Right, giving coworker energy! He’s too serious and picky, not chill or fun. That is hurting himAll those other good attributes mean nothing.if your ‘tude ie wack
Sometimes, your circles don't really have what you might be looking for and you might be averse to dating apps etc. Kendra isnt always a last ditch effort for people That being said, true or not you couldn't catch me ever saying Im a 1% man 😂
He wants someone to fit into his life. He understands time and expense. If he is looking for an east African woman in America, he will likely need to convince her family and show he will take care of her.
He didn't say he didn't want a woman with kids. He said that if a woman has kids, her parenting situation has to be drama-free like his is. In that regard, he's not asking for a standard that he doesn't meet.
I'm surprised so many people are coming for him. He responded to every question with class and was actually able to breakdown the rationale as to why he's in the top 1% . I wish him all the best, he's classy and successful and he didn't speak down on his critics
It's because they aren't use to seeing this quality of individual on this show. They say that's what they want but when they are presented with it they don't know how to act or feel intimidated and they project their own insecurities.
It doesn't even matter about people coming for him. He just proposed to his girlfriend on some football field after a game. I guess he did something right.
Unpopular opinion...men like him look good on paper but I'm willing to bet he's highly opinionated, judgy, and probably disconnected. With sooooo much good and with plenty of options, why is he here?
Name a upwardly mobile business owner that isn't? I guarantee the CEOs you worked for fall in that category. Also high earners don't get there without making the right choices, discipline, and discretion. If you want someone with money, but none of the other qualities. You're looking for a rapper or entertainer. He's here bc he's looking for the best. This is like asking why Usher did the superbowl for free. "Publicity and reach"
His expectations are high and not worth it to the women he seeks out. He's not even giving big 🍆 energy and his money is not enough to bypass his character flaws.
Men like him will always remind you he has 'options' because why did he feel the need to stress that out? He'll never offer you any security. You'll always be on your toes.
That's the nature of type A go getters. They demand excellence. A woman who wants to chill or run the show isn't going to work. A woman who loves adding to a man's life, puts here family first and is willing to put lots of work into keeping things successful is what every man wants. But a man has to be at a certain caliber to get and keep that woman too.
interesting statement to me made in a generation where its ok to be in a relationship with a man but on social media half naked seeking attention and validation from other men.
This was GOOD!! I'll admit I watched the snippet on IG and thought he was arrogant. Not at allI! He's very well established, confident, secure, humble, and knows what he wants, and rightfully so taking nothing less (seriously, Anyway Lol). This is what 90% of women claim they want and only 2% may qualify TO WHAT HE WANTS. I would've loved to hear more of his deal breakers so women can snap onto reality. I wish him the best coming to Houston and finding her. Cuddos especially to him gaining full custody of his teenage girls in today's society! I'm glad I watched the entire interview. Thank you for the great representation Black Man!! 💜
They don’t care. They will argue they care to be equal in the comments but reality is that ladies are looking for the best deal on a man, and the best men generally have kids by 30’s
Come on, that just sounds weird calling anyone, especially a leader or head of household, a prize. A prize is a possession. Back in the day, men knew that their woman was the prize because they were the leaders and they possessed the prized jewel, i.e. their wives.
I really don’t think he was bragging, I just think his lifestyle is different and he was just explaining what was asked of him. He seems like a really great guy that wants something specific and he doesn’t mind explaining in detail. He actually seems rather humble but confident.
The less said the better, let us see that you’re a catch rather than ram it down our throats. If he’s that good a catch why come on here to sell himself. 🤔🤔🤔
This dude need to be pinned to the top of all her videos. On paper he’s what women want. But they can’t handle him or his requirements. They’ll still have a problem with this dude. He is who he is because of what he has and what he’s accomplished.
So do you want "Vibrations" or high earnings? I never hear women on here talking about vibrations but I always hear women on hear talking about earnings
I mean talk your ish man. He is very articulate, has his affairs in order, and didn’t trip when he got push back about being in the top 1%. The fact that there is more to him than just his finances should be considered what’s called a green flag. I know some women would be put off by a man like this why? Because this man can not be controlled or manipulated into a damn thing. He’s truly master of his domain.
Chas gave clear concise answers and it always boggles the mind when men or women are envious and immediately casts doubt on guests when they detail their lives and especially when he said he is in the top 1%. It is very weird that we casts aspersions on other people. This guy seems logical, kind and loving and towards his family and or employees. So many people come over here looking and sounding crazy. He is handsome and able to articulate what he wants. Another example of crabs in the barrel. Most women want this type of man but cannot engage with these type of men.
That is exactly what he's doing. He is trying to grow his business even more. This man has no problems dating. Especially where he lives. This was better than him paying for a Super Bowl commercial!
He’s confident, intelligent, assertive, knows what he wants and he’s not compromising ❤ Good luck women! I’m happy with my man but Good luck may the best woman wins 🎉
I personally am attracted to leaders, confident men, always have. They know how to turn the “arrogance” down with the right woman. He’s not for everyone but seems like a catch to me.
Most military men ‘present’ this way but once you’re married it’s hell. I’ve heard sooo many stories of "perfect’ couples I think most just aren’t used to meeting grown men. There’s a reason he’s single too.
Exactly and I left a comment upove for other women to read. Men that have been in the military have many issues. I don't believe he hasn't found anyone but he is single for those problems obviously. I don't believe him and I can identify many problems based on everything he is saying, PTSD, he stays up and many other problems. But he covers well until the women gets past the beginning stages with him.
My husband is a military brat and he is wonderful but he have Islam so I guess that helps with his mannerisms and how he is as a man; so I can’t say they are hell because mine is rare and special in general Masha Allah( God willed it) .
Maaaan if this isn't motivation enough to get your ish together, men AND women...then nothing will be enough. What's crazy is that women all day talk about how we want a man like him but when he appears, these comments show why you still haven't found him.
Thank you for representing VA positively young man! I'm from Richmond and I wish I could see more young men like him. He would have been good for one of my daughters.
