The Hidden Purpose Behind Human Values & Judgement That Causes SUFFERING | Dr. John Demartini
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- Опубліковано 16 тра 2024
- Dr. John Demartini uncovers the universal laws that govern our reality and reveals how we can use this information to create the life of our dreams. He shares how the resistance to duality causes suffering and trauma to arise within the human psyche. Giving examples, tools and practices we can use to move from victim of history to master of destiny.
He also shares how to engineer your reality to match your true desires, by getting clear on your hierarchy of values, and creating a life centered around doing what you love.
Known for his work in the film, 'The Secret', Dr. Demartini explains how the law of attraction really works, revealing why it only works if you're in alignment with your highest values.
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Timecodes:
0:00 Intro
2:18 What it Means to Know Thyself
4:29 Answering the Question: Who Are You?
6:15 Defining Your Hierarchy of Values & Claiming Your Ideal Life
10:52 How Our Highest Excitement Serves the Planet
13:02 Reflective Awareness: Transcending Our Judgement Of Others
21:30 Holding Paradox Simultaneously: From Polarity to Unicity
25:45 How The Law of Attraction ACTUALLY Works - The Secret to the 'Secret'
35:19 Mastering Your Craft: How Dr. Demartini Overcame Difficulty to Live His Purpose
39:33 Reframing Trauma: From Victim of History to Master of Destiny
49:56 "We Only Need 3 Hours to Grieve" Rapidly Transforming Grief
53:15 Breaking the Spell of Infatuation and Finding True Love
56:41 The Trap of Self Righteousness & Moral Hypocrisy
59:28 The Shadow Side of Trying to Create World Peace
1:06:23 Liberating Yourself From the Unnecessary Pain of Suffering
1:10:47 Life’s Inherent Intelligence With Order and Chaos
1:20:13 Unifying Science and Spirit & Transforming Judgement into Love
1:24:40 The Merging of Wisdom and Love
1:25:44 Defining What God Is to Humans
1:31:25 Keeping Clear Metrics on Your Life
1:35:56 Dr. Demartini's Mystical & Psychedelic Experiences
1:42:27 Conclusion
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Dr. John Demartini is a polymath and a world-renowned human behavior expert. His work has been described by students as the "most comprehensive body of work", "an extensive library of wisdom".
Dr. John Demartini's mission and vision is to share knowledge and wisdom that empowers you to become a master of your own life and destiny.
He's an internationally published author, a global educator and the founder of the Demartini Method, a revolutionary tool in modern psychology.
His education curriculum ranges from personal growth seminars to corporate empowerment programs
His teachings are the synthesis of knowledge and wisdom from the greatest minds through history and his curriculum is designed to help you empower and inspire all 7 areas of your life.
Website: drdemartini.com
Instagram: / drjohndemartini
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I physically felt myself getting dehydrated listening to this amazing human. I’ve got to take breaks with this one, there’s only so much my mind can be blown in one sitting! Also, Andre is so good at interviewing, I’m insanely grateful for this podcast and I’m so happy it’s thriving.
This comment is so funny and accurate.
I just took a Break
To look at this comment 😃🫱🫲👀
Feel the exact same way!
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Me too ❤️ Gratitude
“Anything I do not yet love only reflects my ignorance.”
The interviewer here is so in tune, he is asking the right questions, and he let the guest speaks and elaborated . Excellent interview!
He's an _awesome_ interviewer - really brings out the best in already amazing people!
Makes this channel what it is - where's the Join button!!
It's about time Dr D got on the show 😊 I've known John for 20 years. I have not come across another teacher who synthesizes as many fields of study as he does, and/or provides the truly practical, life-changing tools that he does.
Agree! 🎉
I feel certain that much of my own trauma has been healed, just by listening to this interview. Mind blown....
Is it possible to have your mind blown several times in one interview? Definitely
_Finally_ someone with the wisdom to not promote 'investment in the markets' - but rather placing money with good companies on good missions.
