Women DESPISE men who commit to them (exposing dark female nature)

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  • @CaseyZander
    @CaseyZander  Рік тому +74

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    • @jhonstrong8930
      @jhonstrong8930 Рік тому +7

      Casey i want my gf to emotionally attached with me. Please make a video on the topic.

    • @imthebest3149
      @imthebest3149 Рік тому +1

      ​@@jhonstrong8930Casey make that video i also wanna know that . In last video we requested you to make that Casey

    • @zeroten1354
      @zeroten1354 Рік тому

      Make a video on how to make a women emotionally attached forever

    • @magicalviews6755
      @magicalviews6755 Рік тому

      Casey Make a video on how to make a women emotionally attached forever. ❤

    • @peaceonearth8693
      @peaceonearth8693 Рік тому

      I'm not going to disagree with you. Except, FYI, you look like a dork in your robe and chain. I'm old enough to remember the for real guys that Austin Powers parodied. From the 60's and 70's. And you 'bro' are also really putting out the "vibe". Hilarious and a little pathetic to experienced eyes.

  • @firos_kofi6608
    @firos_kofi6608 Рік тому +1975

    My mother basically told me that she left a good shaped good man, body builder with success to marry my drug addict father. Female nature is pure gold.

    • @high-commisioner1954
      @high-commisioner1954 Рік тому +42

      Wow I hope your dad hasn’t left her😂

    • @firos_kofi6608
      @firos_kofi6608 Рік тому +179

      @@high-commisioner1954 she left him, lol.

    • @greencrocidile6246
      @greencrocidile6246 Рік тому +45

      Probably his attitude or her self esteem wasn’t as high

    • @high-commisioner1954
      @high-commisioner1954 Рік тому +66

      @@firos_kofi6608 wow, there aren't many good women out there even those related to us

    • @dragorn3212
      @dragorn3212 Рік тому +192

      It all started when Eve ruined the garden of Eden by getting deluded with sin. This sht is literally in the beginning of the bible idk how we overlook this??

  • @michael35241
    @michael35241 Рік тому +2231

    I always thought that my dad was abusive but having experience with women made me realize that his emotional outbursts were in response to her abuse. Also, all the things she said about him were just her projection. She said he treated her like a doormat and that he was a narcissist. What kind of narcissist has spent decades on his weekends helping old and needy people fix up their homes and cars?? My mom never lifted a finger to help anyone but herself

    • @geraldg350
      @geraldg350 Рік тому +281

      All our dads become more humanized as we get older because we take up their roles and responsibilies and everything they did now make sense. I was always on my moms side growing up now that I'm an adult I'm never on her side infact I end up chastisng her like my dad did when I was a kid.

    • @justinlevy274
      @justinlevy274 Рік тому +177

      Exactly the experience with my ex. She would pick a fight over nothing, throw a tantrum, escalate the argument, name call, disparage my character, twist my words while I tried to deescalate and be reasonable. She would push and push till I finally got upset and told her off then she would play the victim and ask to just get along. Its an attempt to betasize the man by trying to manipulate his emotions.

    • @Willie_Wahzoo
      @Willie_Wahzoo Рік тому

      Whamin INCESSANTLY project their narcissism onto men. It's disgusting. All the evil that is in themselves they SEE in the men who care for them. They're straight up wicked.

    • @lukelabare6580
      @lukelabare6580 Рік тому +164

      I used to hate when my dad would (out of nowhere) talk down to my mom here and there but now I realize he was keeping her in line and therefore keeping her interest high

    • @Motorsportsinjapan
      @Motorsportsinjapan Рік тому +61

      That's most wives sadly

  • @sasbttrr
    @sasbttrr Рік тому +396

    Whenever you are dating a girl.. suddenly increase your attention, attraction,etc for her. And you'll find out whether she is long term material or not.
    Most Women don't love you. They are attracted to the iDEA of loving you.
    Once you get signs of emotions unstable women with traumas & baggages. Save yourself slme time & leave her alone.

    • @EC-ki5wv
      @EC-ki5wv Рік тому +59

      They are not like cars, once damaged you cannot fix these 304s

    • @JohnM...
      @JohnM... Рік тому +31

      They are attracted to your resources.

    • @GT6SuzukaTimeTrials
      @GT6SuzukaTimeTrials Рік тому +29

      ​@@EC-ki5wv they can fix themselves if they are determined to chase say, a guy like me who works out and is 6ft but is still introverted and socially awkward and tired of being abandoned so I don't even care to chase anyone. Girls on my social media know they gotta come get me if they want me or ain't nothing going down.

    • @arsenal4444
      @arsenal4444 Рік тому +1

      okay I know this is fairly true by why does it seem to work so well the majority of the time?
      What's the hidden lesson that makes this strategy so effective?

    • @pepepez6335
      @pepepez6335 Рік тому +42

      Women are attracted to men who remain masculine. They want a dominant man, a leader, a protector, a decision maker. A man with conviction. The problem is that men tend to lose those qualities while treating their women like royalty.

  • @dragonxg6
    @dragonxg6 Рік тому +133

    This is a 100% true I've been married for 7 years and still to this day, the more attention, care, and love I give my wife the less reciprocation I receive( I'm not saying I don't receive it but not the same amount). I'll make up a story about a girl checking me out or starting a conversation with me at the store or gym. Then I'll leave my wife alone, pay no attention to her for a day or 2. Let me tell you I can get anything from her after that lol. It really does spark something inside of women when they see a man that is wanted by other women

    • @toaalta
      @toaalta Рік тому +6

      That's called dread game

    • @abzinokartelino5035
      @abzinokartelino5035 Рік тому +7

      The reason is they feel jealous and feel like they are missing out

    • @clarencetroy520
      @clarencetroy520 8 місяців тому +4

      Competition Anxiety

  • @brycegill2022
    @brycegill2022 Рік тому +172

    Just went through a situation like this myself. Spent 6 great years together before the wedding. The moment we got married her insecurities came out with a vengeance and she began disrespecting me, becoming emotionally detached and eventually walked out. Caught me completely off guard. She just couldn’t understand how someone could love her when she doesn’t love herself.

    • @Coach_B2024
      @Coach_B2024 Рік тому +24

      That last phrase. Yes.

    • @sammusisi5042
      @sammusisi5042 Рік тому

      Bro

    • @renebleu8711
      @renebleu8711 Рік тому +17

      You didn’t get caught off guard. Men ignore these signs.

    • @bxla1
      @bxla1 Рік тому +2

      dude that so unfortunate, im sorry

    • @chimerius24
      @chimerius24 Рік тому +9

      My ex literally asked me the question with total confusion, why do you love me so much? I was caught off guard like, why would you ask that. I think you're awesome. But to her I didn't make sense. Apparently I loved her too much. But the bum who had to sleep in his truck was Mr Dream boat. Nevermind that I took in her and her 3 kids. Loved them like my own. Yeah, I was that kinda simp. I so hate that version of myself.

  • @ahsamv1992
    @ahsamv1992 Рік тому +332

    "women are abusive you give them an inch and they take a mile " Patrice O'neal

    • @AkilAmmon-iw2vu
      @AkilAmmon-iw2vu Рік тому +15

      By nature too. It not malicious 👊

    • @Dreweybaby
      @Dreweybaby Рік тому +11

      By nature at that

    • @EinSofQuester
      @EinSofQuester Рік тому

      I give them nine inches ;-)

    • @jordancarlin9687
      @jordancarlin9687 Рік тому +5

      Gentleman , I just want to say , if you pipe down a woman correctly , none of this matters .

    • @DeadPiixxel
      @DeadPiixxel 7 місяців тому

      ​@jordancarlin9687 that shouldn't matter

  • @PWeilerMr
    @PWeilerMr Рік тому +138

    NEVER tell a women: "I love you." From that point on she will gain more and more control. Been there, done that. Cheers

    • @PWeilerMr
      @PWeilerMr Рік тому +25

      Remember, The language of men is ACTION.
      Cheers

    • @alienJIZ1990
      @alienJIZ1990 Рік тому +4

      Truth. Especially if they push for you to say it

    • @poppopper33
      @poppopper33 Рік тому

      To late

    • @markkiarie3964
      @markkiarie3964 7 місяців тому +3

      Only time you ever tell a woman that, is if you want her to leave 😂😂

    • @Lioma-x6r
      @Lioma-x6r 6 місяців тому

      A man is always in motion. Always creating and moving. Action.

  • @JEMANF
    @JEMANF Рік тому +914

    I hate that everything you said in this video is 100% truth. I’m 45 and have seen this time and time again in relationships (mine and others). Once you actually commit completely to the girl, the countdown begins to the end of said relationship. Think I’m lying, try it and see what happens…..

