How To Survive An Abduction According To A Kidnapping Victim

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  • Опубліковано 23 вер 2024
  • A woman's story of survival is truly inspiring after she was abducted and tortured by a notorious serial killer. Jennifer Asbenson was 19 when she was abducted by Andrew Urdiales. 24 years later, she returned to California's Desert Hot Springs to record a video explaining her daring escape to encourage others never to give up. Asbenson was walking to a bus stop near Palm Springs, California, in September 1992 when she was offered a ride by Urdiales, who is believed to have killed eight women.
    For more follow the hashtag #HowToSurvive #InsideEdition

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  • @markpadilla2007
    @markpadilla2007 5 років тому +462

    She’s so lucky having 2 marines passing by

    • @idurrani7700
      @idurrani7700 3 роки тому +5

      Wow

    • @anime_weeb7723
      @anime_weeb7723 3 роки тому +4

      Right it etheir be god helping or just luck we will never nkow🧐🧐

    • @King-qv4up
      @King-qv4up 2 роки тому

      Godless US marine

    • @davidbeckenbaugh9598
      @davidbeckenbaugh9598 7 місяців тому +1

      Hooray for our Marines. Not to mention Army, Navy, Air Force and Coast Guard.

    • @BeccaHetrick
      @BeccaHetrick Місяць тому

      What marines?? They didn't say anything about anyone but her & the abductor....

  • @Mariahdaynell
    @Mariahdaynell 7 років тому +583

    Never take rides from strangers , ( NEVER give strangers rides either ) avoid walking alone in areas with no one else out , always have some type of protection even something as simple as a pen

    • @heatherbleu5370
      @heatherbleu5370 5 років тому +7

      Aisha Khan
      Take care of yourself babe xo

    • @wormass777
      @wormass777 5 років тому +3

      yeah do it like john wick thats gonna save ya

    • @juanitarichards1074
      @juanitarichards1074 5 років тому +10

      Never abduct and rape and torture and kill people. Nobody ever says that. All responsibility is only ever placed on the victim.

    • @Oliviertj04
      @Oliviertj04 5 років тому

      Heather Bleu lol

    • @madisyn_11
      @madisyn_11 5 років тому

      Personally when I walk on my own I like to put my keys inbetween my fingers on one hand so if something did happen then i could fight back

  • @RubyMarine
    @RubyMarine 7 років тому +846

    Instead of Algebra kids should be taught self defense in schools as a mandatory class.

    • @danielsmith8111
      @danielsmith8111 6 років тому +45

      A bunch of bullies with black belts...nice

    • @m_bear5397
      @m_bear5397 6 років тому +8

      Pepsi-Meth ikr

    • @picklezjr.7003
      @picklezjr.7003 5 років тому +2

      This is not hogwarts dude.

    • @semicolon593
      @semicolon593 5 років тому +16

      How about self defense as an “optional” class?

    • @connorsoutdoors7339
      @connorsoutdoors7339 5 років тому +3

      AMEN 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @Crisu20
    @Crisu20 7 років тому +156

    luckily he did not throw the machete at her

  • @trelaynajones2165
    @trelaynajones2165 7 років тому +567

    didn't her mom ever tell her to not to talk or get a ride from strangers

    • @cadyboi2728
      @cadyboi2728 7 років тому +21

      Trelayna Jones well back then the world was a better place back then. And giving rides from strangers was good back then but in 2017 it's not

    • @grantjones6952
      @grantjones6952 7 років тому +16

      Nah it was never really good. It was better, but still.

    • @atalentlessidiot7872
      @atalentlessidiot7872 7 років тому +5

      ItzMehxD Msp It was just as a bad place than it is now. Ever heard of the serial killers from back then?

