If you meet a man who has been through a horrible divorce and that man tells you that she took everything from him. RUN LIKE HELL. That man hates women. Run baby run!
@@Iamliterallythatgirl Men never speak on what they did to trigger her to divorce him. Always playing victim, as if she divorced him for fun. 9/10 times, he cheated. If not infidelity, he was probably neglectful or emotionally/mentally abusive.
@@KhadidjaKhadouj-ur4ke people who value themselves don’t fill themselves up with drugs that could hurt them, people who value themselves don’t pay to have adult relations with people that might have something, people who value themselves don’t gamble all their money away, people who value themselves don’t don’t eat trash all day and refuse to eat vegetables, people who value themselves don’t commit crimes and get arrested, people that value themselves don’t neglect basic hygiene, people that value themselves don’t self delete.
Nope. They call Dad life the best life because they are not the ones who have to do the physical labor. They are just there for the fun stuff if they are bothered to stay.
They love making them though,that's why they leave and try to blame everything on us..if they actually liked the kid,nothing or nobody would keep them away..they don't want the responsibility of adulthood,all they wanna do is be the "fun" parent
Had a friend like this. 40-something. Started watching Fresh&Fit, Pearl Davis and Kevin Samuels bullshi. Immediately noticed changes in him. I voiced my oppositions and concerns about his newfound "entertainment" choices but he always had an excuse. He just LOOOOVED to watch women being "put in their places" for being "fat, unattractive and working at McDonald's while wanting a millionaire hisband" and somehow thought that watching that filth would help him to transform into a "High Value Man." Well, one day, he turned on me in the worst way...he laughed at something horrific my abusive mother said to me. Told him it wasn't funny but he laughed harder. In Redpill fashion, he told me, "You didn't know what I was even laughing at." Dropped him where he stood, blocked him, and never looked back. I realized that he'd always felt that way about women and watching their suffering was funny and entertaining to him. Hope more women wake up to these things and get tf away from those kinds of men. Idk if redpill content is making these kinds of men or if it's drawing out the men who always were...
I think things are actually better than they used to be. DV and sexism weren't really talked about much in the past, people were fake, and on the surface things were fine. The internet exposed people's secret inner lives, and misogynistic thinking is out in the open now.
@@LadyStudio1 he's probably texting you saying it was just a joke. Men dont increase in value with age. Humans increase in value with wealth. Always chase the bag. All men have a clipper to clip your wings.
His mother hurt him, his aunty hurt him, his ex from nursery school blah blah, those are just excuses. You cannot love something you want to dominate and it's simple as that. Hating us helps remove empathy so they can use us without feeling guilty. And they want us to be the ones to break up with them for PR purposes. It helps them get the next victim when even women are feeling sorry for them being mistreated, nagged, gold-dug and dumped at the hands of some other wicked lady.
Exactly! No women even hurt these men, they just caused Narcissistic injury by being human women instead of robot-sx3-dolls. They all have a line of women who've treated them better than any of them have ever treated us. The delusion of them to always need a new reason to abuu53 the gener who treats them like kings.
This comment is very true!! Lack of accountability lack of empathy all the above. Dark narcissistic behaviors 💯 let’s play the blame game because I’m INNOCENT!
This is why I'm having cats. I just adopted a 2 month old and he's already fond of me. Kittens are the sun shining over my world while Men in general are a deadweight.
@@roxy4325 How is it bragging? My kitten follows me around and just won't leave me alone as he needs attention all the time. You don't know what peace is until you have a kitten.
@@designhub360customapparel Could be but my days are never the same with my kittens. Yes they need attention but compare that to a man who ruins your life. Takes everything away. Controls you until you're just a biological asset or property. Right now my kittens are napping and I'm having a quiet night star gazing.
He broke up with her while she was preparing for the pageant in hopes that it would throw her off her game. He was afraid that he could not keep Miss America happy so he sabotaged her instead.
But the thing is, they never feel satisfied do they ? They’ll keep “punishing” the next woman until he’s old and shriveled up and can’t take care of himself anymore. That’s when he’ll be satisfied and ready for a serious relationship. On his death bed.
Oh my God. You just described my dad. He abused my mother our whole lives, would threaten with divorce and just make life pure hell. Every 🦆ing day. Now he’s old, and now she’s turned the tables on him: he tried to pull the divorce card and she just said “ok”. And he realized then and there that he won’t make it without her. He can’t even cook. So he’s become a lot better since. I don’t care though since it’s only out of self-preservation. If he could get someone else he probably would have ditched her long ago. Narcissist.
No. He *stays* with you because it benefits him to not have to do his own physical & emotional labor - laundry, cleaning, cooking, sending b-day cards to his mom, bringing "something" to the get-together, etc. Beats him being single and being expected to be a grown man.
Me too. I was about 7 when I yelled angrily at my mom to just divorce my dad. I was resentful towards her, until I myself as an adult met the one I know refer to as my “previous abuser” and finally understood why victims sometimes can’t leave.
O heard about this he sedated her by putting something in her wine. Whatever he used caused her memory problems. She knew something was wrong with her but didn't know what. When she told her husband, he would gas light her. What's sad is that she genuinely loved him and never thought he could do something like this to her. He was caught on accident looking up girls skirts in a store. It also came out that he was watching & taking pic5ures of his daughter when she was naked. Just nasty!
@@shanellem6310 Makes me LOL when men tell us that we need to get a husband if we want protection. Meanwhile, we're several times more likely to be harmed by our husbands than by strangers.
And SEVENTY men stepped right up and willingly/actively participated in this horrific act against a married woman!!!!! And most of them probably knew her as a friend or colleague, etc. WTF!?!?!!!
Yes, it happened to me. To take accountability, he told me about his ex hurting him and all his mama issues. I did think I could be there for him etc. I didn't know about men, then. Oh boy did he take his pain out on me. So much abuse. He wanted to drive me insane. More and more I figured out he was the abuser all along. His ex didn't even hurt him. She just caused him narcissistic injury. Once I figured it out i slowly got away. It was only 6 months from start to finish but he got a lot of abuse in in that short time. Women, LEAVE AT THE FIRST RED FLAG. THE FIRST MEAN JOKE. THE FIRST TIME HE CRIES ABOUT HIS MAMA ISSUES. LEAVE!
