2023 life update! in my brunette era + moving to california...

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  • @tillymocha
    @tillymocha Рік тому +1232

    I'm not sure if this is something you've consciously worked on but your more recent videos have felt so much more genuine and authentic and it's really great to see!

    • @brookehamilton678
      @brookehamilton678 Рік тому +28

      Agree! I think as the whole “UA-cam trends” thing as ended, Aspyn has really found herself and who she is on UA-cam as an adult

  • @simr44
    @simr44 Рік тому +228

    I love seeing moms and dad blog with little to no kiddos in it. I love seeing us adults being able to have an identical outside of our kiddos. I love this movement more people are doing!

  • @hollyroberts8874
    @hollyroberts8874 Рік тому +371

    Aspyn sis please two years is a really long time!!!! Especially the past two years that we’ve all lived through!! Things change, life changes, views change, the world changed!! At then end of the day your new house is valuable property and even if you don’t live there long, or at all, you can rent it sell it turn it into an event spot literally anything!! It will benefit you even if it’s not in the way you like planned

  • @gisselcarol
    @gisselcarol Рік тому +195

    Love that you're setting boundaries and getting to a place where you have lines drawn of how much to share with family / work relationship. Also your brunette era is awesome, that hair is amazing on you!

  • @omgthatsdope
    @omgthatsdope Рік тому +71

    I’m in the losing myself in motherhood phase. Totally understand where you are coming from. It’s nice to hear other moms talk about what I am going through.

  • @Megan-mv6jl
    @Megan-mv6jl Рік тому +45

    I ❤❤ Aspyn’s new hair color! It suits her complexion so much better than the blonde and it’s such a pretty shade of brown!

  • @hocusthepocus
    @hocusthepocus Рік тому +59

    I am that millenial who still loves youtube and does not enjoy tiktok. I do enjoy fun shorts, but overall I come to youtube to watch these oldschool classic videos. They often run on background as well, I usually multitask, but these normal length videos are the reason I am here.

  • @haizeaurkiola
    @haizeaurkiola Рік тому +62

    I havent seen your videos in a while and I’m really proud of you for focusing on yourself and respecting the privacy of your kids. Your car chat was so inspiring, this could be YOUR year 🤗

  • @butterfly-kb4cn
    @butterfly-kb4cn Рік тому +10

    Love your hair this color, it definitely gives you color and vibrance with you skin tone. Totally respect the way you want to protect and give your girls privacy, it’s so important for them in the times we are living. I don’t personally use any other social media but UA-cam gave it all up many years ago when I realized how much it affected me mentally. You are doing great as a mom and I completely respect how much Parker is such a great dad and hands on. I hope you all enjoy your time in California, I would love to go on a vacation but it’s just not possible right now. Just trying to work on doing things that will help me mentally and be able to have a good year!

  • @launay1040
    @launay1040 Рік тому +57

    I definitely still watch/ love UA-cam over TikTok! Glad you’re still posting longer vlogs here ❤

  • @shannnonrae
    @shannnonrae Рік тому +45

    aspyn don’t be so hard on yourself! your body just brought two humans into the world, you deserve to feel like you have some ownership of it. i don’t have kids but from what i see you’re doing a great job ❤️❤️

  • @babyannie4196
    @babyannie4196 Рік тому +27

    Aspyn, I totally understand in the feeling of things changing, regarding your new house remember that you will find those moments of joy in the new house. UA-cam isn't like it was three years ago and it's oaky there are still ppl that watch the vlogs and love your little family.

  • @ffionjones865
    @ffionjones865 Рік тому +3

    I have watched your guys’ videos on and off since before you were married, and that’s because you and Parker just make great content, it’s always been about you two! Seeing you guys have a family and how adorable the girls are is so cute, but so many ppl were here before the baby/pregnancy content, and we’ll still be here when you are ready to stop sharing the girls 😊❤

  • @anaclarafreitas8974
    @anaclarafreitas8974 Рік тому +131

    This hair fits you soooo well, I love it

  • @Claudia-nt4dq
    @Claudia-nt4dq Рік тому +120

    Hear me out, Parker carries such an underated wholesome vibe, he makes me want to sip a beer on the porch and bro out with him. And I'm not even a guy HAHA

