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I can't even imagine how stupid can be a women to be with a ex drug addict an in that all she is a single mom and she took her child into that marriage. Oh, man!
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For all the people trying to say she shouldn't talk about "HIS" personal life: SHE. HAS. HIS. KIDS. Like it or not, his new wife, and him, are directly related to her, and her children, and her life. She's not airing anyone's dirty laundry, and she's making the best out of a really difficult co-parenting situation. These are all positive things.
+Jaclyn Murray You have no idea what the fuck you're talking about. The way this bitch is handling her divorce and spreading it online for strangers to see is wrong. Fuck this bitch.
I just think that it's really sad that a lady who has been a single mom and been there/done that would marry someone who isn't taking care of his own kids. If he can afford a wedding, even a small one, that's money that could have gone to his children. End of story. She might be easier to deal with but that's it. She's no better than he is.
If you cared anything about those kids and their safety, you would not have posted a comment with your name. You just made it incredibly easy to find you and your husband on social media and disclosed the location of where you live which is something Jen has worked hard to keep private. So many UA-camrs being threatened and having issues in the last few months. You just totally put her kids at risk. Hope she sees this immediately and deletes.
Courtney Post Yes. She commented and defended herself and him. Then I told her that her name lead straight back to wear they live which Jen tries to keep private and I told her she was putting their safety in jeopardy so she deleted everything.
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God has given you so much strenght Jeni. There's def a purpose in your trial and I can see light at the end of the tunnel for you. We love and support you as well as praying to God for you.
Glad to hear that this surprising bit of news worked to be less disastrous for you, Hon. Will try to catch up with some of your recent posts too sometime! Strength and courage and wisdom to you!
I almost fell out of my chair! I didn't he would remarry yet. Its good you get along with his new wife and feel comfortable for her to be around your kids :)
Wow, what an incredible person you are!!! SO inspiring. You could look passed all the shit he did to you, and everything you've been through with him (ups and downs) and be happy for him. WOW. What a mature, and wonderful mom and woman that makes you!
At the end of the day it's always us women cleaning up after our men, isn't it? I'm glad your ex was fortunate enough to find a reasonable person to be with. Maybe some day he will (with the help of his new partner) realize, that there is a place for his hurt and anger (or whatever he might be feeling), but it's not on visitation dates or anywhere around the kids. I'll keep you and your boys in my thoughts. Hope everything will work out for you from now on. You look awesome by the way! Love your hair!!!
I know how you feel my dad did this to me and my brother. He never paid for my or my brothers school fees or for anything and then he said he had no money but he did. He was lying to my mum. My mum kept believing him but when she found out that he really was cheating on her and not paying for anything she got really upset she never wanted to cry infront of us but I knew she was crying when we were asleep so everynight when we went to bed she would go and maybe cry or be really upset while my dad was partying and hitting on so many other ladies. He than moved out a year later and that's when my mum told me everything I was only 8 or 9 so I didn't know what to do. After he moved out we had to move into a apartment because we lived in this big villa. He then moved to go and live with his girlfriend and I got really mad and upset. By then we had to borrow money from people for my brothers and my school fees. He lived there for about 1 year and then he lost his jobs. When he lost his job his girlfriend broke up with him because she only wanted money. He then came back with no money or anything. In summer my mum was applying for a new job so we couldn't go anyway for like 4 weeks but then we decided to go to Thailand and bring my dad so we did that and he said he would pay my mum back. When we came back he went to England to go to the doctors because he was mentally ill. But when he went back to England he started becoming a really bad man again because his mum was convincing him to hate my mum so since than I have hated him and I never want to speak to him again. And then they got divorced but now me my mum and my brother are living a happy life! Sorry this is a long paragraph I just wanted to share my story with you
I think it's great that you get on so well with her. How come he has managed to pay for a wedding but can't give you child support? Seriously that is disgraceful, he should be paying for his kids.
You look so beautiful and happy and peaceful and well- that's beauty! Peace and joy! I'm so happy for you and your journey and how you are making waves of a difference!😘 I'm also happy he has someone like her to help with the boys and that you also have her as someone to work with-💜
I think you are anazing Jeni. Unfortunately, leopards don't usually change their spots and I hope his new wife knows what she is in for. My ex got remarried 11 months after we got divorced and he is now divorced again for the second time. Thankfully, my kids have always lived with me. Good luck with everything and keep taking great care of your kids and yourself.
So glad that y'all can be civil. (You & her) And your right it is probably because she was a single mom. Praying that she always remembers that and things continue to go smoothly.
To the really inconsiderate people commenting on this video saying that it was this woman's fault for "making" her husband leave and have another woman- maybe your head went up your behind while failing to really critically evaluate this situation. No one can "make" anyone do drugs or cheat. Her Ex CHOSE to do these things with his own will. Frankly, any man who blames a woman for HIS actions needs to really grow a pair and own up. If her talking about it online will help her move on and rebuild her esteem then kudos to her! She is entitled to say whatever she wants as her husband is responsible for emotionally causing her harm while they were married. If people viewing her videos don't like it- then you can choose to leave instead of leaving nasty comments which aren't even constructive in nature.
That pink color is a VERY good color on you. Isn't it just like men. To abandon there own kids but marry a girl with kids. Ugh. Happened to me. My ex has seen my daughter 4 times in 6 years. But he married a girl with kids. And had a kid with her. It doesn't make sense to me. And when we talk were civil so he can't use the excuse that's it's because of me he won't see her.