I'm the dummy that married him and sonthe total time from 1st date to divorce was 4 years. If I could go back in time I would've left at the 1st red flag which was on the 1st date. i hindsight you can always see what u ignored on the 1st date. I am Out.
My former husband used to do that, roll his eyes when any woman family member called him, his mom, sister, niece etc and then make faces when he talked to them. I began to realize that he must have been doing that when I called him too. He hated all women.
Men are not bothered by a woman starting an argument. They are bothered by a woman requiring them to be adults. The first guy animating what guys do when they look at their phones and see their girlfriends calling is an example of what a child does when a child receives a call from a parent. He rolls his eyes. These men are in parent-child relationships with women, and that is not entirely the woman's fault.
I also think that they don't have the woman they want and have to 'deal' with the woman they can get because they are not prepared to do what's required to get the one they want.
Truuuuuuuuuue. Sometimes I think men reply rude things to pretty/smart women on Facebook because that's their chance to converse with women out of their league
If you’re a kind hearted empathetic woman, particularly if you’ve been through a lot, please be on your guard and listen to your intuition when dating. I’ve had some of the most horrific things imaginable done to me by men claiming to “love” me and I had to learn the hard way to listen to myself and to have strong clear boundaries. Don’t let your empathy be hijacked by people who want to take advantage of you. Don’t be so forgiving that you’re taking him back and making excuses for what you know is foul behaviour. The more sensitive and kind you are, the more vulnerable you are. You would never do it to someone else so you can’t grasp someone doing it to you, I get it. But there’s some truly despicable people in this world and I hate the thought of any of you experiencing the trauma I had to. Please, listen to your intuition the first time and don’t gaslight yourself out of it. If it doesn’t feel like an absolute yes and like absolute mutual respect, run.
This isnt even just in relationships, this is in general. Men will punish all women for something somebody else did. Like men who have had bad mothers will go out and literally end women who sort of resemble her. Literally look at serial killers who only target women, and then look at his ex partners or mother, and see if you notice even a bit of resemblance. You probably will
@@Delilah513 Anna Lee a real Koreans video on 4b movement exposes it. It’s a fake story by American female that are coping over guys actually pulling out of dating.
I was with a man who wouldn't flinch when I cried... but sat and cried on the phone with me over a man he knew from a jail program who was arrested for something horrible! He didn't even want to go to work that day... smh yeah I've seen alot lmao
You can be sleeping with the enemy for 20 yrs and not know it. Until you try to change something. Watch it bc sometimes thats when they buy a gun. Leave and leave quietly
As women we also need to compartmentalize more. If a man dumps you right before a huge accomplishment cry after you have accomplished your goal. In all actuality it is still survival and that is the place you need to put yourself to not backslide from an outside source of discomfort. Normalize crying later. We can only control our part not someone else's. I hope yall find the love that will love you better than you could have imagined. ❤❤❤
Let’s stop giving men a pass on hating women saying “Oh, he got hurt.” Which one of us hasn’t been hurt by a man? Having disappointments and growing & learning from them is part of becoming an adult. They nurse that grievance like it’s a rare poison plant never letting themselves forget that they were done wrong once and making war on every other woman until the end of time. Stop forgiving their bad actions!
I love how men think they are the main characters, proudly exposing themselves for hating their girlfriends, y’all don’t know that many women leave the man in the heart before she does that physically, I honestly have mastered the act of studying people who f*ck with me but once I get an inkling that you don’t care , I throw my feelings in the trash and move the f*ck on even without letting you know
Women who do best in life have to be bitches and cold-hearted when they situation calls for it. Like you said, mind over matter…throw those feelings in the trash, flush them in the toilet…set the, on fire! Whatever but the moment you get a feeling he hates you, is competing Edith you, is not happy for you or he’s being unfaithful and playing you, switch them off! Value yourself, value what you offer and value your life…which is short. You don’t want to send it with a man who doesn’t deserve you! 👏👏👏
3:27 With the Miss America situation, it sounds like that man knew his ex from out of his league so he broke up with her before she ended up being well-known and would likely pique the interest of other men with more money. Some men hate being rejected so they will leave before they get left. He probably feels like he was the hero because he probably assumed she would get a better man and she actually did. I actually commend him for ending the relationship because he knew she deserved better and get got out the way for her to get her husband.
Actually she's talking about Justin Waller, who is a handsome buff multi-millionaire businessman today. He's also a very good friend of Andrew and Tristan Tate. This happened when he was in college; he was a football player at the time and all the girls wanted him and he wanted to sleep with other girls. But he loved his girlfriend and didn't want to cheat on her; so he broke up with her so he wouldn't be a dirtbag. Shawnda got this one wrong this time; maybe she didn't hear the whole story.
She dodged a bullet with that one. He will take his unresolved issues out on any woman/ daughter he has. I think he knows it deep down, hence why he has only superficial relationships with women.
I had 10+ year relationship boyfriend broke up with me because he "just couldn't give me what I need in relationship", but the fact was, there were no obstacles for him at all, the fact was he didn't want to give me what I need in relationship (nothing much, I just wanted normal relationship because he was almost always unawailable to me). But it sounded nicer to say "I can't". He could, he didn't want to. Way to make yourself a victim...
I just got through telling a person this on here, talking about women should do the approaching, yeah right knowing the fact that these men will not like them. I just got through telling that person that most likely she would be into him more than he is into her, and this video just proves what I am saying.
11:53 And a LOT of men do this. Men are scared to break up with women because they don’t want to be the bad guy so they will treat her poorly so she will do it!!!
Girl, I'm so tired of women having children with abusive, unhinged men. It's like they have children so they can have someone to share the misery with.
