I'm Autistic myself and I did not understand a single part of Amanda Seales definition of Autism. The definition I use to explain to people for the most part is that someone who has autism has a harder time understanding social cues. Meaning they can have a hard time telling whether or not someone is joking, and reading emotions. As a result, they can unintentionally make people feel angry and or uncomfortable without knowing they have made them angry or uncomfortable. Obviously, since autism is a spectrum there is a wide range of people who can read emotions more easily than others, however said person with autism has to be willing to stop and learn how to understand these social cues in order to avoid making people angry and or uncomfortable. This has happened to me plenty of times, and I've made plenty of people angry and or uncomfortable without knowing it, I was lucky to have good friends and family members to point out when I made those mistakes so I didn't repeat them. From what I can tell Amanda's either an undiagnosed Narcissist or is an autistic person who is not willing to learn from her mistakes. The way she gave her definition of autism, where people will misunderstand her to make her look bad, puts the blame on others for her mis treatment when really she's the one who has mistreated others.
Wow... This is amazing... I was explaining in another commenter's thread something similar. I am also diagnosed autistic, but in addition, live with Pathological Demand Disorder (or, as some prefer, Persistent Drive for Autonomy), which is a subset of autism. Unfortunately, the slightest hint of advice or suggestion from someone can bring forth a meltdown. Even me knowing I have to do something, but it feels too much of a demand, I will refrain from doing it, even if it is beneficial. Throughout this experience, I have lost many friends saying "no one understands me", placing blame on everyone else and not acknowledging my issues. The point is... when one becomes aware of issues they may have, and when it transcends to issues with others consistently, even if it takes time, they are usually aware that it is usually not others which are the issue. There is only so much blaming towards others you can do, whether you are autistic or not. I still have the same issues, the only thing now is...if I do have a meltdown or become defensive, I apologise for my acts, for they are difficult to control. I also let people know ahead of the conversation these things may happen depending on the narrative of the conversation. That, or I just refrain from any deep conversation (which is thoroughly difficult for me)... Amanda seemed extremely aware that EVERYONE ELSE was the issue... I never knew avoiding accountability was an autism issue... Once again, I really adore your perspective.
This! I'm an African in Africa who's never been diagnosed but has a somewhat difficult time connecting with people. I made sure to study social cues and read people's expressions. I'd always replay the day's events and see if I unintentionally upset anyone then I'd speak to them the next day, ask them how they felt about what I'd said to them and then apologise if they said it left a bad taste in their mouth (this was back in my corporate days). Amanda doesn't seem to take accountability for her actions and would rather put the blame on other people. Shameful
This, I am diagnosed Autistic and I am looking at Amanda and thinking I don’t even know what she is talking about, she just sounds like a narcissist who is using Autism as an excuse to be horrible. Like I couldn’t even hug my parents and get uncomfortable around my partner. I make people feel uncomfortable without even realising and she just sounds like she is self absorbed as opposed to autistic.
I normally hate how people throw the word narcissist around on the internet these days, but this is 100% warranted. Everything she says screams clinical narcissism, I think her doctor might have lied to her about the autism thing
I felt worse for Shannon. He immediately realized she was the common denominator. He kept quiet just to avoid making her 'list'. Masculine energy in a feminine shell... recipe for disaster. Unfortunately, mainstream media has idolized this ideaology.
Amanda Seales would be AMAZING on the Real Housewives franchise. She so out of touch and messy, perfect characteristic for a cast mate on one of those shows!
She has 0 ability to be introspective. She thinks she can act however she wants, and people need to adjust to her. She's putting negative intentions on everyone else while accusing them of unjustly doing the same thing to her.
its narcissim or sometimes called a princess complex. ive never heard from actual autistic people ever used autism as an excuse to be a shitty person. im guessing she just picked it up somewhere and just ran with it.
Im a licensed therapist. Here are my thoughts; Amanda is extremely subconsciously insecure. As a result, her default personality setting is defensiveness. Her defense mechanism is to fein arrogance in the form of false superiority. This is why she claims people hate her because they are jealous or spiteful of her success. This fake superiority is likely because at some point in her early life, she determined that in order to survive her home life she had to pretend to be confident. At some point she pretended so much that defensiveness and fake confidence became her entire personality. As a result, she is incapable of 100% personal accountability. This is often referred to as a personality disorder. Symptoms include unstable relationships, anger, difficulty at work, difficulty regulating emotions, suspiciousness and distrust, need for instant gratification, etc. sound familiar?
Idk if you were actually a therapist you’d understand that everything she’s going through is exactly what people with high IQs, those with certain learning disabilities which is common with people with high IQs, and those who are on the spectrum etc deal with. They become socially isolated and get picked on and ostracized for their neurodivergence and atypical mannerisms and social awkwardness. I will never understand why in society people hate the bold and opinionated-then people are asked of their opinions.
I'm no therapist, but it seems as though she expects an instant personal connection with everyone she encounters. I gathered this from her saying she "dapped up" her new boss who responded "keep it professional" , which offended her; almost as though there were no boundaries place on her end. Though it is feasible to want a personal connection with the ones around you, one must keep in mind those things have to happen Naturally and take Time. Then there are those who you'll never have a connection with, let alone a personal one and that's okay too.
The fact that she’s in this interview telling the interviewer how people hate her for “no reason”. Then finish same interview goes on Instagram and accuse same interviewer of hating her for “no reason” is just… I’m speechless.
@@gagewesterhouse9558yeah she been dragging him on her socials for a couple days. In her echo chamber of single YAASS Queen losers addicted to victimhood and the internet. I mean she quoting them and everything the break from reality is a sight to see.
That story made absolutely 0 sense. How can 7 people who don't know each other...come together to hate 1 person none of them know or have met. That story alone made me stop watch her interview
She saw kat Williams' interview and thought that she could 1 up him lmao. But instead she proved that she is insufferable, delusional, and impossible to work with 😂
MAN....Shannon gave her SOOO much understanding. He listened and took her side on a lot of things. But THE SECOND he tried to call BS, she got defensive! Ridiculous!
how he can give her soooo much understanding if he doesnt even understand what she is talking about the whole intervew was cringe cause he was so clueless about everything
Nah it’s not understanding. When he pushed back, she got all kinds of attitude, started being condescending, etc and then HE got defensive, which wasn’t a good look at all. So, in order to get through the interview, he just let her talk and agreed with everything she said because she clearly doesn’t like to be questioned; even in an interview.
@@thunderknuckles3623I think he isn’t an investigative reporter.His role is basically to let people just talk without opposing because that’s his podcast style.Once the episode airs people will report on it and express their views
I'm an autistic black light skinned woman whose autism went unrecognised until adulthood. I had groups of friends shun me out for seemingly inexplicable reasons. Being told I was too rude but with little explanation of my rudeness. Or that I wasn't caring despite lending hours of my time to support friends. Difference between me and Amanda being that even during all of those times in school and even into early adulthood, I *always* had people who stood by my side and recognised the truth of who I was. I may have been unaware of how I was coming across to those who rejected me, but there were always people who understood me too. People who saw my truthfulness and bluntness as simply that and didn't perceive it as rudeness. Another thing that sets me apart from Amanda is that I grew to understand _why_ I was being perceived negatively. I know how internally frustrating it is to overhear conversations where there are misunderstandings that can be easily corrected, or people are mistaken, and I know the right answer. But what I know *now* is that people do not appreciate you butting in with that information they did not ask for. I know that from this side of things the intention is to be helpful. But part of understanding neurodivergence and being a neurodivergent person is in understanding that people who are _not_ neurodivergent also communicate in ways that differ from us. Just because we are aiming to be helpful, or truthful, does not mean it is necessarily coming across as intended. Now, I'm not going to pretend to be something I'm not or shrink myself down. But I've also learned to be *respectful* and part of that respect is learning when to pause and not volunteer my unsolicited opinion. Or keep my truthful thought to myself because it will not *add* to the situation. Yes, people on the spectrum would benefit from others being more aware and accepting of our differences. But if we want to be afforded that kindness we must also offer that kindness ourselves. A lot of us do have very rigid ways of seeing the world that comes with a strict sense of personal morality. There's nothing wrong with that. But if we cannot recognise that our world is not necessarily the right fit for everyone else. And worse still, if we can't recognise that every person exists in their own world and decide to try and navigate that and work with other people's differences, then we will forever find ourselves in these situations. Amanda is too damn old and too damn cognisant to fail so spectacularly at recognising her own behaviours and how they are being perceived. She's caught up in this victim mindset and "I'm never wrong" mentality and it will continue to push people away until she is a lonely old woman. I hope for her sake she's able to step outside of herself to figure this shit out because she's acting a whole fool and... got damn it's embarrassing for her to be using autism to excuse and explain away her bullshit. Yes, autism negatively effects our ability to communicate. But autism is not a free pass to be an absolute cunt without regard for the impact we're having on others. 🤦🏽♀️
I will also add that self-diagnosis is valid. A lot of people do not have access to adequate assessment (not in her case) but also there is a huge lack of understanding of autism and how it presents in women and black women in particular, she's not wrong in that. That said... she should NOT be using her self-diagnosis like this. It's hugely inappropriate.
It's crazy to see a person so set in not learning how to self-improve. My personal experience with autism has just been an endless toil to try and understand why people don't like me, how I can be better, how I can be a better friend, how I can still love myself, how I can be a better communicator....wild to see someone who considers themself a whole ass middle aged autistic adult and seems to think they have never done anything wrong ever. Autism ain't an excuse, it's an explanation, and it's annoying to see this lady throwing our community under the bus along with herself.
