This is a lesson that we should always listen to the two sides b4 we judge anyone, I’m so sorry for this man and I’m so sorry for insulting him before hearing him out, some women can give you a hell on earth.
Well spoken. That lady looked innocent but has no wisdom of managing her home. She locked out the man that accepted her child as his biological father and cared for him.
The gentleness of Emma Bello flows in the blood stream of his family. I remember the younger brother, Anthony Bello of blessed memory, their father a jovial old man. Emmanuel was my model of gentleness. I loved to see him around during any of our religious gatherings. Watching you on this episode of justice court has made me ponder on the irony of life. 'This life no balance at all'. Every good woman would have love to have you as a husband but unfortunately, your Marital life has been hell from your explanation. I pray that God will give you peace of mind. Brother! Emmanuel Bello as we used to call you back in the day, you're one of those that taught me gentleness. I also remember your adage; everybody's goat is nobody's 🐐 and that goat will either die of hunger or gluttony.
I really love Mr. Bello, he is really someone who keeps details. This is one story that supported my stand that a man should not be handed 100% blame in a divorce case. Looking at Mrs. Bello's countenance its obvious she is a troublesome woman. Look at her, she never mentioned all her bad side and that is the same story she will be playing into people's brain to make her man bad. Sames goes to every woman who has been involved in divorce. You cant claim to be a victim in a situation you join to create.
Is really good to hear stories from both sides before concluding on who is wrong. I was thinking Mr. Bello must be a devil when i was listening to Mrs Bello. But later hearing the man's side of the story and the way the woman was even reacting to it made it very obvious who the bad person is between the two of them. The man must have really had enough and decided to run to save his life.
I can just imagine how justified and relieved her former lover feels now watching this. Once a person is damaged or battered from a previous relationship, marrying her may be suicidal. Such a person is likely to avenge all pains of that previous relationship on you. Marrying out of pity is destructive. Anyways, the main issue here is the welfare of the kids as the marriage is definitely gone. However, paternity test is required for all 4 children to truly ascertain that those are his children. I comment my full reserve for now until final episode. Gracias!
@@taracarson9466 Yes, you are right. But to decide now for parternity test makes no sense.If they are not his children, psychological and emotionally the lifes of those children will be ruined.He would have done that before the ones born to him by the woman started bearing his name .And again , their birth certificates carries his name.How will you feel if you now know that the name on your birth certificate is not of your real father when you became young adult or you know a little bit of things about life .?
@@nduodiaka1739 You're just emotional on the issue, paternity test can be done anytime if the need arise, even if its 50yrs. The husband can even do his own paternity test if there are findings that his mother once cheated on his father way back. So for a woman like this, paternity test is very important. Forget about birth certificate, trauma, they have been bearing his name, he didn't do it from the beginning, its now that he wants to do it, and all that. You can't use those excuses not to checkmate a cheating partner. What if the biological father is somewhere waiting, and this man is raising the kids, how will his old age look like? Unless you are scared for the woman and looking for a soft landing for her.
This life no balance truly. Some women are virtuous women but just enduring their relationship. But this woman has her man but the man is the one enduring it
Anybody complaining about abuses in their previous relationship before they meet you, u need to make a rigorous background check before you proceed with the relationship with them because most times they're actually the abuser.
Woman and their "weakest point" moves. She a smart woman, see her narrative how she went straight to the kids and build it with emotions and pity while she the fire cracker in the marriage
He who fineth a wife fineth a good thing and uptaineth favor from God.theres no perfect match in marriage,is only those who are there makes it perfect.untill everyone knows there limits marriage will never stand.if you like be a real pastor.and one person can't fight for a better home, the two must put head together
She does not want to grow and mature. He is an older and humble person who wants a quiet life while she still wants to go out and explore. I believe she got with him because he felt pity on her and she knows he would provide. She certaintly is not ready to be monogamist
The man knew that the only weapon the woman wants to use against him is the kids.He had to set his mind free from the kids to protect himself from this manipulative woman otherwise he would never be free from her wicked shackles.He loves his kids. But he must live first!!!!!!