  • @cooliomcgeee
    @cooliomcgeee Рік тому +292

    I can’t stop laughing at Parker reading his Hello Fresh script. 😅

    • @aspynovard
      @aspynovard  Рік тому +174

      The fact that he thinks we don’t notice

    • @Themckennarose
      @Themckennarose Рік тому +4

      Lmaooo it made me laugh too

  • @klove22ify
    @klove22ify Рік тому +17

    I’m sure you’ve already thought of this but mothers day out its so helpful for me. It’s just 5hours a day you could pick them up early for nap and it’s much cheaper than daycare. It’s been really good for my kids to be around others and have a mini school day. But I know I struggled with the idea at first as a stay at home mom so it’s a personal decision. But anyways sending love ❤️

  • @selenaflores8861
    @selenaflores8861 Рік тому +119

    Maybe you and Parker should do a podcast? Or you and a friend? It’s a good way to separate work life and a once a week podcast is pretty typical. Just an idea☺️

  • @meganbennett9310
    @meganbennett9310 Рік тому +6

    I love watching you in your mom era! I have watched you in every era so far. Your mom era doesn’t have to include the kiddos❤️ sweet babies!

  • @quynciwisdom4189
    @quynciwisdom4189 Рік тому +8

    Your vlogs are literally my favorite. They really help me on days that I need to be productive because either you're productive or you're talking for 20 mins like in this vid. I enjoy seeing parker and the girls evry once in a while just because ive been following you since we were in highschool and theyre part of your life, but I follow you for YOU. I would watch a 45 min vid of you sitting in the car talking, no problem lol

  • @nicolecappello9787
    @nicolecappello9787 Рік тому +1

    would love to see parker do snowboarding and take cove snowboarding even! totally respect you wanting to make this your thing and drift away from the family channel concept though

  • @phoebe-vc2uk
    @phoebe-vc2uk Рік тому +11

    i love that you’re not a family channel because usually i get bored of youtubers when they turn into one

  • @lifelongfun
    @lifelongfun Рік тому +159

    Hot take - but I genuinely enjoy watching you and your family. I have been a follower since the beginning and I feel like I have grown up with you and your parenting skills inspire me for my future family. Either way I’m a fan and will love ANY content you put out… but I do enjoy watching your interactions with your girls and how wonderful of parents you both are. 💕

    • @jacelyn3024
      @jacelyn3024 Рік тому

      I feel exactly the same!

    • @sallyrice3902
      @sallyrice3902 Рік тому +6

      It’s a decision she’s making for her family’s safety

  • @emmapennington4632
    @emmapennington4632 Рік тому +69

    Love that your trying to support your children and protect them! But I would love to still hear updates of the girls as the grow and hear about their personalities! You don’t necessarily have to show them just mention them! Love the hair btw 💕💕

  • @karasagunsky213
    @karasagunsky213 Рік тому +27

    Yess come to California!! I’ve lived in Southern California my whole life and there is nothing better!! I’m from San Diego and just moved to LA - I have been watching your for years!!!

  • @MyraHart1943
    @MyraHart1943 Рік тому +52

    Aww I loved your car chat!! I'm sending you good vibes and energy for 2023!! ❤

  • @lizzy8399
    @lizzy8399 Рік тому +4

    love the idea you were explaining abt reinforcing your identity beyond being a mom etc! i love ur chatty vlogs too 😆😆 excited to see your content in 2023 aspyn!!!

  • @jojomar1209
    @jojomar1209 Рік тому +1

    I love this hair color on you… you get to see how pretty your face is and not just immediately see the blonde hair color. Thanks for the new vlog … I was missing y’all. Hope Aspyn, Parker and fam have an amazing time in California.

  • @morgannuss3559
    @morgannuss3559 Рік тому +1

    I love the darker hair! It’s makes you look more mature and older in a good way!

  • @annagracexo
    @annagracexo Рік тому +63

    You seem so refreshed and ready to seize the year❤ so excited for you

  • @paisleylabate9015
    @paisleylabate9015 Рік тому +2

    I would definitely suggest that you get one room in your new house, like your garage, tell your builders to finish that space completely and then you can close it off and have all your new furniture shipped to your house and kept safe in that space! Hope this helps!

  • @Sydneyg24
    @Sydneyg24 Рік тому +108

    It was so nice to see Parker takeover!!

  • @liciaaaz
    @liciaaaz Рік тому +2

    omg aspyn!!! this shade of brunette suits u so much,, not too light nor dark

  • @rachellemcleod
    @rachellemcleod Рік тому +3

    I would love to see more behind the scenes of your business and the ins and outs of it. I didn’t even know you had a clothing brand with your mum and I’m extremely interested in that!

  • @loganbailey9012
    @loganbailey9012 Рік тому +17

    As an NC girl I highly recommend going to Hilton head, bald island, or even like Wilmington (it’s busier but still)! You need a Carolina experience for the bojangles and cookout lol!!! Also I love a good lengthy vlog!!!!

