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I don't think it's fair the burden of maintaining contact with ex in laws falls on you. Their dad needs to step up and coordinate and make that effort with you to make it happen. This puts you in a difficult situation.
Glitter Nails rather
Glitter Nails yea those in laws are insane and ignorant and definitely retarded.
Glitter Nails Dad is a Drug Addict! His brain is Not of value to anyone until he Sobers Up!
I agree 100% that putting this on you is , they needed to spend more time with their own son and then they wouldn't be in this situation unless they have visitation rights then it's all up to you and you decide how much they see them
Just tell your in-laws its not your fault that they have to see the children in shifts... they can blame their own son and you are doing your best to work w/the pieces he left...
It blows my mind that people complain about lighting and sound. Haha
Personally, it doesn't matter to me what kind of video you post or on what day. I am not a single Mom and I don't have young kids (22 y/o daughter) but I love your channel regardless! I LOVE all of your videos,even if they don't apply to me and my life (school lunches, etc.) Try not to stress so much over your channel being chaotic... that's what makes you and your channel so real. I used to watch this one girl's channel but she had it all scripted and after watching you, it sounded so fake. I don't watch her anymore. Like the other person that commented said (Denise ), it's like you are a friend and we like to see what's going on... chaotic or not. I hope you plan on doing your channel until your boys are at least 18, so we can see them grow up and see what happens in your life as well. :) Also, I think it's so sweet that you don't edit out your emotions, whether it be getting teary eyed talking about your ex mil or when your dog died or whatever. That's why I feel you are so genuine by just putting it all out there. You are such an inspiration to so many people. I hope you know that!
I'm a 22 year old. Not married, no kids but I still love to watch your videos. Although the topics don't appeal to my personal life. You appeal to me as a person! Xx
Malia Same! 23, not married, no kids, in school. I don't relate to any of this but I just find her very inspiring and appealing as a person to watch!
+Maligno FM Creepy.
+Malia Same! I'm 20 with no kids or anything but i literally just love her as a person
+ItsEmmaa I know...right?
Wow it's crazy how my comment got 50 likes 😱 amandadeps ItsEmmaa erin davitt
It's not your job to keep the kids in contact with your ex in laws. It's your ex husbands
agreed!!!
No it's not her job, but she enjoys it and is very close with Them. She wants to spend time with them.
She does it for her kids and their relationship with their grandparents! Why would she want to leave anything up to her ex-husband?
SillyMando2008 Good luck w that! He’s a Drug Addict...not very reliable. She’s doing this for t kids.
Actually it is. When you become a parent your job is to do what’s best for your kids. Yes, the circumstances suck. But that’s life.
I love this lady's honesty and vulnerability. She is the definition of beautiful.
This woman is an actress
mistamoon1i bet she wishes she was but if you saw her other videos you'd realize it's not true. her Vlogs might make that confusing but she has videos with their family shopping if you look at her schedule you can tell
its great that you and your ex mil are still close.my parents got divorced when i was 3 and my mom has stayed close with my fathers side of the family specifically my grandma and aunt.its great for the kids.
I have no idea how I found your channel. I have no children, no husband, no boyfriend. But you're sooooo likeable and genuine, I just cannot stop watching your videos. I guess we all go through a lot in this life. Your story seems to be really helping a lot of people with similar circumstances as yours. I think you're great:-)
You're SO beautiful!!!!
My ex in-laws and I don't get at all. And I'm so happy they don't live near me.
lol that's the way it normally goes!!!
Holy cow you are beautiful. You deserve much better. I could never imagine turning my back on my wife and daughter like that. Never settle.
NEVER SETTLE! EXACTLY!
You are so cute and transparent. I enjoy your channel!
They aren't "x-inlaws".... they are "outlaws"... I love my outlaws.
Lol
Some people are so desperate for attention...god lady get back to reality...
Daniel Guevara God don't watch Vlogs if you don't want to hear people talk. that's what a vlog is.... seriously though
You don't NEED a UA-cam schedule😉 Post what you want, when you want😊 & stop feeling compelled to "label" your channel. You are Candid Mommy, that's a description for those who need one😉
Thats great you still have a bond i now if me and my hubby ever split up that my motherlaw would love it she likes the drama lol
you are officially my new favorite, i have been watching your videos all day and your strength and honesty is inspiring
I sometimes don't find anything you say useful. Simply because I'm a lot younger, etc. but I find your videos so inspirational. The fact that you share such a personal story, just blows my mind. So I regularly watch your videos to remind myself of the woman I want to become. One with flaws (we are human) but with a huge heart, and a lot of courage. Thank you!