…I’m in tears a bit. I think this is something I’ve been struggling with and it’s lead to some self-destructive behaviors. I’m the opposite of Amanda; I constantly think I’m the problem even if I’ve literally been wronged. I’ve tried to become another person over and over again not being aware that it was making me depressed but also not fixing anything underlying.
“People who can’t communicate think everything is an argument. People who lack accountability think everything is an attack.” Amanda is the embodiment of this quote.
Seen this in other comment sections but to summarize. Takeaways from this interview: - her teacher was racist cause she didn’t want Amanda talking back and correcting her. - Her dorm mates in college all hated her because she had a strong mind and was pretty - Marsha Ambrosius was intimidated of her for no reason and hated on her - She was expelled from college cause a white kid lied on her FOR NO REASON - She was expelled because Her Teacher hated her... FOR NO REASON (maybe racism?) - Nickelodeon was racist in the process of her getting another gig - She now has autism now that people hate her - She got fired from Sirius radio and it wasn’t her fault it was her boss. For no reason - She wasn’t allowed into the Emmy’s party for no apparent reason. - The cast of Insecure hated her for no reason - Issa Rae didn’t protect her and didn’t like her for no reason - Issa’s publicist hated her for no reason - Black Enterprise started beef with her for no apparent reason. - Howard university decided to rescind her interview for no reason - The cast and executives on “The Real” didn’t like her for no reason - essence magazine don’t like her for no reason.
Aba n preach n matt walsh gone all quite over the trans stuff. Looks like the thought of YT deminitizing their channels makes em cease talking about it???
I mean… I was isolated in elementary school cuz people thought I was annoying and bullied because of a popular kid spreading rumors about me. I 100% thought it was all me and part of it was, but when I was outside of school I made friends and actually had meaningful friendships with people. Statistics is a great thing when it comes to analyzing things, in her case, the common denominator is her. If absolutely everyone is the problem, then the problem is you. A good thing to keep in mind is if everyone is being mean to you, then you’re most likely the mean one.
As a black woman, this is the type of female I stay far away from. TOXIC. No matter what you say, she will play the victim and then turn around and do and say the same thing the same way to you. I had a friend like that and everyone would let her have the last word to avoid confrontation. One day I had enough and told her about herself. Her response was "How dare you, no one has ever spoken to me like that before!!" I told her, well it's about time someone did.
Im genuinly not trying to be an asshole here, but i think women are unaware how common of a trait that is with yall. I love blk women to death but i know waaaayyyyyy too many that will lose friendships, alienate themselves and the world burn before admitting fault
I don't know a single autistic person like this, she just heard about the symptoms and either misdiagnosed herself or latched onto it as an excuse for her terrible behaviour. Just from this video alone I can tell she's an unpleasant person to deal with and doesn't take accountability for any of her actions. I really hope for her own sake she changes or she has a lonely road ahead of her.
Ooh good point, that's one of the reasons why she comes across as so selfish. She claims that other people should be considerate and give her the benefit of the doubt but doesn't think she should do the same and thinks that is fair!
Agreed. I heard a guy named Dr. Sam Vaknin mentioned that with some kind of Narcissism, like covert kind, they are obsessed with empathy or compassion, one-sided at least.
And you noticed how she tried her best to deflect and NOT answer the question. She knew what she was doing... she's just mad that WE also knew what she was doing.
She went to interview herself, Shannon was kind of tired listening, it not easy to stay in one environment with someone who is so negative, it drains you.
He was being so kind and patient with her too. He is with everyone obviously but 10 years down the road, we can all safely assume she won't be a repeat guest.
Yes and when she cries about being held accountable she is laughed at and gets more upset because they are not empathetic... You weren't empathetic to him, why should they be to you?... And then she got the nerve to say that people think she's mean when she holds them accountable.... Accountability goes both ways lol. She was so rude to Shannon and he let it slide, but if someone asks her she won't even acknowledge her snyderemarks.
Exactly! And she’s supposed to be “pro-black” but couldn’t understand why another pro-black person wouldn’t want to be called the n word? She makes no sense.
@@riri_renee5550 She isn't pro-black. She's anti-everything that isn't her. She doesn't like white people because they're "all racist", even though 99% of the time their behavior towards her is probably due to her being a pile of poo. She doesn't like fellow black people because they're "colorist" towards her. It's definitely THAT, and not the way she treats people. She doesn't like men, because they're all "sexist", it's definitely that, and not the way she treats men. She's taken every aspect of her identity and made herself out to be a victim. She's ALWAYS the victim. She is not pro-anything except herself.
@@PressPowerPlay "n-word" is both words but it's usually -a. She called him nigga and he didn't like it, which is fine you don't use that language with ppl you done even know yet
Amanda Seales' mother just spoiled her to the point that Amanda thinks that everyone is suppose to spoil her like her mother did. That's where her attitude comes from.
100% I knew a guy that was spoiled rotten as a kid and he really thought his shit tasted like ice cream. His arrogance was insane, I just had to cut off the relationship and he couldn't understand why.
Yup, that's what happens when you tell your child that anyone that has a problem with you has a problem with themselves and are always wrong and haters lol
4:01 To be fair, some women can be petty af. They really won’t like you for no real reason. And if the queen bee don’t like you, none of them will like you.
I have autism and because of that I try to be extra conscious of how I treat/talk to people. She doesn't even have an actual diagnosis and she is justing using it as an excuse to play the victim after treating people poorly.
That’s what I said in my comment. The difference between her and other autistic people I know is that she doesn’t care at all about anyone else, and other autistic people try to be more understanding and sensitive to how society functions. The only diagnosis I see in her is narcissism. 🙄
She probably doesn’t even have a therapist she might of have one at one point but she seems like the type to leave from therapist to therapist if she feels like they’re not agreeing with her
It has the same energy of when it is uncovered that a woman lied about being assaulted. There are a few women who straight up think that it’s best to keeping backing them as a “victim” because they are a woman and she probably lied to expose the person.
I saw the interview. She’s richer than 99% of the world yet she’s always crying about something. I feel bad for her agent. Defines the word “entitled”.
Being rich has nothing to do with still being disrespected. She is not crying about anything, she is sharing her experiences. She is exposing things that go on, and y'all claim she's an acting like a victim to dehumanize what she's gone through. But let it be a white woman saying the samething, y'all would be fighting side by side for her to expose things.
Not necessarily narcissist, maybe autism with a severe lack of accountability/cognitive behavioral therapy...but that's up to a psychiatrist to work out. Avoid making psychiatric diagnosis if you're not qualified.
@kayhaigh 1 of the core components of someone with NPD is a Lack of Accountability. Throughout my education and career this is what i've learned, experienced from people when i diagnosed them and what made me see the deadgiveaway Throughout the decade of experience. The fact that people dislike this, means it applies to them. Because let's make this simple: without Accountability, one will have no selfreflection, will deflect, gaslight, manipulate, play the victim, lie and so on and so forth. Are you telling this won't happen? If so, explain yourself why and how you came to that conclusion.
“It took a little while, but now you’re here” to the man conducting the interview is wild. I think that Shannon Sharp deserves a noble peace prize for not Mushing Her Face her when she said that.
@Porter90 You're a funny one. 😂😂 I wonder why in the UA-cam section of this channel, bots and spammers like you, mostly unhinged are present. It's just weird.
“Mushing her face” would be an entirely appropriate reaction to this level of nonsense, like I wouldn’t blame anyone for having to listen to her and experiencing a moment of “LISSEN HERE, you yappy little-!”
@Porter90incels how? And "what women do"? Mf please she slandering anybody she ever met constantly antagonizes the host and is spitting in the face of neurodivergence🤣 the "mad" one is her in both definitions of the word
Narcissism is a personality style that involves being extremely self-centered and preoccupied with one's own needs, often at the expense of others. People with narcissistic tendencies may have an inflated sense of self-importance, an excessive need for admiration, and a lack of empathy for others. They may also be arrogant, manipulative, and demanding, and may have difficulty understanding how their behavior affects others.
Amanda is one of the best examples of a narcissists that I've ever seen. She has absolutely ZERO self-awareness of how she affects people. I am 100% sure that all of her stories are missing what she actually did to make people dislike her and I'm telling you...its not because she did or said nothing. I don't think it's just "Im so extra and I have a strong opinion." No, I think she is absolutely doing and saying harmful things to people but she erases it from her brain or she justifies it. This is literally how narcissists operate.
Being highly opinionated and extra is enough to not be liked. I see it a lot. And because those things are clear-cut, this is my boundary, and this is my issue it's confusing.
@@xxlovewolves8109 Sure, it can make some people dislike you but it doesn’t usually get you disinvited from all of your industry events. Getting disinvited, banned, and losing jobs is an entirely different issue.
I peeped this YEARS ago. A friend sent me a video where Amanda got mad that someone started sharing a basketball hoop with her at a public park. She made it out like it was a full-on attack.
EXACTLY what I was thinking. She expected to be the second coming of Kat Williams on Uncle’s show; will be flabbergasted (and furious) when she’s not received that way
Not just that only - the fact that she spent hours talking about her experience not saying once that she could be at fault in some of the situation was dead giveaway that she’s narcissistic to the core - not diagnosing her as that but that’s about as close as it’s gonna be until a mental health professional gets a crack on her
@@callak_9974 Completely agree. But she claims to be an artistic, creative genius; these types of geniuses tend to be too socially aware, unlike analytical geniuses. Just proves she's neither.
