How I Stabilize My State Of Being If I Feel Stuck Or Defeated
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This happened to me, my SP started to totally conform to my knowing, because I was so busy and focusing on my best life. I sleep with your tapes on and I feel like never before in my life :) He started reaching out to me and saying he misses me and being sentimental. Then I realized I’m starting to think about him again too much as you just said and feeling disconnected. I take this as a sign !:) I’m continuing living my life and focusing on myself- because I am the priority :)
What did you think when you thought of him? Didn't he come across your mind a lot?
Same!))
@@spiritfreedom3020 well. I guess it’s about choosing yourself always , not just sometimes, right (:
@@Spoiled_princess_8888 yes🙃otherwise what is it all for?
@@spiritfreedom3020 kinda funny how we can make someone the star of our life.
:)) but I believe this all leads to something amazing and no regrets .
I especially love the part where you said "If you don't see any movement in your reality for a few days and you start getting thoughts such as "do I have a block or limiting belief", just ignore it and know that its done". This is so great to hear because I've been caught in that trap before. Everything is going to plan. I affirm it!
something that helped me detach from doing these little phone checks thinking "text from sp? text? did he text? sp?" is setting the intention that everything will happen in person. i now no longer care about texts or anything related to that bc i know itll happen outside of the phone so theres no point in checking my notifications :)
notes (:
05:00 the part where you feel desperation/urgency, just let it go, so it wont spiral the negative energy
06:50 when you let go, you are moving about your day with a good state and creating new beliefs
affirmation: "all i want is coming to me now, in the meantime im too busy being the best me to notice anyone/anything's absence"
08:40 negative attachment, is when you think about something all the time and not do anything else, positive is when you enjoy life
11:30 "it's done", drop it, enjoy your moment doing something else
12:22 do a "im-too-busy-doing-other-things" list to distract your mind being productive instead of being anxious etc. (schedule yourself, to avoid wasting time over something that doesnt benefit you
Thank you for writing these down. ❤️
Omg thank you for the note 📝
111 ❤
Thank you 💖
Thank you so much . I watch so many of his videos and today I want to put action so I was looking for this video to take notes 📝. You are amazing !
I was so scare when I'm working on my SC, thinking my SP will forget all about me as I'm not as into him like before. It flipped, the more I m stable within myself and happy and working on my projects, the more he initiate and become more sensitive and sentimental. But most of all,I successfully got myself out from a waiting state, just like DJ says , you don't even wish this on your worst enemy. It's a worst mindset anyone can be in, Everyone talking about self- love, but not many achieve it as so many layers of our self sabotage to be notice before the new one can set in. Now, I'm so so sure in myself that I can get anything I wanted. 💜💜
❤️🌅👏🏽🥰
@@gorgeeus 💜💜
when ur in a resistant being, requires self discipline 12:00
1 .get extra ASF with planning your day
make no room for idle time or to have awareness of circumstances by making ur self extremely busy if the things you have to do / get done daily
write ur tasks , even ur meals , breathwork etc
your mind can be resistant to this routine so if ur still thinking about the problems , listen to affirmations till you shift out of the state
2 . gapping ur subconscious
waking up , breathwork 10mins ur mind ain’t thinking ab the problems , then do another task for an hour and so on so forth of gapping and keeping ur self busy
3. sleeping w beliefs on stop the awareness of the problem
you start doing things that deliberately shift ur focus from the problems , as u get disciplined u align to the state of being of not thinking about the problem (takes about 3days of this strict routine ) when you stick to this very strictly u see things start to manifest
4 .don’t regress when you see movement keep going and living in the end .
5. get super disciplined and drop the problem from your awareness , meditate and repeat affirmations that address the negative beliefs
i am worthy i am stable etc
drop the awareness , create a schedule , sleep with beliefs , anytime ur minds thinks about the problems or anxiety don’t allow it to go there by placing ur focus on getting extremely busy, when it manifests it’ll be easy to insert new assumptions and watch it manifests
6. cut out lack behaviors
if you see no “movement “ don’t assume u have negative beliefs or a block , ignore it and know that’s it’s done , you are getting where you want ! remember its not about being perfect it’s about consistency
The Wim Hoff breathing method that Dylan recommends is a real game changer. I do it everyday, two or three times depending on how anxious I'm feeling, and it works tremendously to calm one down. It's become a gauge for me to see how resistant I still am. If I'm more anxious, I'm not able to hold my breath for as long, etc.
Do you have a recommendation of video where Dylan explains and shows the breathwork? I haven't been able to find a video of his with this.
@@dreamonup Yep, here it is! ua-cam.com/video/0BNejY1e9ik/v-deo.html
@@RachelSullivan73 Thank you! Does Dylan ever mention how he does it when he is anxious or something?
