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"I'm a medical asistant"
"I'm in business development"
"I'M JADEN AND I'M 15 YEARS OLD"
lolololol
"i like turtles"
Big fan of the channel usually but I think this just a little far.
True
@@therealad4342 why
i like how they picked an awkward teenage boy for this topic
I don't blame him for not knowing, he's young and a little ignorant still but some of his questions bugged me 🥲 He was nice though.
@@inkeriananas why would his questions bug you? He's in a stage where he isn't expected to know these things. I think all his questions were fine since he's getting educated answers thus there's no problem with questioning things you don't understand
@@EnzoPepsiCola Probably should've explained what I meant better. It's more the lack of sex ed and the stigma around abortions that bug me, not the boy. So things like "1 or 2 abortions is okay but more means you're not being responsible, people who have abortions don't have kids or don't like kids and people who like kids don't have as many abortions."
I hope nobody takes this the wrong way though, he seems like a good kid and like I said he's young and inexperienced with the matter. I'm glad he got the chance to talk about it and hopefully learn something. So what I meant with my original comment is just that I felt a sting listening to some of the discussion. It's a touchy subject for me personally. That's it.
Something about this channel works with awkward people. ;p
DONT talk smack about my boy jaden he carried the episode
Jaden is the most 15 year old 15 year old I've ever seen
i have friends who are just like him and they’re such a breath of fresh air
Honestly
naive and awkward. lol very fitting
i’m 14 and i’m more mature than he is
@@anastasiiasergienko3529 everyone thinks that then they grow up and realize how stupid they were
That 15 year old is BRAVE. It takes a lot to have the maturity to handle that conversation with a group of women
...he seems like a dude that would be a good friend in school to literally anyone.... that's a good boii!
group of people* :) its important to include non binary and trans folks in the conversation about these topics and this group with the nb guest :)
@@floatyseathing yasss!
@@JohnDoe-rg4tl sure
Raised by women for sure
"Alright, you ready to do this thing?"
"That's what she said"
LMFAO THIS KID
@@AxxLAfriku ???
@@AxxLAfriku ???
@@AxxLAfriku yeah I think the teen kid is funny as well.........bro literally why do you make these comments.
@Alan no...
@@AxxLAfriku ???
*Nina taking full circles to show her baby bump*
"What's your first impression?"
Jaden: "Yeah, giant earrings!"
that was so funny lol I think he saw it but didn't want to mention anything in case she actually wasn't pregnant
He is so well raised he didnt want to offend her in case she wasn't... Im impressed with this kid
when i was in 9th grade, my English teacher looked pregnant but i didnt want to assume so i never said anything. She then told us and she was like “i’m surprised nobody asked; maybe yall just thought i was getting fat here” 😭
I mean to be fair shes got a full chest and was wearing black and a jacket couldve genuinely missed it
Jaden knew that was a trick question
“No canceling, it’s just a learning process” SUCH an important statement 💕
@@wrong_planet I mean not only are you just wrong, that's not even what the comment is referring to. Maybe rewatch the video
@@kylovesart You think killing your child IS a learning process?
@@wrong_planet no. I think you are not properly comprehending the quote. Here's the timestamp- 7:00 At no point was abortion called a learning process.
@@kylovesart No, I know that, but you said I was wrong about abortion not being a learning process. Do you believe it is?
@@wrong_planet ohhh. I understand now. My mistake for not being clear in my original comment. Sorry.
No. I don't think it's a learning process. I was referring to your anti-abortion stance and inflammatory use of "killing babies" to make a point.
The way that woman reassured Nina that it wasn’t weird to say goodbye or see the fetus 🥺❤️ I’m crying
Yeah that warmed my heart too. I buried mine (an embryo) in the woods after holding onto it for a few days. I'm so glad I did that and didn't just flush it down the toilet like I was told to.
Literally same :( hugs all around XX
@@marcusdion4585 she doesn’t owe it shit
@@timi5281 She owe's her soul to Satan
@@andrewbingham3304 whine elsewhere nobody cares
The moment that women made the other woman’s choice to say goodbye, to see her unborn child, feel valid? Yup. I cried. This video is so very important.
100%. Cried right there too 💗
No tears but I’m glad it happened for her and anyone else that needed to hear it.
Me too! I burst into tears haha
Bawled like a baby in the middle of work. I needed to hear that.
I dont know why it would be seen as weird especially if she seemed to plan to keep it otherwise. A lot of women already have some emotional attachment when they find out so to have to make that decision when you planned otherwise? I'd want the closure too. Heck yeah to validating her desire to say good bye and to anyone who gets told its weird or anything else, its time to get rid of that person too
for everyone asking why a 15 year old is there:
because minors can get pregnant. so yes their opinions matter. if anything their opinions matter more because (as kids themselves) they're the one of the least equipped to take care of kids
Yeah but I don't really understand why they brought a young male teenager? To get a young opposite gender's view on things or assumptions I guess?
