How My Sons Navigated Faith and Gender Crises | Moms of Men | Lisa Bevere

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  • @lilalilili
    @lilalilili Рік тому +301

    I'm praying to marry into a Christian family like this one day. My family isn't christian and I can't talk about Jesus at home. It's so amazing to listen to this conversation.

  • @jane_kareem
    @jane_kareem Рік тому +98

    ‘God doesn't have grandkids; we all have equal access.’
    So good! 👏🏾

  • @maranatha2033
    @maranatha2033 Рік тому +237

    I love this conversation! More Christian parents should sit down with their kids this way to process their experiences.

    • @marcwells03
      @marcwells03 Рік тому

      Brainwashed!!!! 😂😂😂

    • @marcwells03
      @marcwells03 Рік тому

      @SarahMGalle wrong god. The real one is the Flying Spaghetti Monster. He boiled for your sins. ramen 🍜

  • @ByTheShepards
    @ByTheShepards Рік тому +90

    I love how transparent your sons were with their experiences because I believe a lot of men will be able to relate! And I love that you all refused to shy away from this topic!

    • @Disciple-ofChrist
      @Disciple-ofChrist Рік тому +3

      Yes. I think homosexual thoughts/desires or even gender confusion is an attack the enemy plays on the majority of people, but most won't admit to it! In today's society, it's worsening. The silence and today's alphabet community "protected class status," combined with ignorance of the spiritual world has caused so many to think they were "born that way" (as if they remember their gender ideologies and sexual preference from the moment they were born, before they had any life experiences or influences! SMH

  • @boomboombelle
    @boomboombelle Рік тому +46

    Love seeing this mom with her grown boys. They did something right.

  • @marymostholymotherofgod8777
    @marymostholymotherofgod8777 Рік тому +20

    I love, love, love this! Momma, you are just beautiful to sit and have this crucial conversation with your grown sons, young men you are all amazing to want to do this with your Momma and share with the world. God bless you all. Very inspirational. Men are losing their masculinity and the role God intended for them because the diabolic is so busy working on them every day and everywhere they go! In television, radio, workplaces, Pornography, infidelity, confusion of sexuality, it's overwhelming. Men don't let Satan take pleasure on your mind and soul! Cover yourselves in the Precious Blood of Jesus, He is waiting for you to come to Him. Jesus is your saving grace.

  • @sjg5994
    @sjg5994 Рік тому +224

    This was so great to hear. I don't think enough Christians are really recognizing the aggressive attack on grnder identity...especially males. My husband has bern struggling and left our home. He acts very immature and people just dismiss it or overlook the spiritual warfare behind it. I'm still praying and to see this video gives me even more confirmation of what to pray for. I'm going to pray that scripture in 1 Corinthians for my husband...until change comes. Thank you for this!

    • @lilleoelle
      @lilleoelle Рік тому +8

      Praying for you and your husband ❤

    • @amyahogen1
      @amyahogen1 Рік тому +24

      Also praying.... For strength for you as you stand in the gap. My husband left our home for a year and I prayed and prayed. God softened his heart and he returned home, walking with God. There is nothing that our God can't do

    • @sjg5994
      @sjg5994 Рік тому +5

      @@amyahogen1 Praise God!

    • @lanngunn6512
      @lanngunn6512 Рік тому +5

      🙏

    • @autumndelicious4998
      @autumndelicious4998 Рік тому

      What does an aggressive attack on gender identity actually mean?

  • @BlancheNtrOy
    @BlancheNtrOy Рік тому +20

    For a mom of three boys, this conversation is so helpful. They are still 10,7 and 6 but I take our responsibility seriously. They are my ministry. Not perfection but grace, authenticity and intentionality. Gods word is truth and it’s the foundation of our family.

    • @dollytan1729
      @dollytan1729 Рік тому +1

      U are blessed,sister.What better foundation can u build from other than from God’s truth?I think the sooner we realise in this fallen world,to expect perfection is futile,that’s why many people struggle because the world view thrust upon us is Perfection in everything.😅Shalom🕊

  • @kendafreitas
    @kendafreitas Рік тому +7

    I can only imagine the hours and hours Lisa and John spent in prayer for God’s intervention in their son’s lives. Because at the end, prayer is the foundation that holds all these wonderful teachings and examples together.

