I’m there. I left my emotionally abusive husband. Since then I’ve grown to know what peace is like. I still Love him; however, I’ve accepted the fact that he doesn’t have the capacity to Love me properly which in turn allowed me to start Loving myself.
Me too, you are not alone and I’m in the greatest peace 👏🏾🙏🏾 I also learned he never truly loved me the right way.i am so in love with myself and finding me!
I've always said I don't believe in "falling" in love. That means you're stumbling and have no control. Mt mother who was married to my father for 50 years said love is a decision. So I say you grow in love.
When my wife of 32 years became seriously unwell. through the Holy Spirit I fell crazy in love with her, like when we were first together. The more venerable she became, the deeper the love I had for her. There was nothing I would not do for my girl. 18 months after her passing, that love is as strong as ever. I pray that we can be reunited.
Almost took a bullet for the one I loved... You know what they did... Called their friend and didn't even check to see if I was ok. Left that person instantly. Thank you GOD for revelation. ❤❤❤
@@judithstevens4323 I really do love everyone on a general love because it's like everyone that do stuff in to take their time to heal to grow to take accountability to cry to search that is such tenacity and courageous to try to learn different for a better healthier life style with self and with other and Most of all God our saviour
Love is never abusive and you don't want the person to hurt in any way if you can stop their pain you do it immediately. When you are in love makes your heart full of joy and is peace within when you're around that one.
I had been married for 22 years, and I know at times my wife and I did not see eye to eye on various issues, and this created a lot of animosity and hostility in the relationship. Now some people here spoke of the need of respect as an ingredient of love, but I believe being able to compromise and having an open mindedness, are as important as having respect.
It’s a selfless act of devotion, self sacrificing, putting another individual before you put your self sharing, goals, sharing, core values, beliefs, understanding each other
3. Validate each other, makes you feel valued and understood each other.💑 Both have an optimism about a shared vision,and future together called marriage. Accumulation of Shared goals. Discussing where we are going. The man must have a vision that you share together.💑
When you Love someone you care about them and don’t want anything to happen to them. But if you’re In Love I will do anything for you and be there for you at any cost . I will always want to be around you and spend quality time with you. I can’t go a day without seeing or talking to you. ❤
In love is a partnership stuff!💑 When you're in love both parties feel safe to invest their heart to each other without the fear of been abused or vulnerable with that person.💑💞 Be transparent and honest to each other. Trust demonstrate integrity.! Show empathy to each other. Forgive and seek forgiveness.
U r telling the truth Pastor ..Queens when u tell your man that u love him and he can't tell or show u that he loves u..trust me ladies that man only loves what u do for him..I have definitely been there, this man would never tell me he loves me he would always tell me(U know that I love u..I just thank the Lord,that I don't have to belittle myself for any man who doesn't truly love me..this man only loved what I was during for him..I had to learned the hard way that I wasn't really in love with this man at all...We can't make any man love us especially if u r giving him what he wants physically 😢..(The next man would have to wait because ,I love the woman who I am today...IN OTHER WORDS MY BODY IS MY TEMPLE NOT HIS🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏...THANK U AGAIN PASTOR BLAKES 😇
I totally agree. My ex would always say " a woman knows when a man loves her", but would never say "I love you". Never saying, I love you and a lot of other things told me that this man is just using me. That is why he is an ex.
I experienced someone loving me but not being in love. We were married 29 years, and I finally accepted that he loved me but was not in love with me. I have since divorced him and am healing enough to receive love again. It hurt so deeply to come to that true understanding. Thanks for exploring this topic.
I love your content! As a 50something widowed female trying to date in the world😢.... You have been a Godsend. LITERALLY! There have been times I've just clicked on one of your videos about discernment and stopped myself from going on a simple date with someone. Even though I was feeling like something wasn't quite right with them you popped up! Turns out it was a very good decision. He had a long time girlfriend and accidentally text me thinking he was texting her😂BOY! This video clarified why I broke up with my long term boyfriend because I was in in your words runnin round saying ohh I'm so "in-love" and he was NOT! For 4 years! Hard pill to swallow but this video hit home and I will no longer be pining away for the lost relationship. This has helped me move on mentally. Thank you
Greetings Bishop and Lady Lisa! This channel has been such a blessing. I await eagerly any topic you’re prepared to share. Hitting the like button even before the message!