I feel so blessed to have a loving dad who respects and cares for women and male friends around me that take care of ladies as they should be taken care of. ❤
2:20 yes this is so true , they will try to punish you in some way for what other women have supposedly done to them. My ex talked about how girls from his past led him on when he really liked them and he resented them for that. When I broke up with him he blamed me and said he was hurt for the upteenth time and thought I would never do that. It gave off such scary vibes
So, they bring all the baggage from a past relationship into a new relationship. That is not a man that is a boy. A hurt little boy. Women take time to heal from past relationships so that when we meet someone else we see them only, not the man who hurt us. A good man/woman does not deserve o be abused and hurt because of something that another man/ woman did. You create monsters that way. Forgive and heal. Then move on.
@@duckyh9712 omg just tell us a woman hurt you and move on. Do you know how many men have hurt me? You don't see me whining and saying most men are like that. You're the one Tracy is talking about in their comment. You have baggage. You need therapy.
I'm recently married. He has no addictions,doesn't drink,doesn't smoke,loves being home,gives me time,flowers, we have fun together,etc. My cousins,girlfriends picked great men and I waited patiently. I never wanted to pick anyone out of desperation. As a woman,you choose whether correctly or not. You set boundaries.
Emotional immaturity, if he punishes women because he was wronged in the past by women. RUN if you hear of the crazy ex, crazy mom. He's the crazy one who drove the women crazy.
Yeah I had one of those. I ended up divorcing him due to his infidelity and he later became abusive once I called him Out on the cheating. After I initially left, he complained I left him holding the bag financially.
I think the simple answer is people are often selfish. Probably being bolstered by how over active narcissists and Machiavellian men are. The simple solution is no sex before commitment (no ring no box) and also don’t tolerate men not being kind. I say kind instead of generous because despite gifts being great and we should buy gifts for people who support us, kindness includes quality time which is more important for long term bonds than gift giving.
2:05 🤯🤯 idk why the way you said that just made something click for me…DAMN😭 makes so much sense and I still feel like such a f** idiot 3 years later. He literally almost ruined my life, and actually succeeded in several aspects. Still a mind fuck.
This is why a man can SA you and now think twice about it they don’t think they’re doing anything wrong, which is insane but it’s the reality we live in
People with NPD can actual be treated contrary to popular belief. The problem is that many don't think there's a problem worthy of treatment, and that's where the people around them come in. If there were actual consequences to their ctions, like any self-interested person, they might seek out help, not because they can admit fault, but so that they can be more accepted by others. Sure, they'll be engaging in prosocial behavior inauthentically for their own personal gain and to avoid consequences.
Yep, they only respond to consequences. Imagine not having an internal standard that you're so unhinged you will do anything that doesn't give you a dire consequences.
Totally true. I have experienced it. We don't think is posible because they way woman loves.... but no girls they really can literally hate you and sleep with u and live in the same place. Be aware of the signs...
3:11 they will punish you for the feelings of their own mother as well so watch out for those men with mommy issues, mommy issues, daddy issues any issues with any person they gonna take it out on you
2:23 men do it because they CAN. This is why they do all of the horrible and atrocious things that they do. Because you cannot stop them and you cannot stay away.😂
Someone who get's it...🤣 Nobody can stop us. We are the reason for a lot of the bad stuff, but you can't deny the good stuff we do or you would not be here so comfy and safe.
Men, as a generalized group, values the opinions of other men. It's how they get and feel "status". It's their default setting. Many of these bro-casters are flexing for status among other men.
It’s more the pain from the mom…. I mean, SOME may be from ex’s but there are a lot of bitter angry single moms that’s really treated all the kids bad but their sons are angry with them but cannot voice their opinion. They never became an individual so they are still co-dependent with their mom. You more than likely are cheering for the man in him and his mom work hard to keep him a boy; her boy. 🙁❤️🙏
Look this is why women need safety nets. This is why you dress decent, you make sure he knows he needs to be approved by your family, you make sure marriage is on your mind, you make sure there's no sex before marriage. The whole idea of this is to get a man who's willing to put in that effort for you. Most men would run, and that means you're safe from them. This is the long process, and the hard one, because when you're young, you really just want to be noticed, and popular, and it feels like if you don't play by their rules you won't get a man at all. It's a test in patience and a lot of young people are impatient. But you gotta wait. As a woman, it's even more crucial that you hold yourself together because in certain areas women tend to be more vulnerable and that's just the truth. You wait for the right guy, and how do you know he's the right guy? He's willing to put in the effort that it takes to get to you. You're the princess in the tower, if he can't fight the dragon to get to you, then he doesn't deserve you, that's all. You have to be strong early on. You cannot get swayed by your emotions, because the minute you get weak, he gets the advantage. It's only after you get secure in the relationship, your parents approve, you walk the altar, the whole she-bang, that you soften up with him. That's just how it works. Although it's always best to stay a little alert even after marriage. There's a lot of things he won't do unless you make it clear that it's got to be your way. I mean, take care of him of course, treat him like a baby, but you have to ensure, early on, that he carries his half of the load. You bring babies into the mix, you build a family around the two of you. And God knows you don't work if you have kids. That's his job, to sustain things. When mothers work, they're basically doing two full-time jobs, and why should you? He needs to pull his weight, he needs to bring to the family. Keep the joy in your lives of course. Barbecues with both your families, building a strong social support system, do the work. Build a stability he can't run from. Give him something to come back home to. But you don't lose sight of your self-respect. You're the jewel, he needs to keep you precious. It's a lot of work. But here's what you get in return: security. You get something more valuable than love, you get respect. For that man, you become the ideal, you're the one that can never get away, you're the one who he'll feel like he can never fully get, so he'll keep trying. You play your cards right, you'll be the absolute woman in his life, his own goddess. That's the work you put into a man who's worth the effort. The reward is unbelievable, but the work is required. In the meantime, girl, pull your own socks up, all right? Never complain, and don't allow anyone to push you around. Hold your crown high.