    • @LizzAbade
      @LizzAbade Рік тому +1

      This comment right here! Yes, prayer and God's grace did that

  • @sallyzielke6703
    @sallyzielke6703 Рік тому +75

    My husband died while I still had four sons at home. The older four sons were already grown. I appreciate the truth in this video. I sent this video to all eight of my sons. Prayers appreciated!

    • @kevinkavanaugh8221
      @kevinkavanaugh8221 Рік тому +9

      May he rest in paradise. God Bless you and your family.

    • @NikkyGovier
      @NikkyGovier Рік тому +4

      8 sons? That's amazing !I can't imagine having 8 children! I have 4 daughter's (now in their 30's ). They're all mother's of my beautiful grandchildren ,but their teen years were tough 😬

  • @jenniferviolette317
    @jenniferviolette317 Рік тому +45

    I love that you brought up the demonic and how they can inject thoughts into our minds.

  • @alexandrapledgerdifabris8582
    @alexandrapledgerdifabris8582 Рік тому +14

    Thank you for this! I’m a mom of 3 sons as well as of a lovely lady. Seeing what’s going on in the US with gender identity and the LGBT community is overwhelming and disheartening to say the least. I pray regularly against this demonic attack.

    • @splash2184
      @splash2184 Рік тому +1

      Demonic attack 😂

    • @iluv2worship
      @iluv2worship Рік тому +1

      @@splash2184 NIV Ephesians 6:12 For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms.
      2 Corinthians 4:1. And even if our gospel is veiled, it is veiled to those who are perishing. The god of this age has blinded the minds of unbelievers, so that they cannot see the light of the gospel of the glory of Christ, who is the image of God.

    • @eaglewings14
      @eaglewings14 Рік тому

      It is so Satan coming after everyone

  • @motolani.0924
    @motolani.0924 Рік тому +70

    I'm a young mom of 2 and sometimes the thought of knowing that my kids are becoming aware of all the gender crisis is overwhelming for me. Thank you for sharing your experiences and testimonies. I believe that victory is sure and my kids will grow to love and honour God irrespective

  • @ClaritySinger
    @ClaritySinger Рік тому +10

    Mom of five sons here. Praying for our men and never giving up, because God has a calling on each of them and this world is a warzone.

  • @amie6587
    @amie6587 Рік тому +3

    I hope to have children like this one day.

  • @elothegreat3011
    @elothegreat3011 Рік тому +7

    This is a conversation that is so long overdue. I think alot of young people hear about all these new ideas and they think, "Oh, is that who I am?" But as young people they are still growing and forming, and going thru awkward years. Everyone wants to belong and so they seek where they can feel like they belong and fit. And the enemy uses that moment as quick as he can. That's why parents cannot just ignore and hope their kids never face it. They've got to establish good communication early and then talk about any and everything. Find out what your kids are learning about, even when it's uncomfortable, because it is being talked about amongst their friends. Thank you for opening the convo up!!❤

  • @pageandink
    @pageandink Рік тому +8

    They’re so impressive. (And mama is too). Such articulate young men. I enjoyed this and really needed to hear it. ❤

  • @luv2travel2000
    @luv2travel2000 Рік тому +6

    Today is the first day I found your channel. This topic caught my attention and now I have just binge watched 4 of your programs! Lol I love how you and your husband have raised you sons to be moral, Godly men. Praise God!!! 🙌 🙌 🙌

  • @gummylens5465
    @gummylens5465 Рік тому +19

    I love that you pointed out that masculinuty is about Christlike love and leadership. Christ should be our definition of the perfect man.
    Having said that, it's not as easy for me to not pay attention to the macho image of manhood. Nature teaches (1 Cor. 11:14) certain things, and for me, a lot of feminine things come easily, whereas doing masculine things almost feels suffocating (humanly speaking). Sometimes, I confess, it's more of a matter of survival and blending in that motivates me to lower my voice and restrict my natural mannerisms in public. (I have been ridiculed by children and others.) I wish the world wasn't like this, and that I had that ease that other men had with their own bodies.