    • @redline350zHR
      @redline350zHR Рік тому +10

      So howwwww do i act? Im w a single mother and shes a few yrs younger than me, goin thru divorce, and been in the US for 6 years now from peru..

    • @BigBadBossu
      @BigBadBossu Рік тому

      @@redline350zHR Why the hell aRE YOU IN WITH A SINGLE MOTHER!? Giant red flag, divorce, second giant red flag, ghost and go to the source to find a single unscathed Peruvian woman. Believe me, the worst quality ones get divorces early like her, she is absolutely trouble. Do the time, invest the money yourself to take a month long trip to Thailand, Philippines, Brazil, etc and secure yourself a girl without that history and luggage on her back.

    • @TheMelloMunsta5
      @TheMelloMunsta5 Рік тому +125

      @@redline350zHR Listen my dude...Idk your situation, none of us do. Take everything im about to say WITH A GRAIN OF SALT:
      If you have NO kids, and you're with a single mother, you're already asking for a lot of problems. The reason being, is that she gave "the best of herself" (i.e. child/children) to another man...With how women work (most of the time) that bond that they forge with that man, is SHAKABLE...but unBREAKABLE...Meaning, she'll ALWAYS be mentally comparing YOU to HIM even if she doesn't openly state it. Now. I'll add 1 more caveat before I answer you...Cultures mean ALOT...Casey Zander saying "modern women" speaks on the "women of a western mindset and culture"...this is why "passport bros" are a thing, because other countries that have UPLIFTED MASCULINITY haven't allowed FEMINISM to brainwash the women of their land....which INCREASES YOUR CHANCES (never guarantees) that IF you are in your masculine frame, she will hold you down and do right by you. Again, because I DONT KNOW THE TRUE METRICS OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH THIS WOMAN FROM PERU......'can't say how she was raised or what her BEHAVIORS....indicate..
      The answer to your question?...This may be hard for you to conceptualize, but try any way. Remove all love and emotion you have for that woman, and set it aside. Ask yourself "In the event that I'm doing MY BEST...is this the kind of woman I DESERVE" If yes, stay with her...BUT...because of what Zander mentioned, because he's right...Display an "AURA" or "air about yourself" that you are AVAILABLE to the sexual/attraction side to other women...EVEN IF YOU DON"T FUCK THEM....your woman SHOULD ALWAYS THINK...THAT YOU MIGHT BE...Thats the kicker....If the answer is no, leave her, AND STILL CARRY YOURSELF LIKE I JUST MENTIONED!!...Staying on your grind is a given, none of what I just mentioned should effect your work. Good luck brother...God speed...

    • @sgazzz
      @sgazzz Рік тому +28

      Sad but 1000% the truth...

    • @40fit38
      @40fit38 Рік тому +77

      Im 48 and can confirm. "Nice guys don't get laid". Keep them at arms distance, don't show you care and they will chase you.

  • @josephpullium5026
    @josephpullium5026 Рік тому +40

    I’m a man in a committed in a relationship and he’s right.
    He’s right. When my girl would vent to me about something trivial I did, I would always apologize and explain myself. It just made her more upset and gave her more reason to whine for some reason….
    I recently stopped giving af. Not being rude. But when she starts rambling and shit, I call her out on it, and leave it at that. I don’t fall for the tears either. And you know what??? The relationship is a lot smoother.
    It’s better for me too. I don’t respond to her with stress. Because I know who tf I am. I could drop her any second and she knows that. in return, I get more respect.

  • @futurecat
    @futurecat Рік тому +559

    Watched this happen VERY recently. Best girl I'd ever met. Huge mutual attraction, enough that I treated her well. Bam. Her desire was gone. Heartbreaking, but I learned. This video was like a capstone to that lesson. Thanks.

    • @aName4715
      @aName4715 Рік тому +31

      Same here lmao

    • @Avicena-tf5uj
      @Avicena-tf5uj Рік тому +86

      Same, I’m an exceptionally good looking and charismatic guy, and it happened to me too. The romantic era is dead

    • @arsenal4444
      @arsenal4444 Рік тому +16

      @@Avicena-tf5uj I am on the brink of doing this right now, we're getting to know each other, wtf is the move bros...cuz ngl she's fun and interesting simply to even hang out with like just playing sports and stuff's been a good time
      seems the info here is saying this is gonna crash and burn

    • @aName4715
      @aName4715 Рік тому +44

      @@arsenal4444 The info only applies to low quality women that barely bring anything to the table, if all she has to offer is fun I'd say keep things as they are now. But if she has a full healthy family and is willing to work on the relationship alongside with you then there is nothing bad about committing to such a woman. This is my rule from now on.

    • @alenspikic4523
      @alenspikic4523 Рік тому +12

      literally the same, best first date EVER, comparable to most romantic movies, and then this started happening

  • @wickylopez8867
    @wickylopez8867 Рік тому +213

    My girlfriend would always ask me why I'm with her.. being that she saw me as a high value guy.. years later, she ended up leaving me.. your content makes alot of sense.. thanks alot!!

    • @gfybitch
      @gfybitch Рік тому +24

      My ex wife asked me the exact same thing when we were dating 😮😂

    • @toreynelms5081
      @toreynelms5081 Рік тому +4

      Its because were opposites (whole verse Hebrew translated) Genesis 2:18 - For the man to be by himself is not good I will make for him a EZER KENEGDO (HEBREW WORD FOR) helper as opposite to him. See why women love villains on my nel for what this looks like. The video isn't as long as it appears

    • @Damesanglante
      @Damesanglante Рік тому

      Fairy tale.
      Grow up.

    • @brianfitch5469
      @brianfitch5469 Рік тому +2

      ​@@CraigHarris-uw9drBecause he obviously doesn't give a F like he's saying.

    • @klopcodez
      @klopcodez Рік тому

      Such questions I would have ended it there tell her to gtf0 the car

  • @mutechannel13
    @mutechannel13 Рік тому +450

    I focked up by telling my partner of 8 years... That I couldnt live without her at our 7 year mark. That was literally the end. She toke that last year of a relationship to plan her exit and she left.

    • @dragorn3212
      @dragorn3212 Рік тому +95

      Whatever is the opposite of logic and what they say, is actually what they respond well to. They should want, and they say they want, a committed loyal guy who deeply love them. But in reality its the complete opposite defying all sense

    • @passerby6168
      @passerby6168 Рік тому +82

      You didn't fuck up. It's normal to feel that way at times in life, like you can't live without your partner, and a normal, loving partner will understand, and feel the same way at times. Look into Borderline Personality Disorder. Modern women are plagued with it.

    • @romanmichaelhamilton8729
      @romanmichaelhamilton8729 Рік тому +57

      No, you didn't screw up at all, you being an honest and sincere man simply wanted your heart to your woman. She like most women don't want the commitment and bail out to play the field and have fun. What I find interesting is that men today are much more caring and open than women are. I've seen some very good men who nearly lived like angels get their lives destroyed by these evil types of women.
      I am married to a foreign woman (although this plague that's in the USA is reaching every country now) and she was raised in a very strict Orthodox Christian home. I went overseas to find a wife having to spend a boatload of cash in trips to find her. I'm in my 50's and even back in the 80's most of the young girls in my church were 304s and played these games. They too were really messed up on the head. They would despise the non-Chad guys even these men had great jobs, good family, had plenty of money and were in love with them. Just think, these girls hated these very good guys just because they didn't look like a super-Chad with blue eyes, blonde hair and the six-pack abs.
      I realize that only a catastrophic collapse of the USA will force these women into submission and cure there psychological problems. But I've been wrong plenty of times in life. ;-)

    • @michaelibrahim1443
      @michaelibrahim1443 Рік тому +18

      There is no way
      7 years Bro how
      How

    • @CiluhStyle1
      @CiluhStyle1 Рік тому +35

      I came to conclusion that women are the opposite of what they say they want. Give her the complete opposite and you'll be fine

  • @rubioalvin
    @rubioalvin Рік тому +56

    So moral of the story. Dating modern/ western women is like riding a boat with holes, got it

  • @bloodspartan300
    @bloodspartan300 Рік тому +12

    Hes totally right.... men build empires and women try to destroy them!

    • @newerax1009
      @newerax1009 Рік тому

      Bro what 😂 this is a nutty thing to say. You have no proof to back that claim up

    • @eliasandrinopoulos8746
      @eliasandrinopoulos8746 4 місяці тому +1

      Look at Helen of Troy. Although, it could be argued she didn’t force the issue lol

    • @projecttruthrbg1697
      @projecttruthrbg1697 2 місяці тому

      @@newerax1009 30 for 30: Going Broke. Documentary.

