I'm literally like not stable enough to "actively" date, I'll just make guy friends here and there. That's it. Cause if I don't trust him yet I can't date him...
For me, I’m not dating because I have leveling up to do for myself. The type of man I want.. I also have to be the woman to attract that. So that includes upgrading my money, looks, and feminine aura. On the downside of waiting.. I just know my patience with men is going to be at a -0. Any flag I’m out 😂 great video Ziva, you look bomb!!
I’m in the same boat as you, there are still things I need to do for myself to attract those high quality men, however, whenever I’m in the city, I’m making sure that I’m looking my best and I’m observing which hotels, restaurants and bars these men like to go to as a way of dipping my feet in and taking the first steps to becoming the woman I want to become
Good for you taking the time out to work on yourself and your current priorities. Try not to take too long of a break though - it can be a lot more difficult getting back into the swing of things after not doing something for a long time ❣️
I wish if you could video yourself on a first date talking to your date just so that we see how to apply all the good tips you share with us. Thank you
Ziva I must say you look so good this hair style (waves/curls) really does suit you! Alongside the side pieces and ponytail you had in your other video! Great tips as of now I’m focusing on myself not dating but I still like to watch your videos 🙏🏾💖
Oh my gosh Ziva, this came at such a right time for me. Thank you for embodying such feminity and teaching us ladies the path to being our highest selves 🙌🌸
I’m starting to think food dates are not for me . I’m not getting second dates and when on a date I feel like I’m interviewing or being interviewed. I need something more active ! I don’t want to lead the conversation or say too much but lately men keep trying to invite me to their house and I don’t even give off those vibess🙄 not to mention having to reach out first when I tell you .. I’m getting exhausted whew chile
I’ll be honest, it sounds like you could possibly be doing something innocuously, making men not ask for a second date or trying to get you into bed very quickly. If your clothing looks elegant, classy yet an element of sexiness to it, and your heels are classy, maybe it’s not your dress sense. If I were you I would really evaluate what I’m doing, saying, how I come across etc. Alternatively, you could simply be dating men who are/think they are out of your league, too young etc. My thing is, if you’re doing something active and he is spending, then great!
I think I may need to give it a break .. I do suck at eye contact but I also could be out of their league these men also be having a lot going on too. I love that you said we are the choosers but Its giving me dating fatigue... I'll pop back out come spring
The same way Beyoncé channels Sasha Fierce when she’s performing, is how you could do your own channelling for dates. The persona you channel isn’t afraid to make eye contact etc 😍 I don’t think you should stop dating when you’re coming off a low; that could make it more daunting for you later on. Ultimately it’s up to you x
A man inviting you to their house is useless just ignore and block right away. Its disgusting cheap F boy mentality. They don't respect women or themselves. It's not you!
Hi Ziva- Lots of venues in London are busy and loud. How do you keep your voice control in such environments when the men cannot hear you even when they get super close to you?
Just speak in his ear or try to get a table where you’re side by side instead of opposite one another 💕✨ Make sure making your feminine voice control doesn’t mean you’re whispering, just making it sound how you want it to be x
Random question for all: If you met a man who was ideal, he wanted to be a father, but didn't want the children to biologically be his. Either,, fertility ices. Gene he doesn't want to pass on or he simply didn't want to pass on his blood-line. However, he'd be happy to father your child if via IVF or the conventional way in a one-off night with other guy......would you consider it?
Exactly! And unless you were married he would not have parental responsibility (so not entitled to give over any 💰) so you would leave yourself vulnerable to abandonment.
Hi Ziva can you please make a video about being feminine internally. I think energy is super important as although I am very attractive and feminine from the outside, internally I have a deep disgust towards men I find them liars, cheaters, stupid flakes etc so my hardness may come across on dates especially if they start asking me nosy questions which may make me defensive. Please help x
It’s a full wig (regular with tracks, not lace front), that I’ve pushed back a little behind my hairline; taken my hair left out in the front and some of the front fringe of the wig to make a flat quiff, held down with two bobby pins ❤️♥️❤️
Wealthy men can have who they want and can date more than one. You have to accept that your place in the relationship is very conditional - you are out or blanked as soon as he is bored of you.
You did amazing talking from the top of your head and I loved when you threw the notebook lol! Ziva, serious question for you out of curiosity. I guess two. Do you feel a change in men's behavior overall since after the pandemic? And do you get bored of dating a man long term? I have my owns thoughs on this, but would love to hear what you think!!