***** it happens to the best of us. It takes so much work to be a father, some do great, some cannot handle it and some are just pieces of crap. Sorry tho, my dad did the same thing, and so did my step dad. Best of luck to you
Im in a similar situation- remarried ex with stepchildren and another child of his own but rarely sees our son. He and I get along fine and he loves our son. He was a good dad.while we were married. I can only assume his wife is either insecure or doesn't want my son around for some reason. If I was married to a man who never saw his child and didn't at least try to pay his child support, I couldn't ignore those big, giant, flashing, neon red flags. When she talks about what a great father he is on social media, I just roll my eyes. She knows the truth and it has to eat her alive. I've met people who know them and they didn't even.know my son exists. One.day that facade will unravel, one way or another. It's sad...especially for the kids.
Great attitude towards all of this!!! I am a step mom and my kiddos biological mother and I really get along well too... It really is what you make it! You use the same amount of energy hating as you do loving... loving is easier!
Be careful with Defamation Laws in your state. You're on a slippery slope when posting anything related to your ex on UA-cam or social media in general. He can easily attempt to charge you with defamation of character and/or harassment, especially with your older videos. Stay safe, be well.
You look amazing! Your hair and brows especially! :) I find it very refreshing, mature and level headed to hear your positive thoughts on the ex's new wife. I am so glad for you and the boys that he picked a good one!
All the best to you. Seems you would be perfect on a peer support group. You are a gem when it comes to how well you view situations. Watched a tough video you did & I was curious how things turned out. UA-cam decided to recommend it to me years later because maybe I could stream your content ;) either way be blessed in all. Praying for you all.
Has the thought ever occurred to anyone that maybe she doesn't have anyone else she can tell this to? She can't exactly go to her kids. She's probably trying to keep a brave face for them and to her close family.
You think that her kids, that are becoming old enough to snoop around on the internet, won't find these videos and watch them with particular interest? It might be best for her to stop putting this out and deleting everything..
I just started binge watching your videos and I'm so happy your channel was recommended to me! You are an amazing, strong woman. I don't know what I would do if I was in your situation. Just wow, I honestly didn't expect this when I first started watching, or by reading the titles. I thought it was going to be another woman just straight up bashing her ex..... you're so respectful towards their relationship and I really admire that.
Don't assume he was to blame. Look at just how unbearable this woman is - quite neurotic, manic depressive, and stupid - and probably very disorganised as well, no doubt blaming him for everything that hasn't worked out in her life.
As a step-mom of two kids...I cannot express how great it is to hear that you feel this way about her. So many moms have negative views on the step-mom that their exes marry because they feel like the step-mom is taking over or trying to step on toes. I love that you two actually talk and plan things and arent catty.
I just found your videos today & let me say that u are an inspiration. We have so much in common. I have no friends that can actually relate to what I've gone through so it was a relief to find u. Isn't it a relief when u can get along with your exes new wife? Anyway thabks for being u & honest about it lol 😊👏🏽
I've wandered onto here somehow after compulsively clicking through random video titles at almost 4 a.m (sigh) but this is such a refreshingly positive reaction so devoid of anger and negativity. I'm sure you'll attract a lot of happiness with an attitude like that. I wish I could look like you when I become a mom, anyways, have a nice week!
It's such a great feeling to know that your kids are well cared for when around a step Mother or even another woman. It's hard for most women to let go and they always seem to hate the new woman just because. You are handling it so well and you should be so proud of yourself. Plus sometimes it's easier to go through her then your ex, haha.
It is good to see that you have moved on, and are able to focus on the really important people in your life...your sons. Continue to stay focused and hold his feet to the fire about his obligations to your sons. He help get them here, he can help to support them. The only suggestion that I have for you is to try to find some neutral ground when you and your ex meet. This is so important for the kids emotional health as well as yours. If he wants to snipe at you, don't give into it. Try to rise above it and let him know that what you once had with him is history, so he can keep his opinions to himself and not burden you with his problems. Hang in there, girl. You will come out a stronger, more self-assured woman if you do.
I'm so happy for you, My parents went through a very tough divorce when I was little and even now that i'm in my 20s is till have so many open wounds... You're such a strong woman! You're going in the right direction!
Thanks for posting this. I was definitely one of the shocked ones when you mentioned his marriage in your last video! I'm SO happy that it's a best case scenario so that you and the kids have less of his drama ;) stay strong.
You are a strong individual and you deserve happiness. I've been watching your videos and every time I always hope and pray that you'll get through all these challenges. :) Be strong for your kids (especially) and for yourself too. :)
You are amazing! So glad I found your channel! I found your video on a workout watch that I bought my husband for Christmas while researching it and instantly fell in love with your personality! Subbed right away! Loveee your videos! You are one strong momma! Love Ya!
I wasn't trying to be rude, Tonya. What I meant is that these monsters quite often choose victims for their beautiful qualities.. such as empathy, kindness, etc. It's very much to be expected that the next victim will have things in common with the one before her or him.
In her first video, she complains about her husband and listing all his lies. Now she's approving of his marriage and really happy for her? I find that really suspicious. I think she isn't really all that candid. It's not that I am not sympathetic; I would've been, had her story not changed like it did. Whatever.
That is so great you have a positive relationship with your kids stepmom! It makes life so much happier for everyone. My stepdaughter's mother is an absolute nightmare to deal with and tries to sabotage anything she can. She plays 40+ hours of World of Warcraft a week and feeds my stepdaughter packaged and fast food for basically every meal. Her planning skills are horrible, she forgets everything almost immediately after we talk about it and then ruins plans last minute. It makes everyone stressed and unhappy and I can't stand that she thinks that's acceptable to make her child feel that way :( We pay a ridiculous amount of child support for her video games, fast food, and new cars/TV's etc. Good job on being an adult and good mama bear, us stepmothers appreciate you!!