  • @kellyd8934
    @kellyd8934 Рік тому +17

    This was wonderful! Your boys are so brave to speak about what they have struggled with! Someone will watch this and think, “I have struggled with that too!” This topic is so necessary in a world filled with confusion!

  • @Elizabeth-jt6tw
    @Elizabeth-jt6tw Рік тому +10

    Watching from Kerala India 🇮🇳 Thank you i am a mother of two sons.🎉

  • @magicalclosetofash2371
    @magicalclosetofash2371 Рік тому +36

    I love your family. So beautiful to see all the four sons sitting around their mother.

  • @brookeranson
    @brookeranson Рік тому +3

    it’s incredibly refreshing to see true men of God stand firm in their faith. simple as that.

  • @MichelleSears
    @MichelleSears Рік тому +9

    Thank you for having this conversation. My kids have been raised in the faith and their teenagers now. The identity crisis is very serious and the enemy is hard at work. So thank you for giving real biblical solutions for the attack of the enemy.

  • @GranstaffFam
    @GranstaffFam Рік тому +25

    I’m a mom of 2 girls but I found this so helpful! To see such Godly people also have struggles just makes me feel less alone. Thanks Lisa!

  • @LSFD
    @LSFD Рік тому

    This is a response from God, I've been battling with identity crisis so much

  • @ohbee663
    @ohbee663 Рік тому

    This woman of God is amazing, for the glory of God!

  • @Gucci61348
    @Gucci61348 Рік тому +3

    What a powerful discussion with Mum & her Son’s

  • @sofiadaly2992
    @sofiadaly2992 Рік тому +1

    Bless you Mom, and bless your young men. It's unusual to have sons raised up to be soldiers of the almighty God 😇😇😇😇😇

  • @randybergh3021
    @randybergh3021 Рік тому +8

    So good, this kind of frank conversation is exactly what is needed right now-all men need to hear this!

  • @kristanlargent3021
    @kristanlargent3021 9 місяців тому

    Praise God! John and Lisa, how proud And grateful you must be of your beautiful boy's!

  • @andrealudwig6754
    @andrealudwig6754 Рік тому +4

    I raised two wonderful son's and have 3 great grandsons!! So glad they're grown and are normal!! Many nephews coming up and hopefully will be homeschooled!!
    You have 4 handsome sons. Love the Bevere's and the message!! From Greer SC ❤️

  • @petrolene_performancecoach
    @petrolene_performancecoach Рік тому +8

    So great for this talk. This is an attack on motherhood, nothing else. More women and mothers need to stand up.

  • @Apostylicpoet
    @Apostylicpoet Рік тому +1

    What an amazing conversation! These are MEN!

  • @calebmusonda8417
    @calebmusonda8417 Рік тому

    Its honestly refreshing and encouraging as a man hearing fellow men have honest conversations in a godly way about real things that affect us as men. God bless you all.

  • @nicolestanford4955
    @nicolestanford4955 Рік тому +13

    Thank you for not putting on a front of perfection. Being vulnerable is helpful to me as I raise my sons ❤

  • @Jg-1518
    @Jg-1518 Рік тому +3

    I really love this video. As a new mother of a 2 year old boy, I needed to see this. We are a Christian based family and I’m praying for my son to grow up in the path that Jesus Christ has for him. I want to be able to understand and love my son in a way that I never grew up in. This truly inspires me. What an amazing video for us to see that a mother can genuinely sit down and listen to her sons.

  • @DannyK-li4ly
    @DannyK-li4ly Рік тому +12

    It's beautiful to watch such open-hearted connection between a mother and her sons. I've always had a similar relationship with my mum too. When I came out she embraced me to the best she could. She is a devoted Christian and it was tough for her for the first couple of years. However, rather than changing me she made loving me unconditionally her life lesson. I am ever so grateful to her for showing me God's love in action.

  • @lizette87ful
    @lizette87ful Рік тому +14

    What a beautiful family you have Lisa and it shows All the hard work you and your husband have done to raise these fearful men of God.

  • @juliakent2560
    @juliakent2560 Рік тому +1

    Mom of 3 boys here! Thank you for this!!!! I am listening closely....

  • @Godisgood507
    @Godisgood507 Рік тому +4

    Taking Back The Rainbow helps people to come out of the darkness into light.