Aww haha I’m glad you liked the video hun. I personally haven’t noticed much of a change in men since after the pandemic, other than some mentioning that they want to enjoy life more and have balance in life. I definitely get bored dating long term, I’m finding that nothing impresses me very much, and I find that men are actually quite predictable. That said, I’ve had some great relationships / long term dating experiences 💕✨
LOL girl same! I be so ready for the next one who's not that familiar. But it's good to have someone dependable on the list. I kind of feel like men are more timid these days, overall, but just my personal observation. Thank you for sharing!
I’m not sure of the name of all of them I’ve been to… just google singles events and see what pops up, then look through the search results and see what appeals to you i.e does the event cater to the age range you like, what area is it in, what is the price - premium or laid back event, what are the reviews like… This, in my opinion, is the best way to find events that you will like 💕✨
You never give up ❤️ I used to only attract the attention of wasters and losers. When I began elevating my appearance, I noticed I was getting the attention of higher calibre men. So don’t give up, instead make a realistic list of positive and uplifting changes you can make to your look, then start to implement those changes x
Do anything you can to make your hair look elegant, healthy and full and your teeth look white and Health. Also your skin should look soft and clean. It’s good when your clothes are not too tight and not too lose either. Go for natural fibers and expensive looking fabrics. Polyester can be ok but often looks cheap or tacky. That’s more important than looking like a model
I am slim with a great smile, clear skin, and although I am told I’m attractive I know I’m not conventionally attractive which I’m ok with. I have nice sized breasts but I have a rectangular shape so I don’t feel sexy….I rarely get approached in person, only online.
Wrong. As a man, I’ll tell you what beneficial dating is. Beneficial dating is showing how you can benefit a man and a man showing how he can benefit that woman, Both. You’re there to find out to see if there’s a potential for a relationship, which is about the other person not you. You’re now a unit with the other person. In selfless harmony and not for selfish gain ..
As a man beneficial dating means a woman who sleeps with you at your beck and call, never outshines you, looks better than Beyoncé and doesn’t ask anything of you but to do whatever you want. 🫣
@@ZIVAZIVA so a slave? na, that’d be to boring. I at least want her opinion. what her thoughts were about the movie we just saw together, her views on life, surprise me with your breakfast choice this morning, vacation ideas, etc. I don’t want a cold robot. you modern women are delusional about what men want. which is why we stay away. no man wants to wake up to crazy every day. we prefer peace. and either you or our solitude will give us that. men are done with quarrelsome females in their lives. it’s over. sorry.
It’s a full wig (regular with tracks, not lace front), that I’ve pushed back a little behind my hairline; taken my hair left out in the front and some of the front fringe of the wig to make a flat quiff, held down with two bobby pins… I hope this is clear 🙏💕✨
It’s so nice to see you again ❤️thank you for this video. My current bf is giving me a hard time lol saying I can’t find anyone better than him 🥲 this video really motivated me ❤️
😩 I'm over these men. I'm working on my stability. I want to be secure on my own and then I might look for someone who is worth dating.
Totally fair enough, but don’t stop dating for too long xx
Girl these men been over these women thinking they supposed to except less. It’s not always a man fault. Women be lame too
Same here
Same
I'm literally like not stable enough to "actively" date, I'll just make guy friends here and there. That's it. Cause if I don't trust him yet I can't date him...
For me, I’m not dating because I have leveling up to do for myself. The type of man I want.. I also have to be the woman to attract that. So that includes upgrading my money, looks, and feminine aura. On the downside of waiting.. I just know my patience with men is going to be at a -0. Any flag I’m out 😂 great video Ziva, you look bomb!!
I’m in the same boat as you, there are still things I need to do for myself to attract those high quality men, however, whenever I’m in the city, I’m making sure that I’m looking my best and I’m observing which hotels, restaurants and bars these men like to go to as a way of dipping my feet in and taking the first steps to becoming the woman I want to become
Good for you taking the time out to work on yourself and your current priorities. Try not to take too long of a break though - it can be a lot more difficult getting back into the swing of things after not doing something for a long time ❣️
Thank you all for watching 💝 See you on Friday at 6pm GMT
I wish if you could video yourself on a first date talking to your date just so that we see how to apply all the good tips you share with us. Thank you
Omg you’re right ! 🙃☺️
If you are looking scrumptious! 😂 Love you Ziva!
