finally answering your questions: how I met my boyfriend, moving plans, living alone!

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  • @kiwistars
    @kiwistars Рік тому +55

    your personality really shined in this vlog, it was so fun to watch. the part of you being so excited to settle in the for long drive was so charming lol you seem really happy and at ease rn!! :) happy new year!

  • @jj-if6it
    @jj-if6it Рік тому +12

    Love finally hearing the proper story of how you met Sam. He seems so nice and intelligent and he's really cute! Plus you have similar jobs and interests so it's perfect. 😊

  • @Courtney-Alice-Gargani
    @Courtney-Alice-Gargani Рік тому +76

    Interesting I met my boyfriend through my coworker. She and I took a picture together and put that picture as a wallpaper on her phone. A friend of hers saw the picture on the phone and he wanted to have lunch with me. That's how we met.

  • @TaraCreel
    @TaraCreel Рік тому +9

    Speaking as a military family who buys and sells homes and owned in Joshua Tree, it is a GREAT rental area. If AirBnB ends up being a bust, you’ll have success with it as a long term rental because of the military families stationed at 29 Palms. We owned for nearly 8 years more after we moved out of our JT property and we never had trouble having it rented out. We just made sure to rent to military families (as opposed to single Marines) to help ensure our property would be taken care of properly.

  • @AdamJBell
    @AdamJBell Рік тому +24

    When my parents sold the family home I felt the same, xmas wasn't the same. I miss those days - one of the reasons I'm working on getting my own family home! For the future fam :)

  • @yeehawtomahawk
    @yeehawtomahawk Рік тому +10

    Thank youuu for talking about how Christmas changes as you get older. It's nice to know other people feel the same way

  • @sophiem5921
    @sophiem5921 Рік тому +6

    Shelby, as someone who has been scared of making bold decisions my whole life, I encourage you to take the leap and do the NY thing if you can't stop thinking about it. I have so many regrets over things I didn't do. What is the worst that can happen? If you don't like it you move on after a year. Yes, it's expensive but the move would probably be great for your channel and you'd be in the same time zone as Sam too.

  •  Рік тому +19

    Hey. :) I just wanted to say how much I love this channel and your videos. I prefer them over the "official" videos, because they show more of yourself and your day-to-day life. I love that you share that with us, and your videos give me feel-good vibes. Like I wait a day or two after they come out until I can get a chill moment and a coffee and enjoy them properly. Please don't ever stop making these Vlogs! And have a happy, healthy, and successful 2023!

  • @awilhammer
    @awilhammer Рік тому +12

    I actually prefer watching vlogs over main channel videos.

  • @skeletonboxers7336
    @skeletonboxers7336 Рік тому +9

    aha the ending scene u added was fun. candid moments between the shots like that are always my favorite thing to see in videos people create. wishing you a strong start to 2023!

    • @nicolekamzic2594
      @nicolekamzic2594 Рік тому +1

      I was thinking it was done by accident ha, too long after the black screen

  • @reginaphalange9903
    @reginaphalange9903 Рік тому +13

    Can we get an update on mom & dad church living situation?? Did they sell the house and find a new place in Palm Springs?!

  • @Lianne459
    @Lianne459 Рік тому +16

    Have a happy new year and you should definitely experience NY when you are young. I have lived here my whole life, but traveled the world working for an airline for 15 years, and I can tell you with all its flaws, NY is truly the best place to spend your time when young.

  • @jj-if6it
    @jj-if6it Рік тому +1

    I think it's always worth saying 'yes' to things as you never know what can happen, and you don't regret it!

  • @BaileyB1011
    @BaileyB1011 Рік тому +6

    Random note but I’m obsessed with your style! Would love a capsule wardrobe video with links

  • @sandradeebeauty01
    @sandradeebeauty01 Рік тому +12

    I still love both platforms.. youtube will always have my heart as a content Creator too because I like longer videos that keep my attention longer than a short video that I get over stimulating like tiktok with the content just ever changing.. that's just my thought

  • @erikquintero5986
    @erikquintero5986 Рік тому +9

    Just moved to Seattle a couple months ago. So excited for the waterfront to be done. Can’t wait to add that route to my walks!