He is def in the top percent. His personality may not work for some but he gives me LEADER! He may come off a bit uptight but that’s a man that has no time to play games. He’s structured, has discipline in life, competent, independent and financially stable! I’m also a business owner and I understand his personality. He seems like a great catch! He’s a consistent man and it shows imo!
He seems okay. Only red flags I picked up on is the fact that he prefers a childless woman even though he has children, and he seems like he would be very unforgiving and cut you off fast. You can't have a relationship with longevity if you're cutting people off every time they do something you don't like.
@kevinmathis7352 I wondered the same thing, too. My only red flag was that he came to the show. At his 1% level and his position in life, he has absolutely no business looking for love on this show.
@@fortunatemd3253 now that I agree with. He's going to pollute his real dating pool. Now he has more women to pick from but too many won't be what he wants.
Really? I picked up a lot. One major one is the fact that he nonchalantly admitted to defrauding the government, made it seem like he got married because of his children, he said I don’t want a mother to my children but say I want a woman who can be a good mentor. That bs about (I have a 17 & 12 we are pass step mother) what a gaslighting tactic 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️. This man is a waking red flag when you actually know what you are listening to. He’s 1% but out here looking for women on a show? Nah he’s looking for a pounding to dip. This man was telling people what they wanted to hear. He’s a red pill listener. Even Andrew Tate left red pill. 😂😂😂😂 he gives me that feel that he wants him prioritized over the woman. I don’t think he wants a relationship that about a relationship. He wants a woman that will be about him and him alone. He will not reciprocate that same love. He gives that energy that it’s him or the highway
Successful, sapiosexual, leader, great father, marriage minded, tall, dark, handsome, well spoken, professional, not sex driven, mature, confident, actually wants to date a blk woman,,, & also date in his age range. Good luck to him 🌸
He may be top 1% but his lack of humility is very unappealing. When you lead with your wealth, you attract A1 gold diggers who will bleed a ninja dry. Good luck sir!
@@humbleheart2650 nah he good you just confused you think he should be more like a woman . Because everything you described is what a hard working man of value is . And women aren’t uncomfortable around guys like him he’s what they want. Arrogance comes along with being part of 1%
It is so refreshing the last few guys that have come onto this show are confident got there stuff together and have expectations for the woman they want that’s nonnegotiable. I know this makes some black women upset because they want the men to jump through the hoops for them and accept their bad attitudes and kids by multiple baby daddies because they think that they’re special Way to go fellas. Good luck finding the woman you want on this platform.
I like that he's on this show. He is what most women want. The problem is, a man with all these qualities will have standards. Women want this man but want him not to understand his place in the market. You won't get a man like this and have him simp for you at the same time. Brothers like this is who Kevin Samuels was speaking for. HVM are rare. Plus, they aren't easy to please. This is what NOT Settling looks like. I think brothers like this intimidate some women. Good luck brother. You've worked hard to get where you are. You deserve all the fruits of your work.
Seven figure women are not easy to intimidate so I don't that's the problem. He may just be too arrogant and too bent on everything revolving around him. In his mind, it's his world and people just live in it. So if strong women are what it take why did those seven figure women run away from him.
@@MsRenaissance you assume they ran from him. Why? All the highly successful men I know are arrogant. That's what you get when you want 6 feet, 6 figures and 6+ inches. The humble guy that has all those traits isn't single. He probably got married early and in a long marriage right now, that's why he's humble. Don't hate the messenger. Women made it like this, for not wanting an average basic man.
@@crow2swann5 You guys are really all the same. Most humble guys aren't married and faithful because having less makes them perfect. They're married and faithful because he doesn't have as many options so he grabbed onto who would take him and can't let go. But I guarantee if he had the options he would behave the same.
@@MsRenaissance don't be mad. Women do the same thing. Anyone with options is going to hold out for the best option. But it's triggering only when men do it?
@crow2swann5 What's there to be mad about Sir? I have no dogs in this fight. Like I said, I just watch from the sidelines as women try to tangle themselves up in marriage with you guys. I've alr3ady done it and not very interested in ever doing it again. So as much as you want to think all women are that interested, some of us are not. Some of us only watch for the entertainment and give our two cents in the comments section. So you're barking up the wrong tree.
I checked out a few things he was saying. And so far they came up as legit. I didn't dig deeper, just on the surface level. He is very confident and sure of himself. Which is great. But I still don't get why he is single. Men make time for what they want.
That’s probably why. He hasn’t made time yet. I did the same and looked at his IG. Hopefully, he’s truly seeking for the woman he wants. She will have to be willing to relocate, that’s for sure. The only thing he said, which I hear women say too, was his children are almost grown, that’s just not so. There are certain formative years in a child’s life, when their parent’s guidance is crucial. Their first 4 years of life, and the years they’re going through puberty. Other than that, I thought he interviewed well, and could back up what he was saying.
Served his country, educated, what majority of women are looking for. Has plenty of options yet… here we are. For you single ladies my advice to get close to him is to “LET HIM TALK “ he’s going to fall in love with you. 😂
Ladies, don’t get mad, if you don’t qualify, stop tearing this man apart! This brother got his ish together and he knows it! Pop your ish king! Be as picky as you can be! What I’m starting to realize is that lots of women want a six figure man, who’s six feet, but they don’t want that man to have standards! Lol! It doesn’t work like that! Be picky brotha, be picky, you have the handle and they have the blade! ✊🏿✊🏿
Yeah Men like tht have the privilege of being selective...Women, step your game up 😅 the children turned me off, havin non myself but i wish him luck 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
It’s interesting that you choose to insult women to validate this man when if I look at these comments the negativity seems to be general among both sexes. Truth be told I can tell by the type of comment, misspellings and assumptions made what the education level and life experience level of the commenter. Which is more telling than generalizing the ladies. Not picking on you but I challenge you to not generalize women and look a little deeper.