@@dreamonup Yes, whenever you feel that your thoughts are spiraling out of control. You're basically creating a "gap in your consciousness " to quote Dylan. Whenever you need it, in other words.
Omg....I just found Dylan and I have been doing Win Hoff breathing for a couple of months. I didn't know he recommended it, but it's been a positive influence for me.
Your 8hr Limitless Manifestor has helped me so much. I’m manifesting a marrige proposal from my boyfriend of five yrs. On day four of listening to your tapes I dreamt he proposed, then on day six one of my elderly patients, he’s 93 just walks up to me and says “Will you be my wife” 😂😂😂. I was just like omg 😳. I’m on day 14 now and I’m feeling so great and just taking great care of myself. It’s all working. Thankyou
Well done Tonya. You will definitely get your proposal. X
OMG CONGRATULATIONS TONYA HE PROPOSED YOU OMG WOWWWWW!!!🤩😌
Oooohhhh you radiate such great energy... thank you for sharing
Thank you for sharing. :) I'll keep listening to the tape.
Awesome 🤩
From Dylan's teaching only i realized what is actually "End state or Its Done"---IT means PESRSIST IN THE RELAXED KNOWING STATE OF MIND THAT I ALREADY HAVE WHAT I WANT -ITS COMING -ITS ALREADY DONE & GO BY YOUR DAY... Because why should I affirm or visualize or script endlessly when its already done... ? Yes I can feel it's alreday done and feeling happy rather satisfied & can feel that end state like for example oh my partner is so cute and all...oh I m so happy...and then go by your day...when its already mine /done then there is no need to be obsessed with techniques... Its the CALM BLISSFUL STATE OF KNOWING THAT EVERYTHING I WANT I ALREADY HAVE... IT'S DONE...
Thank u Dylan bro... U r the best... Love from India❤
@@janaina5446 OK if u love to affirm or all these things do that but don't do from a desperate state of mind...I will give u an example -suppose u have a great romantic relationship....in the morning when ur sp goes to work u feel(affirm) wow he loves me so much ...he is mine and all from a point that u r already living ur dream life with him...then after sometimes u start your normal daily work routines knowing that he is already yours...may be during the day u can think of him...so if u can think from already having it that's great...BUT if u r thinking from a pov that there is a circumstance then don't try to affirm the opposite...then completely drop it and engage yourself....do meditation, breath work and all...listen what Dylan is saying....binge watch his videos and u will understand everything...u r already that which u want...so u don't need any technique....listening to Dylan 8hrs tapes are to build a strong sc which u r doing only for yourself...not for any desires-because desires are already done...when u stop trying and realise how much worthy u r then the desires (which are already done) pop up in 3d....I hope it makes sense dear
@@janaina5446 please watch one video of Dylan titled as CIRCUMSTANCES DON'T EXIST...drop the notion of any circumstances. ..Dylan has 2 marvelous videos on that sis...another video of Dylan is on this topic CIRCUMSTANCES DON'T MATTER-SMILE AND RECEIVE. ..he explained here with diagram...and see his videos on believe also...he says align with the version of self where these circumstances never exist to begin with even....he says your only karma is disbelief. ...don't try to flip the thought...why u flip the thought when undesirable circumstances don't even exist...it's done...re watch if u need to....I also rewatch his videos...
@@sujoitamukherjee4361 hi. I am also from india and I really want to talk to you for once on this. If you’re okay with it? Please!
When we feel frustrated and anxious we feel like the external things will bring us happiness. But if we don’t stabilise our emotional state of being, even if that sp were to show up right now, we still won’t experience the joy we think they will bring us. You are the one who brings joy to external things by being present and stable! Listen to Dylan! He is the best LOA coach out there ❤️
yes thats so true
As 9i
I do listen to many oft Thema also i can say e Hicks is great listen to her too also Dylan did love
That's so beautiful
This helped me yesterday when my car stopped and I had to walk home from the trail by my house. I acknowledged my frustration and irritation but I knew that either way, I’m going to be good! A friend came by to help me with my car and when we went back, it started right back up with NO trying lol it was amazing
I had this happen to me too
@@sierraalvarado2558 God is good
Wdym by your going to be good?
@@yoloteh1585 meaning she is going to be okay and everything will be 👍🏾
This works. I used to do it naturally before I knew about manifestation and manifestation actually messed it up for me. Happy to be back to my natural state of manifesting. The sleep tracks help a lot to prime your mind for a clean slate everyday. This is where true manifestation crosses over with more practical attitudes that successful people naturally have in the world.
So if I’m saying affirmations about my SP 3 times a day is this too much? Am I focusing too much on trying to attract him back?
I have been working on my self concept as well as just going sbout my day as per usual but I say my affirmations 3 times a day. Is this too much?
