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КОМЕНТАРІ • 121

  • @_missashleybanks_
    @_missashleybanks_ 2 місяці тому +80

    We don’t gaf what they want. If they ignore, move on!

  • @cup_o_TMarie
    @cup_o_TMarie 2 місяці тому +39

    If someone is into you (especially a man) you’ll KNOW….If you’re confused, then it’s a NO & your signal to move on.
    If you hang around they’re only seeing you as an option & will have you on the back burner with a bunch of other simmering pots.
    There are sooo many insecure people using other’s attention for validation & people hanging onto to them hoping it’ll turn into something.
    If it’s not direct communication & action (at ANY level of the connection), then it’s a waste of your time.

  • @Peace-12230
    @Peace-12230 2 місяці тому +58

    When they are ignoring they are going on with someone else.💯🔥 Better leave than trying.

    • @jilllisa5724
      @jilllisa5724 2 місяці тому +1

      In a nut shell

    • @user-uu9yb9wb5b
      @user-uu9yb9wb5b Місяць тому

      Does that go for women too? I really don’t think most guys get that many women. He might just not like you. Is the only reason you stop paying attention to a man because she found someone else?

  • @Peace-12230
    @Peace-12230 2 місяці тому +35

    When they ignore they got something going on with someone big red flag.

  • @sophrosyne5900
    @sophrosyne5900 2 місяці тому +65

    Match energy. Always . That is all .

    • @tinyking11
      @tinyking11 2 місяці тому +1

      PERIOD‼️🔥💯

  • @user-cb7cz3ty5p
    @user-cb7cz3ty5p 2 місяці тому +15

    If they ignore you ? Ignore them

  • @emi_1996
    @emi_1996 2 місяці тому +92

    I am done, tired, sick, and exhausted because of men. I won't date anyone again or be in a relationship.

    • @samscarletta7433
      @samscarletta7433 2 місяці тому +8

      You probably gonna be married before ANY of us! giiiiirrrllll 🤣😂

    • @kimmiet1980
      @kimmiet1980 2 місяці тому +9

      They live in their heads and play so many games. That's what's exhausting.

    • @SVAsianPhilippinesGo6858
      @SVAsianPhilippinesGo6858 2 місяці тому

      @@samscarletta7433 Why? Because she was born in 1996? Lol.

    • @user-uu9yb9wb5b
      @user-uu9yb9wb5b Місяць тому

      Do you look at what you could change? For example I attract emotionally unavailable men because I’m also emotionally unavailable lol

  • @WellWithMel
    @WellWithMel 2 місяці тому +29

    " Your value is diminished to a pixel " Insane but its so true, Im really happy that i stopped online dating. Thats where all the low effort men reside

  • @micboo1978
    @micboo1978 2 місяці тому +31

    Everything you said is true. So funny that ppl you have insane chemistry with never works out. I’m now in a relationship that started slow and now we’re engaged and 4 years later have a baby on the way. Solid!

  • @jujubee2903
    @jujubee2903 2 місяці тому +56

    Just want someone to want me and make it plain. No games, no wondering. Just honesty and transparency.
    Like, let’s both risk getting hurt by being open with one another and maybe through that, we’ll discover that true love does exist.😕

    • @serenedione
      @serenedione 2 місяці тому +9

      Is that too much to ask, we are too grown for this‼️

    • @jujubee2903
      @jujubee2903 2 місяці тому +5

      @@serenedione too grown!😔

    • @aminebahlouli2060
      @aminebahlouli2060 2 місяці тому

      Trust me men hate playing games more, it’s women who force them to play games as you guys are completely unaware of your manipulative nature

    • @lisettecamejo4243
      @lisettecamejo4243 2 місяці тому +1

      marriage only

  • @jean345__
    @jean345__ 2 місяці тому +87

    It’s such a curse that insane chemistry doesn’t work ever 😢

    • @Diarrheagod
      @Diarrheagod 2 місяці тому

      I’ve learned that insane chemistry from the get go is because this person is triggering your childhood trauma…so essentially it’s a huge red flag because it’s actually your body’s flight or fight response kicking in.

    • @mpp8401
      @mpp8401 2 місяці тому +7

      Sooooo true 😭

    • @WHaAteVaA
      @WHaAteVaA 2 місяці тому +7

      biggest red flag

    • @user-we5sm6vy4p
      @user-we5sm6vy4p 2 місяці тому +27

      Odds are only one person is feeling like there’s chemistry while the other person doesn’t really feel it like you think they do

    • @MegaLadylove2012
      @MegaLadylove2012 2 місяці тому +5

      It is really chemistry or wat you think?

