You put every ounce of you into the family and we love you for it. If the worst we do these days is pig out on crap in bed too late at night - we are doing amazing 😂 . You love your family and provide such a fabulous support network to all. I think we have to tell ourselves 7 out of 10 will do on some days when we often feel the pressure to be 10 out of 10 everyday. Life is so hard for so many and people like us can see joy in the basics like stability, love, family and a home which is a gift. Ashley you make the house a home so you must look after you. What is it they say put our own life jacket on first 😂 ❤ Big hugs to you ❤
Really enjoyed hearing a bit more about you. You always make me laugh when you assume that we have switched off halfway through. Nice to see a real person, with a real home. take care x
Thanks so much, 🫣 I know most the time I find myself waffling on then I check the timer and think bloody hell the video is coming to a end now 😂, I think it’s because in person I mask my actual self just to fit in , but on here I’m free to be who I am yes I am different and probably not sane BUT who wants to be normal it’s our differences that makes us all unique after all. I hope your doing well and staying warm it’s freezing down here Xxx❤
Yes, I’ve always let my cats roam free- they go off and do their own thing and come home for a cuddle when they want. I love watching you clean and hearing about your life 😊
Hiya Laura , exactly they are basically lions in some kind off way they thrive best with freedom to roam hunt and play , all my cats do have bells on their collars tho just to warn the birdies they are there but my cats aren’t silly they rip off the bells most days 😂. Xxx
Aww Ashley my heart goes out to you I think you are a wonderful mam you love them unconditionally don't blame yourself cause its life life can be shit sometimes but you do the best for your children and that's all you can do you are amazing ❤ ❤xx
Hi Ashley my daughter is 55 and only got diagnosed as ADHD a couple of years ago and struggled with various things all her life. The diagnosis for her mad e everything make sense and she now has medication which has helped. You do an amazing job with your family. Hope you get your results soon and get some help as a result. Xx
Hiya Linda, ooh blimey really bless her, that’s just it it’s not the fact you’ve got a diagnosis it’s more the relief knowing there’s a reason behind it, it just makes you feel like ok now we can move forward in life. I’m just so tired off struggling and battling my demons but it’s a fight I’ll win eventually. I’m so happy that your daughter is doing well now ❤ hope your ok and staying warm it’s absolutely freezing where I am Xxx
@Ukmumofmany I really hope you get some help and I am sure you will keep fighting By the way I envy you with 9 cats. Love 🐈 we lost our last boy this time last year. We wont get anymore now as we are 73 so have to be content with petting other peoples. Wishing all the best in the New Year to you and your family xx
Hi again Ashley please stop putting your self down you are an amazing person and a wonderful mum thank you for the video it all takes time I appreciate them and you also agree anything black shows everything and is a pain to clean as always love from Perth Western Australia 🥰❤️❤️❤️
Hiya Claudia , what’s the weather like over there ? It’s freezing here atm I do love the winter tho. Thank you lovely I do try to be more positive just thing get on top off me a lot off the time and I end up down a rabbit hole off blame, positive thinking is key tho I know so I am trying extra hard. Xxx
@ thank you beautiful it’s hot over here today it’s 33 degrees I can’t say exactly how you feel but I’ve down that rabbit hole a few times hanging on by finger tips but it’s healthy to vent and clear your mind lots of love ❤️❤️❤️
@@claudiamartin776 ooh blimey that’s hot, it’s 0 degrees here atm so chilly, think it’s unbearable at 19 degrees over here let alone in the 30s id be squeezing myself into the fridge I reckon 🤣. Xxx
Not well educated hun lol u r sooo cool. I must be common too lol 😂😅. So glad u back happy new year. Happy birthday madam Sophie🎉🎉. Budgeting for me for 2025 I spend way too much. Thought I was gonna lose my labrador on Sunday so bit anxious ❤❤❤
@Ukmumofmany he seems better now hun think it was the heat got to him but scared the crap out of me. But he's 9 and apparently labradors of around that age are prone to heat stroke, it's bloody hot out here which I hate so I have bought him cooling mats to sit on and they seem to have helped. I dread that time too. Lots love hun xxx
Hello just come across your channel I'm from the UK myself Great video I have my own channel myself love doing cleaning videos myself I have depression and anxiety and my channel is about my self growth in my depression and anxiety 🥰
I am exactly the same when it comes to late night snacking. I don’t eat much in the day and am so busy but come 6pm I’m in all the cupboards eating shit! Literally stuff it in my mouth before I have a chance to stop myself- it’s a bad habit. So my plan is to eat lunch and that might stop me stuffing my face with crisps, bread and biscuits!