Same! Learning about manifestation was such a rabbit hole for me, all the affirming and techniques. Now I don’t do anything to manifest anymore. I just live my life, drop the focus on unfavorable things as much as I can, be as relaxed and happy as I can and just let positive thoughts naturally follow when they want to come
All that i want is coming to me now, in the meantime i am too busy being the best ME to notice anything or anybody's absensce
a tip if you’re in that anxious state right now: try to not attach to the emotions. What I mean is to avoid associating yourself with anxiety. It’s a passing emotion, let it go instead of clinging onto it. I did this in the past were I would judge any anxiety during meditation or daily life to be intrinsically bad. Why am I anxious? Why do I have anxiety? It’s so stupid, I thought. This made it only worse. So, my advice, it will go away, don’t worry about it ruining your life. 💜💜
Dylan you have helped me more in the last 2 months than any counselor I've been to in the last 20 years!
Seriously he’s the best!
when you started talking about those moment of anxiety I was like 100% relatable. The latest one happened yesterday and they are indeed hurtul and easy to judge yourself for having them. However yesterday rather than getting frustrated at my self I tried a different approach to it. I sat into a meditative position and observed my anxiety, and acknowledged that it was there to 'protect' me from possible dangers and not to hurt me. So rather than getting mad about having an anxious moment and tried to get rid of it I welcomed it into my heart and I wispered to myself 'dont worry, you are safe, its all done'. As soon as my heart beat went back to normal I started affirming to myself over and over again 'I am love, I am complete, I am whole, I am chosen'. At the end of the meditation my anxiety was gone, and something that would stuck to my lungs for hours was gone in less than 16 mins. During that meditation I really embraced what it means to be gentle with your self.
Thank you for creating this comment. "Don't worry, you are safe, it's all done" is a beautiful message to yourself.
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So grateful for you Dylan. Earlier today I was feeling really frustrated with the lack of movement with my SP and started to fall into old traps. I caught myself and decided to go on a walk. I asked the universe for a sign that it was all gonna be okay. I’m not joking, the moment I walk out I see a couple doing their wedding photoshoot right outside of my building! I live on a college campus too! I couldn’t believe my eyes. Persist guys. Even when it’s hard
How are you doing now?
Yahooo Dylan!! Got my SP back!! and so much Calmer and oh my he on another level!! Thank you, Thank you, Thank you. I listen to you and Manifest with Jasmine. Both my favs ❤️❤️
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@@gorgeeus Sending you waves of positive vibes
@@Ashley-rp8fg Positive Vibes sent your way
So happy for you! Who is Jasmine?
All I listen to at the Gym is your videos. Music does nothing to motivate me, but hearing that I am the best, that I am a Queen, that I am on a pedestal while sweating my arse off gives me energy like no other. Thank you Dylan 🙏🏽 ❤️🌅🥰
I have this strange feeling of I don’t need or want anything anymore. It’s kinda like blah for everything that I desire, I feel like I have everything I want and don’t want it anymore. Would love some input guys.
I get that feeling at times too, and it's different from when I was experiencing depression in the past and had no interest in anything because nothing brought me joy and all felt hollow (thankfully, that's no longer plaguing me and won't ever again).
Now, it's like I don't need anything to feel better about myself emotionally because at a core level, I am good, always. Sure, I have stressors and can get impatient if something irks me, especially dealing with family members who did not do what I told them to do the first time to better their lives and are now having to do it anyway while complaining all along the way, but I even use those as a reminder that I know everything will work out in my favor. As for the things I do want to experience, I have already decided that they are mine, and it would have been a nice, pleasant, relaxing, and enjoyable relief to have had them years before watching UA-cam videos like this one, but I can easily visualize now if the thought of them comes up, get my fill, and know that they are on their way to me right now.
What I do find is that if I get the "I am content" blahs, it's harder for me to take initiative at first and develop a structure for the days where I feel like being more productive. I may not really need to do more than the bare minimum to get everything I want, but it's better to have something engaging and stimulating to do to not constantly dwell in boredom as the good things come one after the other.
Wow. I felt this exact same way for a while now and I recently got cured. I became so frustrated I vented to my dad and he told me “stop living life easy and small. Think bigger. Have goals.” And he’s right. Thinking big cured me from stagnation.
i felt this some times, but then the feeling faded. i’m sure i will get it back, it’s a journey and i love it!
1. 100% perfect timing. I was literally feeling so resistant af and called out your name like 3 times.
2. I love the shade mauve you’re wearing.
3. I FINALLY 100% get it. “Big” things have been showing up. When I first met my SP he showed up when I had this same kind of financial movement so I’m pretty stoked/feeling emotionally stable/trusting.
I told myself I am going to replicate your list (totally have done this kind of thing my whole life idk why I ever stopped) and dedicate myself to it every freaking day. So thank you. I learn so much from personal/specific examples.
