Idolizing marriage and husbands sets us up for heart break pro max. This blinds your eyes to red flags ,equipping ourselves to be make ourselves happy with or without them, or building skills that can make marriage work! etc. Love is not enough, he having a great job or looks is not enough Men are humans ,not princes in shining armour
Reach out to their husbands and get their stories, too, to balance the conversation. It will do society a great service. Well done Chude, there is a thing about your questions that gets people to their core.
If ur heart tells u not to marry that man...pls don't do it,,,u will regret it 4 the rest of ur life 😢😢😢😢....I understand princess bcuz it took a lot from her😢😢😢😢.....omo when u hear ppls stories,u find out u don't even have a problem
Our concept of marriage in Africa where a man is a god over his woman and gets away with everything and a woman is treated unfairly or as a property and has to endure everything. Most marriages that lasted is because the woman endured the hurt as culture demands, But now most women are no longer ready to endure the hurt despite the shame and the mockery they will face in the society. Many women are now choosing their lives/ happiness over the overrated marriage. I personally believe that marriage is not that hard if we have the right understanding of it and everyone doing his/her own part well.
"Many women are choosing happiness now" How come marriages have become such a mess in this generation compared to before...😂when our parents were happy even with nothing.. Maybe it's not happiness they are choosing.. And maybe you should also listen to the men side of the stories before you start demonizing African men 😂 What a joke of a comment😂
What a wonderful blessed happy new year 2025 a year of sufficient grace of God almighty upon you and his power that makes us strong in weakness happy new year to you all ❤❤
The Good ones(men) may not be your spec or may not have fitting pedigree. Life generally requires sacrifice. NO EASY ROAD. Life is a dance always ONLY when you want to have it all worked out...a mirage, a delusion. Depend on God firmly to play your SACRIFICIAL part!!!. God bless you.
The issue is that this Ladies are big already some of them are employers of labour and then will get married to someone who is also big or even bigger than them and you know what they say two captains cannot be in a ship
I don't think Toke meant it that way though. I think she meant that the fact that the gateman was going to wonder and gossip about her presence in the house after she'd moved out was enough reason for her to stick to her guns and move on.
It’s not in competition. They can go somewhere else and do their own interviews. You lots are nutz. Women generally speak. Nobody is hold any of the men’s neck.😊
@@omalicha7388 There is only the truth and no such thing as their truth. KEEP LYING TO YOURSELF AND FINDING WAYS TO EVADE ACCOUNTABILITY, INSTEAD OF ACCEPTING REALITY AND MOVE ON.
Una men too like to dey ask for two side of the story , the man that married a dj and was assaulting kids did he speak his own side of the story before the world knew the woman was actually right with all she had said, una too like nonsense. If na man come out to talk now una no go ask for the other side before judging the woman!
Idolizing marriage and husbands sets us up for heart break pro max. This blinds your eyes to red flags ,equipping ourselves to be make ourselves happy with or without them, or building skills that can make marriage work! etc.
Love is not enough, he having a great job or looks is not enough
Men are humans ,not princes in shining armour
Love is enough,
People don't know what love means..
Reach out to their husbands and get their stories, too, to balance the conversation. It will do society a great service.
Well done Chude, there is a thing about your questions that gets people to their core.
If ur heart tells u not to marry that man...pls don't do it,,,u will regret it 4 the rest of ur life 😢😢😢😢....I understand princess bcuz it took a lot from her😢😢😢😢.....omo when u hear ppls stories,u find out u don't even have a problem
Princess 🔥
Words on marble.
When you are running and fall, you get up and keep running if not others will step on you.
I know. That makes so much sense!
This one hit me hard
Our concept of marriage in Africa where a man is a god over his woman and gets away with everything and a woman is treated unfairly or as a property and has to endure everything. Most marriages that lasted is because the woman endured the hurt as culture demands, But now most women are no longer ready to endure the hurt despite the shame and the mockery they will face in the society. Many women are now choosing their lives/ happiness over the overrated marriage. I personally believe that marriage is not that hard if we have the right understanding of it and everyone doing his/her own part well.
This is pure rubbish tbh🤣
"Many women are choosing happiness now"
How come marriages have become such a mess in this generation compared to before...😂when our parents were happy even with nothing..
Maybe it's not happiness they are choosing..
And maybe you should also listen to the men side of the stories before you start demonizing African men
😂
What a joke of a comment😂
I feel Princess. I pray she picks up herself again😢
I really wish Princess full recovery, I can tell she's still hurting. She's such a strong and wise woman .
@ucheo-e8o Who are you talking to?