You seem to be handling all this with such grace. A whole lot better than I did in the beginning, unfortunately. I wanted to "fight" for my son but it didn't change anything. All it did was.stress me out worse. I've learned to just be my son's rock, support him 100% myself and anything else, relationship w/dad or child support, is gravy.
***** While an addict is always recovering, they just aren't supposed to be in a relationship for the first year or two in their recovery. Its important for them to have created a strong foundation and get some time. Most people who don't listen and follow their sponsor, most of those people relapse. Thus guy is going down the wrong path, repeating old behavior, unless he gets serious about his recovery he'll go back out. I'm just glad she's out of that and it's not her problem anymore (aside from the kids' association) I hope we're both wrong but what you said is just coming from truth. Its the sad reality of addiction.
Nicole Slater that may be the case generally but honestly there is no rule of thumb for every situation. my husband was a meth addict (among other things) from the age of 14. we got together and he knew then he had to quit everything. we've been together almost ten years and this man has never relapsed is in the air force and training to become trauma surgeon. it is never a good idea to pigeon hole people, they may just surprise you!
I find your honesty heart warming . You are the definition of beautiful. If I was 10 years younger I would be knocking on your door wearing a bowtie holding flowers asking you out.
I felt EXACTLY the same when my ex moved on.. Relief and happy for them! A year later they broke up, she was a single mom too, not as good a mom as me apparently and they rowed about me ALOT because she wasn't as independent as me (he still wanted his cake and eat it but she wasn't letting him get away with it like I did more like.) . He hated that I didn't care that he moved on, he even tried to muscle his way back in my life... Thanks for these videos but to truly let another man in your life you need to put it all to bed! We wanna know about your dates and future plans now :) ps. Please don't let step mum into your life too much, she'l be running to you for a shoulder to cry on and you don't need that stress xx
Good for you for taking the high road! My ex married a lovely woman as well and I truly thing it made my (now 14 year old's) life better when he visited. Being gracious is a hard choice sometimes, but gets easier and makes YOU more lovely. Cheers!
yes, again I say, do not EVER, EVER, EVER be around him as much as you possibly stay away from him. His new wife is in for a big ride. He must really hate you if he can get along with another woman well enough to get her to marry him, yet still be so mean to you. Let go of your caring for him. Be done with him.
Ann Marie Just because I wrote that he must hate her, doesn't mean that I personally believe that the opposite of love is hate. I don't think there's anything in this that is "obvious" about her ex, except that he's pissed, annoyed, whatever he might say he feels towards her. Personally, if my ex constantly posted BS on UA-cam about me, my family or associates, I'd find a way to make it stop Legally, of course. She seems to be the one who can't let go. If she did, she'd find BETTER things to do with her time than blog about him for YEARS. She's obsessed with HIM!
Ann Marie Really, I don't think I'm cold blooded, just straight forward. But would you continuously blog about your ex? I mean, beyond complaining to my friends, I think she just needs to stop. And I don't know how I came across her posts, but I watched a few, I sympathized at first, then there were more, and MORE, and... LOL... so yeah, she's still too way involved in her ex
You went through do much and youre still being nice about it! I dont think I could have done it! Im really mad at him for you but you seem to be doing AMAZING!!!! you go girl!!!!
This is my thought you should stop making videos that talks about his personal life. I know you don't mention his name or anything but we know what he looks like . You know someone can bump into him and be like yeah your that guy your ex talks about. ?!?!. I would be pissed Off at you if I was him. Like geez women move on. I think this should be the last video that you talk about him in that way. Like what he is doing with his life. Just my opinion I'm ready for the people that disagree but it's the dang truth.
I agree completely. She says she is over him but that is all she talks about. It's his life and if he wants to get on camera and talk about it then hats off to him but she needs to focus on her own life. Part of me thinks she ennvies the fact that he could move on.
Of course people are gonna disagree, but it's true. She's getting annoying and if people can relate to her ?? This means you need to move on . She needs to start making videos about her kids and her only. She focuses more on him. Smh.
Edna I've been there too. And her belive or not doesn't convince me. It's kinda annoying I have nothing against her either I like her , but this whole my ex this my thoughts of him that is soo annoying.
bereberry _ I've been threw that and I can realate to it which is why I say that if you're going threw her situation get your shit together you dont need a guy like that and about child support if he doesn't want to give her any or what not. So what??? She needs to work and if she already is then super. 👍 that's one step closer to moving on.
Your hair looks so cute here. I bet Deacon likes it :P. Glad that you have a better relationship with your husband and his wife. It should reduce a lot of stress and bring some peace.
I just love you! And just wanted to put in my 2 cents (for what it's worth lol) as the 2nd wife to man who's 1st marriage ended badly( and also ended badly of HIS doing) just please remember that everytime you ladies get along she most likely hears about it from him😁 so remember her in your prayers ok❤️
As a Man with a an Ex-Wife I can relate to you "letting it go" so to speak. Its admirable that you have this outlook...That said, I don't get how you just got devorced and your all ready to be so forgiving and blessing bestowing on your Ex! It took me about 5-6 years to forget that she done me wrong and be able to say "live and let live" but more power to ya, if this is real...
I can't imagine a man who has small children be addicted to drugs. Its so selfish and dangerous. I cant even imagine leaving your kids with this guy. Now he had a partner in crime, two meth addicts, what a formula. Is their anything you can do to terminate his visitation rights or the very least have it so when he is around them he is being monitored by his parents or a responsible party? I know I am being judgemental but I am just thinking about whats is best for the kids. Just my opinion.