  • @kimberlywilles8343
    @kimberlywilles8343 Рік тому +6

    I love longer videos, I haven’t really gotten into shorts! Anywho thanks for sharing! And Happy New Year Everyone! 🎊🎆👍🏻💛

  • @purrr_
    @purrr_ Рік тому +11

    you and monica are the most transparent youtubers i know

  • @leslovesliberty1776
    @leslovesliberty1776 Рік тому

    I'm almost 60 years old & we STILL go to my parents house (who are healthy & happily married), I cannot imagine Christmas anywhere else!! ❤️🎅🏡

  • @Jeroen74
    @Jeroen74 Рік тому +3

    Yes, you can have a good time with friends and family literally any day of the year, no need for those overcommercialized holidays.

  • @swithheld9905
    @swithheld9905 Рік тому +6

    haha the black screen fake out like it was the end and then the surprise behind the scenes 'blooper!' well done Olivia, that was fun ☺
    Overall great video, a very interesting ride from start to finish! thanks so much for sharing your life with us, I'm sure with your positive attitude and willingness to shift with the times will ensure your career is long and prosperous! we are out here rooting for you, Shelby!!

    • @jj-if6it
      @jj-if6it Рік тому

      LOL thanks I missed that

  • @VWHNeal1018
    @VWHNeal1018 Рік тому +19

    Shelby, I am glad you unplugged from your channel during Christmas. You give great content and you absolutely deserve time to unwind and enjoy your life. Happy New Years🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @jj-if6it
    @jj-if6it Рік тому +1

    Totally agree about college/uni not really being that important. We didn't think we really had much of an option when I was in high school. Now lots of people I know have good jobs who never went! I don't regret mine as I use my marketing/comms degree for my job, but I honestly didn't learn that much at university.

  • @AnnJo24224
    @AnnJo24224 Рік тому +3

    Could you say more about your long distance relationship. How do you see the future...
    And why you don't consider live in other fun places like Miami and etc?

  • @emilya.
    @emilya. Рік тому +9

    The clip at the end made me smile 😄

  • @dyoutubechannel8218
    @dyoutubechannel8218 Рік тому +7

    You should put more bloopers like the last 30 seconds of this video Shelby. 🤓Just an idea like that. 🙂 Great video.🙂

  • @shaileyd4846
    @shaileyd4846 Рік тому +2

    I miss your podcast!! Would definitely listen to it again💕

  • @VideoGameRoom32
    @VideoGameRoom32 Рік тому +15

    College degree varies on the job like you said. A lot of people are successful without a college degree. Shelby has proven it.

  • @jj-if6it
    @jj-if6it Рік тому +1

    Thanks for the updates! I was wondering what happened to the Xmas footage. Totally agree about it not being as special anymore as you get older. My parents also sold our amazing family home and it's just not the same. I almost look forward to the whole festive season being over...

  • @seanharding
    @seanharding Рік тому +3

    One thing I've noticed on tiktok is that a lot of the most successful videos/creators are less edited and polished than what you see on UA-cam. I don't think that just doing the same thing as UA-cam but shorter is necessarily the path to success. I think it would be cool if you posted some stuff that's more similar to what you do here on the vlog, and see how that does.

  • @bebemartinez3997
    @bebemartinez3997 Рік тому

    Yes to a podcast! Videos like this I just here in the background while I’m cooking and I think that your videos are informative and interesting enough for a podcast 💗 u guys got the voice!

  • @xfactor1497
    @xfactor1497 Рік тому

    Def make that NYC move! Loved your vid with Brett Conti and other vloggers! It's worth it for a couple years

  • @rixygutierrez
    @rixygutierrez Рік тому +4

    I want to have a New York era myself 😭❤️‍🔥 I loved the city so much!! It’s so walkable and so much to do. I hope I get the chance atleast like you said 1 or 2 years.