The last video I needed to watch ever 🌄... This is gold. I lost a son and this really helps.
I took a seminar with him years ago. He was full of joy, bounced around like a kid. Had some tough times in his early years. Amazing guy!
I've told people before, Dr Demartini has to be the wisest and smartest person alive.
Thank you. My arrogance has knocked me down repeatedly. I puff myself up for my self discipline and spirituality, then I look down on others…which only breeds resentment and retaliation. Accepting the polarity is the key. Wow. Learning to love and accept all the good and bad is a new idea for me. If I can see my own vulnerability and admit to the problems, then I develop compassion. I feel relieved not to have to be keep up the false and imposed spiritual identity anymore.
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Right there with ya.
We're members of the same tribe, my friend.
Jooooohnnn! I used to work with him. He's great. Also, if anyone is grieving deeply, highly recommend finding out how to be facilitated through his grief process. I saw it live and it's still one of the most miraculous things I've ever seen in my life. Zero grief in the person after 3 hours, after holding onto it for years and years. Magic, truly.
I’ve seen it too! Absolutely incredible
@freehumanco I'm curious if you had occasion to see sustained relief or resolution in a person.
WOWZERS....Well if that wasn't a mindblowinding and completely inspiring episode I don't know what is!! This really helped me to see my suffering in a different light for the first time in my life. Especially the part about grief...which I am presently experiencing and has been debilitating..Thank you once again Andre for bringing so much healing and love to so many❤
Seems like it's time to step into our full selves.... let's have fun with this transformation.
@nickdunn7362 I'm so down friend 💗
@@75catieChoose the opposite? "I'm so up!" Isn't that what he's saying? Balance. Choose both...They both exist at the same time!
Excellent! I love what you are saying. No opposite feelings about that!
@@karonpowell750😂😂😂😂 no judgement we said brother
Bro this guy is a genius
Incorporating so many different things, its almost hard to follow. But it resonates with my soul, I know he is speaking so much truth. Caught me off guard so I will rewatch and take notes. It really is that good. Amazing interview. Thank you so much for this ❤❤
Amazing. Talk on so many different levels. What a brilliance gentleman. One thing, I do get really tired of the spiritual community, defining our bodies as meet suits. We do realize that we are living in one of the most sophisticated biological processing systems that has ever been created. Not sure if everyone here has ever had an experience where they have felt their body max out and, do the impossible, or just simply sit in the wind or water. Honor the body as well you’re not just a spirit either and certainly not above human. None of us are .
Yes! Honor ur bodies..it's our temple and we r amazing beings!
Ive known John personally for 20 years and been to 11 of his paid events. He is a special human with vast knowledge and on an inspired mission like no other. Love John and his contributions to helping humanity "know thyself". He is a modern thought leader who brings it all together in a practical application and provides a road map to understanding your voids and values to unlock your potential. Doing this deep work can switch on a flame of inspired action by aligning goals with values where you become congruent with your vision values and goals breaking free from "story" and vaules imposed by others and society. Truly liberating and empowering like no other. Highly recommend going to a weekend "break through experience." Wonderful interview Andre keep up the great work my brother!
Nice..namaste ❤ from nj usa
If you get the chance to take the Breakthrough Experience, transform your life & do it! After completing enough Demartini Methods & taking more of his advanced courses, you are truly shown that Nothing is Missing in our lives, world, or universe. Empowered to the degree you see what's actually there. No polarised emotions or triggers. A truly unique set of teachings in the self development world ✨
About changing our story: I think both perspectives need to exist simultaneously.
To just accept your trauma from the mind simply doesn't work, it has to happen in an embodied way and that's why his message seems incomplete.
Yet, it is possible and it is essential to change our stories, when we also allow ourselves to feel and let go, and regulate the nervous system back to safety.
Lots of people think they have "forgiven" the past, but they are dissociating.
Also, what I find interesting is that real trauma work that addresses and understand ptsd and cptsd really is quite new in the fields of psychotherapy, and it is soo necessary to talk about!