I work in narcotics division of law enforcement and I arrest mothers who have drug habits and fathers. all types of humans use drugs. I have arrested people who make 7 figures legally. 12 % of Americans use some street drugs from the suburban housewife who abuses adhd stimulant meds to the lowest of low junkies on the streets. Often times addicts find comfort with each other as non-addicts judge them. they often can keep each other going in a positive direction.
addiction is a disease and oddly enough addicts deep down inside want to quick but they do nor know how to. addiction is a shame based cycle. they stop using, then a big stressor comes into their life then they use and feel shame. If this mom wants what is best for her former husband and for her children she will work through the new wife as she is a buffer. the ex wife has to realize she is and has been a stressor in her former husbands life. I suspect he felt stress and then started using to combat the stress. outside side of heroin which people use because they can no longer get pain meds we are seeing anxiety meds being sold.
It's people like you who make me sick. The father has a right to see his kids. 's you don't know if he's a danger just by hearing someones version of what happened. She chose to mARRY HI AND HAVE KIDS WITH HIM. He must have done something right. This society does not value fatherhood and will praise the mother even if she was on drugs. Just my opinion.
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That's good that you can have a civilized conversion with your Ex's other half. I was in the exact same position as you some 20yrs ago and to this day I like her more than him but am I bit sad it didn't work out for us as we get on pretty well now. Suppose it's easier to get along when you don't have to live together. Our kids are 27 and 25 and we have had to plan and pay for weddings and his other half has been a real help. I hope you will be in this position down the track.
I looooovve how non jelous you are. A lot of woman are mad about this type of stuff. And I love how happy you are! You deserve a man that will make you happy
I pray she's the person she appears to be for you and the kids sake. my God Bless you and be Happy you look so much Happier in this vidi o, and that's Awesome :)
That sounds great and I am really glad you have found a way to successfully co-parent and keep the peace. What does she think about him trying to lower child support after she was a single mom? Is this the same girlfriend that moved in right after you moved out? I'm so noisy, I'm sorry.
I think it's good that for all parties involved everyone is moving forward into positive relationships. If you're happy the boys are happy, the ex is healthy/happy and then the boys will be happy when visiting and everyone has a positive outlook on the future. It takes a LOT to let it go and do what's best for yourself and your kids and even if it's a alternative spin to your family everyone is trying and happiness can be built on that. :D
Wow...u are a strong!..i salute u...only those who have been thru the same situation understand how others feeling...i also the same just got to know that my ex got a baby girl last sunday...i really tried gulping all down..even after 4 years passed..i still not totally over him...but u make it sound so simple...i look up to u..
I don't think it's the fact she use to be single mom, shes probably just a good person!! That's lucky, I wish my kids dads wife was a even a slight bit of a decent person lol. Yeayyy :)
I wouldn't be so much in a hurry to like this woman. What kind of woman marries a man that doesn't take care of their kids
Your makeup and hair look so good in this video!
Thank uou
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I can't even imagine how stupid can be a women to be with a ex drug addict an in that all she is a single mom and she took her child into that marriage. Oh, man!
Hi how are you
Dont be so quick to judge ex addicts. By the grace of God....We do recover.
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For all the people trying to say she shouldn't talk about "HIS" personal life: SHE. HAS. HIS. KIDS. Like it or not, his new wife, and him, are directly related to her, and her children, and her life. She's not airing anyone's dirty laundry, and she's making the best out of a really difficult co-parenting situation. These are all positive things.
+Jaclyn Murray You have no idea what the fuck you're talking about. The way this bitch is handling her divorce and spreading it online for strangers to see is wrong. Fuck this bitch.
Lcarpetron quit watching her then?
Jaclyn Murray **slaps your ass hard** Don't order me around.
+Lcarpetron Charming.
Aubrey Hart Why thank you, madam. :)
I just think that it's really sad that a lady who has been a single mom and been there/done that would marry someone who isn't taking care of his own kids. If he can afford a wedding, even a small one, that's money that could have gone to his children. End of story. She might be easier to deal with but that's it. She's no better than he is.
If you cared anything about those kids and their safety, you would not have posted a comment with your name. You just made it incredibly easy to find you and your husband on social media and disclosed the location of where you live which is something Jen has worked hard to keep private. So many UA-camrs being threatened and having issues in the last few months. You just totally put her kids at risk. Hope she sees this immediately and deletes.
+lindsay ross But doesn't the female usually pay for the wedding? I'm female but that thought just occurred to me.
+lindsay ross his new wife commented?!
Courtney Post Yes. She commented and defended herself and him. Then I told her that her name lead straight back to wear they live which Jen tries to keep private and I told her she was putting their safety in jeopardy so she deleted everything.
omg stfu.
If my ex was posting personal things about me on youtube i could see me always fighting with her when we talked
You deserve this comfort, sweet girl. These things can work.
Thank you!
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God has given you so much strenght Jeni. There's def a purpose in your trial and I can see light at the end of the tunnel for you. We love and support you as well as praying to God for you.
Thank you
xoxoxo
"I wasn't really going to talk about it"....of course not...but then you did.
lol
If he can afford to get married he can afford child support... I love your videos so much! My mom and I watch them every single day together.
Glad to hear that this surprising bit of news worked to be less disastrous for you, Hon. Will try to catch up with some of your recent posts too sometime! Strength and courage and wisdom to you!
I almost fell out of my chair! I didn't he would remarry yet. Its good you get along with his new wife and feel comfortable for her to be around your kids :)
Wow, what an incredible person you are!!! SO inspiring. You could look passed all the shit he did to you, and everything you've been through with him (ups and downs) and be happy for him. WOW. What a mature, and wonderful mom and woman that makes you!
At the end of the day it's always us women cleaning up after our men, isn't it? I'm glad your ex was fortunate enough to find a reasonable person to be with. Maybe some day he will (with the help of his new partner) realize, that there is a place for his hurt and anger (or whatever he might be feeling), but it's not on visitation dates or anywhere around the kids. I'll keep you and your boys in my thoughts. Hope everything will work out for you from now on. You look awesome by the way! Love your hair!!!