He mentioned this would be a good one and that it was🫶🏾🙏🏽.I appreciate him dearly for every message that he has delivered in the past 4 years in my life. I will continue watching. Thank you, Pastor Blake's, my UA-cam dad, sending Good Vibes to the lovely lady Lisa❤❤
4 Faith and Praying together. Both parties are so fulfilled when in love without thinking or consideration for another. Make your spouses fulfilment your primary focus, no one else coming between us.💑 Don't assume your relationship, but be sure you're both in love. Prioritise each other, the related. Nobody comes ahead of my husband and nobody comes ahead of me his wife.💑 Always appreciate each other and don't compare your spouse to another.
👋🏾👋🏾👋🏾Hi everyone, it’s great to be here listening, hearing, and learning this again as a Widow that will be married again in God’s timing❣️🙏🏾💗❤️🔥🥰 I will catch replay for all I missed!
Key notes from video… “When you are in love with someone, you seek what you can do for them. “ RC Blakes “Loving a person is feelings that lead to action” - Holy Spirit by RC Blakes. How to be “In-Love” Requires the cooperation of the two people involved. It’s a partnership sport. You can’t be “in-love” if the other person doesn’t love you back. 1) When you’re in love, both parties feel safe to invest their hearts without fear of abuse Your emotionally comfortable and not in fear of loving that person. Being in love takes the fear out of the relationship and not afraid of being vulnerable. 31:41 A) Create a trustworthy environment. Be transparent in communication. B) Respect emotional, physical, and mental boundaries. C) Show empathy D) Forgive and seek forgiveness. 2) Both feel heard and seen by the other. 37:45 The person you’re in love with must prioritize your voice. When you’re in love, there’s no anxiety or tension. A) Active listening. No interruptions and actively listen. Hold eye contact. B) Communicate your feelings openly and honestly. C) Validate each other’s feelings D) Pay attention to body language A woman who is talking to you loves you. If she stops talking to you, she doesn’t love you anymore. 3) Both have optimism about a share future and goals. 4). 51:33. Both parties are so fulfilled that there are no other considerations. You’re not thinking about another man or woman. 5) 56:12 Both are sexually attracted to each other. Lifelong partners study their partner’s body and intentionally create and developed sexual attraction over time.
Yes in love is YOUR PERSON & being selfless....Love can be for many things & selfishness. TY ❤ Pastor....YOU ARE ON FIRE AS ALWAYS 🔥 I am guilty pastor of being in love all by myself. And the love died down to having love for them & let him go cuz I DESERVE being in love back. I broke the demonic chains. PRAISE GOD❗💯
I relate to it. I am in a friendship with a gentleman and he says that to me. I told him how can you love me when you don't know me. We have only been communicating for about 2 or 3 months. Platonically, no touchy feely. He always texts it, or says it. I'm attracted to him and I enjoy his company and communication but it's just that when I do love I love hard and I know I do have deep feelings for him. Love is just very meaningful and deep for me. I want to thank you for all your teachings as well. I really enjoy you. Blessings. 🙏🏾
Thank you minister RC Blakes you’ve been on fire recently with daily doses of wisdom and knowledge for us women praying for healing, understanding, and healthy and loving relationships.
MAN OF GOD! You broke that concept down and made it palatable and biblical! I was just telling someone the other day that my first marriage we were not in love butt in lust. Saved, but I was told it's better to marry than to burn. It cost me, me!
I know love as it relates to my Parents. However, I don't know what it looks like to love a Man that approaches me and see's a future with me. I cannot imagine myself getting to that point. I am definitely tuning into this video because it's teaching me what I need to know more of before I even get in a relationship.