@@hinamatsuro1908 Because young male teenagers are taught NOTHING about abortion, abortion rights, or positive takes on reproductive rights. I'm sure Cut knows their audience and pays close attention to their analytics and as an adult man now, I wish there were more conversations like this that could both demystify and de-stigma things like abortion when I was a teenager. I (and I'm sure many other) men can see themselves in a kid like Jaden and I think that's imperative to the conversation.
@@kamari1630 woah true
@@hinamatsuro1908 lack of education to boys is why the old men with power now think they have a right to control what women do with their body
@@kamari1630 Agree
I like how Jaden was not assuming that Nina is pregnant to be polite.
And she was rude in return
I think he genuinely didn't notice. 15yr old boys aren't the most observant people
Not really
@@nomnomnommy2955 Not really its just the truth most kids and dudes don't notice
@@nomnomnommy2955 if you say so
I thought the young one would say stupid statements, but he's nice and respectful. I liked seeing how he understands abortion and how this lineup changed his mind about a few things
Abortion is murder
@@britishmgtow7251 You didn’t watch the video then. One woman had a DNCIS and someone else had high risk pregnancies.
@@britishmgtow7251 boohoo.
@@xwrtk
I never watched the video, correct
Abortion is murder
Still stands true
@@jordey8867
Bell end
I love Jaden. He was so lovely and respectful, did his best to understand all of them.
He was very funny! Also, seemed interested in hearing stories and learning from them. Please, bring him back.
I felt such a sense of lovingness when he was chilling with the matriarchy
He was and wasn't, The way he spoke about abortions was in a very negative tone and very ignorant. He said multiple times that only people that don't like kids get abortions and while that statement is true its also not the only case because a lot of abortions happen because they dont feel as they are in the proper environment to raise a child Ex. the one lady that said they were experiencing houselessness when they got pregnant.
@@austinengland1107 you're right, but he's a kid and he even admitted at the end of video he changed his opinion.
@@austinengland1107 Well, he was sharing that that was his impression. He also said at the end that he learned that that wasn’t true.
I like this guy jadon, he is a man of integrity.
Exactly man, his conciousness is there in his very personal way u know. I think its cool
He used they pronouns for the first one🥺
Woke king Jadon
he looks like his iq is below room temp
@@JohnDoe-rg4tl I don't know when appearance started to determine intelligence. Regardless, he was respectful, kind, and willing to learn, so he was perfect for the video.
YES! let’s teach young men about periods, abortions, birth control, infertility! This isn’t a burden that should be held only by those who have uteruses
It's 100% a womans responsibility
@@LordBattleSmurf yes but it’s an open conversation
@@LordBattleSmurf not birth control and infertility….
@@LordBattleSmurf men can take birth control too, no one ever talks about it because men would rather have women go through the shitty symptoms instead of them
@@LordBattleSmurf and men should still educate themselves on the topic, soo…
"no cancelling its just a learning process"
world peace energy
@@mrsmileyfrance4038 I ain't reading all that
I would like your comment but dont wanna ruin the like numbers 😂
@@yuna-kk7to 😂 aye we always appreciate a man of culture
Hey y’all! So I’m the individual with the scorpion on my throat in this video. I wanted to add something b/c unfortunately SO MUCH was cut from this video. First and foremost, not everyone feels grief or trauma from abortions. A lot of folks feel joy and relief and that’s just as important to talk about. Personally my first one was great, such a breeze. My second however was extremely painful. I’m very much Pro Choice & regret nothing & would do it all over again 🖤 don’t let anyone shame you for you choices y’all 🙌🏽
Thank you for sharing your story with us! Really enjoyed listening to you
You’re so welcome, it was a great experience and I’m glad some folks found this so helpful to see.
I've never had an abortion and have always been pro choice. I do have a child. I had her when I was in my late 20s. After having her I got on birth control and never had to worry. However, if I got pregnant I would welcome that baby. I would get my tubes tied after that tho lol
I don't believe you don't regret murdering your children. I think you're just trying to avoid the guilt of what you've done.
@@wrong_planet sure. W/e helps you sleep at night love 🤷🏽♀️ thankfully I don’t have to pretend to care abt what you think 🥰
I want the people who don’t believe abortions should be allowed to hear Nina’s story, because even though she wanted the child she was bearing she couldn’t continue the pregnancy due to her miscarrying badly. Because sure she originally wanted that child, but without the option for an abortion she would have had to continue to go through an awful experience and nobody deserves that. Nobody deserves to be criticised for their decision to do what they want to their body and their future.
And what about the person that had 4 abortion, you don’t want people to hear her story?
I think it wasn't really an abortion it was just a regular miscarriage. I don't know why they called it an surgical abortion
@@fhiyos_2611 she did have a DNC so it was an abortion, which helped with the miscarriage
@@mof5490 of course. I want all their stories to be heard, but she had to make a choice to abort a child she originally wanted
@tynde describing abortion as killing a baby is so factually incorrect it's ridiculous. Half of the women up there described their abortion as simply taking a pill. I have family members who were in prison with people that ACTUAL killed babies. I mean like chopped them up and fed them to their husbands or put a living baby in a microwave killing. That is no way even in the same lane as abortion. Please educate yourself because this misinformation around abortion leads to real deadly consequences for women walking this earth right now
"No cancelling, it's just a learning process." YESSSS
Time stamp?