I know how you feel my dad did this to me and my brother. He never paid for my or my brothers school fees or for anything and then he said he had no money but he did. He was lying to my mum. My mum kept believing him but when she found out that he really was cheating on her and not paying for anything she got really upset she never wanted to cry infront of us but I knew she was crying when we were asleep so everynight when we went to bed she would go and maybe cry or be really upset while my dad was partying and hitting on so many other ladies. He than moved out a year later and that's when my mum told me everything I was only 8 or 9 so I didn't know what to do. After he moved out we had to move into a apartment because we lived in this big villa. He then moved to go and live with his girlfriend and I got really mad and upset. By then we had to borrow money from people for my brothers and my school fees. He lived there for about 1 year and then he lost his jobs. When he lost his job his girlfriend broke up with him because she only wanted money. He then came back with no money or anything. In summer my mum was applying for a new job so we couldn't go anyway for like 4 weeks but then we decided to go to Thailand and bring my dad so we did that and he said he would pay my mum back. When we came back he went to England to go to the doctors because he was mentally ill. But when he went back to England he started becoming a really bad man again because his mum was convincing him to hate my mum so since than I have hated him and I never want to speak to him again. And then they got divorced but now me my mum and my brother are living a happy life! Sorry this is a long paragraph I just wanted to share my story with you
I think it's great that you get on so well with her. How come he has managed to pay for a wedding but can't give you child support? Seriously that is disgraceful, he should be paying for his kids.
You look so beautiful and happy and peaceful and well- that's beauty! Peace and joy! I'm so happy for you and your journey and how you are making waves of a difference!😘 I'm also happy he has someone like her to help with the boys and that you also have her as someone to work with-💜
Thank you so much
I think you are anazing Jeni. Unfortunately, leopards don't usually change their spots and I hope his new wife knows what she is in for. My ex got remarried 11 months after we got divorced and he is now divorced again for the second time. Thankfully, my kids have always lived with me. Good luck with everything and keep taking great care of your kids and yourself.
Your ex got married 11 months after your divorce Janine? Geez. People move fast. Glad you always got to have your kids with you.
True. Exactly why we no longer speak....
11 months. Wow
Does she realize that she is married to a meth addict? Why would she choose this? I also HAVE to believe she is a user too.
So glad that y'all can be civil. (You & her) And your right it is probably because she was a single mom. Praying that she always remembers that and things continue to go smoothly.
Hope so too. Thank you!
To the really inconsiderate people commenting on this video saying that it was this woman's fault for "making" her husband leave and have another woman- maybe your head went up your behind while failing to really critically evaluate this situation. No one can "make" anyone do drugs or cheat. Her Ex CHOSE to do these things with his own will. Frankly, any man who blames a woman for HIS actions needs to really grow a pair and own up. If her talking about it online will help her move on and rebuild her esteem then kudos to her! She is entitled to say whatever she wants as her husband is responsible for emotionally causing her harm while they were married. If people viewing her videos don't like it- then you can choose to leave instead of leaving nasty comments which aren't even constructive in nature.
You're not happy, because you keep talking about him!!!!! Let it Go!
Not necessarily true
let it go girl keep talking about ex.
She's looking for self pity....
Self Healing
At no point did she look like she was asking for self pity. She said she was happy for them and that she likes her.
What are YOU smoking?
@@MiddlePath33 If she is happy, why she making a video and crying ?
You are one STRONG woman. ✌️
definetaly
Agreed!
Stacy J Binder define strong?
Linco M
Maybe you should be her friend mean guy. 👺
Stacy J Binder drama drama drama 🙄
That pink color is a VERY good color on you. Isn't it just like men. To abandon there own kids but marry a girl with kids. Ugh. Happened to me. My ex has seen my daughter 4 times in 6 years. But he married a girl with kids. And had a kid with her. It doesn't make sense to me. And when we talk were civil so he can't use the excuse that's it's because of me he won't see her.
Thank you!
So so unfortunate. I'm so sorry to hear that!
I know how that feels.my "Father" was the same way I hope.hes resting in peace
***** it happens to the best of us. It takes so much work to be a father, some do great, some cannot handle it and some are just pieces of crap. Sorry tho, my dad did the same thing, and so did my step dad. Best of luck to you
Im in a similar situation- remarried ex with stepchildren and another child of his own but rarely sees our son. He and I get along fine and he loves our son. He was a good dad.while we were married. I can only assume his wife is either insecure or doesn't want my son around for some reason. If I was married to a man who never saw his child and didn't at least try to pay his child support, I couldn't ignore those big, giant, flashing, neon red flags. When she talks about what a great father he is on social media, I just roll my eyes. She knows the truth and it has to eat her alive. I've met people who know them and they didn't even.know my son exists. One.day that facade will unravel, one way or another. It's sad...especially for the kids.
well said
That is awesome!! You are awesome!
Sending prayers and love, Amy!
+CandidMommy hi
Great attitude towards all of this!!! I am a step mom and my kiddos biological mother and I really get along well too... It really is what you make it! You use the same amount of energy hating as you do loving... loving is easier!
Be careful with Defamation Laws in your state. You're on a slippery slope when posting anything related to your ex on UA-cam or social media in general. He can easily attempt to charge you with defamation of character and/or harassment, especially with your older videos.
Stay safe, be well.
I admire your attitude! You are such a positive and strong person!
You look amazing! Your hair and brows especially! :) I find it very refreshing, mature and level headed to hear your positive thoughts on the ex's new wife. I am so glad for you and the boys that he picked a good one!