    • @september1479
      @september1479 5 років тому +1

      @@cadyboi2728 lol ur just saying stuff

    • @julyssachavez6661
      @julyssachavez6661 5 років тому +1

      I was so scared for my sister my sister was at a restrant then a man came up to her and tryed to take her and saying come with me i have toys and he like grabed

  • @tigerx3236
    @tigerx3236 7 років тому +428

    poor woman, she is very brave

  • @nadiaterezon
    @nadiaterezon 7 років тому +358

    I thought the title meant to give tips on how to kidnap people

  • @jdez10
    @jdez10 7 років тому +43

    Inspirational. You can never give up. And always fight.

  • @justinlawer3577
    @justinlawer3577 5 років тому +19

    Everytime someone survives something it’s always “inspiring”

  • @vyeey
    @vyeey 5 років тому +31

    Me: I’ll kick you in da nuts boi
    Stranger: nahhh
    Me: *kicks in the nuts*
    Stranger: OWWWW

  • @_dancedance
    @_dancedance 7 років тому +1023

    Well maybe don't except a ride from a stranger?

    • @CRuane02
      @CRuane02 7 років тому +13

      Sophia DeliMeat tvTM- accept

    • @campy3
      @campy3 7 років тому +34

      it was quite common to do so at the time

    • @WormInATrenchcoat
      @WormInATrenchcoat 7 років тому +53

      Sophia DeliMeat tvTM-
      It wasn't really dangerous back then. The world was a little better

    • @user-sf6dh
      @user-sf6dh 7 років тому +6

      Sophia DeliMeat tvTM- go back to school and learn how to write
      Jk
      It is wrong though

    • @darkpisces8125
      @darkpisces8125 7 років тому +5

      Marvel Fangirl no it wasn't. we know more about how the world is through internet and tv now.

  • @alexispestorio1600
    @alexispestorio1600 7 років тому +12

    The only thing I can keep thinking is she was lucky he didn't tie her hands up tightly and if those guys didn't happen to be around to save her she would've been eventually caught up with by him possibly. So many variables and so scary I can't imagine going through something like that

  • @sintexx2801
    @sintexx2801 4 роки тому +5

    “He brought her to the middle of the desert”
    They make it sound like there’s not a road and highway nearby

  • @kevingomez2478
    @kevingomez2478 7 років тому +210

    She got abducted by Caillou😂

  • @quackwave5410
    @quackwave5410 4 роки тому +8

    “He was chasing me down with a machete.”
    Bish what?

  • @alexangels
    @alexangels 7 років тому +80

    I'm not taking advice about how not to be kidnaped by someone who has been kidnaped

  • @Codlegend4life00
    @Codlegend4life00 7 років тому +51

    How about just not go with a stranger of they offer you a ride

  • @adamabdul93
    @adamabdul93 7 років тому +18

    never give up

  • @RicardoHernandez-vd1nc
    @RicardoHernandez-vd1nc 4 роки тому +3

    My motto is “NEVER GIVE UP”.

  • @vivienmarch8365
    @vivienmarch8365 5 років тому +14

    Who else thought that the kidnapper was Ted Bundy?

  • @admiralwolf3982
    @admiralwolf3982 7 років тому +58

    Who tf accepts a lift from a stranger??? if someone offered me a lift i would refuse and if they tried to approach me they probably end up with a pocket knife in the hand. it was her fault for being stupid but im happy she escaped and the man was caught.

    • @leslie3796
      @leslie3796 7 років тому +8

      Admiral Wolf That was back then, it was when the world was much better and it was okay to take a hitch hike. Now it's not, it's 2017 not that better than back then

    • @leslie3796
      @leslie3796 7 років тому +1

      true now that its now I wouldn't dare to even say "no thanks" the stranger and rather act deaf like I didn't here him/her.

    • @atalentlessidiot7872
      @atalentlessidiot7872 7 років тому +1

      Smøl Bean It was definitely not better back then, since a serial killer picked her up. -_-

    • @haylie6065
      @haylie6065 5 років тому +3

      No, it was not her fault. How about this: people shouldn't go around with the intent to rape and murder. She may have gotten in the car, but in NO way did she know what was to come. Perhaps a error of judgment on her part but in no way is she at fault for this despicable man's actions!

