Ziva, it would be really helpful if you make a video on how to look good and feminine at home! Tips on clothes , hair, scent and other stuff 💅 I'm trying to stop wearing my old clothes at home, it doesn't make me feel my best but it's an old habit that needs to go!
Good idea! It’s funny you say this bc recently I’ve decided to invest in loungewear. It’s actually harder than I thought. I want to look & feel good & feminine while at home also, since this is where I spend most of my time. It’s fall so this is the perfect time to do it🍂🍁
YES!! I was just thinking the same!! And some looks to run errands in. I still want to look cute and feminine while dropping the kids off at school or going to the supermarket but not out of place or inappropriate attire
Ty so much for the upload- weight is really important. I used to be 40 lbs heavier and got attention from people who had nothing to offer me. Like I’ve said before throw out all clothes that are feminine or flattering or dressed up so u Always have to look ur best when going out. On a casual day for me it’s still a blouse skirt and heels bc I don’t own anything dressed down :)
I agree with this. I know that the “body positive” crowd don’t want to hear that, and they always talk about “confidence”, but the fact is that that men of a higher level may choose a plus-sized woman for a “smash and dash”, but they do NOT choose plus-sized women for long term relationships.
Hii Ziva, I'm mostly here on your channel for the femininity and fashion content ! I think it's so needed in these times where people tend to dress how they would at home when they're outside. So, I love this topic :). BTW this pink look is amazing for you!
I totally agree! I was people watching last week, and in the space of around 10 minutes, I saw so many relaxed outfits, all blending in, no personal style… it made me wonder why I used to do the same years ago 🫣🤣 Anyway thanks for watching lovely ☺️💕🤭
My gosh you are just too stunning!! 😍😍 and just as stunning on the inside. The ultimate feminine, you’re such an inspiration, thank you for all the golden advice you share in your videos.
Ziva, you look gorgeous as usual 😍 I love this content! My style (since I was 15 years old, now 32) has always been made fun of by certain "friends" because it's more classic than "cool/trendy urban" and I've always been made to feel like my style was too boring or too natural/safe and was the main reason as to why I wasn't attracting the "hip-hop" men! I've always attracted the opposite to that and I'm okay with that. Also, people need to remember that classic fashion NEVER goes out of style ❤
Great video! Love the sound of your voice, it's so soothing. I'd love some more storytime vids from you/how your personal dating is going at the moment. Love your channel!
Hey Ziva! Sending positive energy back.🥰 Thanks for the inspirational message, a lot of points really hit home. I've made soooo much progress but still on my journey . So helpful to listen to motivational truth bombs.
Thank you for the video and the shoutout it’s so appreciated! 🥺💖✨ngl I laughed when you said what’s my hair saying 😂 because I need to wash it and I’ve been thinking about how to style it ugh (always in a bun/doughnut) 🥲
Aww my pleasure covering this topic :) thanks for requesting it because it was a really great topic 🥰 It can be so easy to get lazy with hair. Maybe a good in between could be an Ariana grande type ponytail ? 💕✨
@@ZIVAZIVA you’re welcome it was a really good video :) it’s wash day today because I can’t delay it so far I’ve kept a good routine it’s just that with natural hair especially my type in it’s natural state it strings and can be hard to style… I’m thinking of blow drying my hair the next time I do it so going back to blowfly’s and styling it that way (also on a hair growth journey been on one for a while). Ponytails are always good I’ll be looking into more styles that suit me thanks for the suggestion!
Haha Do you mind giving the deets on your lashes? I love my Demi whispies, but I believe they may be too much for daytime. Any tips on a more natural, classic set that I can buy?