  • @Discostewie
    @Discostewie Рік тому +4

    Parkers hello fresh segment is the only hello fresh segment i watch

  • @MegAndVic11
    @MegAndVic11 Рік тому +11

    Aspyn I highly recommend traveling to Charleston if you’re wanting to go somewhere on the east coast!!! It’s such a cute walkable city. You’d love it

  • @IsalKamara
    @IsalKamara Рік тому +6

    She really looks like a mom with her hair like this ❤ soooo cute

  • @evelynkeel1
    @evelynkeel1 Рік тому +2

    I still love day in the life vlogs because I sit down and watch UA-cam while on my lunch break!

  • @oliviacatando7686
    @oliviacatando7686 Рік тому +1

    Love seeing videos like this and just listening to all of your updates! If its possible I'd love to see an update on the house and the building process and what it's looking like. I know change is scary and moving is hard especially when you finally feel settled, but once you're in your beautiful new home you will be so happy you did it!

  • @user-wf2lx5yb7e
    @user-wf2lx5yb7e Рік тому +8

    I think the brown needs to be darker, you look good but the shot where it looks darker in the car looks amazing

  • @Isummervlogs
    @Isummervlogs Рік тому +23

    I love chatty videos. Wishing you a wonderful 2023!

  • @77moonwalker77
    @77moonwalker77 Рік тому +6

    im not into family channels although im always happy to see your family lol. i'd love to see more you and what you like and sometimes check how cove and lola are doing

  • @emmatacc_
    @emmatacc_ Рік тому

    this is gonna be a good little month vacation for you guys-theyre always well deserved and I’m glad y’all love Newport so much! seems like such a cute little beach town❤️

  • @Caseyhxo2
    @Caseyhxo2 Рік тому +1

    It’s so amazing you wanna show your kids less, theres too many weirdos out there who watch for disgusting reasons or get parasocial relationships with the babies as well.
    super dangerous.
    good for you queen

  • @bootsnmascara9038
    @bootsnmascara9038 Рік тому +3

    I respect you to the moon for saying you will be stepping away slowly from making your kids a focal point of your vlogs! 👏 you have just gained a consistent viewer in me! 🤌🤌🤌

  • @cambellrobertson7676
    @cambellrobertson7676 Рік тому +3

    Love Asheville NC, Savannah GA, and Charleston SC! All seem like you style/vibe!

  • @cooliomcgeee
    @cooliomcgeee Рік тому +37

    I hope a month in California means a podcast ep with Jaci and Chels! 😍

  • @DallasNorfleet
    @DallasNorfleet Рік тому +19

    Look into South Carolina!!! It’s such a beautiful state and super family friendly, everything in Charleston is super aesthetically pleasing and historical. Also Pawleys island, fripp island, and Hilton head are all amazing beach towns

    • @annakallmeyer1721
      @annakallmeyer1721 Рік тому

      I’m a Hilton head girl and agree with this comment!! I think you’d love Charleston 😍

    • @kelligreer6869
      @kelligreer6869 Рік тому

      I would love to see Aspyn live on the east coast 😍

  • @christyjones6781
    @christyjones6781 Рік тому +141

    We love a Parker and Hello Fresh segment

  • @chastideakaelea4530
    @chastideakaelea4530 Рік тому +1

    Been dyyyying for you to go brunette!!! Looooove it sososo much!

  • @lupecervantes190
    @lupecervantes190 Рік тому +14

    I love seeing the babies on the vlog 😭 so sad to hear you say you don’t want to post them but I totally get it

  • @katelynflores
    @katelynflores Рік тому +5

    Nice to see you back on UA-cam 😍Please don’t leave us! Not everyone has TikTok …just saying 😅

  • @alanievillasenor3211
    @alanievillasenor3211 Рік тому +15

    Wow I missed your face! Why did I get so excited at the title “moving. To California” and then I remember your just going for a few weeks lol. I know you said you feel like you’ve been in your flop era for a bit but I feel like we’ve really seen you thriving in the last few months. Like you just seem a lot more confident and sure of who you are as a person and I love it!

  • @shilohgoes5544
    @shilohgoes5544 Рік тому +94

    Aspyn saying she doesn’t have style is just 😹😹

  • @abbyriddle2696
    @abbyriddle2696 Рік тому +13

    aspyn is so wise for her age omg

    • @kyra8925
      @kyra8925 Рік тому +4

      She's 26.... she is an adult.

