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I was in a relationship exactly the same as Mandi & Anna. He was super wealthy, always got me extravagant gifts, and I relied on him to buy me basically everything I owned. But the relationship was so so toxic, I relate to every single story time these two do. Even down to the whole no posting each other issue. I questioned if we should break up for years. I always wondered if I could see myself marrying him & had so many reservations. We ended up breaking up just before our 5 year anniversary. The only thing I can say is I wish it happened sooner. Anna and Mandi you clearly have so many doubts + reservations. Instead of breaking up 1,2,3,4,5 years down the line, do it now.
They really need to stop wasting their time. If you acc want to marry someone, you'll know immediately, not be filled with doubts. When we're over a certain age we have to be so time conscious as women eurgh
You both are meant to be podcasters because this is one I can listen to right until the end.
You guys are so natural just talking and I love it, I feel like I’m sitting with the besties.
Honestly you guys never need to change the way you present, it’s so welcoming.
And I love hearing all your opinions and…
You guys will get to where you want to be, I know it…
Your meant for this
❤️❤️
I don’t think you guys are confused. I think it was a blessing that you come from middle eastern background and being raised in a western country with liberal views. Because you have morals and standards and principles, but also ur open minded about the things that make sense, and don’t tolerate the things that don’t. You’re in the balance. Ur like the bridge between the cultures.
You described them very well, and I agree with you
So if you get married; he's going to say - don't post our wedding pictures?
Cant wait for the day you both break up with your BFs. You can honestly do SO MUCH BETTER. ❤❤❤❤❤
Love the podcast! Maybe you girls can ask people to send in their stories about them leaving their toxic relationship and finding a non-toxic loving person/relationship. Hope that will motivate people to make the right move :)
You beautiful girls deserve the world. In my opinion, if you’re uncertain now after years of being with them, they ain’t the man you should marry x
Mandi you make me laugh so much! You’re not making your self “ low class” you are being a normal women and making jokes! No need to be serious ALL the time! I love the funny jokes you make!!
and if ginger beards family are calling you out, if you were his number one, he would have your back and say that's my woman don't talk about her like that. i accept her career and I'm proud of her. If your man isn't talking about you like that he isn't the one.
This! Some of the things Mandi and Anna have revealed about their partners is concerning. I’m sorry but this is not normal
Hey beautiful girls, I've been watching your podcast for the last couple months now and I enjoy hearing your conversations so much!
One thing I want to say is if your boyfriend is posting his friends on Instagram/social media but won't post you, that is a major red flag for me. People can have excuses such as 'oh I'm a private person' or 'oh I don't want evil eye', but if they're going out of their way to post their friends?? I think that's weird.
Mandi I feel if that's creating a bit of insecurity for you, it's for a reason. Listen to your gut guys, I really think you beautiful ladies deserve way better partners (taking in multiple things you've talked about over loads of different episodes)
Anna has a point, an episode with a positive relationship stories would bring hope to us 😂
made me genuinely upset to hear that Mandi's bf said that he never saw himself with someone 'like her', that's so mean and hurtful pls dump him
my boyfriend has no posts - he does not post ever - he only follows men followers and only has male followers, i’m his profile pic and i made it clear being posted is nice and even tho he has no posts would never post anything every month he’ll post me, on my birthday he’ll post me on anniversary etc and i think it’s so sweet he makes the effort even tho it’s out of his comfort zone
Hiding they are in a relationships had this so many times if they don’t even post you on their story’s or even 1 post is weird
Love THIS episode. People love you both for who you unapologetically are it’s much more authentic and relatable. The episodes where you both tone down and dim your light to please others reflect in the episodes
Love this episode 💕🥹 I personally only ever posted my husband once (on our wedding day) and some girls who know me tried to follow him literally the same day😭. He asked me who these people were and I realized there is just weird bitches that just want to keep tabs on me. The constant eyes on us made me feel some type of way because I truly believe evil eye is real. Now i post our experiences together and don’t go out of my way to hide that im with him but i purposely don’t post and tag him anymore. But everyone knows whats best for their relationship and I try not to judge the ones that choose a different way than me.