Hey lovely lady 😊 loving your channel xxx Happy New Year and Happy birthday to Sophie 🎉 I’m trying to continue with my healthy eating already lost 2 stone since last year 😊 I also want to make more time for myself with 5 kids and 4 grandkids that’s not easy 😂 I don’t think your common just normal life!! Take care ❤
Hi ya Ashley great video I don't blame you getting a new sink that would piss me of too the black stuff coming off I'm trying to save money to as my dog passed away I want to get rid of the grass and get my lawn slabbed over I only kept it for him so as soon as spring comes it's going 😂 take care 🌹🥰
Hiya Cheryl lovely, thank you, ahh honestly it drives me insane I can’t wait to chuck it out , yes I remember you saying bless Rex ❤️, you know where to stand with slabs don’t you and it’s so much cleaner too. Take care lovely 🥰 Xxx
@Ukmumofmany aw bless you ashley for reamembering my little dogs name i miss him dearly and your right you know where u are with slabbs new year fresh garden take care n lots of love 🌹🥰
Hi Ashley please stop putting yourself down & thinking that you have to explain yourself to people, God bless your friend Fiona from Northern Ireland x 🙏❤️☘️
Firstly you are NOT weird you are amazing if we were all the same we would be boring. Maybe its a good thing you didnt know before you had children cuz you are a wonderful mum and by the sounds of things even with stuggles they will be just fine with you guys by their side. My dog and cats know when im down and i need them too. I love the way you are as you never pretend to be someone your not and you are just you. Love your vlogs. Take care.
P.s We made same mistake with black sink tbh sounds stupid but it never looked clean and stressed us out 😂 i think change when you can just to get out of your head space. 😊
You have absolutely nothing to feel guilty for. You've got kids that you love no matter what, that's the greatest gift of all. All a child can ever want is the love and acceptance of their parent(s). It's blindingly obvious to me that your kids have that in abundance. I'm sure the boys will be absolutely fine, they've got you fighting their corner.
Ahh bless ya thank you love, i really appreciate your kindness Fiona I hope your doing well, it was -7 this morning here that was quite a shocker Xxx❤️
@Ukmumofmany am ok Ashley suffering a flare-up with fibromyalgia my only wish is that i lived near by to be there for you, never apologise for who you are & please stop being so hard on yourself honestly your an amazing mum pet, your friend Fiona x 🙏❤️🤗
lol i love being weird ! ive been tested for ASD also i know i have ADHD and OCD like you i had some pretty bad times growing up i really struggled with controlling my emotions which led me to take two overdoses in my late teens iam now 56 and still learning how to cope also we have a 19 year old with ASD and ADHD x
LOL, common as muck! Me too love x
You put every ounce of you into the family and we love you for it.
If the worst we do these days is pig out on crap in bed too late at night - we are doing amazing 😂 .
You love your family and provide such a fabulous support network to all. I think we have to tell ourselves 7 out of 10 will do on some days when we often feel the pressure to be 10 out of 10 everyday.
Life is so hard for so many and people like us can see joy in the basics like stability, love, family and a home which is a gift.