I am ashamed becos before the husband spoke I was cursing him. As soon as he spoke to tell his side I knew he was a good man. Yes he should move on with his life
It is really unfortunate that Mrs Bello is unable to control herself during Mr Bello's testimony as her body language really indicates that she has an anger management issues. Her Husband was very quiet during her testimony. Mrs Bello is unable refute the allegation about her violence towards her Husband or her various neighbours including possible adultery. She should go for anger management, and also should include her husband in relationship counselling. I reserve my further comments until the conclusion of the case.
Marriage is a school you got a certificate b4 you start d school without exam, yet know graduations, it just endurance nd hoping one day dead will set in to put asunder
The man is calm does not make him a saint. From his shortcoming, he lacks the duty of care to the children. Irrespective of what must have happened between them, the children welfare comes first.
@@mobi6341 yes, the welfare of the children come first, but when you have a wife like this, you will regret your life and don't want to have anything to do with such woman. Where he made the mistake is not bringing her first daughter to take responsibility. Open account for her and send every penny to your daughter. At least 15yrs is matured enough while he allow the woman to leave a single mother's life. She have a child before and this man took the responsibility of the child, but she have the heart and mind to lock him outside of his own house, house the she is not paying rent. Women are crying outside they don't have husband, why you that have is pushing him outside. If she is frustrated, she don't have the right to put her frustration on another person. Everybody is frustrated in the country, most people are just managing their frustration.
i have been in such a situation and i love my woman and unfortunately we separated about two years ago, but i could not let her go, so i had to do all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back, now we are back together, and i must say i am enjoying every moment of it, i could not let the love of my life go
Juggling between emotional display while speaking to get sympathy and signs of disgust and rage while he speaks says a lot. If you don't know what narcissistic behaviours are, you are not truly safe.
Courtship in relationship is as important as marriage NEVER ignored signs if you can't manage courtship you are 99% likely not going to manage your marriage...
I'm telling you, you sometimes is just like to be single for life is better, from my observation here this lady has no good intentions towards this man
If it were those days the children will always be in their father's side while the mother will be visiting... My dad/mom separated when we're very tender (4, 6,9yrs old) and three of us was moved to father's side while our mom used to visit us. What a terrible moment though 😭😭😭 and I don't pray that any child should experience it.
The body language of that woman justified the man's statement. The woman onws the man a lot of honour for ever accepting her with a son that's not his biological child. If the woman is not problematic, I believe there wouldn't be any cause for alarm.
Whatever happened btw them as couples is their business, he is irresponsible for not taking care of his kids or seeing them periodt! Nothing to justify that
@@akinyemioluwatosin6973are you in your right sense at all…what she said is not bad,taking responsibility of your children is that a sin?you are the mad fellow here….Ewu Gambia
From my personal opinion, and base on the testimony from the couples, the woman does not deserve this man. The man is too soft and gentle hence she took advantage of that to live the type of life she want. Sad!😔
Forgive who? Just dey play, he has already shoot himself in the foot by marrying a single mother and forgiving her cheating ass something he shouldn't have done. Any man that forgive a cheating woman will have himself to blame
You know, these things will happen, going to church and don't have a relationship with your God. What kind of example are you setting for the children?
Marriage is d MOST difficult exam to write! NOBODY IS PERFECTED OR HAVE EVER GRADUATED FROM IT, EXCEPT WEN DEAD SET IN. EVERY FAMILY'S HAS THERE CROSS CARRYING. SO NOBODY QUALIFY TO MEDIATE ON MARRIAGE EXCEPT GOD D AUTHOR OF D MARRIAGE.
@@alinayili2199 What context of the text echoes "Open Mindedness"? This is the case of a woman that dispays an attitude that is horrifyingly reprehensible and I should expect a very objective analysis of the case at hand. Did you see the body language of the woman while the man spoke on the antecedents that led to them being in court?
How delightfully paradoxical that the "Plaintiff" was indeed the culprit. @Lola.The double standard is so palpable and I know that many women were disappointed with the man, hoping that he was indeed the violent one. You had no room to vilify the plaintiff "Emma Bello" , and all you could speak on was how they were able to articulate their point(s), even though it was clear that the gentle man, with an unstintingly remarkable demeanour, was effortless in his diction and with his choice of words. My point is that you would have sponsored an uprising if the man was indeed the villain and "The me-too" gremlins will have all risen to the occasion, to literally scavenge on the man's soul. You are suddenly lost for words.