@@mrsmileyfrance4038the person in the video is talking about getter the gender wrong of the person. Nothing to do with abortion
@@mrsmileyfrance4038 the comment that we are talking under mentions a part of the video. The part of the video includes the person saying the quote that has nothing do with abortion.
“Where did you get the baby?” Lol best line ever.
nah, jokes like that are only funny if they make sense, which it didnt, its obvious hes asking a hypothetical question so making it out as if it was a literal question is just cringe, and is only funny to brainlets who dont see this in an instant
@@laxxdood ok
@@laxxdood you must be fun at parties
@@aiskeo1459 yes because being fun at parties is a marker of literally anything
sudoku asap 👍
@@laxxdood chronically online
the teen forgets that moms can get abortions also. Say you have 2 kids and are done with having more, you can still take the termination route
well he's 15, he's still so young, not saying that young people are dumb lol but there's just still so much he hasn't learned yet.
when I was younger I'd probably think like him too.
In that case, a lot of couples choose a vasectomy, or birth control pill, or any other type of contraceptions when needed. Couples usually don't just get pregnant and then do an abortion.
@@Nutzername92a yes, usually. That's the key word as it still happens yet perhaps people aren't made aware of it (for a variety of reasons someone having an abortion having had children may simply want to keep that information private)
he seemed to realize by the end that his assumption was wrong, so good for him! hes 15 and i respect that hes open minded.
@@mimi-xx yes! it's really nice to see how he's getting more open-minded as the conversation going, and he looked like he learned a lot by the end of the video.
watching this today, it’s heartbreaking that women no longer have this choice here in america. i hope something changes because as seen in this video, abortions change lives for the better.
You can still get abortions, goofy.
Whatever theirs worst things happing these days and ur worried about this only 😂
they do in cali so come down here
@@mikamiller4431 first fix your grammar, second just because there are "worse things", doesnt mean their problems are not valid, also i dont think this is the only thing the original commenter is worried about nowadays
They’re literally still in America
*pregnant lady stands* “What do you notice?” Jaden knows that’s a trick question
Bless Jaden for not immediately assuming that Nina was pregnant even though she was very clearly was. That’s very sweet of him.
I like how they included Jaden because it gave a lighthearted perspective to the conversations
Jadon was extremely mature and asked great questions to get right to the point .
He wasn't though, The way he spoke about abortions was in a very negative tone and very ignorant. He said multiple times that only people that don't like kids get abortions and while that statement is true its also not the only case because a lot of abortions happen because they dont feel as they are in the proper environment to raise a child Ex. the one that said they were experiencing houselessness when they got pregnant.
@@austinengland1107 He’s definitely ignorant which is why I think this was a good learning process for him
@@austinengland1107 he is a 15 year old boy who is trying to learn, cut him some slack.
@@austinengland1107 Lmfaoo he’s a kid
@@austinengland1107 dude he's like 15, he's never had sex nor would he ever have been in an environment safe enough for him to even be asking about abortions. Cut him some slack. He even said at the beginning of the video that he think its a woman's decision. DUDE IS 15 and already thinks so maturely.
"I wonder what the record is." I. AM. DEAD.
I STOPPED THE VIDEO AND REPLAYED IT LMFOAOA
What a lovely kid. His parents raised him well.
@@mrsmileyfrance4038 they are not born so idc about abortion at all.
Like i personaly never want to have kids so if i ever got pregnant they are going down the toilet and i wouldnt feel guilty at all :^
If am gonna have the kid cause abortion is considered murder, then i prbbly wouldnt be a good parentd because i didnt want the kid in the first place, so it is better to not have him than have him and regret him.
I miscarried when I was 18, but only partially passed the product of conception and was told I needed to get a D&C surgical abortion. I didn't do it because of the stigma around abortion... Which resulted in me getting a gnarly infection and wishing I'd listened. (Almost died) I miscarried three more times in the next seven years with my last miscarriage being an unviable ovum pregnancy... My doctor's sent me home with two pills to abort at my house... I did, and it was necessary, I've since had a live birth and can say 100% that abortions are medically necessary A LOT, and that women also deserve to have the option because your life changes after you have a child and every woman will not be realistically prepared or able to provide in all the ways that a child needs. Not to mention birth is traumatic, adoption isn't an easy process, and the people that yell "no abortions" aren't going to help you provide for and raise said baby.
Do you, make decisions that make sense to you and your existence, and keep having conversations that make people uncomfortable!
Thank you for sharing.
I appreciate your story, thank you for telling it.
very well said, im so sorry to hear all the traumatic stuff youve been through. Stay strong!!