@@elleinthea1678 awwww! I hit a nerve huh? 🤣FOH!!! Since as we’re picking UA-cam commentary apart, proof read your paragraph and search for punctuation errors before you send it out “English language” major! Bye!✌🏿 😂😂😂
I'm disturbed by this man having two teenaged daughters that he has full custody of being raised by a nanny, while he tries to take over the world with a living mother I would have liked to go into further detail on this point bc I have a feeling....🤔
I have HUGE concerns about this too after he made the statement twice about having full custody and put emphasis on it I was IMMEDIATELY triggered about it! I feel like something is off but I could be wrong
I like him- quietly confident and gracious. He strikes me as a thinker and a planner- both excellent partner traits! I do think it’s odd that he’s on the show but he said that he likes to try new things. He doesn’t do anything for me but I’m rooting for him! 👍🏾☺️
I wish that Kendra would post more brothers like this on her show. Letting these women know that they need to step up their game. Hats off to his brother he will make a lucky woman, a good man.
Damn, he’s a good catch. I’m way too old for him but I would def hit him up if I was the right age. He is articulate, attractive and best of all an involved parent.
This seems like a solid brother. His purpose in life is to help others and he is taking care of his responsibilities. Lol why all of the hate, some of you all are too miserable and it's showing.
By the end of this video, it is clear that he is full of himself. He is incredibly picky and absolutely not worth what is required to keep him happy or even satisfied. Even a "perfect woman" would be walking on eggshells. Would only possibly consider another child (has 2 girls) if it is a boy and he would control that outcome by paying for the science. Never considered that a woman may love to have their own girl. The thing is, we leave this earth with nothing at all. I've stumbled on quite a number of very wealthy, very charming, very successful men I could have had in my life through the years. I would have had it all and nothing at all because I would have been unhappy.
Ladies, if yall reach out, just remember, you asked for that misery. Soon as something go wrong, he gonna let you know that he's a 1% man and you can be replaced. Just go find yourself a regular type dude ladies. We out here being good husbands to good women.
He maybe a good guy or maybe not but you're judgement of him is as bad as what extremely beautiful women go thru Ppl think they get approached quite often when that's far from the truth, those women are often lonely becuz there beauty is a blessing and a curse. - Don't be so quick to judge
@@edithandlezexactly..... I feel so badly for some of the women on these comments.... It's like they can't recognize good from bad. He is obviously not humble at all. You can be calm and articulate and still be as prideful and arrogant as all get out smh
Amazing some of these comments about a brother who is able to communicate what he wants and appears to be a successful man who is a single father? After seeing male prostitutes, instacart drivers, and chefs with warped realities, it is good seeing a fellow soldier represent himself well. #salute✊🏿
💯😂. That’s why if I like someone, I always have in my mind that they have wants and desires as well. It’s like some people come in this show wanting someone but will never take into consideration what that person wants.
I suspect that's the reason he's here. Started a UA-cam channel fairly recently so might be looking for subscribers. He's wearing an AP and said that he's in many spaces so I'm sure he meets many prospective wives. He also said he was here just "gathering leaves."
Some people who are very successful do not make good partners because they are too controlling and domineering. He seems like a good man, but the woman will have to fit that little part of the puzzle of "his life", no room for her personality, desires or demands. That's why it didn't work out with any of the women he's been with because in his mind, it's his world and the woman just lives in it. Also, he's dealing with multiple people because maybe he feels he's too much for just one person and he says he's taking his sweet time to select so he's wasting their life while enjoying his.
😂 Kendra looks nice. And she funny. I'm glad Chas is very independent. And he takes care of his kids. He has beautiful skin and eyebrows. Good luck to Chas and his kids.
Can never understand how a man can hate on another man that's on his ish. Quit hating and get your shit together, if you're focused on bettering yourself in every metric you won't have the time to hate.
He gets a % of the veterans benefits after filing the paperwork for them. Which is cool, most veterans don't mind especially if they can get more with his help. But he's NOT doing it out of the kindness of his heart. I know this from experience.
@@rayb2410Agreed! The careers that are truly because you genuinely care and do it for the “love of the game” don’t pay very well (I.e social workers, teachers, etc) They are the real MVP’s tho. I’m not knocking military man’s hustle, just making a point.
Guys that has been in the military are often times violent and struggle with PTSD. So would have loved if Kendra asked him questions about that. But I'll leave it for other women to know that. He also stated that he is a night owl and that contributes to his PTSD maybe. I see some red flags. That's why he also dated and hasn't found anyone that can handle his problems.
Oh wow that’s interesting I was confused by that statement… I wonder why didn’t he correct her? By not saying anything he’s implying he makes over $1 mil a year through his company …some of these girls gone be real disappointed
I'm not looking for a partner but damnnnn I LOVE this brother ❤. So refreshing to watch this sessions with a good quality man❤. Sending you some love from 🇿🇦 my brother. You're the kind I could befriend.
If you are that guy, I'd beg to differ. Future, Nick Cannon, my brother with a 17yr old, got married to a Nike Fitness Model that is also an attorney and partner at her firm. Women like leaders and stability. And there no macro level evidence that supports your claim. Look up successful athletes, entertainers, and public figures and you'll see women line up to be baby momma #6 day in and day out.
@@BnMGarage that’s not a leader making babies 👶and moving on that’s a follower, everyone does that. Then they deal with women who don’t have it all obviously. Can’t get past smart women with the bs
@@BnMGarage she meant *quality* women; which is why he’s up here. name a woman of quality nick cannon has exclusively had after having his first 2 kids with mariah carey? future was lucky to get ciara because she was naive. and between the both of them, they’re still unmarried, 40+, dating gold-diggers. the “lack of evidence” is the problem with society but makes it even more evident that a beautiful woman ≠ quality a rich man ≠ quality
This felt like a teams meeting 😫😂
Right, giving coworker energy! He’s too serious and picky, not chill or fun. That is hurting himAll those other good attributes mean nothing.if your ‘tude ie wack
You funny! It did tho…I zoned out a few times. lol
@@humbleheart2650 that's why he's making more than 80k/month
Especially since I watch at work…with popcorn
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Wait I didn’t realize Kendra said y’all be looking like radio Raheem 🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂I giggled sooooo hard 😂😂
I forgot that you can't put gifs on here lol
I was trying to put in one with his "love hate" brass knuckles
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Kendra can be funny AF. 😂
Why does a top 1% dude with many options need to come on here to find the best woman? 🧢🧢🧢
You'll never find out...like most in the comments yall have no idea what it's like for successful black men. U up here chatting like a broad
Because he can. Simple as that. 💯
Because he's not 1%
@moblaze212 most with options would try to be as invisible as can be. Especially today, no pictures, no video, no social media.