As a certified "know-it-all" who is also EXTREMELY literal and an only child, I got my wake-up call in college. I learned to fall back and listen more. If I knew the answer, I stopped getting so excited and feeling t like I had to be the one to answer. I was still me, but I was aware of the fact that I live in the world with other people, and we all can be better and make adjustments. I had three friend groups, and 30 years later, when I ran into people from college, they were genuinely happy to see me. Am I still "a LOT" at times, of course, but I give enough of a darn about people, my peace of mind, my happiness and my career to be aware of my surroundings and tone it down when necessary. I have worked on that over the years. Only a narcissist or Borderline Personality Disordered person with a side of Histrionics would not. 🤷🏽♀🤷🏽♀🤷🏽♀
That's really mature of you to learn to be more self-aware. I think that's definitely a part of growing up. There are adults that NEVER learn this. Amanda is the clear example of this.
I can completely identify with this comment. And, I think its why I was so irritated watching the interview, there are people who put in the work and its a balance that can be achieved.
@@Brandon-6200hum I can understand why you thought about us because of the way she acts, but on behalf of the Sociopath group, we’ll pass on that one. Sending her request to the Psychopath group. I think they’re more equipped than us. But thank you 👀
@@mamamaletAs a member of Psychopath Association we thank you for contacting us regarding the opportunity to claim Amanda. However, we believe she is far beyond our claiming abilities. We are currently sending this request to the anti social personality department. Thank you for thinking of us!
branch manager of the Anti social department here i have reviewed Ms. SEALS application and she does not fit the minimum requirements of: 1-keeping quiet 2-minding your business I am going to send her resume to the Department of delusion maybe they can help!
I am just now noticing how exasperated Shannon Sharpe looked. He looks like he just over the word salad and emotional gymnastics she was going 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
My son has autism and I understand how the world feels. For some reason no matter what happens he can't seem to look inside himself when something goes wrong and how he reacts is the same way. It's never him because he doesn't understand why or how it's him. She reminds me of that.
Aba, you and Preach always have me dying with the petty shit like the “people that hate you counter.” That shit aligns with me so well I can’t ever stop supporting yall! Keep it up and happy holidays!
Amanda is hated because she's always right and everyone is always wrong. Amanda is hated because she feels like she always deserves grace but never gives anyone else the same grace she feels she always deserves. Its very simple.
She refuses for someone to disagree based on their experience but it’s okay for her to disagree based on her experience. Chile we gotta give Shannon props for dealing with her
I think the excuse she was making is that “how can you tell me about my experience when you weren’t there” but in reality the guy was just sharing his interpretation of the experience and not telling her how she should feel about her experience. She dismisses other’s experience.
It's a very common problem. Another way I live to describe it is. These people want understanding but they're not willing to give understanding. It's a common thing in this modern day. Wokeismness lol
@@eleayeproctor9490well people feel like they won’t be judge by Shannon,unlike other analysts that would use it to embarrass certain rappers or actors/comedians.
Said this read this right after. I was actually going to give her a fair shot. I have heard many bad takes from her. Delusional ones . Shannon gave her a shot to truly set record straight And the record states someone willing to take absolutely no accountability. According to her everyone else needs to check their behavior. In her world she is flawless. When she is alone on her death bed, maybe she can finally reflect and see the error of her ways. Naaaaah never mind life time looney
As someone who study psychology, she's someone who thinks the whole planet revolves around her. Simply because, how she was raised by the parents that feed her the ego to make themselves the main character.
I know someone almost EXACTLY like this. They are entirely convinced that the problem is ALWAYS with other people. Despite setting fires wherever they go.
I just realised a mate of mine is exactly like this IMO.. However, I'm unsure if they are autistic or narcissistic at this stage because they hold so many of the traits?!? Which then makes me wonder if you can be both? That would be quite hectic, though, when they're going through a meltdown as someone (is autistic) mentioned in a comment.
There’s plenty of black people that don’t like bein called “nigga” but the fact she was doing that shit in a corporate setting is hilarious 😭 how she mad someone pulled her aside and asked her to stop using that word💀
Because we know it just opens the door for non-Blacks to start that BS. I had to check a White dude in my 20s for saying it around me, but I didn’t run to HR. I don’t use that word in professional setting. I don’t even use it around non-Blks.
Or like medical coverage via health insurance doesn’t exist. Most people in America can receive a formal diagnosis via a psychologist that uses private health insurance that she can afford because at her income she doesn’t qualify for Medicaid
Actually the test for autism costs in the thousands from what I remember hearing, but I don't know about ten thousand. . . **Edit: We are talking about the cost in America. The woman from Spain who replies in a snippy tone in the comment under this is from Spain, not America. And frankly she didn't say whether it is a screening she does or the more official test from a real professional. I have my doubts ... 💅
They don’t like you because you’re light skinned prettier than them and speak better than them and are smarter than them. Then she walks around believing that and wonders why nobody likes her 😅
She's the kind of person that calls you a "hater" if you don't agree with her. Imagine this: Everywhere this woman went from all aspects of entertainment, she leaves and it's the other parties fault. What does that mean?
Every interaction she has, people don't like her. And it's always because she's black or she's not black enough or she's a woman or she's outspoken or blah blah blah. She's taken every aspect of her identity and turned it into perpetual victimhood. Everybody hates her because of some definable trait...it's definitely THAT and not because she's just a terrible person.
It’s rough to watch this disaster 🤣 she’s literally the definition of victim. From the first 2 mins I can see why people don’t like her 😂 I don’t like her, and I have no clue who she is. People like this are insufferable 😂😂
Yeah that interview was uncomfortable. Shannon was trying so politely to get her to acknowledge her own part. Super scary that she is okay with claiming she has autism without ever being diagnosed
AMANDA SEALS IS EXHAUSTING!!!!!Like sis...give the " fight" a break!!! Shes the type of person you can only take in small doses because anything you say shes gonna say is racist or your going against her! 🙄
Comparing her to Sheldon was perfect.. except Sheldon has some endearing qualities.. he's loyal, an actual genius, honest etc... she's closer to Eric Cartman, particularly when he claims to have Asperger's syndrome
Quite honestly love what you do here go back watch the interview and reevaluate your evaluation. I think when you judge somebody on the place of anger of a place of hate it’s hard to see them as a person. She pacifically said the reason why she say those responses is because those are things that been said to her people have told her they don’t like her because she’s. Light skin . She’s not insinuating that due to her light skin people don’t like her. And I love that you said people don’t like me because I’m perfect’ she didn’t say that. I like how you put your own twist to it diva. And I digress I repeat people don’t like her because she’s vocal. Yes she does bring up her self and victim situation but imagine living in the world just being yourself and everywhere you go. Someone is like I don’t like that….. There is only a few amounts of celebrities that care about black history and black suffrage in blackness of it. All she is not getting paid for this. She’s actually losing money for advocating for Black people. and this people don’t like her is the fact of the matter of what people have said to her and she’s regurgitating what they said, and she explained that in the interview which she would know if you were listening. I love debate, but at least bring both sides to the cuts and y’all paint her out to be the bad guy, all these people don’t like you (she’s vocal) You forgot this interview was about her life. Everyone that comes on Shannon sharps talks about their life. she is sick therapy and she’s taking accountability. If she’s hurting anyone in the past, she apologize in the video did you watch that part thing? My thing is use the same judgment that you judge yourself with. Because no one knows it all no one does. She’s gone to school have you and created a whole ass major about what she discusses on she talks about the research paper that she done to support the feeling she has love for and hip-hop and black history. Then again tone plays a big role of how things are taken, and one thing is off is her tone. She is tone deaf . She could be nicer with her excuation and all the people who come on her and comment the hatred y’all have her. I want you too look in the mirror everyone came on the show and told there stories but when she already have pre set image of her people base her of that. Remember Malcolm X and Martin Luther king had the same premise Equality for people but went about it different ways
I cant stand this broad. She said one thing I whole heartedly agree with. If you dont like me for nothing more than how I feel about me. You got one option. Take it from me. Im too tall to act small for the bitches on the side lines. #🫡
@ruthdeshommes1757 Ruth, for you do actually see this woman say she was diagnosed, then turn around and say she wasn't diagnosed, and don't question why she practically "lied" to Shannon. And you somehow missed that, which could also tell you, she might not be giving you the whole story of her occurrences, or maybe they are just more lies. It's baffling, that you defend her after seeing that. 🤦
As a father with a daughter with autism. I find it very repulsive that she thinks she can just use someone else’s struggle to validate her own shortcomings and misbehaviors with such grandiosity and egotistical malice. Nasty Work 🤮
I'm Autistic myself and I did not understand a single part of Amanda Seales definition of Autism.
The definition I use to explain to people for the most part is that someone who has autism has a harder time understanding social cues. Meaning they can have a hard time telling whether or not someone is joking, and reading emotions. As a result, they can unintentionally make people feel angry and or uncomfortable without knowing they have made them angry or uncomfortable. Obviously, since autism is a spectrum there is a wide range of people who can read emotions more easily than others, however said person with autism has to be willing to stop and learn how to understand these social cues in order to avoid making people angry and or uncomfortable. This has happened to me plenty of times, and I've made plenty of people angry and or uncomfortable without knowing it, I was lucky to have good friends and family members to point out when I made those mistakes so I didn't repeat them.
