Anorexia Struggles - 24 Hours in A&E - Medical Documentary
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- Опубліковано 20 вер 2024
- 24 Hours in A&E - S16 E15
Witness powerful stories of resilience and family bonds in this emotional episode of 24 Hours in A&E. Follow a teenager's battle with anorexia, a father's recovery after a traumatic accident, and the heartfelt journey of adoption.
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That Mum is awesome.
She is upset and worried, but freely admits she has no ideas how to handle her daughter's mental health issues and wants help.
She never once gave in to her child, she showed tough love. Respect.
I know. I truly hope they come across this video and all of the positive comments.
*never once gave into _the eating disorder_
@@itsdune079 100% agree, appreciate this comment
Any persons watching this program, looking at the dynamics between Sammy and her mother, please understand that mom was in sheer terror for her daughter's life. Mom couldn't help herself, trying to get her daughter to eat. No, her pleading didn't work. The response of the child will always be stubborn resistance. Professional help is needed. No judgment of the parents, please! I went theough this with one of my children. Horrifying. My child survived, thankfully. Watching this mother and daughter sure did bring back feelings of grief, horror, thankfulness...what a mixed bag of emotions.
As a child who has suffered from eating disorder/ negative image of food. You are strong and am so grateful you never gave up. Much love
It’s such a horrible illness for everyone involved. 😢😢😢❤❤❤
How sad it is that a comment like yours is necessary. However, I'm so pleased to hear that you & your child are doing well. I pray for this mother & child. May they both find peace & comfort.
@@elizabethelliot3737 Thank you, and much love to you, too, and please know that in reading your response, I care about you and believe in your recovery and good health and a bright future!
@@dianaavellanet8794 Thank you for your response. I did read judgmental comments about the mother. That was what spurred me to write my comment. I cannot even judge the person judging! People whom have been through the nightmare can understand fully the mother's plight. What a brave family to allow their story to be told. We do pray for the family. The daughter seemed to be well and healthy at the end of the program.
I had a heart attack from anorexia and almost died multiple times. After 3 treatments, i am recovering. I still attend celebrate recovery weekly and see a therapist. My friend died of bulimia, eating disorders will kill unless you get help. I'm so happy she is in recovery and smiling! That a girl, be brave!
Valerie,
I am so proud of all the hard work that you’ve been doing. Keep it up, girl! 🙌
Keep up the hard work!
@valerietaylor1124
Bless you 👍❤️🙏
glad you’re still with us and in recovery. we still need you to stay here a long while more! :)
I’m also in recovery! It’s rough, learning that I deserve to feel good and be healthy is something I never expected to be so challenging. So many ups and downs. I hope your recovery is going well, and I’m extremely grateful that this horrible disease didn’t take you. Sending love 💚
Sammys mum loves her to bits, she’s only doing what all parents should do.
As a teenager, my mom always critised me for being either too thin or too fat. It's a miracle that I didn't end up with an eating disorder.
With me, it was my dad. I think he hated the fact that I'm built just like him.
Wow. That's terrible. I am sorry you had to hear that crap.
Yes! I wasn't what I consider criticized by family but certain comments were made. (Not my parents, btw. It was a grandparent and a couple aunts.) I think they truly meant well but they just didn't think before they spoke. I was incredibly sensitive about my body from the ages of about 12-17. I didn't have an ED but came close to it. My grandmother only had two grandchildren. Myself and my cousin who was a professional model...so that pretty much explains our dynamic. We were always introduced as and referred to as my grandmother's beloved granddaughters. I was the smart one and my cousin was the pretty one, according to a few relatives. My cousin was your typical (naturally) blond hair and blue eyes beauty with a model thin build. I'm a Auburn hair, blue eyed voluptuous build. My grandmother did kinda make me feel better once I got older. She never called me ugly or fat but she did say to me one day "It took you a while but you sure turned into a beauty, finally." (I was 33 years old!)