All the best to you. Seems you would be perfect on a peer support group. You are a gem when it comes to how well you view situations. Watched a tough video you did & I was curious how things turned out. UA-cam decided to recommend it to me years later because maybe I could stream your content ;) either way be blessed in all. Praying for you all.
Has the thought ever occurred to anyone that maybe she doesn't have anyone else she can tell this to? She can't exactly go to her kids. She's probably trying to keep a brave face for them and to her close family.
This 👍👍 yes!
You think that her kids, that are becoming old enough to snoop around on the internet, won't find these videos and watch them with particular interest? It might be best for her to stop putting this out and deleting everything..
How's she gonna pay the bills? YT is a career these days.
If I have to share my personal life with millions of strangers on UA-cam in order to pay the bills, I will find another job.
I just started binge watching your videos and I'm so happy your channel was recommended to me! You are an amazing, strong woman. I don't know what I would do if I was in your situation. Just wow, I honestly didn't expect this when I first started watching, or by reading the titles. I thought it was going to be another woman just straight up bashing her ex..... you're so respectful towards their relationship and I really admire that.
This is exactly how it is with my daughter's dad/my ex who just got married a few weeks ago. I manage to get along better with her than with my ex.
I feel sorry for your ex's new wife. Poor girl.
Dang. Hopefully he changes before his new wife is treated the same way you were.
Don't assume he was to blame. Look at just how unbearable this woman is - quite neurotic, manic depressive, and stupid - and probably very disorganised as well, no doubt blaming him for everything that hasn't worked out in her life.
As a step-mom of two kids...I cannot express how great it is to hear that you feel this way about her. So many moms have negative views on the step-mom that their exes marry because they feel like the step-mom is taking over or trying to step on toes. I love that you two actually talk and plan things and arent catty.
I'm glad that you are in a better place right now and you look happy, you look great, hair is looking great.... I'm very happy for you
I just found your videos today & let me say that u are an inspiration. We have so much in common. I have no friends that can actually relate to what I've gone through so it was a relief to find u. Isn't it a relief when u can get along with your exes new wife? Anyway thabks for being u & honest about it lol 😊👏🏽
I've wandered onto here somehow after compulsively clicking through random video titles at almost 4 a.m (sigh) but this is such a refreshingly positive reaction so devoid of anger and negativity. I'm sure you'll attract a lot of happiness with an attitude like that. I wish I could look like you when I become a mom, anyways, have a nice week!
It's such a great feeling to know that your kids are well cared for when around a step Mother or even another woman. It's hard for most women to let go and they always seem to hate the new woman just because. You are handling it so well and you should be so proud of yourself. Plus sometimes it's easier to go through her then your ex, haha.
It is good to see that you have moved on, and are able to focus on the really important people in your life...your sons. Continue to stay focused and hold his feet to the fire about his obligations to your sons. He help get them here, he can help to support them. The only suggestion that I have for you is to try to find some neutral ground when you and your ex meet. This is so important for the kids emotional health as well as yours. If he wants to snipe at you, don't give into it. Try to rise above it and let him know that what you once had with him is history, so he can keep his opinions to himself and not burden you with his problems. Hang in there, girl. You will come out a stronger, more self-assured woman if you do.
I felt the same when my ex re-married. His wife was good to our daughter and that's all that I cared about x
I'm so happy for you, My parents went through a very tough divorce when I was little and even now that i'm in my 20s is till have so many open wounds... You're such a strong woman! You're going in the right direction!
Thanks for posting this. I was definitely one of the shocked ones when you mentioned his marriage in your last video! I'm SO happy that it's a best case scenario so that you and the kids have less of his drama ;) stay strong.
pink is your color girl! this tshirt and that zip up hoodie from a recent video all looked amazing on you
Your are such a strong women. You have such a great attitude and you are a wonderful mom! I'm really enjoying all your videos:)
Thank you!
Keep your head up. You are gorgeous. I am 6 months into my divorce. I know that those times are rough, first hand.
You are a strong individual and you deserve happiness. I've been watching your videos and every time I always hope and pray that you'll get through all these challenges. :) Be strong for your kids (especially) and for yourself too. :)
You are amazing! So glad I found your channel! I found your video on a workout watch that I bought my husband for Christmas while researching it and instantly fell in love with your personality! Subbed right away! Loveee your videos! You are one strong momma! Love Ya!
You're amazing. I'm so glad I found your channel, thank you for the fresh perspectives. I love you so much. Heart hugs
You like her, because his second victim is a lot like his first one.. you.
rude
I wasn't trying to be rude, Tonya. What I meant is that these monsters quite often choose victims for their beautiful qualities.. such as empathy, kindness, etc. It's very much to be expected that the next victim will have things in common with the one before her or him.
I think your intention in saying what you said came through - it was maybe brutally honest, but there likely is a lot of truth in it.
Saying rude to someone is rude, you stereotype.
In her first video, she complains about her husband and listing all his lies. Now she's approving of his marriage and really happy for her? I find that really suspicious. I think she isn't really all that candid. It's not that I am not sympathetic; I would've been, had her story not changed like it did. Whatever.
So happy you are finally getting some peace and happiness back in your life! It really shows in your face! 😊
That is so great you have a positive relationship with your kids stepmom! It makes life so much happier for everyone. My stepdaughter's mother is an absolute nightmare to deal with and tries to sabotage anything she can. She plays 40+ hours of World of Warcraft a week and feeds my stepdaughter packaged and fast food for basically every meal. Her planning skills are horrible, she forgets everything almost immediately after we talk about it and then ruins plans last minute. It makes everyone stressed and unhappy and I can't stand that she thinks that's acceptable to make her child feel that way :( We pay a ridiculous amount of child support for her video games, fast food, and new cars/TV's etc. Good job on being an adult and good mama bear, us stepmothers appreciate you!!