You look so bright and pretty ........stay happy and positive .....
Theirs nothing wrong with being friendly with anyone..as long as you feel good
You and your boys are all that matters ....
I admire the fact you are able to communicate with your ex in laws. My ex doesnt want me to have any contact with them at all. It makes it difficult on our daughter, she wants to be able to see here aunt and uncle and other grandparents, but the ex doesnt want me talking with them. I care alot for my ex father in law and my ex sister and brother in laws and rheir kids, but you are in such a better situation. Im jeleous of that.
Who cares what he says, maybe they are thinking the same thing as you. I was in a similar situation and decided to make contact with my Ex's side of the family, and I'm so glad I did. The more people that love your daughter the better.
I've been lucky to get along really well with my ex in laws. They actually came to my wedding to my second husband. They haven't seen or heard from my ex in years, but we talk to them regularly.
Thanks mary, i agree with you! But its easier said then done. Especially when they keep changing numbers and dont let it out. I have a pending court case against her again for contempt of court! She brings it on herself for not following the parenting plan, then purposely attempts to insight arguments which i refuse to engage in, which enrages her more!
Thank you mary. She already has found a new victim. Her current bf was recently jailed for felony theft 1 and 2. Yet his lawyer claimed him autistic and that he did it for her. He didnt want to lose her. Plus a friend of mine down in bama called me recently and shared the same thoughts as myself. We think she is in drugs. Her pictures and in person, she looks strung out. Im glad im that normal mature parent, plus we live with my parents which helps a great deal. Thank you again for your words and support.
perhaps if you were to make it clear to your partner how much it upsets your daughter. I find if you make it about the only Common Ground you share it's hard for them to disagree. even if you can find a time for limited contact or when contact would be okay maybe through email. or maybe your partner would be okay with joint messages that they could see it sounds to me like you just want to see them some more. I think if you made it clear this made you sad the other person would understand more even if they have issue with you. I especially think the joint message thing would work so that they can see the message I found in my experience it's usually about control
i love your input...but your connection with your ex-inlaw is not normal,,,,your kids will be confused when they get older
This woman looks beautiful in her pink top.
If y'all are up for it I'd be interested to see a Q&A with her regarding your divorce, like what she thinks about it and everything
Hopefully things will improve with his parents ❤️
Love your ditls and advice/educational videos :)
I know that you got a lot of flak for your Ex/Divorce videos, but I have been following you for such a long time so in a way I felt like those videos were necessary to truly understand your journey and situation. And they also seemed to be a bit therapeutic for you. So basically, I enjoyed watching them. And for the people who complained about them, how hard is it to simply not watch something if you're not interested? People kill me sometimes.
It's so nice to see you excited because you get to visit your MIL :) ! Have fun!
I'm so happy that you are able to stay in contact with the in laws. It makes it easier on your children. Makes your life easy and have happy times.
She controls the ex through the in-laws. This is highschool cheerleader meangirls lunchtable politics in action.
You are too cute! Such a down to earth person. I'm grateful to have the relationship I do with my son's gf (mother of a grandson and her daughter/my love grandchild). We also have a very extended mix of married, divorced, remarried family and we all get together for the benefit of any kids involved. Including my brother and I. You're doing such a great job.
I am so happy that you and Grandma get along well! That's a blessing. (Please don't click on my face. I'm a germaphobe.)
Please young ladies, go to college, don't marry young, I missed out on a lot because I married young.
You could write a book about your experiences with these relationships..I am sure someone could benefit as you are very insightful.
Your brows :)
I'm certainly not asking this in a bitchy way, I'm just curious. How does you EX's mother and new wife feel about you making video's about him and sharing info about his addiction, etc...? I understand why you want to do it for you, but I cant help but wonder whether they'd be pissed about you sharing his information?
Julie J it's a vlog, she had it before the divorce.... why wouldn't she continued it. a vlog is sharing all aspects of your life. they knew she had it before why would she stopped. why wouldn't she share Big Life events. just saying.
cant stop looking at her nose...
My parents are getting divorce so I've been on this side of youtube
I wonder what compels anyone to share such intimate details about their private life on UA-cam.. And even worse, what compels anyone to listen to a strangers trivial personal problems.. Society is absurd.