Most homes that you have found 100% happiness bw both parties must have achieved thru the efforts of such wife. Royalty , humbleness ,Nd avoid third parties in Ur relationship
As much as I sympathise with this man, he should NEVER have deserted his children including his step son. So sad when marriages don't work, there's a lot more to this story, you can't understand in one sitting, people shouldn't be too quick to judge.
@@Ceedee824 You might have missed out on the part where they said the child now bears his name, if he adopted the child, that's his responsibility now. You don't have to be the father to have responsibility over a child. There's nothing wrong with marrying a woman with a child, he knew she had a child when he married her.
I understand how it may not be fair that the children are affected but this man is severely traumatised by this woman that he is willing to avoid her by all means. He said her phone number gives him bad memories, that's a sign of severe trauma and that was totally disregarded in this proceeding. I feel so much for this man eventhough I blame him for staying to the point where he became traumatised. He should have left at the first sight of violence, someone is violent and you still decided to marry her.
Family members probably confused him. Recall when he said a family member joked that their problems stemmed from their union not being legalized which prompted him to do a church wedding but the lady picked a fight on their way back from the wedding?
See, I know the woman may have her own bad side. But as a man and a father too. He doesn't have to abandon his children because of the woman's bad behavior. If he doesn't want the woman fine. No one is forcing him. But, he has to stand up for his responsibility for his own children as a father. I trust ma-ma funmi she will correct him on that same in the next episode.
This case is different oh, see its better to stay at the corner of the roof than to stay with a contentious & trouble some woman. There's no man that will stay with you with you are troublesome
That lady might look all calm & collected...but I see a very violent & problematic person in her. The man has a commendable calm & humble demeanor. POV: In whatever you do, never settle with the wrong partner. Pray for Grace!! Kudos to Judge Funmi ❤️ Looking forward to part2 🤞🏽
ThIs woman is a curse upon this gentle calm man & it's his decency & calmness that this heartless woman is using against him & even taking advantage of as well... She's simply evil & doesn't deserve such a responsible man... She has no respect for her husband.. As a lady, I wish the man can divorce her to have peace of mind...
As a man,It really hurts so much when your partner cheats on you,Often time it can also make you start transferring agression to the kids. Each time we talk about issueslike these,it will also be good if we can go to the grassroots of the problem,But because kids are involved,So we must focus more on the kids warfare first. but to my own understanding,i believe it will be of no good to include your innocent kids in your beef with their mother.
I can really relate to this story, the woman loves the man and the man loves the children. It's not easy to talk to such a woman, she has manipulative character. The man is going thru a lot
She doesn't love him pls. This man has gone thru alot, how many men can tolerate a cheating wife? A wife that can lock her husband out of his own house? Let him do a DNA test n take care of his biological children, cos I'm sure some are not his.
Now I understand why the Bible says " it is better to live alone in the corner of the roof than live with a quarrelsome wife in a mansion " Proverbs 25:24
Your lordship Fumi, Ma, I want to commend your contributions to our present society, I pray God to reward you for making good use of your talent,. permit me to say this your lordship, please Ma, a better result can be achieved if you make an open rebuke on both couples of the areas of their wrong did that brought about their breakup during your cross examinations , there after your judgement. Ma, I believe it will help to reduce the increase in divorcement, and all together earn you more reward from God Almighty . because, I am more concerned about the future of the children.Thank you Ma.
Men still gat blamed for most of the issues in marriages. This is one of the issues we go through, especially when getting in relationships with single mothers. Good job JC. Keep the Legal Sanitations going mam
This is a lesson that we should always listen to the two sides b4 we judge anyone, I’m so sorry for this man and I’m so sorry for insulting him before hearing him out, some women can give you a hell on earth.
you're right
Perfecly said
Me too I was actually judging him when she was narrating her own hmmm let my husband come and see violent women oooo
Well spoken. That lady looked innocent but has no wisdom of managing her home. She locked out the man that accepted her child as his biological father and cared for him.
@@ritaakudo9410 🤣🤣🤣 please leave your man out of this biko
Chai!!!! We men are going through a lot. Thank God Hakimi paid back. Just 1 time but gives us a sigh of relief.
The gentleness of Emma Bello flows in the blood stream of his family. I remember the younger brother, Anthony Bello of blessed memory, their father a jovial old man.
Emmanuel was my model of gentleness. I loved to see him around during any of our religious gatherings.
