My personal goals and values are to move out of my parents house, learn how to cook and do laundry, and be financially independent. This is almost impossible with my multi-millionaire STEM Ph.D parents who micromanage my daily schedule as a 29 year old. It's hard to see the point in quitting vaping in the context of those goals when I don't have a bridge towards those goals in my parents house. I don't have social support quitting as the son of a mother in STEM, I have to support my mother's belief system about my failure to launch after graduating from college in STEM.
My personal goals and values are to move out of my parents house, learn how to cook and do laundry, and be financially independent. This is almost impossible with my multi-millionaire STEM Ph.D parents who micromanage my daily schedule as a 29 year old. It's hard to see the point in quitting vaping in the context of those goals when I don't have a bridge towards those goals in my parents house. I don't have social support quitting as the son of a mother in STEM, I have to support my mother's belief system about my failure to launch after graduating from college in STEM.