From what I can tell Amanda's either an undiagnosed Narcissist or is an autistic person who is not willing to learn from her mistakes. The way she gave her definition of autism, where people will misunderstand her to make her look bad, puts the blame on others for her mis treatment when really she's the one who has mistreated others.
Wow...
This is amazing...
I was explaining in another commenter's thread something similar.
I am also diagnosed autistic, but in addition, live with Pathological Demand Disorder (or, as some prefer, Persistent Drive for Autonomy), which is a subset of autism. Unfortunately, the slightest hint of advice or suggestion from someone can bring forth a meltdown.
Even me knowing I have to do something, but it feels too much of a demand, I will refrain from doing it, even if it is beneficial.
Throughout this experience, I have lost many friends saying "no one understands me", placing blame on everyone else and not acknowledging my issues.
The point is... when one becomes aware of issues they may have, and when it transcends to issues with others consistently, even if it takes time, they are usually aware that it is usually not others which are the issue.
There is only so much blaming towards others you can do, whether you are autistic or not.
I still have the same issues, the only thing now is...if I do have a meltdown or become defensive, I apologise for my acts, for they are difficult to control. I also let people know ahead of the conversation these things may happen depending on the narrative of the conversation. That, or I just refrain from any deep conversation (which is thoroughly difficult for me)...
Amanda seemed extremely aware that EVERYONE ELSE was the issue... I never knew avoiding accountability was an autism issue...
Once again, I really adore your perspective.
Where’s aba and preaches comment?
This! I'm an African in Africa who's never been diagnosed but has a somewhat difficult time connecting with people. I made sure to study social cues and read people's expressions. I'd always replay the day's events and see if I unintentionally upset anyone then I'd speak to them the next day, ask them how they felt about what I'd said to them and then apologise if they said it left a bad taste in their mouth (this was back in my corporate days).
Amanda doesn't seem to take accountability for her actions and would rather put the blame on other people. Shameful
@@tonyfam3935 ..which one?
This, I am diagnosed Autistic and I am looking at Amanda and thinking I don’t even know what she is talking about, she just sounds like a narcissist who is using Autism as an excuse to be horrible. Like I couldn’t even hug my parents and get uncomfortable around my partner. I make people feel uncomfortable without even realising and she just sounds like she is self absorbed as opposed to autistic.
"It's not me, it's them." ... every narcissist ever.
I know she doesn’t have a man. How could ANY man put up with this behavior?
I normally hate how people throw the word narcissist around on the internet these days, but this is 100% warranted. Everything she says screams clinical narcissism, I think her doctor might have lied to her about the autism thing
@@MasterIceyyPeople with NPD rarely seek help, and when they do they are often misdiagnosed, becuase they lie to their providers to protect their ego.
And she claims (self diagnosed)to be on the autism spectrum, are we even surprised always the victim thats a 🤪🦄🐩
@@MasterIceyy bro there was never a doctor she took an online test and ran with the results lol
If a person says "I am a genius" that usually means that person is not a genius.
That's what I came here to write... lol
😂
Genius take
People ate it up when Kanye said it tho.
Dunning Krueger at its finest
Amanda Seales saying Jussie Smollett is 'low-key noble'...says alot!!😂😂😂
its scary actually
Wow. Didn't hear that yet. Yeah, shes just insane....
I say the same thing every time!!!
Narcissistic birds of a feather.
It's the "low key" that gets me 😭
"It took us a little, but you're here" is an insane thing to say to someone trying their hardest to make you look good.
This was such an out of pocket thing to say to Shannon!!!
@@silversentinalShannon is not a respectable man. He's nothing to honor but she was wrong for answering like that to anyone not because it's Shannon
@@StraightTruth-lx7ko How's he not a respectable guy? What's his dirt?
Desperately trying to make sense of the nonsense she’s presenting and she’s mad at him for having a hard time doing that 😂😂 she needs therapy
@ESMC1288 he's hiding that he's thinkin just the same that she a spoiled smart ass brat (especially when his hand was in front of his mouth) 😂
"I was recently diagnosed with autism"
"By who?"
"By me, duh!"
She said that forreal? I haven't finished the video but I"m checking the comments. If she said that I'ma trip.
@@kingdavid8657pack your bags😂
Well, she is a genius. Self proclaimed, but, yeah.
Lol 😂
undermining = calling people out for lying 😂
Growing up my mother always told me “if everywhere you go you have the same problem, the problem is you”. 😅
My grandmother said the same thing. They ain’t never been wrong! 💯
Yea i had to sit myself down and say “It’s you girl.” 😂
Amanda's mama damn sure did teach her that...
What’s the common denominator? Gotta look in the mirror at some point.
Yup. Simple math.
I love how Shannon slowly but surely realizes that she is the problem😭
Idk why you're disrepecting him like that. Nothing about that was "slowly", he recognized the thing he was dealing with right away lol
He actually pittied how obviously wounded she is. He totally had her number
I felt worse for Shannon. He immediately realized she was the common denominator. He kept quiet just to avoid making her 'list'. Masculine energy in a feminine shell... recipe for disaster. Unfortunately, mainstream media has idolized this ideaology.
This is a woman who needs to be "handled" and he did a great job. Nobody wants the deal with this headache on a daily basis.
@@DeadlyD05masculine energy in a feminine shell implies that this behavior would be fine if a man did it. We’d clown on him for this too.
Amanda Seales would be AMAZING on the Real Housewives franchise. She so out of touch and messy, perfect characteristic for a cast mate on one of those shows!
Amanda: Everyone hates me.
Everyone: Have you wondered if you're an asshole?
Amanda: What kinda stoopid ass question is that?!
That right there is why nobody cares for her like that.
😂😂😂
Amanda: I'm a genius their the assholes.
“That is such a hateful and bigoted question.”
She has 0 ability to be introspective. She thinks she can act however she wants, and people need to adjust to her.
She's putting negative intentions on everyone else while accusing them of unjustly doing the same thing to her.
for someone claiming to be autistic she has an impressive ability to know what everyone else feels.
The fact that she couldn’t even explain autism properly but diagnosis herself as one says everything 😂
She understands social cues she just thinks she is too good to follow them. No autism.
its narcissim or sometimes called a princess complex. ive never heard from actual autistic people ever used autism as an excuse to be a shitty person. im guessing she just picked it up somewhere and just ran with it.
@@beewest5704Autistic people can understand social cues though, it’s just not natural to them. You should look up masking.
@@lerga14I have Asperger's but I have a pretty good grasp on social cues. When I was a kid I didn't have friends so I would just observe others
40 years on this planet, no one likes to be around you, and you never asked yourself, “WHY?”. That lack of self-awareness and accountability is scary
No, she's asked herself, "Why?" . She's just came up with the conclusion that everyone else is the problem.🤣
@@TexasChick45lol, that's not how "why," works.
If everywhere you go smells like shit then you need to check your pants
I know a 64-year old that acts like this 💀
@@Aaron-kj8dvim about to start using this😂
Im a licensed therapist. Here are my thoughts; Amanda is extremely subconsciously insecure. As a result, her default personality setting is defensiveness. Her defense mechanism is to fein arrogance in the form of false superiority. This is why she claims people hate her because they are jealous or spiteful of her success. This fake superiority is likely because at some point in her early life, she determined that in order to survive her home life she had to pretend to be confident. At some point she pretended so much that defensiveness and fake confidence became her entire personality. As a result, she is incapable of 100% personal accountability. This is often referred to as a personality disorder. Symptoms include unstable relationships, anger, difficulty at work, difficulty regulating emotions, suspiciousness and distrust, need for instant gratification, etc. sound familiar?
100%
I’m not a therapist but she strongly radiates NPD. I think she developed NPD as a result of these triggers.
Every place she has gone, she's been a problem because of her superiority complex.
Idk if you were actually a therapist you’d understand that everything she’s going through is exactly what people with high IQs, those with certain learning disabilities which is common with people with high IQs, and those who are on the spectrum etc deal with. They become socially isolated and get picked on and ostracized for their neurodivergence and atypical mannerisms and social awkwardness. I will never understand why in society people hate the bold and opinionated-then people are asked of their opinions.
I'm no therapist, but it seems as though she expects an instant personal connection with everyone she encounters. I gathered this from her saying she "dapped up" her new boss who responded "keep it professional" , which offended her; almost as though there were no boundaries place on her end. Though it is feasible to want a personal connection with the ones around you, one must keep in mind those things have to happen Naturally and take Time. Then there are those who you'll never have a connection with, let alone a personal one and that's okay too.
His body language is saying "why did i book this interview" 😂
That’s not true.
Views...😅😅
Thats his style
@@ej2507it is true even I sat and tried to watch like “why he book this lady”
Nah it's true because she recently complained about the interview
The fact that she’s in this interview telling the interviewer how people hate her for “no reason”. Then finish same interview goes on Instagram and accuse same interviewer of hating her for “no reason” is just…
I’m speechless.
Classic Amanda 🤣
That just sounds crazy.
Wait, did Amanda actually talk smack about Sharpe after this interview?
Lol I hope you're lying
@@gagewesterhouse9558yeah she been dragging him on her socials for a couple days. In her echo chamber of single YAASS Queen losers addicted to victimhood and the internet. I mean she quoting them and everything the break from reality is a sight to see.