Demi whispies are cute, but I know what you mean about being a little too much during the day. Some places / areas are so conservative and lashes don’t fit in 😭 Below is the link to my current lashes that I’m wearing in this video. I’m using lash type AA (the whispiest one). These lashes come in small sections. I use the first lash section for the most inner part of the eye, and place it towards the end of my eye for a very casual eye look. Then add mascara, so it literally looks like my lashes with a subtle boost. For the look I’m wearing in this video, I’ve taken the first two inner sections of the lashes, and placed them on the middle and end parts of my eyes. This still looks natural but gives more of an ‘individual lash extensions look’. I hope this makes sense 🙈 www.amazon.co.uk/gp/aw/d/B0BWRBPT2Y?psc=1&ref=ppx_pop_mob_b_asin_image
Hello Ziva, kindly speak on Quality vrs Quantity. I have always being a person who settles for sub standard things because I want more and also because it is inexpensive, but I always end up throwing them out or not being happy about those things after awhile. Same and same I find myself still settling for things that cost me less.... Please help xoxo❤
Hey lovely, I can resonate with you on this. For me, quality means buying things that I know I will actually wear and use for a variety of reasons. For example, purchasing leather knee length platform boots - for me this is a quality purchase because the leather is durable for the colder seasons, the platform is practical because it stops the heel from hurting your feet, the length of the boot will go with practically every single winter outfit, it is within my feminine look that I’ve created. These are reasons for a purchase, because there are so many pros that come with it. I used to buy in quantity rather than quality, but I found myself never actually wearing 90% of my purchases. If you can think of at least 5 ways to wear or style something, be it clothing, a bag, jewellery, footwear etc, then it’s more likely that you’ll use it and it will then become a quality purchase by default. Another way to tell if a purchase is quality or quantity, is if you can’t stop thinking about it from the moment you see it. I hope this is helpful 💖✨🤍
This is an odd question but can someone chime in on how women who do gig work (door dash, Instacart, uber) should dress? I have done Instacart and I typically wear babydoll dresses with keds and I feel cute and feminine but I see most women who do Instacart wearing Crocs and jogging pants.
It’s time to cover up with a coat / jacket now, but underneath wear a simple and easy dress to move around in. Maybe even a denim mini skirt with a turtle neck top etc… you could wear a trench for the current weather … I think it’s best to have hair and light glam makeup on, but more casual but blatantly girly outfits
@@ZIVAZIVA yes ma'am I deliver to the top 5%. I'm currently in West Palm Beach, but will be moving further South in a month. I rarely have customers who are single, but their neighbors might be 😌. I do this as a way to network with the upper class without it being obvious that I am networking. I use insta to create a network and it also grants me access to the gated communities that I typically would not have access to. Luckily it doesn't get cold down here, so I can continue to show a little leg in an unassuming way 😂
If you’re only doing it to network, I wouldn’t really suggest it. I think it’s better to hang out in the places that they hang out in and really make a first impression, as opposed to delivering them food. If it’s your job, then fine, but if you just want to meet these men then do one of the challenges I did on my channel 💕
Ziva, it would be really helpful if you make a video on how to look good and feminine at home! Tips on clothes , hair, scent and other stuff 💅 I'm trying to stop wearing my old clothes at home, it doesn't make me feel my best but it's an old habit that needs to go!
Good idea! It’s funny you say this bc recently I’ve decided to invest in loungewear. It’s actually harder than I thought. I want to look & feel good & feminine while at home also, since this is where I spend most of my time. It’s fall so this is the perfect time to do it🍂🍁
YES!! I was just thinking the same!! And some looks to run errands in. I still want to look cute and feminine while dropping the kids off at school or going to the supermarket but not out of place or inappropriate attire
That’s a great idea. This is something I’ve been getting into lately and planning about also. Will add to video list 🥰🥰😘
When I go out to the nice areas, I always think “ would a classy, feminine & well provided for housewife go for this look?”
I also think that’s the right mentality to have 🙃💝
Sending positive energy to all of you ♥
Ty so much for the upload- weight is really important. I used to be 40 lbs heavier and got attention from people who had nothing to offer me. Like I’ve said before throw out all clothes that are feminine or flattering or dressed up so u Always have to look ur best when going out. On a casual day for me it’s still a blouse skirt and heels bc I don’t own anything dressed down :)
I love this 👏🥰 I totally relate, and agree that you shouldn’t own any clothing pieces that don’t resonate with your ‘new look’ 😘✨💕
I agree with this. I know that the “body positive” crowd don’t want to hear that, and they always talk about “confidence”, but the fact is that that men of a higher level may choose a plus-sized woman for a “smash and dash”, but they do NOT choose plus-sized women for long term relationships.
Always show up for yourself ladies , you never know who your inspiring 🫶🏾
👏👏👏👏👏
I avoid jeans altogether now. They look horrible on me and I don't feel feminine in them. I am petite and curvy.
I resonate with everything you just said 🤭💝🙃
Amal Clooney has great style that is classy and feminine. Or she has a great stylist :)
Duly noted 🙏
Hii Ziva, I'm mostly here on your channel for the femininity and fashion content ! I think it's so needed in these times where people tend to dress how they would at home when they're outside. So, I love this topic :). BTW this pink look is amazing for you!