  • @nayah8088
    @nayah8088 Рік тому

    When the Holy Spirit is strong and positive...mountains will be moved 🙌🏾

  • @ruchikalakra8938
    @ruchikalakra8938 Рік тому

    Wwoowww...i pray that me and husband raise our kids in Gods light. God is literally the solution for everything.

  • @codeWithMomo
    @codeWithMomo Рік тому +2

    Very true, there are demonic forces, I spoke to my mom about some similar issues like this when I was starting high school . She prayed for me, and I focused on God and it stopped completely.

    • @dollytan1729
      @dollytan1729 Рік тому

      U are blessed to have a godly mom who prays and listens and u can hv conversations with.I’d like to think I hv this kind of relationship with my own daughter.

  • @evasuve7260
    @evasuve7260 Рік тому

    Totally agree with children making their parents God their own God. I made my parents God my God and it's been an amazing experience! Through he hills and valleys, he's been with me all the way.

  • @bridgetl98
    @bridgetl98 Рік тому

    "There is power in being a man!" Amen brother. We women need to see that.

  • @arlenejones8751
    @arlenejones8751 Рік тому +1

    So blessed listening to these young men. To God be the glory.
    My girls will also honour God all the days of their lives

  • @Luna_the_dog3
    @Luna_the_dog3 Рік тому

    Thank you so much. I really needed to hear such great wisdom and experience from a mother of son and the sons. I am a mom of two young boys and two daughters. God bless you always

  • @shanzi0888
    @shanzi0888 Рік тому

    these men are so refreshing to see

  • @emirojas92
    @emirojas92 Рік тому +8

    I love these conversations! Makes having those intrusive thoughts less taboo (I literally though I was going crazy). Thank you for this

  • @jenilynn1010
    @jenilynn1010 Рік тому +2

    I love this so much!! The enemy hates it!! Beautiful family. May God use y’all in this final hour! Our world needs to see how healthy families and relationships communicate and navigate this evil world!! More of this!! Maybe some Bevere Brothers conferences or speaking engagements! I am a mom of two sons in their twenties and GenZ need to be listening to this, not the insanity spread by the enemy. God Bless y’all!!

  • @thakanepitso427
    @thakanepitso427 Рік тому +5

    Can totally relate to Josh the power of what people say to you is key. Be careful what you say to others it can be breaking to the next person

    • @dollytan1729
      @dollytan1729 Рік тому

      Proverbs18:21Death and life are in the power of the tongue,And those who love it will eat its fruit.

  • @UteHeggenTranswidowHeals
    @UteHeggenTranswidowHeals Рік тому +1

    As a mother of men, whose father now also says he's "mom, too" I've worked on strengthening their core values. Thx fr YT channel, Trans Widow Ute Heggen

  • @lt1827
    @lt1827 Рік тому +2

    There are many testimonies when children move away from God and the Parents continue to pray for them …then they have an encounter with God that changes their lives forever. Prayer is an important Key.

  • @roodhaven
    @roodhaven Рік тому +4

    Wow, what can I say? It’s just awesome for me to watch a video like this that boys, now young men are bold enough to share their faith. You cannot see this very often about young men bravely share their own relationship with Jesus and how they struggle in life and succeed because they stand with their faith. Thank you for this video! God bless you guys and mom and dad for raising these wonderful christian men!!!

  • @bellaendale7174
    @bellaendale7174 Рік тому +8

    From a sojourner walking through the desert...thank you..for quenching my thirst with a much needed conversation about these topics from a Christian perspective. Thank you Lisa and thank you my brothers 🙏

  • @dentipatutank4730
    @dentipatutank4730 Рік тому

    God bless Bevere family

  • @jmsmanroe
    @jmsmanroe Рік тому

    I am very happy to wacth all of you my bethren in Christ. God bless you all. Love from Indonesia

  • @yolandevonwielligh3620
    @yolandevonwielligh3620 Рік тому +2

    Oh my goodness, Lisa, guys, THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU for this!!! And for being who you are in this crazy, confused but beautiful world of ours. I am a mom of 3 (daughters) ranging from 25 yrs to 19 months and our oldest is expecting our first grand child - a boy. You are just such an inspiration and encouragement to us to stand tall (even though none of us - except my husband, are over 6 feet tall, haha) and to
    be faithful and not compromise our beliefs or value system. We want to shine forth the love but also the truth of Christ. We love you and bless you all and are praying for you. Yolande, South Africa.