I never realized it until my cousin and I had a heart to heart talk one day but her self-esteem was probably just as damaged as mine. When we were referred to as the "smart one" and the "pretty one," my cousin heard the "smart one" and the "dumb one.". (She's FAR from dumb.) We joke with each other now about it but back when we were adolescents it really affected us negatively.
as a recovering anorexic parents actually don’t cause eating disorders it’s just a perfect mix of things and also genetics
I'm sorry that your mother didn't know a more effective way to express her concern and that you felt put down. But some of these comments have me wondering what do you say to an overweight or underweight child? Nothing? That's not good parenting. Then years later after they've convinced themselves they're okay because their parents said nothing and they're facing all kind of issues because of their weight which should have been addressed WHILE they were forming their eating habits, what do you say? People do not suddenly in adulthood develop bad eating habits. That starts at home. Not addressing it is not the answer. It's HOW you address it that matters. Suggesting that parents should ignore unhealthiness in their kids is suggesting they neglect them.
My daughter and only child died at the age of 33 from anorexia after a 20 year battle with anorexia. It’s a tragic and painful disease.
I am so very sorry for your loss.
Oh my god, I am so sorry for your loss. So tragic. I can't imagine your pain. 😢 I wish you all the best and that one day you'll be able to experience happiness in little things again. ❤
I am so very sorry for your loss. There really are no words that explain that it's the whole family who suffer to those who haven't lived with it. Please be kind to yourself and know she loved you. Xx
So sorry to hear. Hugs!
I am so very sorry for your loss. There are no words… 💔🌹
I'll never complain about my two teen boys eating us out of groceries 😩. Stay strong Sammie and her amazing mama
5 years of an ed and everyone kept telling me how amazing i looked. Remission for 18 years but its always there
How sad.
Yes it is. Just keep ignoring those voices in your head.
I remember a nutritionist or dietician (whatever it was) asked me if I could maybe start eating yogourt with fruit on the bottom as a sort of compromise and I remember thinking “not a chance….I’ll get fat”. I remember going days and days eating just a green apple which I chose because I figured a tart green apple had less calories than a sweet red apple. I have gained quite a bit since then due to the side effects of a depression medication so I am really down about my body now. Eventhough I’ve gained so much weight, i constantly think about calories and whether I should eat and maybe I don’t really need it. I also got compliments when I was at my worst in terms of disordered eating so it’s hard to abandon those ways. I have children now and I do not discuss weight around them. I cannot pass this onto either of them.
Yes, it is always there for my daughter, too. You are right. Remission is the word. I wish you a long life and contentment.
Try 30. Do you want THAT ?
I’m in recovery from anorexia. I had a recent relapse that sent me spiraling back, but I’m slowly getting through it. Remember guys, 1/5 people with an eating disorder will die as a result of it. You are deserving of recovery. You deserve to feel healthy and happy, you deserve to eat, you deserve to have peace. I know the voice will tell you, “well stop when we hit x” but you won’t. You’ll never be satisfied with the number you see. If you have a moment of wanting to recover, grab it by the neck and don’t let go. Don’t let an eating disorder take another beautiful person.
Take care of yourself and a slip back into your ED is just a slip not a failure. I'm a recovering anorexic for many years. I still have to beat those voices down every now and then. But at least they aren't there all the time anymore. You can do this🎉
Take care and don’t beat yourself up for the relapse! I’m proud of you and send you all my best wishes 🍀
Wah wah wah... 🙄
Stop feeling sorry for yourself
Relapse is part of recovery. It teaches you how to navigate your illness
Wow, for Sammy to have been challenged & actually come out on the other side is hopeful of her continued success. And, to have her allow her story to be told is very encouraging as well.
Prayer for Sammy 🙏 I have been in the same place as her , I struggle a very very long time with this horrible condition 😢.
She’s a beauty! Believe in yourself, Sammy!
Young girls like Sammy need to hear the story of Karen Carpenter and what she did to herself. I wish Sammy nothing but the best and hopefully she can overcome this illness.
-ikr ... !-
My daughter went to treatment in Chicago in Dec 2020 for an eating disorder. She is now 3.5 years in recovery, and I’m so proud of her.
Since treatment, she earned her BSN, passed the nclex, moved to Chicago, started her dream job as a psych nurse and adopted two kittens. There is life after ed! Recovery is possible!