Cheers to all our inevitable success ✨
Instead of God, even I started calling his name.. feel like he is my soul, as we all are one.. I feel little better ❤️
Can you give me little more details
@@nenamajstorovic2990 if this question is for me, then what I meant was I so genuinely love this guy Dylan, he lightens up my face, I guess it's because of his genuine soul, and 8hr meditation, he brings the hope in me, I feel much much better, he is part of my soul !! ❤️
@@ankitachahande OMG, i am so sorry. I should tell that the question is for Plant based meows. Thank you anywhay
@@nenamajstorovic2990 no worries 😀
My god I think I manifested this video! So on point! Trying to NOT focus (staying off social), but the thought still it creeps in!!! and then obsessively trying not to focus, which of course works in reverse 😂 I am now ALL over a list of jobs!!!! Definitely needed, and plus, who doesn’t LOVE a tick list right!!! Thank you for this message!!! Arse officially kicked 🤨
I think I manifested too! I’m just sick and tired of living in craziness for what I already know to be done. These videos have really helped me!
True, I had to deactivate Facebook, the stories on these groups were pulling me out of my end state. I'm not even watching that much of UA-cam videos anymore. I just wish I would look less at my sp's pictures on my phone, I don't want to delete them but it's a thing I need to stop so I don't keep spiralling in my thoughts.
You're probably do the same for the type of music and other entertainment stuff that you consume. I have a hard time resonating with stuff that doesn't have positive or inspirational messages...
@@js83 yes, I'm not listening to Lemonade anymore hahaha!
you can also get google photos & backup the pictures to that app,it’s so convenient & helpful!
I have a" hide" function where i can't see the pics anymore only if i click on the folder or transfer them on a pc or laptop 👍
Love it how you told us the straight truth of not joining fb groups to talk about our problems 24/7 so true been there done that 😂😂💙 We love you Dylan!
Hi Dylan .. you are changing my life !!
If we remove the fear of the impossible we can create ANYTHING!!
I can’t wait until you open one on one’s again.
Our last two sessions helped so much!
Hi Dylan. The long post you've made here on the community tab that explains stabilizing in a step-by-step process has helped me a lot. Especially the "vantage point" term. I think you're explaining it in this video in a more understandable way by showing us your notebook. But I think everyone should keep in mind that even though they write a daily to-do list just like you do, if they are doing it in a "vantage point" of "I'm doing this so I can have what I want", they're still in the lack mentality. I believe the to-do list might be a requirement only to *know* that you're okay without the thing you're manifesting, you're still enough, you're still capable, you're still doing great, etc.
I agree with what you said in this video. If you're affirming based on the problem, you're still assuming the problem is currently present. Affirmations aren't manifesting the outcome you want, the feeling that affirmations create inside you is what's manifesting. So when I'm creating my affirmations, *which are actually thoughts, and when they are repeated they become beliefs* I start to daydream until I can see some visuals. But instead of visualizing them from my current mindset, I assume that I'm already my version that has what I currently want and translate the visuals into sentences.
For example, let's say I have a feature on my face that I don't like. When I'm in autopilot mode my mind creates scenes that are triggering for me and they remind me of my feature that I don't like. In a case like this, I don't "think of the negative thing" and then "analyze the situation to create some affirmations". I just relax and in a mental scene look in the mirror, and see myself in a way that I want, which directly leads me to think of some thoughts about myself. And when I repeat those affirmations when I'm awake, it puts me in the mood of already having the thing that I want. And it changes my "vantage point" into a state where I can say "It's always been like this, I've always been this -your new version here- ". And this is how I know I've dropped the problem and moved into my new state.
Very interesting.
So, if I were to paraphrase, you prime the pump of your end-state scenario target by mining daydreaming for visual cues of what you would look and feel like after getting what you want, capture the essence of these by jotting down affirmations that describe, reflect, and evoke the same feelings upon repetition (but now faster and on the spot, and that can be done in the background as you do other tasks without requiring you to be fully in the altered state of daydreaming that is not ideal in situations that presently demand more of your active focus), and you shift your perspective so much that it naturally becomes a complete revision process all on its own. As a result, the original problem is no longer fixated in your awareness
Nice, thank you for sharing that insight. Upon some reflection, it's literally what many coaches tell us to do, but you highlighted an example of how you personally fused different approaches and developed your own replacement behavior procedure to avoid hyperfixation-on-problem spirals. In this way, you also change your focus instead to envisioning yourself having already received what you wanted and feeling it to be palpably true already.
It all seems like your version requires some practice to get fully familiar with it, but it also showcases that personal experimentation and persistence are needed to get lasting progress.
@@letsdomath1750Glad you liked.