Thousands of people are coming out of the Victim role by applying genuine embodiment techniques, and they discover it was the only thing that finally worked.
Becoming present and aware means that you need to feel it to heal it, while simultaneously changing your story and taking your power back: they don't cancel each other out.
Yes to body work. The jungle lives on in our biology. BUT our dreams may offer a portal to into a virtual reality where we can safely experiment and rehearse being authentic. That is, once we obtain lucidity. I want more on this subject. Thanks for your very thoughtful comment.
"You dont need to re-live it to release it"
- A spirit speaking through one of Dolores Cannon's subjects
needing to feel it tho, i think is true
@@oldboychanoa reason I was afraid to "feel it" was because I thought that I have to re-live it and hell no 😆 but I realised that I can be the adult now supporting my child self that went through those situations, which is so healing for both of us...she always needed that support from an adult and she never had it, and me..I truly feel like I don't repeat unconsciously my parents'mistakes, not abandoning her anymore.
@@oldboychano ,
If you contemplate that concept, "feeling [it]" would be "re-living [it]". That's why therapies like hypnosis work well for many traumas, etc.__by helping a person move 'through and beyond' an unpleasant experience 'objectively', WITHOUT experiencing it 'subjectively'.
That is what Dr. Demartini does with his method__he doesn't believe/agree that one 'requires' to experience their event from a place of fear, rather, from an objective viewpoint. 💖🙌😺
My highest value is that of helping homeless, neglected and abused animals. I've been a foster in animal rescue for over a decade. As far as balance goes, it seems as though there are far more animals in need of rescue these days than there are those of us able and willing to take them in. Since people have gone back to work after Covid started, it is just utterly unmanageable. I guess that's just the way the pendulum swings. Anyway, fostering is extremely rewarding and I hope more people try it as the pendulum swings back in the other direction
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Thanks for all you do for people of other species 💚 It blows my mind how many beautiful humans commit their lives to helping and saving some people and then pay for others to be exploited tortured and murdered. If you arent vegan, please make the necessary changes immediately. If you are already 🙌 then hopefully others reading this message will see their own hypocrisy and make changes.
Veganism isnt a diet, its a moral stance against exploitation of people of other species
John an absolute legend . I did his work in 2011, and I have not looked back since. The breakthrough experience is worth doing, thank you for this great work John Demartini
We create what we look for and are attuned to and aware of. That's the ultimate secret and everything else is just commentary. This is most probably the best podcast on the planet.
I've seen him interviewed before, but you were the best I've heard. I could tell he was enjoying it and it made the interview that much richer. Most of it I've heard him talk about, but I was reminded again about opposites and loving it all. The segment about grief was great. It's an interview you do want to hear again. I didn't copy down steps and questions which I'll go back and jot down. Peace ✌️
wow what a mind blowing episode! this is one of the most important higher education course, my personal Life's Master Degree curiculum in University of Authenticity! immense gratitude and apreciation to Andre, Blu, Aubry and other podcasters from the Spiritual Tribe - i've learned so much and i am continuously learning more and more from your podcasts! thank you for doing it for free! i am improving my english skills and learning soooo much wisdom! thank you from the bottom of russian society) sitting in small town in the middle of Russia i am so grateful and so happy to have this opportunity!
Namaste from judy foglia hackettstown, nj ❤
Namaste from judy hackettstown, nj ❤
Oh wowza’s. I’ve only watched/listened to 3 or 4 of your sharings of Truth.
THIS one is absolutely the best. It was sophisticated, full of things I hadn’t thought about, and I’m by no means new to self-transformation and Truth.
The questions you asked elicited such wisdom from Dr J.
Clearly you are wise.
And thank you so much for having him on your incredible show.
