    Attractive, well spoken, successful and CONFIDENT! 😍

    • @octaviusholliday3358
      @octaviusholliday3358 4 місяці тому +9

      Some will find red flags in all of that. They love Pookie.

    • @artgreen9410
      @artgreen9410 4 місяці тому

      Obviously not too many people in the chat feel the same way.

  • @CcBeautiful94
    @CcBeautiful94 4 місяці тому +17

    Anytime ppl say “he think he better than everyone else” 9/10 HE IS since you said it. He’s on his sht 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 stop hating 😅

  • @MsPhire26
    @MsPhire26 4 місяці тому +27

    The men in here fighting for his life is sending meeeeee😂😂😂😂 y'all better stan for your friend

    • @marrrweee
      @marrrweee 4 місяці тому +2

      😂😂😂 same girl

  • @candorsspot2775
    @candorsspot2775 4 місяці тому +20

    No Atheists! This man is smart. That should be every man's first deal breaker if he is looking for a serious relationship.

    • @demetriusjames9535
      @demetriusjames9535 4 місяці тому +3

      Absolutely!

    • @akadashiki
      @akadashiki 4 місяці тому

      Why? Most so called Christians don't even operate in the principles of their faith, or can even explain why they're Christians outside of grandma making them go to church as kids lol

  • @Kimberly.T
    @Kimberly.T 4 місяці тому +44

    Listen women ask for these type of men EVERYDAY and when he’s on the show they’re saying to run and 🚩. I know men are confused as hell by women 😩🙃

    • @tera_samone
      @tera_samone 4 місяці тому +4

      That’s the conclusion I came up with too

    • @MenofValueSpeaks
      @MenofValueSpeaks 4 місяці тому

      Horrible, I'm starting to think these women like being able to blame everything on the pookies they raise and have babies with.
      When a man comes in who can point out their flaws and lead them, they are ready to run straight to the store to buy a PS5 to lure them in a 6'4 pookie to live with them and their kids.

    • @Kimberly.T
      @Kimberly.T 4 місяці тому +4

      @@Kurauone__ 🎯Bingo they typically want a hood 🥷🏾

    • @nickjones3860
      @nickjones3860 4 місяці тому

      No , men who understand women aren’t confused, especially bw.. they fear men like this.

    • @ItzD
      @ItzD 4 місяці тому

      But he asked for someone child free, that's the red flag. He is looking for a someone to help raise his kids, not a partner. No woman that is child free wants to be tied down by someone else's children. He needs to be open to single moms. The same issues he has with exes, women will also have to deal with that too.

  • @ArethaRenee
    @ArethaRenee 4 місяці тому +36

    He can actually back up his talk. Hes’s legit. Good luck!

    • @JCRFit
      @JCRFit 4 місяці тому

      U not going for him

    • @ArethaRenee
      @ArethaRenee 4 місяці тому

      @@JCRFit I have a man.

    • @meloran2571
      @meloran2571 4 місяці тому +1

      and they still hatin on him lol

  • @angelashaw9411
    @angelashaw9411 4 місяці тому +14

    Chas gave clear concise answers and it always boggles the mind when men or women are envious and immediately casts doubt on guests when they detail their lives and especially when he said he is in the top 1%. It is very weird that we casts aspersions on other people. This guy seems logical, kind and loving and towards his family and or employees. So many people come over here looking and sounding crazy. He is handsome and able to articulate what he wants. Another example of crabs in the barrel. Most women want this type of man but cannot engage with these type of men.

  • @ms.teaversation8072
    @ms.teaversation8072 4 місяці тому +83

    Y'all afraid of what you're NOT use to!💯

    • @The1GeminII
      @The1GeminII 4 місяці тому +5

      Please say it again!!! 👏🏽

    • @twright712
      @twright712 4 місяці тому +1

      THIS!!

  • @Rixx20
    @Rixx20 4 місяці тому +34

    He's been watching for a week but did not know what Kendra Cam is?

    • @zsilkywarrior9962
      @zsilkywarrior9962 4 місяці тому

      Oh he knew what it was because he started to stand up then asked what it was.

  • @Crimson_Skull52
    @Crimson_Skull52 4 місяці тому +9

    I mean talk your ish man. He is very articulate, has his affairs in order, and didn’t trip when he got push back about being in the top 1%. The fact that there is more to him than just his finances should be considered what’s called a green flag. I know some women would be put off by a man like this why? Because this man can not be controlled or manipulated into a damn thing. He’s truly master of his domain.