Venting and educating but she's not a good speaker disorganized still it's cruel to judge her
attention whores... simple as
I guess some people like seeing honesty and things that feel ''real'' rather than watching random challenge videos and pranks and stuff :)
She's a narcissist. And ungrateful for all her ex did for her.
KaleKain He was on drugs and treated her like crap, what exactly did he do for her?
How are your kids going to feel about the fact that nothing in their lives is personal?
I'm sure they won't care..they're boys. Boys don't tend to give a shit about stuff like that. Girls are the ones that hate airing personal things. Plus she's raising them with herself posting on UA-cam. I really don't think it will bother them at all. They're most likely used to it already
You look like your in good spirits, I am so happy for you. And it has to be better for the boys
I think the number one thing I try to remember is even if myself and my mom (the kids' grandmother) disagree with how my divorced brother "shares" his kids with the family (and boy I do!) they are still his kids and our opinions don't need to be shared with him! No matter how much we love them... no matter how much we miss them and want to see them... they are not our children and we need to give my brother space and make ourselves available for the kids when we do get chances to see them. We didn't always think like that, BUT it causes too much conflict when there is already divorce to make seeing the kids an issue too. Anyway, I am sorry if someone made you feel like you are not doing a good job when scheduling family visits can be a nightmare!
It was the same here but there was a big family argument and my partner got dragged into it from there grandparents and they didn't speak for 6 years but I have been keeping in contact so yes day they came down and things went yell so it did clear the air slightly but it's not nice for our kids (there great grandchildren) xx
I know you set it up like it was a hardly-anything-to-it, blast-from-the-past-style video, but I really enjoyed watching this. When families become so disparate like they can be, I love seeing parents making an effort to keep family involved and I love that your mom-in-law is such a kindred spirit to you. Your boys are so blessed (along with you) that you have that good relationship with their grandma and I really pray that things continue well there, as well as growing better elsewhere. Wi-five from Australia! (That's like a high-five but you don't slap hands. Do they even do wi-five's in the US?)
Hey whatever u upload is great we all get busy and life turned upside dwn but it's fact that u put in an effort to upload something is good it's just nice to hear from u like ur a friend it's like thanks for calling :) or thanks for the tip with regard to recipes or great see boys they're getting so big or whatever. That is so nice to b able stay friends with ur mum in law where ur ex is ok with that. Did he ever say ur not allowed see them just to hurt u.
First comment yay!! Just want to send you some love and good feelings your way! I love my in laws and it would be so hard to juggle that relationship if my hubby and I ended things. You seem to be trying so hard, but keeping the boys your priority. Good job!
Please stop...if I was your mom right now I would be devastated that you have shared with the world that you would rather be with your in law instead.....you are destroying so much
Larisa Jeffrey if her mom is like my mom I would throw that relationship in the trash. my mom was physically abusive most of my life . and when she stopped being physically abusive she started manipulating me mentally so in my teenage years I never really got to make adult decisions for my future she did. don't assume it's stupid.
My mother in law and I are like this too, we are so close and have such a great relationship, whereas my mom and I have a very different relationship.
Me too. It's hard because I want to be close to my own mother but she makes it difficult. My MIL is awesome.
Having such a close relationship with her may be more damaging than you think. How does your own mother feel about that? I'm sure it's not easy. Maybe it would be wise to invest in your relationship with her a little more. And how does your ex-husband feel about it? You may not care what his feelings are but if his mom treats you more like her child than she treats him this may be an un-healthy relationship. Not trying to be rude. I've watched you for years and love you to pieces but I have some personal experience with a very similar situation. Feeling like your parents are obsessed with your ex while they could take you or leave you is a pretty painful thing to go through. I know relationships go two ways and maybe he's not putting forth proper effort. But I just thought I might shed some light from the other side of things. I know you feel like losing her would be the end of the world, but perhaps she's not yours to lose. She's a bonus for u, but for him she's the only mom he's got
pinkcinderella07
Well said. I get the impression that your channel could be damaging to your siblings. Not that you don't have the right to have it ( of course you do) but there's more at stake then just you. I think the ex mil should be put into the grandparents category and recognize what or who could be affected deeply. You have a lot to be taking into consideration.
what if your mother sucks it is abusive like mine was honestly I'd throw my relationship with my mom in the garbage if it that were a possibility. unfortunately if ever want to speak to my father I can't do that cuz she's crazy and controlling
I'm friends with my husbands ex mother in law!!! That's a weird one, she doesn't call her own daughter to get info about her grandkids, she calls me...lol
I'm happy you have a good relationship with your ex-mil. I don't have this type of relationship with mine. I like to think of her as my ex-mil but I'm still married to my husband. She was or is that is his step mom but his dad passed a way a few years ago. Haven't seen her since our daughter's second birthday party. Our daughter is almost 5. She is not the nicest person on the planet. But life has been a hell of a lot brighter and happier without her in it. Well, without any of my in laws for that matter.