You are worthy of being healed.
Btw, today is her 25th birthday 🎉💓
God is good.
Happy Birthday to your daughter! Wishing all the best in her recovery ❤
WOW! Congratulations to her. I admire her greatly. I'll say a prayer for your daughter for continued recovery and much love from her kittens.
Anorexia has the highest morality rate of all mental illnesses. I hope Sammy stays well. She seemed like a happy baby.
Yes, and sadly is the least funded or understood. In my opinion, if it affected boys as much as it affected girls - this would not be the case.
At least this mother cares about her daughter and getting her help unlike Eugenia Conney’s mother does nothing while her daughter starves herself!
No kidding!
I can't imagine how her mother can watch her slowly disappear, and we all know how it ends unless there's intervention.
It’s how her mother pays the bills. Disgusting.
If people could see this going on, can’t the relatives see this going on. I would walk in there with the police with the ambulance people and get that girl out of that home if the mother is not doing anything about her and her eating disorder.
Seems that way
@@SnowPink90 She has no relatives or friends that are allowed to see her, her mother keeps her away from everyone. People have tried to send the police and wellness checks and legally they can't do anything, she's an adult. Eugenia also pushes everyone away if they try to help, she's been brainwashed by her mother and by the anorexia. It's awful to watch and have there be nothing anyone can do despite many attempts.
My best friend passed away from Anorexia. I hope that anybody that struggles with this illness can get better. Her body just gave up. She went to sleep and never woke back up.
She didn't fall asleep. She died. Accept the truth for what it is. She laid down because her body didn't have anything in it to sustain whatever energy she had left, if any. Her body was dying at that point. God took her before she closed her eyes. That's facts. She didn't lay down to sleep. Her body gave out and she laid down to die.
@@VegasLady81this is probably the most ignorant thing to say to someone grieving. there was literally nothing to pick from what they said to take in a negative light, yet you choose to bring religion into it and act as if she’s not aware of what happened.
@@VegasLady81 As someone who's had her father figure die in his sleep, the fucking nerve.. first of all you don't even know the context or what actually happened, yet you're talking like you were there telepathically at the time. More importantly how fucking dare you try to use religion to spin your version of events. Since you claim to be religious, why don't you use God's teachings on kindness and offer a fucking molecule of sympathy instead of using it to fuel your own narrative..
@@joonbug3856 You know what? I don't give a rat's ass what you think of anything I say. It's not ignorant, it's true. I don't sugar coat anything for anyone. Nobody asked for your irrelevant input anyway. Troll.
I’m so sorry for your loss. It’s an awfully ugly thing to watch a loved one struggle with. I wish you peace and healing 🫶🏼
Raymond reminded me of my Dad. He was always downplaying his injuries so as not to worry anyone. I never knew how bad things were until it was too late. I hope Raymond is more honest with those who care about him and I'm glad he has recovered.
Raymond was much like my dad, too. My dad hid his health troubles as much as he could because he didn't want his family to worry about him. He eventually died of lung cancer.
I agree. He told his wife it was a fall and a check up… my dad was the same. He ended up going to the doctors way too late. I miss him and still need him. I wish he went sooner. I’m sorry about your dad ❤
My dad is getting close to 80…he’s always been healthy af and worked hard…he still works hard, but now he does charity work building houses and gardening. Anyway, Raymond really got to me too, reminded me of my dad. Thankfully he’s finally going to all his checkups and stuff. He had heart surgery like 2 years ago and lives very far away. I think about him constantly, worrying something will go wrong. He is all I have aside from my brother.
I’m sorry for your loss❤ your dad clearly loved you very much!❤
My dad was the same way. I loved him so much ❤
I was terrified the whole time that he died😭 Glad he made it!
Edit: I apologize; sorry about your dad😔💔🫂❤️🩹
U can see how she's checking her collar bones while her mum talked how well she was doing.
My collar bones stick out and I am tall and slim but on the higher side of my BMI weight. Doctors always either look at them or ask me if this is normal for me. Others laypersons have also commented. Why does this indicate something other than lower body weight?
Yes, because she is not well, and anorexia causes obsession with weight and body shape.
