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  • Опубліковано 13 сер 2013
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    Wish you had a few good pick-up lines? In this video, two relationship experts share the best flirting lines you can use.
    - Hunt Ethridge: Hey, Rachel, is that a mirror in your pocket?
    - Rachel DeAlto: Why?
    - Hunt: Because I can really see myself in your pants.
    - Rachel: Ha, ha, ha.
    - Hunt: This is a classic example of what not to do.
    - Rachel: Ever.
    - Hunt: Lines, pick up lines, do they work?
    - Rachel: No, unless they're really funny, and you're not saying them seriously, but you have to be really funny, and most people that I have met aren't.
    - Hunt: And if you are that funny, there's usually a lot of other things that you can say to do that.
    - Rachel: Yeah.
    - Hunt: However, I'm that some people have approached you and said some things that you liked, or that you heard. So?
    - Rachel: Actually, one of the most memorable experiences that I had getting hit on, was a guy who just came across the bar and was like, "Hi, my name is Mike. What's yours?"
    - Hunt: And tell me, and tell the people out there why it's so nice an impression.
    - Rachel: Because he was confident, and he didn't try so hard, he was just himself. And he came up and he said hi, and we talked for awhile. I still wasn't interested, but at the same time, it just broke the ice without having all this bluff around it. So, you don't need to have these lines.
    - Hunt: Right.
    - Rachel: I wouldn't use any line.
    - Hunt: One of the ones that I found that I just said completely honestly, me and my guy friends were in a bar, we're just hanging out, and there's a group of really pretty girls, and just guy after guy after guy just going up and failing miserably doing it. And I just, as I was passing them I said, "I just want to let you guys know that my friend and I are just having so much fun watching all these guys just crash and burn with you, it's having a blast," which is all that I was wanting to say.
    - Rachel: Yeah.
    - Hunt: Immediately she was like, "Oh, I know."
    - Rachel: Oh my God.
    - Hunt: . . . oh my God. Right? Yeah, it did."
    - Rachel: Yeah.
    - Hunt: But because it was coming in with like honest intentions, and wasn't expecting anything . . .
    - Rachel: Yeah.
    - Hunt: . . . to come out of it, then immediately they wanted to talk.
    - Rachel: You didn't go up to her and say, "You know what? Gosh, you're so pretty, that's why all those guys are hitting on you." That's a completely different way to approach that situation. You need to go in on a way that doesn't feel like we need to put a guard up, especially with guys approaching women, because women have been approached their whole lives.
    - Hunt: Daily. Multiple times.
    - Rachel: And they're ready to put a wall up in a heartbeat, so making sure that you don't have that creep factor that comes with those lines is really key.
    - Hunt: And, also, please don't go up to a girl and say, "Hey, my friend is really interested in you...
    - Rachel: Oh my gosh.
    - Hunt: ...and wants to talk to you." Do it yourself.
    - Rachel: Yeah.
    - Hunt: Don't send someone to do your dirty work.
    - Rachel: That still happens. In your forties, really? People are still doing that, so, yeah, have the confidence, have the gumption to actually approach somebody, and it already starts you off on a better foot.
    - Hunt: But, like she said too, if you don't know what to say, "Hi, I'm Hunt."
    - Rachel: "Hi. Rachel."
    - Hunt: And see where it goes from there.
    - Rachel: Well, I think it's really important for people to have conversation topics, and we've talked about this.
    - Hunt: Prepare a little bit.
    - Rachel: Have a little bit in your head, have a topic of food, or travel, or somewhere that you can talk about in the local area that's interesting.
    - Hunt: "Did you see the latest viral video," even, or something.
    - Rachel: "Yeah. Oh my gosh. Did you see that video with the people at the place?"
    - Hunt: "Doing that thing?"
    - Rachel: "Yeah, hilarious."
    - Hunt: "Totally. man, That guy with the hat."
    - Rachel: "Oh my gosh, he was crazy. I can totally be friends with him."
    - Hunt: But yes, make sure you have something to talk about.
    - Rachel: Yeah. And it doesn't have to be that difficult, using the environment that you're in, that's the only pick up line that I will ever suggest outside of "Hi." So, if you're at a restaurant, and you're waiting in line to get take-out, you're like, "Oh, what did you order? Did you order something better than me, because then I'm going home with you."
    - Hunt: Yeah, you're at the bar, and you're seeing people over there, and you're like, "Wow, do you see that crazy couple over there? Oh my God, they were fighting at the table," immediately now you g
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  • @UlpianHeritor
    @UlpianHeritor 5 років тому +50

    0:50 "He came up, and he was confident and he didn't try so hard (disclaimer: I still wasn't interested)" Lmao.