  • @MaiganDunlap
    @MaiganDunlap Рік тому +7

    Maybe a bit random, but I'd love to hear your advice on maintaining long distance relationships. I'm currently in one myself and love to hear how other people connect with time zone differences, balancing work, etc

    • @awakentheheretics
      @awakentheheretics Рік тому

      I would love to hear her tips and how she does it and stays so positive also!!

    • @jj-if6it
      @jj-if6it Рік тому

      @@awakentheheretics absence makes the heart grow fonder as they say haha

  • @Ian33775
    @Ian33775 Рік тому +2

    Clarifying question. You said rent a bedroom in the townhouse… which I get that primarily Monica lives there but don’t you also own the townhouse with her?

  • @VeggiesbyEos
    @VeggiesbyEos Рік тому +1

    Omg that's such a cute story about how you met Sam!! I love it 😭❤️❤️

  • @sxerosie
    @sxerosie Рік тому +6

    I really love your vlogs, you have a great work ethic!

  • @SoulBaePlays
    @SoulBaePlays Рік тому +3

    Hi Shelby, your double jaw surgery vlogs are helping me get through my post op!! How long did it take for you to be able to eat crunchy foods again? (Chips, crackers, toast?)

  • @Megan_Truly
    @Megan_Truly Рік тому +2

    re: longevity as a 38 y/o I feel like there's not yet enough content geared to my age group. & If you do to have children or adopt later in life in your late 30s or 40s we also don't have as many mom YTers to relate to on an age level. Most Mom content is from the younger mamas, which is fine but people like The Wads are closer to my age and I do just relate a bit better to my peers. I enjoy content from younger women, obviously, you're younger and all. So yes if you pivot you still could have a following as an influencer. Kim from The Wads is very successful as well, probably for the reasons I mentioned and younger moms probably like hearing advice from an older mom. Career vlogs are great too, I watch Clancy Burke I started following her as a reporter and Monica's content as a real estate agent was fun to watch even if I can't relate.

  • @graceg7151
    @graceg7151 Рік тому +8

    Why would you rent the room in the townhouse that you went half (?) in on with Monica?

    • @Jeroen74
      @Jeroen74 Рік тому

      She doesn't pay any mortage on that house.

  • @catherinebugden
    @catherinebugden Рік тому

    Some people avoid TikTok for many reasons (foreign owned, privacy) so think about FB, Instagram, and YT shorts as well

  • @marcoakastallion8621
    @marcoakastallion8621 Рік тому +3

    this video is such a vibe!!!!! keep up the great work Shelby :)

  • @jj-if6it
    @jj-if6it Рік тому

    I think having a room at Monica's is a good idea, as you can store your stuff there and have somewhere to come home to after you travel. It's a lot cheaper too obviously

  • @camelliaghotbzadeh2576
    @camelliaghotbzadeh2576 Рік тому

    Hi Shelby!! I love your Seattle content, and seeing you really thriving and doing well 😊as a fellow 27-year-old, you're probably the only person I consistently watch their vlogs and I love seeing what you're up to! Hope you had a nice christmas and happy new year!

  • @akastardust
    @akastardust Рік тому +1

    Not sure if it was intentional but the abrupt ending and then posing for thumbnails at the end was pretty funny!

  • @alexandermuir8160
    @alexandermuir8160 Рік тому +3

    Shelby, Great to see you chill for a few days. Wish you a tremendous 2023 and see your success go further and further. There are only 6 hrs to the New Year in Melbourne so I will be able to tell you what 2023 is like before you get there. 😂😂 Seriously love your channel and hope to see lots more in the New Year. 🪃🪃🦘🦘😁😁

    • @alexandermuir8160
      @alexandermuir8160 Рік тому

      Like I promised Shelby, 3 hrs into 2023 and so far so good.