Imagine thinking 7 college students hating your guts is just something that randomly happens. This woman cannot read the room till this day.
If everyone dislikes me, then I'm the problem
I'm surprised she can read in general
Imagine being an employer and sending out some questions to get to know a potential candidate and all they send back is:
No
Sent from my iPhone
That story made absolutely 0 sense. How can 7 people who don't know each other...come together to hate 1 person none of them know or have met. That story alone made me stop watch her interview
@@deep7544I'm wondering if her name fell off the door but she assumed it was some malicious conspiracy because she's nuts.
''...because i talk proper''
Properly dear, the PROPER word is PROPERLY.
The proper way of phrasing it would be "speak properly"
She doesn’t do either, the amount of times she says the word „like“ in a sentence like a braindead TikTok teenager
Rumor has it after this interview- Shannon and his crew don’t like Amanda… for NO REASON.🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Perfect
They hate her just because she arrived 😂
She saw kat Williams' interview and thought that she could 1 up him lmao. But instead she proved that she is insufferable, delusional, and impossible to work with 😂
Exactly lol
Katt Williams is someone you want to listen to, that's the difference.
She did exactly what katt did but everyone likes katt so y
Katt williams don't need to say that he is intelligent he humbly shows us.
@@antoniobaker3828nah she was lying and making assumptions
MAN....Shannon gave her SOOO much understanding. He listened and took her side on a lot of things. But THE SECOND he tried to call BS, she got defensive! Ridiculous!
Shannon needs to rethink how to interview people. He's weak and won't press when he should.
how he can give her soooo much understanding if he doesnt even understand what she is talking about the whole intervew was cringe cause he was so clueless about everything
@@er.8109 😆 please stop.
Nah it’s not understanding. When he pushed back, she got all kinds of attitude, started being condescending, etc and then HE got defensive, which wasn’t a good look at all. So, in order to get through the interview, he just let her talk and agreed with everything she said because she clearly doesn’t like to be questioned; even in an interview.
@@thunderknuckles3623I think he isn’t an investigative reporter.His role is basically to let people just talk without opposing because that’s his podcast style.Once the episode airs people will report on it and express their views
I'm an autistic black light skinned woman whose autism went unrecognised until adulthood.
I had groups of friends shun me out for seemingly inexplicable reasons. Being told I was too rude but with little explanation of my rudeness. Or that I wasn't caring despite lending hours of my time to support friends.
Difference between me and Amanda being that even during all of those times in school and even into early adulthood, I *always* had people who stood by my side and recognised the truth of who I was. I may have been unaware of how I was coming across to those who rejected me, but there were always people who understood me too. People who saw my truthfulness and bluntness as simply that and didn't perceive it as rudeness.
Another thing that sets me apart from Amanda is that I grew to understand _why_ I was being perceived negatively. I know how internally frustrating it is to overhear conversations where there are misunderstandings that can be easily corrected, or people are mistaken, and I know the right answer. But what I know *now* is that people do not appreciate you butting in with that information they did not ask for. I know that from this side of things the intention is to be helpful. But part of understanding neurodivergence and being a neurodivergent person is in understanding that people who are _not_ neurodivergent also communicate in ways that differ from us. Just because we are aiming to be helpful, or truthful, does not mean it is necessarily coming across as intended.
Now, I'm not going to pretend to be something I'm not or shrink myself down. But I've also learned to be *respectful* and part of that respect is learning when to pause and not volunteer my unsolicited opinion. Or keep my truthful thought to myself because it will not *add* to the situation.
Yes, people on the spectrum would benefit from others being more aware and accepting of our differences. But if we want to be afforded that kindness we must also offer that kindness ourselves.
A lot of us do have very rigid ways of seeing the world that comes with a strict sense of personal morality. There's nothing wrong with that. But if we cannot recognise that our world is not necessarily the right fit for everyone else. And worse still, if we can't recognise that every person exists in their own world and decide to try and navigate that and work with other people's differences, then we will forever find ourselves in these situations.
Amanda is too damn old and too damn cognisant to fail so spectacularly at recognising her own behaviours and how they are being perceived. She's caught up in this victim mindset and "I'm never wrong" mentality and it will continue to push people away until she is a lonely old woman. I hope for her sake she's able to step outside of herself to figure this shit out because she's acting a whole fool and... got damn it's embarrassing for her to be using autism to excuse and explain away her bullshit.
Yes, autism negatively effects our ability to communicate. But autism is not a free pass to be an absolute cunt without regard for the impact we're having on others. 🤦🏽♀️
I will also add that self-diagnosis is valid. A lot of people do not have access to adequate assessment (not in her case) but also there is a huge lack of understanding of autism and how it presents in women and black women in particular, she's not wrong in that.
That said... she should NOT be using her self-diagnosis like this. It's hugely inappropriate.
It's crazy to see a person so set in not learning how to self-improve. My personal experience with autism has just been an endless toil to try and understand why people don't like me, how I can be better, how I can be a better friend, how I can still love myself, how I can be a better communicator....wild to see someone who considers themself a whole ass middle aged autistic adult and seems to think they have never done anything wrong ever.
Autism ain't an excuse, it's an explanation, and it's annoying to see this lady throwing our community under the bus along with herself.
…I’m in tears a bit. I think this is something I’ve been struggling with and it’s lead to some self-destructive behaviors. I’m the opposite of Amanda; I constantly think I’m the problem even if I’ve literally been wronged. I’ve tried to become another person over and over again not being aware that it was making me depressed but also not fixing anything underlying.
I think k she needs a different therapist. That poor therapist probably have to fight for their life at every session
Thank u for this information.
“People who can’t communicate think everything is an argument. People who lack accountability think everything is an attack.” Amanda is the embodiment of this quote.
So are my parents haha
I'mma make a copy of this and bring it right back to you.
Preach!
@@nightfighter7452 Dang, both? I thought one was bad enough.
Seen this in other comment sections but to summarize. Takeaways from this interview:
- her teacher was racist cause she didn’t want Amanda talking back and correcting her.
- Her dorm mates in college all hated her because she had a strong mind and was pretty
- Marsha Ambrosius was intimidated of her for no reason and hated on her
- She was expelled from college cause a white kid lied on her FOR NO REASON
- She was expelled because Her Teacher hated her... FOR NO REASON (maybe racism?)
- Nickelodeon was racist in the process of her getting another gig
- She now has autism now that people hate her
- She got fired from Sirius radio and it wasn’t her fault it was her boss. For no reason
- She wasn’t allowed into the Emmy’s party for no apparent reason.
- The cast of Insecure hated her for no reason
- Issa Rae didn’t protect her and didn’t like her for no reason
- Issa’s publicist hated her for no reason
- Black Enterprise started beef with her for no apparent reason.
- Howard university decided to rescind her interview for no reason
- The cast and executives on “The Real” didn’t like her for no reason
- essence magazine don’t like her for no reason.
She claim she got autism, like bro, what?!
Aba n preach n matt walsh gone all quite over the trans stuff. Looks like the thought of YT deminitizing their channels makes em cease talking about it???
@@eatsh1tyup, but she won’t test for it, it’s too expensive 😂
no reason? lmao she got the awareness of a brick
Misusing important topics like racism etc makes them not taken seriously anymore 🤦♂️
This lady said that Shannon wasn't welcoming and would not let her speak. She seems to be talking a lot here uninterrupted .
You're kidding! Where did she say that? 😂
@@Megan6772 there are clips floating around on UA-cam of her saying this after the interview.
Typical narcissist
@@Megan6772hopped on live and went at it. I was in disbelief.
@@Megan6772….she dogged him out after the interview was done and uploaded
I mean… I was isolated in elementary school cuz people thought I was annoying and bullied because of a popular kid spreading rumors about me. I 100% thought it was all me and part of it was, but when I was outside of school I made friends and actually had meaningful friendships with people.
Statistics is a great thing when it comes to analyzing things, in her case, the common denominator is her. If absolutely everyone is the problem, then the problem is you. A good thing to keep in mind is if everyone is being mean to you, then you’re most likely the mean one.
As a black woman, this is the type of female I stay far away from. TOXIC. No matter what you say, she will play the victim and then turn around and do and say the same thing the same way to you. I had a friend like that and everyone would let her have the last word to avoid confrontation. One day I had enough and told her about herself. Her response was "How dare you, no one has ever spoken to me like that before!!" I told her, well it's about time someone did.
Im genuinly not trying to be an asshole here, but i think women are unaware how common of a trait that is with yall. I love blk women to death but i know waaaayyyyyy too many that will lose friendships, alienate themselves and the world burn before admitting fault
Man❗️
Just as a human, we should all stay away from this type of person
You were a good friend.
She needs to go get diagnose, cuz there's definitely something wrong with her.
For someone who supposedly deals in "absolutes," she says "I feel" and "I think" alot.
Proof of a narcissist
Yes it was too much! 😂
*a lot.
@@Hannibal082L
@@JT-kv8pr *W
She is so exhausting, You can be confident and not be a jerk.
Exactly.
Apparently, she can`t. Lol.
Mhmmmmm. Ugh.. 🙄😂
But that's not her she just an attention seeker , me me me
Oh my God! 😂 Couldn't what I would be like to be her boyfriend 😂. You'd have to tape mouth closed.
I don't know a single autistic person like this, she just heard about the symptoms and either misdiagnosed herself or latched onto it as an excuse for her terrible behaviour. Just from this video alone I can tell she's an unpleasant person to deal with and doesn't take accountability for any of her actions. I really hope for her own sake she changes or she has a lonely road ahead of her.