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Also, I absolutely love the physical visual setting you’ve created 😊😁
Thank you for being a vehicle for all true wisdom and personal and spiritual development to be shared with anyone who’s fortunate enough to hear it. 🕉️🙏🏼🕉️
This IS IT THIS IS IT THIS IS IT. I CAN'T THINK OTHERWISE FROM NOW ON!!! THIS MAN JUST REFRAMED SO MANY OF MY QUESTIONS AND ANSWERED THEM ALL FLAWLESSLY TO MY UNDERSTANDING. I can't BELIEVE how many of those questions I had asked myself just a few days ago, thinking and analizing what the answer may be, all from a neutral point of view, just to put the universe to the "test" and see it's magnificence, knowing that somehow, no matter if I am right or wrong, the answers shall present to me in the most magical way, and BOOM, I listen to this podcast crying, laughing, AHA MOMENT AFTER AHA MOMENT, all while multitasking in the kitchen, cooking, cleaning, washing, literally visualizing so many epiphanies in so little time... It got me so excited, this is unmeasurable how much respect and how much I am in love with this two men for helping me find myself. Absolutely the best interview/podcast that's out in the public domain. Thank you guys, universe, God, for putting this on my path of understanding, I am infinitely greatful. Much love, Andi.
I love how straightforward he is and his perspectives.
Dr D is the man! I remember the first time my jaw dropped when I met him over 20 years ago. It was a speaker’s event where the premise was world peace, and I watched him stand on stage and explain how it’s a one sided fantasy to hold that belief. I have been fascinated with his work ever since, and had the great pleasure of attending many of his workshops, and look forward to attending more.
1:21:42 "lovement" - the opposite of judgement
John is like the real father for everyone who touches the wisdom that he shares. So grateful for this man and his dedication to his work ❤
Crivens, Dr. D! you speak quickly, poetically and everything has meaning. That was one full interview. On war & peace - there are moments of turmoil in a family, as you say, but it rarely leads to hatred and killing. The more of a family humanity becomes, the less of this there will be. Raising the average vibration will not diminish duality but it will make it more civilised and productive.
HOLY SMOKES!! This is the most useful and freeing information I’ve EVER used! “Judgement to Lovement”, I’m Keeping That!
My biggest mentor who’s changed life ❤️
What an amazing guest, Dr. John Demartini. So inspiring! Thank you so much!
I love the perspective of Dr. Demartini., in that there is no judgement without unconsciousness, and that one is blind to the loving conscious, when they are judgemental. For this was my experience only days ago. I did a small budgeted ad on FB for my soon to be published children's picture book...called "You Are Love".. My very small ad was targeted towards women who were parents and had an interest in self-love and children's books. Surprisingly, most of the comments were from men, who had very bigoted views. Some comments were so hateful towards other groups, I had to remove them The controversy was oner the cover and many couldn't get past the cover, to understand the beauty inside the book. You see, prior to me writing the book I had a clear vision of the cover, which included a rainbowsh background. My brother warned me how some will not be ok with the rainbow. I grew up in the 60's and the rainbow was a beautiful symbol of love, peace, hope, joy, inclusivity and diversity. I was not about to let the "new age" representations stop me from seeing the beauty in a rainbow nor the beauty in everyone. I responded to these hateful comments that it is the uneducated mind which does not realize their issue was internal, as life is simply a reflection of our inner world. That they were blinded due to the fear inside of them. It all circles back to why I wrote the children's book, to help our little ones remember they are born of a pure, divine, compassionate and loving intelligence and how to connect to it through heart based emotions. So at first, while I was a little shocked at such judgmental and hateful comments, I later realized my book cover was perfect. For just like the metamorphosis before the butterfly emerges from its cocoon, we need to bring certain negative aspects of human nature to the surface, in order for us to evolve. So the way Dr Demartini so simply, yet clearly expresses that "there is no judgement without unconsciousness...for consciousness is only love is perfect. Oddly enough, my book expresses love will never judge or blame yourself or another. Thank you for that confirmation, and thank you both for this most interesting interview. XO
Thank you for sharing your experience here. I have had similar (but different) experiences of feeling ironically attacked for using rainbows and accused of spreading hate and racism for trying to promote empowerment and free speech. I see it similarly, as unconsciousness we are all capable of...my mission is towards more consciousness.