Thanks for sharing this......u r so loved🖤
You do know that you're an outlier and one in a million. I respect the fact that you went against it. I'm sure you actually wanted a child. But there's no excuse for "oops" and "oh well" when compared to situations such as yourself.
“I wonder what the record is?” LMAO BOIIII!
petition to bring the 15 y/o back he’s so genuine
“Are you ready to do this thing?”
“Thats what she said”
IM DYING
The individuals who have shared their stories are extremely strong. Sending them love and support ❤️
You sound like a decent person. Good to know we have some of those on YT
“Are you a virgin” is possibly the worst question to ask in this scenario.
ig can't have an abortion if you've never had sex or got pregnant?
i mean i think it's a pretty good one
wait why-? 💀
They mostly seemed so chill and okay with their abortions. Of course this is a tiny glimpse of the reality but my experience with abortion wasn't nice or comfortable. I wasn't totally okay with either decision emotionally (I thought I would be), I did it on the 9th week at home with the pills but not everything came out (btw it's more than just "bleeding" like they said on the video) and a week later my uterus got infected so I got really sick and had to get my uterus cleaned out at the hospital.
Also before getting sick, the day I did my abortion was rough as fuck. I basically gave birth to the 9 week old embryo and the placenta, held on to it for days and cried. Nobody had really told me in detail what would happen. I called the clinic and they told me I could flush it down the toilet or throw it in the trash. I couldn't do it nor did I want to so I buried it in the woods. You do what you gotta do.
I am so sorry that happened. They should've explained to you in detail what the process would have been like, it was your right to know and its your body.
@emmainkeri wow i’m so sorry…
Wow, I'm so sorry that that happened to you, that sounds really traumatic. Hope you are able to heal from this experience
This made me cry. Sorry you had such a hard time. I would have buried it as well ❤️
That sounds awful, I'm sorry you went through that... you're so strong
Lmao i love how all of the women were enjoying the presence of an innocent young boy and having the patience to educate him. Like i was like watching moms and aunties with young a family member
I’ve read this everywhere but I love it: “Someone you love has had an abortion without your knowledge, do not judge”.
I found out my mom had an abortion. I would have had an older sibling
It feels so strange to hear that so many people had abortions, and like four times! Here in Germanys abortions are illegal, only allowed in very few cases and it is really hard to find information and doctors who do that.
So yeah, most likely I don't know anyone who had an abortion.
@@schokoloko2092 Considering that the only hurdle to abortion is a consultation in Germany, there is many legal abortion. Also it is not hard to find someone to do the abortion after the consultation. You get a list.
I do judge. I absolutely judge and so does God
@@LordBattleSmurf god also says to be understanding and compassionate, giving care to those who need it most. you should not judge until understanding the background, and even so god says to check the plank in your own eye first.
Jadon is so wholesme and you can tell all the women there felt comfortable around him because they kept laughing at his reactions.
That young man really had an experience.. I’m proud of him for not being afraid to dive in and try to figure things out and learn! he was cute and innocent lol
So sad 9 months later and some states it’s illegal
"What type of people have abortions?"
"People with uteruses."
👏👏👏
Irresponsible ones
People who fuck around mindlessly.
@meggiesaurus Rape victim should have immediately gone to hospital and police and gotten the Plan B pill to prevent conception. And birth control failing when used appropriately is EXTREMELY low chance of pregnancy. Both scenarios together make up significantly less than 0.01% of all abortions. However for the sake of innocent babies- If YOU agree the other 1,500,000 American abortions every year are wrong/ evil and should stopped then i'm ok with the AT MOST 15,000 American abortions due to rape/incest/ life of mother being at risk, being legal
@meggiesaurus R*pe victim should have immediately gone to hospital and police and gotten the Plan B pill to prevent conception. And birth control failing when used appropriately is EXTREMELY low chance of pregnancy. Both scenarios together make up significantly less than 0.01% of all abortions. However for the sake of innocent babies- If YOU agree the other 1,500,000 American abortions every year are wrong/ evil and should stopped then i'm ok with the AT MOST 15,000 American abortions due to r*pe/incest/ life of mother being at risk, being legal
@meggiesaurus there are exceptions, of course.
"You do know the stork isn't real, right?"
"Be quiet."
best moment validating her experience 6:16 ... they should've included more of Christina - she seems very kind 💕
The 15 year old was really sweet, and did his best with a difficult line up.
That kid was raised right - never assume someone is pregnant until they tell you.
Yes, it’s extremely hurtful when someone assumes someone to be pregnant when they are not. Good on him for being more polite and appropriate than a lot of adults I’ve seen out in the real world.
i love how jaden was able to be properly educated on this at such a young age, it’s so important for the youth.
I think Jadon (and his guardian(s), who I assume had to sign off on this) did really well all things considered. When you’re young you assume a lot of things just based on what you absorb about the world around you; I think this was a good opportunity for him to think more critically about those assumptions and literally ask questions. It’s nice to watch someone learn. I hope the comments treat him well, and I hope his friends are just as receptive as he is!