Hehe 🤭🙈
Ziva I must say you look so good this hair style (waves/curls) really does suit you! Alongside the side pieces and ponytail you had in your other video! Great tips as of now I’m focusing on myself not dating but I still like to watch your videos 🙏🏾💖
Oh thank you! And I appreciate you watching even on a dating break 💕 sometimes they are needed while you work on yourself 💝
Oh my gosh Ziva, this came at such a right time for me. Thank you for embodying such feminity and teaching us ladies the path to being our highest selves 🙌🌸
Glad it was helpful and that the timing was right 🥹 yay ✨💕💝
Thank you the tips and I love this look on you.🥰
Aww my pleasure 🥰 & thank youuuuu... I think I might style my hair like this for my date on Friday...hmmm
@@ZIVAZIVAyessss do it!
Lets talk about it 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Hi Ziva .. welcome back!
Hehe exactly!! 🙏❤️❤️❤️
I’m starting to think food dates are not for me . I’m not getting second dates and when on a date I feel like I’m interviewing or being interviewed.
I need something more active ! I don’t want to lead the conversation or say too much but lately men keep trying to invite me to their house and I don’t even give off those vibess🙄 not to mention having to reach out first when I tell you .. I’m getting exhausted whew chile
I’ll be honest, it sounds like you could possibly be doing something innocuously, making men not ask for a second date or trying to get you into bed very quickly. If your clothing looks elegant, classy yet an element of sexiness to it, and your heels are classy, maybe it’s not your dress sense. If I were you I would really evaluate what I’m doing, saying, how I come across etc. Alternatively, you could simply be dating men who are/think they are out of your league, too young etc. My thing is, if you’re doing something active and he is spending, then great!
I think I may need to give it a break .. I do suck at eye contact but I also could be out of their league these men also be having a lot going on too. I love that you said we are the choosers but Its giving me dating fatigue... I'll pop back out come spring
The same way Beyoncé channels Sasha Fierce when she’s performing, is how you could do your own channelling for dates. The persona you channel isn’t afraid to make eye contact etc 😍 I don’t think you should stop dating when you’re coming off a low; that could make it more daunting for you later on. Ultimately it’s up to you x
Thanks Ziva 🫶🏾
A man inviting you to their house is useless just ignore and block right away. Its disgusting cheap F boy mentality. They don't respect women or themselves. It's not you!
I’m over these men out here they don’t even want to do the bare minimum but be wanting the most total waste of time 🙄
Right 👏👏
What's an example of a bare minimum thing men refuse to do?
@@Leukick If you seen the men shes dealing with that will tell the whole story lol it always does.
Love this so much! Always wonderful to see you and your interesting videos each week.
Really appreciate you for tuning in and for this lovely comment ♥️✨🥰❤️💕🙏☺️
Hi Ziva- Lots of venues in London are busy and loud. How do you keep your voice control in such environments when the men cannot hear you even when they get super close to you?
Just speak in his ear or try to get a table where you’re side by side instead of opposite one another 💕✨ Make sure making your feminine voice control doesn’t mean you’re whispering, just making it sound how you want it to be x
Random question for all: If you met a man who was ideal, he wanted to be a father, but didn't want the children to biologically be his. Either,, fertility ices. Gene he doesn't want to pass on or he simply didn't want to pass on his blood-line. However, he'd be happy to father your child if via IVF or the conventional way in a one-off night with other guy......would you consider it?
It seems weird, unless he can’t have children for medical reasons. Otherwise it seems no different from the weirdos who sniff out single mothers.
Exactly! And unless you were married he would not have parental responsibility (so not entitled to give over any 💰) so you would leave yourself vulnerable to abandonment.
Hi Ziva can you please make a video about being feminine internally. I think energy is super important as although I am very attractive and feminine from the outside, internally I have a deep disgust towards men I find them liars, cheaters, stupid flakes etc so my hardness may come across on dates especially if they start asking me nosy questions which may make me defensive. Please help x
This is a great request 💕 I have taken a screenshot and added it to my video to-do list xx
Could you do more physical improvement videos, I find that this is something I’m wanting to work on just for myself
This is something I will definitely touch more on ❤️
You are looking great Ziva and thanks for all the tips!
Aw thank you Sally 💝💞 Appreciate you!