I can see how somebody with an eating disorder would gauge their weight by doing that. Just like the fentanyl addicts I know are constantly checking their pulse by their carotid artery in their neck. Certain things create certain habits in people that indicate they aren’t doing well.
@@elizabetherne556that’s a thing? as someone who used to struggle with substance use disorder and with fentanyl, no one i know or myself have ever consistently checked their carotid pulse.
Such loving Mom, so smart to just hug her and comfort her gently. I hope she gets well soon.
It is very clear that the Carpenter who fell 10 Feet and his wife did an absolutely amazing job parenting their adopted daughter. She appreciates everything they did for it, she is incredibly grounded and logical, but also has extensive empathy for her adoptive parents and biological brother.
Watching this episode it’s almost identical to my experience. The age, the words Sammy’s mum was saying to her and the way she was talking about her daughter.. even down to the first night experience.. I felt like I was watching myself at 14.
I’ve never related more to an experience and I truly wish Sammy the absolute best in her recovery❤
I understand how Sammy feels, I’ve been in the same state of mind when I was in my 20’s. It’s very hard to get out of that mindset. I was battling depression and anxiety. Even though I got out of the mindset of seeing myself as being overweight, I’m still dealing with depression and anxiety. I’m glad Sammy is doing well and I hope others can learn from her journey and know that there’s help for them too. Love to all those who are struggling with their health issues whether it’s physical or mental and I will keep all of you in my prayers. 😊❤😊❤
@arneciachatmon9757, it is hard to get out of the mindset. I am thankful that you survived. I know that remnants of the disease can be depression and anxiety. i feel for you and pray for you. You are a believer in God, that is good! My child had to be admitted to a hospital for treatment. She suffers as you do with anxiety and depression. Yet I have faith that she will return to God, as she has disavowed faith at the moment. You have a great helper in your belief. God bless you, dear one....
You’re in my prayers, too. 🥰
I have such compassion for Sammy as someone who has dealt with anorexia for many years. Nothing a mother can say is ever enough, and the guilt that others are trying so hard to help (or fix you) only drives the maladaptive behaviors around food, one’s body, and exercise.
To the beautiful lady who was adopted, remember you were the answer to your parents prayers. ❤❤❤
I pray Sammy keeps making progress, her mom is a very strong woman who is there to help not control. You stay strong in this it’s not an easy battle I know. Bless you and your family. I’ll be praying for you
I can say this from experience the mother is terrified that she's going to lose her daughter but the daughter is terrified that you're going to put the weight back on her
Well said.
Totally agree, I have been that mother.
Oh, sweet Sammy. I hope she recovers; it's so, so difficult.
Eating disorders really are crazy in how they effect the mind. That girl is in hospital because she’s underweight enough that it’s effecting her heart and blood pressure, but when her mum’s asking her what things she’s willing to eat she’s still obsessing over calorie intake and sugar. I feel so bad for anyone that goes through that. It must truly be an awful state of mind to be in.
So very proud of Sammy for recognizing her illness, that is not easy. I felt so heartbroken for her when she was so scared and didn’t want to stay in the hospital, but she truly handled it all so well for being so sick and vulnerable. I hope she’ll continue to heal and gets all the help and support she needs.
So disturbing to see someone who is bleeding internally start to vomit up blood. As someone who has experienced this, it’s very terrifying and you feel absolutely awful. 😞
The mum really is amazing, she mentioned feeling bad that she didn’t notice earlier and I feel for her. I struggled with anorexia but I never told anyone and made sure no one ever noticed. I would throw food out of my window or say I ate already. Convinced my mom I simply lost weight because of how much I was working out with sports during high school. This was 6 years ago when it started and about 3-4 years ago when I started recovering and she still never found out. It’s not that I couldn’t trust her but that I didn’t want to disappoint or worry her. I still struggle occasionally but am doing much better now. This mom is doing her very best and so is the daughter and I applaud them both.
This was an exceptional episode.