I totally agree! I was people watching last week, and in the space of around 10 minutes, I saw so many relaxed outfits, all blending in, no personal style… it made me wonder why I used to do the same years ago 🫣🤣 Anyway thanks for watching lovely ☺️💕🤭
My gosh you are just too stunning!! 😍😍 and just as stunning on the inside. The ultimate feminine, you’re such an inspiration, thank you for all the golden advice you share in your videos.
I really appreciate this 🥹 thank you for such a sweet comment ♥️🥰
It’s the truth! 💯♥️♥️
Love this week's release and the great pointers! :)
Yay! Glad to hear it 🫶🥰🙃✨ Thanks for watching
This hair looks gorgeous on you! My favourite look on you ❤
The same with your hair in the video “Dating advice for women” from 7 days ago. Love love love your hair!
Waves, volume, face framing layers and 90’s hair is definitely the best look on you so far!
Really sweet of you to say 🥰🥰 thank you… I’ve been playing about with different looks, it seems like it’s paying off hehe 🤍
Ziva, you look gorgeous as usual 😍 I love this content! My style (since I was 15 years old, now 32) has always been made fun of by certain "friends" because it's more classic than "cool/trendy urban" and I've always been made to feel like my style was too boring or too natural/safe and was the main reason as to why I wasn't attracting the "hip-hop" men! I've always attracted the opposite to that and I'm okay with that. Also, people need to remember that classic fashion NEVER goes out of style ❤
Aw thank you Sasha 🫶🥹 See, proof that you have always had it figured out 🙏👏🤭 totally agree with you about classic style!
You’re so stunning! I’m
So happy you’re back♥️
Aw 🙃 thank you Melissa! I’m glad to be back too 🫶✨
Great video! Love the sound of your voice, it's so soothing. I'd love some more storytime vids from you/how your personal dating is going at the moment. Love your channel!
Love that it’s soothing for you 🤭💞 Great idea! I’ll add to my video list x
You are glowing love 💕 pink on you 😊😊
Thank you x2!! 🤭☺️🥰🥹
Hey Ziva! Sending positive energy back.🥰
Thanks for the inspirational message, a lot of points really hit home. I've made soooo much progress but still on my journey . So helpful to listen to motivational truth bombs.
Aww thank you 🥰💕 I’m happy to hear you’re making progress ♥️ This sounds very optimistic! Thanks for watching x
Thanks Ziva ❤Stay feminine always.
Love your hair. I am petite like you 😊 5”2 here
💕💐😊
Always feminine hehe👏🙏 Yay a fellow petite girly 🤭♥️💕✨
Came to comment how much I miss you 🤍 Super busy with exams but I can’t wait to go on vacation and binge on your videos.
Good luck with your exams girl💝 you e got this!!!
My Beaty tip is always looking at what the skinny white girls living well are wearing lol
You look gorgeous! Love the pink . 🩷
Thank youuuuu 🤍🫶🥹✨
I also love this color on you beautiful 😍😍 where is your outfit from?
Thank you hun 💕 My top was bought last year from New Look. I’m sure Karen Millen will have something exactly the same all year round though x
Thank you sweetie I’ll definitely have a look 😘😘
Amazing intel for us sugar daddies! Love your content Ziva!
🤣🤣🤣 glad it’s helpful for everybody then I guess
Thank you for the video and the shoutout it’s so appreciated! 🥺💖✨ngl I laughed when you said what’s my hair saying 😂 because I need to wash it and I’ve been thinking about how to style it ugh (always in a bun/doughnut) 🥲
Aww my pleasure covering this topic :) thanks for requesting it because it was a really great topic 🥰 It can be so easy to get lazy with hair. Maybe a good in between could be an Ariana grande type ponytail ? 💕✨
@@ZIVAZIVA you’re welcome it was a really good video :) it’s wash day today because I can’t delay it so far I’ve kept a good routine it’s just that with natural hair especially my type in it’s natural state it strings and can be hard to style… I’m thinking of blow drying my hair the next time I do it so going back to blowfly’s and styling it that way (also on a hair growth journey been on one for a while). Ponytails are always good I’ll be looking into more styles that suit me thanks for the suggestion!