  • @flavorjamenegs6171
    @flavorjamenegs6171 Рік тому

    We are in a world that is attacking our morals in every way. God gave each one of us many things, faith being the most important obviously,,,,but two of the next most important are:
    1. Intuition
    2. Common Sense
    It’s amazing how using these three gifts make life a meaningful one🙏🏼

  • @christinawatkinsyoutube
    @christinawatkinsyoutube Рік тому +4

    what a dream, I know many parents dream of having such an open relationship and talk with their kids! this is powerful

  • @sarahwong4790
    @sarahwong4790 Рік тому +3

    It's very refreshing to hear you all talk about how to help second-generation Christians own their faith, for both parents and children. Really enjoyed this whole clip.

  • @Ivettecalle
    @Ivettecalle Рік тому +1

    This family is amazing. Thanks to be so open 😊

  • @abbywenger2328
    @abbywenger2328 Рік тому

    LoVEEE This convo! I would love to hear your boys talk about why there aren't many solid guys for girls to choose from, especially in the church setting... I have heard it said that it's because men aren't leaders anymore...

  • @priscillahmwangi4320
    @priscillahmwangi4320 Рік тому +1

    Wow!!! What a wonderful conversation.
    Congratulations on raising such sober and spiritually mature sons!!!!

  • @jq8974
    @jq8974 Рік тому +16

    I soooo appreciate hearing from your sons! Have loved your grit and Christ-centredness for years, and have kids of my own in their early 20's. Thank you, girlfriend! ♥ 🙏

  • @delaniek5900
    @delaniek5900 Рік тому +1

    God doesn’t have grandkids… beautifully put💛

  • @BEliza91
    @BEliza91 Рік тому

    This was awesome!! I have all daughters but am so glad to see godly boys being raised strong in God and establishing their own faith

  • @lorenedeane9726
    @lorenedeane9726 Рік тому

    Wow! This is simply amazing. What a blessing to have sons who fear the Lord. There is hope! May God continue to bless your ministry.

  • @sanchez2738
    @sanchez2738 Рік тому +1

    Thanks for this! I’m a Mom of a 12 yr old & 16 yr old boy. I’m sending this to all the moms of boys I know! ❤

  • @christinefarrall9391
    @christinefarrall9391 Рік тому +3

    I have a dear family member who is gender confused. Been trying to pray into her situation.

  • @retroqueen45
    @retroqueen45 Рік тому +1

    It’s so important to be fearless about this conversation with your children. It’s your privilege and responsibility. It is fruitful when we set a standard and a sword in the ground for truth.

  • @Tiffany-ej2ls
    @Tiffany-ej2ls Рік тому

    I pray this for my children I want this kind of family

  • @katiesmith8519
    @katiesmith8519 Рік тому +9

    Thank you for this! We're raising 3 boys and 2 girls and this conversation was so encouraging and eye-opening. A good reminder that our struggle is not against flesh and blood and that I need to be in serious prayer for my kids.

  • @JadeGodbolt
    @JadeGodbolt Рік тому +5

    This was such an inspiring conversation. I am always so encouraged by the way you do motherhood! Thank you!

  • @ebuetsestella2020
    @ebuetsestella2020 9 місяців тому

    This is so refreshing. God bless your family.

  • @Jackiesawbo
    @Jackiesawbo Рік тому +2

    This was a deep conversation. Thank you for sharing ❤

  • @chanelr142
    @chanelr142 Рік тому +4

    It is wonderful to see young men of God! All are brothers?! Waw so awesome! Parents did a great job. We need more men like this in our world ♥️

  • @charlottemurungi8290
    @charlottemurungi8290 Рік тому

    All I can say is glory to God!!! Look what the lord has done!!!!