I don't think I've ever met someone in my culture share their boyfriend/girlfriend on their social media until they got engaged. I think that's normal in most non-western cultures haha x) And honestly, I feel like more younger people don't want to share their relationship on social media 'cause of nazar anyways...
I think this is one of my favourite episodes you‘ve posted. I felt like I was with my friends who I haven’t seen in a while & catching up❤️
Best podcast ever!!! I wait for your episodes to come out. Please never stop. Love you girls
Longish comment soz but.. me and my ex had the most PERFECT relationship. He doesnt have insta but he had FB and was always on it. He never posted me or even spoke to me on it but the relationship was so perfect that I didnt question it.
Anyway, a week before christmas, he pulled the rug from my feet and left me (he cheated). And everything just made sense.
Theres a huge difference between private and sneaky.
Keep doing your podcast and speaking the way you do ladies you are the best! You bring happiness to so many going through tough times ❤️
Never used to listen to podcasts but absolutely love yours!! I adore both of your personalities ily!🤍🤍
The most realest and exciting podcast ever. I have learnt so much from you both & you guys are like the older sisters I never had 😂❤
Her boyfriend is in hospitality, so I understand if he doesn’t want some random teens / wanna be influencers taking videos of him, harassing him. But if his account is private he can 100% post ya
Love how authentic this episode is.
I definitely think it's red flag behaviour if one doesn't wanna post their partner. You're meant to be happy, in love, proud of your partner. Why would you go to lengths to hide that on socials?! I'd want to show them off and show how happy I am.. i feel like you hide in the early days until you know you're sure about them
Literally my favourite episode so far and I've been watching since the very first xxx
How is not posting each other a bad sign? It’s a GOOD sign ! Social media is for others there is NO DOUBT about this. So to post your partner is to post him/her for others and psychologically it’s to prove something to others or show something off. Some of us don’t need that evil eye in our lives AT ALL. I keep family and partner private. I only post friends. It’s NOBODIES BUSINESS and it’s sooo normal to not want to post the best part of your life to protect it 🤣🤣 you lot are worrying about nothing. Private is always better. Watch your relationship fall apart when he starts posting
Absolutely love you girls and you have helped me in many situations in my life ❤ I look forward to all the episodes especially Patreon.. I re watch episode everyday lol.. Also let’s just say you girls say what every girl is thinking FACTS ❤
Mandi kills me every time she’s so funny 😂
If he doesn’t post you but posts friends he still wants to appear single
Love you both !❤️ you both deserve better. Not knowing is knowing
Also the logic of “someone should love me EXACTLY the way I am” is a mindest that could possibly stop self growth because you refuse to be given constructive criticism about yourself - which is necessary for growth
The truth is you wouldn't dream of saying something like this to a person you love and/or care about. It's natural to want to be and give the best to people we truly TRULY value. Now, if someone is settling and secretly feels superior and like they deserve better I can see why they would treat a partner this way.
Yessss What Anna Said!! Mandi You bring so much joy and laughter when I watch your videos!
My new obsession sisters in the city..I watched Anna’s love island season and liked her from the jump and thought I have never met anybody like her but the sister Mandi is just something else😂..love you guys loads ❤
I love your podcasts ☺️
Best pod out here, real girls!
I love this podcast so much❤❤❤
Love your vids ❤️ Mandi where is this outfit from please?? I’ve been searching the internet for it 😫😂😂
This episode was SOOOOOOO great I loved it.Xoxo
I want to start by saying you ladies are wonderful and any guy would be lucky to have you! And also, having a podcast is awesome and respectable!!
However, Greek culture is brutally honest and low key “secretly conservative”. Greeks love to act all modern and carefree, but when it boils down to it, family opinion matters a lot, tradition matters and image matters. Their actions tell you exactly what they intend to do… or not do. It’s been a few years, you’ve gotten to know each other. At this point, it’s time to either get married or move on from these two guys. You ladies deserve marriage and a family!
If they still have shit to complain about and delay a proposal… well, there is your answer.