Wow, around 48 minutes in . . . . . he is truly hitting all the buttons!!! Thank you sooo much!!! I think a convo with him, Dr. Joe Dispenza and Robert Edward Grant would be awesome, and I think they would enjoy it as well as we would!! 1:10 DUALITY!! That's the only way we learn, progress, and enlighten!!! "I don't think there's any real difference" . . . 1:20:23 "You don't know somebody until you love them." Perfect!!!
Wow, just before watching this , I felt like I needed a walk around our little street after the rain stopped... was walking along noticing the Birds and plants in gardens, thinking "Oh the Birds are out enjoying themselves and the Flowers are heavy with rain drops but trying to lift themselves up to the Sun " ...and I could smell Roses but not see them ...till I got about 10 feet along and they smelt so wonderful I had to stick my nose into them and inhale ...it was almost edible ...this is BLISS !.... as I type this Dr J started talking about Subtle senses and aromatic responses I KID YOU NOT! LOL xxx What a fantastic conversation and Your Question Andre actually brought tears to my eyes when You asked about 39 mins in !! Many thanks and much gratitude to You both x
And so is the Shining Interlect Professor John 🎉 💫💨🫂🫶🌟
Dear André, your guest is amazing and reminds me of the great Byron Katie’s work . Would you consider having her in your show ?
Keep up the good work 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
"Don't play small, play authentic" blew my mind!!!!
Very nice episode! Dr Demartini is such a powerfull source of authentic knowledge ❤
I’ll have to listen to this one a few times, so packed with great insight!! I’m on a quest to know myself more authentically and love myself deeper. I love the idea of asking better questions- simple yet profound. Appreciate Dr. Demartinis knowledge, passion and mission! Very inspiring.
This is new info!!. I've been trying to get help for several years. 63, (99 percent sure) ADHD. Insurance, money has stopped the testing, 2 months ago. I've found a lot of relief with amino acids. I've been put on meds. 2 times. What meds. did to my gut. Is still not right. I thought I was going to die. I'm with a therapist now ,no meds!. Sun,eat, exercise. Still have those days! Thanks for the encouragement to keep trying.!!
I met this man in 2008. I’d had a symptom in my body that no doctor could begin to help with. He helped me identify the root cause and started me on the journey to understanding the messages my body was sending me. If you’re depressed or hopeless listen to him. It doesn’t have to be that way. From someone that has seen it first hand the order he describes exists.
I saved this I will watch it over and over and over again. Both of you are rock stars!❤❤
Me too ❤ you ..namaste from .nj judy
Every minute of this podcast was GOLD!
0:18❤❤❤ amazing good answer!! ❤❤❤ now that’s the spirit..
HOLLLLYYYY! This was AMAZINNNNGGG. It’s stuff I’ve honest to god been feeling & experiencing but the way he articulated *chefs kiss*
Great conversation. ❤ thank you. This really fired me up!
Been a fan of Dr Demartini’s ideologies for years ✨ How awesome to see this !
Omg this talk is so synchronistic! This week I’ve been handed some difficult life lessons, and one of the realizations I got from that is that I have always focused on the negative side of things, but the positive side to everything exists as well, I just didn’t have the awareness nor the practice of noticing them. So now whenever I perceive anything as negative, I’m given the homework of also seeing the positive, because this human experience is dual in nature and we have to acknowledge that all sides exist. I say this every time I comment but I can’t thank you enough, André, your brilliant guests, Know Thyself team, for adding so so much value to my life! This podcast is seriously one of the greatest resources in my life!
Dr. John is freaking amazing. I found him a couple of years ago and I still learn so much from him! Thank you both SO much
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Been listening to Dr. Demartini for quite some time now. Happy to hear him here! :)
Greatful to the path to know myself through the story's and authentic heart felt Experian thy Martini well spoken in 💕🎉
This interview is mind blowingly amazing, thank you 🙏🙏🙏🙏
So great to see Dr Demartini on here! He is brilliant!