He didn't though, The way he spoke about abortions was in a very negative tone and very ignorant. He said multiple times that only people that don't like kids get abortions and while that statement is true its also not the only case because a lot of abortions happen because they dont feel as they are in the proper environment to raise a child Ex. the one that said they were experiencing houselessness when they got pregnant.
@@austinengland1107 He’s 15. He’s uneducated on the topic, but continued to be respectful.
@@austinengland1107 i agree. I'm an educator and have had an abortion. My students are most of my life. His point of if you don't like kids you'd have am abortion was very wrong
I love this so much. The fact that the topic of abortion is being treated as something that shouldn’t be shamed or hidden. In this video it’s just casually talked about like an experience that they’ve had and their varying feelings, decisions, and emotions that were put into it or even if they didn’t choose abortion. I also like how the boy was allowed to express his thoughts without being ridiculed, but instead with more insight/perspective!
I love how they laugh about dead babies. So empowered and cute 🥰
@@nomnomnommy2955 shut up
@@mrsmileyfrance4038 i don’t give a fuck
@@mrsmileyfrance4038 ok thanks!
It should be shamed! It’s killing a human fetus! What is not shameful about that?!
Too many damn complaints in the comments. Yes, this was absolutely necessary and yes he's mature and quirky. Be mindful this young man can get someone pregnant, so it needed to be done and CUT will continue to do it !!
I love that you can tell that Jaden was nervous and didn’t know much about abortions and his questions reflected that. He was curious and learning.
"You have giant earrings" sounded like "the bigger the hoop, the bigger the ho" to me.
Bless his awkward teenage heart. lol
I hope someone tells the 15 y/old that boy (and others) that not all women who get abortions hate children.
In fact so many LOVE children, and that’s why they’ve chosen to get the abortion.
They love that child enough to recognize that they might not be able to give that child the support that they need.
It’s upsetting that so many think that people who get abortions are just children hating demons that get abortions for fun. It’s not an easy decision for so many people.
Exactly. Many of his questions and immediate impressions bugged me, but not because of him as a person but because of the lack of sex ed in school and just the stigma around it in general. it fucking sucks like this shit is normal and very fucking common
I wish I had been more prepared for how impactful it would feel when I went through this. I grew up in London in a super progressive bubble and didn't feel much going into it, it was a straightforward decision, but that really REALLY didn't prepare me for how strongly I felt afterwards. I would never discourage anyone from doing it and if I was back in that time in my life I would definitely make the same decision again, but I really wish there was more support. It's almost like you're supposed to feel like it's no big deal now and while that might be true for some people it might surprise you how much of a big deal it feels once it's happening. I don't know of that makes sense but there it is.
I can totally relate to this. I am 100% pro choice, and had an abortion when I was 18 years old. I didn't get a chance to mourn this very, very big decision, and I had nobody to talk to about it (my parents don't know to this day, and I'm now a 42 year old mother of a wonderful 18 year old son whom I adopted when he was 9). My partner's mom was "cool" so she knew I had an abortion, and told me she had one at a similar age, and waited to have her kids when they were ready, so I thought "OK! I'll do the same thing! I'll have an abortion, finish college, and then we'll have kids!" But there was nobody there to hold me, talk to me, etc. about how hard it was for me to NOT have that child. I really wanted to have kids. I really wanted to have kids with my partner (we got married as soon as my parents had paid my last semester of tuition because they wouldn't let me marry before graduating, and threatened to cut off my tuition if I did). Long story short, I lost interest in sex after the abortion, didn't make the connection (I know... I was very young, and didn't really know myself! And again, nobody to talk to). My husband didn't understand it either... and so we had a really difficult relationship around intimacy. It only got worse over time, and we never had a healthy sex life for 10 long years. Finally we divorced, and though it was amicable, I look back now and realize how messed up our relationship was. I was often coerced into having sex, and I never felt like he really understood me. Though I went to therapy and eventually made the connection between the abortion and my loss of interest in intimacy, it was kind of too late to repair what we went through, especially because my husband still didn't really understand what the "big deal" was. I think we need to explain the complexity of emotions and the range of emotions around sex AND abortion in sex ed classes. Also the abortion clinic I went to (Back in 1998) had people picketing outside, and an almost gleefully cheerful doctor... it was a really surreal experience, with NO conversation about feelings.
@@monicamacneille3372 Thank you for sharing your story. You’re so strong and brave.
I can’t even imagine, the thought scares me. You’re very brave
@@monicamacneille3372 I relate to both of your stories. My pregnancy was far from planned and I didn't wanna have kids. When I took the pregnancy test and it was positive, my first reaction was "oh fuck. Shit. Okay. I can have an abortion, it's no big deal", and that's exactly what I had thought all my life. I'd always known that if I ever got pregnant, I'd abort it. But for the next few weeks I kept going back and forth between "I don't want a baby" and "what if we had a baby?". I needed more time to become more comfortable with my decision to abort, but I felt like I was running out of time. I didn't want the embryo to develop into a fetus. So I finally made the decision to go through with it on week 9, took the pills and had a really rough few days. Cried a lot and held onto the embryo I gave birth to. Took it for a walk around town and buried it in the woods. Cried saying goodbye. This happened last year. I still agree with my decision but it doesn't help with the pain. I feel like I lost someone that was maybe a part of me. I just wish it had never happened.