The WORST thing you can tell an anorexic is ‘just eat’. First thing you think is ‘I’m not eating’. I’m 45, I’ve had a BMI of 16 or lower since age 15. I now have lasting effects of restricted eating including osteoporosis, muscle wasting, GI distress and heart arrhythmia. Early intervention is imperative. Sammy is the perfect age to receive proper treatment. I wish her well ❤
Excellent program! Wish they had these hospital videos each day. The hospital staff is always so caring.
Keep being strong Sammy! Wish her the best and prayers.
I think Sammy’s Mom is an amazing woman and mother. With her strong support Sammy can beat that.
Hope this beautiful girl has success in her treatment. Hugs to her and her momma
Raymond reminds me so much of my dad. watching his story was bringing me to tears.
Raymond's story was touching. I was very relieved to see him recovered.
I feel the same way as Ella that I’m very fortunate I was adopted by my parents!! I’ve never felt like I was an adopted daughter but their daughter plain and simple just loved like flesh and blood!
You will have to treat the mind (finding the cause and treating if) as well as the body, or else nothing will change 😢
I hope she recovers totally ❤
So happy to see the many, many replies to those who share their experiences with eating disorders. Gives me faith in humanity seeing all the support and expression of kindness. Your comment might just make a difference in someone‘s life.
I have such an unbelievable respect for emergency doctors and nurses after two near death experiences I pray for my helpers often and their families.
Anorexia Nervosa is a BEAST.
Made it through that ... not the typical case ( male ... trauma-induced, "self-control"-mania ), but believe me,
there is a reason of such a huuuuge relapse risk and death percentage.
Evil ... such a good turnaround at the end, happy for her 🙂
Sammy, you are amazing.
The mom is super involved and present, but I sure wish that she would let her daughter answer questions herself.
The little Supergirl is so cute. My granddaughter is going to be 3 in July.
It's Wonder Woman socks. She was the female hero in my generation Supergirl came later. She is so cute in her costume!
@@sheilasamuels1066but he t-shirt is a supergirl’s one
UA-cam should ban accounts that promote eating disorders. This poor mum must feel so helpless.
Way to go, Sammy! You’ve got this! One day you will look back and know that all this is in the past and you are going to be healthy and happy. You are bright and beautiful and I bet you would someday make an amazing counselor for eating disorders or other struggles.
One day at a time and love from the US😊
Dear Sammy, even though I don’t know you, I want you to know I believe in you. You are doing so good. So many of life’s surprises and moments to discover are waiting for you.
Lovely family of man who fell. A grateful daughter and adoring wife & mother.
I had always been a healthy weight, a little more on the thin side, and then I had 4 back surgeries to try and correct complications from a herniated disc. I gained so much weight and at my heaviest I was 203lbs (I am a petite man 5'4"). I just accepted it and avoided mirrors and tried not to have my picture taken. A Facebook memory popped up of one of the rare times my full body photo was taken, and it shocked the heck out of me. I ended up losing 70lbs, but had to be treated for bulimia and developed diverticulitis. I am middle aged, and eating disorders can affect young and old, male and female. I am now at a healthy weight again, but through diet and exercise. So thankful to the doctors and therapist and am so lucky not to have developed anorexia.
Im glad you are recovering. While they do affect all demographics, there is a SIGNIFICANTLY higher rate among young women
@@nataliemamo8709 not sure I agree with the significantly higher for females, it happens to all demographics, men usually don't discuss it as freely as women do which is why it's underreported for males
I absolutely love this program. I know I speak for millions of us when I say we are so grateful to our medical professionals, our caregivers, those who care for us and save our lives.
Raymond is very lucky to have such a loving caring daughter and wife. His daughter won the parent lottery.
And Sammy learned a gigantic lesson…your parents won’t always be there for you, you need to remember we are gifted with one body and it was made perfectly in God’s eyes. Sammy is beautiful and you can tell she is so loved. Now she’s learning to love herself ❤
That poor mom 🤦🏼♀️❤️🩹 My heart breaks for her
As an anorexia survivor- well I should say it kind of always stays with you. God bless my mother that’s no longer with me,and I know she meant it in a way because she was incredibly worried. She said, please just eat a piece of cake every day it’ll help you get better” unfortunately, it isn’t simple like that and that’s not the way to get better. She was trying to be supportive as possible, a little to much. When my weight was at my dangerously lowest, she would get so scared. She’d make me get on the scale every morning.
for over 15 years my weight was extremely low, but by 2017 I started to get better with help - it’s still a struggle sometimes just to let you know to all those suffering there is hope.