    • @philyeary8809
      @philyeary8809 Місяць тому

      ​@@newerax1009Stalin talked about women as weapons.....

    • @laurencehanneguelle8200
      @laurencehanneguelle8200 27 днів тому

      Ridiculous

  • @johnnyrodz8662
    @johnnyrodz8662 Рік тому +266

    I have been watching Casey since he had like 30k subscribers and i have been growing along side him as a divorced man. I can assure you that this video is one of the most real personal conversations he has ever had with his viewers. This man has lived and built himself up and is spewing his entire experience and understanding and conclusions of female nature. And sadly he's fucking dead on my brothers. May we continue to live righteous and virtuous my warriors! Find yourselves and live well!

    • @Channel99899
      @Channel99899 Рік тому

      How do you watch more than 3 of his videos? They're all the same fucking advice parroted by everyone else.

    • @Channel99899
      @Channel99899 Рік тому

      @@-whackd I remember that video as clear as day. What terrifies me is that he literally repeats other channels and Red Pill guys word for word, and men are like "OH WOW, YOUR ADVICE IS SO FULL OF VALUE!!! MY GOODNESS!"
      EVERY FUCKING GUY in the Red Pill space has said this shit 8000 fucking times for 8 years.
      I can't understand how they think that this is some new, profound advice. I almost think these are fake comments. No one can be that fucking stupid.

    • @goodlyantics.5243
      @goodlyantics.5243 Рік тому +2

      Did your wife try to return?
      I’m just curious. Going through it now.

    • @johnnyrodz8662
      @johnnyrodz8662 Рік тому +9

      @Goodly Antics. I begged her for years to return. She was repulsed by that. But she did return on 3 occasions.
      1. I scraped myself off the filthy floor. Wiped my tears. Got in the gym. Great diet and supplements for mental health. Focused on money. Attracted a younger hotter tighter woman. Screwed both for a while while she knew. Kept fighting alot so we split again.
      2. Covid. She couldn't work anymore so she asked to move back in. The damage was already done. Didn't work.
      3. Found an amazing woman with traditional morals and a big heart. Submissive and feminine. Almost felt too good to be true. She showed up inside my bedroom at 2am drunk and begging me to hold her. Used the door key code my sons memorized.
      In the end I still love her just don't know if we will ever work the same. I miss my kids all the time tho. Something u must get used to.

    • @JEMANF
      @JEMANF Рік тому

      Your comment is right on my brother💪🏽

  • @ThirdEyePerspective1111
    @ThirdEyePerspective1111 Рік тому +105

    So women hate being cheated on, but they also hate loyalty? What other options are there? Guess we men are damned if we do and damned if we don't.

    • @wiliam4294
      @wiliam4294 Рік тому +9

      I'm lost 😕

    • @caca14h
      @caca14h Рік тому +4

      i was thinking the same thing

    • @alphabogeyman7462
      @alphabogeyman7462 Рік тому

      They just have the leverage to ruin men's lives in the the West. In the Middle East and Africa there is nothing a woman can do if a rich husband cheats on her,she can only throw a fit. If she cheats she's out,there is no alimony over there.

    • @greenknight9061
      @greenknight9061 Рік тому +2

      Touché!

    • @ThirdEyePerspective1111
      @ThirdEyePerspective1111 Рік тому

      @@Raptured_and_back but if everyone followed that advice, there would be no serious marriages and families. A deep, mutually exclusive, committed relationship or marriage, is a beautiful thing. I'm pretty sure a lot of these modern day "red pill" ideas are forms of social engineering, meant to break down the family unit, and in turn to break down and conquer society.

  • @timwitt94
    @timwitt94 Рік тому +424

    Grew up around very controlling women, my mom and my sister. My dad was almost always working. I’m almost 30 now and I’ve never been in a serious relationship because I fear that my heart will be crushed and I won’t be able to recover. Really wish things were different in this world, there are plenty of men who just want a romantic life with one woman. Unfortunately, this era leaves those men behind.

    • @warriorwarrior6999
      @warriorwarrior6999 Рік тому +7

      Not true we are still out there. Same can be said for women now days most are not faithful.

    • @ArantyrDarkhand
      @ArantyrDarkhand Рік тому

      @@warriorwarrior6999 Majority of men are decent men... majority of women are disgusting bestial animals. By my observations 1 in 1000 are worth of relationships.

    • @smak387
      @smak387 Рік тому +62

      You need to start dating if you are 30. It doesn't matter. Date the cashier at your grocery store. Just get in the practice of being around real women. You learn so much. And it will prepare you for when the right one comes. Don't go years without dating.

    • @jreavestheleader8255
      @jreavestheleader8255 Рік тому

      Bra take that pain u will be ok frfr u gotta seek God and listen to him and see if she is the right one the main thing is don’t smash her don’t stick yo meat in her coochie

    • @rikoads9176
      @rikoads9176 Рік тому +13

      Ok other people are talking from experience. You need to get some experience. This is really end game level conversation.
      Don’t worry we all get lucky from time to time. Don’t be so afraid, every female is their own experience and usually good for about 2 years of good experiences.

  • @dragasan
    @dragasan Рік тому +95

    Yeah man, spot on! My mother repeated cheated on my father. My gold digging sisters did the same with their husbands. Even though my parents were divorced and my Father died, my mother lives on my Father's pension. Now that he's dead, she blames all her infidelity on him, like it was his fault. That's called denial. They can't understand why I've been single and have played the field for 6+ years after 2 failed marriages, and yet they constantly try to give relationship advice. Such toxic BS! 😂

    • @user-gp5yh7eg4z
      @user-gp5yh7eg4z Рік тому +16

      Call them out. It's time men called out the women in our lives for their behavior

    • @colourbasscolourbassweapon2135
      @colourbasscolourbassweapon2135 Рік тому +4

      dam bro no cap

    • @colourbasscolourbassweapon2135
      @colourbasscolourbassweapon2135 Рік тому

      @@user-gp5yh7eg4z i agree fr bro no cap they like A bunch of kids

    • @jonnjones8263
      @jonnjones8263 Рік тому +6

      As much as I hate that aspect of female nature I also hate it when men don't call them out on it. Next time your mother asks why you're not in a relationship tell her it's because you saw what your mother did to your father and what your sisters did to their husbands.

    • @b4vcu687
      @b4vcu687 Рік тому +3

      maybe your mother poisoned your father

  • @1andOnlyTotality
    @1andOnlyTotality Рік тому +46

    Been saying this for years. Especially the part where they see you as a chump if you commit to her because on some level she hates herself.

  • @boblotoldo3051
    @boblotoldo3051 Рік тому +40

    My mum too manipulated us into hating my dad to the point that we called him "the other guy" to talk about him. She made it look like everything was his fault. They both passed away now but I hold a special anger against my mum. It took me a long time to wake up and realise that she was the problem

  • @maxjohnson1758
    @maxjohnson1758 Рік тому +297

    Its been my experience that wives often low key want you to fail. It's the weirdest thing.

    • @smak387
      @smak387 Рік тому

      The women now want to be men.

    • @jreavestheleader8255
      @jreavestheleader8255 Рік тому

      They be having demonic spirits in them wait on God it can be hard but u can do it

    • @abdulrahmanessam5511
      @abdulrahmanessam5511 Рік тому

      Woman nature is ugly , since my childhood i always wondered why girls are so mean and hateful to me ? I always thought you know iam the bad person maybe i look bad maybe iam not good looking . After a while i discovered that one of the most hateful girls turned out to have a crush on me but since she knows i would never date her or look to her she treated me like absolute sh*t

    • @ron5948
      @ron5948 Рік тому +24

      They want you to overcome them. It's Nietzschean and healthy brother

    • @specta6233
      @specta6233 Рік тому +48

      @@ron5948 how is that healthy? Wanting us to “be better” but resenting is for it

  • @snowballandpals
    @snowballandpals Рік тому +222

    Holy shit, you just helped me realize that my ex was trying to beta-tize me. She was picking fights with me non-stop and I ended up deciding leaving her to focus on my career.

    • @smokingcrab2290
      @smokingcrab2290 Рік тому

      Now how much you wanna bet she copes by telling her dumbass friends "he just couldn't handle me"

    • @carlosalbert7667
      @carlosalbert7667 Рік тому +36

      Best decision of your life.