  • @samuelrafiek5269
    @samuelrafiek5269 7 років тому +146

    you know you're screwed when u need to watch videos like these to talk to your crush

  • @malia4977
    @malia4977 8 років тому +55

    i have one: start sneezing next to her to get her attencion, then say are you an angel, because i am alergic to feathers

  • @cordariusniter5735
    @cordariusniter5735 3 роки тому +4

    The trick is to have your mind in state of fun. Think about your hobby or boys.

  • @manueldavidson812
    @manueldavidson812 9 років тому +9

    "Hi I'm hunt"
    "Michael."
    Wow Mike Hunt. Nice Easter Egg.

  • @IcarusReborn
    @IcarusReborn 9 років тому +1

    Women always say pickup lines don't work. But A friend of mine from law school went to some seminar on picking up women. They gave him about 3 different lines to say and approaches to use. I've seen him use the same 2 or 3 lines on woman after woman, with about a 50% success rate.

  • @Lucky_ness
    @Lucky_ness 4 роки тому +11

    Its 2019 I'm 21 and never been on a date..

    • @BillBill-ni9ve
      @BillBill-ni9ve 4 роки тому +3

      You are 22 now

    • @Lucky_ness
      @Lucky_ness 4 роки тому +1

      @@BillBill-ni9ve lol yeah and still hasn't been on a date as yet

    • @Sashalexandros
      @Sashalexandros 3 роки тому

      @@Lucky_ness Use tinder? Or stuff like that. Get experience somewhere.

    • @Lucky_ness
      @Lucky_ness 3 роки тому +1

      @@Sashalexandros nah been on tinder, not really my thing. Plus where I'm from tinder isn't really a thing.

  • @lisawelch8179
    @lisawelch8179 10 років тому +12

    ok, no disrespect or anything, but you guys just spent 45 min on the topic flirting, and you guys didnt even touch the topic. what you guys have just addressed is "approach", and even the young lady mentioned it at one point. thats a complete different thing. flirting can be before or after the approach. before would be based strictly on body language(which doesnt necessarily have to be obvious). after would be during the conversation, thats if your approach was good enough to get you in

  • @IcarusReborn
    @IcarusReborn 9 років тому +32

    Walk up to a woman, ask for her name and ask her something about her day, and or, what she's up to. She will ask for your name if she's interested.

    • @aliasarris459
      @aliasarris459 8 років тому +8

      or if they are trying to not be rude

  • @tamerramzy4595
    @tamerramzy4595 7 років тому +1

    The not to do line, was the best, though.

  • @jeffreybrown6634
    @jeffreybrown6634 8 років тому

    thank you

  • @maddiedris26
    @maddiedris26 8 років тому +37

    "Women have been approached their whole lives" lol speak for yourself

  • @daniellejohnson279
    @daniellejohnson279 9 років тому

    kool thanks for the heelp

  • @BlackRoseThornEtna
    @BlackRoseThornEtna 5 років тому +2

    saying "hello, my name is mike" only works if she already sees you in high status. I'd suggest making an observation, especially something that's unique to her.

    • @jmeds94
      @jmeds94 4 роки тому

      Also, it only works if your name really is Mike

  • @danielblackburn6601
    @danielblackburn6601 5 років тому +2

    Its like randy if he didnt eat all those cheeseburgers and wore a shirt.

  • @justinadriandelacruz7617
    @justinadriandelacruz7617 9 років тому +1

    how to have confidence?

  • @nick624179
    @nick624179 4 роки тому +2

    I almost turned the vid off, till he said "not to do"

  • @zidneya
    @zidneya 6 років тому +3

    Best flirting lines..... except they talk about their experiences instead of actually giving you any good flirting lines at all.