  • @user-fm5ms5me4b
    @user-fm5ms5me4b 4 місяці тому +138

    Why do people keep referring to children well under 18 as almost grown

    • @Ambitiousgirl22
      @Ambitiousgirl22 4 місяці тому +5

      Exactly

    • @Mrs.Terry17
      @Mrs.Terry17 4 місяці тому +11

      18 is considered an adult. His daughter is 12. That is closer to 18 then it is to a newborn. Common sense ma'am.

    • @DV-lr8ec
      @DV-lr8ec 4 місяці тому +2

      The mentality of some of these kids are almost on an adult level..

    • @jessicas.3110
      @jessicas.3110 4 місяці тому +22

      Yeah a 12 year old can’t even drive. I can understand saying that if they’re 16/17

    • @Rixx20
      @Rixx20 4 місяці тому +6

      That's not hardly grown.

  • @yvettelucy9831
    @yvettelucy9831 4 місяці тому +28

    Ummm that watch is over $40k😳😳 look... he looking for employees?? Me and my hubby ready to work!!😂

    • @tera_samone
      @tera_samone 4 місяці тому +2

      😂😂😂

    • @Jaericlynn
      @Jaericlynn 4 місяці тому +3

      I'm ready to file a claim. 😆

    • @nicolesnotebook
      @nicolesnotebook 4 місяці тому +3

      I SCREAMED at this comment 🤣 girlllllll 😂

    • @j.k.3
      @j.k.3 4 місяці тому

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @MariE-bz2eq
      @MariE-bz2eq 3 місяці тому

      Dude made sure to get that watch in every chance he got

  • @FruiteeK
    @FruiteeK 4 місяці тому +27

    Finally someone that seems to have some sense on this show! 👏🏽 kudos to n him

  • @leab3543
    @leab3543 4 місяці тому +9

    I'm surprised so many people are coming for him. He responded to every question with class and was actually able to breakdown the rationale as to why he's in the top 1% . I wish him all the best, he's classy and successful and he didn't speak down on his critics

    • @rosieparez
      @rosieparez 4 місяці тому +4

      It's because they aren't use to seeing this quality of individual on this show. They say that's what they want but when they are presented with it they don't know how to act or feel intimidated and they project their own insecurities.

  • @13ikea
    @13ikea 4 місяці тому +6

    I appreciate his honesty. He seems very mature and upfront.

  • @smoove3762
    @smoove3762 4 місяці тому +26

    Love it bro real men recognize real men respect! ✊🏾

    • @lisaagyemangduah7336
      @lisaagyemangduah7336 4 місяці тому +1

      Kendra's getting good male candidates. Articulate educated attractive emotionally mature financially stable healthy

  • @myishageorgette
    @myishageorgette 4 місяці тому +65

    I like Chas! He's confident ! And a black successful man!

  • @IAMHERE486
    @IAMHERE486 4 місяці тому +29

    I thought wealthy men had an abundance of options so why is here.And he has kid but wants a childfree woman.😂😂😂

    • @DreamAboutMe823
      @DreamAboutMe823 4 місяці тому

      Ain’t that what they say???

    • @IAMHERE486
      @IAMHERE486 4 місяці тому

      @@DreamAboutMe823 Yup 🤣🤣

  • @YValentine79
    @YValentine79 4 місяці тому +78

    Why he on the show with his abundance of options? Confused

    • @veeee3247
      @veeee3247 4 місяці тому +8

      Greedy

    • @humbleheart2650
      @humbleheart2650 4 місяці тому +26

      Arrogant attitude and not fun and controlling so while he may have other attributes, the attitude neutralizes all of that.

    • @clarencedolan699
      @clarencedolan699 4 місяці тому +3

      More options…

    • @TheeCookingChannel
      @TheeCookingChannel 4 місяці тому +4

      @@clarencedolan699he can’t keep a woman just like the other millionaire that was on Kendra show who wanted a woman “48in” and under 140lbs

    • @SparkleInYourEyes2024
      @SparkleInYourEyes2024 4 місяці тому +4

      ​@@clarencedolan699How many options does he need?

  • @Honestly_Marie
    @Honestly_Marie 4 місяці тому +12

    Maaaan if this isn't motivation enough to get your ish together, men AND women...then nothing will be enough. What's crazy is that women all day talk about how we want a man like him but when he appears, these comments show why you still haven't found him.