Watching you on this episode of justice court has made me ponder on the irony of life. 'This life no balance at all'. Every good woman would have love to have you as a husband but unfortunately, your Marital life has been hell from your explanation.
I pray that God will give you peace of mind.
Brother! Emmanuel Bello as we used to call you back in the day, you're one of those that taught me gentleness. I also remember your adage; everybody's goat is nobody's 🐐 and that goat will either die of hunger or gluttony.
Wow. You sure know him... obviously mistakes were made. He even took her in without first marrying her. Sad.
The lady is a trouble maker
God will fight for this man
Are you saying you knew him?
@@d-artam8968 Yes, i do very well.
It is better to live in the desert than to live with this type of woman.
For the first time since watching this show, i couldn’t agree more .
I really love Mr. Bello, he is really someone who keeps details. This is one story that supported my stand that a man should not be handed 100% blame in a divorce case. Looking at Mrs. Bello's countenance its obvious she is a troublesome woman. Look at her, she never mentioned all her bad side and that is the same story she will be playing into people's brain to make her man bad. Sames goes to every woman who has been involved in divorce. You cant claim to be a victim in a situation you join to create.
I agree with you, that this woman is troublesome.
She is a bad woman
Is really good to hear stories from both sides before concluding on who is wrong. I was thinking Mr. Bello must be a devil when i was listening to Mrs Bello. But later hearing the man's side of the story and the way the woman was even reacting to it made it very obvious who the bad person is between the two of them. The man must have really had enough and decided to run to save his life.
@@evelyinipaja7022l😊
Husbands even if you are not interested in the marriage please don't let it affect the welfare of the children.
I can just imagine how justified and relieved her former lover feels now watching this. Once a person is damaged or battered from a previous relationship, marrying her may be suicidal. Such a person is likely to avenge all pains of that previous relationship on you. Marrying out of pity is destructive.
Anyways, the main issue here is the welfare of the kids as the marriage is definitely gone. However, paternity test is required for all 4 children to truly ascertain that those are his children. I comment my full reserve for now until final episode.
Gracias!
Paternity test for what?what was he thinking before they started bearing his name.?was he sleeping.?
@@nduodiaka1739 Never too late to do test. Bearing his name doesn’t make him their father
@@taracarson9466 Yes, you are right.
But to decide now for parternity test makes no sense.If they are not his children, psychological and emotionally the lifes of those
children will be ruined.He would have done that before the ones born to him by the woman started bearing his name .And again , their birth certificates carries his name.How will you feel if you now know that the name on your birth certificate is not of your real father when you became young adult or you know a little bit of things about life .?
@@nduodiaka1739
You're just emotional on the issue, paternity test can be done anytime if the need arise, even if its 50yrs. The husband can even do his own paternity test if there are findings that his mother once cheated on his father way back.
So for a woman like this, paternity test is very important. Forget about birth certificate, trauma, they have been bearing his name, he didn't do it from the beginning, its now that he wants to do it, and all that.
You can't use those excuses not to checkmate a cheating partner.
What if the biological father is somewhere waiting, and this man is raising the kids, how will his old age look like?
Unless you are scared for the woman and looking for a soft landing for her.
@@fridaynetel4609 He has the full right to do parternity test I am only talking in the interest of those innocent children,
Unhappy marriages are so sad! I pray they both find peace.
Amen
Her body language says it all, she is a piece of work
I can't stop enjoying the disposition of this beautiful cool young judge.
This man speaks so good😊
He is polished
And has a calm mien too
😂😂😂
Much English is the result why the Marriage failed
One of the Nigerian program that makes me happy ☺️☺️
Aswear
The only court that works and follows the rules of judiciary in the Nigeria at the moment.
Look at how she kept her neck when he was talking 😂.
Suspicious
😂😂😂😂😂
A typical violent woman posture...
This life no balance truly. Some women are virtuous women but just enduring their relationship. But this woman has her man but the man is the one enduring it
The most important part is the upkeep of your children
So happy to see Judge Funmi doing what she knows how to do best
when a good man is fed up, nothing anyone can do about it.
Anybody complaining about abuses in their previous relationship before they meet you, u need to make a rigorous background check before you proceed with the relationship with them because most times they're actually the abuser.
This woman is something else !!
Woman and their "weakest point" moves. She a smart woman, see her narrative how she went straight to the kids and build it with emotions and pity while she the fire cracker in the marriage
You see ladies with this type of stature and size, I dey fear them oo.
