"I never wanted to remarry, the church made the decision for me after she left me."--Pastor Ituah
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The maturity of this man is on another level
Oh yes.
" i finished from the funeral and went home to look for my wife".This brought tears to my eyes...I mourned this woman i never knew nor met in her lifetime upon hearing her death for weeks on end and i kid you not.What an angel she was.Sleep on Ibiduni,God's grace and strength Pastor,it is well.
"I asked God for courage and he gave it to me".
The fact that we can ask for faith, wisdom or courage when we need it or we're short on it and God will give it. Even when the situation that warrants the need is not the most pleasant is so heart warming
Pastor ltua, you tried...
Na only somebody wen done wear shoe,fit describe as the shoe be for him foot...
I'm glad to hear from you about this topic of re-marry...
Let God be true & all men found to be Liars...
You are a true Testimony of the Pastors that worked faithfully in Rccg..
You don't play class even though you be Ajebutter..
You relate with people regardless of who or what they are...
Some Pastors who spoke & are still speaking about your case, cannot do without their spouses for a month..
You stayed for do many years by the grace of God..
Your legacy in Rccg ,is unbeatable...
You used all your connections for the betterment of the kingdom..
God has rewarded you with " Trinity House".
I pray God to give you more grace & the gift of faithful people to help you in ministry..
The work of God, will not spoil in your hands or in your time in Jesus name...
Remain blessed & rapturable in Jesus name...
Amen
AMEN!!!!
Amen❤❤
God bless you!
Amen
She is one of the people I cried for despite not knowing her. She and Pastor Nomthi odukoya go into a depression every time I visit their page. The way I was crying my husband had to beg me.
I was so pained I stopped watching church messages because I was like is it to join the heavenly choir and sing that's why God called these women home.
Abeg these men are strong!
Same as myself
Same here sis
My dear you are not alone
I cried profusely aboutibidunni demised I never met her in life yet I felt so demoralized and also Pastor Nomthi
Same with me. They both inspired me to live a life of purpose, cant do anything other than love people! 😭😭😭😭
I remember I mourned Ibiduni like I knew her, cried like a baby for weeks unending, prayed to God to comfort Pastor Ituah and the family and believed God for healing. I am happy he is at peace with the situation even when it was such a huge loss
Me too. I don't even know her but when I read she was the one in that soap , I was in pain because that advert is in my memory as I was growing. May her soul rest in peace,
Me too! . I cried my eyes out as if i know her in person. And there was just a shift in the atmosphere, felt like angels where on earth to take one of their own back home (Heaven). Just can't explain it. Esp when the balloons where released.
Mehn my husband had to beg me to take it easy. I had swollen eyes, depression and all. I even didn't feel like watching any church message. Cos I was like is it to sing in heaven that's why she had to go home (heaven)
@@abigailvincent4909 Take it easy my dear, I feel thesame. A lot like her has gone, very scaring and depressing. But we have to take courage and be strong. I was so worried for her mum. But I think the husband has been there for her. We thank God for everything. Ajo ni ile aiye.
Same here
She had dozens of children.
The "womb of her heart" was super fruitful.
Deep!
This!
The part where he said "I got home and started looking for my wife" totally broke my heart and brought tears to my eyes. The Lord is continually your strength Sir. What a woman, what a legacy.
Her death will always hurt me 😢but I’m glad our Heavenly Father is comforting Pastor Ituah daily
"There is always something bigger than yourself" if you understand this, you will make impact in your lifetime
It's called Purpose, finding the Purpose for one's life and working in it.
I didn’t know this woman, never heard of this couple only after her death. I just couldn’t even console myself. Been mourning her ever since as if I knew her. Pastor Ituah, the lord is your strength. May her glorious soul Rest In Peace. She was truly an angel
Me too. I never knew her. But I moaned all the way in Kenya. I just felt terrible. May God help her family
@@user-kaleidoscope Amen
Amen
Same here 😞 I think her testimony/story really touched alot of us even though we never knew her when she was alive. I'm just glad that she's resting peacefully at the right hand of the Father.🙌
She was such a beautiful soul. Her death hurt a lot of people who’d never met her, including me. May God continue to comfort all who loved her, especially her husband. Amen.
That was true.I mourned her for months
Ibidun's loss tore my heart to shreds even though i had never met her. Her genuineness is just so evident and there was a peace about her. She just comes across as an angel. Rest well.