You seem to be handling all this with such grace. A whole lot better than I did in the beginning, unfortunately. I wanted to "fight" for my son but it didn't change anything. All it did was.stress me out worse. I've learned to just be my son's rock, support him 100% myself and anything else, relationship w/dad or child support, is gravy.
I don't know you just stumbled upon this but you look so great now. Before you look so defeated.. glad your doing better!
Wow! I was NOT expecting this..
Exactly why I did the video ;)
***** While an addict is always recovering, they just aren't supposed to be in a relationship for the first year or two in their recovery. Its important for them to have created a strong foundation and get some time. Most people who don't listen and follow their sponsor, most of those people relapse. Thus guy is going down the wrong path, repeating old behavior, unless he gets serious about his recovery he'll go back out. I'm just glad she's out of that and it's not her problem anymore (aside from the kids' association) I hope we're both wrong but what you said is just coming from truth. Its the sad reality of addiction.
Agreed!!^^
Nicole Slater that may be the case generally but honestly there is no rule of thumb for every situation. my husband was a meth addict (among other things) from the age of 14. we got together and he knew then he had to quit everything. we've been together almost ten years and this man has never relapsed is in the air force and training to become trauma surgeon. it is never a good idea to pigeon hole people, they may just surprise you!
NakedWithoutMyLippy why
I find your honesty heart warming . You are the definition of beautiful. If I was 10 years younger I would be knocking on your door wearing a bowtie holding flowers asking you out.
I felt EXACTLY the same when my ex moved on.. Relief and happy for them! A year later they broke up, she was a single mom too, not as good a mom as me apparently and they rowed about me ALOT because she wasn't as independent as me (he still wanted his cake and eat it but she wasn't letting him get away with it like I did more like.) . He hated that I didn't care that he moved on, he even tried to muscle his way back in my life... Thanks for these videos but to truly let another man in your life you need to put it all to bed! We wanna know about your dates and future plans now :) ps. Please don't let step mum into your life too much, she'l be running to you for a shoulder to cry on and you don't need that stress xx
Good for you for taking the high road! My ex married a lovely woman as well and I truly thing it made my (now 14 year old's) life better when he visited. Being gracious is a hard choice sometimes, but gets easier and makes YOU more lovely. Cheers!
yes, again I say, do not EVER, EVER, EVER be around him as much as you possibly stay away from him. His new wife is in for a big ride. He must really hate you if he can get along with another woman well enough to get her to marry him, yet still be so mean to you. Let go of your caring for him. Be done with him.
Ann Marie Just because I wrote that he must hate her, doesn't mean that I personally believe that the opposite of love is hate. I don't think there's anything in this that is "obvious" about her ex, except that he's pissed, annoyed, whatever he might say he feels towards her. Personally, if my ex constantly posted BS on UA-cam about me, my family or associates, I'd find a way to make it stop Legally, of course. She seems to be the one who can't let go. If she did, she'd find BETTER things to do with her time than blog about him for YEARS. She's obsessed with HIM!
Ann Marie Really, I don't think I'm cold blooded, just straight forward. But would you continuously blog about your ex? I mean, beyond complaining to my friends, I think she just needs to stop. And I don't know how I came across her posts, but I watched a few, I sympathized at first, then there were more, and MORE, and... LOL... so yeah, she's still too way involved in her ex
I'm so glad that it's working out in a productive way for everyone! :-)
I don't know how i came across your videos....
i'm so sorry about what happened with your marriage....
you are obviously an amazing Human Being....
I'm so happy for you that you get along so well with his new wife! I'm sure that makes things SO much easier for you.
Someone going through a tough divorce should watch your divorce video and then watch this video... your positive attitude is inspiring and awesome
Wow! Glad that she's someone you get along with and who will be good to your boys.
That's a lot to ask for and thankfully I do have it.
You went through do much and youre still being nice about it! I dont think I could have done it! Im really mad at him for you but you seem to be doing AMAZING!!!! you go girl!!!!
+Kidney Crayons why do you have to be mean?
This is my thought you should stop making videos that talks about his personal life. I know you don't mention his name or anything but we know what he looks like . You know someone can bump into him and be like yeah your that guy your ex talks about. ?!?!. I would be pissed Off at you if I was him. Like geez women move on. I think this should be the last video that you talk about him in that way. Like what he is doing with his life. Just my opinion I'm ready for the people that disagree but it's the dang truth.
I agree completely. She says she is over him but that is all she talks about. It's his life and if he wants to get on camera and talk about it then hats off to him but she needs to focus on her own life. Part of me thinks she ennvies the fact that he could move on.
Of course people are gonna disagree, but it's true. She's getting annoying and if people can relate to her ?? This means you need to move on . She needs to start making videos about her kids and her only. She focuses more on him. Smh.
I like her, but I agree.. don't think she's over him. And she's lying to herself about it. Been there done that.
Edna I've been there too. And her belive or not doesn't convince me. It's kinda annoying I have nothing against her either I like her , but this whole my ex this my thoughts of him that is soo annoying.
bereberry _ I've been threw that and I can realate to it which is why I say that if you're going threw her situation get your shit together you dont need a guy like that and about child support if he doesn't want to give her any or what not. So what??? She needs to work and if she already is then super. 👍 that's one step closer to moving on.
Your hair looks so cute here. I bet Deacon likes it :P. Glad that you have a better relationship with your husband and his wife. It should reduce a lot of stress and bring some peace.