I was always taken seriously at the clinic and they actually told me to go back home and think about it, when they saw that I wasn't ready yet. What bothers me is that they didn't tell me in detail what would happen if I took the pills. I had to ask, and they told me what pill 1 and pill 2 would do to me physically, but they didn't say I might give birth to and see the embryo. They didn't prepare me for that or how I might feel emotionally. They offered me support and someone to talk to afterwards when I asked for it, which I'm of course grateful for. But overall they didn't offer enough information.
@@inkeriananas Thank you for sharing your experience. I'm so sorry for your pain, and I'm glad we're starting to have these conversations as a society. It's such a huge decision, and the stigma means people don't talk about the very real emotional/physical experience. Sending you lots of love. I hate the internet but it's conversations like these that keep me involved.
It’s so interesting to hear everyone’s stories of why they decided to have an abortion. I think sometimes people forget that it’s not just people being reckless or irresponsible. In some cases, getting an abortion is more responsible that bringing a child into the world that can’t be cared for in the way they deserve. There are so many reasons why someone has an abortion and this is just further proof of that. This conversation was so enlightening
In the OVERWHELMING majority of cases it IS women being reckless and irresponsible. There are stats on this and its way over 90%. And don't you dare suggest growing up poor is worse than being dismembered while you fully feel pain either (12 weeks), thats a bullsh*t lie to try and justify a woman's amoral decisions and reject accountability for their actions. These women had the baby killed because they were irresponsible and because it would have been an inconvenience to them for 9 months- that's the facts. They cared more about 9 months of their life than the potential 90 years of life of their child. Selfish
@@LordBattleSmurf so you prefer the child to be potentially not well taken care of by people who are not financially or emotionally ready to have children? Is that really a better option for the sake of this whole pro-‘life’ rhetoric? Just because a child lives, doesn’t mean they will live a good life. Living isn’t the same as thriving
Right. Although I have not had one myself, I did miscarry so I really identified with the woman who had the DNC because I can relate to how she felt about the miscarriage. I've also held the hands of people who so badly wanted a child but then found out the child had non-survivable abnormalities. That's gut-wrenching. There's a lot of gray area between reckless and making an informed and responsible choice for yourself - and your other children. We must remember, too, that women still die in this country from childbirth. Not everyone should carry to term. Birth control sometimes fails. People are assaulted. Maybe if we supported families and women better we wouldn't be having this discussion, but here we are.
@@LordBattleSmurf Yeah, shut up.
@@hollyj20001 No.
watching this after roe vs wade. I am in tears
This teenager is the most teenaged boy teenage boy🤣
I'm so envious of these women having so many options for abortion. Here in Iran we're not allowed to do it even if there is something wrong with the fetus.
That sucks not suprising since its iran. I wish every women had the option at least for unhealthy babies. In every country. Can u at least put the child up for adoptian if u cant or dont want the child? Or is that a issur too in iran. Just curious. I dont know much about the legal system.of iran beside some snipets of what people tell me.
@@cynthiavanteylingen7922 some people leave their babies at hospitals or other places and they end up in orphanages but you can't volunteerely give up your baby for adoption.
That is a great thing
Envious????? Envious???? Thankfully not all cultures endorse the murdering of infants for the convince of their parents.
@@agathachris9722 oh shut up
It was very refreshing to see a teenager as a guesser in a Lineup video. They bring different perspective and I’d love to hear from different age groups aside from young adult to middle age.
I like how Jaden uses genderneutral pronouns. Makes my heart happy :)
Don’t come for Jaden. He was awesome!
I’d love to have a recording of what 15 year old me thought of abortions growing up in Catholic Ireland. I imagine it was a whole lot different than it is today seeing as I had absolutely no information whatsoever.
omg we need more of Jaden!!! What a sweet innocent kid!
Stranger Things vibes radiating off of this teenage boy
Cody ko gonna have a field day with this one 😂😭
FR😭
At the end of the day, who cares if someone's had an abortion - it shouldn't be a source of shame or stigma.
If a human life is ended then it is something we should be discussing
@@megwalker8790 It ain't human though because they terminate the pregnancy before it can fully develop into a fetus
I hope who ever has an abortion sufferers forever with the decision they make.
@@gabriellaF95 Keep on hoping, because it's not happening.
@@gabriellaF95 such a disgusting attitude you have, I truly pity you.
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I can tell his whole personality trait is him being ✨15✨
Especially around adults💀
"You ready to do this thing?" "That's what she said" I love this 15 year old man
i loved hearing their stories, everyone is valid and abortion should be talked about more. also jadon was wholesome!