And Tall guys love those small size women so much
I have same perception about women with this stature
@@sandraaugustine6316 I dnt ooo
This stature? Very arrogant set of human being
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Ma'am you're the best lawyer in the whole wide world 😌♥️♥️ I love you..I wish you more wisdom, knowledge and prosperity ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️🙏🏼❣️
may God not allow us to settle down with a wrong partner , they were not made to be together💔💔😢😢
Amennnnnnn!
@@favourgodisgreatcoolbreeze5034 AMEN
He who fineth a wife fineth a good thing and uptaineth favor from God.theres no perfect match in marriage,is only those who are there makes it perfect.untill everyone knows there limits marriage will never stand.if you like be a real pastor.and one person can't fight for a better home, the two must put head together
For every action you make, always think of the outcome eventually. This woman is a trouble on her own, it is obvious.
I can relate very well, the man should find a life again.
She does not want to grow and mature. He is an older and humble person who wants a quiet life while she still wants to go out and explore. I believe she got with him because he felt pity on her and she knows he would provide. She certaintly is not ready to be monogamist
Exactly
My brother run ooo run ooo
The man knew that the only weapon the woman wants to use against him is the kids.He had to set his mind free from the kids to protect himself from this manipulative woman otherwise he would never be free from her wicked shackles.He loves his kids. But he must live first!!!!!!
This is what you get when you marry out of pity. He met a single mother struggling to provide for her son he helped and affection grew.
Apt
Am telling you, this is my first word when he explained how she mate her
It is always advisable to avoid a single mother unless her husband is dead, anything other than that is a no no
@@quicklinks1643 you not serious! What has single mother got to do with someone's personality
@@queenoparaugo2356 don’t mind him …people will just open their mouth waaaaa…
May God have mercy on this troublesome woman
I am ashamed becos before the husband spoke I was cursing him. As soon as he spoke to tell his side I knew he was a good man. Yes he should move on with his life
This is why you have to listen to both sides of the story.
Exactly my advice to the man... Aggressive women can drain a man Financially and Physically.. talking out of experience
@@SkidCudi Exactly my point.
Exactly! Before the man spoke, I was already very angry with him. Yes, we must always listen carefully to both sides of the story.
Lol
I just hope the man too isn't lying ,because quiet people can also be manipulative. But in all God will help both of them
Watching from U.K. much luv to the amazing judge 👩⚖️🇳🇬💐💐
Hi, also from the UK
This man speaks well.
Damn this man is real gentle man
Some gentle men can still make a woman suffer o. Lol... I know this woman has her faults but the man should take care of his kids.
It is really unfortunate that Mrs Bello is unable to control herself during Mr Bello's testimony as her body language really indicates that she has an anger management issues. Her Husband was very quiet during her testimony. Mrs Bello is unable refute the allegation about her violence towards her Husband or her various neighbours including possible adultery. She should go for anger management, and also should include her husband in relationship counselling. I reserve my further comments until the conclusion of the case.
Marriage is a school you got a certificate b4 you start d school without exam, yet know graduations, it just endurance nd hoping one day dead will set in to put asunder
The man is calm does not make him a saint. From his shortcoming, he lacks the duty of care to the children. Irrespective of what must have happened between them, the children welfare comes first.
Bros , what else have you got in reserve
@@pekunfajemisin1238 🤣🤣🤣 I wonder oo
@@mobi6341 yes, the welfare of the children come first, but when you have a wife like this, you will regret your life and don't want to have anything to do with such woman. Where he made the mistake is not bringing her first daughter to take responsibility. Open account for her and send every penny to your daughter. At least 15yrs is matured enough while he allow the woman to leave a single mother's life. She have a child before and this man took the responsibility of the child, but she have the heart and mind to lock him outside of his own house, house the she is not paying rent. Women are crying outside they don't have husband, why you that have is pushing him outside. If she is frustrated, she don't have the right to put her frustration on another person. Everybody is frustrated in the country, most people are just managing their frustration.
i have been in such a situation and i love my woman and unfortunately we separated about two years ago, but i could not let her go, so i had to do all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back, now we are back together, and i must say i am enjoying every moment of it, i could not let the love of my life go
@Philip C Carpentier Here, Sylvia Regina White, she is a great spiritual adviser who can bring back your ex. lookher up, youll find her website
Congratulations sir
@@julietwasih1656ok
@@deanaWnelson scammer 😂😂😂😂😂
She beat someone's child and mistreated them!!!!!??? She deserves what she gets
That man is a good man. God bless you judge funmi
Some women will make you run away even from your shadow. Seriously I fear Nigerian women.