I was looking for you all day yesterday. I’m like what day is it in London bc Ziva hasn’t posted a video yet lol
Awww 🫶 every Wednesday and Fridays are upload days now :)) I did post a little later than the usual time though 😯 Oopsie! 😘😘
Haha Do you mind giving the deets on your lashes? I love my Demi whispies, but I believe they may be too much for daytime. Any tips on a more natural, classic set that I can buy?
Demi whispies are cute, but I know what you mean about being a little too much during the day. Some places / areas are so conservative and lashes don’t fit in 😭
Below is the link to my current lashes that I’m wearing in this video. I’m using lash type AA (the whispiest one). These lashes come in small sections. I use the first lash section for the most inner part of the eye, and place it towards the end of my eye for a very casual eye look. Then add mascara, so it literally looks like my lashes with a subtle boost.
For the look I’m wearing in this video, I’ve taken the first two inner sections of the lashes, and placed them on the middle and end parts of my eyes. This still looks natural but gives more of an ‘individual lash extensions look’.
I hope this makes sense 🙈
www.amazon.co.uk/gp/aw/d/B0BWRBPT2Y?psc=1&ref=ppx_pop_mob_b_asin_image
I wish there was more woman like you
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Isn’t it crazy how you lose friends after leveling up. That was really shocking for me.
It’s so weird that others don’t choose to do it with you, but prefer to stay where they are 🤯 bizarre!
loved this video!!❤❤
Yay! I’m glad to hear it hun
I love u ziva ❤️.in Swahili we say nakupenda
Nakupenda too 🫶☺️ Thanks for teaching me my first phrase in Swahili 🤭✨🥰
❤️
Ziva pls don’t kick me out even though we don’t like the same type of man - we agree on at least 70%🥺
🤣🤣🤣 Don’t worry, you’re always welcome here 🥰♥️😘
Hello Ziva, kindly speak on Quality vrs Quantity. I have always being a person who settles for sub standard things because I want more and also because it is inexpensive, but I always end up throwing them out or not being happy about those things after awhile.
Same and same I find myself still settling for things that cost me less.... Please help xoxo❤
Hey lovely, I can resonate with you on this. For me, quality means buying things that I know I will actually wear and use for a variety of reasons. For example, purchasing leather knee length platform boots - for me this is a quality purchase because the leather is durable for the colder seasons, the platform is practical because it stops the heel from hurting your feet, the length of the boot will go with practically every single winter outfit, it is within my feminine look that I’ve created.
These are reasons for a purchase, because there are so many pros that come with it.
I used to buy in quantity rather than quality, but I found myself never actually wearing 90% of my purchases. If you can think of at least 5 ways to wear or style something, be it clothing, a bag, jewellery, footwear etc, then it’s more likely that you’ll use it and it will then become a quality purchase by default.
Another way to tell if a purchase is quality or quantity, is if you can’t stop thinking about it from the moment you see it.
I hope this is helpful 💖✨🤍
@@ZIVAZIVA so helpful Ziva, kindly do a video whenever you get the time to.. Xoxo
Thank you for the video. 💙
You are so welcome! I loveee doing these types of topics so it’s my hobby really 🤭 Thanks for watching Queen ☺️💕✨
This is an odd question but can someone chime in on how women who do gig work (door dash, Instacart, uber) should dress? I have done Instacart and I typically wear babydoll dresses with keds and I feel cute and feminine but I see most women who do Instacart wearing Crocs and jogging pants.
You better look cute and deliver in the most expensive postcodes 🙃 hehe
It’s time to cover up with a coat / jacket now, but underneath wear a simple and easy dress to move around in. Maybe even a denim mini skirt with a turtle neck top etc… you could wear a trench for the current weather … I think it’s best to have hair and light glam makeup on, but more casual but blatantly girly outfits
@@ZIVAZIVA yes ma'am I deliver to the top 5%. I'm currently in West Palm Beach, but will be moving further South in a month. I rarely have customers who are single, but their neighbors might be 😌. I do this as a way to network with the upper class without it being obvious that I am networking. I use insta to create a network and it also grants me access to the gated communities that I typically would not have access to. Luckily it doesn't get cold down here, so I can continue to show a little leg in an unassuming way 😂
If you’re only doing it to network, I wouldn’t really suggest it. I think it’s better to hang out in the places that they hang out in and really make a first impression, as opposed to delivering them food.
If it’s your job, then fine, but if you just want to meet these men then do one of the challenges I did on my channel 💕
❤❤❤we love to see it
Thank you girl ♥️❤️♥️🥹🥹🥹