Fully agree!! :) abortion such be normalized and talked about so much more!
@tynde since when is a piece of unalive meat getting out of ur body considered murder
@tynde ur disgusting, its their body so its not ur business.
@tynde ah yes, the same how some men couldnt resist keeping their junk in their pants🤷♂️
@tynde no it is not it the removal of unwanted cells.
Thank you Cut for trying to end the stigma around abortion. It's a very personal decision and nothing to be ashamed of.
This video does the opposite. Laughing about abortion won’t bring more people to your side.
its killing a human its definitely something to be ashamed and always will be!!! I hope who ever has an abortion has karma delivered on a silver platter.
@@gabriellaF95 a glob of cells isn't a human g
@@gabriellaF95 sad you are so judgemental
@@babecat2000 its killing a baby you cant convince me that's ok. This is a subject im passion it about. Im not against it completely but society tying to make it normal and easy.. i cant stand behind that
As someone who also had a D&C earlier this year, my heart goes out to Nina. I had a missed miscarriage, and didnt want to wait for my body to realize I wasnt pregnant anymore. I didn't get the chance to say goodbye like she did, but the grief is still the same. Wishing her nothing but the best for her and her new baby!
You sound like a beautiful soul. My heart is going out to you! I hope you are in a decent place mentally & physically, and that your whole being will continue to mend as you are able.
Thank you Cut so much for making this!!! It warms my heart. I had a traumatic, complicated abortion about a year ago and the grieving process is ever so non-linear. I have therapy and close friends + family to thank for coping along this healing process. I would not change my decision, but wish I had had more support/ known more people who experienced abortions prior. I’m ultimately grateful I had the option! I’m committed to reproductive rights + abortion access for as long as I live!
Wow! There were a rollercoaster of emotions here. Happy moments, Funny moments and Sad moments, but overall just open, honest and informative conversations. Love it. 👏🏽
“People with uteruses” I LOVED that answer.
@@mrsmileyfrance4038 who asked
It’s utterly ridiculous. Only women have uteruses.just like only men have prostates. It’s basic science.
@@PindakaasMetHagelslag lmaoooo the way you're so confident in your ignorance
@@hyqnoticdata please explain.
@@PindakaasMetHagelslag there's nothing to explain
Jaden seems like such a lovely kid. It takes a lot of maturing for people in his age group to be in a situation like this and listen to people testimonies like how he did.
it was a great idea to bring in a 15 year old boy for this discussion. he did awesome too
I would never want to go through an abortion but I also never want children so it would be my only option if I ended up pregnant. I do take precautions and would like to have a permanent way of avoiding this but every doctor I have ever been to has refused. I don’t blame anyone who has ever had an abortion.
To be fair, having a hysterectomy while young is risky, and tubal ligation is only about as effective in preventing pregnancy as an iud or rod, which are reversible.
SAME. I thank the patriarchy for having to have an abortion. Because I told every single doctor I’ve been to since I was 15 (just wanted it on record that I’d held the belief as long as possible) that I didn’t ever want kids. At 23 I started asking for surgery. I think keeping an opinion 8+ years shows it’s been well thought on. But nope they all turned me down. I’m 31 now and they STILL turn me down. Meanwhile my boyfriend had vasectomy when he’d just turned 20. Before he had any kids (this is a requirement for women). Now they say it’s because vasectomy is reversible but that’s not completely true. In many cases it can’t be reversed. That’s always a significant risk. So why allow young men who’ve never had kids to get this surgery and not allow women the same option?? Patriarchy.
I have a cousin who had 4 children by the time she was 21. She basically got pregnant every time she had sex, once with a condom & another time while on bc. She had to drop out of hs in 10th grade. Ended up a stripper. Struggled just to survive. She BEGGED SEVEN different docs for surgery. All said she was too young & May change mind. She ended up having 3 more by the time she was 29, when a doc finally agreed to perform surgery.
Unless you get incredibly lucky, in order to get surgery as a woman you need to be over 30 with at least one (preferably more) kids. As I have no kids they still deny me at 31....
Sorry for the book haha. I just get fired up about this. I would’ve never had to have 2 abortions had they allowed me surgery at 23.
@@SaunterVaguelyDown does safe sex just not exist? I agree with a lot of the things you've said but it seems a little crazy to "blame" your abortions on the circumstances surrounding doctor refusal
@@EnzoPepsiCola safe sex quite literally does not work 100% of the time for preventing pregnancy.
I have to say I was super shocked when Jaden said he was 15 because he doesn’t look like it but it is evident in the way he speaks/thinks
How old do you think he looks? He looks like a 15yo boy to me
Jaden is definitely a smart kid. Good on him for doing this!
Just wanted to say that I absolutely adore this kid Jaden. You can definitely tell that he's well...15, and like most 15 year olds, a little naive about some of this stuff. But he came into the experience with an open mind and treated everyone he talked to with respect, which is more than you could say of a lot of adults. Major kudos to him for that.