    • @snowballandpals
      @snowballandpals Рік тому +7

      @@carlosalbert7667 it was but I do love her still

    • @Ban00
      @Ban00 Рік тому +27

      @@snowballandpals simp

    • @davien001
      @davien001 Рік тому +8

      That's normal, you're better off building yourself now so you have the option to have a good woman down the line.

  • @johnn.marshall4566
    @johnn.marshall4566 Рік тому +31

    That’s why properly vetting a woman is so important. The difference between a broken woman and a good woman is enormous. 👍

    • @smak387
      @smak387 Рік тому +5

      Finding a women with a healthy mind and open heart is hard. It's even harder to date and marry them

    • @smokingcrab2290
      @smokingcrab2290 Рік тому +1

      Such a fine line between the two

    • @Madness1299
      @Madness1299 Рік тому +5

      The difference between a bad woman and a good woman, is reality and fiction. Or Earth and Heaven. And most men don't want to hear this because it kills the dream, so it's often left to reality to tell them instead.

    • @TheBanjoShowOfficial
      @TheBanjoShowOfficial Рік тому

      @@smak387 well yeah that's because you're almost all godless people who have renounced God. Men and women.

    • @smak387
      @smak387 Рік тому

      @TheBanjoShowOfficial I agree. The West has killed God [in their culture] and has failed to cleanse the blood from its hands and have failed to replace Him.

  • @grggg21
    @grggg21 9 місяців тому +7

    Bro you are literally saving lives here

  • @greggavin5441
    @greggavin5441 Рік тому +27

    Wow, great video. I'm 63 and living this premise. Got divorced at 59. I've learned so much since then. Been through 3 millionaire woman and walked away. Could have had anything I wanted, inspite of having own money. I own my house and cars, completely debt free and full of options. Nothing changes in this game, just the age. I'm not trying to find a woman 20 years younger. I'm finding woman near my age demographic that are still attractive. However, I refuse to put up with bullshit. No matter what age you are, you have to be willing to walk away, especially if you're not being respected. I could write a book on my experiences in the past 5 years. Good job Casey, very important video.

    • @greggavin5441
      @greggavin5441 Рік тому +1

      Sorry typo, "disrespected". You're going to find a majority of attractive women are narcissistic. They'll love bomb you, and lots of sex the first month. Then they start the drill, putting you down. It's an epidemic. They all think they are the prize.

    • @laurencehanneguelle8200
      @laurencehanneguelle8200 27 днів тому

      Please do write a book. You seem to be a sensible person who has a lot to teach. Unlike the poser in dressing gown above.

  • @tres5533
    @tres5533 Рік тому +219

    HEY GUYS! As an older Gen X MAN, I feared Casey would experience this. I saw his videos before COVID. Hands down he is highly emotional intelligent. My mentees (20's) have checked out and are doing EXACTLY what he said. Modern women really "don't think about men" until they want/need something. ZERO respect for men. NADA

    • @Fabian-kv9tw
      @Fabian-kv9tw Рік тому +3

      Do you have advice for me sir?

    • @ABCetcIamalwaysright
      @ABCetcIamalwaysright Рік тому +4

      nah dude you're too deep into this. Real women are smarter and look at his personality too.. If you insult them for money on youtube they ain't gonna marry you.

    • @darrenturner3534
      @darrenturner3534 Рік тому

      The word you should have used is "protoge"

    • @celticmulato2609
      @celticmulato2609 Рік тому +10

      Go to Phillipines, Romania or Eastern Europe or Asia or East Africa where the women are traditional and feminine!

    • @nocturnaljoe9543
      @nocturnaljoe9543 Рік тому +13

      @@ABCetcIamalwaysright "Reaaaaal women" Ofc hahahahaha!

  • @BBQDad463
    @BBQDad463 Рік тому +160

    Thank you for this video.
    Dress as you wish. I do---robe whenever possible.
    I am 71. Throughout my life, I have observed that a woman generally will treat a man worse as that man treats her better.
    Thank goodness I am not in the dating pool in these days. It looks like a nightmare: The women all have tattoos, and hog-rings in their noses; children, and college-loan debt; and silicone everywhere from their lips to their backsides. Speaking of backsides, each one thinks the Sun rises and sets in hers.

    • @ITR1329
      @ITR1329 Рік тому +18

      Respect ^

    • @ArantyrDarkhand
      @ArantyrDarkhand Рік тому +14

      See youre 71 and see what ive observed at 16; 2 decades ago. Women have aways been the same. The better you threath then the worst behavior you get in return.
      Animals need to be threathed has animals.

    • @Paul-vf4wv
      @Paul-vf4wv Рік тому +6

      Your spot on my older, wiser brother.

    • @hermosohouse349
      @hermosohouse349 Рік тому

      Extremely accurate, concise summary of the modern woman! You are a very observant man! Despite being a very obvious phenomenon most normies can't see the obvious for various reasons associated with most of these people being institutionally programmed meat robots.

    • @smokingcrab2290
      @smokingcrab2290 Рік тому +12

      @Raptured and Back, I'm a Christian and I hate the double standards men have to deal with when it comes to women. Women are told to sub it to their husbands as the head of the household but women won't. They'll make excuses to not follow those verses of the Bible. But they'll demand the men love them unconditionally. Women are handled with kids gloves and are never held accountable by pastors or counselors. Everything is always the man's fault. I hate it. I've honestly never been so angry with my religion because of this issue.

  • @ResilientSurfer
    @ResilientSurfer Рік тому +82

    That’s toxic if they hate you for loving them. Don’t waste your time, if they can’t learn to love with you.

    • @1a1o
      @1a1o Рік тому +14

      Was thinking the same… those women that are turn off by commitment for the streets which are most modern women 😂

    • @BecomingYourIdeal
      @BecomingYourIdeal Рік тому +10

      Too many of them out here

    • @Yggdrasill8
      @Yggdrasill8 Рік тому +5

      @@1a1o They get the "ick" from long term companionship, dedication, relationship work, building a family, the guy showing genuine love to her. You know what that tells me, her parents didn't love her enough. That or she was raised by a single mother who could not play both the role of dad and mom at the same time.

    • @samuelvelazquez8834
      @samuelvelazquez8834 Рік тому +1

      I think it’s more that they have to know that you are 100% willing to walk away if you’re not getting the respect you deserve. Women want commitment especially if they want to have kids. Uncle C is becoming weird as hell, look at all his videos, like 99% of them lately are focused on women. It’s a turn off for any man who actually has hobbies and passions that don’t involve women (which should be all of us)

  • @dreacul
    @dreacul Рік тому +12

    The most valuable lesson that I learned in my 33 years which includes also a beautiful 5 years marriage from which I just got out is that women are always making plans. Everything looks ok but they are actually always making plans to move on which we, men, don't do. They make screenings continously. They won't focus on the good things that recomend you as a man but rather hang on small details which I feel like they allow themselves to get affected by them on purpose to serve them later.

  • @meb280
    @meb280 Рік тому +103

    I'm in my 60s. It is rather depressing to think of how the dating landscape looks these days. I wouldn't say things were completely different in my time, would imagine that there were some of the same things, albeit to a different extent. But then again, I wasn't seeing women who had 15-20 body count a by the age of 20, like it apparently is these days. Feel sorry for the younger guys, to be honest, I wish it didn't have to be this way.

    • @davidjonathannn950
      @davidjonathannn950 Рік тому +1

      Lmfaooo

    • @smokingcrab2290
      @smokingcrab2290 Рік тому +54

      Men today have to work 10x harder than their grandfathers did for women that are 100x worse than their grandmothers were

    • @sjors7750
      @sjors7750 Рік тому +9

      Media ruins everything

    • @Yggdrasill8
      @Yggdrasill8 Рік тому

      @@sjors7750 Social media is like Crack Cocaine for women, come to think of it, a crack addict women would be more humble than a narcissist girl addicted to social media

    • @Damesanglante
      @Damesanglante Рік тому +10

      Money ruins everything.
      No money, no status, no comptetition.
      Capitalism is a dystopia.

  • @ZekeRodriguezshow
    @ZekeRodriguezshow Рік тому +81

    So true. Two of the most impactful relationships of my life, both chicks self sabotaged, and sabotaged me as i was making big status gains. Im way way happier single. Business and social status maximizing as we speak. Line of girls, most of which i dont even acknowledge because im focused. Thanks for reinforcing my assessments brotha.

    • @richardfloridaman
      @richardfloridaman Рік тому +4

      incel

    • @neolink8197
      @neolink8197 Рік тому

      How have you increased yoir status if you dont mind me asking?