This video is so important. I didn't realize how I was pressuring myself into focusing on the circumstances. Or forcing myself to do all the meditations or mindset work when I felt resistance towards it. I had gotten so used to being uncomfortable that I didn't realize my body and mind were rejecting all the mindset work. I couldn't stop thinking about my problems even when I was busy in something
I just want to say that his channel makes so much sense. Dylan addresses the fact that *if you are in a state of already having your desire, then techniques are futile*. Back then, I had a really huge problem bc so many people were saying "act as if" then I'm here thinking well if I acted as if, then i wouldn't be scripting, or doing this and that and so on.
Everything here is the foundation and it just fits so perfectly with everything that I've been told and Dylan gives such good explanations. SO thankful omg
I had to deactivate FB because I had joined so many manifestation groups and all they did was bring me anxiety so thank you for keeping this simple and less anxiety provoking
I found that too, I’d be in a ball with anxiety, I was doing all the techniques it was taking up so much time and getting me very down, Dylan skips all the crap and talks logic, so glad I found him 10 days ago and now I feel free, I’m still wobbling but the anxiety is going because I feel ok now and know I don’t have to be jumping through hoops to get what I want.
Fb is toxic I deleted it in 2017
That’s where I am 😅😫… I keep going over it and wanting answers
The urgency …
Ruminating
Ugh. He’s right
It just gets worse
Shift focus
i know Dylan is seriously spiritually aligned because he has so many orbs flying around him! every video of his i watch, i always see them
Yes, he is spiritually aligned, I see the orbs all the time.
@@sharriennis2182 it’s cool to see them just chilling around him like that. it’s not often i see stuff like that
@@taysoslay I know right, I think Dylan is the only person that I have seen all these orbs around.
@@sharriennis2182 and Kimberly
@@sharriennis2182 he’s definitely the only person i’ve seen with orbs around him like that. not even on paranormal channels do they capture stuff like that. he’s definitely aligned and i trust his teachings so much
I feel like nothing could go wrong when I watch your videos ❤️💪 I'm invincible
Hello Dylan!!! Omg...tonigjt has been a nightmare...I've spent the whole night overthinking and with anxiety. Stabilize the nervous system is, definitely, the most needed thing...
I think this is the best video ever on manifesting & living in the end 💕
Honestly I'm trying everything that you've said to do and wow!!! The changes that I'm going through in a positive way are astonishing! Thank you Dylan!! I truly am Limitless, Worthy, and Secure in the knowledge that " All I want is coming to me now in the meantime I'm to busy being the best me to notice anything or anyone's absence "!! You are truly a Blessing🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Yesterday I was feeling emotional and I just put on your sleep track while I was driving and it did help. I will do tht when I start to feel like I need to put more work into my beliefs
this video gave me a big revelation. if i keep thinking about my SP and circumstances, nothing will change at alll, even if i flip negative to positive thoughts, still nothing will change, hence why the heck am i even thinking about it at all?! simply drop it each time it appears and focus on myself because no matter what i think, nothing is going to change right there at that very moment! and it is definitely my trauma based response wanting me to pull me back into thinking about it, but no, the affirmations night time are working, slowly but surely and hence i am able to call out this behaviour, the sub-conscious mind is a powerful thing and so is dylan's work! thank you!!
Loving the tip of noting down every single thing to do and being aware not to leave space to think of any other things unnecessarily. Dylan, you are such an amazing and loving soul. Your tips are extremely adaptable, I can immediately feel the vibe and be able to incorporate them into my life right away. Your whole being and body language are captivating and constantly learning from you. With much love and thank you! ❤️
Hi Dylan . I heard about you about a couple of weeks . Since then , you become my guide and tutor for me to become the best version of myself . I watch your videos everyday just to get motivated and inspired . What you have been taking about is just so resonating with me . You are absolutely correct . We need to focus on ourselves to become the better version . Then whatever we manifest is just byproduct . Thank you 🙏
I was about to go paint my daughter's room and I literally said out loud 'I would give anything to listen to a new Dylan video!' and then put my ear buds in and opened UA-cam and there you were! So good. I have been doing a lot of great work and shifting this 'work' into more 'being' 'knowing' and 'aligning,' meaning it's finally feeling a lot less like 'work' and more like who I am and it is great!! I feel better everyday & I am so so proud of myself! Amazing things are shifting & I am seeing more and more evidence of this shift all the time. Thank you Dylan! Keep going guys! This works.
One of the best videos ever❤ You touched in details the most important and the most difficult part of manifesting. I've discovered this for myself lately as well. Staying busy with things that bring us peace, if not peace and joy is so crucial for this"process". Well, you've got what you want, so what are you waiting for? Why don't you enjoy your life? Isn't it what you would do if you had what you want? You have it already. Then live it
ofc everythings going according to plan, im focusing on myself and im getting what i want 🙌🙌
Today something in 3D triggered me, and I picked 3 affirmations that really soothed me and WOW I can’t believe I was sleeping on the power of distracting your mind and I wasn’t fully understanding what it means to redirect my focus. Thank you Dylan.