    • @pickmeisha
      @pickmeisha 4 місяці тому +4

      Because the majority can’t attract nor keep this caliber of man. Easier to criticize than admit defeat.

  • @Neeks6.6
    @Neeks6.6 4 місяці тому +11

    Proceed with caution with this one, ladies. With the way he posed things, he's going to have a roster and a rubric expecting ya'll to jump through hoops and bark to keep his attention. He'll likely turn out to be a headache. You'll never be good enough. I legit hope I'm wrong, though.

    • @icyourbs
      @icyourbs 3 місяці тому

      What do you expect from a high value man? That's the way it is for any "high value" person, man or woman. 99.9% of extremely beautiful women are very high maintenance. Why? Because they have options. "High value" is not free!

  • @mochalatte5715
    @mochalatte5715 4 місяці тому +49

    I personally am attracted to leaders, confident men, always have. They know how to turn the “arrogance” down with the right woman. He’s not for everyone but seems like a catch to me.

    • @MsRenaissance
      @MsRenaissance 4 місяці тому

      Sh○○t your sh○t. Best of luck. Come back and let us know why you couldn't stay with him.

    • @beautymedic1773
      @beautymedic1773 4 місяці тому +2

      A catch to someone..
      apparently I’m too short 🤣😏

  • @IK_4
    @IK_4 4 місяці тому +89

    Kendra said Radio Raheem 🤣🤣🤣 This guy seems too arrogant for his own good though 🚩

    • @lynnlakotich6331
      @lynnlakotich6331 4 місяці тому +11

      Not at all! He is being straightforward and upfront 😊❤

    • @myronbourne6937
      @myronbourne6937 4 місяці тому +6

      Jealous

    • @TheeCookingChannel
      @TheeCookingChannel 4 місяці тому +16

      He seems real dry, full of himself, and his money means nothing to a woman because he’s most likely not splurging

    • @MsRenaissance
      @MsRenaissance 4 місяці тому +4

      ​@@TheeCookingChannelLet then know. They will be on an allowance.

    • @meloran2571
      @meloran2571 4 місяці тому +3

      @@TheeCookingChannel tell that to women who come on here bragging about their salary

  • @dianeward8048
    @dianeward8048 4 місяці тому +24

    He got all the VA government contracts 😂🗄🔥🤑

  • @kasiahroy2082
    @kasiahroy2082 4 місяці тому +19

    The fact that he put two babies in this woman but wasn’t ready to be married to her…. Smh. Other than that, he seems cool.

    • @sheheals_wounds5169
      @sheheals_wounds5169 4 місяці тому

      He was in his 20’s

    • @gigifontaine254
      @gigifontaine254 4 місяці тому

      They got married by proxy, meaning he was deployed. They divorced when he got back.

  • @cassy_ep
    @cassy_ep 4 місяці тому +41

    Those who know, know. The arrogance and “I’m the prize” mentality is yuck

    • @cassy_ep
      @cassy_ep 4 місяці тому +4

      @@Kurauone__ Anyone calling themselves the prize, or acts like they’re better than, is yuck. I’m speaking from experience. These men are so hard to deal with. I’ll take an average earner any day!

    • @islandbound8437
      @islandbound8437 4 місяці тому +2

      That's why you get from the top earners.

    • @MCthespeaker
      @MCthespeaker 4 місяці тому

      Yup

    • @khalayii
      @khalayii 4 місяці тому +2

      Slightly arrogant, but men at this level tend to be this way. He’s a great catch for the right woman with the right personality. Definitely more a “submissive”, traditional woman.

  • @artgreen9410
    @artgreen9410 4 місяці тому +8

    Kendra needs more men on the program like this.

  • @pollyannalight6313
    @pollyannalight6313 4 місяці тому +141

    By the end of this video, it is clear that he is full of himself. He is incredibly picky and absolutely not worth what is required to keep him happy or even satisfied. Even a "perfect woman" would be walking on eggshells. Would only possibly consider another child (has 2 girls) if it is a boy and he would control that outcome by paying for the science. Never considered that a woman may love to have their own girl. The thing is, we leave this earth with nothing at all. I've stumbled on quite a number of very wealthy, very charming, very successful men I could have had in my life through the years. I would have had it all and nothing at all because I would have been unhappy.

    • @jbadams56
      @jbadams56 4 місяці тому +38

      You don’t get to determine his worth just like y’all tell men. You’re projecting your own insecurities because you don’t meet his qualifications.