Preach Pastor, keep dropping those Nuggets. You are so on point.💯 Being vulnerable is what gets me. So Scary, but you definitely will know if he or she is the one. Very good topic. 🙏❤️
I relate to it fully. I fell out of love with him due to his behavior. Then I loved him until he put his hands on me and I couldn’t love him any longer
My ex boyfriend said, “ I’ll always love you and I want you to understand that.” Then he broke up with me a week later. I agree with you what you said. ❤️
2. The person I'm in love with must priortise my voice, makes me feel heard& seen. When you're in love, there is no anxiety. Both parties feel heard & seen. You listen to each other.💑💞 Share more details of your experiences
Absolutely True In love is an Agenda, you can be Temporary you can be in or out of an hour but loving a person solid foundation The rule today, don’t want to commit to each other Accountability Today’s Relationship Can you do what you want I do what I want. So sad that’s what made broken relationships marriages, and Homes family. great Teaching, pastor Brakes 🙏🏼❤️
I realized that love is also loving yourself first before you can actually love another person.
Amen❤!
You’re absolutely correct when a woman is in a healthy committed and fulfilled relationship she has no interest,absolutely no interest in another man.
When you’re in love, there’s no anxiety…wow! ❤
I felt that❤❤❤!
I’m there. I left my emotionally abusive husband. Since then I’ve grown to know what peace is like. I still Love him; however, I’ve accepted the fact that he doesn’t have the capacity to Love me properly which in turn allowed me to start Loving myself.
Me too, you are not alone and I’m in the greatest peace 👏🏾🙏🏾 I also learned he never truly loved me the right way.i am so in love with myself and finding me!
I feel u! Loving a person doesn't make another person love u. A marriage takes 2!!!
The difference is you hope the best for that person and their well-being, yet you no longer desire that relationship intimately anymore
it wasnt love, it was lust
Being “in love” means you can let your guards down, because you know for a fact that they always have your Best interest in heart.
You can love when you begin to love yourself through Jesus Christ
I just had surgery today and am at home recovering. Grateful to watch this today ❤ Please pray for me bishop.
🙏🏽🩷 Speedy recovery!
Praying for your complete healing 🙏
May God bless you with a speedy healthy recovery. Trust in him the blood still works. 🙏🏽
Praying for you to have a speedy recovery. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
I’m definitely Praying for you 🤞🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🥰
I've always said I don't believe in "falling" in love. That means you're stumbling and have no control. Mt mother who was married to my father for 50 years said love is a decision. So I say you grow in love.
My friend Mama say folks wanna fall in love they better know where they falling 😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
This is so good!
Both feel safe to invest their hearts with out fear of abuse.
NO ANXIETY IN LOVE.
Thank you
When my wife of 32 years became seriously unwell. through the Holy Spirit I fell crazy in love with her, like when we were first together. The more venerable she became, the deeper the love I had for her. There was nothing I would not do for my girl. 18 months after her passing, that love is as strong as ever. I pray that we can be reunited.
Soo sorry for your great loss! May God give you strength and peace beyond your understanding! God bless!! 🙏🏽
Thank you or your kind words, I am most grateful. May God bless you.
❤❤🙏 you will reunited in Jesus name…..🫶🏽
@@Labreah Thank you. The Lord bless you.✝
Absolutely, some people you have to love from a distance. You chose to love yourself because that person is not able to love you in return.
Absolutely💯💯💯💯
YESSSSSSSSS BEEN THERE❗💯💯
Almost took a bullet for the one I loved... You know what they did... Called their friend and didn't even check to see if I was ok.
Left that person instantly. Thank you GOD for revelation. ❤❤❤
“Each” feel safe enough to invest themselves into each other.