So heres my scope: Married a divorced man (red flag, there, smh, i was young, 24), he cheated from the beginning (called all the women on 3 way and some others called too all together 5 women on the phone while i woke him up to confront him and i kade him tell the truth to all of them while some of them were crying on how he lied to them, sad, smh). I tried divorcing him 4x's by printing it out and giving it to him. I should have filed and walked away LONG TIME AGO. Finally, it find out hes messing with an acrive military woman, and i contact her and she's knows were married but says hes going to divorce me. Honestly fine by me. My response was, "TAG, YOUR IT NO TAG BACKS" and I hung the phone up. Been free, and I cried tears of joy. Goodness single life has never been so missed and now cherished to the fullest.
Free game ladies if a man comes off the bat and puts you in a category for example if you ask him to dinner or ask him if he’s gonna treat you to dinner or just to bring a gift like flowers and it’s a problem. Don’t take it personal but definitely run. They’re trying to objectify you without your consent if that makes sense or I’m coming to realize if a man’s gonna come at you like an SW to him he needs to pay you like a SW so then the accountability,falls back on him.😊😊
Can y'all pray for me? I let a fn hit it raw. Please lord don't let me be pregnant 😢 I can't do it lord. I know you wouldn't put anything on me that I can't bear. Y'all I need y'all prayers 🙏🥹💔
Everyone in these videos is guilty of the same thing they're claiming on the other side. You couldn't have possibly dated so many men that you would be able to confidently say that all of them are that way. What men and women are doing in these videos is judging the whole sex group based off of their own bad decisions. If you told me all the guys you've dated have been exactly the same type and that you think all men are exactly the same you probably think you're making some deep statement about men or women. But actually what you're admitting is that you don't learn from your mistakes and that you keep seeking out the exact same people but instead of saying I chose wrong you try to make it seem like it couldn't be that you chose wrong it's just everybody is the same.
We don’t like western women. We adore regular women and are willing to move to an entire differnt country and start over just for the opportunity to date real women.
A lot of men don't even consider us to be human beings. It's shocking.
sadly true. You just have to listen what they say, they usually don't even hide it.
Why do they think like this where does this psychology come from
@grittyinpink true. Many men ONLY see women as life support for breasts and genitals. They barely see us as capable of thought or higher emotions
@@jointhefun4 Same way how white people didn’t see blacks as fully humans.
@@jointhefun4Probably passed down to them by their bitter dads or bitter mothers.
If you meet a man who has been through a horrible divorce and that man tells you that she took everything from him. RUN LIKE HELL. That man hates women. Run baby run!
He left out why 👀
@@Iamliterallythatgirl Men never speak on what they did to trigger her to divorce him. Always playing victim, as if she divorced him for fun. 9/10 times, he cheated. If not infidelity, he was probably neglectful or emotionally/mentally abusive.
FACTS!!
@@xiamariansupreme72good one. Lesbian divorce stats are the worse in the world. How will you cope now?
👏👏👏 Yup!!
Most men hate themselves, so how could they like anyone else?
Great point.
This ☹️
What is your evidence that they hate themselves?
@@KhadidjaKhadouj-ur4ke people who value themselves don’t fill themselves up with drugs that could hurt them, people who value themselves don’t pay to have adult relations with people that might have something, people who value themselves don’t gamble all their money away, people who value themselves don’t don’t eat trash all day and refuse to eat vegetables, people who value themselves don’t commit crimes and get arrested, people that value themselves don’t neglect basic hygiene, people that value themselves don’t self delete.
Ding ding ding !!! 💯
They don't like kids ethier !!
Nope. They call Dad life the best life because they are not the ones who have to do the physical labor. They are just there for the fun stuff if they are bothered to stay.
My point exactly😂😂 they don't like children@@AutumnAprodithe
They don’t like children but they LIKE children. They all messed up
Sure don’t gotta watch how they talk to children and behave around them 🚩🚩!
They love making them though,that's why they leave and try to blame everything on us..if they actually liked the kid,nothing or nobody would keep them away..they don't want the responsibility of adulthood,all they wanna do is be the "fun" parent
Had a friend like this. 40-something. Started watching Fresh&Fit, Pearl Davis and Kevin Samuels bullshi. Immediately noticed changes in him. I voiced my oppositions and concerns about his newfound "entertainment" choices but he always had an excuse. He just LOOOOVED to watch women being "put in their places" for being "fat, unattractive and working at McDonald's while wanting a millionaire hisband" and somehow thought that watching that filth would help him to transform into a "High Value Man."
Well, one day, he turned on me in the worst way...he laughed at something horrific my abusive mother said to me. Told him it wasn't funny but he laughed harder. In Redpill fashion, he told me, "You didn't know what I was even laughing at." Dropped him where he stood, blocked him, and never looked back. I realized that he'd always felt that way about women and watching their suffering was funny and entertaining to him. Hope more women wake up to these things and get tf away from those kinds of men.
Idk if redpill content is making these kinds of men or if it's drawing out the men who always were...
It was always there
I think things are actually better than they used to be. DV and sexism weren't really talked about much in the past, people were fake, and on the surface things were fine. The internet exposed people's secret inner lives, and misogynistic thinking is out in the open now.
it was always there but it’s definitely adding fuel to the fire.
Same thing happened with my ex. Completely turned on me and started to hate me
@@LadyStudio1 he's probably texting you saying it was just a joke.
Men dont increase in value with age. Humans increase in value with wealth.
Always chase the bag. All men have a clipper to clip your wings.
His mother hurt him, his aunty hurt him, his ex from nursery school blah blah, those are just excuses. You cannot love something you want to dominate and it's simple as that. Hating us helps remove empathy so they can use us without feeling guilty.
And they want us to be the ones to break up with them for PR purposes. It helps them get the next victim when even women are feeling sorry for them being mistreated, nagged, gold-dug and dumped at the hands of some other wicked lady.
Exactly! No women even hurt these men, they just caused Narcissistic injury by being human women instead of robot-sx3-dolls. They all have a line of women who've treated them better than any of them have ever treated us. The delusion of them to always need a new reason to abuu53 the gener who treats them like kings.
Nah most of you are terrible here. I get a lot of success with woman and have yet to run time once that’s not selfish.