  • @ccw2613
    @ccw2613 Рік тому +7

    Maine is beautiful. We've been all over the East coast and Maine is gorgeous. Cape Cod and Rehoboth Beach are both pretty too.

  • @laurengates921
    @laurengates921 Рік тому

    I like YT for the reason that you can watch and it listen. I love checking in with the Channels I like and the longer form content. TikTok is too hard to watch during the day when I’m try to be productive haha

  • @sophieoddling
    @sophieoddling Рік тому +18

    I don’t know if it’s an age thing (I’m a millennial-Gen Z cusper) but I prefer long form content like long vlogs on UA-cam so please keep them coming. 😊

  • @TheLuckygoo
    @TheLuckygoo Рік тому +1

    I love watching day in the life / talking vlogs !

  • @reillysquarcia7471
    @reillysquarcia7471 Рік тому +2

    Hey Aspyn, not sure if this is a video idea you’d consider, but I think it would be super interesting to do a break down of how you make an income from being a full-time influencer. Especially since you’ve been on this platform for so long. I feel like not a lot of influencers talk about how they make an income off of social media and how to negotiate brand deals properly based off your engagement. Totally understand if your not willing too, but this is something I’ve always been curious about!

  • @hollywood7702
    @hollywood7702 Рік тому +5

    I so agree with January being like a seasonal depression' a small black hole after all the holidays.

  • @christinah9682
    @christinah9682 Рік тому +1

    aspyn I'll literally watch you talk in the car for hours. been watching u since i was a kid and your vlogs are always very entertaining!!

  • @tabim9386
    @tabim9386 Рік тому +6

    Just had our 2nd baby and I feel this! The loss of identity and it’s been such a hard transition from 1 to 2 kids (age range is about the same as you)

  • @tiam229
    @tiam229 Рік тому +3

    I personally really like when Luca and grae has simple, cute but comfy pieces. I know that's basic but I find it really hard to find online

  • @roxierenee04
    @roxierenee04 Рік тому +5

    My 3 year old & I missed these! Glad to see y’all back 😊💕

  • @ashleylawson4721
    @ashleylawson4721 Рік тому +1

    It was so nice to see Parker

  • @KortneyMac17
    @KortneyMac17 Рік тому +7

    Total opposite. I wish everyone would do UA-cam instead of Instagram and Tik Tok. Never had a Tik Tok, never will. I watch 15+ hours of UA-cam between family vloggers and homesteaders. Breakfast, while doing makeup, while driving, while folding laundry, etc. it’s our tv.

  • @nicolaski22
    @nicolaski22 Рік тому +1

    Love this kind of chatty content. I love watching it while I work at home, it makes the time go by. Also trying Hello Fresh this month for the first time since seeing it on your videos! Hope you have a great Cali trip!

  • @mallorys.8066
    @mallorys.8066 Рік тому +1

    The family part is what I like about your channel. It’s what I relate too. But I enjoy shop with me vids too :)

  • @maxeymarie3078
    @maxeymarie3078 Рік тому

    I’ve been watching you since your high school videos and I just adore you and your family! So proud of you! It’s been so fun to grow up with you ☺️

  • @bm152670
    @bm152670 Рік тому +4

    Unfortunately alot of floods and rain here in Cali and cold ..hope to see the sun again here soon 🎉

  • @lazytaisy
    @lazytaisy Рік тому +2

    The new hair color complements you so well. It looks so good!

  • @HeyItsHeather89
    @HeyItsHeather89 Рік тому +5

    Hey Aspyn and Parker!! Happy you guys are back! Aspyn your hair looks so good! Love seeing Parker take over with the Hello Fresh! Also love the car chats ❤ Also UA-cam is so different than it was a couple years ago because of tiktok and stuff but I still watch you guys and some others. Hope you guys have a great trip to California and can’t wait to see all the memories you guys will make in the new house. Also I totally relate to how you feel about the therapy..

  • @Elena-bk4fs
    @Elena-bk4fs Рік тому +8

    i would recommend san diego over LA but i love southern california in general! i love your videos and i’ve been watching since the original video where you curl your lashes with a blow dryer and business card 😅💟

    • @Elena-bk4fs
      @Elena-bk4fs Рік тому

      ps your hair color suits you so well!! i love it

  • @CamrieRaeann
    @CamrieRaeann Рік тому

    North Carolina is the best place ever! If you have ever watched One Tree Hill, Wilmington where the show was filmed is such a beautiful town with so much history 🙌🏻

  • @ClairerFerrell
    @ClairerFerrell Рік тому +3

    Saw you all at the cabo airport, I was so start struck!! We were too far away to say hi, but aaaaa what a fun moment. My husband and I went to Cabo for our honeymoon and loved it!