    • @ZekeRodriguezshow
      @ZekeRodriguezshow Рік тому +5

      @@richardfloridaman bot

    • @ZekeRodriguezshow
      @ZekeRodriguezshow Рік тому +2

      @@neolink8197 ive gotten involved with politics over the years and recently its launched me into a new realm of networking plus i get the social status of a high level politician. Everyone knows me, statewide.

    • @richardfloridaman
      @richardfloridaman Рік тому +1

      @@ZekeRodriguezshow nah bro. I’m real. You’re just another straight man that I laugh at i am so lucky that I’m not heterosexual.

  • @ElFknKronos10
    @ElFknKronos10 Рік тому +249

    Bro this just happened to me. I started seeing this girl who said she wanted a commitment, a relationship. At first I told her I didn’t want that shit, but for some reason I ended up giving her what she said she wanted.
    How did it end? Disrespected, she was ungrateful, always asking for more, I even had to meet her mom bro. For what? She literally treated me better and was more attracted to me when I told her I didn’t want a relationship.
    Damn crazy man. Guess who’s single again? I knew it wasn’t gonna last shit anyways.

    • @HANZELVANDERLAAY
      @HANZELVANDERLAAY Рік тому +22

      Same thing...over and over again for me

    • @positivevibesonly3795
      @positivevibesonly3795 Рік тому

      People change their mind she’s simply the wrong b!tch don’t sweat it

    • @dragorn3212
      @dragorn3212 Рік тому +43

      Same.. had a girl that was obsessed over me, constantly driving me away with her insane high attraction that was borderline. How did her attraction ultimately diminish? Well it started when i made the mistake of actually caring for her when she got the flu. Then doing favors for her when she injure her leg. And once i do that no more s3x for me and only get used from then on. Once you care it's over. Therefore why give them what they obviously don't value or appreciate

    • @mangakasaide2166
      @mangakasaide2166 Рік тому +15

      Exactly what happened with ma last girl, you cannot make this shit up

    • @HANZELVANDERLAAY
      @HANZELVANDERLAAY Рік тому +10

      Yeah....we even brought up married..I flew home...and planned to move to her..and she later.. said..she can only do two nites a week..what a sham

  • @goranvuletic8873
    @goranvuletic8873 Рік тому +27

    I am almost 54. It's crazy how I started noticing all these things when I was just 16. It's only recently that I got it confirmed thanks to the channels like these. I saw it all long time ago: all the three pills, narsicism etc.

    • @djStens
      @djStens Рік тому +3

      It's pretty crazy how you intuitively know this stuff as a guy but it doesn't mentally click until someone articulates it

    • @repeatrerun2047
      @repeatrerun2047 Рік тому

      What makes it worse is men aren’t legally allowed to assemble in groups and validate each man’s experience. Women infiltrate all male organizations and disrupt a man’s ability to share his experience.

  • @bigj3508
    @bigj3508 Рік тому +6

    jesus dude. Sorry to hear about your pops. Thanks for making this channel and I'm sure he's insanely proud of what you're doing. Keep up the great work!

  • @the-simon-show
    @the-simon-show Рік тому +57

    I see your point. Basically when it comes to modern women you have to be careful with how you handle your relationship with them because chances are they aren’t looking to settle down and commit themselves to you. However their are some women out there who haven’t been what we called “modernized” and still value integrity and meaningful relationship and those are the women you want to be married with.

    • @AlexanderTheFarmer
      @AlexanderTheFarmer Рік тому +17

      They get taken quickly by other men unless God blesses you somehow to meet her.

    • @Anthony-dj4nd
      @Anthony-dj4nd Рік тому +13

      Marriage is dead! You didn't get the memo!?

  • @NWBOXING247
    @NWBOXING247 Рік тому +35

    Every girl on my roster always complains about me not wanting to commit, and accuse me of having a wife, other girls, etc. Yet here they are, still blowing my ass up 😄

    • @tdaye6978
      @tdaye6978 Рік тому +7

      Same! 😂 I've had the same 3 women for years who have complained about me not committing for YEARS, and they're still around! The women I tried to commit to have all long since left. I've had a revolving door of women who I may or may not have tried to commit to, but I've still got 3 of the same women who refuse to leave. If I suddenly say I want commitment, I'll never hear from them again

    • @NWBOXING247
      @NWBOXING247 Рік тому

      @@tdaye6978 WISDOM!

    • @oliguayasebesteves166
      @oliguayasebesteves166 Рік тому

      Your ass? Are they using toys on you😂?

    • @nonsensicalwebby1663
      @nonsensicalwebby1663 3 місяці тому

      Where’s the best place to get a roster? I’m not interested in clubs or bars, and idk about apps and shit, so I’m kinda out of luck lmao😂

  • @georgerodriguez2987
    @georgerodriguez2987 Рік тому +27

    It’s not wise to compare yourself to anyone it leads to a lack of confidence

  • @imranduplessis8561
    @imranduplessis8561 Рік тому +2

    Good shit. You verbalised something I realized but was too scared to admit to my unsuccesscul self.

  • @fundreaa
    @fundreaa Рік тому +3

    you are so fucking right man! I found an amazing woman and had a wonderful marriage for 25 yrs till she passed. She was the most amazing supportive wife, we built businesses, she was so proud of me, supported my decisions and crazy business ideas that eventually were right and earned us millions. Trying to build the same... oh boy these days it's impossible. The first relationship lasted 8 months, she got everything from me, financial security as well, then she walked away...wtf? Then I am out dating every day, having tons of fun and adventures and see the picture clearly as you explain. it's pure gold having it concentrated this way as you presented! You rock dude, keep pumping out this valuable content, real man needs this so we understand the concept and beware, so we don't get sucked into the system... Thx

  • @aldorodriguez7310
    @aldorodriguez7310 Рік тому +79

    This got to a whole nother level of realness. I appreciate you. Takes courage to step into this vulnerability to address the real social dynamics of our society.

  • @MenGrowingTOWin
    @MenGrowingTOWin Рік тому +54

    "The more you put in the less you get out" 100% true. Great advice about treating girls as a reflection of their character and good insight on Players and RP. The only reason I can think of why a man would commit to a girl is if he wants kids. That's the only reason. but the potential cost and risks are very high. Like where are you going to find a "value girl" and how are you ever going to know about their past for sure?

    • @jakelesnake4927
      @jakelesnake4927 Рік тому +1

      I agree, but as I get older and have increasingly experienced everything before, life offers less and less joy, meaning and purpose, and more physical pain and illness. Without kids in the equation it becomes increasingly difficult to justify existing at all. If you’re staring at oblivion, taking some pretty massive risk seems to make some sense.

    • @MenGrowingTOWin
      @MenGrowingTOWin Рік тому

      @@jakelesnake4927 Also true, sadly, if a man wants kids, there is little choice for him.

    • @basicinfo2022
      @basicinfo2022 Рік тому

      That's basically a feminine man... you will repel feminine women by low effort. Lack of effort equals lack of interest to smart women.

  • @kurtlynch349
    @kurtlynch349 Рік тому +38

    You’re absolutely correct on so many levels .It’s so sad but it’s the harsh reality of female nature. Men chase your purpose and if they follow so be it and if not you can leave them by the wayside.

    • @jakelesnake4927
      @jakelesnake4927 Рік тому +2

      And when you’ve acheieved your purpose? Or you discover the vacuousness of those things, especially when you have no-one to enjoy them with, what do you do?

    • @TheBanjoShowOfficial
      @TheBanjoShowOfficial Рік тому

      @@jakelesnake4927 jake asking the questions 99% of men are afraid to ask themselves lol. You can try to live alone, but I can nearly guarantee you will eventually find yourself quite rather lonely with no one to share life with intimately.

    • @sowaveysuyat
      @sowaveysuyat Рік тому

      @@jakelesnake4927you are already complete

  • @waynebrye-bey7027
    @waynebrye-bey7027 Рік тому +2

    You look cool and relaxed man. Your good in your robe. Hell, switch up at times; as long as your message hits. This video hit home.

  • @Coach_B2024
    @Coach_B2024 Рік тому +5

    Gotta rewatch this every single day. This is pure (harsh) truth, coming from a 41yo PT who lived on both sides of the fence.
    Thank you Casey.

  • @jjberg83
    @jjberg83 Рік тому +144

    Same thing happened to me. The more I did for her, the more she disrespected me. I broke up with her (called her breakup bluff) and now she is still texting me even with a new guy lol
    The women who treated me the best were the ones I strung along. It wasn't right of me, but apparently that's what they want.