    • @tmcurly
      @tmcurly 4 місяці тому +9

      He is calling himself a 1% man but makes 80K what a joke 🤡🤡🤡

    • @IntegrityMeansAll
      @IntegrityMeansAll 4 місяці тому +7

      💯plus he’s not who he pretends to b aka “open minded” peak the game of this phony poser 🧢

    • @pollyannalight6313
      @pollyannalight6313 4 місяці тому +4

      @@jbadams56 You don't know me nor my qualifications. He is not my type, but I am sure tons of women are interested in him.

    • @myronbourne6937
      @myronbourne6937 4 місяці тому +2

      Yapping

  • @missede96
    @missede96 4 місяці тому +30

    Under 40, successful, tall, has hair, fit, educated and a veteran, this man is perfect 😂 good luck Chas!

    • @iam1remnant
      @iam1remnant 4 місяці тому +1

      Also God fearing

    • @user-uy7uz9oq4f
      @user-uy7uz9oq4f 4 місяці тому +1

      He 🧢🧢🎓🧢

    • @pickmeisha
      @pickmeisha 4 місяці тому +5

      And shaped like a dorito.

    • @rahh3602
      @rahh3602 4 місяці тому +1

      @@pickmeisha😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @cami7961
      @cami7961 3 місяці тому

      Im shocked the man still single, ill never live as a well to do man .but i just will nve understand how is it difficult to get a good wife, he cld hve 3 wives at one time 😅😅😅, like what is the problem

  • @Easykidsthing
    @Easykidsthing 4 місяці тому +6

    He’s confident, intelligent, assertive, knows what he wants and he’s not compromising ❤ Good luck women! I’m happy with my man but Good luck may the best woman wins 🎉

  • @Go-Getter
    @Go-Getter 4 місяці тому +13

    Lol average people like for everyone else to be average too. Some of us are exceptional and that makes folks uncomfortable. Salute to the brother for making it to the top and not allowing the dreamers to distract him.

  • @Jesslit101
    @Jesslit101 4 місяці тому +29

    Why can’t he find a women lol 😂 red flag 🚩 since he so great ? Men set the tone.

  • @WstBrk_Rico
    @WstBrk_Rico 3 місяці тому +5

    The amount of hate in the comments show the amount of insecurity ppl have within themselves.

  • @officialbrothernu
    @officialbrothernu 4 місяці тому +58

    Great Representation of Black Men 💪🏾

    • @tera_samone
      @tera_samone 4 місяці тому +1

      Most definitely 💯 🔥💯

    • @kobiamoo
      @kobiamoo 4 місяці тому +2

      Just as you were, Nu

    • @dw9054
      @dw9054 4 місяці тому +8

      Financially yes but heart, care and compassion TBD I hope there’s more to him than a bank account.

    • @demetriusjames9535
      @demetriusjames9535 4 місяці тому

      As are you, Brother Nu! 💪🏾

    • @serious7179
      @serious7179 4 місяці тому +8

      ​@@dw9054exactly. The black community is so off. Money and height does not equal character and integrity.

  • @skylafragrances
    @skylafragrances 4 місяці тому +54

    He may attract more clients for his firm

    • @Bklyn112
      @Bklyn112 4 місяці тому +15

      I suspect that's the reason he's here. Started a UA-cam channel fairly recently so might be looking for subscribers. He's wearing an AP and said that he's in many spaces so I'm sure he meets many prospective wives. He also said he was here just "gathering leaves."

    • @I_dont_read_replies_555
      @I_dont_read_replies_555 4 місяці тому +3

      @@Bklyn112🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I love “gathering leaves” ❤ I thought he said “gathering leads” but I like what you said much more. 😂

  • @Morg820
    @Morg820 4 місяці тому +27

    This was an interesting live. The men were really hating on this man. Paying for comments and questions. And Maleovent Elephant was the thirsty of them all. It’s cringe for a man to pocket watch another man. Just use him as motivation to do better in your life

    • @candorsspot2775
      @candorsspot2775 4 місяці тому +1

      It's out of control with blk women, but blk people in general aren't into the truth. So someone makes exceptional claims i can understand wanting evidence.