And he's still wearing his wedding band. I cannot imagine what he went thru and still going thru. May God continue to comfort him, the children and the rest of the family.
You don't wear wedding ring after the demise of a spouse.
@@mercyebah4658 Says who?
@@trainsandtrailers says our culture. You either drop the ring in the casket or throw it in the grave. That is the 'till death do us part'😭😭😭
@@mercyebah4658 Is that so
He wrapped his arms around his body, almost cradling himself, shows he naturally still misses her. May God soothe him
Oh my goodness....you understand body language!
Pastor itua, when he broke the news to us that he was no longer our pastor in Christ church, we wept like someone died, one third of the church left with him…. God will continue to keep you and the children sir. Ibidun lived life like she doesn’t have time to waste… I’m certain she made it home.
When I see men of God live what they preach it challenges me,God bless pastor ituah.
He still has his wedding band ON .Pastor ituah,oko ibidunni..D lord remains your strength..God keep d bundles of joy you both share
Her death pained me, like I knew her personally. May she continue resting in peace
Me too. I cried o. She was easily accessible
“My name is Ibidunni Ituah Ighodalo”. The sound of her voice can never leave my head😭😭. Oh! I wept but in all, we thank God
I never met her but mourned her cos of all I heard abt her. May her soul continually rest in peace.
She was so kind, her death is still so painful.
Sing loud with the angels Mama 🕊.
You don't know if she's in heaven
@@hotmailanonymous yenyenyenyen
The way I mourned Ibiduni, it felt like she was my eldest sister. The part he went back home after the funeral, to look for his wife got me crying again. I don't know when I will stop tearing up each time I think about that woman or read anything that has to do with her online. Pastor Ituah may God almighty continue to console you, the kids and family
Exactly, that laughter was obviously trying to cover pain. May God continue to comfort him and the family.
Pastor Ituah. The Lord is your strength. He will comfort you, follow Him, He is there for you.
Amen
Ibidun was beautiful inside and out ❤ Such a sweet soul!
She was unique, lovely...I miss her hug each time I met her.. God will continue to strengthen Pastor Ituah.
I never knew or met Pastor’s late wife until the news of her death. After reading so much about her, I fell in love with her even in her death. May God Almighty continue to bless and keep pastor Ituah and the children she left behind 🙏
Love 💗 Pastor Ituah so much he’s a loving 🥰 husband
Ah Ibidunni you left a void that can’t be filled
We love 💗 you even in death
Pastor Ituah, keke and your son
I say take heart ❤️
I love 💗 u Papa 👴
Heaven recieved their daughter back❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
So true...Rest on in peace.
She was a good soul. We will forever remember her. Pastor Ituah Got knows best
That's true ..Someone to care for him and the kids .. someone to have a conversation with cuz it's not easy .. He needed a wife ..May GOD continue to strengthen him.
Ibiduni was such a beautiful woman. I'm so glad he remarried and chose a princess like that. Definitely one of the painful losses of 2020.
She was a gorgeous lady from her head to her toe including her inner soul. This was one very loved person. May her soul continue to rest in perfect peace
May her soul continue to rest in perfect peace. What a lovely remembrance of the righteous
An angel with the best comforting hugs...heavens gain
I wish I meet her before she die. I don’t know her but I cry my eye out when I watch her video 😭😭😭😭😭. May her soul continue to Rest In Peace
I didn't know her until after her death but I mourned her like I knew her, she was/is such a blessing to this world!! Keep resting in the bossom of your saviour Mama 😘
May her soul continue to rest in the bosom of the Lord. Mama Ibidun was such a star! She was a beautiful soul. Her radiance was captivating. The day I met her, she sponsored people's weddings and gave out wedding dresses FREE of charge! It was her loving and motherly counsel I love and still hold cherish.
God rest your soul mama Ibidun.
Pastor Itua is an awesome man of God. Down to earth and humble We were both tutees of Pastor Tony Rapu and he went on to become a great Minister, with love and compassion. I was really really sad when he lost his beloved wife, Ibidun.
I can relate to the mad woman scenario, that endeared me to her, started following her since then. She was one with a kind and rare heart. You legacy lives on mama ❤️❤️❤️
This was so beautiful. I still struggle with the passing of my mom in law. I thank God for this testimony
She Was so phenomenal❤️
She was such a sweet soul❤️❤️
Rest well mama🕊🕊❤️
I respect this great servant of God. May God continue to comfort you and show you the way forward, as you serve Him.