This comment is very true!! Lack of accountability lack of empathy all the above.
Dark narcissistic behaviors 💯 let’s play the blame game because I’m INNOCENT!
@@duckyh9712...but did they hate you?
@@honesteaparty actually they always come back
This is why I'm having cats. I just adopted a 2 month old and he's already fond of me.
Kittens are the sun shining over my world while Men in general are a deadweight.
They will start abusing cats more and more, we should move more in silence.
Ayo! Quit bragging! Please 😂 Having cats is legitimately top tier flexing these days 😂 Good on ya mayte!
@@roxy4325 How is it bragging? My kitten follows me around and just won't leave me alone as he needs attention all the time.
You don't know what peace is until you have a kitten.
I will have turtles and fish. Cats and dogs are too needy like men.
@@designhub360customapparel Could be but my days are never the same with my kittens. Yes they need attention but compare that to a man who ruins your life. Takes everything away. Controls you until you're just a biological asset or property.
Right now my kittens are napping and I'm having a quiet night star gazing.
He broke up with her while she was preparing for the pageant in hopes that it would throw her off her game. He was afraid that he could not keep Miss America happy so he sabotaged her instead.
Didn’t she still win??😂😂😂❤
@@mobutter2879love this for her ❤
But the thing is, they never feel satisfied do they ? They’ll keep “punishing” the next woman until he’s old and shriveled up and can’t take care of himself anymore. That’s when he’ll be satisfied and ready for a serious relationship. On his death bed.
This right here.
Then he wants a hospice wife. Nope, youre on your own, boy.
They're ready for a relationship when they need a nurse
Oh my God. You just described my dad. He abused my mother our whole lives, would threaten with divorce and just make life pure hell. Every 🦆ing day. Now he’s old, and now she’s turned the tables on him: he tried to pull the divorce card and she just said “ok”. And he realized then and there that he won’t make it without her. He can’t even cook. So he’s become a lot better since. I don’t care though since it’s only out of self-preservation. If he could get someone else he probably would have ditched her long ago. Narcissist.
So many reasons to stay single and child free.
you can be single and have a child. I have a daughter, a cat, no men and it's fine.
Same. Im single and child free and will stay that way.
💯 and forever it's so much safer.
@@levelupgoddess9289Same who needs men or children anyways in 2024 we are fine single!!!!
@@biljam972Not everyone wants kids get that into your head!
No. He *stays* with you because it benefits him to not have to do his own physical & emotional labor - laundry, cleaning, cooking, sending b-day cards to his mom, bringing "something" to the get-together, etc. Beats him being single and being expected to be a grown man.
My dad hated my mom. She has built him up. In the end, he resented her badly. I wish she had left him. Even as a kid, I knew my mom deserved better.
Wow
Me too. I was about 7 when I yelled angrily at my mom to just divorce my dad. I was resentful towards her, until I myself as an adult met the one I know refer to as my “previous abuser” and finally understood why victims sometimes can’t leave.
Did you look into the story in France whose husband allowed 70 men or something like that to assault his sedated wife while she was sleeping?
O heard about this he sedated her by putting something in her wine. Whatever he used caused her memory problems. She knew something was wrong with her but didn't know what. When she told her husband, he would gas light her. What's sad is that she genuinely loved him and never thought he could do something like this to her. He was caught on accident looking up girls skirts in a store. It also came out that he was watching & taking pic5ures of his daughter when she was naked. Just nasty!
Eeewwwwww😢😢😢😢so sad!! Psychopath!!!my heart breaks for her💔💔💔
@@shanellem6310 Makes me LOL when men tell us that we need to get a husband if we want protection. Meanwhile, we're several times more likely to be harmed by our husbands than by strangers.
And SEVENTY men stepped right up and willingly/actively participated in this horrific act against a married woman!!!!! And most of them probably knew her as a friend or colleague, etc. WTF!?!?!!!
They were married for over 50yrs with 3kids. he also had his daughter’s nudes.
Yes, it happened to me. To take accountability, he told me about his ex hurting him and all his mama issues. I did think I could be there for him etc. I didn't know about men, then. Oh boy did he take his pain out on me. So much abuse. He wanted to drive me insane. More and more I figured out he was the abuser all along. His ex didn't even hurt him. She just caused him narcissistic injury. Once I figured it out i slowly got away. It was only 6 months from start to finish but he got a lot of abuse in in that short time.
Women, LEAVE AT THE FIRST RED FLAG. THE FIRST MEAN JOKE. THE FIRST TIME HE CRIES ABOUT HIS MAMA ISSUES. LEAVE!
😂! My demon also taught me about men in 5 months flat! Before him I was SO naive and clueless! Thanks to him, I KNOW BETTER NOW 🎉!
Agreed!!
Good for you! You figured it out quickly! It took me 7 to 8 mos of off and on to figure it out. A narcissist mommas boy who ironically hates women 🧐
I'm the dummy that married him and sonthe total time from 1st date to divorce was 4 years. If I could go back in time I would've left at the 1st red flag which was on the 1st date.
i hindsight you can always see what u ignored on the 1st date. I am Out.
@peachesand poets - You said it. Leave at the FIRST red flag. Leave via the fastest mode of exit.
They hate women yet can't live without them. Before our divorce was even finalized he got on match. We had been married for 2 and a half decades.
They need a maid, and to be laid
Because they are big babies that need a mammy forever
My former husband used to do that, roll his eyes when any woman family member called him, his mom, sister, niece etc and then make faces when he talked to them. I began to realize that he must have been doing that when I called him too. He hated all women.
Wow
Women's happiness is our greatest superpower and men want to steal it from us - Melanie Hamlett
Single life is the best life.
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Agreed who needs men anyways I enjoy my single life it’s fun and carefree!!!