    • @lemon-vy3mj
      @lemon-vy3mj Рік тому +1

      it wasn’t her fault, how was she supposed to know this man was going to kill her? he was evil and disgusting, this is like blaming the victim, you don’t expect people to run around with the intent to kill. she didn’t know what was going to happen, it was NOT her fault.

  • @justmeouthere158
    @justmeouthere158 7 років тому +1

    It's great that ur informing others

  • @amethystrock4218
    @amethystrock4218 7 років тому +34

    First thing to do: Don't take rides with strangers?

  • @adrianaramirez6093
    @adrianaramirez6093 7 років тому +6

    *jennifer* "and I'm the only one who got away"
    *me* "the who got awayyy"

  • @pussycat633
    @pussycat633 7 років тому +74

    Always fight back you got nothing to lose

  • @Champagne_Rob
    @Champagne_Rob Рік тому +1

    The fact that this happened in my hometown really freaks me out

  • @candy5760
    @candy5760 5 років тому +3

    The 1st step to not get abducted NEVER take a ride from a total stranger, if you still get abducted PRAY TO GOD AND FIGHT BACK

  • @FIewzz
    @FIewzz 5 років тому +3

    Love how no one mentions the marines, if they didn't come she would be dead.

  • @no-me8iz
    @no-me8iz 5 років тому +3

    Thank you for the tips even though it was literally ONE THAT SAID “DONT GIVE UP”

  • @Ilove_drpepper
    @Ilove_drpepper 5 років тому +1

    Never go alone. Never take rides from strangers, never give strangers rides.

  • @fbiagentmiyakohoshino8223
    @fbiagentmiyakohoshino8223 5 років тому +4

    i’m an introvert and i never accept help from anyone, so i shouldn’t have to worry :d

  • @animeboysluvmia-1408
    @animeboysluvmia-1408 5 років тому +2

    That’s why I always have a fork and pepper spray in my pocket

  • @justmeouthere158
    @justmeouthere158 7 років тому +2

    Yay first!! I love this video congrats of escape

  • @KB-si5fx
    @KB-si5fx 5 років тому

    Important for any woman or child to listen to.

  • @kristinewang8126
    @kristinewang8126 6 років тому +2

    She is so determined and brave

  • @trevor9146
    @trevor9146 5 років тому +1

    And this is why my parents say don’t talk to strangers

  • @macky2green
    @macky2green 7 років тому +17

    That serial killer should have been fed to the LIONS/TIGERS... or thrown in a SNAKE pit.
    Like if you agree. 👍

    • @shan4883
      @shan4883 6 років тому

      And thrown into space!

    • @42lookc
      @42lookc 5 років тому

      He's dead now. Suicide. Just 40 years too late.

  • @nsebinyang
    @nsebinyang 7 років тому +18

    I don't think she should've screamed when running

    • @jayden_truth_
      @jayden_truth_ 7 років тому +11

      Nathan Yang he was already chasing her so she screamed that way if anyone came by they would know she's in danger

    • @AnasDaif
      @AnasDaif 7 років тому +1

      InfinityStone
      yes but that takes a lot of her breath
      without enough oxygen she will lose energy fast

    • @martalover17
      @martalover17 5 років тому +4

      @@AnasDaif You should always yell, so someone nearby can avert their attention to you.

    • @AnasDaif
      @AnasDaif 5 років тому +1

      @@martalover17 oh jeez that comment was 2 years ago

  • @itsjanael3617
    @itsjanael3617 5 років тому +12

    Got one
    If someone’s abducting you fart and run away
    Jokes aside stay safe and stay brave

    • @dxsolate
      @dxsolate 4 роки тому

      Rose Editz Might actually work if you eat a Bean Burrito before. That joint’ll smell baaad. Stay Safe, and always eat Chipotle before going to the streets.