If they are serious, they need to step up and show REAL commitment 💍💍💍💍
You two girls seem to eating your time with these men you’re with. They buy you gifts etc but where’s the depth and commitment for the future
I personally think if you want to stay in your relationships, I wouldn’t speak about your boyfriends as much. I love your honesty but for example Mandi said she’s not sure if she wants to marry her man but if he isn’t certain, he needs to go lol. Don’t give him ammo lol I also agree with not posting your partner, I don’t want the evil eye and I don’t trust people lol let me and my man be together in peace ✌🏽 😂
I think Dubai is made for you guys. And it would be great for your content. I think you guys would really be big out there
There are some people who constantly post their partner bec they're acc very insecure and more concerned about people thinking their relationship is good, when actually its riddled witj problems
To chime in with the posting relationships on social media topic, although i understand & agree w/your red flag/ green flag throughts, I personally think the security of ones relationship with their partner should be established firstly outside of social media. But my opinion comes from someone whose not a social media person so I personally don't look at posting ones partner as a form of reassurance. I choose to keep that private But that's not to say if you like to share those moments and your partner is deliberately trying to avoid coming out each time then that may be an initial red flag that should be discussed. But always remember to respect ones wishes and don't let social media get in the way, you have nothing to proof to social media when you know what you have❤
Your with someone
Who says they ain’t going to marry you bla bla just because your do a podcasts you two are stunning I don’t get why you take this mouth from these “boyfriends”
Been watching you both for so long ❤️ love you!
No I love them more 😋❤️❤️
I love your broadcast ❤️
Two in one day. Grace podcast and this! & not Mandi talking about what her boyfriend wanted her to delete and then mentioning it on graces podcast - so funny we will be hearing about it in the next pod 🤣🤣
The best part of my Tuesday morning ❤
Instead of a whole episode, you could add one positive story at the end of dilemmas, end episodes on a good note x
best way to solve the dilema of not being on their social media, ask them. i would. straight up just say its bothering me can you explain, then your showing that your willing to be vulnerable rather than being insecure.
I live together with my bf and we didn’t post each other but then I noticed that while from my stories you can see I am on a date/not alone (his hand is visible etc) he would post pictures from our time together deliberately in a way that doesn’t show any evidence of other person there. I found it weird to so I started asking if he will be uploading another post from out travels with no signs of going there with me. He recently posted first post where I am fully visible in one picture out of several and this post got record low number of likes from his friends. Not sure what to make of it
Could it be possible to do an episode about the whole gyspy rose situation and ur opinion
Love you girls. But I swear being famous or having any type of attention on socials would be my worst nightmare. It could be that if people don’t wanna be posted, they genuinely just don’t want that life. X
Ditch him…. My love life is not for entertainment but posted him every now & again to send a sign not to slip in my DMs
He didn’t st all … and guess why? So he can play other women
Whats funny is - my ex boyfriend wanted to take pictures of me and post me on his stories and I hated it and never let him. But the reason is because im insecure and dont use social media myself. And i was too scared he would take an ugly picture and his friends would thing ew
Defo don't wanna see anything on good relationships- were here for the drama ladies!! And totally agree, shady AF when ur living together and there's no posting on socials!
Anna has the cutest laugh 😊
Hi Girls, I truly love both of your personalities and this comment is coming from a good place. I’ve gotta tell you my take on this and I am not trying to hate at all, I’ve actually never left a comment like this on a platform ever, but i hope you read this. Although you’ve got the most beautiful and funniest personalities, i do think sometimes toning it down isn’t a bad thing. I understand that at first you will be defensive and say « i don’t want someone that changes me » but don’t think of it that way. Look at it as self growth and don’t compare yourselves to other girls that might be way out there, or any girl. I wouldn’t want to see you guys hurt or loosing your relationship because of this. I am sure you can still make us laugh and be yourself without offending your partner or his parents. I’ve had to change some traits if mine that my partner highlighted and at first i was defensive but when I actually listened to him and how he felt, after years of being like « you’ve gotta love me just the way i am » i realized that the changes were better for my own sake and I am so happy that I finally listened, it turned out to be the best decision i’ve ever made. I wish you guys the best and you are awesome!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Mandi makes me laugh so much
I was with a man for a year and a half who didn’t think it was ‘necessary’ to post our relationship online even tho we were always out at nice places together, doing nice things together.. but felt the need to post his steering wheel with some dead song in the back ground 5 times a day..