I did the same thing.. when my sp came back.. I started thinking about him all the time .. I realised that I was getting back to the old pattern of thoughts.. I always wanted to know that once my sp shows up .. what and how shld we react.. Thanks Dylan for clarifying
I received a text from my Sp, that make me feel uncomfortable... He said he needs space from me, and that's space means months.... I've been working on myself... Listening on your tapes I felt so much peace last days... but this message is coming to my mind....
Circumstances do not matter. Keep working on yourself, keep visualizing and believe that everything is going to be what you want it too be
Give him space. Say “of course - whatever you need. I’m also working on myself.” Nothing more. Lovingly give in and keep remembering that circumstances don’t matter. Don’t be shocked when it’s a lot faster than months
I said something similar to my sp. (told him i needed space for like a month). Literally 4 days later I started texting him again and then saw him a week later. People change their minds in an instant so I don’t take anything personal or seriously lol
Every single video I've watched you touch on issues that no other coach has ever identified for me. The whole regressing when things go well. AND to not think I have a block when things haven't happened yet. Have been trying to obsessively find out what my blocks are when things don't manifest. Tapping also helps get me out of the funk. After the tapping I do a self concept meditation. But I love the idea of planning the day and not "waiting"... Love you Dylan
"Wherever your awareness goes.. creates" Thank you Dylan. I absolutely needed this video cos I was ruminating on sth that have a few days ago...
We appreciate you🙏💜
I needed this so much. Thank you for the step by step instructions, Dylan! I know in my head that I need to stop focusing on the painful things, but didn't know how to stop overthinking about them.
This is what sets you apart - you are able to relate to us on a real, practical level.
You have changed my life. I am forever grateful. ❤️✨
I love you and your way of approaching this, seriously. Like it actually feels like home watching your videos!😭❤️Feeling so blessed to have found you!🥰
Me too. ❤️❤️
I requested like manifested that you'd talk about this ❤ I spiraled down for about 2 days I really need this I was in that torturous anxious state .
Thank you for creating all this epic (& much needed!) content, Dylan.
A way out of the suffering is such a gift to give people.
Much love x
Dylan this is one of the best videos, thank you for clarifying awareness and teaching us how to shift, I am grateful for you and your videos. I am so powerful I manifested this. Awesome!
OK but I love this intro ❤ so meaningful & such a good reminder “based on what you believe about yourself….. moment to moment basis…. Based on the meaning you give….”
I had fallen into a low resistant state so i repeated the answers and solutions are coming to me now over and over as I fell asleep. Stumbled upon this video today, I've been watching for months and somehow never saw it. :) Thank you Dylan !
We love your authenticity ! You're really humbly guiding us as a true lightworker !thats the best point about you! Apart from all the other faky gurus. As you're spreading this value may your life be filled with abundance Dylan !💗🙌
So so so true 💜💜💜💜 a pure Soul
Yes you are right, anxious attachment is so torturous 🥺💔 I thought this would be easy but letting go is the hardest thing to do. Your videos are like pep talks everyday for me and they are really helping me, thank you. But I feel so helpless and sad as I just want to let go my anxious attachment to my SP and build my self concept 😢 xx
i love that even though we manifest and get what we are we are connected as we were before manifesting i feel like for me i started fearing when i got obssessed thinking its me creating but the obsessing itself was a shit state of being i needed a balance of letting go, i felt like suffocating and disassocating
Good morning 💝🤩just wanna say thank u heaps
My SP and I broke up in March then in may we reunited but he said he doesn’t want relationship with anyone as his mother passed away at the same time I m hospitalised for one month! Until mid June I found your channel and start to use the sleep soundtrack and things start shifting so fast !!!!
In short , my sp chasing me again and we have been happily dating since I listen your video .. yesterday he just invited me over after driving 3 hours just wanna see me 😬and cooked me hearty dinner .
I know he is my husband and I live in the end .
Your videos really changed my life
I feel more confident secure worthy !
Thank u 🙏 I m hoping to book ur private consultation soon to help me more !
Yes instant manifestation is true as I m experiencing everyday and I m in good positive mode and stabilise them all the time !
Thank u
which tape did you listen to?
Wow so inspiring..... Plz share which tape did u listen to if u dont mind
I really have to thank you for all your work. I listen one day on your limitless tape and so many affirmation come true. I apologize my sp and she apologized. She is not over me and love me also. I said to a mutual friend that I am want to clearing up things to come over. And he said that to her so she thinks that. I am not sure if I want a relationship with her again. Maybe I want first make myself a priorty and care for myself. I feel so light and free after I apologize. I even dont care that I initate contact, because she also apologize and we speak normal as 5 weeks without speaking to each other dont matter. Like I dont know if I even want her or someone know. I am so happy with myself. And I can see with light and joy about my sp and my last relationship. I am so happy and grateful thank you dylan.