  • @lisette1976
    @lisette1976 5 років тому +2

    Man, he had a type too. Im so glad she was able to get away and saddened the others werent so lucky

  • @willieirsm
    @willieirsm 7 років тому +2

    Evil has existed since the beginning of time and will continue to affect people for longer than any of us will live to know. With that said, never ever hop into a car with a stranger. REGARDLESS of the time period. If you're truly dumb enough to throw yourself into the hands of a complete stranger, god forbid, I can't find much sympathy for you if you get kidnapped.

  • @justally2241
    @justally2241 5 років тому +7

    I thought when it said abducted I though alien

  • @peachygirl5861
    @peachygirl5861 5 років тому +4

    *thats it I’m hiring a body guard*

  • @commiedoggo2439
    @commiedoggo2439 6 років тому +6

    How to survive abduction: don't go outside

  • @DavidNitzscheBell
    @DavidNitzscheBell 4 роки тому +2

    If you're going to call it "how to survive an abduction" then you should actually show how to survive an abduction. She got lucky. That's not a strategy. And, drop the Hollywood aspect. "I escaped from a serial killer who killed eight other women. I'm the only one who got away."

  • @Zedzilla2968
    @Zedzilla2968 5 років тому +5

    Why would you have an anniversary for kidnapping?

  • @marisabeltran3084
    @marisabeltran3084 3 роки тому

    She shoud visit that SOB in jail and show how strong she is.

  • @sebastiannavarosa8499
    @sebastiannavarosa8499 4 роки тому

    Holy Heck
    Shes So Fracking Brave

  • @alphareborn9908
    @alphareborn9908 5 років тому

    This is showing what happened the most, if didn’t show how to survive

  • @Suprakx
    @Suprakx 5 років тому +1

    If I ran out of breath 8 would of told the killer yo wait up lemme catch a breath then we can start running

  • @HeartEevee
    @HeartEevee 3 роки тому

    glad she got away and the guy was arrested! ive gotten asked by strangers multiple times for a ride, and all i can think about is what if they're a kidnapper? i aint takin chances so i always refuse.

  • @heatherbleu5370
    @heatherbleu5370 5 років тому

    I love you Jen. All-ways and forever.

  • @jamiebergevin990
    @jamiebergevin990 Рік тому

    Go Jenniferrrr ! You eff ing ROCK !

  • @marianogales8520
    @marianogales8520 5 років тому

    Brave woman

  • @stellarkirbo
    @stellarkirbo 7 років тому +6

    No views
    4 likes
    2 comments
    UA-cam logic

  • @evanwilson5751
    @evanwilson5751 5 років тому

    Kidnapper be like: BRING DAT ASS HERE

  • @xmachannel7147
    @xmachannel7147 7 років тому +7

    What abductor ties your hands with thin rope like tf

    • @CMT1995
      @CMT1995 7 років тому

      I bet it might be even harder to escape if you're wrapped up like a mummy in duct tape

  • @pearl1ish
    @pearl1ish 7 років тому

    She didn't give any advise though

  • @leoroys9683
    @leoroys9683 7 років тому +1

    found this story on a Facebook page

  • @infinitypoker6383
    @infinitypoker6383 5 років тому

    "Frozen ground" movie with Nick cage and John Cusack?

  • @zeferinoresendiz1698
    @zeferinoresendiz1698 4 роки тому

    Where is the video

  • @yesseniav2515
    @yesseniav2515 7 років тому

    what an amazing story

  • @RaBlazers
    @RaBlazers 4 роки тому +1

    How to survive an abduction I learned nothing but a fascinating story

  • @kristoffedwards8297
    @kristoffedwards8297 7 років тому

    Thank god she survived

  • @AngelitaAdventures
    @AngelitaAdventures 4 роки тому +1

    Like the song "The one that got away"

  • @lewbees
    @lewbees 7 років тому

    Jesus, I've lived in Palm Springs for all of my life and I never knew this happened

  • @mozak2652
    @mozak2652 5 років тому

    Respect.

  • @starlitesstories824
    @starlitesstories824 5 років тому +4

    THATS WHY PEPPER SPRAY WAS INVENTED!

  • @chloesmithunigue1928
    @chloesmithunigue1928 5 років тому

    My biggest question is why would you even go in a car with a stranger?