Ashley you make the house a home so you must look after you. What is it they say put our own life jacket on first 😂 ❤
Big hugs to you ❤
Really enjoyed hearing a bit more about you. You always make me laugh when you assume that we have switched off halfway through. Nice to see a real person, with a real home. take care x
Thanks so much, 🫣 I know most the time I find myself waffling on then I check the timer and think bloody hell the video is coming to a end now 😂, I think it’s because in person I mask my actual self just to fit in , but on here I’m free to be who I am yes I am different and probably not sane BUT who wants to be normal it’s our differences that makes us all unique after all. I hope your doing well and staying warm it’s freezing down here Xxx❤
@Ukmumofmany I am in Bristol and its bloody freezing x
Bless you I love cats too. They are a comfort and so funny! Great characters and very affectionate ❤xx
Yes, I’ve always let my cats roam free- they go off and do their own thing and come home for a cuddle when they want. I love watching you clean and hearing about your life 😊
Hiya Laura , exactly they are basically lions in some kind off way they thrive best with freedom to roam hunt and play , all my cats do have bells on their collars tho just to warn the birdies they are there but my cats aren’t silly they rip off the bells most days 😂. Xxx
Aww Ashley my heart goes out to you I think you are a wonderful mam you love them unconditionally don't blame yourself cause its life life can be shit sometimes but you do the best for your children and that's all you can do you are amazing ❤ ❤xx
You do great hun and they r sooo lucky ❤❤❤
Aww lovely I think you are so hard on yourself. You are a wonderful mum who so obviously loves and cares for your children and pets.
Your children are lucky Ashley !they have you,plus your pets are blessed too 🥰
Thank you Lisa ❤, I hope your doing well and staying warm Xxx❤
Hi Ashley my daughter is 55 and only got diagnosed as ADHD a couple of years ago and struggled with various things all her life. The diagnosis for her mad e everything make sense and she now has medication which has helped. You do an amazing job with your family. Hope you get your results soon and get some help as a result. Xx
Hiya Linda, ooh blimey really bless her, that’s just it it’s not the fact you’ve got a diagnosis it’s more the relief knowing there’s a reason behind it, it just makes you feel like ok now we can move forward in life. I’m just so tired off struggling and battling my demons but it’s a fight I’ll win eventually. I’m so happy that your daughter is doing well now ❤ hope your ok and staying warm it’s absolutely freezing where I am Xxx
@Ukmumofmany I really hope you get some help and I am sure you will keep fighting
By the way I envy you with 9 cats. Love 🐈 we lost our last boy this time last year. We wont get anymore now as we are 73 so have to be content with petting other peoples. Wishing all the best in the New Year to you and your family xx
Hi again Ashley please stop putting your self down you are an amazing person and a wonderful mum thank you for the video it all takes time I appreciate them and you also agree anything black shows everything and is a pain to clean as always love from Perth Western Australia 🥰❤️❤️❤️
Hiya Claudia , what’s the weather like over there ? It’s freezing here atm I do love the winter tho. Thank you lovely I do try to be more positive just thing get on top off me a lot off the time and I end up down a rabbit hole off blame, positive thinking is key tho I know so I am trying extra hard. Xxx
@ thank you beautiful it’s hot over here today it’s 33 degrees I can’t say exactly how you feel but I’ve down that rabbit hole a few times hanging on by finger tips but it’s healthy to vent and clear your mind lots of love ❤️❤️❤️
@@claudiamartin776 ooh blimey that’s hot, it’s 0 degrees here atm so chilly, think it’s unbearable at 19 degrees over here let alone in the 30s id be squeezing myself into the fridge I reckon 🤣. Xxx
Not well educated hun lol u r sooo cool. I must be common too lol 😂😅. So glad u back happy new year. Happy birthday madam Sophie🎉🎉. Budgeting for me for 2025 I spend way too much. Thought I was gonna lose my labrador on Sunday so bit anxious ❤❤❤
Thank you Sal, ooh no is your doggy ok? Ahh don’t I can’t bare the pain off losing a pet i really can’t . Xxxx❤️
@Ukmumofmany he seems better now hun think it was the heat got to him but scared the crap out of me. But he's 9 and apparently labradors of around that age are prone to heat stroke, it's bloody hot out here which I hate so I have bought him cooling mats to sit on and they seem to have helped. I dread that time too. Lots love hun xxx
Hello just come across your channel I'm from the UK myself Great video I have my own channel myself love doing cleaning videos myself I have depression and anxiety and my channel is about my self growth in my depression and anxiety 🥰
I am exactly the same when it comes to late night snacking. I don’t eat much in the day and am so busy but come 6pm I’m in all the cupboards eating shit! Literally stuff it in my mouth before I have a chance to stop myself- it’s a bad habit. So my plan is to eat lunch and that might stop me stuffing my face with crisps, bread and biscuits!