Sometimes, your circles don't really have what you might be looking for and you might be averse to dating apps etc. Kendra isnt always a last ditch effort for people
That being said, true or not you couldn't catch me ever saying Im a 1% man 😂
I appreciate his honesty. He seems very mature and upfront.
As a woman without children i would never date a man with children who doesn't want a woman with children...
Woman look for stepfathers, don’t provide.
Men will have to provide for something that isn’t his & doesn’t look for a stepmother
@@jmar385 I understand your logic . But not waiting to date yourself is weird
Nobody cares. You're not special
He wants someone to fit into his life. He understands time and expense. If he is looking for an east African woman in America, he will likely need to convince her family and show he will take care of her.
He didn't say he didn't want a woman with kids. He said that if a woman has kids, her parenting situation has to be drama-free like his is. In that regard, he's not asking for a standard that he doesn't meet.
Very intelligent confident without arrogance❤
I'm surprised so many people are coming for him. He responded to every question with class and was actually able to breakdown the rationale as to why he's in the top 1% . I wish him all the best, he's classy and successful and he didn't speak down on his critics
It's because they aren't use to seeing this quality of individual on this show. They say that's what they want but when they are presented with it they don't know how to act or feel intimidated and they project their own insecurities.
They internalizing his words as though he were speaking to them 😂
It doesn't even matter about people coming for him. He just proposed to his girlfriend on some football field after a game. I guess he did something right.
I love the fact that he sounds like he knows who he is & what he wants. A lot of people seem confused nowadays & he sounds very clear.
This guy is a great representation of a black man. I am proud of you bro.
Minus the delusions
Unpopular opinion...men like him look good on paper but I'm willing to bet he's highly opinionated, judgy, and probably disconnected. With sooooo much good and with plenty of options, why is he here?
Showing off😂
Name a upwardly mobile business owner that isn't?
I guarantee the CEOs you worked for fall in that category. Also high earners don't get there without making the right choices, discipline, and discretion. If you want someone with money, but none of the other qualities.
You're looking for a rapper or entertainer.
He's here bc he's looking for the best. This is like asking why Usher did the superbowl for free. "Publicity and reach"
I mean he confidently said he’s better than others and then threw the “in some capacity” on the end to try to soften in.
Ahhhhhh shut up!!!!!Another woman hating!!!
His expectations are high and not worth it to the women he seeks out. He's not even giving big 🍆 energy and his money is not enough to bypass his character flaws.
can we let child free people have child free people I'm begging.
Imma beg with you😅
Where the childfree women at? Only saw 1 on this show
Her body her choice. If she wants a rich man with kids, let her be "happy".
Nah. Denied
If I said my preference is a childless man I'd be beyond delusional I have a little girl.
Men like him will always remind you he has 'options' because why did he feel the need to stress that out? He'll never offer you any security. You'll always be on your toes.
Well, the one for him won't see that the way u see it
@@fortunatemd3253they should, but sadly you are right. And that's why people keep ending up in bad relationships where they feel unloved.
That's the nature of type A go getters. They demand excellence. A woman who wants to chill or run the show isn't going to work. A woman who loves adding to a man's life, puts here family first and is willing to put lots of work into keeping things successful is what every man wants. But a man has to be at a certain caliber to get and keep that woman too.
interesting statement to me made in a generation where its ok to be in a relationship with a man but on social media half naked seeking attention and validation from other men.
I don’t think there’s any man in the top 1 % that wouldn’t keep you on your toes on one way or the other .
🧢 He definitely in the top 1% of having his eyebrows strategically lined up extra crispy, more than any woman I’ve ever saw😂😂😂
Hilarious
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The eyebrows are what made me come to the conclusion that he wants a man. No straight man would ever need the brows that mf'n crispy.
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Lmaoo 😅😂
Wasn’t ready for marriage but was ready to have not 1 but 2 kids. Those dam Geminis.
Men can't have kids
With a woman he didn’t want?!?! So perplexed.
Gemini males are super confused about what they want.
@@mrod87 just didn’t make sense to me
Aye stap it😂
This was GOOD!! I'll admit I watched the snippet on IG and thought he was arrogant. Not at allI! He's very well established, confident, secure, humble, and knows what he wants, and rightfully so taking nothing less (seriously, Anyway Lol). This is what 90% of women claim they want and only 2% may qualify TO WHAT HE WANTS. I would've loved to hear more of his deal breakers so women can snap onto reality. I wish him the best coming to Houston and finding her. Cuddos especially to him gaining full custody of his teenage girls in today's society! I'm glad I watched the entire interview. Thank you for the great representation Black Man!! 💜
I conquer with you all the way. Well put together by the way... as if I wrote it myself😊😉🙌🏼🙏🏼👍🏽@NJmac460
Kendra needs more men on the program like this.
Absolutely! He's the first normal one I've seen. But you know the fools makes ratings. 😂
Men either kids that think they’re top tier men? With “options” that can’t seem to find someone normally and won’t date others with kids? 😭
Facts👊🏼@@dwaynewilliams7826
Yes she needs men only nights and an elite paid version of her show.
Most women without kids , don’t want a man with 2 kids. Bruh
They do if the bag is big enough.
Nah. Thats not how it works. His nanny does all the work.
They don’t care. They will argue they care to be equal in the comments but reality is that ladies are looking for the best deal on a man, and the best men generally have kids by 30’s
That’s definitely cap most women be sleeping with married men & have a low bar. You haven’t seen enough of the world yet
lol yeaaaaa sure. If that man is 6ft, in shape, attractive, and makes say $250k+ then I guarantee many will.
I love seeing black excellence- Happy Black History Month, kousins!👏🏾
Love to witness a Black man who excels and is on his purpose! 🙌🏾 Keep inspiring and excelling, brother!