    • @jj-if6it
      @jj-if6it Рік тому +2

      happy new year fellow Melb person!

  • @c4arla
    @c4arla Рік тому

    i love this about you cause I too am a big picture person and not a lot of people will be optimistic and perseverant and also a lot of people if they are wont share it

  • @juliamaeterry5659
    @juliamaeterry5659 Рік тому +2

    I love how you edit your videos. It’s so aesthetic. 🥰

  • @sushantthorat3209
    @sushantthorat3209 Рік тому +1

    Never thought a 25 min. Vlog would be that interesting

  • @Rebecca.Robbins
    @Rebecca.Robbins Рік тому +6

    OMG!!! You put my question in your thumbnail!!!! I love your content!

  • @user-sx6eu4rg2x
    @user-sx6eu4rg2x Рік тому +1

    Great vlog! Also thanks to you, and your love of sweetgreen I found a sweetgreen near me and tried it and now I understand why you love it so much, it’s so good!

  • @kimbanyc
    @kimbanyc Рік тому

    Do NYC for two years! You are the right age for it. You will have a blast.

  • @alesha9011
    @alesha9011 Рік тому +5

    I have a question for you : Why don't you move in with Sam?

  • @FarleyProductions
    @FarleyProductions Рік тому +2

    Great vlog as always! Keep up the good work and Happy New Years! 😁

  • @dpoca
    @dpoca Рік тому +6

    Loved the Q&A!

  • @lmdramarama
    @lmdramarama Рік тому +6

    I feel like your brain tells you NYC isn’t a good logistical idea but your heart wants what it wants! Follow your heart!

  • @sandy949
    @sandy949 Рік тому +9

    Your hair looks so good and healthy! Side note 📝

  • @iambatman6120
    @iambatman6120 Рік тому +2

    Great vlog as usual! and happy new year!

  • @DanFrederiksen
    @DanFrederiksen Рік тому

    Buying a house might be slightly up hill right now but apartments is a very mobile option. I was just looking at apartmentsdotcalm in LA, for instance Josephine DTLA is a high rise with killer views at same or less money than your current. The roommate approach might be a way to have social activity plus get something nice big and luxurious for little money. If Sam has business in LA he could be a roommate. I imagine you two could swing maybe 8grand. There is a 1950sqft townhouse for 5300 on Montclair that looks like a real house with parking and stuff. 5 bedrooms and 4 baths which is pretty wild. There would seem to be good options when you can afford a fair bit.

  • @Rachelizabethompson3
    @Rachelizabethompson3 Рік тому +3

    Curious why would you rent in the house that Monica lives in- don’t you co-own that house and half the mortgage? Why would you have to pay rent?

    • @mahoganydrive
      @mahoganydrive Рік тому

      It would just be paying the mortgage because she lives there whereas if she doesn’t live there she doesn’t have to pay the mortgage.

    • @sterlingmarshel6299
      @sterlingmarshel6299 Рік тому

      Because there is still a monthly mortgage so she would pay rent. They are probably split the down payment ( hence the co ownership)and any profits when the sell

    • @jj-if6it
      @jj-if6it Рік тому

      @@mahoganydrive you still have to cover the mortgage if the rent isn't enough

    • @mahoganydrive
      @mahoganydrive Рік тому +2

      @@jj-if6it I think Monica and her boyfriend pay it all because they live there. Previously she had roommates to help. If Shelby lived there then she would share in that expense.

    • @jj-if6it
      @jj-if6it Рік тому

      @@mahoganydrive yep

  • @VideoGameRoom32
    @VideoGameRoom32 Рік тому +2

    Would you consider being an editor for someone else? Have you tried to cut a movie trailer? I use to be trailer editor.

  • @louisa_clair
    @louisa_clair Рік тому

    Personally I loved your podcast and would definitely listen if you started again!

  • @alibol2343
    @alibol2343 Рік тому +1

    On the subject of airbnb I have noticed that they are doing advertising on youtube whereas I never saw that before. Maybe people are pulling out from their platform and they are trying to get other people back on board.