  • @factssupportinglife
    @factssupportinglife Рік тому

    Amen this was powerful - thank God for all of you!!! The enemy is desparate - his time is near, he is doing what ever he can to keep us in bondange...There is power in the name of Jesus - there is power in the word of God (reason why the enemy is doing what ever he can to keep us away from it) & there is a power in sencere prayer!

  • @deloricebunkley9326
    @deloricebunkley9326 Рік тому +5

    This is so good for these young guys to be open and honest about this. POWERFUL.

  • @ddduva4440
    @ddduva4440 Рік тому

    We pray in our child (still at home), room once a week (she has not been going to church since Covid). She is 22. She was raised in a godly home and went to priv Christian school. The struggle is real. :-)

  • @evetomassini7796
    @evetomassini7796 Рік тому +2

    This was truly amazing, as a single parent, mother of 3 boys, and 5 girls, I didn’t get to have those talks. Work and life stressors tore me away from this family time, We had family Wednesday and spoke about our week but never this deep. But God, this is very helpful thank you so much for sharing.

  • @ting2hung
    @ting2hung Рік тому

    What a beautiful Christian family that I have seen!

  • @everydaymiraclespodcast1395
    @everydaymiraclespodcast1395 Рік тому +3

    Thank you! This was an amazing share and so needed for moms right now who are facing these cultural issues. I do feel it’s such a spiritual battle we are fighting AND we need to have these conversations with our kids from a place of love. 🙏🏻❤️

  • @ericavene
    @ericavene Рік тому +5

    idk how i stumbled across the channel but so glad i did. i was very blessed by this. also so happy to hear your boys speak so highly of you. lots of ppl cant do the same with their parents but i know thats the fruit of just being awesome leaders in the household

  • @dawnstonerock4253
    @dawnstonerock4253 Рік тому +1

    So wonderfully refreshing and encouraging to hear from these young men of God.

  • @aubreahouse4792
    @aubreahouse4792 Рік тому

    Wow!!! The devil wants to unmake us! That is a whole lesson in just that one statement! We have to be mindful!! Amen! Wow!

  • @kimberlyeubanks995
    @kimberlyeubanks995 Рік тому +1

    Every parent should watch this video. Excellent!!

  • @9ocean
    @9ocean Рік тому +1

    Those boys have a God fearing father. I am a single mom, my x faked being a Christian when I met him. He ran off with his assistant. (That was short lived). My kids walked away from their faith.
    Men need to be a Godly leader, stand by their wife and children.
    The divorce rate is so high, which affects our children.

  • @deborahwood4728
    @deborahwood4728 Рік тому

    Congratulations dad and mom for teaching your boys.... your sons are a honor to u and God. So refreshing...... bless u

  • @butterfly.2020
    @butterfly.2020 Рік тому +3

    What an inspiring conversation. Thank you for sharing ❤

  • @ShuggaMug
    @ShuggaMug Рік тому

    What an amazing conversation!! Really loved the back and forth between y'all. Thank you for being so transparent and vulnerable with us❤❤❤❤

  • @Bbeidler181
    @Bbeidler181 Рік тому +1

    SO GOOD my hottie (wife lol) and I have 5 boys and 1 girl 😮. I feel like I’m sitting down with y’all in this conversation. Our kiddos 10 Mo to 13 yrs.

  • @leilaniaki344
    @leilaniaki344 Рік тому

    This is powerful! Sharing.

  • @troymccullagh
    @troymccullagh Рік тому +1

    Praise God that your sons are following God! They are handsome and I pray that God protects them, keeps them close to Him, and blesses them! I know you are proud of them!

  • @Psalm5110
    @Psalm5110 Рік тому +12

    This was a great conversation thank you all so much, I don't have a son, but I do have a grandson❤️🙏🏻

  • @Teresa-li2tk
    @Teresa-li2tk Рік тому

    Great analogy about the dog. Lisa you should be so proud of your sons

  • @gregoryphi
    @gregoryphi Рік тому

    This is fantastic. We need more examples Godly Men & Women for society to see what it truly looks like for God to work in someone's life who has clearly been obedient to Christ. Thank you for sharing tjis.

  • @Alvonnie81
    @Alvonnie81 Рік тому +4

    This was so good. I have five boys 1 who just turned 18 and two teenagers and two pre-teens. Some are going through a crisis so this really helped, Thank you.