That’s the thing about narcissists. They always go for the most loving and independent people
You're absolutely right ✅
Princess interview is encouraging me so much in my current state. God bless her for sharing her story
…”when you are running, you don’t look back”
I thank these beautiful women for summoning courage to open up and share their story.
These are my favourite Chude episodes….wish I could watch the full versions
“When you are running, you don’t looK back”
Princess!!!!! Ah so deep!
Juilet Ibrahim , such beauty with good character!!
May God take the lead concerning our relationship and marriage 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Jude, you were born for this. I love your show.
Truth is their are good men out there even good women. But hard truth they are hardly noticed or picked because they arent preferred.
Women especially keep making the same mistakes they could easily avoid. May the single ones learn from the experiences
Are you a good woman
What a wonderful blessed happy new year 2025 a year of sufficient grace of God almighty upon you and his power that makes us strong in weakness happy new year to you all ❤❤
I need to watch every episode
Juliet Ibrahim's own is painful
The Good ones(men) may not be your spec or may not have fitting pedigree.
Life generally requires sacrifice. NO EASY ROAD.
Life is a dance always ONLY when you want to have it all worked out...a mirage, a delusion.
Depend on God firmly to play your SACRIFICIAL part!!!.
God bless you.
Marriage is just a luck!!! Like Damilola Adegbite said… some of us has searched and searched, there are a lot of good women out there!
Happy new year everyone🎉❤
Glorifying marriage is what makes women stay in toxic marriages, it is not necessary man... to have a good person is pure luck
I am not ok too my sister this is my 8th years too
May God give you all grace
Why dont u just leave him?
❤❤❤❤
Most beautiful peoples seeing shege promax! Bhet Why???
I want to hear the man side what’s was his rational
The issue is that this Ladies are big already some of them are employers of labour and then will get married to someone who is also big or even bigger than them and you know what they say two captains cannot be in a ship
What are you saying? These things happened to them when they were not big like they are now
What is your point?
@Igbogirltales I'm not referring to there experience as a teenager, my comment is on there relationship's
This Juliet Ibrahim does she live in Nigeria or Ghana, she doesn’t even sound Ghanaian
Well. She was born in Ghana through a Ghanaian woman. She grew up in Lebanon and Ivory Coast. Maybe that’s what you’re hearing 😊
She's actually a Lebanese but identified more with her mom's country which is Ghana
She does sound Ghanaian.
She's librarian
@@queeniwearth alright, but I also think she lives more in Nigeria
Women will leave the good men to go and marry dragons and now come and be asking us where are the good men.
Make una dey play o
Ordinary gate man....the way you folks speak about those serving you is disgusting 😢
I don't think Toke meant it that way though. I think she meant that the fact that the gateman was going to wonder and gossip about her presence in the house after she'd moved out was enough reason for her to stick to her guns and move on.
I DONT BELIEVE ANYTHING THEY ARE SAYING. WE NEED HEAR BOTH SIDE OF THE STORY. I REFUSE TO EMPATHIZE WITH ONE-SIDED NARRATIVE.
Why are you screaming though?
@@MarilaAmore 🤣men are becoming big babies this days!
Go and look for the other side. Who is asking you to believe it?
If its a man sitting there and saying same thing, you won't ask for the other side... abeg rest
Eeyah
invite their exes to come say what happened as well...we know how these play out
We are not interested. This isn’t a courtroom. The just spoke their truth.
It’s not in competition. They can go somewhere else and do their own interviews. You lots are nutz. Women generally speak. Nobody is hold any of the men’s neck.😊
You just spoke rubbish
@@omalicha7388 There is only the truth and no such thing as their truth. KEEP LYING TO YOURSELF AND FINDING WAYS TO EVADE ACCOUNTABILITY, INSTEAD OF ACCEPTING REALITY AND MOVE ON.
Exactly... The only thing they can and i would believe is that today is thursday.
One side of the story. There is always a root cause of the problem.
Una men too like to dey ask for two side of the story , the man that married a dj and was assaulting kids did he speak his own side of the story before the world knew the woman was actually right with all she had said, una too like nonsense.
If na man come out to talk now una no go ask for the other side before judging the woman!
@@MercyLight-d4f Men or women we should always listen to both sides. We shouldn't judge by one side. thank you
Call the other side of the story, we will listen.
@@july0555no one is stopping the men
Why does aduni have a funny accent
How’s it funny? She grew up in the US and sounds like that when speaking English.
@Seyi.O sounds fake
That's not true ooooo , habaa
She sounds very real @@pepperless7218
@@pepperless7218 I don't agree with you Sir
@@pepperless7218you’re the one that sound dumb 😳