  • @Highimlindsayyy
    @Highimlindsayyy Рік тому +1

    I’m looooooving this hair so much! Just know you can rock any blonde or brunette shade queen ✨

  • @nataliejackson8781
    @nataliejackson8781 Рік тому

    I love that you’re wanting to have your own identity. I agree that people have kids and then loose who they are. I think these are great boundaries you have

  • @monikosorio4396
    @monikosorio4396 Рік тому +14

    Adding on babies was always a freak out for my husband and I plus the older kids. I currently a 9 month old and breastfeeding full time for the 4th time. I’m wanting to wean him by a year old because we do want 2 more babes. I usual breastfeed almost the two full years then have a break for 2 years. It’s insane to think about but some you time will definitely make you enjoy future kids 🤍 mine are all 4 years apart ( I have 4) I don’t know if I could have a one year old and be pregnant. They’ve all been old enough to “care” for themselves. Love the brown hair btw!

  • @tiffanystrattan
    @tiffanystrattan Рік тому

    Hope you and your family have a great 2023 ❤

  • @heatherangel101
    @heatherangel101 Рік тому +5

    You guys should go to Boston! - NH, Rhode Island, Maine, and Cape Cod (there’s a ferry there to Martha’s Vineyard!) are all only like an hour and a half or so drive. And I think you’d love the vibes haha

  • @krystalv1189
    @krystalv1189 Рік тому +5

    Living for the brunette era and excited to see the California vlogs

  • @jordanshanahan315
    @jordanshanahan315 Рік тому

    Missed your videos sm over the break! I love the chatty videos I was actually listening to this one while getting ready!

  • @raw8565
    @raw8565 Рік тому +2

    I like just listening also sometimes when I’m getting ready but I do love ur day in a life vlogs they r so soothing to watch! Especially when u or Parker cook stuff lol

  • @FitnessGirl20
    @FitnessGirl20 Рік тому +1

    Yessss please do UA-cam ! I rely on videos to watch to get through my days!!!! So please do UA-cam 🙏

  • @berthagarcia1993
    @berthagarcia1993 Рік тому +1

    My Sciatica was a pain after birth. The chiropractor helped a lot. It never hurts anymore and I haven’t gone back to the chiropractor in a few months.

  • @arianapicchiello7219
    @arianapicchiello7219 Рік тому

    Go to Vermont in the months of July/august!! You will absolutely not regret it! Go to lake Willoughby, live in the small town era ♥️✨

  • @erinlulay
    @erinlulay Рік тому +3

    I do watch UA-cam and I enjoy watching your videos not just listening :)

  • @dance4ever63
    @dance4ever63 Рік тому

    I cant get over how beautiful your new hair is!!! It suits you so well

  • @carolinew4539
    @carolinew4539 Рік тому +2

    You should definitely visit Charleston, SC! I would recommend spring for that trip but it’s so much fun and there’s a lot of things to do and the food is amazing!

  • @aliciashetter
    @aliciashetter Рік тому

    parker is such a dad i can’t 😭😭

  • @monicasalas1127
    @monicasalas1127 Рік тому +1

    Chatty videos are my favorite! Also you and Parker haven’t done a Q&A in awhile you should!

  • @juliakesselhaut2709
    @juliakesselhaut2709 Рік тому

    This was such a great vlog. I really love your authenticity and honesty!!

  • @alysawasem1585
    @alysawasem1585 Рік тому

    alwyas have been a supporter! I respect the mindset and growth!

  • @nicolebruce4072
    @nicolebruce4072 Рік тому +3

    Coming from a viewer perspective, I use youtube more like a podcast as you were saying and I think that's true for a lot of watchers these days :))

  • @ashleycampos4456
    @ashleycampos4456 Рік тому +3

    Weather in California has not been the best but hope you guys enjoy it.

  • @katiemeyer2152
    @katiemeyer2152 Рік тому

    I love your hair lately! Even in the rain

  • @chamsmovingcastle
    @chamsmovingcastle Рік тому +2

    Yeah I feel like less people are into youtube nowadays but I find there is more intention when i watch long form videos! I deleted tiktok like two weeks ago and have never felt better, I have more time in my hands, I ve been enjoying my old favorite youtubers again. It s so much better and « meaningful» if that makes sense.

  • @justinei9
    @justinei9 Рік тому

    I would love to see a more personal and deep q and a! Like answering more questions that have never been answered or like a deep girl chat vid.