  • @dazeyjanye
    @dazeyjanye 2 місяці тому +47

    i like that, now when I address things that are feeling off and they call me “needy”, “sensitive”, or “not like other people”, I’m going to try not to internalize that feedback, and instead see me addressing/bringing up an issue as a stroke of self-confidence ❤

    • @Asthesunshine
      @Asthesunshine 2 місяці тому +11

      Ya cus it’s just gaslighting

    • @Braveh3artGirl
      @Braveh3artGirl 2 місяці тому +10

      Yep they deflecting the blame on you this happened to me too. They are guilty af

    • @elliea8868
      @elliea8868 2 місяці тому

      @@Braveh3artGirl just curious! but guilty of what? cheating?

    • @Dreamsareareality
      @Dreamsareareality 2 місяці тому +3

      It's deflection. My ex called me aggressive. I am real laid back. It was deflection. It is easy to blame others before we look within. I totally understand what you are saying.

    • @dawrightleo13
      @dawrightleo13 2 місяці тому

      I feel the exact same way and I’m so proud of myself girl!!! I was soooo emotionally avoidant most of my life

  • @adrianatorres7489
    @adrianatorres7489 2 місяці тому +25

    Moonwalk out a room is my new move 🕺 ❤❤

  • @myaccount2604
    @myaccount2604 2 місяці тому +32

    Some ppl are introverted and avoidant and they ignore the person they are crushing on or feel vulnerable around. Online is just like shopping - so ignoring there doesn't even count.

  • @libertyimaging3354
    @libertyimaging3354 2 місяці тому +9

    Let it go you cant do anything if no attention is given

  • @paulwatson9799
    @paulwatson9799 2 місяці тому +11

    If I ignore a woman that's because I'm not attracted to her

  • @Xianne027
    @Xianne027 2 місяці тому +12

    Good point you made that "when you're in a relationship you have to confront things." God, I wish someone would've told me that 40 years ago.

  • @cup_o_TMarie
    @cup_o_TMarie 2 місяці тому +4

    I’ve learned to control my pull towards people because I’ve seen that dysfunctional people will use it even if they have no intention to move further.
    The needy game playing ones will just keep you around for attention where they don’t promise anything so they can say they never did.
    But if you don’t control yourself, people will see this as weak boundaries & that they can play with you.
    And then our weak boundaries will have us hanging on hoping something else will develop & afraid to have the uncomfortable conversations.
    Now I don’t play & I truly am happy alone so someone has to come in & prove they’re capable of adding to my life.
    I’ve found nothing more powerful than this way of handling my relationships.
    It keeps me from wasting my time & heart energy.
    We should only have to learn these lessons a minimum number of times.
    Unfortunately it took me until 50😹🙈but it’s never too late🤩

  • @makeishainniss2440
    @makeishainniss2440 2 місяці тому +50

    Bruh human beings suck

  • @datingdiaries1681
    @datingdiaries1681 2 місяці тому +6

    They are almost all with someone else when all this is happening

    • @user-uu9yb9wb5b
      @user-uu9yb9wb5b Місяць тому

      Everyone is saying this, is it just men? Because if I’m ignoring you I just don’t like you or not in the mood to talk 🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @Mangovybz
    @Mangovybz 2 місяці тому +19

    Why are u so fkn naturally funny 😂😂😂😂 “where is this fkn mosquito” omg

    • @evadiva6240
      @evadiva6240 2 місяці тому +2

      That had me dying 😂

  • @emey444
    @emey444 2 місяці тому +34

    Moon walk your a$$ back😂

  • @emgee691
    @emgee691 2 місяці тому +12

    When it comes to that amazing initial , off the charts, chemistry, simply understand hat it WON'T LAST It simply can't you won't keep it up. Neither of you it's like trying to run everywhere, all the time. You won't because you can't. Sooner or later, you'll have to start walking again. Otherwise, you'll burn out. If you understand this, it doesn't mean the connection/ relationship is no good or has stopped working . But, if you don't understand this, you'll probably think that it has stopped working. But no, not necessarily at all. But then, if all you're after is that sexual " high", that hit and run juice of an intense sexual type, then you're probably not really after anything more, anyway.