Amanda asks for a sh*t ton of grace and understanding but doesn't give it. Her lack of self-awareness is exhausting.
This is it. This is her.
Ooh good point, that's one of the reasons why she comes across as so selfish. She claims that other people should be considerate and give her the benefit of the doubt but doesn't think she should do the same and thinks that is fair!
Well said
Agreed. I heard a guy named Dr. Sam Vaknin mentioned that with some kind of Narcissism, like covert kind, they are obsessed with empathy or compassion, one-sided at least.
This is exactly my problem with her, I could never understand why I started disliking her but you put it perfectly.
Her being upset bc Shannon wants to hear her say she has been clinically diagnosed is legit pure insanity.
And the fact she later said she has not been clinically diagnosed makes it even worse
And you noticed how she tried her best to deflect and NOT answer the question. She knew what she was doing... she's just mad that WE also knew what she was doing.
Nnñ. Bhb. BBB,, ,
@Itsloco314 here's a double like on your comment cause you're 200% right💯💯
@@Remember-Death And then she had the audacity to claim that HE was deflecting in that moment! Crazy
She pulls the race card, gender card, disability card, Lightskin card. What am I missing? 💀
The Delusion.
The Assault card too.
The "it's not me, it's you" card
The genius card
@@chocolatte522it’s not me, it’s THEM. It’s all of us, the rest of the world she’s proclaiming.
"I'm autistic/neurodivergent" is the new "pansexual"
She went to interview herself, Shannon was kind of tired listening, it not easy to stay in one environment with someone who is so negative, it drains you.
True
He was being so kind and patient with her too. He is with everyone obviously but 10 years down the road, we can all safely assume she won't be a repeat guest.
She tried to tell Shannon Sharpe who grew up in [small town], Georgia in the 70s and 80s that she knows more than racism than him. HA!
She does. Apparently being called the N word doesn't make someone racist. Just because you're old, doesn't mean you're edcuated on racism.
At some point you just have to say, ok pumpkin. She’s wild.
@@noneya1238please say sike
@@noneya1238 Being educated and experienced are two VERY different things.
Wow, that's like me who was born in 99 saying I know more about racism than my dad who came up during the 60s
"If you give me an envelope made of Sh*t but there's $5000 in it I'm going to see the sh*t" - Preach NAILED it.
barbs watches aba and preach?????!
barbs watches aba and preach?????!
Woah the most random ass guest here
Holy shit lol
He has 3.31 million subs lol not random at all. @@pureone8350
“It took you some time” said the person that after being told her entire life that she is insufferable still hasn’t figured it out.
HE TALKED TO HER, FOR 3. HOURS!?😂 bro... I couldn't
More like he let her talk for three hours
Trust and believe; He hit the bar afterwards but burned sage on his way out. 😄
I was exhausted at 2 minutes. Shannon has got some patience.
He looked so exhausted and uninterested by the end.
Someone get that man a beer
I love how her being asked to apologize to someone she called the n-word is somehow her getting bullied. Narcissim over 9000
Yes and when she cries about being held accountable she is laughed at and gets more upset because they are not empathetic... You weren't empathetic to him, why should they be to you?... And then she got the nerve to say that people think she's mean when she holds them accountable.... Accountability goes both ways lol. She was so rude to Shannon and he let it slide, but if someone asks her she won't even acknowledge her snyderemarks.
She didn't call him that 🤦♀️. Why are you equating the hard -er with -a?
Exactly! And she’s supposed to be “pro-black” but couldn’t understand why another pro-black person wouldn’t want to be called the n word? She makes no sense.
@@riri_renee5550 She isn't pro-black. She's anti-everything that isn't her. She doesn't like white people because they're "all racist", even though 99% of the time their behavior towards her is probably due to her being a pile of poo. She doesn't like fellow black people because they're "colorist" towards her. It's definitely THAT, and not the way she treats people. She doesn't like men, because they're all "sexist", it's definitely that, and not the way she treats men.
She's taken every aspect of her identity and made herself out to be a victim. She's ALWAYS the victim. She is not pro-anything except herself.
@@PressPowerPlay "n-word" is both words but it's usually -a. She called him nigga and he didn't like it, which is fine you don't use that language with ppl you done even know yet
Amanda Seales' mother just spoiled her to the point that Amanda thinks that everyone is suppose to spoil her like her mother did. That's where her attitude comes from.
100% I knew a guy that was spoiled rotten as a kid and he really thought his shit tasted like ice cream. His arrogance was insane, I just had to cut off the relationship and he couldn't understand why.
thats where a lot of ppl attitude comes from ngl
Yup, that's what happens when you tell your child that anyone that has a problem with you has a problem with themselves and are always wrong and haters lol
I agree
Exactly she gives spoiled only child 🙄
4:01 To be fair, some women can be petty af. They really won’t like you for no real reason. And if the queen bee don’t like you, none of them will like you.
I have autism and because of that I try to be extra conscious of how I treat/talk to people. She doesn't even have an actual diagnosis and she is justing using it as an excuse to play the victim after treating people poorly.
Same
That’s exactly it, it makes you introspective about your interactions from another’s pov.
@lagallarda888 she lied about having a diagnosis, you would know that if you watched
That’s what I said in my comment. The difference between her and other autistic people I know is that she doesn’t care at all about anyone else, and other autistic people try to be more understanding and sensitive to how society functions. The only diagnosis I see in her is narcissism. 🙄
@@lagallarda888 no she admitted after she never received a diagnosis from a doctore and diagnosed herself.
Some people seem genuinely allergic to accountability
They're called women.
Most people are naturally allergic to accountability. Most of us though have no choice but to accept it.
She act like the world revolve around her
@@CheapGodivadon't act like men don't do it too u donut😂
This
Bro if everyone says you're difficult - YOU ARE DIFFICULT.
If you urgently need to interrupt your own conversations to declare "I'm likeable" 5+ times, you're probably not very likeable either!
There's "difficult"... and then there's the mode you unlock AFTER you beat Ultra Hard mode. She comes off as the latter.
@@darklightjg1 New mode unlocked called “Amanda Seales” 😂😂😂
Why you 40 saying bro?
Shannon was view farming with this one and instantly regretted it. He knows people hate watch this chick and now he knows why.
Amanda! Everyone CANNOT be wrong!! Your therapist needs their license revoked
Her therapist must have the highest hourly rate ever 😂
Naw, I had an ex like this. It's not the therapist fault her client/patient is delusional and runs from accountability like a trackstar
😂😂😂😂 her therapist is rich from all these lies Amanda tells her.
She probably doesn’t even have a therapist she might of have one at one point but she seems like the type to leave from therapist to therapist if she feels like they’re not agreeing with her
@@cgunna8839 I think she is narcissistic possibly even to the level of the personality disorder. Narcs surround themselves with yes men/women.
That woman is a walking personification of the Narcissist's prayer.
Lol
Dang you beat me to it she’s is on the high end of narcissists behavior! And every time she’s given a platform she “performs her victim narrative!”
Severe NPD it's crazy seeing it so open
💯💯💯
😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭
"Lying is low-key noble."
Amanda Seales
Ever since she said that I was done with her 😆
It has the same energy of when it is uncovered that a woman lied about being assaulted. There are a few women who straight up think that it’s best to keeping backing them as a “victim” because they are a woman and she probably lied to expose the person.
That was HIGH-KEY crazy . I couldn't believe she said that ... I was already skeptical but that was the final straw for real.
"You fake apologize" I love it.
I saw the interview. She’s richer than 99% of the world yet she’s always crying about something. I feel bad for her agent. Defines the word “entitled”.
When you're bored and have to cause problems for everyone else :
I believe her agent dropped her.
Being rich has nothing to do with still being disrespected. She is not crying about anything, she is sharing her experiences. She is exposing things that go on, and y'all claim she's an acting like a victim to dehumanize what she's gone through. But let it be a white woman saying the samething, y'all would be fighting side by side for her to expose things.
@@Owlfluencefound Amanda’s burner account.
@@Owlfluence no white woman can claim racism for every single time someone doesn't like her
“Nobody likes me. And I do not understand”
Spoken like a true narcissist
Not necessarily narcissist, maybe autism with a severe lack of accountability/cognitive behavioral therapy...but that's up to a psychiatrist to work out. Avoid making psychiatric diagnosis if you're not qualified.
@@kayhaichNah, she's definitely narcissistic.
Tell her that, so she can diagnose herself nd she doesn’t need to be a professional but he does, shut up
@kayhaigh 1 of the core components of someone with NPD is a Lack of Accountability. Throughout my education and career this is what i've learned, experienced from people when i diagnosed them and what made me see the deadgiveaway Throughout the decade of experience. The fact that people dislike this, means it applies to them. Because let's make this simple: without Accountability, one will have no selfreflection, will deflect, gaslight, manipulate, play the victim, lie and so on and so forth. Are you telling this won't happen? If so, explain yourself why and how you came to that conclusion.
That's not autism all of sudden everything is autism
“It took a little while, but now you’re here” to the man conducting the interview is wild. I think that Shannon Sharp deserves a noble peace prize for not Mushing Her Face her when she said that.
@Porter90
You're a funny one. 😂😂
I wonder why in the UA-cam section of this channel, bots and spammers like you, mostly unhinged are present.