Chas is the prize ✅️
Come on, that just sounds weird calling anyone, especially a leader or head of household, a prize. A prize is a possession. Back in the day, men knew that their woman was the prize because they were the leaders and they possessed the prized jewel, i.e. their wives.
@@serious7179 What does your wife have to say about it?
😂😂😂
@@serious7179simpin aint easy
I really don’t think he was bragging, I just think his lifestyle is different and he was just explaining what was asked of him. He seems like a really great guy that wants something specific and he doesn’t mind explaining in detail. He actually seems rather humble but confident.
Yes he sounds very confident which is a great think. Great guy, I think he's a good catch.
This 💯
The less said the better, let us see that you’re a catch rather than ram it down our throats. If he’s that good a catch why come on here to sell himself. 🤔🤔🤔
@@danayi_why not?
@@TyHarrodTXCoz he’d already have someone
Them brows are DONE DONE
😅😅😅snatched!
Is he wearing make-up?
Lmaooo 😂
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@@humbleheart2650to the gods
He got engaged tonight! Congratulations Chas!
He's cool. But you're definitely going to be a business partner vs a romantic partner.
That’s so important for women to know about “high value” men
MO relationships are business partnerships (they should be).
Yeah. This sounded like a job interview.
This dude need to be pinned to the top of all her videos. On paper he’s what women want. But they can’t handle him or his requirements. They’ll still have a problem with this dude. He is who he is because of what he has and what he’s accomplished.
I completely agree!!
ASÈ
Pretty much smh
Yesss pin him 🎯
He has no real flaws. That scares them off, because their flaws get exposed
A high-earning man with low vibrations will always reveal himself the longer he speaks.
Preach
Unfortunately, this comment probably went over so many people's heads. 🙄
So do you want "Vibrations" or high earnings? I never hear women on here talking about vibrations but I always hear women on hear talking about earnings
@@frostnova2144a good wan needs a good man. Not just man that makes good money.
@@frostnova2144You'll hear it the more you hang around these spaces, and it will show you who to avoid! 😉
This brotha killed it. 💯✊🏾
I mean talk your ish man. He is very articulate, has his affairs in order, and didn’t trip when he got push back about being in the top 1%. The fact that there is more to him than just his finances should be considered what’s called a green flag. I know some women would be put off by a man like this why? Because this man can not be controlled or manipulated into a damn thing. He’s truly master of his domain.
Chas gave clear concise answers and it always boggles the mind when men or women are envious and immediately casts doubt on guests when they detail their lives and especially when he said he is in the top 1%. It is very weird that we casts aspersions on other people. This guy seems logical, kind and loving and towards his family and or employees. So many people come over here looking and sounding crazy. He is handsome and able to articulate what he wants. Another example of crabs in the barrel. Most women want this type of man but cannot engage with these type of men.
Gathering leads .....took me out 😂
That is exactly what he's doing. He is trying to grow his business even more. This man has no problems dating. Especially where he lives. This was better than him paying for a Super Bowl commercial!
@@Bklyn112 the headphones and talking points were a dead give away ...
Like he solving a crime 😂
@@Bklyn112 If he didn't have a problem dating then he wouldn't be on this show tbh 😬
He’s insufferable & probably extremely boring & rigid
I would love to see more black men with his credentials on this show.
You already know they gone say, there's not enough quality women on this show that line up with that😂
Why they don’t date black women. He just said Eritrean
Same!!!
@@TheeCookingChannelThey’re Black
@@Jolie19Official they don’t see themselves as black. The rhetoric of East Africans is insane.
He’s confident, intelligent, assertive, knows what he wants and he’s not compromising ❤ Good luck women! I’m happy with my man but Good luck may the best woman wins 🎉
He kept trying to slide in that watch, by any means 😂😂💀
He is 🤡 .
Making 80K calling himself a 1% man.
Didn’t bother to research what a 1% man is.
😂😂🤣 by any means necessary 😂😂
@@sheilae.9670 Lmao telling you! He wasn’t playing 😂😂😭
@@jessicas.3110 😂😂💀💀
@@nmmboy facts 🤣😂
This guy has it together some woman is going to be lucky to have him & he's handsome
I personally am attracted to leaders, confident men, always have. They know how to turn the “arrogance” down with the right woman. He’s not for everyone but seems like a catch to me.
Sh○○t your sh○t. Best of luck. Come back and let us know why you couldn't stay with him.
A catch to someone..
apparently I’m too short 🤣😏
Most military men ‘present’ this way but once you’re married it’s hell. I’ve heard sooo many stories of "perfect’ couples I think most just aren’t used to meeting grown men. There’s a reason he’s single too.
Exactly and I left a comment upove for other women to read. Men that have been in the military have many issues. I don't believe he hasn't found anyone but he is single for those problems obviously. I don't believe him and I can identify many problems based on everything he is saying, PTSD, he stays up and many other problems. But he covers well until the women gets past the beginning stages with him.
Exactlyyyy. Once you date them u start to see oooo I see why ur ass single Lololol
My husband is a military brat and he is wonderful but he have Islam so I guess that helps with his mannerisms and how he is as a man; so I can’t say they are hell because mine is rare and special in general Masha Allah( God willed it) .
Got to go the extreme. Could just be a regular guy with none of that bile your bringing up
Yes
Finally someone that seems to have some sense on this show! 👏🏽 kudos to n him
Seriously it’s been hard these last few weeks
My boy said gathering leads 😂
On a dating show. Wild af
😂😂😂😅
He can actually back up his talk. Hes’s legit. Good luck!
U not going for him
@@JCRFit I have a man.
and they still hatin on him lol
Maaaan if this isn't motivation enough to get your ish together, men AND women...then nothing will be enough. What's crazy is that women all day talk about how we want a man like him but when he appears, these comments show why you still haven't found him.
Because the majority can’t attract nor keep this caliber of man. Easier to criticize than admit defeat.
@@pickmeisha What “caliber” is he? He’s a single father with baggage and should choose women like him.
Thank you for representing VA positively young man! I'm from Richmond and I wish I could see more young men like him. He would have been good for one of my daughters.