    • @Morg820
      @Morg820 4 місяці тому +5

      @@candorsspot2775 that man didn’t make any claims tho. He was asked about his watch. I doubt he would have even spoke about the watch had it not been brought up

    • @candorsspot2775
      @candorsspot2775 4 місяці тому +1

      @@Morg820 I haven't watched the whole the video. I'm just referring to skepticism in general when blk people make a claim, especially an exceptional one. Unfortunately, it's hard to take things at face value because we like to ummm enhance the truth.

    • @Morg820
      @Morg820 4 місяці тому

      @@candorsspot2775 i can agree

  • @officialbrothernu
    @officialbrothernu 4 місяці тому +42

    This brother said he’s in the top 1% and the poor people got offended 😵‍💫🤦🏾‍♂️

    • @RockyMaiviaMiami
      @RockyMaiviaMiami 4 місяці тому +1

      It’s not even the poor people, it’s the ineligible people. Ladies don’t like standards, remember all ladies are 10’s for just this reason.

    • @tera_samone
      @tera_samone 4 місяці тому +8

      And ignored all his other great qualities 😂😭😭😭😂

    • @serious7179
      @serious7179 4 місяці тому +7

      ​@@tera_samonewhat are the great qualities? And I'm far from poor, but I am so tired of this prideful, high-value rhetoric in the black community. It all sounds narcissistic and it's just annoying. You can say that you are a good person and make decent money without sounding like you think you are above others. It's crass.

    • @tera_samone
      @tera_samone 4 місяці тому +3

      @@serious7179 I liked the examples he used to clarify why he’s a good person, how his watch said how much money he makes before he did 😂😂 and the way he represented himself. I especially appreciate the attributes that come with being a single divorced father of two girls. My dad was a single divorced father of 3 girls until he remarried and it takes a certain kind of man😮‍💨🥰 Hell, I’m not even in the PTA, I just attend the fundraiser.😭😅 That’s not even half of what I like about him. 😁 He knows his worth and he’s exactly what the black qualified single sisters need in this community’.

    • @serious7179
      @serious7179 4 місяці тому +3

      ​@@tera_samonethere are so many black men in the community with this higher than thou attitude, the ones with money and the ones without money. He sounds rigid, he sounds haughty, not like a person who knows his worth but a person who overestimates his worth, the reason why his watch spoke about his money before he did was because he intended for his watch to speak about his money before he did..... He kept waving it at us like he was trying to flag down an airplane. The black community needs more humble leaders who are willing to fight for their families and their women, not more guys like this. We have enough guys like this. They make families and they leave them and they think that they are somehow special because they have the finances that short-sighted women fall all over.

  • @aleixiamills2235
    @aleixiamills2235 4 місяці тому +6

    From my personal experience military men are sometimes hard to deal with. They come with great credentials but it’s sometimes difficult to be in a relationship with them.

  • @Jesslit101
    @Jesslit101 4 місяці тому +17

    Women without kids don’t want men with kids

    • @candorsspot2775
      @candorsspot2775 4 місяці тому

      Women want a lot of things. They'll gladly compromise on this. Let's not fool ourselves.

    • @MenofValueSpeaks
      @MenofValueSpeaks 4 місяці тому +7

      If you are that guy, I'd beg to differ. Future, Nick Cannon, my brother with a 17yr old, got married to a Nike Fitness Model that is also an attorney and partner at her firm.
      Women like leaders and stability. And there no macro level evidence that supports your claim. Look up successful athletes, entertainers, and public figures and you'll see women line up to be baby momma #6 day in and day out.

    • @Jesslit101
      @Jesslit101 4 місяці тому +1

      @@MenofValueSpeaks that’s not a leader making babies 👶and moving on that’s a follower, everyone does that. Then they deal with women who don’t have it all obviously. Can’t get past smart women with the bs

    • @jalaaaah
      @jalaaaah 4 місяці тому +6

      ⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠@@MenofValueSpeaks she meant *quality* women; which is why he’s up here. name a woman of quality nick cannon has exclusively had after having his first 2 kids with mariah carey? future was lucky to get ciara because she was naive. and between the both of them, they’re still unmarried, 40+, dating gold-diggers. the “lack of evidence” is the problem with society but makes it even more evident that
      a beautiful woman ≠ quality
      a rich man ≠ quality

    • @JazzDimpless
      @JazzDimpless 4 місяці тому

      Women without kids that have common sense don’t want men with kids.