Yaas. ❤ I’m single and celibate, finally healed and empowered, and I’ll either marry a sensible, vegan feminist or I won’t marry at all. ✌️
I need to move to the USA
I hate to break it to ya but the men here hate women too
Men are not bothered by a woman starting an argument. They are bothered by a woman requiring them to be adults. The first guy animating what guys do when they look at their phones and see their girlfriends calling is an example of what a child does when a child receives a call from a parent. He rolls his eyes. These men are in parent-child relationships with women, and that is not entirely the woman's fault.
It's the cultural script
Most would be homeless so they stay.
😂😂 this made me scream 😭 sad but true
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I also think that they don't have the woman they want and have to 'deal' with the woman they can get because they are not prepared to do what's required to get the one they want.
^THIS
You said a word.
Truuuuuuuuuue. Sometimes I think men reply rude things to pretty/smart women on Facebook because that's their chance to converse with women out of their league
Fr, they think it’ll “put her in her place” and make her insecure enough to date him.
Middle eastern men :
They all suck
Agreed I enjoy single life without men!!
If you’re a kind hearted empathetic woman, particularly if you’ve been through a lot, please be on your guard and listen to your intuition when dating. I’ve had some of the most horrific things imaginable done to me by men claiming to “love” me and I had to learn the hard way to listen to myself and to have strong clear boundaries. Don’t let your empathy be hijacked by people who want to take advantage of you. Don’t be so forgiving that you’re taking him back and making excuses for what you know is foul behaviour. The more sensitive and kind you are, the more vulnerable you are. You would never do it to someone else so you can’t grasp someone doing it to you, I get it. But there’s some truly despicable people in this world and I hate the thought of any of you experiencing the trauma I had to. Please, listen to your intuition the first time and don’t gaslight yourself out of it. If it doesn’t feel like an absolute yes and like absolute mutual respect, run.
Men don't need to blame their early love affairs for their bad behavior.
yet they do sadly 😢
This isnt even just in relationships, this is in general. Men will punish all women for something somebody else did. Like men who have had bad mothers will go out and literally end women who sort of resemble her. Literally look at serial killers who only target women, and then look at his ex partners or mother, and see if you notice even a bit of resemblance. You probably will
4b movement
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A fake movement that got exposed by real Koreans for not existing. Stop coping.
@@duckyh9712it is real. Around the world.
4b going strong. Not settling. The way it should be. Im proud of you girls! Procreate with men worth procreating with. Time to depopulate the losers.
@@Delilah513 Anna Lee a real Koreans video on 4b movement exposes it. It’s a fake story by American female that are coping over guys actually pulling out of dating.
I was with a man who wouldn't flinch when I cried... but sat and cried on the phone with me over a man he knew from a jail program who was arrested for something horrible! He didn't even want to go to work that day... smh yeah I've seen alot lmao
You can be sleeping with the enemy for 20 yrs and not know it. Until you try to change something. Watch it bc sometimes thats when they buy a gun. Leave and leave quietly
I also experienced a man resenting me for not getting another woman. He resented me for being the best he could get and punished me for that.
As women we also need to compartmentalize more. If a man dumps you right before a huge accomplishment cry after you have accomplished your goal. In all actuality it is still survival and that is the place you need to put yourself to not backslide from an outside source of discomfort. Normalize crying later. We can only control our part not someone else's. I hope yall find the love that will love you better than you could have imagined. ❤❤❤
That love is INSIDE.
@@TheCarnivoreSopranoBingo ! ❤
Let’s stop giving men a pass on hating women saying “Oh, he got hurt.” Which one of us hasn’t been hurt by a man? Having disappointments and growing & learning from them is part of becoming an adult. They nurse that grievance like it’s a rare poison plant never letting themselves forget that they were done wrong once and making war on every other woman until the end of time. Stop forgiving their bad actions!
I love how men think they are the main characters, proudly exposing themselves for hating their girlfriends, y’all don’t know that many women leave the man in the heart before she does that physically, I honestly have mastered the act of studying people who f*ck with me but once I get an inkling that you don’t care , I throw my feelings in the trash and move the f*ck on even without letting you know
Women who do best in life have to be bitches and cold-hearted when they situation calls for it. Like you said, mind over matter…throw those feelings in the trash, flush them in the toilet…set the, on fire! Whatever but the moment you get a feeling he hates you, is competing Edith you, is not happy for you or he’s being unfaithful and playing you, switch them off! Value yourself, value what you offer and value your life…which is short. You don’t want to send it with a man who doesn’t deserve you! 👏👏👏
3:27 With the Miss America situation, it sounds like that man knew his ex from out of his league so he broke up with her before she ended up being well-known and would likely pique the interest of other men with more money. Some men hate being rejected so they will leave before they get left. He probably feels like he was the hero because he probably assumed she would get a better man and she actually did. I actually commend him for ending the relationship because he knew she deserved better and get got out the way for her to get her husband.
Actually she's talking about Justin Waller, who is a handsome buff multi-millionaire businessman today. He's also a very good friend of Andrew and Tristan Tate. This happened when he was in college; he was a football player at the time and all the girls wanted him and he wanted to sleep with other girls. But he loved his girlfriend and didn't want to cheat on her; so he broke up with her so he wouldn't be a dirtbag. Shawnda got this one wrong this time; maybe she didn't hear the whole story.
@@nitaw.498the timing was intentional to knock her down you missed the point.
Me wishing my ex woulda just left when he knew I was too good for him ...😂
She dodged a bullet with that one. He will take his unresolved issues out on any woman/ daughter he has. I think he knows it deep down, hence why he has only superficial relationships with women.
@nitaw.498 he could have had self control and not cheated. He's not a good guy.
4B movement forever.
Fake movement that got exposed by real Korean Anna Lee. Stop coping that men pulled out
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I had 10+ year relationship boyfriend broke up with me because he "just couldn't give me what I need in relationship", but the fact was, there were no obstacles for him at all, the fact was he didn't want to give me what I need in relationship (nothing much, I just wanted normal relationship because he was almost always unawailable to me). But it sounded nicer to say "I can't". He could, he didn't want to. Way to make yourself a victim...
yep ^ exactly. then he went on to pat himself on the back for “setting me free”/“being the bigger person”
I just got through telling a person this on here, talking about women should do the approaching, yeah right knowing the fact that these men will not like them. I just got through telling that person that most likely she would be into him more than he is into her, and this video just proves what I am saying.