  • @xyfe583
    @xyfe583 3 роки тому

    what if it was tape? how would you break out and the trunk cant still be opened..

  • @myariussmith7002
    @myariussmith7002 4 роки тому +1

    5 years he need 19

  • @pluviosaurus05
    @pluviosaurus05 4 роки тому +1

    0:06
    She looks like dr emma russel from Godzilla:KOTM
    Ok nvm,

  • @eandrus
    @eandrus 5 років тому

    I thought the title was going to say Kidnapping Expert.

  • @anonamoose2229
    @anonamoose2229 7 років тому

    She got very lucky. I don't think she did anything anyone else wouldn't do.

  • @ashlynn..1735
    @ashlynn..1735 5 років тому +1

    I was almost kidnapped when i was 3 im 10 now

  • @emilyake9689
    @emilyake9689 Рік тому

    Pro tip: Never get in the car with somebody you don't know.

  • @matthewwilson6983
    @matthewwilson6983 7 років тому

    Just wow 😳😳😳😭😓😓

  • @mahadmansoor7982
    @mahadmansoor7982 6 років тому

    I get this is serious and all but I can't be the only one who is admiring that sky 0:18

  • @dues_vult9897
    @dues_vult9897 6 років тому

    Palm springs is very close to where I live I live in holtville ca

  • @Tigerheiress
    @Tigerheiress 5 років тому

    oh my god! how do you even fit in a trunk

  • @ShinyCramorant
    @ShinyCramorant 6 років тому

    What I would do: I Would gain their trust, and say "hey, today i need to get some pills at (random place) can we go there?" And when we go there I would tell the person at front desk to call 911

  • @iiskyyii8072
    @iiskyyii8072 5 років тому

    5 year???? It should be 1000000 year

  • @jastnosj6390
    @jastnosj6390 4 роки тому

    How to survive a kidnapper: dont go outside

  • @luciechase4556
    @luciechase4556 7 років тому +1

    Is inside edition trying to tell me something??

  • @nailpolishnailhacks1421
    @nailpolishnailhacks1421 5 років тому

    the real question is,
    how did she end up there?

  • @ENGINEPHREEK
    @ENGINEPHREEK 7 років тому

    wow she accidentally got free and got away and now shes and escape artist and a pro at it

  • @Goblinhandler
    @Goblinhandler 5 років тому +1

    Always bring your trusty katana

  • @neimsterdam1638
    @neimsterdam1638 7 років тому

    I thought she had no arms in the beginning

  • @AmeliaRosalinaTheHedgehog
    @AmeliaRosalinaTheHedgehog 6 років тому

    So scary

  • @kat49924
    @kat49924 5 років тому +1

    This is inspiring but from the title. How did she teach us to survive?

  • @dawas7057
    @dawas7057 4 роки тому +1

    Be wary of the long street people

  • @Xynxen
    @Xynxen 4 роки тому +1

    Abduct the abductor and you have officially won

  • @Commando_Chaos
    @Commando_Chaos 7 років тому

    1:33
    ugh
    I see why he murdered 8 women

  • @irischen7958
    @irischen7958 5 років тому

    she wasn't the only to escape. I saw more videos of another girl escaping

  • @simplygamingwithlonghair7211
    @simplygamingwithlonghair7211 4 роки тому

    I think she had nightmare of the attack

  • @DragonCanyon
    @DragonCanyon 5 років тому

    Luck=9,99 %
    Unluck= 0,01%

  • @weeb9086
    @weeb9086 4 роки тому

    My worse fear is getting kidnapped and “creepy man abuse” if you know what I’m saying

  • @amauro1385
    @amauro1385 5 років тому

    Sooooo how to escape kidnapping? Not everyone kidnaps the same way, they could use different and stronger binding

  • @vopurple3248
    @vopurple3248 5 років тому

    Imagine if she get kidnapped again 1:03

  • @manuelmartinez88vj
    @manuelmartinez88vj Рік тому

    Problem