I am very moved by these stories bravo to the families for their love and support
Well done mum, this thing is so wildly difficult. It’s so hard to know what to say or do, and we try to do our best. So so hard, and so much love to you! In Australia, there are supports around learning how to support peeps with anorexia, I so hope those supports are there for you too. So much love and good wishes xx
A horrible disease! Seeing that these poor afflicted people are constantly surrounded by food.
We are all our own worst enemy 💔
Any thoughts on Euginia Cooney?
IM SO PROUD OF SAMMY 😭💕 You can see how much happier she looks ❤
awww i absolutely adore the mum and I'm so happy sammy is doing better!
Fear of eating again is a reality no matter what age you are when you are fighting anorexia. It isn't just a young girl's disease. It affects all demographics
If anything it becomes more complex as you get older. A young person starting out like me in my teens has spent 7+ years recovering + relapsing over and over whenever a hard life event occurs.
It’s a coping mechanism, the damage from years of restriction does shrink your brain and prevent development. And the inherent trauma of being anorexic and having to cope with it stealing years of your life makes you almost complacent to the disease as it leaves you quite hopeless. Even when you miraculously stabilize physically, the mental game of it doesn’t disappear.
I was 94 pounds at 5’9 and I was at ER and they let me go. I was suffering from not wanting to eat normally but they didn’t care. There needs to be anorexia awareness for those that need medical attention.
Luckily God saved me because I would have kept going lower.
If I had gone to the doctors’ every time I fell or bumped my head as a kid I’d been in the ER all the time.
Beautiful young girl, Sammy
My heart broke when Sam apologized to her Mom 😭
I understand, Samantha. I had body issues since public school ( I'm 47 now) and still have body issues. For me, it was bullying . I don't (not sure how to say it) think social media and bullying today aren't the best . I had a schoolmate who died of anorexia from bullying . Please, please get help YOU ARE WORTH IT!!!!😊
anorexia is a symptom of a deeper issue
Yup. If you notice, the mom answers for her even tho the daughter can obvs speak for herself. The is a typical teen/parent power struggle.
Dear Sam, you are so beautiful and you have so much to look forward to in your life. You can do this, you are stronger than you know. 💗
To Raymond and your family, I am so happy you made a great recovery. ❤️🇦🇺🦘
This show is so well done 👍❤️🙏
As an occupational therapist I thought it was super interesting that no one thought to adjust the neck brace with the first gentleman. He’s moving his head around just enough that if there was a super fragile injury to his spine or potential for injury to the spinal column you wouldn’t want anyone to have even the slightest of movement.
Raymond, you have a lovely family. Glad you recovered. 🎶💐
Industrial first aid attendant here. That neck collar on the fellow that fell was WAY too loose. He could pull it around and turn his head. Whomever put it on him needs to put them on tighter. Or, if he loosened it himself, he really shouldn't have.
Patient with chronic pain/joint problems including with the neck here- the one point of securement neck collars aren't the best when it comes to fitting every person.
I prefer the two point securement neck collars. I personally have an Aspen Vista collar and it not only has the velcro on either side of the neck but also has a knob to adjust the height of the neck. Of course my instructions for use are mainly limited to helping with migraine symptoms but the Aspen Vista line can accommodate most people of various sizes/neck heights for properly discouraging movement of the head and neck.