  • @lopinotshay3972
    @lopinotshay3972 4 місяці тому +46

    His eyebrows are zesty 🏳️‍🌈

    • @myronbourne6937
      @myronbourne6937 4 місяці тому +5

      🤣🤣

    • @bruceleeroy8302
      @bruceleeroy8302 4 місяці тому

      Black man exists: *Oh he must be gay!*

    • @humbleheart2650
      @humbleheart2650 4 місяці тому +10

      Yup! He cleaned up those brows nicely, better than most ladies! Arched to the GODS!

    • @MenofValueSpeaks
      @MenofValueSpeaks 4 місяці тому

      Most women don't have good brows to start with. Harder to draw 2 perfect brows on bare skin, than to simply have yours lined up as a man. Better that, than going around with caterpillars that are unkempt.

  • @DebraMonae
    @DebraMonae 4 місяці тому +9

    I loved it and lots of luck too you. He’s on the level many will not achieve

  • @lavendersunsets7066
    @lavendersunsets7066 4 місяці тому +31

    I checked out a few things he was saying. And so far they came up as legit. I didn't dig deeper, just on the surface level. He is very confident and sure of himself. Which is great. But I still don't get why he is single. Men make time for what they want.

    • @The1GeminII
      @The1GeminII 4 місяці тому +5

      That’s probably why. He hasn’t made time yet. I did the same and looked at his IG. Hopefully, he’s truly seeking for the woman he wants. She will have to be willing to relocate, that’s for sure. The only thing he said, which I hear women say too, was his children are almost grown, that’s just not so. There are certain formative years in a child’s life, when their parent’s guidance is crucial. Their first 4 years of life, and the years they’re going through puberty. Other than that, I thought he interviewed well, and could back up what he was saying.

    • @bigdunks4eva
      @bigdunks4eva 4 місяці тому

      Why should a "top 1%" guy be in a relationship? Y'all expect men to think like women.

    • @TDS621
      @TDS621 4 місяці тому +9

      He doesn’t want a Wife, I think he likes to impress and Loves Attention.

  • @kimberlyfleming5990
    @kimberlyfleming5990 4 місяці тому +7

    I love his confidence! Good luck Chas!

  • @veeee3247
    @veeee3247 4 місяці тому +32

    I bet this dude has red pill content.

    • @nikkilong7377
      @nikkilong7377 4 місяці тому +4

      😂 😂😂look I don't like hating on peeps, but when that energy is beaming it's hard to deny😂😂

  • @lovetruthprizm
    @lovetruthprizm 4 місяці тому +17

    Seems like a great guy. I respect it. 💯

  • @DreamAboutMe823
    @DreamAboutMe823 4 місяці тому +23

    This is why they don’t want y’all to wear eyelashes and get your brows and makeup done because THEY wanna do it. 😂😂😂

  • @iceman_2360
    @iceman_2360 4 місяці тому +45

    All these women have no problem wanting a man that makes six figures, over six feet, etc; until they come across a man that has standards of his own.

    • @jodezod
      @jodezod 4 місяці тому

      💯😂. That’s why if I like someone, I always have in my mind that they have wants and desires as well. It’s like some people come in this show wanting someone but will never take into consideration what that person wants.

    • @meloran2571
      @meloran2571 4 місяці тому +5

      😂 you having standards is not on their requirements list

  • @joeyoung6287
    @joeyoung6287 4 місяці тому +42

    Kendra, payroll is not paycheck. Payroll is what he’s paying out to employees.

    • @sonyadrake7843
      @sonyadrake7843 4 місяці тому +6

      🎯💯🤜🏾🤛🏾

    • @allmylifeihadtofight9815
      @allmylifeihadtofight9815 4 місяці тому +8

      Are you just finding out she’s not that smart?

    • @joeyoung6287
      @joeyoung6287 4 місяці тому +2

      @@allmylifeihadtofight9815 😂

    • @datgurlnesha23
      @datgurlnesha23 4 місяці тому

      Oh wow that’s interesting I was confused by that statement… I wonder why didn’t he correct her? By not saying anything he’s implying he makes over $1 mil a year through his company …some of these girls gone be real disappointed

    • @joeyoung6287
      @joeyoung6287 4 місяці тому +7

      @@datgurlnesha23 he did try to correct her. But like most of the guest, he just gave up.

  • @brantpadmore1395
    @brantpadmore1395 4 місяці тому +20

    It is so refreshing the last few guys that have come onto this show are confident got there stuff together and have expectations for the woman they want that’s nonnegotiable. I know this makes some black women upset because they want the men to jump through the hoops for them and accept their bad attitudes and kids by multiple baby daddies because they think that they’re special Way to go fellas. Good luck finding the woman you want on this platform.