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My mil hates me and she dislikes her son, my husband. So, we never see each other. 😀
P McKenna I'm crazy jealous
Tell the world about your ex"s will help the situation LOL
blccleaning don't watch vlogs then you won't like them. 😜
you're a adorable and gorgeous I really like you mawah
That's awesome that you have such a nice relationship with your MIL......Not all MIL are horrible! Their are plenty of nice ones.
Falling out is natural
Waht the fuck
seriously.... no one needs to know this shit. just my opinion.
Then don't watch the video.
Can you not?
i love u
I had the same thing with my ex mother in law, a wonderful closeness, better than my own mother. When I divorced my ex, I was more upset that I was losing her than I was losing him. When she asked me why, I told her it was because he was dealing pot and coke out our home and I wanted him to do it elsewhere because of our baby, that he refused. She refused to believe me. ( I didn't tell her about his partner OD'ing on our living room floor, or that cop helicopters were a nightly thing or that the police cruisers every day were a bit much. Lots of other things as well.) I had to get out of there. It took me 3 years and fertility drugs to have my daughter and I wasn't about to put up with his drugs and maybe losing our baby. I left for Australia for two years. I still, to this day, mourn my relationship with my first mother-in-law. I loved her deeply and I was not there when she died, never forgiving me for the divorce.I miss her love.
Holeyyyy shit was all that real? Did all that really happen?
Transformation what seriously he was trying to make a common ground with this person or people washing it's a vlog people usually relate to stuff in the video you're going to be an ass go away
Wow!
M
Stop yammering and start listening.
Christine M dude it's a vlog if you don't know what that is look it up because that's what that is its people talking...duh
Just an opinion... I feel like it's really inappropriate to have a relationship with ex in-laws. That's crossing a boundary and not respecting your ex's life. I understand that you may have had a great relationship but when you get a divorce you are divorcing the family as well. You both need to live your own lives and respect boundaries. You can be friendly and cordial but communication goes through the ex spouse not the parents. I couldn't imagine a scenario where I'm texting my ex's family and we started dating when I was 14 (36 now).
I"m not sure what [Ex !! is] !! Drop the word husband all together (he no longer deserves that title.) He is now your child's father only.
Grandmother and grandfather will be your kids grandparents for the rest of your life [ NO~Ex !! here]. For the grandparents they are more afraid that you might leave or forget them. Always include the in your life. For them and your family will be the greatest assets you'll ever have and will do anything for you.
my mother-in-law hates me😂, my father-in- law and I have the same personality traits and I believe that's why she hates me lol
Sometimes women can be shady and downright spiteful. I'll never understand it.
I can't understand hate from adults
Row Deo you will when you experience a good amount of life and your about 35-40. Give it time kiddo.
Scheduling is not a falling out. It's conflicting schedules. I think it's best that you find a good friend to talk to and stop these rambling videos. I'm concerned about your emotional well being. Your eyebrows show that you're likely OCD. Which is OK, just be aware of what's happening inside. Best not to show it all on line, as you don't have solid emotional control. Why be a side-show act?
What Flack !! If people don't like how your life is going then they need to unsubscribe your channel. Life happens ~ your channel may help another person and it'd your channel!!!!
I stumbled upon your videos, why do you feel the need to share such insanely personal topics about you're family on UA-cam? I know you don't "bad mouth" your situation...but golly...think of how these videos might effect your boys when they grow up. Just a thought. Blessings.
Exactly, it'll blow up in her face and they will eventually hate her. Touche.
My sons wife left him for our Pastor, who was also his best friend and they got married. My son was crushed and so furious. We had been in that church over 15 years and they grew up together. It was so hard on him. I was living alone on SS and he asked me to move in with him to help with the bills and my precious 3 year old granddaughter. I had been friends with his mother and father all those years too so I felt like I had been betrayed also. My ex daughter n law and her new pastor husband had a baby boy and they’ve went on with their lives while my son is stuck right where he was when it all happened. He doesn’t date, he devotes all his free time to his daughter who is 11 now. We have forgiven them even though they didn’t ask to be forgiven. Btw my son was a good husband but we can never forget. We’ve had problems finding a new home church. It was devastating to us but a new beginning for them. I just felt like getting this off my chest. I still love my daughter n law to an extent but my son is quiet and keeps a lot inside. I’m glad you get along with your ex mother n law. It really helps matters.