Sammies story hit home I truly hope she is doing better now her mother was such a good support
i would never cry to my mom abt my mental health issues, i just know she wont know how to handle it shes so emotional and weak it's so frustrating sometime bc at some point i really need her to be a mom and stand up next to me but she cant so i always keep things to myself, i feel like mom is a child, which i dont blame her for, she gave birth to me at 18 and i think she's still stuck at 18
I wish I could climb into this video & hug Sammie's mom. This is such a challenging thing for a parent to navigate. The truth is, once she is not starving her brain, Sammie will be in a better place to recover. She needs food and the hospital will make sure she gets it. ❤
Everytime I see that little moment of the little boy kissing his brother's arm...my heart just wants to explode! ♥
I can’t believe the level of judgement and negativity displayed against this woman and her daughter based off of a couple of minutes of a highly edited television program. Have compassion! This could very easily happen to your loved ones. My heart and prayers are with Sam and her family. ❤❤❤❤
God bless these caregivers, patients and families
Sammy's mum is so so lovely. I was in Sammy's place and it's such an awful headspace to be. Her mum is so encouraging and sweet, no blaming whatsoever. Kudos to her.
I don’t have an ED, but I remember the first time I was admitted to the psych hospital for a su*cide attempt. I was terrified too. I’m glad Sammy is doing better.
Awww, Sammi! You look incredible! What a beautiful young lady you are! Be well, dear.
I'm so glad everyone seems to be doing better.
These nurses and doctors are so phenomenal! Nothing like the states…
its a different culture. people are more polite to each other in general
My daughter had bulimia when she was 12 ,13,14&15.I understand this mother's worry and pain,luckily she entered a program and did DBT,It helped her and she got better and recovered,She's now25 and healthy!
My eating disorder caused me being sent to the hospital multiple times by my gp over the past 7 years. The biggest eye opener though was when one of those emergency trips i thought I was just going to get sent to the general ward again, but instead I ended up having to be rushed to the icu. It was the most dissociating feeling I cannot explain and wish to never have to experience again and wish for no one to ever have to experience that. The doctors and nurses were lovely but the whole situation hit me hard. I was 19. Watching what must’ve been a sobbing family being escorted out of the icu in the midst of night after hearing devastating news, while a couple minutes later a elderly couple whom one was free to discharge down to the short stay after a successful surgery and a relieved husband walks out with her. I’m 20 now and I haven’t been to hospital since. I still struggle, hell it’s been everything but easy, but I never want to experience that fear of almost dying ever again and unfortunately it was that that had been the biggest drive keeping me going far far away from being at a point like that ever again, I’ve been physically stable and working on staying that way. Never for one second think this illness cannot kill you. No one is invincible. Please never underestimate how deadly the consequences can be before it’s too late.
the man telling his wife "it's nothing just fell over that's all" even though he knew he could be dying is so typical of men his age. my grandfather died after a few times of being hospitalised with coughing fits seemingly with no apparent cause and mysterious skin conditions, we only found his stack of medical files hidden in an old suitcase we didn't even know he had after his death. they knew exactly what was going on with him and he knew he was dying, he just didn't want anyone to know
If more parents would monitor their child's social media use, we might be able to tackle a load of issues instead of creating them. I can't imagine how my self esteem would have been and what I would have done had I grown up with social media like it is today from a very young age. If you look at the depression and anxiety rates in young people it almost correlates exactly with the rise in social media use
Social.media.does more harm than good for children, especially pre-teen and teen girls. In an ideal world, children under age 16 wouldn't have access to.social media.
Poor mum is desperate here. She’s clearly stressed out of her mind.
It’s tough listening to the mother overtalk the Doctor.
I remember being admitted to hospital for the first time at her age for anorexia. It is absolutely terrifying. Mental health wards can be a very scary place. I’ve been in recovery for 5 years, freedom is possible. Life is amazing without anorexia, will never ever go back.
I wonder if Sammie would open up more without her mom by her side . My heart goes out to both of them .
I hope that Sammy continues to see the benefits of eating more instead of starving oneself (: I surely do after struggling with restrictive eating due to Autsim. And boy, do I feel much better now!
My step sister was anorexia, she was almost out in hospital just to save her life, I told her with force if she didn't start eating she Will die, we were not quite teenagers yet,
She started eating from then on. She's pretty healthy last time I saw her, and a good weight
Sammi doesn’t even hug her Mom when crying in protest about being admitted into to hospital. She can’t even think straight. Her look is so off during the whole episode. The anorexia has stolen her beautiful life.
Having a daughter who suffers anorexia it's quite common they feel like the parent is not defending them or basically standing up for them, so betraying them. Its so hard being the one who has to give the tough love.