  • @halftimehomes
    @halftimehomes 4 місяці тому +38

    Before you comment on how you don’t want him ask yourself if you qualify

    • @rrtlife2167
      @rrtlife2167 4 місяці тому +2

      If you don't want him why would it matter? He isn't asking for much at all.

    • @trishag.971
      @trishag.971 4 місяці тому

      THIS!!!!!!

    • @earthynomad7160
      @earthynomad7160 4 місяці тому +1

      I would ask him if he murdered anyone in iraq.
      For a man of faith that was absolutely unjust unholy war

    • @sherard4794
      @sherard4794 4 місяці тому

      Most of em don’t that’s why they hating in the comments

  • @kikash7549
    @kikash7549 4 місяці тому +3

    He seems like a great catch! Best of luck to ya 👍🏾 I know them DMs finna be FLODDED lol

  • @MsRenaissance
    @MsRenaissance 4 місяці тому +17

    Some people who are very successful do not make good partners because they are too controlling and domineering. He seems like a good man, but the woman will have to fit that little part of the puzzle of "his life", no room for her personality, desires or demands. That's why it didn't work out with any of the women he's been with because in his mind, it's his world and the woman just lives in it. Also, he's dealing with multiple people because maybe he feels he's too much for just one person and he says he's taking his sweet time to select so he's wasting their life while enjoying his.

  • @j.daniels1548
    @j.daniels1548 4 місяці тому +86

    Never marry a woman for financial reasons like this
    He didn’t have to marry her for his children to be taken care of if he was killed while serving in the military. The military has mechanisms in place to take care of your dependents in the event of your demise.

    • @Bklyn112
      @Bklyn112 4 місяці тому +33

      He wanted the mother of his children to be able to stay home and take care of his daughters in the case of his demise. If he hadn't married her, only their children would be entitled to his benefits.

    • @sensere7508
      @sensere7508 4 місяці тому +17

      You get higher bah and bas for food and housing as a married couple e3 pay is low so non taxable income is key

    • @j.daniels1548
      @j.daniels1548 4 місяці тому +7

      @@Bklyn112 he specifically said multiple times he married that female because of his children - that he wanted to make sure his children were taken care of in case he died while in the military. He was 20 years old, so he didn’t understand that benefits from the military automatically extended to his children.
      Now he’s in a situation where he’s taking care of the children by himself, and his raggedy ass ex-wife is a non-factor.
      Black men should stop feeling obligated to wife these women up just because they have your children

    • @angeleyes3396
      @angeleyes3396 4 місяці тому

      Many people marry in the military for this reason. Not morally right but then we’ll be saying he was wrong for never marrying the woman he made babies with. Pick a struggle.

    • @corasbloom
      @corasbloom 4 місяці тому

      At the age he was he could get millions in life insurance for about $100 a month so that's BS. ​@@Bklyn112

  • @eleganttammyh4465
    @eleganttammyh4465 4 місяці тому +6

    He came from a two family household but left his wife with 2 kids

    • @ShutterSpeedGaming
      @ShutterSpeedGaming 2 місяці тому

      He has custody of his children. You’d know that if you were paying attention 😂😂

  • @kalistrand5420
    @kalistrand5420 4 місяці тому +15

    I like him- quietly confident and gracious. He strikes me as a thinker and a planner- both excellent partner traits! I do think it’s odd that he’s on the show but he said that he likes to try new things. He doesn’t do anything for me but I’m rooting for him! 👍🏾☺️

    • @marrrweee
      @marrrweee 4 місяці тому +2

      I think this is very fair! Well said 😊 nice to see a grounded opinion

  • @shakiramcgee2023
    @shakiramcgee2023 4 місяці тому +3

    I love the fact that he sounds like he knows who he is & what he wants. A lot of people seem confused nowadays & he sounds very clear.

  • @shinebright4083
    @shinebright4083 4 місяці тому +4

    Great interview...hopefully he meets his special person and comes back to give an update.

  • @Iamgroot377
    @Iamgroot377 4 місяці тому +10

    Can never understand how a man can hate on another man that's on his ish. Quit hating and get your shit together, if you're focused on bettering yourself in every metric you won't have the time to hate.

    • @zeekie54
      @zeekie54 4 місяці тому +2

      Most hate on those doing better than them. You won't find a person doing well hating on those with less.