I know no one is perfect but if truly all men can be like pastor Ituah me,life will be better.May the soul of ibidun continue to rest in peace amen.
Her death broke me, still does 😢. She was beautiful, warm, friendly and an Angel in human form.
I had to download the tribute song Tope Alabi sang "Can't believe " again. Keep resting Mama
Her death impacted me a lot even though I hardly knew her or her husband. I had been out of Nigeria for almost three decades and l am well before her generation. I respectfully followed all the funeral services. Alas! on the night of her burial, there she was in my dream, like an angel on a mission. Ibidun, keep resting on the bossom of your Lord.
@@adeoyewole7967 She was truly an Angel. Wow, 3 decades? That's a long time
I just fell in love with this woman the first time I saw her, she's always smiling, hugging, having fun with her staff, sharing, giving she was such a treasure for the body of Christ, my heart has always been with the children, and Pastor Ituah, our comfort is that, Heaven has welcomed a beautiful, and sweet angel.
God bless Pastor Ituah. One day Nigerians will beg him to be their leader. I can testify to his love for God and humanity. I can testify to his hard work. In fact, he's a workaholic.
She was a beautiful soul. Ha God, I cried, I cried and cried. May her soul continue to rest in peace 😭
What a woman! God rest her soul
Such a courageous man 🤗 May God keep strengthening him and his children
My heart with PI, Maaama your memory is blessed and precious 💜💜💜
I just love everything about this pastor. May God comfort you sir. It’s well with you
Yet again without any doubt,Late Mrs Ighodalo was an angel here on earth with a specific assignment
She is so beautiful ….May her soul continue to Rest In Peace 🙏🏽
RIPP PIB!!!! I still really miss you ma. & yes I’d the privilege of knowing such a beautiful soul during her lifetime. PI, May God continue to comfort yourself, Keke & Zenan Sir! You’re indeed a very selfless man that puts other’s needs before yours!
I love This man..... He is courage level is on another level
Men are strong. See him talking about her without weeping. When God is your rock, shield, tower and salvation 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
Ibidun.
I had been her cheerleader from days of lux girl.
In christ alone is our hope.
I still can't believe there's someone as strong as this in this world!!! I'm speechless, may God strengthen you sir..........Pastor Ibiduni was truly a blessing.
She was a drug addict addict and he tried to save her countless times.
My heart shoke when I had of her death, I was moldy even when I don't know her in person.. The one that brought tears to my eyes was When Evangelist Tope Alabi sang that son... About her leaving... It was really touching..
Oh! That song 😭
There is something about this pastor. The Lord is your strength sir.
May the mercy of God never leave you pastor. It's well. So touching
I lost my ex same time ibidun passed in 2019. The feeling was similar to what this man went through. Mine passed on, on his birthday 9th June. I sometimes spoke to myself like he was with me. I wore his clothes for comfort but all of this hasn't brought him back neither could he be replaced. That was a terrible 😔 blow. I can never forget DARK JUNE 2019.
I am so sorry, grief is such a difficult emotion to navigate ❤️
I only met Ibidunni once at a service of songs. I didn't bwant to like her because she was the woman who stole my crush (pastor Ituah)😁. But her wonderfully down to earth demeanor threw me off, grace oozed from every pore of her. I really salute the strength of pastor Ituah and wish him well even in his future plans
Pastor Ituah - You remain an Inspiration to the body of Christ for ever- Millions have drawn great Strength, Hope and Courage from Your Afflictions & Travails- Be Encouraged!
May her beautiful and gentle soul continue to sleep peacefully. Amen. 🙏
I still cry till today whenever I remember her or see any of Her pictures despite not knowing her or see her in person.she Amazing and the scars never go away.may God continue to uphold you and your Household.
I respect this man of God. Bless u and remain strong.
Comfort & strength for each new day. Such a beautiful woman. May God’s hands continue to rest upon you and your children 🙏🏿.
She was really a phenomenal woman. Beautiful, kind and a people person. I still feel pain in my heart when people talk about her. Rest In Peace Mrs Iguodalo.
I remember the day Pastor Ibidunni died, I cried😭 real hot tears....I opened my system and I wrote pages of sad things. It hurt me so much, mama was an Angel, so beautiful, kind, generous and angelic.