    • @cheesy2970
      @cheesy2970 2 місяці тому

      Underrated comment ❤

  • @freeagentgirl23
    @freeagentgirl23 2 місяці тому +13

    Father Alex, the apartment you're in looks amazing!

  • @TimaFatih
    @TimaFatih 2 місяці тому +1

    “If you’re a normal looking person”??? You crack me up every time 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @Rebecca-vt7rp
    @Rebecca-vt7rp 2 місяці тому +3

    You can’t ever close the channel 🤣😭 dk where i’d be without you father alex

  • @alogan9502
    @alogan9502 2 місяці тому +6

    The way a mosquito triggered you instantly 😂🤣😭

  • @jimmorrissy2276
    @jimmorrissy2276 2 місяці тому +3

    "Scooby Doo moment" that was hilarious. I loved that. You playing Debussy Claire de lune, great tune.

  • @SVAsianPhilippinesGo6858
    @SVAsianPhilippinesGo6858 2 місяці тому +4

    That want to be left alone that's what.

  • @GiGi-zr1uh
    @GiGi-zr1uh 2 місяці тому +16

    First here🎉, Hiii Father Alex. Much love from Ghana 🇬🇭

    • @Red123.
      @Red123. 2 місяці тому +2

      Heyyy my ghanaian sistaaa
      Father Alex is the real deal okaayyy

    • @GiGi-zr1uh
      @GiGi-zr1uh 2 місяці тому +3

      @@Red123. He isssss! I’m happy to meet my Ghanaian here. I love this for us.❤️✨

  • @Soul.Is.Willing
    @Soul.Is.Willing 2 місяці тому +10

    This dude's funny. He said di t get all investigative and Scooby-Doo on a person, lol.

  • @SisterMarilyn
    @SisterMarilyn 2 місяці тому +8

    Love the new background/setup!

  • @valeryposadas7852
    @valeryposadas7852 2 місяці тому +3

    You may be Father Alex right now but, in our hearts you'll be Patron Saint Alex fr

  • @marissahumblytherealistone8950
    @marissahumblytherealistone8950 2 місяці тому +1

    I love how you said " joke of the universe".. 😍 it just BLOWS MY MIND how F',in Smart you are...Omg 🥴

  • @almab586
    @almab586 2 місяці тому +1

    I like this guy, he talks from the heart ❤️ 😂
    Cursing the mosquito made me laughing 😆

  • @SincerelyDanielle974
    @SincerelyDanielle974 9 днів тому

    😢😩😔let me tell y’all somethin’, I’m sittin’ here trippin’ on how I wound up in this new mess, you know? I got this dude I’m dealin’ with, but I don’t even know what he really is to me-he ain't no boyfriend, that’s for damn sure. I know thats the first mistake I made, but we were in the talking stage, we ain’t never put a title on it, nothin’ like that, we didn’t establish none of that, We was just caught up in the heat of the moment, lettin' our lust take over, and now bam! I’m sittin' here wonderin' what I did wrong, like, how the hell I didn’t learn from my past? Why I gotta keep putting myself back into these messed-up situations? We just let all that lust twist up our heads and now look, I’m pregnant again with my second baby, and I’m like, what the hell did I do? It’s like history repeatin’ itself, and I’m sittin’ here alone again, just like with my first son Sincere’s pops who straight abandoned me, like I was some ol’ piece of trash. I was there, givin' my all, and now I’m back in this same spot, thinkin’ about how I didn’t learn a damn thing from last time.It’s all on me, though, I made this bed, and here I am actin’ like I ain’t gotta lay in it. I know reality, I’m tryin’ to face up, but damn! This cat, he be actin’ all tough and sh** but then tries to turn everything on me like I’m the one who made this baby pop up all by myself, like it don’t take two to tango, ya know what I’m sayin'? I ain’t tryin’ to trap nobody; I just wanted some companionship, someone to keep me company, but now I’m lookin’ at this mess like, ‘What did I do wrong?’ It’s like the same old story, and I shoulda learned by now, but here I am, stuck with second chances that turned out just like the first. All this was so unplanned, and we used protection, but somehow, here we are again, and this dude has ghosted me for five whole days. I’m tryin’ to reach out, sendin’ texts, callin’, and crickets, ya know? It’s like I’m just tryna get in touch, but he’s actin' like I don’t even exist, and the fear’s settin’ in, makin’ me question every damn choice I’ve made. 😢😔🥺😩😭

  • @CeciledeLuire
    @CeciledeLuire 2 місяці тому +4

    yup, no online dating for me.