AH FINALLY I MISSED LIVES!!
Girl I saw your comment on another channel and thanks to you I realized- that when you are not stable you can affirm
How many you want about someone but its the waste of energy . I just wanted to say that comment helped me like a lot . You were absolutely right. I was that type of person who really easily started to make someone else the star of their movie . :) but not anymore . ^^
@@Spoiled_princess_8888 yep I wish I knew that before thinking I had to affirm 24-7 for a specific desire in order to manifest smh
@@Spoiled_princess_8888 aww i am so happy it helped you!
I've been "practicing" this stuff for years and I feel like I'm just now understanding it through your verbiage and explanations.
I'm so glad you talk about becoming a new person. Every next level of your life requires a different you. And that is the part of this work that is so great. It requires self work!
“Billie Eilish… what’s up girl!” 😂😂😂
Best coach on UA-cam thus far.. I’ve been listening Neville and he’s amazing but you just sum everything together for me 😌🌹
So glad you made another video. I agree with you about the Law of assumption Facebook groups. They aren’t helpful. I’m so thankful for your wisdom.
Lmao “Billie, if you ever watch this video, what’s up girl” 😂 that was awesome
This is really useful honestly cos my mind has 100% been focused on all my problems not just sp but other things and I think this could really help me release the tension and allow me to work on positive outcomes 👌🏻
I find a vagus nerve massage very effective in helping me relax when I get the doubtful and fear based thoughts. :)
How do you do it or can you recommend a video? :)
@@mary-nt3jf sure! Here’s the one I use: ua-cam.com/video/9uZ1rnKF5DU/v-deo.html
@@dylanjlg Thank you very much! 🌞
Bummer, I just manifested the money to start coaching.... looks like I'm gonna have to manifest you opening up your coaching back up! Haha :)
I play affirmations during my workouts. I zone out and am almost in a physical meditative state working out. They deep into my subconscious mind.
..seeing so much comment with people saying their email requests were still not answered.
Good. D is working!
What to do? He does have cashAPP. See his links.
Next...
..for myself..I go through two maybe three specific videos of his. Where ever I'm lead. Then I go to work. I listen to his instructions and I do in that moment what work is needed.
I always KNOW.
You can still start with his help..if you want. You dont have to wait.
He is coaching us Now.
Just Trust. Just Know.👌🏾🤔
The anxiety was taking over my life. Destroying me.
I am in the end state I no longer think of the circumstances and the old story but when I do think of my sp is it okay to imagine them in a loving way? Like I can’t wait for all the fun things we will do together and the conversations we will have! I want to also mention I’m not obsessively thinking about him but if it does pop into my head then I find by thinking of them in a positive way and letting it go by knowing it’s done has helped me a lot. So I’m not here thinking of the past I’m thinking of the future we will have and btw with your tapes it has taken my sp off the pedestal and I now know I am worthy of a special kind of love from any person I date not just him :)
Hello. You can think about them as much as you want if it's in a positive way. Dylan only warns us against thinking of them if its negative because if you do, you will create more of that negative stuff.
@@sonyavincent7450 is it okay if we say daily "I know I am wife. He will he coming back. He knows I am the only love of his life" or? I can't seem to find anything on that. Or is it too negative to say it every day? Or is it something we just know and move on like not something we give attention too everyday?
@@kyliewengler106 it doesn't matter if you day it or not. The main thing is to think and say stuff that feels good to you. Get into a state of assuming that it's inevitable that you and him will be together. Holding the end state of wish fulfilled is the main thing.
@@sonyavincent7450 thanks
Im always looking at the hat, it looks like 2 eyes but its really 2 tigers 🤣
Stop I love watching ur videos I’m jus going have full day of watching them and binge eating wish I would of discovered u sooner !!!! With my negative attachment i actually watched one video and instantly fell in love and realized what and where I was going wrong best coach to me & for me u resonate a lot with me I definitely will be life long follower/ client for you ❤❤❤❤
Oh my gosh I’m beyond grateful the universe led me to your channel a few days ago. I’ve watched multiple multiple people and nobody is as golden as you are!!! You are a while another level with your mindset and teachings!!! Or maybe it’s also because my perception of reality has switched lately so I resonate more. Haha but seriously. You’re golden!!! So confident and everything you say encourages me so much! Thank you 🙏✨💖✨
Hi from NZ ..thankyou for your amazing content ..love and blessings to you xx
this is exactly what I needed😍 Thank you so much Dylan, I love you so much,you’re the best coach out there
I‘m just setting here smiling because it makes so much sense and I know I can do that☺️Now I’m off to the gym 💪🏼
Thank you again Dylan for posting these videos just when I need them the most! You are truly amazing!