  • @Juliathehealthgirl
    @Juliathehealthgirl Рік тому +2

    Thank you for making amazing videos all through 2022 🎉 your beautiful and amazing .

  • @orangeguy3314
    @orangeguy3314 Рік тому

    For the next 3 months. Your place in palm springs should be renting out. I think any place around palm springs would have the same problems renting out past the middle of april.

  • @eringage5641
    @eringage5641 Рік тому

    Can you do another video how much money you made this year? Your past videos on this have been super interesting!

  • @eanna1232
    @eanna1232 Рік тому +1

    THIS is the video I have been waiting for!

  • @HeySawyerrr
    @HeySawyerrr Рік тому

    On my nespresso you can flip the bottom panel thing up so you can fit your larger cups?! Maybe yours is the same

  • @dianebaker5243
    @dianebaker5243 Рік тому +2

    Lovely video. Thanks for sharing. Happy New year 🎉

  • @alibol2343
    @alibol2343 Рік тому +2

    I only watch the channels I am subscribed to on youtube on my computer. NO tik tok. No instagram and no smarphone! AND I hate shorts. I think it's for people with a short attention span and it encourages short attention spans.

  • @Courtney-Alice-Gargani
    @Courtney-Alice-Gargani Рік тому

    Where I live housing resale inventory is low and new construction inventory is high. I don't have to worry about interest rates on my house because it's paid off thanks to me doing well in stocks.

  • @jj-if6it
    @jj-if6it Рік тому

    You said you didn't vlog him when he visited you in NY but I remember the first video we saw of him where he picked out clothes for you!

  • @Cassiusmatthew
    @Cassiusmatthew Рік тому +2

    For the OF doc, maybe start a channel on vimeo?

  • @Katieudu
    @Katieudu Рік тому +2

    So happy for another vlog!

  • @AdamJBell
    @AdamJBell Рік тому +1

    Digging the vlogs, always waiting for the next 🤙 viewing from Vancouver, just across the border :)

  • @lin-zchang4774
    @lin-zchang4774 Рік тому

    Shelby have you considered releasing the OF Documentary on Nebula or some other streaming platform? I know a lot of UA-camrs make content for Nebula, so maybe it would be a good fit

  • @jj-if6it
    @jj-if6it Рік тому

    It must be so weird being famous on youtube for over 10 years, and still being able to make a living from it is pretty cool

  • @itsbittersweetest
    @itsbittersweetest Рік тому +3

    tic toc is a no, I prefer YT shorts or fb shorts

  • @mthomas1091
    @mthomas1091 Рік тому +4

    I totally liked the podcast. Also the fact you’re sisters (heck plus twins) was maybe part of the magic… having “another co-host” sounds more like “another podcast”. (Oooh unless maybe Lauren lol).
    I dunno 🤷‍♂️ but I liked it 👍

  • @123paramorefan
    @123paramorefan Рік тому

    Check out Dahlias Bakery! I looove their pastries and sandwhiches! It’s in belltown

  • @Jeroen74
    @Jeroen74 Рік тому +4

    Was the clip at the end supposed to be there? 😃

  • @brat32179
    @brat32179 Рік тому +2

    I find it so interesting you always cook on the burner farthest away from you. I always use the ones closest to me. Now I wonder what is more common. :)

    • @Jeroen74
      @Jeroen74 Рік тому +3

      I always use the burner that's the right size. Using the farthest away one reduces the risk of accidently knocking off the pan too if the pan has a long handle.

    • @brat32179
      @brat32179 Рік тому +1

      @@Jeroen74 I feel like maybe my arms just aren't long enough, I don't think I'd be able to see what I was doing on the back burners. I'll use them for large pots of water and things, especially during holiday cooking when there's a lot going on. But I was always taught to put the handle to the side or back, so that it's not at risk of being knocked off.