Hello to all my sisters and brothers that are here love you guys
Love you too 😊
Love you too💞
Love you too!❤
@@judithstevens4323 I really do love everyone on a general love because it's like everyone that do stuff in to take their time to heal to grow to take accountability to cry to search that is such tenacity and courageous to try to learn different for a better healthier life style with self and with other and Most of all God our saviour
🫶🏾💕U2
Love is never abusive and you don't want the person to hurt in any way if you can stop their pain you do it immediately. When you are in love makes your heart full of joy and is peace within when you're around that one.
God bless you for that message on love! So very needed in this day and time!❤️🙏🏽❤️
Love is trust, consistency and diligence between both parties
I had been married for 22 years, and I know at times my wife and I did not see eye to eye on various issues, and this created a lot of animosity and hostility in the relationship. Now some people here spoke of the need of respect as an ingredient of love, but I believe being able to compromise and having an open mindedness, are as important as having respect.
Amen
Indeed!
Facts 💯 truth
It’s a selfless act of devotion, self sacrificing, putting another individual before you put your self sharing, goals, sharing, core values, beliefs, understanding each other
Let's show some lovely hit that like button.. for our uncle for our pastor for our leader for inspiration 🙏🏾😁🙏🏾🎉🎉🎉
I pray to fall in love one day 🙏🏾
Amen 🙏
No one explains like you do RC Blakes, Jr. I am so appreciative!
3. Validate each other, makes you feel valued and understood each other.💑
Both have an optimism about a shared vision,and future together called marriage.
Accumulation of Shared goals.
Discussing where we are going.
The man must have a vision that you share together.💑
Create a trustworthy environment! Honest & Transparent in Communication
When you Love someone you care about them and don’t want anything to happen to them. But if you’re In Love I will do anything for you and be there for you at any cost . I will always want to be around you and spend quality time with you. I can’t go a day without seeing or talking to you. ❤
Even if you're heavy, love yourself enough to do your best for yourself. Amen.
In love is a partnership stuff!💑
When you're in love both parties feel safe to invest their heart to each other without the fear of been abused or vulnerable with that person.💑💞
Be transparent and honest to each other. Trust demonstrate integrity.!
Show empathy to each other.
Forgive and seek forgiveness.
When you’re in love; there’s no anxiety. 🙌🏾
I learned from what you said...in love is an intentional act of my will to be fully invested to God's covenant.
In love ….”feeling warm,safe,secure, without fear of abuse .
Both have an optimism about a shared future.
U r telling the truth Pastor ..Queens when u tell your man that u love him and he can't tell or show u that he loves u..trust me ladies that man only loves what u do for him..I have definitely been there, this man would never tell me he loves me he would always tell me(U know that I love u..I just thank the Lord,that I don't have to belittle myself for any man who doesn't truly love me..this man only loved what I was during for him..I had to learned the hard way that I wasn't really in love with this man at all...We can't make any man love us especially if u r giving him what he wants physically 😢..(The next man would have to wait because ,I love the woman who I am today...IN OTHER WORDS MY BODY IS MY TEMPLE NOT HIS🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏...THANK U AGAIN PASTOR BLAKES 😇
I totally agree. My ex would always say " a woman knows when a man loves her", but would never say "I love you". Never saying, I love you and a lot of other things told me that this man is just using me. That is why he is an ex.
@@lenebrantley221 Amen
Amen. 🙏🏽
Love has many counterfeits.
I experienced someone loving me but not being in love. We were married 29 years, and I finally accepted that he loved me but was not in love with me.
I have since divorced him and am healing enough to receive love again. It hurt so deeply to come to that true understanding.
Thanks for exploring this topic.
I love your content! As a 50something widowed female trying to date in the world😢.... You have been a Godsend. LITERALLY! There have been times I've just clicked on one of your videos about discernment and stopped myself from going on a simple date with someone. Even though I was feeling like something wasn't quite right with them you popped up! Turns out it was a very good decision. He had a long time girlfriend and accidentally text me thinking he was texting her😂BOY! This video clarified why I broke up with my long term boyfriend because I was in in your words runnin round saying ohh I'm so "in-love" and he was NOT! For 4 years! Hard pill to swallow but this video hit home and I will no longer be pining away for the lost relationship. This has helped me move on mentally. Thank you
Greetings Bishop and Lady Lisa! This channel has been such a blessing. I await eagerly any topic you’re prepared to share. Hitting the like button even before the message!