I really can’t get over your energy, so present and fun and sweet, keep up the amazing work 💗🦄
Me watching this and my brain just said "oh hey we are about to fall asleep while listening to Dylan's attract and keep a relationship." Then i yawned🤣🤣🤣🤣
Seriously l have been so mesmerized because I like the way you present your messages. I like the order. Today I finally got one of the main points I was missing. Thanks so very much.
It is humanly IMPOSSIBLE to NOT notice your desire is not here. I mean we are ALL human and we don’t walk around delusional. We cannot fool our subconscious. So how do we NOT notice the obvious..which is our desire is NOT here?
Using my self as an example, every single time I think of my SP or being back in my home I gave up 2 years ago, I think of her reaching out to me, how she shows up for me now, how reciprocal, intentional and loving she is. Never one single bad thot or “she’s not here! Argh!” It’s just a simple thot such as, “Ok maybe today is the day” .. then I move on. And the house.. I see my self there, living my life, cooking, doing yard work etc. but I’m not “WTF is it!?” I just simply notice it’s not here and move on. My point is this: is is impossible for me to NOT notice it’s not in my 3D. Can anyone speak to this so I understand please?
I was thinking about how to avoid thinking about the problems and boom this pops in. Thanks so much Dylan
This is a very useful video.
He texted me 1 minute after i started watching this video 😅
Wow. This video is amazing. Stabilizing is key. Very thorough explanation. Ty.
Wish I have found your channel 3 months back when my boyfriend and I broke up. We haven't spoke for 2 months now. I will stat listening to affirmation track tonight. Hope it is not too late. For some reason I still want him back. Thank you Dylan. You are wonderful .
It's never too late... circumstances don't matter
@@jenipher3113 Yes. I can do it. It is never too late. Thank you!
This video, in particular, was pure gold. It clicked in a different way, thank you Dylan ❤️
This is the most key video ever made for end state
Thank you for this video, I needed to hear this. Today felt like an uphill, but I gave it my best shot. I will sleep with your affirmations now 🙂
I agree with all of this except - robotically affirming works. In fact is works crazy fast! It makes me feel good. I love how I feel when I’m affirming. We can affirm for our mental state as well we are always thinking. That’s all affirmations are. Thoughts.
It's about changing your beliefs. Not robotically affirming. It might cause burn out. But whatever work for you!
Dylan, I love you. Thank you so much for making these videos. You are a testament to what it means to be a successful manifestation coach and a master of your craft
Feel a bit shit tonight, I really manifested England to beat Italy in the finals but the opposite happened. Feel so angry
I have to break from studying my class and start it next day. Almost always its easy and simple the next day, I believe mind solves and processes the content in my sleep.
You are such an inspiration! I watch and listen to you daily most of the time for a few weeks now and I am now noticing that if I put on your videos while I am noticing lack I can feel my vibration elevate even if just slightly within a minute or 2 of the video starting-I think this is because I KNOW you have helped me so much already that I trust I will elevate from my lower state if I truly listen and follow your advice, and so I just begin to subconsciously do it! Way to be a positive trigger !! I know this video is older, I really hope this reaches you. You do SOOO much good for so many people obviously and I am so glad that you are maintaining you higher states as both a fellow person and also because omg you so deserve it.
Not a huge shift with my SP yet, but noticing a little sometimes, HUGE shift in myself though :) I have manifested a few things, and a couple almost instantly almost as soon as I said I wanted it. Some of those have involved things I would like in more abundance with my SP, but I also had it happen with money once, and some family interests. Merry Christmas :)
I love you Dylan! Every time I hear your videos and listen to what you say, you always put me in such a better mood. I’ll admit, I stopped watching your videos and I stopped persisting and I could feel the difference. I am back on track now and I’m so thankful for you!
We are in lockdown atm, everytime we end up in lockdown again I struggle with "moving on with my day"..... my mind overthinks at the best of times, for some reason lockdown makes it even worse 😞
that anxious, losing control feeling is amplified the more I listened to the 8hr meditation. I feel stable and BAM huge wobble and I am confused as to why. Thank you!
I think its because your mind is trying to resist it. Keep listening to it, it will get better!
@@dinad.1612 thank you, I appreciate you ☺️
@@lovinglyme2822 of course! I was feeling exhausted after listening to it the first few nights. Im on my 5th day and I feel awesome!! It REALLY helps 💫 trust!
I'm doing confidence affirming at night. i forgot about the sp though.
u guys keep doing them. I feel more confident. when thoughts of the sp come up I just move to a different subject.