    • @SystemAdministrator1
      @SystemAdministrator1 Рік тому +14

      They want to shii on us

    • @smokingcrab2290
      @smokingcrab2290 Рік тому +19

      I had an ex fiance. Went to college with her and she liked me for years. I finally committed to her and we even got engaged. When we started planning the wedding is when everything went to shit. It was at this time she started disrespecting me, acting like a child, making everything her way or the highway, and trying to force us as a couple to make the worst possible decisions. I was basically planning the entire thing by myself and she would either approve or disapprove. It got to a point where I told her I didn't want to marry ehr anymore. She gave me her ring back and went our separate ways. Then she did everything she could to keep me in her life. Constantly calling me, texting me, apologizing, etc. Then I met someone else and my ex found out and she called me saying she wanted it all back

    • @drizzl954
      @drizzl954 Рік тому +5

      Welp Looks like karma came back to bite you for stringing along the good women who actually did treat you right , did you think they wanted to be strung along w your bs? Also if the other girl who disrespected you while you did everything for her is later on texting you while she's with her new guy 😅 then obviously she belongs to the streets . Please learn some decernment and Don't confuse a good woman that YOU did wrong, to a 405 that strung you along and then complain that all modern women are the same

    • @NeoRoX90
      @NeoRoX90 Рік тому

      @@drizzl954 finally someone with some common sense here. I love how so many people here are hypocrites, blaming women for stringing them along, but then doing the exact same things and then it isn't a problem, because it works for you? You're not any better than those 'modern women', you're just as awful.

    • @burtongrimes2227
      @burtongrimes2227 Рік тому +17

      Woman are backwards bro. My last chick I absolutely broke her heart in so many ways and yet she came back to me every time even more in love. I cheated, was caught 5 times on bumble by her friends. Would be invited to her friends parties and would just ghost half way though and leave to go do something else. Always take me back in wetter than the last time. It’s a sad reality

  • @qmulus1
    @qmulus1 Рік тому +14

    When you truly love her, she’ll run AWAY from you. When you pretend to love her, she’ll run AFTER you.

  • @josephc8440
    @josephc8440 Рік тому +11

    always dropping gems bro. Quick little story i was talking to some cute innocent chick when i worked at innout a year ago she was 18 im 20, i took it slow respected her and just wasnt feeling it so we went our ways. Yesterday came back in town for mothers day weekend, talking to the bros who still work there to find out shes dating nd gettin clapped by a 29 year old cook whos the gamer guy at the store. Just kept thinking damn these bitches will fck anyone its crazy, you never really truly know a woman these days, this new gen is scary lol. Stick to that grind guys u can fuck with anyone once youve made it!

  • @tc96z1
    @tc96z1 Рік тому +6

    I just sub’d after catching this video. EVERYTHING is true. My ex sabotaged Our marriage after 23 years when my income rose 300% after 911 when I had no choice but make a change after my business collapsed. I was never able to explain “competition anxiety” in words and she was the 1% girl with a zero notch count. Good stuff and a lot of it applies to ‘good ones’.

  • @DJYC21215
    @DJYC21215 Рік тому +26

    This only happens when you have absolutely no clue what you are doing. Most men think that once they get the woman they can stop being the man who attracted her in the first place, No. The second you stop being the same guy you were when she met you (Yes this includes going from being a player to being loyal) that's when the attraction decreases. This is why you should never manipulate women, and while it's harder, you must attract women making them think you are loyal in the first interaction that way it doesn't lower their interest later when you've proven that you are.

    • @Hi_MyNameIs_Bill
      @Hi_MyNameIs_Bill Рік тому +2

      What attracted them to you in the first place is her imagination of who you are. When people first meet, they don't truly know each other. Even after a few dates, you both won't know each other that well, but maybe well enough to find the other person attractive. The longer you're with that person, the more you learn about them. So what you're saying is actually impossible. You can't only be the person she "imagined" you were because you can't read her mind and plenty of times, if she no longer finds you attractive she will not take the time out of her day to tell you what she doesn't like about you. That will be the moment she will start ghosting you or acting strange around you. Of course, every individual chooses what type of person they're in relationships but today's dating game is definitely screwed up.

    • @alfreddavisjr6205
      @alfreddavisjr6205 Рік тому

      Seems like a simp locking the closet door on her skeletons! Every male didnt lie & manipulate

  • @stevecarter1673
    @stevecarter1673 Рік тому +120

    Wow. That's powerful. I can see what you are talking about. I committed to a woman and gave her everything she asked for and when it came time to meet she dumped me like a bad disease. Options! Keep your options open.

    • @tspice11
      @tspice11 Рік тому +19

      Meet?

    • @francisdashwood1760
      @francisdashwood1760 Рік тому +10

      Do you know that ''she'' actually existed? BTW, what did you give her?

    • @TheRedM856
      @TheRedM856 Рік тому +4

      So you didn't analyse the woman at all? She most likely was a 304 either way

    • @leslypompy1357
      @leslypompy1357 Рік тому +1

      I have seen this happen to doctors.

    • @nteta10k
      @nteta10k Рік тому +7

      @@francisdashwood1760 surely money; and surely that was a dude

  • @juliekeeney1538
    @juliekeeney1538 Рік тому +198

    She has to feel safe with you, but safe with contingency. She has to know if she don’t respect you, you’ll pull it all away and won’t look back. And you should find women who bring something to the table, but not more than you do.

    • @patienceobongo
      @patienceobongo Рік тому +18

      Yawn.. want want want.

    • @ibziibz1886
      @ibziibz1886 Рік тому

      A female!? Hey, get outta here, lady, no girls allowed. The last thing we need is to follow something you don't even know

    • @teddyduchamp832
      @teddyduchamp832 Рік тому +7

      What is the correlation between commitment and feeling safe?

    • @RANDassociatesinc
      @RANDassociatesinc Рік тому +10

      Keep walking, Julie. I’m sure you have some hair to twirl or something.

    • @dragorn3212
      @dragorn3212 Рік тому

      And what does she bring to the table other than what's between her legs?
      exactly, and you expect men to do all of that?

  • @ubiquitousreverser
    @ubiquitousreverser Рік тому +37

    Just found your channel. I’m married, however was potentially going to be divorced and had learned some things about women with psychology and just kept taking it in just to help me out if possible. I’m fortunate I have a good woman. Rare indeed. Glad I’m not out there wadding through it but if I can better navigate my current relationship understanding her thinking, I can make sure she doesn’t sabotage. Sad that your Mom broke down the family out of some poor instinct, mindset.

    • @avi4francis
      @avi4francis Рік тому +4

      Bless you brother. I'm happy that there are some men who are doing good!

    • @DesevPostMortem
      @DesevPostMortem Рік тому +1

      I advise you the channel of Stirling Cooper, that guy explains well the psychology of women and how to treat them to keep them.
      I wish you the best for your marriage !

    • @Yggdrasill8
      @Yggdrasill8 Рік тому

      Sounds like you have a lot of stress on your hands, stress is a killer

  • @gd515051
    @gd515051 Рік тому +5

    So much truth. A woman will do so much more in the sack when you’re just screwing around. As soon as you’re in a relationship the sex ends.

  • @davien001
    @davien001 Рік тому +12

    I remembered when I had a lot of women around me in school, I picked one to date and she told me I had to let go of my female friends(who admittedly I've had flings with), guess who cheated with her male friend? Immediately I dumped her and focused on myself here comes the 'you forgot about me' texts, calls and visits. She acted like nothing happened even though I caught her on her bed with the guy and she even tried to make him fight me, haha, guys you and at most your family are your only priority in life. That girl so many years ago still stalks my social media page today, it hurt to let go but you will be much better once you've attained both financial and life success and experience.

    • @cespo77
      @cespo77 Рік тому +1

      Sounds like a narcissist

  • @TonyMoze
    @TonyMoze Рік тому +69

    Wow the fact that Casey is from North Dakota and has experienced this about the NATURE, even over there, comes to show you that this is a universal issue that men are facing.

    • @James-ky6wu
      @James-ky6wu Рік тому +18

      Absolutely universal. I'm in Scotland and can confirm female nature is f*ckin savage.

    • @TonyMoze
      @TonyMoze Рік тому +5

      @@James-ky6wu 🔥

    • @luker1hutcher315
      @luker1hutcher315 Рік тому +6

      @@James-ky6wu Yeh, especially if they don't like what's under that kilt !

    • @James-ky6wu
      @James-ky6wu Рік тому +1

      @@luker1hutcher315 Haha correct. Also how much money is in your sporran!

    • @Learned333
      @Learned333 Рік тому +12

      Imagine the clown world you have to navigate through in a place like Miami.