11:53 And a LOT of men do this. Men are scared to break up with women because they don’t want to be the bad guy so they will treat her poorly so she will do it!!!
John 10:10 KJV
“The thief cometh not, but for to steal, and to kill, and to destroy:"
18:00 mark...she saw the signs and still got pregnant by him... Very sad. Women must get standards and listen to our intuition.
totally agree!
Girl, I'm so tired of women having children with abusive, unhinged men. It's like they have children so they can have someone to share the misery with.
My dad always starts an argument before I go to work, both remote and on
I feel so blessed to have a loving dad who respects and cares for women and male friends around me that take care of ladies as they should be taken care of. ❤
I'm low-key starting to think my boyfriend doesn't really like me like that 🤔
Get out before it’s to late if that’s the case
@@Jess-y7c We're done 😊
Congrats ❤
Trust your instincts. 💯
@@tasmeenbaker9912Yet, you called him bf, not ex.
2:20 yes this is so true , they will try to punish you in some way for what other women have supposedly done to them. My ex talked about how girls from his past led him on when he really liked them and he resented them for that. When I broke up with him he blamed me and said he was hurt for the upteenth time and thought I would never do that. It gave off such scary vibes
That's great news👍. So..leave us alone then. #ManSober
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'leave us alone then'?
bro, YOU are literally HERE bothering US.
So, they bring all the baggage from a past relationship into a new relationship. That is not a man that is a boy. A hurt little boy. Women take time to heal from past relationships so that when we meet someone else we see them only, not the man who hurt us. A good man/woman does not deserve o be abused and hurt because of something that another man/ woman did. You create monsters that way. Forgive and heal. Then move on.
Women take time to heal? Lmfaooo good one. Most of yall can’t be with D longer than a month and you know it’s true
No let's be honest, they're men. They're emotionally immature, petty, bitter men.
@@duckyh9712 omg just tell us a woman hurt you and move on. Do you know how many men have hurt me? You don't see me whining and saying most men are like that. You're the one Tracy is talking about in their comment. You have baggage. You need therapy.
D is not that good that’s why we get vibrators so we can climax cause a real d not gonna get us to climax now be humble
@@duckyh9712😂😂😂😂 projection!!!!!!
I'm recently married. He has no addictions,doesn't drink,doesn't smoke,loves being home,gives me time,flowers, we have fun together,etc. My cousins,girlfriends picked great men and I waited patiently. I never wanted to pick anyone out of desperation. As a woman,you choose whether correctly or not. You set boundaries.
The woman with orange hair is 100% right.
Thank you for this eye opener helpful video.🌞☕
Emotional immaturity, if he punishes women because he was wronged in the past by women. RUN if you hear of the crazy ex, crazy mom. He's the crazy one who drove the women crazy.
Been married to a Narcissist and ohh wow is a nightmare
Yeah I had one of those. I ended up divorcing him due to his infidelity and he later became abusive once I called him
Out on the cheating. After I initially left, he complained I left him holding the bag financially.
I think the simple answer is people are often selfish. Probably being bolstered by how over active narcissists and Machiavellian men are.
The simple solution is no sex before commitment (no ring no box) and also don’t tolerate men not being kind. I say kind instead of generous because despite gifts being great and we should buy gifts for people who support us, kindness includes quality time which is more important for long term bonds than gift giving.
This is very demonic on so many levels. SMH 😢
What’s demonic is men acting evil and misogynistic
How so ?explain
2:05 🤯🤯 idk why the way you said that just made something click for me…DAMN😭 makes so much sense and I still feel like such a f** idiot 3 years later. He literally almost ruined my life, and actually succeeded in several aspects. Still a mind fuck.
This is why a man can SA you and now think twice about it they don’t think they’re doing anything wrong, which is insane but it’s the reality we live in
They don't wanna Shatter your heart and leave you....... 🤔
The audacity, they need to just leave.
@@oliviaobiaja WORD 😁
Throw the damned trash away and keep moving. You teach people how to treat you. 🤷♀️
It's not always that easy. Some men will literally come after you if you leave them.
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@@NamasteInYourLane concealed carry.
People with NPD can actual be treated contrary to popular belief. The problem is that many don't think there's a problem worthy of treatment, and that's where the people around them come in. If there were actual consequences to their ctions, like any self-interested person, they might seek out help, not because they can admit fault, but so that they can be more accepted by others. Sure, they'll be engaging in prosocial behavior inauthentically for their own personal gain and to avoid consequences.
I'm saying all this because if someone with NPD or Narsissitic tendencies abuses you, they CHOSE to. They aren't victims
Yep, they only respond to consequences. Imagine not having an internal standard that you're so unhinged you will do anything that doesn't give you a dire consequences.
Fortunately I no longer care about the deranged "feelings" of any Narc. Any of them, including women.
Your first question has it happened...yes it sure has.
This is exactly why God had to take out that famous UA-camr whose name I can’t even remember now.
Kevin Samuels?
Sugar Kitten Heels.
News flash!! 😲 Some women don't like men either!
He finds a way to ruin your birthday. 😢
Totally true. I have experienced it. We don't think is posible because they way woman loves.... but no girls they really can literally hate you and sleep with u and live in the same place.
Be aware of the signs...
3:11 they will punish you for the feelings of their own mother as well so watch out for those men with mommy issues, mommy issues, daddy issues any issues with any person they gonna take it out on you
Thank you.
Its not some.Really it be more like all.We need stop sugarcoating it.
Nah they don’t even want to have a genuine conversation or take accountability for lying or gaslighting
2:23 men do it because they CAN.
This is why they do all of the horrible and atrocious things that they do.
Because you cannot stop them and you cannot stay away.😂
Someone who get's it...🤣 Nobody can stop us. We are the reason for a lot of the bad stuff, but you can't deny the good stuff we do or you would not be here so comfy and safe.