    • @roxii73
      @roxii73 Рік тому +2

      I always cook on the farthest away too haha! My mom taught me it's harder to get burned if oil splatters that way. For the same reason, the floors don't get dirty that soon (and it's easier to wipe the countertops)

  • @wendykelly8551
    @wendykelly8551 Рік тому

    Think I'd of spent Christmas and new year at palm springs....lovely video...Happy New year xx ♥

  • @HenrySetGo
    @HenrySetGo Рік тому +2

    You put my question in your video - fun! 😄

  • @annievan1987
    @annievan1987 Рік тому +2

    vivian like vivian vo? i love her too!!

  • @ChaiLatte13
    @ChaiLatte13 Рік тому +2

    oh wow I didn't realize you never went to college. I totally agree with you on that. I think if you learn what people are searching for on UA-cam that will help direct you on your main YT channel. With everyone moving on from the pandemic, it's just not the same anyway. People have less time to watch and as you said, airbnb is in a low point right now.

  • @suelyons531
    @suelyons531 Рік тому

    Great video. You are so very real. Happy New Year!

  • @SweetstoSweat
    @SweetstoSweat Рік тому +1

    The Q&A made this video imo ❤

  • @alibol2343
    @alibol2343 Рік тому

    Hello Shelby. You're doing great. Keep doing what you're doing. What is the make and model of your hairdryer / hairstyler?

  • @VideoGameRoom32
    @VideoGameRoom32 Рік тому +1

    From 24:42 to 25:00 it's black screen. From 25:00 to 25:20 it appeals you're taking picture for a thumbnail. Did you forget to edit that out?

    • @you2bevsgoogle
      @you2bevsgoogle Рік тому +1

      I think the editing is out sourced by the other girl sorry forget her name,she helps Shelby and Shelby don´t look after that editing over it.

  • @thewaltersshow609
    @thewaltersshow609 Рік тому +2

    I just watched Graham Stephen's reaction to your "Air bnb lost money" video. He praises you.

    • @you2bevsgoogle
      @you2bevsgoogle Рік тому +1

      Yes he pushed her video but they are friends,funny he was not in Palm Springs anytime on this Airbnb.

    • @sterlingmarshel6299
      @sterlingmarshel6299 Рік тому

      He won’t criticize her because they are friends. So it’s not really helpful GS is a scammer

  • @jeannine1991
    @jeannine1991 Рік тому +2

    “Look at how windy it is”. 😂😂😂

    • @brat32179
      @brat32179 Рік тому +2

      There was a high wind warning that Tuesday morning. If you’re in Seattle it can seem like less of a big deal but on the east side there were massive (100+ft) trees down everywhere, on houses and cars, blocking roads, knocking out power, it was a disaster.

  • @Jesswalla
    @Jesswalla Рік тому

    You should make a UA-cam Channel just for documentary style videos and upload the OFs documentary there. Doesn’t UA-cam push the first video for new channels too??

  • @kaitlynhellriegel3066
    @kaitlynhellriegel3066 Рік тому +2

    Bryson what? Where does he work haha wish you gave more details!

    • @TheGridMedia
      @TheGridMedia Рік тому

      Also looking for the info for my wife.

  • @xoxjelloxox
    @xoxjelloxox Рік тому

    What are you’re podcast recommendations?

  • @Michelangelo-m1o
    @Michelangelo-m1o Рік тому

    Can you make a sit down video about JustLikeThat which you did years ago?

  • @haileyhudson4157
    @haileyhudson4157 Рік тому

    Yess do a podcast!

  • @jj-if6it
    @jj-if6it Рік тому +2

    Finally you get to shut up all those weird people constantly asking about Sam!

    • @mallorygraf8574
      @mallorygraf8574 Рік тому +2

      Right? I never understood why all the Sam questions.

  • @Parker-Green
    @Parker-Green Рік тому

    Love the blooper at the end!

  • @BasicMemory
    @BasicMemory Рік тому

    I appreciate you, thank you for making content.