5 THINGS TO CONSIDER With Finances In Marriage 💰 Ft Africhange

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  • @karenavevor2417
    @karenavevor2417 Рік тому +19

    I love how you guys discuss serious topics with a little bit of humour. So much to learn with a lot of laughter

  • @kheerasifestyle
    @kheerasifestyle Рік тому +8

    Olu made a point when he said “you’re broke if discussing finances is a problem “

  • @Daholist
    @Daholist Рік тому +15

    You guys have an incredible chemistry, the way you listen to and look at each other while the other talks. Thanks for highlighting this topic, it is a must-talk about subject in relationships, and especially, marriage. I'm here for more of you guys. Stay blessed🙌🏾

    • @TheOTLoveTrain
      @TheOTLoveTrain  Рік тому +1

      Aww, thanks for the kind words and for watching as well! 🥰🥰🥰

  • @blessingolayemi1527
    @blessingolayemi1527 Рік тому +4

    It's the way Olus always cracks Dorothy up for me. I love to see it🤩🤩🤩

  • @precioussawyerr1519
    @precioussawyerr1519 Рік тому +2

    Aligning in vision” that’s the key. Real/healthy partnership makes it all more comfortable.

  • @juachi1000
    @juachi1000 Рік тому +3

    You have said it all! No hard and fast rules. But I believe with love and communication in any relationship, you can navigate through murky conversations surrounding finances. Except you are in a ‘wahalaship’ like Olus said, then you are on your own 😂😂😂

    • @TheOTLoveTrain
      @TheOTLoveTrain  Рік тому

      Hahaha, yesso! Tell 'em sis! Na the foundational principles be the koko 🥰

  • @emekaokonkwo4804
    @emekaokonkwo4804 Рік тому +9

    Great video! I definitely agree with both of you on a lot of these things. Money is a really sensitive topic and I don't think I'll ever get comfortable speaking about it with a partner until marriage but maybe because I haven't met the right person.

  • @EverythingwithElla
    @EverythingwithElla Рік тому +5

    Dorothy you look sooooo Beautiful, Gush that hair style suits you so well. Thanks for this amazing video. Thumps up to you both❤

  • @gracie5039
    @gracie5039 Рік тому +4

    If I could, I would subscribe to your channel a million times 😊 y'all are soo real with your talks

    • @TheOTLoveTrain
      @TheOTLoveTrain  Рік тому +1

      Awww, thank you sooo muchhh! 🥰 Share with family and friends to subscribe if you want to subscribe a milli 😉

  • @olaidemicheals527
    @olaidemicheals527 Рік тому +3

    Dorothy, you are beautiful!!!!!! Your hair is giving 💯 your contents are always on point, welldone guys👍🏽

  • @OMOLARAOBAFEMI
    @OMOLARAOBAFEMI Рік тому +3

    We don’t accept the disclaimer
    I will quote you anywhere and everywhere’s 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @TheOTLoveTrain
      @TheOTLoveTrain  Рік тому +1

      Lmaooo abeg help us accept the disclaimer make una manage am oo 😂

  • @ruthosinere4929
    @ruthosinere4929 Рік тому +2

    Love your videos. A sensitive topic discussed in a humorous way and still nail the points. Weldone guys.

  • @vivienc7656
    @vivienc7656 Рік тому +11

    It's important that there is transparency. You also need to identify each other's weaknesses. Who is better with managing finances, read finance books together. For us, we have a joint account that funds the family expenses, we contribute based on agreed rates . Then we have individual accounts where each person mind their own money

    • @monelantonifor
      @monelantonifor Рік тому

      Not married but I've thought about this too. What proportion of your earnings do you put in your individual account?

    • @adelneeron374
      @adelneeron374 Рік тому

      This to me is the best option.

    • @TheOTLoveTrain
      @TheOTLoveTrain  Рік тому

      👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 This is on point!

  • @ojelabieniola1399
    @ojelabieniola1399 Рік тому +1

    when it's genuine love some topics are not even discussed (like ok oooo "we want to discuss finance now") and they just flow because it's like you already know and it's just like that based on how you've been in the relationship, if you've been honest, talk about everything....Above all though, COMMUNICATION is very important in every stage of relationship from there comes a deep string of love and you know each other's perspective on issues of life

  • @mrIsraelemma
    @mrIsraelemma Рік тому +1

    To marry just dey hungry me but I don't even know where she dey and I no get that strength dey search search.. My father my father bring my wife as you bring eve to Adam. Amen

  • @yemi5193
    @yemi5193 Рік тому +2

    Thanks for the content. Really eye opening and educational as well. It’s nice that you relate the questions to practical answers. Nicely done