4:42 I love her commentary so much
Men, as a generalized group, values the opinions of other men. It's how they get and feel "status". It's their default setting. Many of these bro-casters are flexing for status among other men.
3:25 yes and I understand now
It’s more the pain from the mom…. I mean, SOME may be from ex’s but there are a lot of bitter angry single moms that’s really treated all the kids bad but their sons are angry with them but cannot voice their opinion. They never became an individual so they are still co-dependent with their mom. You more than likely are cheering for the man in him and his mom work hard to keep him a boy; her boy. 🙁❤️🙏
Narc
@@Plutos_Child69 💯🙁🙏
What about being angry about their fathers who gave a sh*t about them?
I just wish men could be honest about what they want and they’re intentions
Yes..
Of monsters and men......
Also, thanks and kudos to the good men that shared some of those dark secrets with us. 💕👍
Look this is why women need safety nets. This is why you dress decent, you make sure he knows he needs to be approved by your family, you make sure marriage is on your mind, you make sure there's no sex before marriage.
The whole idea of this is to get a man who's willing to put in that effort for you. Most men would run, and that means you're safe from them. This is the long process, and the hard one, because when you're young, you really just want to be noticed, and popular, and it feels like if you don't play by their rules you won't get a man at all. It's a test in patience and a lot of young people are impatient.
But you gotta wait. As a woman, it's even more crucial that you hold yourself together because in certain areas women tend to be more vulnerable and that's just the truth. You wait for the right guy, and how do you know he's the right guy? He's willing to put in the effort that it takes to get to you. You're the princess in the tower, if he can't fight the dragon to get to you, then he doesn't deserve you, that's all. You have to be strong early on. You cannot get swayed by your emotions, because the minute you get weak, he gets the advantage.
It's only after you get secure in the relationship, your parents approve, you walk the altar, the whole she-bang, that you soften up with him. That's just how it works. Although it's always best to stay a little alert even after marriage. There's a lot of things he won't do unless you make it clear that it's got to be your way. I mean, take care of him of course, treat him like a baby, but you have to ensure, early on, that he carries his half of the load. You bring babies into the mix, you build a family around the two of you. And God knows you don't work if you have kids. That's his job, to sustain things. When mothers work, they're basically doing two full-time jobs, and why should you? He needs to pull his weight, he needs to bring to the family.
Keep the joy in your lives of course. Barbecues with both your families, building a strong social support system, do the work.
Build a stability he can't run from. Give him something to come back home to. But you don't lose sight of your self-respect. You're the jewel, he needs to keep you precious. It's a lot of work.
But here's what you get in return: security. You get something more valuable than love, you get respect. For that man, you become the ideal, you're the one that can never get away, you're the one who he'll feel like he can never fully get, so he'll keep trying. You play your cards right, you'll be the absolute woman in his life, his own goddess.
That's the work you put into a man who's worth the effort. The reward is unbelievable, but the work is required. In the meantime, girl, pull your own socks up, all right? Never complain, and don't allow anyone to push you around. Hold your crown high.
So heres my scope:
Married a divorced man (red flag, there, smh, i was young, 24), he cheated from the beginning (called all the women on 3 way and some others called too all together 5 women on the phone while i woke him up to confront him and i kade him tell the truth to all of them while some of them were crying on how he lied to them, sad, smh). I tried divorcing him 4x's by printing it out and giving it to him. I should have filed and walked away LONG TIME AGO. Finally, it find out hes messing with an acrive military woman, and i contact her and she's knows were married but says hes going to divorce me. Honestly fine by me. My response was, "TAG, YOUR IT NO TAG BACKS" and I hung the phone up. Been free, and I cried tears of joy. Goodness single life has never been so missed and now cherished to the fullest.
Listen shatter my heart pls leave me.
And this is why I devoted half of my teenage years to worship the male rock musicians (in my case it was Rush)?
Yes my EX
Free game ladies if a man comes off the bat and puts you in a category for example if you ask him to dinner or ask him if he’s gonna treat you to dinner or just to bring a gift like flowers and it’s a problem. Don’t take it personal but definitely run. They’re trying to objectify you without your consent if that makes sense or I’m coming to realize if a man’s gonna come at you like an SW to him he needs to pay you like a SW so then the accountability,falls back on him.😊😊
Why not break up?
Can y'all pray for me? I let a fn hit it raw. Please lord don't let me be pregnant 😢 I can't do it lord. I know you wouldn't put anything on me that I can't bear. Y'all I need y'all prayers 🙏🥹💔
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Ssme here what women had done at young age punish em same trails exes had did i hate em at young age facts facts💯🙌justice for me
This is true and things I wish I knew 5 years ago before becoming the next woman he enacted the all the vileness from what his ex had done to him
Everyone in these videos is guilty of the same thing they're claiming on the other side. You couldn't have possibly dated so many men that you would be able to confidently say that all of them are that way. What men and women are doing in these videos is judging the whole sex group based off of their own bad decisions. If you told me all the guys you've dated have been exactly the same type and that you think all men are exactly the same you probably think you're making some deep statement about men or women. But actually what you're admitting is that you don't learn from your mistakes and that you keep seeking out the exact same people but instead of saying I chose wrong you try to make it seem like it couldn't be that you chose wrong it's just everybody is the same.
None of this is necessary...go your way and leave them alone.
Fun how you both sides something when the stats show it is actually men who are doing most of the cheating and dv.
The men in this video are inarticulate and mostly incomprehensible. What is the agenda here? That's a rhetorical question 🤗🍿
Stop acting like a humans character is determined by gender 😭😭 y’all got hurt and are bitter now
We don’t like western women. We adore regular women and are willing to move to an entire differnt country and start over just for the opportunity to date real women.
We women from the East do not want you either.
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I suppot this - go elsewhere... and stay there please.
Go for the seekers of green cards, they have no standards.
So what is it about western women you dislike so much?
What is it women from other countries are prepared to do that you want?
I am really beginning to think most men were put here to deter women away from being the greatest versions of ourselves 🤷🏻♀️