He is def in the top percent. His personality may not work for some but he gives me LEADER! He may come off a bit uptight but that’s a man that has no time to play games. He’s structured, has discipline in life, competent, independent and financially stable!
I’m also a business owner and I understand his personality. He seems like a great catch! He’s a consistent man and it shows imo!
I like Chas! He's confident ! And a black successful man!
what's your IG?
Certainly succeeded in a poor land like iraq😂
He seems okay. Only red flags I picked up on is the fact that he prefers a childless woman even though he has children, and he seems like he would be very unforgiving and cut you off fast. You can't have a relationship with longevity if you're cutting people off every time they do something you don't like.
Why is him wanting a childless woman a red flag? If what he says is true and he is top 1 percent financially he can command that on the dating market.
@kevinmathis7352 I wondered the same thing, too. My only red flag was that he came to the show. At his 1% level and his position in life, he has absolutely no business looking for love on this show.
@@fortunatemd3253 now that I agree with. He's going to pollute his real dating pool. Now he has more women to pick from but too many won't be what he wants.
The biggest red flag was he was married, but never lived in the same home. He has major commitment issues. NOBODY is good enough for him.
Really? I picked up a lot. One major one is the fact that he nonchalantly admitted to defrauding the government, made it seem like he got married because of his children, he said I don’t want a mother to my children but say I want a woman who can be a good mentor. That bs about (I have a 17 & 12 we are pass step mother) what a gaslighting tactic 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️. This man is a waking red flag when you actually know what you are listening to. He’s 1% but out here looking for women on a show? Nah he’s looking for a pounding to dip. This man was telling people what they wanted to hear. He’s a red pill listener. Even Andrew Tate left red pill. 😂😂😂😂 he gives me that feel that he wants him prioritized over the woman. I don’t think he wants a relationship that about a relationship. He wants a woman that will be about him and him alone. He will not reciprocate that same love. He gives that energy that it’s him or the highway
Attractive, well spoken, successful and CONFIDENT! 😍
I enjoyed this interview. Seems like a great guy. Wishing you luck Chaz.
Successful, sapiosexual, leader, great father, marriage minded, tall, dark, handsome, well spoken, professional, not sex driven, mature, confident, actually wants to date a blk woman,,, & also date in his age range. Good luck to him 🌸
He may be top 1% but his lack of humility is very unappealing. When you lead with your wealth, you attract A1 gold diggers who will bleed a ninja dry. Good luck sir!
Agreed! He is too serious and not fun. Women are probably uncomfortable around him once they get over his looks. Arrogance off the chain.
@str8visionatl touché 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@humbleheart2650 See this is what ya'll don't understand about certain men. Dudes with careers etc aren't fun guys.
@@humbleheart2650 nah he good you just confused you think he should be more like a woman . Because everything you described is what a hard working man of value is . And women aren’t uncomfortable around guys like him he’s what they want. Arrogance comes along with being part of 1%
I loved it and lots of luck too you. He’s on the level many will not achieve
Love it bro real men recognize real men respect! ✊🏾
Kendra's getting good male candidates. Articulate educated attractive emotionally mature financially stable healthy
This man right here is high value men most women are not going to be able to handle him can tell he is highly intelligent ❤️🥰 he deserves love
Y'all afraid of what you're NOT use to!💯
Please say it again!!! 👏🏽
THIS!!
Exactly, this brother is really top 1% in every metric
It is so refreshing the last few guys that have come onto this show are confident got there stuff together and have expectations for the woman they want that’s nonnegotiable. I know this makes some black women upset because they want the men to jump through the hoops for them and accept their bad attitudes and kids by multiple baby daddies because they think that they’re special Way to go fellas. Good luck finding the woman you want on this platform.
🎯🎯🎯
but look at the hate..
Anytime ppl say “he think he better than everyone else” 9/10 HE IS since you said it. He’s on his sht 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 stop hating 😅
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🤩🤩🤩
I like that he's on this show. He is what most women want. The problem is, a man with all these qualities will have standards. Women want this man but want him not to understand his place in the market. You won't get a man like this and have him simp for you at the same time. Brothers like this is who Kevin Samuels was speaking for. HVM are rare. Plus, they aren't easy to please. This is what NOT Settling looks like. I think brothers like this intimidate some women. Good luck brother. You've worked hard to get where you are. You deserve all the fruits of your work.
Seven figure women are not easy to intimidate so I don't that's the problem. He may just be too arrogant and too bent on everything revolving around him. In his mind, it's his world and people just live in it. So if strong women are what it take why did those seven figure women run away from him.
@@MsRenaissance you assume they ran from him. Why? All the highly successful men I know are arrogant. That's what you get when you want 6 feet, 6 figures and 6+ inches. The humble guy that has all those traits isn't single. He probably got married early and in a long marriage right now, that's why he's humble. Don't hate the messenger. Women made it like this, for not wanting an average basic man.
@@crow2swann5 You guys are really all the same. Most humble guys aren't married and faithful because having less makes them perfect. They're married and faithful because he doesn't have as many options so he grabbed onto who would take him and can't let go. But I guarantee if he had the options he would behave the same.
@@MsRenaissance don't be mad. Women do the same thing. Anyone with options is going to hold out for the best option. But it's triggering only when men do it?
@crow2swann5 What's there to be mad about Sir? I have no dogs in this fight. Like I said, I just watch from the sidelines as women try to tangle themselves up in marriage with you guys. I've alr3ady done it and not very interested in ever doing it again. So as much as you want to think all women are that interested, some of us are not. Some of us only watch for the entertainment and give our two cents in the comments section. So you're barking up the wrong tree.
He runs a consulting firm....he helps vets get 100% disability.
I checked out a few things he was saying. And so far they came up as legit. I didn't dig deeper, just on the surface level. He is very confident and sure of himself. Which is great. But I still don't get why he is single. Men make time for what they want.
That’s probably why. He hasn’t made time yet. I did the same and looked at his IG. Hopefully, he’s truly seeking for the woman he wants. She will have to be willing to relocate, that’s for sure. The only thing he said, which I hear women say too, was his children are almost grown, that’s just not so. There are certain formative years in a child’s life, when their parent’s guidance is crucial. Their first 4 years of life, and the years they’re going through puberty. Other than that, I thought he interviewed well, and could back up what he was saying.