The mom is so sweet I wish them all the best
Way to go Sammy!! 🎉🎉🎉
My daughter had AN. Salad was never something she was allowed during recovery
This video being preceded by an ad for a weight loss program is ironic in the worst way possible
I wonder how Sammy is doing now---she is a beautiful young lady since she started her recovery! So vital and healthy-looking, and yes, she does have a lovely figure now. I know it wasn't easy, and I'm so glad she got the help she needed!
39:34 so ridiculous. i understand the food and nourishment aspect of recovery, but the doctor not mentioning mental health interventions or therapy at the bare minimum as treatment for an ED is insane
They said we need to help you from all angles.
They obviously meant some kind of mental health therapy by admitting her to the special unit.
Hence why she couldn't just go home & "eat"
We only see a snapshot. That conversation would have been a lot longer than we saw. They had mentioned to viewers multiple times that it is a mental illness so probably did feel the need to keep in all the conversation they had with Sammi about the treatment.
Having worked in psych hospital the ED will give basic information. The goal is to get the patient admitted and settled before bombarding her and triggering her into wanting to just walk out. The other issue is the ED Drs are not specialists in mental health.
@@missg.5940 and thats what they will do, ED doctors and nurses are not equiped to be doing anything more than a basic psych evaluation, they will call in someone from the psych team to do comprehensive evaluation, just like they would call in a surgeon to perform surgery if needed.
As an outsider, I believe the mother is doing everything a loving mother can and should do. My only suggestion would be to let her daughter do all of the talking with the medical professionals and not take over, tempting as it is.
sammy's story really hit me because from about 13 one of my really good childhood friends became severely anorexic, and it such a frustrating thing to watch someone go through. like just watching my friend throw her lunch away, spit out food, slowly loose her ability to walk and relay on crutches because her body ate away at her muscles and all that is so difficult to watch. i remember when we just had our summer holiday and I hadn't seen her for the whole 6 weeks because I was away, and I remember the first time I saw her walk on the bus my heart dropped she was TINY, her legs were about the size of my arm and she was so pale and just so sick looking. she would constantly say that it wasn't that bad and she would be fine and that. but she would later end up in the hospital about 2 years later. she stayed there for like 3 months and when I went to visit her she had a feeding tube and was pale as hell and like yellow, we sat and talked for couple hours and I walked out of the hospital on the verge of tears. Im 20 now and she is still severely anorexic and not well. she won't change and doesn't want to. I'm low key just waiting for a phone call, its a terrible thing to say but there is nothing else I really can do. the rest is up to her.
Sammy is so incredibly beautiful with amazing skin, large eyes, a gorgeous and symmetrical face, and so much more. It’s so difficult for anyone who has never had or experienced a Mental Illness, to understand how the perception of these patients and they do not understand why these people do not see ‘Reality’ the way they do. I admire and respect all healthcare specialists who are willing, driven, and effective in this field. It must be somewhat similar to doctors who are dedicated to helping drug addicts, as the failure rate can be so high. These experts have to be so strong and resilient, to be able to avoid taking on the sadness, frustrations, etc, of multiple relapses or discovering so much resistance and non-compliance!
My goodness, the first thing you comment on is the girl's physical facial appearance. Don't you see that is part of the problem? Girls and women being constantly judged on their appearance is part of the problem.
When I was a teenager (A long time ago), I didn't eat much when I went out, to school etc. I was terrified of getting sick in public (In which I never did), I was terribly shy. At one point I was 76 lbs felt faint and my mother said, "I'm not going to sit around and watch you die". I talked to nutritionists etc. When I learned how to deal with my social anxiety, and wanted to look and feel good. I have always been small, I was born underweight. It's an obsession you have and can't seem to break out of. I now have osteoporosis, a low thyroid and could not have children. I am now almost 100 lbs and like the taste of food. My late Mother used laxatives, she was large, like her Mother and siblings, and hated the way she looked. She didn't like food in her body, as she had a lot of issues she dealt with through life and this is how she handled it. She was a wonderful cook. I miss her after 18 years.