Thank God you said some women
Please don't fear us boss😫 we are nothing without Nigerian men😃
How about those decent woman with the fear of God, pls all women are not the same.
@@anthoniaaniebor6798 and that is why I said some
@@ChikaruthTv I did say some because I know it's not all
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Juggling between emotional display while speaking to get sympathy and signs of disgust and rage while he speaks says a lot. If you don't know what narcissistic behaviours are, you are not truly safe.
Please who is a narcissist and what are their character traits?
I noticed that as well. And she smirked all through.
God Bless You
@@Storessa1. do your research online.
@@BeckEddie please let me ayokunle reply me
I know why I asked
Peace is a very valuable asset. Everybody needs peace.
*Note* my comment was written before I heard Oga Bello talk and he proved my comment right.
The man is a good person I must tell you,well it's a lesson to my kind of person
Courtship in relationship is as important as marriage NEVER ignored signs if you can't manage courtship you are 99% likely not going to manage your marriage...
But women can hide there character at that stage, you can easily know a man during courtship.
This woman is a case oo jesus 😭 see soft spoken man, caring and a provider gosh
Oh no. May he run far away from this woman and never look back. I even feel bad for him, he has to tolerate her until the kids are 18 years.
I'm telling you, you sometimes is just like to be single for life is better, from my observation here this lady has no good intentions towards this man
No. The man can have their custody earlier than 18yrs old
He doesn't have to o..m he can relate with his kids and not her
My candid advise to the is that regardless...show your children love and be responsible.
Alot of people here won't understand what the man is going through. Immediately you marry a wrong partner....boom your hell start here on earth
Wow.. this is serious. May God give us happy home.
If it were those days the children will always be in their father's side while the mother will be visiting... My dad/mom separated when we're very tender (4, 6,9yrs old) and three of us was moved to father's side while our mom used to visit us. What a terrible moment though 😭😭😭 and I don't pray that any child should experience it.
Your mum didn't go to court cos she had no money....
@@nwoluoluchi109 those days nothing like that dear
Oh Lord give this innocent man peace of mind, women! Women!! Women!!! Una matter dey God ✋
Perfect place to make peace ✌️
Calm couples in speech but only God knows how their tolerance cycle is. But I think judge funmi is doing a great job.
I laughed hard when Akin said Priscilla Ojo 😂,he must be a big fan of Priscy;Iyabo Ojo’s daughter
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Pls do you know how I can locate justice court in Lagos
@@taiwodamolalydia35
lol🤣🤣
I love the man’s eloquence 💋💋
The body language of that woman justified the man's statement. The woman onws the man a lot of honour for ever accepting her with a son that's not his biological child. If the woman is not problematic, I believe there wouldn't be any cause for alarm.
Was he force to marry her with a son?
Whatever happened btw them as couples is their business, he is irresponsible for not taking care of his kids or seeing them periodt! Nothing to justify that
You're a mad fellow
@@akinyemioluwatosin6973are you in your right sense at all…what she said is not bad,taking responsibility of your children is that a sin?you are the mad fellow here….Ewu Gambia
Happy to see Justice court notification
E dey give me joy
And . learning alot
Thank you ma
God bless you
The man is from same state as me wow
Me too ✋️
From my personal opinion, and base on the testimony from the couples, the woman does not deserve this man. The man is too soft and gentle hence she took advantage of that to live the type of life she want. Sad!😔
Is always good to hear from both side
Mrs Bello needs to go for anger management workshop. I pray her husband forgives her because he has already had enough.
Forgive who? Just dey play, he has already shoot himself in the foot by marrying a single mother and forgiving her cheating ass something he shouldn't have done. Any man that forgive a cheating woman will have himself to blame
There IS Always two sides to a story.. I started hating on the man when She gave her own verdict... NOW SEE all he said 🙄
A coin has 2 sides
Whatever he says he MUST pay school fees
A very good measure to ensure balancing in every sector
Both are eloquent and are able to express themselves clearly, no further comment till next week. God bless Judge Funmi.