  • @adelneeron374
    @adelneeron374 Рік тому +1

    OT love train is always on point. Well done guys

  • @oyindamolaalao
    @oyindamolaalao Рік тому +8

    I love how you are talking about this. So in my case while we were in Nigeria, I was working and we put all d money together and split bills and all but we came to canada and I had my baby almost immediately we landed and am not working right now.
    As am not working sef na me Dey control spending. So my husband comes home, I know how much he earns and I have already a plan on how much we spend and pay bills with. He’s doing all of the paying right now and we r both happy. Loosing job isn’t gonna be forever by Gods grace. It’s temporary, when I start working again, both of us resume paying d bills no issues. Like you said, it largely depends on the communication so if they have a pretty agreement whether loss or job or not, they will still be fine. My 2 cents oooo.
    It’s how you people r discussing money and r not stringing face. Some people go Dey frown. Omo life is not hard abeg

    • @TheOTLoveTrain
      @TheOTLoveTrain  Рік тому +2

      Ohhh love to hear ittt! Na so e suppose be oo, na we dey make life hard for ourselves 😂😂😂

  • @sanmijohn2268
    @sanmijohn2268 Рік тому +4

    Ola Fresh Man 😁. Dorothy, so beautiful 🤩

  • @promotedsandra_
    @promotedsandra_ Рік тому +1

    Nice one keep it up. Love this content.

  • @zainabadeshina715
    @zainabadeshina715 Рік тому +1

    This was really good to watch. Thank you for sharing ❤❤❤❤

    • @TheOTLoveTrain
      @TheOTLoveTrain  Рік тому

      🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 Thanks for watching 😁

  • @awedajustina9048
    @awedajustina9048 Рік тому +2

    Here first 💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿

  • @saneh5158
    @saneh5158 9 місяців тому

    First time on your channel and I like the energy from you guys❤️ New Subie!

    • @TheOTLoveTrain
      @TheOTLoveTrain  8 місяців тому

      Thanks for rocking with us and welcome! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @lizzieoluwaseyi5869
    @lizzieoluwaseyi5869 Рік тому +1

    Professor Olus! I salute you comrade 🫡

  • @funmilayoomolade6981
    @funmilayoomolade6981 Рік тому +1

    This is an opening video 🥺 thank you 🙏🏼 OT

  • @Oreakay
    @Oreakay Рік тому +3

    Love you guys. Great content!

  • @magdaleneeduful5929
    @magdaleneeduful5929 Рік тому

    Very insightful video ….eye opening….thank you 🥰…the chemistry is contagious ♥️

  • @mxyx8617
    @mxyx8617 Рік тому +2

    Dem don use had rub Olus body...e din dey lose guard...🤣🤣🤣

  • @precioussawyerr1519
    @precioussawyerr1519 Рік тому +2

    😢waiting for the detailed video on how you saved up in 2yrs for the house

  • @janieb6013
    @janieb6013 Рік тому

    Thanks for sharing. I really enjoyed the content. I love your dynamics. Keep it up. Great job.

  • @eluanmark4204
    @eluanmark4204 Рік тому +1

    Wow with turtleneck 18:41 😂😂😂… I really enjoy watching you two 😂.

  • @oluwabusayomia
    @oluwabusayomia Рік тому +1

    wahala 🤣 Olus be calming down

  • @richardtolu2169
    @richardtolu2169 Рік тому

    This is so nice!! May God keep your family. By the way, you have a great woman by your side though😊 More beautiful years ahead.

  • @Orejide87
    @Orejide87 Рік тому +2

    Lol it’s ur milk shake 😅. Enjoyed you guys ❤Full of vibes 😊😊

  • @moniquehackett6958
    @moniquehackett6958 Рік тому

    Dorothy I love this new hair style on you you look gorgeous.

  • @OMOLARAOBAFEMI
    @OMOLARAOBAFEMI Рік тому

    Straybullet hit the turtleneck 😂😂

  • @jeffreylotannaucheagwu2567
    @jeffreylotannaucheagwu2567 Рік тому

    Is that Dicken Olus… +ve vibes!!!

  • @Tioluwalopee
    @Tioluwalopee Рік тому

    Thank you OTlove train captains ❤❤❤❤

  • @nukyefa
    @nukyefa Рік тому +1

    I don laugh tire oh 🤣🤣🤣 honestly this video made my day 😂 so honest😀 this is what happens when you're with the right partner. Love you guys 🥰🥰🥰🥰

    • @TheOTLoveTrain
      @TheOTLoveTrain  Рік тому

      Hahaha, glad it did! 🥰🥰🥰 Thanks for watching!

  • @OMOLARAOBAFEMI
    @OMOLARAOBAFEMI Рік тому +1

    I don’t have a joint account yet but I am open to it soon so we are able to collectively save for our kids .
    We split bills too, tho he earns more so he pays more percentage :

    • @TheOTLoveTrain
      @TheOTLoveTrain  Рік тому +1

      Na so e suppose be oo! Una head dey there jare 🥰

  • @ajokemarquis3722
    @ajokemarquis3722 Рік тому +1

    Hello Dorothy and Olu. Complement of the season. Congratulations on your new home.
    I also stay in Calgary, I'm having challenges in sending money to Naija.
    Please how safe is this Africhange app? I watched it on your video now.