Thanks Ziva ❤
Hey honey, thanks for watching 💝
we need deets on how you style your hair please 🥺🙏🏽
It’s a full wig (regular with tracks, not lace front), that I’ve pushed back a little behind my hairline; taken my hair left out in the front and some of the front fringe of the wig to make a flat quiff, held down with two bobby pins ❤️♥️❤️
Thank you so much for this video ❤❤
Thank you for watching angel 🤍✨🥰
That dress is absolutely sensual and screams soft feminine 🎉❤
Thanks girl 🤍
Wealthy men can have who they want and can date more than one. You have to accept that your place in the relationship is very conditional - you are out or blanked as soon as he is bored of you.
All men can have more than one. I thought we all knew that by now
You did amazing talking from the top of your head and I loved when you threw the notebook lol! Ziva, serious question for you out of curiosity. I guess two.
Do you feel a change in men's behavior overall since after the pandemic? And do you get bored of dating a man long term?
I have my owns thoughs on this, but would love to hear what you think!!
Aww haha I’m glad you liked the video hun.
I personally haven’t noticed much of a change in men since after the pandemic, other than some mentioning that they want to enjoy life more and have balance in life.
I definitely get bored dating long term, I’m finding that nothing impresses me very much, and I find that men are actually quite predictable. That said, I’ve had some great relationships / long term dating experiences 💕✨
LOL girl same! I be so ready for the next one who's not that familiar. But it's good to have someone dependable on the list.
I kind of feel like men are more timid these days, overall, but just my personal observation. Thank you for sharing!
can you please share the site links of the dating events? I am interested in the premium event please
I’m not sure of the name of all of them I’ve been to… just google singles events and see what pops up, then look through the search results and see what appeals to you i.e does the event cater to the age range you like, what area is it in, what is the price - premium or laid back event, what are the reviews like… This, in my opinion, is the best way to find events that you will like 💕✨
What if you don’t have the “look” they want? Do you just give up?
You never give up ❤️ I used to only attract the attention of wasters and losers. When I began elevating my appearance, I noticed I was getting the attention of higher calibre men. So don’t give up, instead make a realistic list of positive and uplifting changes you can make to your look, then start to implement those changes x
Work on leveling up your look. Start small and build up.
Do anything you can to make your hair look elegant, healthy and full and your teeth look white and Health. Also your skin should look soft and clean.
It’s good when your clothes are not too tight and not too lose either. Go for natural fibers and expensive looking fabrics. Polyester can be ok but often looks cheap or tacky.
That’s more important than looking like a model
I am slim with a great smile, clear skin, and although I am told I’m attractive I know I’m not conventionally attractive which I’m ok with. I have nice sized breasts but I have a rectangular shape so I don’t feel sexy….I rarely get approached in person, only online.
Wrong. As a man, I’ll tell you what beneficial dating is. Beneficial dating is showing how you can benefit a man and a man showing how he can benefit that woman, Both. You’re there to find out to see if there’s a potential for a relationship, which is about the other person not you. You’re now a unit with the other person. In selfless harmony and not for selfish gain ..
As a man beneficial dating means a woman who sleeps with you at your beck and call, never outshines you, looks better than Beyoncé and doesn’t ask anything of you but to do whatever you want. 🫣
@@ZIVAZIVA so a slave? na, that’d be to boring. I at least want her opinion. what her thoughts were about the movie we just saw together, her views on life, surprise me with your breakfast choice this morning, vacation ideas, etc. I don’t want a cold robot. you modern women are delusional about what men want. which is why we stay away. no man wants to wake up to crazy every day. we prefer peace. and either you or our solitude will give us that. men are done with quarrelsome females in their lives. it’s over. sorry.
Ur so beautiful I love u alot ziva ❣️
Thank you Gloria! Love you too girl 🥰
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Could you do a video on your hairstyle?
It’s a full wig (regular with tracks, not lace front), that I’ve pushed back a little behind my hairline; taken my hair left out in the front and some of the front fringe of the wig to make a flat quiff, held down with two bobby pins… I hope this is clear 🙏💕✨
@@ZIVAZIVA it is. Thankyou!
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Heyyy ❣❣
You look so beautiful ❤❤❤
Thank you sm ✨🥰💝💕
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Really appreciate your 💛💛💛 on recent videos ❤️
I’m dating a man who dosent have his own car
It’s so nice to see you again ❤️thank you for this video. My current bf is giving me a hard time lol saying I can’t find anyone better than him 🥲 this video really motivated me ❤️