One time I said ‘if you don’t post this picture, I’m gone’ he said ‘WOWWWW you’re gonna end this over a picture on socials? Cool go then’ 😂😂😂
My ex bf who I was with for two years he probably posted me like twice but i wasn't on any of his social media or anything and we would have arguments about it because it played on my mind, and then i found out he was messaging other girls through out the whole time we was together so i do really believe boys don't post so they can have that option to message others, and now he posts his new gf everywhere. So i find it a massive red flag. But its a hard one because some people generally dont want to post on socials but not even having a random insta strory once in a while to show u off does make you over think it .
Mandi I love your makeup
Mandi is so funny 😂😂😂
YOU GIRLS ARE SO REAL👏🏼 your partner should be the one person hyping you up and be proud of how real you are and how much comfort you bring other people, not embarrassed of you. And “I’m a private person” only applies if they don’t post on socials full stop, they don’t post their mates or anything. Good men do exist (I never thought this until I met my now bf) but you won’t find them if you stay with the ones who bring you down🥹
I used to post my partner a lot but then I felt there was so much evil eye and people just watching like CCTV and now I prefer to keep my relationship private
Any guy that throws your achievements in your face during arguments is a red flag :(
Ladiessss its called compromising 😅! You guys are not holding your self back because of your partner. You are compromising and making space in your heart for him❤️
I dont think you can compare with most people because you all have reasons not to post each other on social media, it will cause more problems than positives with people messaging your partners etc… you don’t need social media to prove that you are with someone you use it as your own platform each to their own 🙌🏻
maybe I don’t compare w u girls cuz u guys have social platform. But me and my boyfriend don’t post each other. He doesn’t post ever, but in regards to particularly me he says why would i want something so personal to me and so private to me publicly showcased like that, and have people all up in my business about it. As for myself I don’t post him, firstly bcs he isn’t my husband or father of my children yet, also It’s sth that’s very private for me and I don’t want every single soul in my socials to know about it, and also i come from a culture where i believe in the evil eye, and above all else that’s the main reason i don’t post him. However, if someone asks us if we are in a relationship, ofc we tell them the truth.
My personality is a bit like you Anna, sweet and spicy. It would be great to have a feisty fearless sister like Mandi, fighting in my corner . Love the podcast girls- both of you come across intelligent and very articulate 💖💖
My boyfriend and I don't post eachother. He doesn't post at all actually. I also go out of my way not to post him and we both are fine with it. I think that I am going to post him when we are married. I don't like other people, who I'm not that close with, to see if I'm with someone. And when I dont post him for quite a while, for them to speculate that we broke up. I personally like to keep it lowkey. I've experienced situations where my friends noticed that other girls dont post their boyfriends anymore and they talk about it behind their back. I assume that a lot of girls are like this, and I dont mind that. But that is the main reason why I like to keep my relationship off social media.
We're in a healthy relationship with some downs. I think the situation varies per couple
My man supports me with everything and pushes me a little too much to reach my full potential 😂😅😅❤ My man doesn’t take up how he has been embarrassed by me, and he has been before. I have only heard it at the time… It’s his choice to be with me so he can’t keep using it against me… 😊
Truth is no man from any culture wants his girl to be the topic of his friends. It's not fair but it is what it is.
I don’t think posting your relationship and publicising your relationship won’t make your relationship any more successful. It’s a personal preference but also how secure you feel. If you’re feeling some kind of way about it, your partner will and should care enough to validate how you feel. but the key issue is those who act as if they’re available when they’re not. Also other people can just create burner accounts even if they publish their relationship and live a whole Hannah Montana life. It’s a mad world out there. pick your favourite trash and stick to it (only kidding 😹) but just remember grass is never greener.