I love that. That's an Open Minded person there
You know, these things will happen, going to church and don't have a relationship with your God. What kind of example are you setting for the children?
Marriage is d MOST difficult exam to write! NOBODY IS PERFECTED OR HAVE EVER GRADUATED FROM IT, EXCEPT WEN DEAD SET IN. EVERY FAMILY'S HAS THERE CROSS CARRYING. SO NOBODY QUALIFY TO MEDIATE ON MARRIAGE EXCEPT GOD D AUTHOR OF D MARRIAGE.
@@alinayili2199 What context of the text echoes "Open Mindedness"? This is the case of a woman that dispays an attitude that is horrifyingly reprehensible and I should expect a very objective analysis of the case at hand. Did you see the body language of the woman while the man spoke on the antecedents that led to them being in court?
How delightfully paradoxical that the "Plaintiff" was indeed the culprit. @Lola.The double standard is so palpable and I know that many women were disappointed with the man, hoping that he was indeed the violent one.
You had no room to vilify the plaintiff "Emma Bello" , and all you could speak on was how they were able to articulate their point(s), even though it was clear that the gentle man, with an unstintingly remarkable demeanour, was effortless in his diction and with his choice of words.
My point is that you would have sponsored an uprising if the man was indeed the villain and "The me-too" gremlins will have all risen to the occasion, to literally scavenge on the man's soul. You are suddenly lost for words.
It's good to listen to the two people o.
This man has been through alot.
Chai
i know her type...the need DNA to even confirm those children....
So sorry my brother, let her go for deliverance, and she needs to know God for herself.
He needs a DNA please, all i can see in her is narcissistic behavior.
Lol 😆 I thought the same , I know a story like this and it turned out the woman committed paternity court.
Exactly my view. The woman is evil. The man is very weak.
bad behaviour indeed
Most homes that you have found 100% happiness bw both parties must have achieved thru the efforts of such wife. Royalty , humbleness ,Nd avoid third parties in Ur relationship
As much as I sympathise with this man, he should NEVER have deserted his children including his step son. So sad when marriages don't work, there's a lot more to this story, you can't understand in one sitting, people shouldn't be too quick to judge.
@@Ceedee824 You might have missed out on the part where they said the child now bears his name, if he adopted the child, that's his responsibility now. You don't have to be the father to have responsibility over a child. There's nothing wrong with marrying a woman with a child, he knew she had a child when he married her.
@@Ceedee824
Raising an innocent child is not mumu.
Say no to single mother men no go hear...they are bitter and narcissistic in nature u sound like one
God bless you judge for your great widom
I understand how it may not be fair that the children are affected but this man is severely traumatised by this woman that he is willing to avoid her by all means. He said her phone number gives him bad memories, that's a sign of severe trauma and that was totally disregarded in this proceeding. I feel so much for this man eventhough I blame him for staying to the point where he became traumatised. He should have left at the first sight of violence, someone is violent and you still decided to marry her.
Family members probably confused him. Recall when he said a family member joked that their problems stemmed from their union not being legalized which prompted him to do a church wedding but the lady picked a fight on their way back from the wedding?
Is always good to end this thing before kids get involved.
Mere looking at her face one would know she is contentious and confrontational.they love taking advantage of a gentleman.
Dis man sure say na him get d rest children too?..
I'm also thinking 🤔🤔🤔
The way she first petitioned her case as if she was innocent.
I swear 😂😂
The Lady is collected as well and seem to be calm even when the man was explaining his side of the story. Please takecare of your kids
Lol it was very difficult for her. I could tell from her body language.
Peace of mind is important 😌
Bello run, my brother. I fear for your love. she's not serious
This guy is a calmed guy
I like him
See, I know the woman may have her own bad side. But as a man and a father too. He doesn't have to abandon his children because of the woman's bad behavior. If he doesn't want the woman fine. No one is forcing him. But, he has to stand up for his responsibility for his own children as a father. I trust ma-ma funmi she will correct him on that same in the next episode.
So he doesn't stand for his responsibility yet he accepts her other child and support her in the first place. Continue....
If the woman is taking advantage of the situation to Syphon money from the man. It's annoying
Like u ar using 1 percentage to reason in this matter, or is that the way you are
Ure obviously one of the problems of this world. When you can’t just say the truth.