  • @SDkoolKidd
    @SDkoolKidd 11 років тому +1

    1:00 if you weren't interested then it's not a good tip

  • @collinwest865
    @collinwest865 10 років тому +1

    cheese pick up line do work ive seen it put rude one dont

  • @copyclubweb
    @copyclubweb 4 роки тому

    That's not flirting. That's approaching.

  • @CapAnson12345
    @CapAnson12345 8 років тому +1

    She says they don't work.. but then laughs right off the bat..

    • @CapAnson12345
      @CapAnson12345 8 років тому

      I think she's denying her true nature.

    • @CapAnson12345
      @CapAnson12345 8 років тому

      Doesn't matter. When you're running game all that matters is you get a reaction. It's not like the whole conversation is going to be cheesy.

  • @ayronwebb4837
    @ayronwebb4837 10 років тому +3

    Or u can just use eye contact then go and talk

  • @DebasishOfficial
    @DebasishOfficial 7 років тому +1

    Ur smile forced me to talk with you

  • @douglasnguyen1501
    @douglasnguyen1501 3 роки тому

    Michael blaustein shoulda done this

  • @kobe2359
    @kobe2359 8 років тому +12

    Im 3 years late

  • @bubbagalloway1500
    @bubbagalloway1500 10 років тому +1

    So a girl told me about before I was dating her ..so she came up and said hi , I said how u now am high,lol

  • @jamieXc90
    @jamieXc90 11 років тому

    you can't say in only 3:45 the best flirting lines for guys approuching women ..cause it's much more complicated, it depends on her state of mind , on her attitude , on every thing she does or says at that moment , and if you pay attention at all of this then you know how to approach her and who knows ...

  • @TheStabber13
    @TheStabber13 10 років тому

    Just Watch Himym :3

  • @lumbermcray5097
    @lumbermcray5097 7 років тому

    are you earth cause rearang the h to the first makes heart wich make my life 😚

  • @rek3dge115
    @rek3dge115 7 років тому +1

    you gotta evantually flirt , if u dont , ur boring, this vid is for the first 10 minutes when u talkin to her , *JUST DO IT*

  • @chandnisingh7407
    @chandnisingh7407 6 років тому

    🐶🐶

  • @jamieXc90
    @jamieXc90 11 років тому +1

    but you can see her ..you can see her reactions ..how much she drinks ..how fast she drinks ..who she drinks with ..how much attention she has around the area /bar /pub /club /restaurant ..a lot of things can be understand in a matter of minuts

  • @moolahjayden6077
    @moolahjayden6077 3 роки тому

    7 years late

  • @patrickadams996
    @patrickadams996 10 років тому

    Do you ever feel confuse what to talk with her?
    You tried to approach her but then it's just another awkward moment you don't even have any idea what topic would be interesting.
    Don't worry ANY GUY experienced that at the first time.
    You just have to practice and learn!
    I used this technique to flirt with women: COMPLETE PLAYBOY TRICKS.
    After some times, i become those chick magnet even though when i'm not doing anything!

  • @lindsaywilson7535
    @lindsaywilson7535 10 років тому +1

    It's easy to flirt

    • @TonyAdams95
      @TonyAdams95 8 років тому +1

      Not for me

    • @johnhein2539
      @johnhein2539 7 років тому

      Lindsay Wilson
      For a woman, yes, you're right, it is. All you have to do is smile and be nice to whoever approaches you. The end.

    • @TonyAdams95
      @TonyAdams95 7 років тому

      *****​ no its not easy for me

  • @cruzhernandez3861
    @cruzhernandez3861 9 років тому +1

    Bruh

  • @blackraider777
    @blackraider777 9 років тому +1

    try too hard
    it always works

  • @yaboi_ghost7381
    @yaboi_ghost7381 4 роки тому

    I'm 6 years late

  • @kamasrich
    @kamasrich 7 років тому +1

    the girl on this video are trying to judge a mans flirt? made her standard, told man what to do, and whats not..
    .. im just feeling bad for us, because if we do the same, girl will say "who are you make a standard for me?"

  • @Xuseen
    @Xuseen 10 років тому

    you guys don't have any idea was waiting for advice and not what not to do

  • @SAMEDI1976
    @SAMEDI1976 7 років тому

    The man should not first pull out the hand to the woman. So it was a gaffe not a confidence.

  • @worthlessmutts9598
    @worthlessmutts9598 5 років тому

    is she married yet?