The privacy it’s cause they had a fuck bio past and of u post him and his ex finds him she could ruin his chances with you by telling you how he played with her int he past
I think you would be interested to watch Rami show it’s about a Middle Eastern family living in America
he doesn't posy you...bc he isn't proud of you. which means he is ashamed of you
Girl in that situation you leave !
That’s BULLSHIT “I’m a private person” was the same lie I gave when I was cheating. He don’t have to post you all the time but to never post you and he’s active on social media nah nah something fishy
Just wondering why you want to post your private life on social media? Just take pictures make memories and put them in frames around your home.
Think about it, really you are only posting for people to press the like button.
Keep it private and to yourselves, posting each other will eventually cause more issues because people will always have something negative to say
Privacy is peace ❤ don’t feel pressured to share you’re relationship. You can’t win! If you look happy people say I bet it’s not it’s all it seems anyway! And fuck the happy stories 🤣 just do whatever feels natural. Happy stories when you’re happy and just keep it real when you’re not. people act like they want to hear about the good times, tell them about a perfect relationship and they will tear it apart! If you share good stories and happy relationships people will just say it’s not real anyway and go hunting for something to try show it’s not that great. People are fucked, protect your peace! ❤
Hi girls, I'll try to keep it short because I actually have so many thoughts about what you said and I actually have exactly the same thoughts for like 6 months. Believe me when I tell you, my boyfriend is a perfect mix of your lovers. We also came back after a break up and it's better than ever. And that was 3 years ago.
But I really believe that there is no such thing as the perfect man and to keep looking for it is a mistake. I don't think a marriage is about being 100% happy.
You don't marry him because he's perfect. You marry him because you trust him and you believe in the relationship. You know he stays no matter how lousy it is sometimes. And you know you're making progress! No matter if they are slow, the main thing is that you keep working on your relationship. I truly believe that this is what makes a relationship real and strong.
And I think if y'all can say that about your relationships, then stick with your loverboys.
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GUYS WEAR A FRICKIN COAT AND YOU WONT BE COLD ???
Private and a secret are two different things. Everyone should know youre together but posting doesnt validate your relationship. Evil eye is real but its deeper as what are you seeking when he posts you. What is that feeling you think you will get?
Cyprus is in the Middle East and Cypriot culture is very much Middle Eastern plus they are religious orthodox they are also different from Greeks from Greece .
Omg I know who Anna’s talking about with the girl bending down 😅 and I asked my man same thing! How can you be ok with that??!!
Omg who 😮
It depends on the sexuality and the background. Cos if you’re a gay Muslims don’t post it in public cos it will be the death of u, but it’s like if u have close friends that are trustworthy and that are accepting, and you’re hiding your relationship, I don’t get it…
His friends make inappropriate jokes with you?
i feel like you guys have found the middle ground with greeks, from what i can see balkan guys are the middle between ultra possessive and ultra nonchalant , they have the masculinity without being overbearing
Absolutely nothing wrong with being private
Spanish trying following the slang
Guys you’re in your 30s. If your man’s not posting you or not wanting to BE posted , and that’s what you’re worrying about it genuinely says a lot about you lot. And i swear I don’t mean that in a mean way. Live your real life. Why are you weighing your self worth over SOCIAL MEDIA posting ????? Read this out loud and see how ridiculous it sounds !! Social media is irrelevant. Does he mind being seen with you in public? If no, there’s no issue
Sounds like you both need new men if they don’t wanna be seen on socials with you. And if they don’t like the way you’re acting that’s a red flag.
Also there’s nothing wrong with filtering yourselves a tiny bit. There’s a difference between talking about sex and real life stuff, vs being distasteful (which you are a lot) there’s no denying that swearing loads and saying vulgar things is distasteful. You can still talk about sex etc without making it sound crude/filthy. Be yourselves but you can respect yourselves with the way you speak, and gingerbeard is right to care about what you lot talk about
Wasn’t there a study that the more couples post each other the less they are happy in their relationship?
Iranian women are all in the middle grey area
Just warning you guys before this video played Israeli propaganda adverts were back to back playing 😨