    • @TheOTLoveTrain
      @TheOTLoveTrain  Рік тому +1

      Super safe - we use it all the time! 🙌🏾 You can use our Promo Code THEOTLOVETRAIN

  • @ayomidesilveraderemi
    @ayomidesilveraderemi Рік тому

    Oh my lord I desire a relationship like this ijn Amin oo❤❤❤ I love u guys.

  • @mabosrecipe
    @mabosrecipe Рік тому +2

    Ahhhh sense will not kee Olus..that number 1 question Godbless you 😊 people need to be realistic with their finances. Godbless you guys 😅😊 love from Manchester 😁

  • @youngchannel1387
    @youngchannel1387 Рік тому +2

    First to Watch and Comment

  • @Winni_Ella
    @Winni_Ella Рік тому

    Olus is too hilarious 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @aritetsoma1
    @aritetsoma1 Рік тому +2

    Olus you just too funny, shwoooooo like kilode

  • @ayenisamueltoluwanimi4985
    @ayenisamueltoluwanimi4985 Рік тому

    Good one guys

  • @julietchi5480
    @julietchi5480 Рік тому +1

    I love you guys 🥰

  • @deborahilo6792
    @deborahilo6792 Рік тому

    I love Dorothys hair

  • @iyannuoluwaa_
    @iyannuoluwaa_ Рік тому

    Olus and Dorothy, wisest couple fr ❤

  • @solomonyusuf4806
    @solomonyusuf4806 24 дні тому

    A lady told me that if her husband lost his job, she will leave the man, pack her children and rather be a single mother then provide for the house.

  • @kehindeodeniyi9910
    @kehindeodeniyi9910 Рік тому

    Giveaway finally loadingggggg😂😂😂😂😂

  • @naomii_beauty
    @naomii_beauty Рік тому

    I love this.... Nice advice ❤️❤️😊

  • @vivienc7656
    @vivienc7656 Рік тому +1

    As we are splitting bills, split the chores...

    • @AkwaIbomDoll
      @AkwaIbomDoll Рік тому

      splitting bills with a man is embarrassing

    • @TheOTLoveTrain
      @TheOTLoveTrain  Рік тому

      Totally aligned everyone should have a part to play in chores too! 😂

  • @WithKennyT
    @WithKennyT Рік тому +1

    I enjoyed this video 😂

  • @abigailkusi793
    @abigailkusi793 Рік тому

    Professore Olus!!!😂😂😂😂 5:52

  • @Mariamandmore
    @Mariamandmore Рік тому

    Yaay its my bday that day #31stofdec🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @vivienc7656
    @vivienc7656 Рік тому +1

    Olus....Best believe, there r transactional relationships...if man lose job peren...otilo...eez gone

  • @Abaaddie
    @Abaaddie Рік тому

    I love you guys submission🤍🤍

  • @OMOLARAOBAFEMI
    @OMOLARAOBAFEMI Рік тому +1

    If you feel uncomfortable to talk about money ,; it’s because you are broke 😂😂
    --- Olus ,2022

  • @OMOLARAOBAFEMI
    @OMOLARAOBAFEMI Рік тому

    My milkshake 😮😮😮 what’s all these 😂😂😂😂

  • @Tomzfootball
    @Tomzfootball Рік тому

    My people ❤❤❤😊

  • @OMOLARAOBAFEMI
    @OMOLARAOBAFEMI Рік тому

    Hehehe from the day you meet ko😂😂

  • @OMOLARAOBAFEMI
    @OMOLARAOBAFEMI Рік тому

    I have told you that you should just give me the giveaway 😅😅

  • @EverythingwithElla
    @EverythingwithElla Рік тому +1

    First to Comment

  • @IdrisOmotola
    @IdrisOmotola Рік тому +1

    Yay

  • @aleemkhalid6353
    @aleemkhalid6353 Рік тому

    Yea i want my babe to know how much i earn but i won't want to know how much she earns tho

  • @Tife_denike
    @Tife_denike Рік тому +1

    Great video, thank you for sharing🤍

  • @Yemlizluxuriesfragrance
    @Yemlizluxuriesfragrance Рік тому

    💚💚💚💛💛

  • @OMOLARAOBAFEMI
    @OMOLARAOBAFEMI Рік тому

    You were dating a thief 😂😂
    Your partner should be your partner in crime 😂

  • @yrLLeeeee
    @yrLLeeeee Рік тому

    I understand having a sense of humor. However, the laughs seem inappropriate and forced at times. The laughing detracts from the overall message.

  • @cruickshanksvlogs6788
    @cruickshanksvlogs6788 Рік тому

    You are dating a thief o🤣😭😭

  • @justinabenson7229
    @justinabenson7229 Рік тому

    😌😌😌😌😊

  • @nkems_space
    @nkems_space Рік тому

    😂😂😂😂