Why should a "top 1%" guy be in a relationship? Y'all expect men to think like women.
He doesn’t want a Wife, I think he likes to impress and Loves Attention.
Why do people keep referring to children well under 18 as almost grown
Exactly
18 is considered an adult. His daughter is 12. That is closer to 18 then it is to a newborn. Common sense ma'am.
The mentality of some of these kids are almost on an adult level..
Yeah a 12 year old can’t even drive. I can understand saying that if they’re 16/17
That's not hardly grown.
Served his country, educated, what majority of women are looking for. Has plenty of options yet… here we are. For you single ladies my advice to get close to him is to “LET HIM TALK “ he’s going to fall in love with you. 😂
Ladies, don’t get mad, if you don’t qualify, stop tearing this man apart! This brother got his ish together and he knows it! Pop your ish king! Be as picky as you can be! What I’m starting to realize is that lots of women want a six figure man, who’s six feet, but they don’t want that man to have standards! Lol! It doesn’t work like that! Be picky brotha, be picky, you have the handle and they have the blade! ✊🏿✊🏿
I agree good representation of a black man. This show needs more of these type of men.
Yeah Men like tht have the privilege of being selective...Women, step your game up 😅 the children turned me off, havin non myself but i wish him luck 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
It’s interesting that you choose to insult women to validate this man when if I look at these comments the negativity seems to be general among both sexes. Truth be told I can tell by the type of comment, misspellings and assumptions made what the education level and life experience level of the commenter. Which is more telling than generalizing the ladies. Not picking on you but I challenge you to not generalize women and look a little deeper.
@@elleinthea1678 awwww! I hit a nerve huh? 🤣FOH!!! Since as we’re picking UA-cam commentary apart, proof read your paragraph and search for punctuation errors before you send it out “English language” major! Bye!✌🏿 😂😂😂
They want us to have standards but never any that don't fit them specifically
Ummm that watch is over $40k😳😳 look... he looking for employees?? Me and my hubby ready to work!!😂
😂😂😂
I'm ready to file a claim. 😆
I SCREAMED at this comment 🤣 girlllllll 😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Dude made sure to get that watch in every chance he got
I'm disturbed by this man having two teenaged daughters that he has full custody of being raised by a nanny, while he tries to take over the world with a living mother I would have liked to go into further detail on this point bc I have a feeling....🤔
What's the issue?
Lol! Wow! You're using "disturbed"? Interesting choice of words. 🤔He said he also has a nanny, his nanny is not taking care of his kids.
We are just not used to a father having custody. Nothing wrong with that Sis. He may be the better parent.
@@jzloveinfinite Perhaps, I def need more information, I've known of cases that present this way that are far different in nature than they appear...
I have HUGE concerns about this too after he made the statement twice about having full custody and put emphasis on it I was IMMEDIATELY triggered about it! I feel like something is off but I could be wrong
I like him- quietly confident and gracious. He strikes me as a thinker and a planner- both excellent partner traits! I do think it’s odd that he’s on the show but he said that he likes to try new things. He doesn’t do anything for me but I’m rooting for him! 👍🏾☺️
I think this is very fair! Well said 😊 nice to see a grounded opinion
The men in here fighting for his life is sending meeeeee😂😂😂😂 y'all better stan for your friend
😂😂😂 same girl
Great Representation of Black Men 💪🏾
Most definitely 💯 🔥💯
Just as you were, Nu
Financially yes but heart, care and compassion TBD I hope there’s more to him than a bank account.
As are you, Brother Nu! 💪🏾
@@dw9054exactly. The black community is so off. Money and height does not equal character and integrity.
He's a breath of fresh air. Love the confidence and intellect.
I wish that Kendra would post more brothers like this on her show. Letting these women know that they need to step up their game.
Hats off to his brother he will make a lucky woman, a good man.
Great interview...hopefully he meets his special person and comes back to give an update.
Thanks!
Damn, he’s a good catch. I’m way too old for him but I would def hit him up if I was the right age. He is articulate, attractive and best of all an involved parent.
Why can’t he find a women lol 😂 red flag 🚩 since he so great ? Men set the tone.
I love his confidence! Good luck Chas!
This seems like a solid brother. His purpose in life is to help others and he is taking care of his responsibilities. Lol why all of the hate, some of you all are too miserable and it's showing.
By the end of this video, it is clear that he is full of himself. He is incredibly picky and absolutely not worth what is required to keep him happy or even satisfied. Even a "perfect woman" would be walking on eggshells. Would only possibly consider another child (has 2 girls) if it is a boy and he would control that outcome by paying for the science. Never considered that a woman may love to have their own girl. The thing is, we leave this earth with nothing at all. I've stumbled on quite a number of very wealthy, very charming, very successful men I could have had in my life through the years. I would have had it all and nothing at all because I would have been unhappy.
You don’t get to determine his worth just like y’all tell men. You’re projecting your own insecurities because you don’t meet his qualifications.
He is calling himself a 1% man but makes 80K what a joke 🤡🤡🤡
💯plus he’s not who he pretends to b aka “open minded” peak the game of this phony poser 🧢
@@jbadams56 You don't know me nor my qualifications. He is not my type, but I am sure tons of women are interested in him.
Yapping
Ladies, if yall reach out, just remember, you asked for that misery. Soon as something go wrong, he gonna let you know that he's a 1% man and you can be replaced. Just go find yourself a regular type dude ladies. We out here being good husbands to good women.
Amen. We see through him.
Sounds like you are jealous
@@Sandra-p1g why would I be jealous?!? I’m happily married.
@@craigjoyner9857 how u know? U dated men like this?
He maybe a good guy or maybe not but you're judgement of him is as bad as what extremely beautiful women go thru
Ppl think they get approached quite often when that's far from the truth, those women are often lonely becuz there beauty is a blessing and a curse.
- Don't be so quick to judge
He's been watching for a week but did not know what Kendra Cam is?
Oh he knew what it was because he started to stand up then asked what it was.