  • @crow2swann5
    @crow2swann5 4 місяці тому +22

    I like that he's on this show. He is what most women want. The problem is, a man with all these qualities will have standards. Women want this man but want him not to understand his place in the market. You won't get a man like this and have him simp for you at the same time. Brothers like this is who Kevin Samuels was speaking for. HVM are rare. Plus, they aren't easy to please. This is what NOT Settling looks like. I think brothers like this intimidate some women. Good luck brother. You've worked hard to get where you are. You deserve all the fruits of your work.

    • @MsRenaissance
      @MsRenaissance 4 місяці тому +3

      Seven figure women are not easy to intimidate so I don't that's the problem. He may just be too arrogant and too bent on everything revolving around him. In his mind, it's his world and people just live in it. So if strong women are what it take why did those seven figure women run away from him.

    • @crow2swann5
      @crow2swann5 4 місяці тому

      @@MsRenaissance you assume they ran from him. Why? All the highly successful men I know are arrogant. That's what you get when you want 6 feet, 6 figures and 6+ inches. The humble guy that has all those traits isn't single. He probably got married early and in a long marriage right now, that's why he's humble. Don't hate the messenger. Women made it like this, for not wanting an average basic man.

    • @MsRenaissance
      @MsRenaissance 4 місяці тому +1

      @@crow2swann5 You guys are really all the same. Most humble guys aren't married and faithful because having less makes them perfect. They're married and faithful because he doesn't have as many options so he grabbed onto who would take him and can't let go. But I guarantee if he had the options he would behave the same.

    • @crow2swann5
      @crow2swann5 4 місяці тому +2

      @@MsRenaissance don't be mad. Women do the same thing. Anyone with options is going to hold out for the best option. But it's triggering only when men do it?

    • @MsRenaissance
      @MsRenaissance 4 місяці тому +1

      @crow2swann5 What's there to be mad about Sir? I have no dogs in this fight. Like I said, I just watch from the sidelines as women try to tangle themselves up in marriage with you guys. I've alr3ady done it and not very interested in ever doing it again. So as much as you want to think all women are that interested, some of us are not. Some of us only watch for the entertainment and give our two cents in the comments section. So you're barking up the wrong tree.

  • @trueromancescamvi
    @trueromancescamvi 4 місяці тому +9

    Great Catch!!! ♥♥♥

  • @truettadevil
    @truettadevil 4 місяці тому +4

    He was asked several times what he was looking for, and he waited to the last minute to admit he wanted a woman who looks exotic, like an Eritrean woman 🙄 That's why he isn't married, it doesn't matter how many "leads" he gathers. Like most men, they have a picture in their head and no good woman is gonna be able to fulfill that unless she's a perfect match.

  • @tward4070
    @tward4070 4 місяці тому +8

    Damn, he’s a good catch. I’m way too old for him but I would def hit him up if I was the right age. He is articulate, attractive and best of all an involved parent.

  • @PreciousSullivan
    @PreciousSullivan 4 місяці тому +3

    He is def in the top percent. His personality may not work for some but he gives me LEADER! He may come off a bit uptight but that’s a man that has no time to play games. He’s structured, has discipline in life, competent, independent and financially stable!
    I’m also a business owner and I understand his personality. He seems like a great catch! He’s a consistent man and it shows imo!

  • @ourtruth216
    @ourtruth216 4 місяці тому +10

    10:25 13:03 19:55 21:19 25:13 25:26 26:26
    These show his character , if you’re not able to pick up on it, I feel very sorry for you.

    • @manifestgoddess
      @manifestgoddess 4 місяці тому +5

      I knew I wasn't crazy, people buying into his words. I'm reading in-between lines. He's giving red pill vibes.

    • @Rocanala
      @Rocanala 4 місяці тому +3

      He’s looking for a companion who he can sleep with that will accept crumbs as he continues to explore his ‘options’.

  • @dreadfulrai
    @dreadfulrai 4 місяці тому +21

    If I was in the 1%, you wouldn’t see or hear from me. But anyway good luck to him, no doubt he’ll find a chick who will love him for his high earnings

  • @PinkyxWinky
    @PinkyxWinky 4 місяці тому +16

    He needs to keep his beard for sure…
    I’ve dated a man like him and they surely are cocky.

    • @beautymedic1773
      @beautymedic1773 4 місяці тому +1

      He needs a cocky woman to match his shine