It's just weird.
“Mushing her face” would be an entirely appropriate reaction to this level of nonsense, like I wouldn’t blame anyone for having to listen to her and experiencing a moment of “LISSEN HERE, you yappy little-!”
@Porter90emotional
@Porter90incels how? And "what women do"? Mf please she slandering anybody she ever met constantly antagonizes the host and is spitting in the face of neurodivergence🤣 the "mad" one is her in both definitions of the word
Oh man Uncle Shannon was going through it 😭😭🤣🤣 I don’t know how he got through that whole interview
Narcissism is a personality style that involves being extremely self-centered and preoccupied with one's own needs, often at the expense of others. People with narcissistic tendencies may have an inflated sense of self-importance, an excessive need for admiration, and a lack of empathy for others. They may also be arrogant, manipulative, and demanding, and may have difficulty understanding how their behavior affects others.
Thank you 🙏🏽 this explains so much with the people I regularly interact with
It’s unbelievable scary that she don’t see how toxic she is, I wonder if she’s ever apologized for something ever in life.
She apologized during the interview.... To anyone who she wronged and didn't intend to.
Sis the thing about pride is that everyone around you sees it but you that is what is affecting Amanda sealea
Apologize for what? She never does anything wrong.
If she has, she’s never meant it.
This made Shannon Sharpe seem like the most patient man on the planet.
Amanda is one of the best examples of a narcissists that I've ever seen. She has absolutely ZERO self-awareness of how she affects people. I am 100% sure that all of her stories are missing what she actually did to make people dislike her and I'm telling you...its not because she did or said nothing. I don't think it's just "Im so extra and I have a strong opinion." No, I think she is absolutely doing and saying harmful things to people but she erases it from her brain or she justifies it. This is literally how narcissists operate.
Agreed!
Yeah, she has narcisstic delusions. She straight up has a god complex.
she has Donald Trump syndrome!
Being highly opinionated and extra is enough to not be liked. I see it a lot. And because those things are clear-cut, this is my boundary, and this is my issue it's confusing.
@@xxlovewolves8109 Sure, it can make some people dislike you but it doesn’t usually get you disinvited from all of your industry events. Getting disinvited, banned, and losing jobs is an entirely different issue.
Shannon looks like why did I agree to this interview... trapped for 3hrs and can't leave!
"A man who must proclaim 'I am king' is no true King."
-- Tywin Lannister 😂
Lebron James
T.i.? Oh yah
I remember her character on My Brother and Me. She played a know it all little girl that never shut up.
She's still in character. 😂
She took method to another level😂
@lwc2349 yes she did 😆😆
💯 😂
When someone says "my truth" turn your ears off immediately
Facts that term is so cringe worthy and whenever I hear that term I immediately think of bullcrap
Or when somebody says let me be honest with you. Well thanks I guess I was assuming that to begin with but now I think you're full of shit
Yup, there's my perspective and your perspective, but the truth is irrefutable.
That’s female speak for “ I’m about to lie”
Yep!!!Cause the truth is the truth. Not yours mine and the third.
I peeped this YEARS ago. A friend sent me a video where Amanda got mad that someone started sharing a basketball hoop with her at a public park. She made it out like it was a full-on attack.
How much you bet she saw the Kat Williams interview exposing people and she thought "I can do that but better"
100%
🤣🤣🤣
100%
EXACTLY what I was thinking. She expected to be the second coming of Kat Williams on Uncle’s show; will be flabbergasted (and furious) when she’s not received that way
100%
Amanda: I'm autistic
Shannon: Why don't you back it up with a source
Amanda: My source is that I made it the fuck up
A Metal Gear Rising: Revengeance reference.. nice…😊🕶️
And it worked ppl are defending her. The autism community is defending her.
Not just that only - the fact that she spent hours talking about her experience not saying once that she could be at fault in some of the situation was dead giveaway that she’s narcissistic to the core - not diagnosing her as that but that’s about as close as it’s gonna be until a mental health professional gets a crack on her
i am glad that AbanPrech finally exposed their misogyny in such a blatant manner. They can't handle a strong, black, modern woman
@@canadianchungus701 She be correcting the therapist lol.
For someone who's supposedly a genius, she has a very hard time figuring out why no one likes her. smh
😂😂😂😂😂
Well, some geniuses are very socially unaware. She however has a massive ego that doesn't seem to have anything to back it up.
@@callak_9974 Completely agree. But she claims to be an artistic, creative genius; these types of geniuses tend to be too socially aware, unlike analytical geniuses. Just proves she's neither.
@@GiovanniAuditorenot if they’re autistic💀
You guys are so eloquent it blows my mind. Good job, guys!
As a certified "know-it-all" who is also EXTREMELY literal and an only child, I got my wake-up call in college. I learned to fall back and listen more. If I knew the answer, I stopped getting so excited and feeling t like I had to be the one to answer. I was still me, but I was aware of the fact that I live in the world with other people, and we all can be better and make adjustments. I had three friend groups, and 30 years later, when I ran into people from college, they were genuinely happy to see me. Am I still "a LOT" at times, of course, but I give enough of a darn about people, my peace of mind, my happiness and my career to be aware of my surroundings and tone it down when necessary. I have worked on that over the years. Only a narcissist or Borderline Personality Disordered person with a side of Histrionics would not. 🤷🏽♀🤷🏽♀🤷🏽♀
That's really mature of you to learn to be more self-aware. I think that's definitely a part of growing up. There are adults that NEVER learn this. Amanda is the clear example of this.
You win the comments, thank you :)
Like a real-life Hermione Granger! I love that for you! College can be so great for breaking arrogance and inviting emotional maturity in a person.
God bless you girl. Self aware women are truly lovely.
I can completely identify with this comment. And, I think its why I was so irritated watching the interview, there are people who put in the work and its a balance that can be achieved.
As a representative of the High Functioning Autism Coalition, we do not claim her. Perhaps the Narcissist Fellowship would be interested?
We appreciate the kind gesture but on behalf of the Narcissist Society we respectfully pass. Perhaps the sociopath group will accept.
@@Brandon-6200 we will accept the trade if you send us Kanye
@@Brandon-6200hum I can understand why you thought about us because of the way she acts, but on behalf of the Sociopath group, we’ll pass on that one.
Sending her request to the Psychopath group. I think they’re more equipped than us. But thank you 👀
@@mamamaletAs a member of Psychopath Association we thank you for contacting us regarding the opportunity to claim Amanda. However, we believe she is far beyond our claiming abilities.
We are currently sending this request to the anti social personality department. Thank you for thinking of us!
branch manager of the Anti social department here i have reviewed Ms. SEALS application and she does not fit the minimum requirements of:
1-keeping quiet
2-minding your business
I am going to send her resume to the Department of delusion maybe they can help!
I am just now noticing how exasperated Shannon Sharpe looked. He looks like he just over the word salad and emotional gymnastics she was going 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
Seriously! And it was a 3 hour interview of pure annoyance 🙄
He pittied that fool for 3 hrs!! Can you imagine?!
That man's patience level is legendary
My son has autism and I understand how the world feels. For some reason no matter what happens he can't seem to look inside himself when something goes wrong and how he reacts is the same way. It's never him because he doesn't understand why or how it's him. She reminds me of that.
Why can't they do that ? Maybe it's me, I'm wrong. It could be my tone or what I feel about others or how I make them feel.
Agreeing to be interviewed and then calling it an interrogation is a choice.
Absolutely.
That was ‘delightful’ 👐
5:05 "That's part of my autism."
Don't offend people with autism please
This part was when I knew I was in for a wild ride 😂
She’s got something, but it’s not autism
Why would they be offended?
@@8BitZ0mbie shes got all the cluster Bs.
I was thinking the same thing
Aba, you and Preach always have me dying with the petty shit like the “people that hate you counter.” That shit aligns with me so well I can’t ever stop supporting yall! Keep it up and happy holidays!
Amanda is hated because she's always right and everyone is always wrong.
Amanda is hated because she feels like she always deserves grace but never gives anyone else the same grace she feels she always deserves.
Its very simple.
Nah. She's always wrong.
The only thing I liked from her is the fact that she mentioned Earthworm Jim. That's all...
Exactly
Dayumn. RealTalk. My new definition of, "Why Nobody Wants To Deal With You."
Ty lol seriously *cause Idk
She comes across as unbelievably tedious to be around. I can see how her roommates disliked her immediately.
Just all in all exhausting
Tedious is the correct adjective
She refuses for someone to disagree based on their experience but it’s okay for her to disagree based on her experience. Chile we gotta give Shannon props for dealing with her
I think the excuse she was making is that “how can you tell me about my experience when you weren’t there” but in reality the guy was just sharing his interpretation of the experience and not telling her how she should feel about her experience. She dismisses other’s experience.
It's a very common problem. Another way I live to describe it is. These people want understanding but they're not willing to give understanding. It's a common thing in this modern day. Wokeismness lol
@@djjorge87 She's definitely an "empath"
Was it really great for content? Because it appears to be…
She's also very good at putting words in other people's mouths in the most negative light possible.
I love tht lil old video u guys used of yall self, yall been doing dis for a minute. Love y’all man💙
Never seen Shannon look so exhausted and bro worked with skip for 7 years😭
He just want $
😂😂 serves him right, he wanted the numbers always booking idiots. Katt was the only genuine one as Monique and Amanda are just a mess.