This kid is fucking hilarious without even wanting to be lmao
This is an interesting way to talk about abortion. It's very casual.
Fr it’s tiring to talk about stuff like this when everything is getting political nowadays and everyone’s picking sides.
Is that a good thing?
As it should be
@@akilegna1255 yes, it’s a medical decision that should stop being stigmatized
@@graceandtemperance a MeDicaL DeciSoN
Watching this after roe v wade was overturned is so sad. This is no longer our reality unfortunately :/ but it does show how many women in so many different situations have needed an abortion and now they will either not be able to or have an extremely more difficult time trying getting one.
I appreciate that they had someone who said they chose abortion because of her mental health. I've brought that up as a possibility why people might get abortions and I often get shut down with people saying "then they should've been more careful". Ugh. But this made me feel better.
And how do you respond to them saying they should’ve been more more careful ?
Ughhh I hate that. Of course I agree that people should be careful, prevention is better than any cure and I am a huge proponent for comprehensive sex ed and access to contraceptives to reduce unwanted pregnancies as much as possible. But the fact of the matter is that even if you take every precaution, things can still happen. It's not a 100% guarantee. Abortion should be available as a last resort when all else fails.
I am a transgender guy, i have a working reproductive system… if i Got pregnant and couldn’t get an abortion, i worry about what would become of me. It would ruin my life, and i already have a giant problem with my body. Abortion is lifesaving, even if you count the fetus. Without abortion the carrying parent would often not survive either
@@vintereventyr_ that’s very true. Pregnancy can be very traumatizing for people with body issues or existing mental health issues. Pregnancy is not just physically taxing. So many people have no idea about the risks involved to the person carrying a pregnancy. Many many people experience worsening mental health issues both during pregnancy and after giving birth. I wish it was talked about more!
Jaden is the star of this episode!! That human being is precious! :D
Protect Jaden at all costs 😂 He's so pure ❤️
jaden is so painfully 15
"cause im 15" literally proves that people need to have access to these things.
I laughed way too hard at the "that's what she said" joke
You’re taught not to assume someone’s pregnant because maybe they’re just fat, good manners to the young man (: smart!
i love the boy sm😭, he’s so respectful and just rlly mature
The Jaden kid is great. His blunt questions and comments were fantastic!
“I am Soo great full I have that option”
🙁 this just makes me super sad..bro this world sucks now
If we dudes could get pregnant we would have an abortion clinic on every street corner. Sexual and reproductive rights are human rights.
Facts 👏
Exactly. I always thought this
Jaden throughout the entire video: 🧍🏻♂️
Oh, hearing Nina's story made me want to cry - what a sweet, strong woman who represents so many women out there who needed an abortion because it was clinically required, not because they didn't want or love what could have been their child. Our debate around abortion is so wrong and so toxic - we focus on edge case scenarios to prove points, when this is what real women with real stories look like. I hope her current pregnancy is as stress-free as possible and that she is blessed with a healthy, happy child.
I really don't get some of people in the comments freaking out about this video.
I think it's a good topic to see from other people prespective and can learn more about this topic.
But in the end of the day, it's just my opinion.
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I don't see anyone freaking out
at the end of the day, it's homicide ❤
I haven’t seen one comment of anyone freaking out.. and I doubt you did either. People assume the majority of ppl think a certain way even when society has changed. And trying to keep up the idea that everyone is still stuck in the past doesn’t reflect what ppl really think and slows down progress. If you think most ppl still think like that then you feel the need to constantly combat them and create arguments.
@@jboww2121 Cut is a liberal channel based in Seattle. Their audience is not representative of the population anyway.
The "thats what she said joke got me"
Hey, person who teared up there, sending hugs! I have the one photo of my 1.3cm "baby" from the ultrasound and I instantly looked at that drawer when you said that you wanted to look at it and say goodbye. There's a certain feeling of loss and relief that comes with this experience. It didn't go away for me, but I feel it in different ways at various points in my life. Yet it doesn't bother me. It's just there. :)
this video gave me chills. i love the range of people they had, the guessers and all. Ane every person there had a different expeirence as to why they had or did not have one. inviting a kid so that he can learn because kids can get pregant too, the amount of respect shown in this video. I LOVE IT
I know some people in the comments are shocked over how people can laugh while talking about having abortions but you guys need to realize that not everyone sees the same topics as heavily as you do. Some use laughing as a coping mechanism for their trauma and some genuinely just aren't sad over their abortion and that is okay. If comedians can go on stage and joke about stuff like poverty, racism etc then I don't see what the problem is with these women comfortably laughing over getting an abortion.
abortion is evil. thats peoples point.
@@robmccharen4506 ah shut up man
@@robmccharen4506 keep thinking whatever you want, we don't agree and we're gonna laugh about it as much as we want
@@assholebyginger how is it not evil pls if you can explain to me how it’s not evil maybe u can change my mind.
@@robmccharen4506 no I can't explain it, have a nice day