I know the exact case you’re talking of, Mand - Insane and tragic. Precisely why I keep up with friends when we’re out - I couldn’t live with myself if something happened. My conscious is too much
Crazy because I watched a random doc where 3 girls went to a club and 1 girl ends up talking to a guy. The girl spent much of the night with the guy and her friends must not have thought much of it and let her do her thing. She eventually became so drunk the club wanted her out and the bouncer kicked both her and the guy she was talking to out, I guess he assumed they came together. (baring in mind her phone and bag were still in the club). This guy ends up taking her to his place (both willingly) but when she got there she was quickly was like nah I don't want to be here and chose to leave. After she left his place she was walking around looking for a way home drunk and some guy has picked her up and R**ed and K****d her. When I was listening to Anna say if they're speaking to a guy its ok I kept thinking of this case. The vibes were good in the club too but it was the fact she ended up outside the club on her own. I think once someone's off speaking to someone else they're immediately vulnerable unless you keep looking over at them every minute. Her name was Kenia Monge if anyone was interested.
Me and a friend of mines went to a late night house party last summer. She knew the guy through social media but nothing else. Once we got there, her and that guy seemed to focus on each other a lot. It was his house that the party was hosted at so it made sense. However I didn’t know anybody and I also had a boyfriend so was not going to speak to any guys there willingly. She ended up sneaking off to go upstairs with the guy for an HOUR without saying anything, I left without notice maybe 30 mins in as I was frustrated that she left me in that sense and I could not find her, I was also worried about her. The next day I told her how I felt & she apologised , but since last summer we didn’t speak again. Who was really wrong in this situation? Because I miss her as my friend but that situation showed me to never assume your girl will be a girls girl.
id say both of youse were in the wrong, her for running off with a guy she doesnt know, anything could of happened to you in that house party and she didnt inform you at least. And you from walking out of frustration, anything could of happened to you or her. Its not the best situation for the both of you girls and I think you should communicate to her that you miss her. I'm assuming you guys are just awkward and there is some tension after the apology.
@@user-xq8my5ub2l it's been almost 5 months since we haven't spoken regarding what went down. I will probably reach out but i feel like we'll never go out again socially because of preserved judgements... oh well. Thanks for your outlook.
I saw that case. So heartbreaking. They were all covering for each other for sure.
I know the exact case you’re talking of, Mand - Insane and tragic. Precisely why I keep up with friends when we’re out - I couldn’t live with myself if something happened. My conscious is too much
Love You guys always make me laugh! Love from Denmark !
Crazy because I watched a random doc where 3 girls went to a club and 1 girl ends up talking to a guy. The girl spent much of the night with the guy and her friends must not have thought much of it and let her do her thing. She eventually became so drunk the club wanted her out and the bouncer kicked both her and the guy she was talking to out, I guess he assumed they came together. (baring in mind her phone and bag were still in the club). This guy ends up taking her to his place (both willingly) but when she got there she was quickly was like nah I don't want to be here and chose to leave. After she left his place she was walking around looking for a way home drunk and some guy has picked her up and R**ed and K****d her. When I was listening to Anna say if they're speaking to a guy its ok I kept thinking of this case. The vibes were good in the club too but it was the fact she ended up outside the club on her own. I think once someone's off speaking to someone else they're immediately vulnerable unless you keep looking over at them every minute. Her name was Kenia Monge if anyone was interested.
What case/documentary is that?
Me and a friend of mines went to a late night house party last summer. She knew the guy through social media but nothing else. Once we got there, her and that guy seemed to focus on each other a lot. It was his house that the party was hosted at so it made sense. However I didn’t know anybody and I also had a boyfriend so was not going to speak to any guys there willingly. She ended up sneaking off to go upstairs with the guy for an HOUR without saying anything, I left without notice maybe 30 mins in as I was frustrated that she left me in that sense and I could not find her, I was also worried about her. The next day I told her how I felt & she apologised , but since last summer we didn’t speak again. Who was really wrong in this situation? Because I miss her as my friend but that situation showed me to never assume your girl will be a girls girl.
id say both of youse were in the wrong, her for running off with a guy she doesnt know, anything could of happened to you in that house party and she didnt inform you at least. And you from walking out of frustration, anything could of happened to you or her. Its not the best situation for the both of you girls and I think you should communicate to her that you miss her. I'm assuming you guys are just awkward and there is some tension after the apology.
@@user-xq8my5ub2l it's been almost 5 months since we haven't spoken regarding what went down. I will probably reach out but i feel like we'll never go out again socially because of preserved judgements... oh well. Thanks for your outlook.