Hey lovely lady 😊 loving your channel xxx
Happy New Year and Happy birthday to Sophie 🎉
I’m trying to continue with my healthy eating already lost 2 stone since last year 😊
I also want to make more time for myself with 5 kids and 4 grandkids that’s not easy 😂
I don’t think your common just normal life!!
Take care ❤
Hi ya Ashley great video I don't blame you getting a new sink that would piss me of too the black stuff coming off I'm trying to save money to as my dog passed away I want to get rid of the grass and get my lawn slabbed over I only kept it for him so as soon as spring comes it's going 😂 take care 🌹🥰
Hiya Cheryl lovely, thank you, ahh honestly it drives me insane I can’t wait to chuck it out , yes I remember you saying bless Rex ❤️, you know where to stand with slabs don’t you and it’s so much cleaner too. Take care lovely 🥰 Xxx
@Ukmumofmany aw bless you ashley for reamembering my little dogs name i miss him dearly and your right you know where u are with slabbs new year fresh garden take care n lots of love 🌹🥰
Sending love to you- you are doing amazing ,despite all you battle xxxxx
Thank you sweetheart ❤️
Hi Ashley please stop putting yourself down & thinking that you have to explain yourself to people, God bless your friend Fiona from Northern Ireland x 🙏❤️☘️
Love ur videos
Firstly you are NOT weird you are amazing if we were all the same we would be boring. Maybe its a good thing you didnt know before you had children cuz you are a wonderful mum and by the sounds of things even with stuggles they will be just fine with you guys by their side. My dog and cats know when im down and i need them too. I love the way you are as you never pretend to be someone your not and you are just you. Love your vlogs. Take care.
I swear to,love from scotland❤❤
Have you tried rubbing a bit of baby oil onto the sink? It makes it shine and stops marks x
Your boys will be fine because they have a loving family and a stable home
Don't feel shame about something you have no control over. The boys will be fine 🙂
I got my cat 6 months after my mom passed she's the best thing ever..❤😊
Good old deluxe drops
Ashley you are a beautiful person x
We'll all be weird together, Ashley! x
P.s We made same mistake with black sink tbh sounds stupid but it never looked clean and stressed us out 😂 i think change when you can just to get out of your head space. 😊
Ahh I’m glad it’s not just me, I absolutely hate it it’ll be the first thing to be done that’s for sure. I hope your well love Xxx❤️
You have absolutely nothing to feel guilty for. You've got kids that you love no matter what, that's the greatest gift of all. All a child can ever want is the love and acceptance of their parent(s). It's blindingly obvious to me that your kids have that in abundance. I'm sure the boys will be absolutely fine, they've got you fighting their corner.
Ashley your amazing just a pity i didn't live round the corner from you, my heart breaks for you sweetheart your friend Fiona x 🙏❤️🌺🤗
Ahh bless ya thank you love, i really appreciate your kindness Fiona I hope your doing well, it was -7 this morning here that was quite a shocker Xxx❤️
@Ukmumofmany am ok Ashley suffering a flare-up with fibromyalgia my only wish is that i lived near by to be there for you, never apologise for who you are & please stop being so hard on yourself honestly your an amazing mum pet, your friend Fiona x 🙏❤️🤗
lol i love being weird ! ive been tested for ASD also i know i have ADHD and OCD like you i had some pretty bad times growing up i really struggled with controlling my emotions which led me to take two overdoses in my late teens iam now 56 and still learning how to cope also we have a 19 year old with ASD and ADHD x
Nothing wrong with being weird 😊
A world without a weirdo would be a very boring world ay 🤪🤣 Xxx
Great vlog I always say it's a shit show lol 😆 😂 x