I did not know her personally but I cried!
This is the real work of God!!! RIP Ibidun...
The Lord be your strength Sir. Mama Ibiduni you were an angel in human form.
Pastor Ituah, the Lord is your strength. God is Faithful...
How could you say the church came to meet you regarding remarrying when you know what Jesus said in the book of Mark regarding divorce and remarriage?
PST Ituah is a of God, may the soul of his beautiful beloved wife rest in peace. God will console him, cos he lost a treasure
I got to know her during Tomike wedding like the sacrifice and all. I fell in love with her also pastor Nomthi I don’t even know her but there’s this smile I that makes me happy whenever I see them❤️
I wish the pastor Ituah happiness and may God bring him peace and fulfillment in life. Women have always been taken for granted in our society as a second afterthought people. I believe if it is a woman that lost her husband at the same age Pastor Ituah lost his wife the church will never expect her to move on with her life and remarry, in fact, the church will expect her to remain a widow and that is not counting the years they will think is appropriate for a young widow to remarry.
The explanation was on his first marriage not after the death of his second wife
May the lord continue to strengthen him comfort him and the kids ijn
The LORD is your Strength Sir. HE will be with you and guide you in the right direction to fulfill HIS Will, yet in JESUS' NAME AMEN 🙏✝️
Pastor Ituah, God will continue to strengthen you and uphold your ministry.
Awesome woman. I benefitted from your generosity
She was unique and a great blessing. Continue to have strength in the Lord pastor Ituah.Continue to rest in the Lord ma'am
Ibidun's death made me realize all is truly vanity. Made ne realize nothing else in this life matters but living a life our Heavnly Father's happy with cause you never know the day he will call you.
Wow. She was so beautiful. Both inside and outside.
She was to me like a blood sister I never knew, I so so loved her y I don't know, I was initially angry wit d news of her death I tot It was a lie. " I said won tunde, won Fe pa omoolomo" I went into shock when d news was true, I mourned her like someone so close to me dt was June 14th, only for me to loose my own beloved n precious mum that same year 2020 by Sept 7, how I survived dt year only Jesus Himself saw me through, thank God for d divine comfort and that is what am praying for our dear Pastor Ituah in Jesus Name 🙏
Thank God for the divine comfort!
Really sorry about the demise of your mum. God comforts your heart continually. Amen.
Amen
This man has been through so much. And God blessed him with a beautiful wife and another one, and still took them away. Only He knows. Honestly, only God knows. It is indeed well.
You're referring to pastor odukoya who lost his wives twice. This one is different.
@@joylensjoy1147 he also did lost 2 wives
You shall love again, Pastor!
He doesn't need any other love. Ibidunni is IT. She is a special spirit watching over him. Believe me.
Really love your interviews Chude
That woman is one of a kind. We don't have a lot of ppl like that around anymore.
Such a soft talker... hopefully he heals, going through her page, which I do from time to time, the love was contagious and so beautiful to watch.... rest well sweet ibidun
Ibidun was more than two much,thank God that she married the right man,loved them always, amin
Pastor Ituah you are a special breed. The passing of Ibidun was huge . May God continue to uphold and your children
I love the video. God bless and keep him and his kids.🙌 🙏
Only God knows the truth... I have come to realize in this my time of existence that the more you look the less you see . Not everything seems the way it looks. I pity no one I sympathise with no one and I condemn no one. Only God knows.... Rip ibidun.
Ohhhh Pastor how I miss your beautiful wife I seriously connected with her over youtube she was indeed a phenomenal woman
I mourned ibidunni ituah ighodalo like she was my mother, I walked with her story of trying to conceive, haaaaa God
Dearest PII the Lord is your strength and shield, He will Comfort you and your lovely Angels on every side in Jesus mighty name, replace Ashes with beauty in Jesus mighty name amen, 🙏 It is well with you Man of God!!! Shallom
Hmmmmmm there are people that really love God. May the Lord increase His strenght.
Hmmmm.. The Lord will continue to comfort you sir. It's well.
Pastor ITUA 😳😳😳😳😳now I’m definitely subscribing.
Me too!! He's an amazing pastor and 1 of a kind. Definitely subscribing cos of this episode .
Me too
Uniqueness ,hum God bless her soul
3:30 omg 😭😭 we love u mama!!! Continue to Rest In Peace