Do you think that talking about this stuff with the whole world is a problem? With strangers? Do you respect anyone's privacy?
why do u keep giggling? its annoying
Rashanda Brown then don't watch why you make jerk comments it's annoying
I just saw these divorce videos, I hope you are doing better now. If you need to talk, vent or whatever please reach out to me.
Provided for her and her kids. Besides, even though he did do all that stuff, that's no excuse for her to publicize it. What an incredible violation on his privacy.
You may not see this because I've notice this video was posted 2 years ago but I'm going through something similar I'm not married but I'm going through a possibly break up after 8 years of being together and I am really close to his family more so than my own family and have became an aunt to his sister and brothers children i was around since before they were born and I'm just really upset and nervous that I'm gonna lose them all along with him
why didn't you spend all days with both family visiting
I encourage, surrendering to Christ ur life, brings new change. God is able , things happen In life, with God getting our attention. Learning the will of God is about new life living
SHE and I, not HER and I.....You would not say, "Her is close" but you would say "SHE is close", I am close" is a quick way to test it. HER is a direct object. I took HER to the store with me. HER is not a subject. It can be an adjective such as which shoes, HER shoes. You have two little ones, the greatest gift you can give them is to make it easy for them to learn correct English by modeling it correctly. My mom taught me a person never stops learning, SHE was always correcting her own English usage, trying to better herself. I would not have said anything except it stands out and you can easily change. Please change for your boys, good chance to teach them everyone makes mistakes, it is OK, and everyone keeps learning. Making correct English second nature for your kids is a great gift. They won't have to think about it. You can do it. If in doubt, separate the two subjects and say them as separate sentences like I did above and you will be able to spot the correct way most times. Love you.
Lol calm down
Elizabeth Lavet
Making correct English? No! Speaking correct English....if you're going to correct someone about proper grammar then use the correct reference.
I sure do miss my mother-n-law.
Why do you feel the need to always share your personal life with people on UA-cam that you don't even know? It's crazy!
its good for the kids to see there granys,im an granny,and two of my boy,s x .are my best friends.does not matter what my boys do in there life ,but my grandkids and there mum,s will always be in our lifes
Hi Jenny, when you said that it did nont go well splitting the week between your ex mil and sister I I thought you meant with your mil; but then realized it couldnt be. Who where you refering to???
Auri Guzmán She meant her ex father in in law and his wife.
You should do Periscope! You would be a big hit!
In 10 years i never had 1 problem with my inlaw. After i divorce it makes me sad that my father inlaw calls me every now and the to say hi.
I use to stay at his house when we visit the country and we had so many good memories. I like hearing from the old man.
HAY MAMA HOW ARE YOU DOING :-)
You are so lucky to have a great relationship with your MIL
You are doing a great job in what you are doing, you are adapting to a difficult situation that you did not ask for. Wonder how you are doing now? Hope good!
do you think that people really listen because you do want pity and favorite but if you want pity then show more skin then will pity you
It isn't really a good idea to meet up with ex in-laws , you can ask of help if you want I'll be here waiting
The ex laws are crack heads miss. They are ignorant and brain dead. Don't give them any more time.
Why are people exposing their personal life online that's some shit you should keep for yourself not to the world to know
i dont understand how you have followers she just talks about her love life, like who cares?
can't wait for the lunches my personal favorite
Ok this is a little much. Started out good with the first vid. Now it's just go sillay.
Is the circle light new? It looks awesome!
Yack yack yack. I'd leave too.
Christine M it a vlog that what they are dumby, it's literally someone talking about every aspect of their life it doesn't relate to you instead of complaining about it don't watch it God people are dumb
CandidMommy awe, it's really unfortunate that your ex's dad is putting his personal issue with you (and the May situation) ahead of doing what's best for his grandkids...hopefully time will help him see what's truly important. On the other side that is AMAZING that you have maintained a great relationship with their grandma and a beautiful friendship! How awesome is that?!? So precious!💗💕
Can you not?
Tammy Douglas can you not make unnecessary comments
i feel where your at cause im there too but really?