Walking in the fruit of the spirit
I love my Brothers and Sisters in Christ. I love my family.
I'm at a domestic violence shelter my name is sister Anita and thank you pray for me
To be in love will be the cooperation of the two people involved.💑💞
He mentioned this would be a good one and that it was🫶🏾🙏🏽.I appreciate him dearly for every message that he has delivered in the past 4 years in my life. I will continue watching. Thank you, Pastor Blake's, my UA-cam dad, sending Good Vibes to the lovely lady Lisa❤❤
Love is an "agenda." I like that.
Don't forget respect and compassion
I do relate to that! The act of Loving VS being in love.
I wish you were my father, RC Blakes!!
4 Faith and Praying together.
Both parties are so fulfilled when in love without thinking or consideration for another.
Make your spouses fulfilment your primary focus, no one else coming between us.💑
Don't assume your relationship, but be sure you're both in love.
Prioritise each other, the related.
Nobody comes ahead of my husband and nobody comes ahead of me his wife.💑
Always appreciate each other and don't compare your spouse to another.
👋🏾👋🏾👋🏾Hi everyone, it’s great to be here listening, hearing, and learning this again as a Widow that will be married again in God’s timing❣️🙏🏾💗❤️🔥🥰
I will catch replay for all I missed!
thank you for outlining what it means to Be In Love.................we are often confused and mislead
Beautiful message and much needed to help grow my understanding of marriage
I love how you give words to help us articulate our deepest of feelings on matters of the heart. You are most appreciated ❤
Key notes from video…
“When you are in love with someone, you seek what you can do for them. “ RC Blakes
“Loving a person is feelings that lead to action” - Holy Spirit by RC Blakes.
How to be “In-Love”
Requires the cooperation of the two people involved. It’s a partnership sport. You can’t be “in-love” if the other person doesn’t love you back.
1) When you’re in love, both parties feel safe to invest their hearts without fear of abuse Your emotionally comfortable and not in fear of loving that person. Being in love takes the fear out of the relationship and not afraid of being vulnerable. 31:41
A) Create a trustworthy environment. Be transparent in communication.
B) Respect emotional, physical, and mental boundaries.
C) Show empathy
D) Forgive and seek forgiveness.
2) Both feel heard and seen by the other. 37:45
The person you’re in love with must prioritize your voice.
When you’re in love, there’s no anxiety or tension.
A) Active listening. No interruptions and actively listen. Hold eye contact.
B) Communicate your feelings openly and honestly.
C) Validate each other’s feelings
D) Pay attention to body language
A woman who is talking to you loves you. If she stops talking to you, she doesn’t love you anymore.
3) Both have optimism about a share future and goals.
4). 51:33. Both parties are so fulfilled that there are no other considerations. You’re not thinking about another man or woman.
5) 56:12 Both are sexually attracted to each other.
Lifelong partners study their partner’s body and intentionally create and developed sexual attraction over time.
Yes in love is YOUR PERSON & being selfless....Love can be for many things & selfishness.
TY ❤ Pastor....YOU ARE ON FIRE AS ALWAYS 🔥
I am guilty pastor of being in love all by myself. And the love died down to having love for them & let him go cuz I DESERVE being in love back. I broke the demonic chains. PRAISE GOD❗💯
You make me laugh so much about Lisa's text message great❤❤
Excellent Teaching and I sense the integrity of this teaching…as well as the respect of your vows. Thank you
I LOVE THE WAY YOU TOLD THE PINK PACKAGE STORY 😆 so real 🙏🏽Thank you 🙏🏽💜
I wish we could like more than once!