  • @colinlaidlaw7661
    @colinlaidlaw7661 Рік тому +36

    This is 100% true. Stay focused on yourself and living with passion. Do NOT pursue women for happiness and realize plenty of women will come into your life. Even if you get married and have kids we are not monogomous creatures, we thrive on challenge and novelty. In 21st Century society, high value men focus on themselves and let the women come to them.

    • @smokingcrab2290
      @smokingcrab2290 Рік тому +2

      Loneliness is the kicker. Many men are lonely. So they want women way more than they need them

    • @smokingcrab2290
      @smokingcrab2290 Рік тому +1

      Loneliness is the kicker. Many men are lonely. So they want women way more than they need them

  • @quaidoralious4181
    @quaidoralious4181 Рік тому +14

    Confirmed. Committed and I'm hated for it. This is revolutionary advice

  • @comiccontinuity6167
    @comiccontinuity6167 Рік тому +18

    Over a week ago, I found out that I was cheated on. I wanted to commit to her, but she barely gave me the time of day. I then confronted her about it and she straight admitted she didn't like me. She then proceeded to post selfies with the guy she had been seeing the entire time. I called her out for it and she immediately started backtracking. I then cut her out of my life, only to find she had been keeping tabs on me, and she's doing this because no one has defied her before.

    • @sowaveysuyat
      @sowaveysuyat Рік тому +2

      It’s never the man’s job to focus on commitment or tying someone down, that’s feminine energy

  • @scottchayse6759
    @scottchayse6759 11 місяців тому

    Ugh. Every time I see your videos, I try so hard to prove you wrong on the stuff you say, but it’s hard to do so. You always hit the nail on the head.

  • @ryancarroll3961
    @ryancarroll3961 Рік тому +33

    The saying (treat them like dirt and they’ll stick to you like mud) is true
    I’ve tried it both ways but I’m just not cut out to be a mean man so I will just stay single lol

    • @Southernguitar74
      @Southernguitar74 Рік тому +3

      Be indifferent. Indifference is not meanness. It may feel mean at times, but it is not. She may try to make you feel guilty for it, but don’t fall for it. Indifference works for me because I’m not mean either…Well, I’m not mean most of the time, anyway. Lol

    • @adamvose2651
      @adamvose2651 3 місяці тому

      ​@@Southernguitar74that's good advice 37 here and my stepdads family was perfect I was always told be yourself and you'll find a match and unfortunately the handful I've had all would turn off at the first sign of affection I'm not cut out to be indifferent or cruel which I understand are completely separate things I wish I had the advice earlier when I could have changed but it's too late now im a Christian not a perfect one im wracked with doubts but i want to be a force for good in my time on earth and as lonely as I am and I'm extremely lonely I won't compromise and be something different I have little power but I can control my interactions with people and always treat people how I wished I could be even if just once

  • @niarlatotepbasset
    @niarlatotepbasset Рік тому +18

    Watching relationships of others, and from my personal experiences, he is absolutely on the point about this.

  • @hassaandar3299
    @hassaandar3299 Рік тому +17

    Casey i have to admit..this is the most valuable video of yours..every single man on this planet needs to watch it daily..if ever guys you should only marry a God fearing woman..any other way is asking for trouble

  • @jazibbhat2011
    @jazibbhat2011 Рік тому +2

    I needed this. Thank you.
    Being single it is.

  • @jeeed6390
    @jeeed6390 Рік тому +6

    Oh yes. You nailed it. Been thinking this for years. The whole idea of marrying up, means she already sees herself as below the male. Plus the fact that she has the legal upper hand the moment the ring goes on the finger puts you even lower in her eyes.

    • @atmosrepair
      @atmosrepair Рік тому +2

      Yes they hold all the power in society even prior to marriage, so that innately is a turn off for women as well. They want to be told no, but society folded up and caved long ago.

    • @jermaineayivoh8263
      @jermaineayivoh8263 Рік тому

      @@atmosrepairFeminism has a been one giant society wide sh*t test that men have failed repeatedly over the past 5 decades.

  • @SiyabulelaMateta
    @SiyabulelaMateta Рік тому +56

    Wow Casey, the story about your dad touched me and I see lots of people here can relate to it. I'm from South Africa, and its exactly the same here modern women here are on a movement to betasize men. This is a global issue. Why do our mothers want to entrech in us how to treat girls/women but they never teach their daughters on how to treat men. I have come to the conclusion that modern parents have a greater loyalty to the female code than to the best interests of their own sons. Modern women want to create simps out from their sons, in order to advance the feminist cause whether knowingly or unknowingly. We jointly as men have a responsibility to rebuke simp behaviour wherever we see it, we got to do what these women are not doing and that is teach our daughters on how to treat men.

    • @frankkmallorca3230
      @frankkmallorca3230 Рік тому

      Men are basically educated in a BIG LIE for their mothers, female contacts and goberment in the educational system ( carry by women) ...someone has to "pay the party" so someone has to be the slave of the others and produce resourses all day long for others to live very well.. so they present themselves as victims or social justice to extract from your ...your life.. men are unrealiced slaves of modern society and to keep this lie going on... all women + burocrats + education+ taxes... work together to keep this hidden slavery keep going... and the key of everything are the mothers... that has a survival slave for the future just in case is needed... 😉

    • @nipunagunarathne4882
      @nipunagunarathne4882 Рік тому +1

      Man they're just subconsciously acting out like children to test your child rearing abilities.

    • @JohnQPublic345
      @JohnQPublic345 Рік тому +1

      I think the only place left is southeast Asia

    • @filipesugden1982
      @filipesugden1982 Рік тому

      its called gynocentrism and femaIe cult, its rooted in western civilization since the spread of christianity, and maximized with industrialized societies in post-modernity, now

    • @filipesugden1982
      @filipesugden1982 Рік тому

      @@JohnQPublic345 africa too, the least indutrialized nations are the most sane about true genre equality

  • @horatiomyersss
    @horatiomyersss Рік тому +8

    Fucken real. One of the best videos you’ve done on this channel. I like the casual “shooting the shit” style more than the planned videos so keep ‘em coming

  • @808BJJ_Black_Belt
    @808BJJ_Black_Belt Рік тому +17

    I agree women ask for commitment but if you give in she will lose interest in you eventually using you and dumping you anyway 💯

  • @antoinejackson3947
    @antoinejackson3947 Рік тому +1

    Super helpful advice, bro, helped my mental health extremely.
    A lot of good guys including me really need help.

  • @Joshua-dw4ib
    @Joshua-dw4ib Рік тому +1

    Ok so I can appreciate this perspective! As sad as it is, this is true for about 90% of women out there. Great advice

  • @VenturiLife
    @VenturiLife Рік тому +14

    So right, it's the low self-esteem issue that many women carry around in their heads.

    • @alexanderhamilton8585
      @alexanderhamilton8585 Рік тому

      My first GF had modeling companies recruiting her. She one time confided in me she didn’t understand what everyone else saw. She said “I’m plain. I’m not special. I’m not even pretty”.

    • @smokingcrab2290
      @smokingcrab2290 Рік тому

      @Alexander Hamilton, I've met plenty of plain women who called themselves models. All anyone has to do to call themselves a model these days is have someone take pictures of them once. Amature photographers can take free pics of some chick off Craigslist and bam, she calls herself a model now. Any "model agency" these days can easily be a scam or a front for something else. Any girl who even wants to be a model is just trying to prove to herself she has sexual value because that's the only value a woman has. And the girl you're talking about knew that about herself

  • @michaelsoares2995
    @michaelsoares2995 Рік тому +17

    Outstanding explanation on why women can easily devalue on their minds, a male who commits too much on them. Thank you.

  • @jameslunsford4168
    @jameslunsford4168 Рік тому +30

    This dude knows his shiz. I’ve been married over 10 years have 2 daughters but it’s bc my wife and I truly enjoy each other. I still come here for truth and have learned strategies and methods that are timeless

    • @grizzlymm
      @grizzlymm Рік тому +1

      How brotha? Can you share some techniques you use? We want to know that

  • @thecrownprince888
    @thecrownprince888 Рік тому +6

    You just woke me up even further, I already knew marriage was the biggest scam in this frigid world, and relationships as well. I’m not committing to anything, I’m good where I’m at. I’m married to Brahmacharya 🧘🏽‍♂️

    • @Yourdaddy_2024
      @Yourdaddy_2024 7 місяців тому

      Agree marriage is the biggest scam! Living happily ever after is a myth. No married men can truely honestly say their life got better after marriage

  • @caliswaggur
    @caliswaggur Рік тому +4

    You hit the nail on the head, this is the exact shit that happened to me with a hot chick i was talking to. She was really into me during our first two dates. Physicality was there (making out etc), but the moment I committed to her (being very available for her via text), she ghosted. I was feeling pretty lost, but this helped provide clarity. Thanks

  • @greencrocidile6246
    @greencrocidile6246 Рік тому +13

    My dad was the same super hard working but he’s the one that cheated and seeing my mom cry was horrible because she was always kind and is too nice so am against cheating. Make sure your girls isn’t insecure have her level up as well

  • @rawveganings
    @rawveganings Рік тому +5

    Absolutely agree!! This advice is outstanding!