He probably watched a little snippet of the videos he seems like a busy guy it probably slipped his mind
I actually really enjoyed listening to this, this guy seems humbled, here this man making money and just have such a refreshing look on things.
unfortunately that means you’re naive
@@edithandleznah she’s not naive. You’re projecting your trauma and insecurities on the internet passing it off as wisdom. Miserable and sad woman
I agree
..humble where..?
@@edithandlezexactly..... I feel so badly for some of the women on these comments.... It's like they can't recognize good from bad. He is obviously not humble at all. You can be calm and articulate and still be as prideful and arrogant as all get out smh
Amazing some of these comments about a brother who is able to communicate what he wants and appears to be a successful man who is a single father? After seeing male prostitutes, instacart drivers, and chefs with warped realities, it is good seeing a fellow soldier represent himself well. #salute✊🏿
I love this interview. I love confidence and receipts to back them!!!
He seems like a great catch! Best of luck to ya 👍🏾 I know them DMs finna be FLODDED lol
All these women have no problem wanting a man that makes six figures, over six feet, etc; until they come across a man that has standards of his own.
💯😂. That’s why if I like someone, I always have in my mind that they have wants and desires as well. It’s like some people come in this show wanting someone but will never take into consideration what that person wants.
😂 you having standards is not on their requirements list
He may attract more clients for his firm
I suspect that's the reason he's here. Started a UA-cam channel fairly recently so might be looking for subscribers. He's wearing an AP and said that he's in many spaces so I'm sure he meets many prospective wives. He also said he was here just "gathering leaves."
@@Bklyn112🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I love “gathering leaves” ❤ I thought he said “gathering leads” but I like what you said much more. 😂
I bet this dude has red pill content.
😂 😂😂look I don't like hating on peeps, but when that energy is beaming it's hard to deny😂😂
He is not lying he is he is a part of the 1% and he knows it and that is great for him ladies it's a good man now doing him right
Some people who are very successful do not make good partners because they are too controlling and domineering. He seems like a good man, but the woman will have to fit that little part of the puzzle of "his life", no room for her personality, desires or demands. That's why it didn't work out with any of the women he's been with because in his mind, it's his world and the woman just lives in it. Also, he's dealing with multiple people because maybe he feels he's too much for just one person and he says he's taking his sweet time to select so he's wasting their life while enjoying his.
If I was in the 1%, you wouldn’t see or hear from me. But anyway good luck to him, no doubt he’ll find a chick who will love him for his high earnings
I really really liked how he showed care and concern for kg by simply asking her “are you ok? You good?” when she dropped her pen. ❤
When a man knows his worth … Well deserved …. Good luck and GOD Bless🙏🏾
This man was amazing. I hope he finds what he is looking for
😂 Kendra looks nice. And she funny. I'm glad Chas is very independent. And he takes care of his kids. He has beautiful skin and eyebrows. Good luck to Chas and his kids.
I met a few Eritrean women, they were beautiful+smart. I hope bro comeback with an update even if he just tell us how many people was just crazy💯
Great Catch!!! ♥♥♥
Can never understand how a man can hate on another man that's on his ish. Quit hating and get your shit together, if you're focused on bettering yourself in every metric you won't have the time to hate.
Most hate on those doing better than them. You won't find a person doing well hating on those with less.
Nice!!!! Clean guy and very direct. I love it.
The fact that he put two babies in this woman but wasn’t ready to be married to her…. Smh. Other than that, he seems cool.
He was in his 20’s
They got married by proxy, meaning he was deployed. They divorced when he got back.
He got all the VA government contracts 😂🗄🔥🤑
He gets a % of the veterans benefits after filing the paperwork for them. Which is cool, most veterans don't mind especially if they can get more with his help. But he's NOT doing it out of the kindness of his heart. I know this from experience.
@@rayb2410Agreed! The careers that are truly because you genuinely care and do it for the “love of the game” don’t pay very well (I.e social workers, teachers, etc) They are the real MVP’s tho. I’m not knocking military man’s hustle, just making a point.
Guys that has been in the military are often times violent and struggle with PTSD. So would have loved if Kendra asked him questions about that. But I'll leave it for other women to know that. He also stated that he is a night owl and that contributes to his PTSD maybe. I see some red flags. That's why he also dated and hasn't found anyone that can handle his problems.
Kendra, payroll is not paycheck. Payroll is what he’s paying out to employees.
🎯💯🤜🏾🤛🏾
Are you just finding out she’s not that smart?
@@allmylifeihadtofight9815 😂
Oh wow that’s interesting I was confused by that statement… I wonder why didn’t he correct her? By not saying anything he’s implying he makes over $1 mil a year through his company …some of these girls gone be real disappointed
@@KenniRae23 he did try to correct her. But like most of the guest, he just gave up.
I'm not looking for a partner but damnnnn I LOVE this brother ❤. So refreshing to watch this sessions with a good quality man❤. Sending you some love from 🇿🇦 my brother. You're the kind I could befriend.
He's handsome, intelligent, and appears sincere and serious about finding his person. I love it.
Women without kids don’t want men with kids
Women want a lot of things. They'll gladly compromise on this. Let's not fool ourselves.
If you are that guy, I'd beg to differ. Future, Nick Cannon, my brother with a 17yr old, got married to a Nike Fitness Model that is also an attorney and partner at her firm.
Women like leaders and stability. And there no macro level evidence that supports your claim. Look up successful athletes, entertainers, and public figures and you'll see women line up to be baby momma #6 day in and day out.
@@BnMGarage that’s not a leader making babies 👶and moving on that’s a follower, everyone does that. Then they deal with women who don’t have it all obviously. Can’t get past smart women with the bs
@@BnMGarage she meant *quality* women; which is why he’s up here. name a woman of quality nick cannon has exclusively had after having his first 2 kids with mariah carey? future was lucky to get ciara because she was naive. and between the both of them, they’re still unmarried, 40+, dating gold-diggers. the “lack of evidence” is the problem with society but makes it even more evident that
a beautiful woman ≠ quality
a rich man ≠ quality
Women without kids that have common sense don’t want men with kids.