Self-care❤❤❤
I relate to it. I am in a friendship with a gentleman and he says that to me. I told him how can you love me when you don't know me. We have only been communicating for about 2 or 3 months. Platonically, no touchy feely. He always texts it, or says it. I'm attracted to him and I enjoy his company and communication but it's just that when I do love I love hard and I know I do have deep feelings for him. Love is just very meaningful and deep for me. I want to thank you for all your teachings as well. I really enjoy you. Blessings. 🙏🏾
Pastor Blakes, after not watching you for some time, I wholeheartedly appreciate your words of wisdom. Thanks so much!
Sincerely,
Mabakoena
Thank you minister RC Blakes you’ve been on fire recently with daily doses of wisdom and knowledge for us women praying for healing, understanding, and healthy and loving relationships.
A woman that is talking to you, love you!!!!
That was Goooood! Love doesn’t bring anxiety
This was so helpful as I am getting married soon 🥰Thank you❤
MAN OF GOD! You broke that concept down and made it palatable and biblical! I was just telling someone the other day that my first marriage we were not in love butt in lust. Saved, but I was told it's better to marry than to burn. It cost me, me!
Congratulations in advance on your 30 year anniversary…May God continue to keep and bless you and Lady Lisa for 30 more and beyond 🎉😊
See you at the Top. Amen
God Bless you sir.🙏
This was wonderful. Thank you. Duct worry about being long winded when your introducing another new topic. It was all helpful💙💝💙💗🥰💐💐💐💐💐
Oh, good communication
They prioritize your voice! Wow…
Encourage “each other”
Love u Pastor keep bring the word we all Love you and what u do is beneficial to our souls.
Action that lead to sustained. Feeling. Its engendered💑💞
This was BEYOND GOOD 🔥🔥🔥🔥
I will be there 😊😊😊
I know love as it relates to my Parents. However, I don't know what it looks like to love a Man that approaches me and see's a future with me. I cannot imagine myself getting to that point. I am definitely tuning into this video because it's teaching me what I need to know more of before I even get in a relationship.
Amen, Amen And Amen !!!
To God be ALL the Glory!! Peace and Blessings to the chat!! ❤❤🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Yes God, let's into the message of conterfits😊
So clarifying , thanks so much!!
I love all the Scripture in it too!
Yes, that’s true. You’re loving by yourself in a relationship. That’s absolutely true.
Good morning Lisa and RC Blake's junior. Thank you for sharing your amazing channel. 💯Amen.......🙏😊🙌💯
It sounds like a dagger to the heart. Cannot wait until you unpack that Bishop.
Preach Pastor, keep dropping those Nuggets. You are so on point.💯 Being vulnerable is what gets me. So Scary, but you definitely will know if he or she is the one. Very good topic. 🙏❤️
I relate to it fully. I fell out of love with him due to his behavior. Then I loved him until he put his hands on me and I couldn’t love him any longer
Amen..so true
Thank you for this great teaching!
My ex boyfriend said, “ I’ll always love you and I want you to understand that.” Then he broke up with me a week later. I agree with you what you said. ❤️
Love Bishop R.C Blake! You’re the best
This was so amazing & much needed. I listened later & took notes. Many thanks!💜
2 way street. Amen
I’ll get to join this when I’m in USA ❤️🥳😍
Go Lady Bishop!!
2. The person I'm in love with must priortise my voice, makes me feel heard& seen. When you're in love, there is no anxiety. Both parties feel heard & seen.
You listen to each other.💑💞
Share more details of your experiences
Active Listening
You are funny but speak the truth. Keep it up 🎉👏🏾👍🏾
Preach Bishop another awesome video
Amen SIR..
Absolutely True In love is an Agenda, you can be Temporary you can be in or out of an hour but loving a person solid foundation The rule today, don’t want to commit to each other Accountability Today’s Relationship Can you do what you want I do what I want. So sad that’s what made broken relationships marriages, and Homes family. great Teaching, pastor Brakes 🙏🏼❤️