  • @knowledgeprakash
    @knowledgeprakash Рік тому +14

    You are the most honest man speaking freaking truth in the whole manosphere...love and respect from 🇮🇳 india

    • @aarrynz9721
      @aarrynz9721 Рік тому +2

      Indian women are so loyal. Why are you watching this?

    • @noulafrantz8589
      @noulafrantz8589 Рік тому +1

      ​@@aarrynz9721 😅😅

    • @certain7someone
      @certain7someone Рік тому

      Im from india and I think u can find alot of high value women but the young gen z girls have adopted this western culture and are looking up to become sluts

    • @Hechangethnot
      @Hechangethnot Рік тому

      ​@@aarrynz9721 you mustn't know how feminism has been wrecking India for quite some time now 😂

  • @jamesross1798
    @jamesross1798 Рік тому +45

    Men feel powerful by creating success. But women feel powerful by creating destruction: A man's goal is to say "Look what I've built". But a woman's goal is to say "Look what I've destroyed". As we both say "I am powerful"

    • @dennisgordon7767
      @dennisgordon7767 Рік тому +1

      What?

    • @tonic1667
      @tonic1667 Рік тому

      Basically a women will ruin a man’s achievements so no other woman will want him! They are inherently evil, to each other and esp men they value and can manipulate

    • @maryam_4437
      @maryam_4437 Рік тому

      It’s literally the opposite open a history book

    • @ezelegui7901
      @ezelegui7901 Рік тому

      @@maryam_4437 what woman created? don't go with that bs narrative of war

    • @Karll541
      @Karll541 Рік тому

      @@maryam_4437 lol

  • @hotfirein321
    @hotfirein321 Рік тому +4

    Phenomenal video... simple breakdown, relatable, no ego, just the facts... I love it!!! Definitely gonna sub!!! 💯💯💯

  • @brent2040
    @brent2040 Рік тому +15

    They don't serve you. They are in a relationship with a man for what they can get from you. My last relationship felt like I was signing up to a 2nd job.

  • @nn3789
    @nn3789 Рік тому +23

    Its crazy that top guys have to fight for something that was a norm just two or three decades ago,just imagine normal dude who just wants a normal peaceful average life, human race is doomed beyond repair .

  • @arnoldvelasquez6473
    @arnoldvelasquez6473 Рік тому +62

    How about this, hear me out, you choose whoever you feel like seeing, being the proactive one. You reward her attention, her care, her interest, her affection and her loyalty with reciprocal treatment but the moment she starts losing that respect for you , you let her go and you move on to the next woman you attract from that same frame of abundance. I understand this is what your whole entire point has been but I'm repeating it to myself for verification lol thanks for the great content as always!

    • @Starblade2491
      @Starblade2491 Рік тому +8

      Well said. Good summary of this true and useful information. A helpful paragraph to show someone who needs to hear it, too.

    • @chewbrocka6833
      @chewbrocka6833 Рік тому +5

      Good luck finding long term because they are all short term material not long term

    • @Fred-zt5ky
      @Fred-zt5ky Рік тому

      💯

    • @dragorn3212
      @dragorn3212 Рік тому +6

      I agree with the second part, but the first part no: women do not respond to or reward logic in any way. So by rewarding her you just screw yourself over no matter what

    • @dvt6778
      @dvt6778 Рік тому +1

      That's it, Arnold. Basically, you want a bullpen rotation... and you can be honest...just let them know that's how you roll. Europeans knew this a long time ago...hence why they have lovers and it's not frowned upon.😂

  • @gorethehuman3171
    @gorethehuman3171 Рік тому

    I've read the title, dropped a like, and now I'm going to watch the video

  • @zaccariasippidabarbercollins
    @zaccariasippidabarbercollins Рік тому +1

    Needed to hear this. I got to Truly put My purpose the Forefront. Appreciate you.

  • @Thesecondson312
    @Thesecondson312 Рік тому +22

    I think this style works pretty damn good, where you’re actually thinking your way through a concept. The whiteboard style has value for hard information, this way makes me reflect on my own experience. (19 months after buying into MBT)
    By the way, I think MBT can be useful for those who, like me, lacked any positive male role models growing up…( my dad and older brother actively pursued holding me back rather than seeing me surpass them.)
    I get it that the “get girls” headlines get the views, but MBT can really give guys a life that they always thought was for other people only.
    And we don’t even want to get into how old I am lol!

  • @actionfigurebods5794
    @actionfigurebods5794 Рік тому +4

    The laid back, chilling on the couch in that awesome ass robe is smooth! Great information and spot on from my own experiences

  • @erosgodoflove6159
    @erosgodoflove6159 Рік тому +9

    Thanks for telling us the story of your parents Casey, really opened my eyes

  • @ryan-el9er
    @ryan-el9er Рік тому +6

    subscribed. i’ve seen countless videos on topics like these and some explaining a lot of what you did here, but somehow yours seems more well put together and very easily relatable. i’ve also experienced the things you described and ended a 5 year relationship 7 years ago. i have 2 gf’s now who don’t know of eachother and they’re pretty casual about everything in the relationship. i feel like i’m pretty much single and i definitely live my life like i am. this is far better than when i was in a committed and stable relationship for those 5 years

  • @noti88
    @noti88 Рік тому +8

    Yes, very much dig this style of vid. Your thoughts appear to be flowing much more naturally and it makes for a very cohesive presentation of the topic at hand. Appreciate the candidness about your parents. Def weighs on ya when you're out in the world. Had a lot of that growing up as well.

  • @Mark-gi8ep
    @Mark-gi8ep Рік тому +9

    You my good sir are spot on. Go back 14 years ago I dated my girlfriend for 7 years. Was pursued by many other woman and slept around for years. The moment after my 7th year I chose to propose to her. She immediately seen it as a weakness in me then bam she was no longer attracted. To be clear I chose her and told her she's the one. She
    liked the bad boy in me.

  • @slowdancer5563
    @slowdancer5563 Рік тому +5

    This is a great look for you. Calm and in control. Believable.

  • @Karll541
    @Karll541 Рік тому +12

    There are nuances to this and other reasons they might not like you committing. They often despise you because you were the placeholder boyfriend all along that committed. She is holding out for something else even better (which in most cases she’ll never get because of her own delusions). You’re unfortunately never good enough to her and she won’t tell you

  • @dav1d_andrew
    @dav1d_andrew Рік тому

    Your demeanor and poise is on point for this type of video my guy. So articulate and gives great real world examples. Nice to hear the perspective from a bro who doesnt have a problem getting women.

  • @SunFlower-jr2qh
    @SunFlower-jr2qh Рік тому +9

    This served me; thank you! Appreciate you sharing your story and advice 🙏🏻

  • @MaytheLordbewithyou2
    @MaytheLordbewithyou2 Рік тому +4

    First time watching your channel.This is super red pill!! I love this ❤️. I feel like most men growing up have no one to give them these advice and from the media, men are taught to simp.

  • @hansuustalu1251
    @hansuustalu1251 Рік тому +8

    Thank you for your support and guidance throughout the years. I am honored to be a viewer of your content, and I will continue to watch and follow your work. Keep up the great work! Greetings from Tallinn, Estonia.

    • @johnclark8637
      @johnclark8637 Рік тому

      Do the women act like that where you're from?

  • @amorosogombe9650
    @amorosogombe9650 Рік тому

    This is so spot on. And by the way when you level up your options improve.

  • @bIvqrz
    @bIvqrz Рік тому +3

    not all women are like this, but it’s a fine line, gentlemen. Choose wisely

    • @johnT906
      @johnT906 Рік тому

      Not all but most women in America are that way.

  • @DagothChad
    @DagothChad Рік тому +13

    You are right you jerk lol. I became the top solar salesman by far and my wife still didnt stay loyal. I dumped her ass and went into real estate. I liked that you were not pessimistic. You adressed a problem and gave solutions. Ive been beginning to think women havent got enormously crazier in the last 50 years or so. We have just became more aware of them and their behaviors. Or maybe its a little of both