    • @ChocolateLover4365
      @ChocolateLover4365 Місяць тому +1

      Yeah, I tried thinking to myself to have an open mind and try something new. Nope, not ever again 🙅‍♀️

    • @CeciledeLuire
      @CeciledeLuire Місяць тому +1

      @@ChocolateLover4365 i so understand !!

  • @ivonnemorris0
    @ivonnemorris0 2 місяці тому +7

    You are a beautiful man!!!! I like listening to your subjects but, looking at you ain't bad! Don't worry...I'm too old for you. I'm just saying...🎉

  • @user-sy4bb5ol2d
    @user-sy4bb5ol2d 2 місяці тому +1

    The mosquito chase was 😅

  • @hanies7
    @hanies7 2 місяці тому +1

    this video is gold.

  • @deirdrehanlon3625
    @deirdrehanlon3625 2 місяці тому +11

    It just means they are not interested in talking with you that much lol

  • @Badblondeone
    @Badblondeone 2 місяці тому +1

    Some days good advice! Thanks

  • @sabihakassamia
    @sabihakassamia 2 місяці тому

    Hey your channel is very inspiring... Been through a lot of heartbreak I am glad that you teach a lot of important things and give me a peace of mind feeling❤❤❤

  • @user-dk2ik7rt4f
    @user-dk2ik7rt4f 2 місяці тому +2

    Great advice❤

  • @itsshayla
    @itsshayla 2 місяці тому +1

    I needed this! Thank youuuuu

  • @katty63889
    @katty63889 2 місяці тому +1

    Love this setup 🤩

  • @JO-tw5yd
    @JO-tw5yd 2 місяці тому +1

    Great video

  • @erinmccann114
    @erinmccann114 2 місяці тому +2

    Hello from Englandddd

  • @user-xi2bf5bl4e
    @user-xi2bf5bl4e 2 місяці тому

    The only thing I’m thinking of when watching your videos is dude do you ever wash your hair?😂 good videos BTW.

  • @mamz4834
    @mamz4834 2 місяці тому

    I thought ignoring means they want you to go away 😮

  • @Soul.Is.Willing
    @Soul.Is.Willing 2 місяці тому +10

    I think my problem is I hang onto the " exception to the rule" possibility of this huge red flag man working out for me...

  • @alyshamorris6275
    @alyshamorris6275 2 місяці тому +4

    But I don’t think this advice applies to heavily introverted people

    • @MindfulAttraction2.0
      @MindfulAttraction2.0  2 місяці тому +13

      This is why you talk. You have to talk.

    • @alyshamorris6275
      @alyshamorris6275 2 місяці тому +1

      But does my fear indicate that I’m not really interested in them?

    • @ilenek.5428
      @ilenek.5428 2 місяці тому

      Absolutely. ​@@alyshamorris6275

    • @auralionasol2205
      @auralionasol2205 2 місяці тому +4

      @@alyshamorris6275 means they dont like you enough to set aside that ego

  • @missheartbreaker1213
    @missheartbreaker1213 2 місяці тому +1

    Does this apply to business relationships as well?

  • @Goddess462
    @Goddess462 2 місяці тому +1

    Sounds like a damn balancing act to me. 🤣

  • @magwambui8251
    @magwambui8251 2 місяці тому

    Dalexisp ❤

  • @rabiyarazaq5070
    @rabiyarazaq5070 2 місяці тому

    True 👍 ✔️

  • @darritaking
    @darritaking 2 місяці тому

    What if u hv vibed on a high level but he’s going through a divorce… but I know he likes me..

    • @darritaking
      @darritaking 2 місяці тому

      He does text me but at times I’m ignored, I feel like he is afraid to get too close or MAYBE not interested, but he says he is

  • @morebyaas
    @morebyaas 2 місяці тому +1

    To not be bothered
    LOl

  • @soothingglass
    @soothingglass 2 місяці тому

    Yes

  • @Nightcrrawler
    @Nightcrrawler 2 місяці тому +4

    🦟😂

  • @nurseannesinspirationalwellnes
    @nurseannesinspirationalwellnes 2 місяці тому

  • @Munchie--Creations
    @Munchie--Creations Місяць тому

    😂😂😂😂

  • @ayzavy
    @ayzavy 2 місяці тому +2

    Love your videos ❤️‍🔥 can you do more videos about long distance advice with men