This case is different oh, see its better to stay at the corner of the roof than to stay with a contentious & trouble some woman. There's no man that will stay with you with you are troublesome
Judge Funmi Ashaolu, wishing you more wisdom and knowledge.
Even if the woman is problematic as he claims, that is not a good enough excuse to neglect your kids! Judge Funmi will correct him next episode!
How are we even sure...the kids are his....
you don't know violent women who want to use kids to nail a man down
@@princeemmanuel2544 but they is not prove yet , that the kids are not his. And he never denied the kids. So why will he abandon them?
Please don't judge him for abandoning the kids,we may not know what he may be passing through
No let her hear you o...🤣
Always vet people properly before allowing them into your life!
Paternity test is necessary in this case before the next step
😂 my brother I can relate to your case,I have a neighbor back in Lagos,the wife is always like that very troublsome
That lady might look all calm & collected...but I see a very violent & problematic person in her. The man has a commendable calm & humble demeanor.
POV: In whatever you do, never settle with the wrong partner. Pray for Grace!!
Kudos to Judge Funmi ❤️ Looking forward to part2 🤞🏽
They got married in Church 😂😂 if you are a child of God or believe in God why can't God reveal it to you
The woman get issues ooooo.....
Wonders shall never end....person see better man dey make issues.
This man don try oooo
I feel the man is regretting meeting the woman.
What a sad story.
Pastor
ThIs woman is a curse upon this gentle calm man & it's his decency & calmness that this heartless woman is using against him & even taking advantage of as well... She's simply evil & doesn't deserve such a responsible man... She has no respect for her husband.. As a lady, I wish the man can divorce her to have peace of mind...
See how she started with "🥺🥺🥺 your lordship and he did this and that" damn...obiriiiinn
I love their command of English
My Northern brother can speak good English... That's nice
@@uchevickaye2919 hope he excels in his language too
Well God is the ultimate judge but I believe the man more than the woman
People with hot temper should please go sort a solution. I dated a girl who had a very high one...thank God im free today
Hot *temper*
That lady with gold short hair always present In court....her facial expression tho😆
I see a man who left all the love of his children with his wife,they are closer to her, she's turning them against him ..
Thank God they Will watch this video when they grow up
As a man,It really hurts so much when your partner cheats on you,Often time it can also make you start transferring agression to the kids.
Each time we talk about issueslike these,it will also be good if we can go to the grassroots of the problem,But because kids are involved,So we must focus more on the kids warfare first.
but to my own understanding,i believe it will be of no good to include your innocent kids in your beef with their mother.
I can really relate to this story, the woman loves the man and the man loves the children. It's not easy to talk to such a woman, she has manipulative character. The man is going thru a lot
She looks like ogbanje lady with many ways to make trouble while this man is a complete gentle man that he's totally tired of her ogbanje characters.
@@michaelmichael5390 hahahahah
He has no excuse about duty of care to his children. That is wilful neglect😢
@@kogsysugarcraftcenter8252 but if it was the other way around She as an excuse abi ...double standard
She doesn't love him pls. This man has gone thru alot, how many men can tolerate a cheating wife? A wife that can lock her husband out of his own house? Let him do a DNA test n take care of his biological children, cos I'm sure some are not his.
Just imagine hearing this woman's story alone without hearing from the man...😅😅
Now I understand why the Bible says " it is better to live alone in the corner of the roof than live with a quarrelsome wife in a mansion " Proverbs 25:24
wrong verse aunty
You're so on point! The Bible is so so complete.
@@alabisundayakinlabi3897 Edited, thanks for the correction 🙏🏽
I think the guy is a peaceful and humble guy she drove him away and when a man back's up they back up for real
Thanks dear for preaching
Your lordship Fumi, Ma, I want to commend your contributions to our present society, I pray God to reward you for making good use of your talent,. permit me to say this your lordship, please Ma, a better result can be achieved if you make an open rebuke on both couples of the areas of their wrong did that brought about their breakup during your cross examinations , there after your judgement. Ma, I believe it will help to reduce the increase in divorcement, and all together earn you more reward from God Almighty . because, I am more concerned about the future of the children.Thank you Ma.
Men still gat blamed for most of the issues in marriages. This is one of the issues we go through, especially when getting in relationships with single mothers. Good job JC. Keep the Legal Sanitations going mam
this man is too learned for this lady