That’s allot to absorb, I cannot imagine living in his presence. Uplifting and exhausting at the same time. Wow.
Holy Moly. This podcast was absolutely mind blowing and expansion. It is loaded with exuberant amount of information, I have to watch it over and over again just to take notes. Thank you for sharing. NAMASTE🙏🙏🙏
New Years Eve & I'm listening to this podcast, can't think of a better way to spend this evening ! Trauma & Grief need to be addressed to move forward in 2024. GREAT place to start my journey into wholeness 🫶 APPRECIATE this wisdom & THANK - YOU for sharing it !! 🎉
Wow. Definitely one of the best and most profound interviews on this podcast.
I think this is all great advice and a way of perception.... However, I also think that this is a very masculine way of transcending emotions.
Yes! Dr. John Demartini!
One of the best interviews I’ve seen thank you
Always! Love listening to Dr. John. 👍
Wow. Awesome interview! Thankyou so much!❤❤❤
Mind blown!! Thank you so much!
This is amazing. Shifted my perspective to where I've been trying to fully embody my perspective to the truth of my perspective. 😂 💚🌟💫✨️
Great. Thought provoking. Insightful AF. Thank you both.
Ok I am in ...and subscribed after watching around 4 videos.
This channel has got it going on .
Brilliant people interviewed and a very competent considerate host that ask stimulating intelligent questions .
So true ❤😮😊
Thank you for sharing 😊
This was the best pod cast I've ever seen!! Thank you!
This was one of my favorite episodes of all times Andre! I’m planning on listening a multiple times to get all the juices from it! ❤
Wow!! Good stuff. Lots of nuggets of wisdom in this one for sure ☀️
Going to be watching more than once. So good. 🙏
What a Devine man !!! Absolutely amazing.
You held your own in this convo Andre. Excellent 👏
I LOVE DR. JOHN DEMARTINI. Excited for this one
Hello everyone on this empowering journey of self and other discovery.
Could anyone write down clearly the 7 questions he says so fast? My head was spinning 😂. I really appreciate 🙏 I'm so happy to be part of this. Have a fabulous day 💜 😘
Yes the ? Come up in print just pause and enlarge..I did same ❤ nj..judy
@judithfoglia1858 thanks for the words. I got them all on the paper. This is so valuable
This is a fantastic talk. So relatable. Thank you!!
You truly have some of the deepest interviews. I grew by leaps and bounds during this interview. Thank you!
Wow! Thank you thank you thank you! So transformative! So much wisdom!
So powerful. Thank you !
Andre, you always have the most amazing and inspiring humans. Great interview!!!
Only 13 minutes in and André was right favorite podcast!
Amazing! I will be watching this one again! Thank you !
❤❤❤Thank you Dr D an Andre
Wow this was fantastic!! Really made mw focus!!
brilliant loved this conversation thanks xx
Learned so much this episode. Amazing
Eye opening!! Looked at my situation from positive and the negative site. It is so impowering. It is no trauma it was a blessing.
Totally and literally mind-blowing! 👍 👍 👍
Life-changing! Thank you, thank you, thank you!❤
Probably the MOST INSIGHTFUL interview I've ever listened to. I have learnt alot in a space that was given. Thank you many blessings.
Absolutely beautiful interview! Everything said is so profound and inspiring. Thank you both!
Loved it! Much appreciation from Germany!
I got goosebumps on the intro. Enough said
Amazing articulation of the truth. Thank you both. Much love.
Andre, Im so happy I encountered your podcast. You are such a light! - This was great! - Thank you.
This was beautiful! I’m excited to get to work and be a more loving and wise human. Thank you!
Wonderful episode, thank you!
Amazing. Thank you so much. I too will listen to this again. 🙏♥️
This amazing podcast. Thank you for the message.
Thank you for this conversation and for sharing your wisdoms 🙏💜
Very interesting. A very thought provoking discussion. Thank you.