@@eleayeproctor9490well people feel like they won’t be judge by Shannon,unlike other analysts that would use it to embarrass certain rappers or actors/comedians.
😂😂😂😂 thank for this comment 😂😂😂😂
@@eleayeproctor9490 exactly 💯
Her saying “You don’t like me because I can talk proper” is peak irony. Someone who can SPEAK PROPERLY would know that’s grammatically incorrect.
Exactly!!!😂😂
😂😂😂
Said this read this right after.
I was actually going to give her a fair shot. I have heard many bad takes from her. Delusional ones . Shannon gave her a shot to truly set record straight
And the record states someone willing to take absolutely no accountability. According to her everyone else needs to check their behavior. In her world she is flawless.
When she is alone on her death bed, maybe she can finally reflect and see the error of her ways. Naaaaah never mind life time looney
reminds me of the game of thrones scene with tywin and aria
You’re right, if she were really a genius she would speak more eloquently and not so ghetto.
"Im delightful, people love me"
"What.did. you. do."
Thats when Sharpe lost patience with her officially.
As someone who study psychology, she's someone who thinks the whole planet revolves around her. Simply because, how she was raised by the parents that feed her the ego to make themselves the main character.
I know someone almost EXACTLY like this. They are entirely convinced that the problem is ALWAYS with other people. Despite setting fires wherever they go.
I’m willing bet dollars to donuts that person is a woman 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Know a few people like this myself. I was getting hella triggered by her BS bro I swear 😂
I just realised a mate of mine is exactly like this IMO..
However, I'm unsure if they are autistic or narcissistic at this stage because they hold so many of the traits?!? Which then makes me wonder if you can be both? That would be quite hectic, though, when they're going through a meltdown as someone (is autistic) mentioned in a comment.
And then they make up their own reasons for why you don't communicate with them anymore.
All the successes she's had - 100% to her credit
All the setbacks and those not 100% accepting of her - 100% their fault
There’s plenty of black people that don’t like bein called “nigga” but the fact she was doing that shit in a corporate setting is hilarious 😭 how she mad someone pulled her aside and asked her to stop using that word💀
Because we know it just opens the door for non-Blacks to start that BS. I had to check a White dude in my 20s for saying it around me, but I didn’t run to HR. I don’t use that word in professional setting. I don’t even use it around non-Blks.
Stupidity is the root
Definitely wild
I've been telling people 4ever I can't stand that word but people act like I'm the exception and say it's "AAVE" 🙄
On the set of a show that says n8gga is noteworthy..
She didn't even let Shannon interview her. She has to control every second and can't be wrong. She needs the whole humble pie.
It’s called being a disgusting narcissist
But "she isn't the problem" so the humble pie would just be wasted 😂😂😂😂
Thank you guys for your work on this. Please take the next month or two off. You have earned it with is one. OMG!
"I'm a genius!" A few moments later... "IDK why everyone hates me."
Right, makes total sense.
lolololol good catch
She has access to rewind her words, so it perplexes me too.
She said $10k like if a regular ass psychologists wasn’t $200 to get a diagnosis. She’s a pro bullshitter
hall of fame bullshitter at that. shes so deep in her delusions that common sense & reflection is outta the window lmao
Or like medical coverage via health insurance doesn’t exist. Most people in America can receive a formal diagnosis via a psychologist that uses private health insurance that she can afford because at her income she doesn’t qualify for Medicaid
Actually the test for autism costs in the thousands from what I remember hearing, but I don't know about ten thousand. . . **Edit: We are talking about the cost in America. The woman from Spain who replies in a snippy tone in the comment under this is from Spain, not America. And frankly she didn't say whether it is a screening she does or the more official test from a real professional. I have my doubts ... 💅
She has money. She chooses not to get a professional diagnosis cause it will give another diagnosis She doesn't want.
@@Elle44289Wrong. I do diagnosis for less than a thousand.
Her mum told her that the girls at school don’t like her because they’re jealous and she ran with that excuse her whole life.
They don’t like you because you’re light skinned prettier than them and speak better than them and are smarter than them. Then she walks around believing that and wonders why nobody likes her 😅
It’s so hard for some people to say anything along the lines of “damn I’m wrong my bad”
She's the kind of person that calls you a "hater" if you don't agree with her. Imagine this: Everywhere this woman went from all aspects of entertainment, she leaves and it's the other parties fault. What does that mean?
That people hate on her obviously. What else could it be?
Well, it reminds me of the Jlo entitlement, narcissistic behaviors over the years.
Every interaction she has, people don't like her. And it's always because she's black or she's not black enough or she's a woman or she's outspoken or blah blah blah. She's taken every aspect of her identity and turned it into perpetual victimhood. Everybody hates her because of some definable trait...it's definitely THAT and not because she's just a terrible person.
Those type of people are SO… tiring to be around with
It’s rough to watch this disaster 🤣 she’s literally the definition of victim. From the first 2 mins I can see why people don’t like her 😂 I don’t like her, and I have no clue who she is. People like this are insufferable 😂😂
I had a girlfriend who was just like that. And man ... You can’t win. They live in a world where being wrong is not even a possibility.
Lol. Just 1 girlfriend like that??? You must not live in America.......
@@medesrevenge9192underrated reply 😂😂
My BM is like that. The way she talks about other ppl feels like to her she is the only good person in this world.
@@medesrevenge9192 I don't. These pokémons are rare here.😂
@@medesrevenge9192 I don't. 😂
Yeah that interview was uncomfortable. Shannon was trying so politely to get her to acknowledge her own part. Super scary that she is okay with claiming she has autism without ever being diagnosed
I’ve seen the fake autism stuff online but never from somebody with that high a profile. I’m concerned for the people who idolize her.
It's her TOTAL lack of self-awareness for me
A narcisist who is educated...is this. She doesnt let the room BREATHE! Just words words words
AMANDA SEALS IS EXHAUSTING!!!!!Like sis...give the " fight" a break!!! Shes the type of person you can only take in small doses because anything you say shes gonna say is racist or your going against her! 🙄
Those people in general are exhausting and 95% of people cannot deal with someone like that
@Marcomanexistssaaaame omg
The fact Sharon went from happy to annoyed says a lot
🎯
Even he was tired of her attitude.
Borderline?
Comparing her to Sheldon was perfect.. except Sheldon has some endearing qualities.. he's loyal, an actual genius, honest etc... she's closer to Eric Cartman, particularly when he claims to have Asperger's syndrome
😂😂😂
She hit all the levels in one interview.
Hate-able☑️
Insufferable ⤴️
Unlikable ⤴️
Annoying⤴️
😂😂😂
Quite honestly love what you do here go back watch the interview and reevaluate your evaluation. I think when you judge somebody on the place of anger of a place of hate it’s hard to see them as a person. She pacifically said the reason why she say those responses is because those are things that been said to her people have told her they don’t like her because she’s. Light skin . She’s not insinuating that due to her light skin people don’t like her.
And I love that you said people don’t like me because I’m perfect’ she didn’t say that. I like how you put your own twist to it diva.
And I digress I repeat people don’t like her because she’s vocal. Yes she does bring up her self and victim situation but imagine living in the world just being yourself and everywhere you go. Someone is like I don’t like that…..
There is only a few amounts of celebrities that care about black history and black suffrage in blackness of it. All she is not getting paid for this. She’s actually losing money for advocating for Black people.
and this people don’t like her is the fact of the matter of what people have said to her and she’s regurgitating what they said, and she explained that in the interview which she would know if you were listening. I love debate, but at least bring both sides to the cuts and y’all paint her out to be the bad guy, all these people don’t like you (she’s vocal) You forgot this interview was about her life. Everyone that comes on Shannon sharps talks about their life. she is sick therapy and she’s taking accountability. If she’s hurting anyone in the past, she apologize in the video did you watch that part thing? My thing is use the same judgment that you judge yourself with. Because no one knows it all no one does. She’s gone to school have you and created a whole ass major about what she discusses on she talks about the research paper that she done to support the feeling she has love for and hip-hop and black history.
Then again tone plays a big role of how things are taken, and one thing is off is her tone. She is tone deaf . She could be nicer with her excuation and all the people who come on her and comment the hatred y’all have her. I want you too look in the mirror everyone came on the show and told there stories but when she already have pre set image of her people base her of that. Remember Malcolm X and Martin Luther king had the same premise Equality for people but went about it different ways
I cant stand this broad. She said one thing I whole heartedly agree with.
If you dont like me for nothing more than how I feel about me.
You got one option. Take it from me. Im too tall to act small for the bitches on the side lines.
#🫡
@ruthdeshommes1757 Ruth, for you do actually see this woman say she was diagnosed, then turn around and say she wasn't diagnosed, and don't question why she practically "lied" to Shannon. And you somehow missed that, which could also tell you, she might not be giving you the whole story of her occurrences, or maybe they are just more lies. It's baffling, that you defend her after seeing that. 🤦
@@ruthdeshommes1757you’re dense. Maybe you are her burner account 😂😂
Amanda Seals has done a lot of things in her career….
Taking accountability is NOT one of them!
Funny how she says she is holding everyone else accountable though. 😂
As a father with a daughter with autism. I find it very repulsive that she thinks she can just use someone else’s struggle to validate her own shortcomings and misbehaviors with such grandiosity and egotistical malice. Nasty Work 🤮
she's simply a narcissist
Crazy how everyone treats her so terrible and tries to hold her back but she famous. Damn haters that keep hiring her for jobs!