I just love you! And just wanted to put in my 2 cents (for what it's worth lol) as the 2nd wife to man who's 1st marriage ended badly( and also ended badly of HIS doing) just please remember that everytime you ladies get along she most likely hears about it from him😁 so remember her in your prayers ok❤️
As a Man with a an Ex-Wife I can relate to you "letting it go" so to speak. Its admirable that you have this outlook...That said, I don't get how you just got devorced and your all ready to be so forgiving and blessing bestowing on your Ex! It took me about 5-6 years to forget that she done me wrong and be able to say "live and let live" but more power to ya, if this is real...
I can't imagine a man who has small children be addicted to drugs. Its so selfish and dangerous. I cant even imagine leaving your kids with this guy. Now he had a partner in crime, two meth addicts, what a formula. Is their anything you can do to terminate his visitation rights or the very least have it so when he is around them he is being monitored by his parents or a responsible party? I know I am being judgemental but I am just thinking about whats is best for the kids. Just my opinion.
I work in narcotics division of law enforcement and I arrest mothers who have drug habits and fathers. all types of humans use drugs. I have arrested people who make 7 figures legally.
12 % of Americans use some street drugs from the suburban housewife who abuses adhd stimulant meds to the lowest of low junkies on the streets.
Often times addicts find comfort with each other as non-addicts judge them. they often can keep each other going in a positive direction.
addiction is a disease and oddly enough addicts deep down inside want to quick but they do nor know how to.
addiction is a shame based cycle. they stop using, then a big stressor comes into their life then they use and feel shame.
If this mom wants what is best for her former husband and for her children she will work through the new wife as she is a buffer. the ex wife has to realize she is and has been a stressor in her former husbands life. I suspect he felt stress and then started using to combat the stress.
outside side of heroin which people use because they can no longer get pain meds we are seeing anxiety meds being sold.
It's people like you who make me sick. The father has a right to see his kids. 's you don't know if he's a danger just by hearing someones version of what happened. She chose to mARRY HI AND HAVE KIDS WITH HIM. He must have done something right. This society does not value fatherhood and will praise the mother even if she was on drugs. Just my opinion.
Did you honestly think her story was truthful? Her story was changed from the next video.
Did you consider an option she's a liar?
I'm really glad you have a positive mindset, inspires lots of people ! :) wish you the best, better days will come!
And love how you did your hair! Rock it! :)
Listening to you my " Avoid" alert when off especially when you shook the pill bottle.
You're a fucking diamond. Shine on.
+Damian Fanish No, that is being an ass.
This is such a good thing that he has found someone that you actually like. Love ya girl. 💗
sorry if this is nosy, but does new wife know about the drug issues? I wasn't sure if he is clean or not.
I love your honesty and your boldness in sharing your life with all of us you are a great inspiration thank you and God bless 😊
Your hair is looking so long and healthy! So beautiful. :)
"My feelings for him are gone" - right - and thats why you're making videos about him -.-
Hey Jeni, I'm on the link you provided for the doterrA oils, but I don't see the "natural solutions kit" do they only offer that kit to new account holders? I've heard lots of people talk about that kit and I wanted to take a look on it. Thanks!
Woww I just have no words. And I love how you're dealing with everything and just being happy.
You look so good compared to the last video I watched of you. Good job, pulling yourself up. Good luck and you are a wonderful looking young lady. :)
That's good that you can have a civilized conversion with your Ex's other half. I was in the exact same position as you some 20yrs ago and to this day I like her more than him but am I bit sad it didn't work out for us as we get on pretty well now. Suppose it's easier to get along when you don't have to live together. Our kids are 27 and 25 and we have had to plan and pay for weddings and his other half has been a real help. I hope you will be in this position down the track.
Oh l know all too well how you feel! It's such a relief lol. I hope things are in the up and up from now on :)
If your Happy, I'm Happy for you & Your babies !! The money or Support really isn't for me to comment on, that's your business 😆
Yah and it'll work out.... I can't torture myself over it. I spent too many months doing it.
You look gorgeous in this video Jeni! Glad to see you so happy :)
Good for you. Forgiving and moving on are always the right thing to do.
I looooovve how non jelous you are. A lot of woman are mad about this type of stuff. And I love how happy you are! You deserve a man that will make you happy
I pray she's the person she appears to be for you and the kids sake. my God Bless you and be Happy you look so much Happier in this vidi o, and that's Awesome :)
That sounds great and I am really glad you have found a way to successfully co-parent and keep the peace. What does she think about him trying to lower child support after she was a single mom? Is this the same girlfriend that moved in right after you moved out? I'm so noisy, I'm sorry.
I'm not sure....
And no, different one. Thankfully haha
I think it's good that for all parties involved everyone is moving forward into positive relationships. If you're happy the boys are happy, the ex is healthy/happy and then the boys will be happy when visiting and everyone has a positive outlook on the future. It takes a LOT to let it go and do what's best for yourself and your kids and even if it's a alternative spin to your family everyone is trying and happiness can be built on that. :D
Wow...u are a strong!..i salute u...only those who have been thru the same situation understand how others feeling...i also the same just got to know that my ex got a baby girl last sunday...i really tried gulping all down..even after 4 years passed..i still not totally over him...but u make it sound so simple...i look up to u..
You seem to get prettier and prettier in each video - whaddup with that?! :-)
It was snowing- good light haha
that is so good! Happy the situation is good for you!
I was so happy when my ex got married. I heard the guy is nice to our kids and she doesn't bug me with her wanting to try and work things out crap.
I don't think it's the fact she use to be single mom, shes probably just a good person!! That's lucky, I wish my kids dads wife was a even a slight bit of a decent person lol. Yeayyy :)
That's the best attitude for y'alls kids. Good for you!
You are such a good person, being a single mom and all of this crap that's gng on in ur life, just be positive, and be happy!!!
Hey, I got the same exact bed sheets. I think I bought it at target
Glad it worked out for you you seem alot more happy now I bet your glad you told him to "Take it on the Run" ....