I cannot believe the number of people who feel the need to explain this. It's also important to not hang around people who gossip about others. If they gossip about others they will gossip about you.
IMO there's a difference between gossiping behind somebody's back or being complicit in bullying, and simply having relationships with people. Like, everyone has their own boundaries, so if this is what you're comfortable with, that's fine. But I wouldn't be comfortable policing other people's relationships just because our separate friend groups clash. Like as long as everyone's respectful, who cares? just keep the friend groups separated.
You're right. I gave her the benefit of the doubt, even after talking to her about what she did (and she told me that nooo she didn't mean for it to be that way, etc.)... And a month later, she ended up sleeping with my (now EX) bf.
i understand this to an extent. But also, you cant drag everyone around you into your personal disputes. It should only apply to major things. This can quickly turn into you being the center of everyone else's world. Thats not healthy.
I mean I know of a couple who the guy was ex friends with the girls stalker (he didn't know what his friend was doing at the time) and the Couple are now happy, connected and very similar. I was also skeptical at first but sometimes it's in these circumstances that good things happen. I know it's a bit off topic but the title made me think of this. But I guess the difference is the stalker and his friend (the girls bf) are no longer friends and they cut contact around the same time.
The kicker is the bfs other ex friend gossiped about her and they cut him off too. They actually confronted him together. So the whole friend group (3 of them) was problematic except him
I cannot believe the number of people who feel the need to explain this.
It's also important to not hang around people who gossip about others. If they gossip about others they will gossip about you.
I agree 💯
IMO there's a difference between gossiping behind somebody's back or being complicit in bullying, and simply having relationships with people. Like, everyone has their own boundaries, so if this is what you're comfortable with, that's fine. But I wouldn't be comfortable policing other people's relationships just because our separate friend groups clash. Like as long as everyone's respectful, who cares? just keep the friend groups separated.
From now on I'm keeping my friends groups separate
You're right.
I gave her the benefit of the doubt, even after talking to her about what she did (and she told me that nooo she didn't mean for it to be that way, etc.)... And a month later, she ended up sleeping with my (now EX) bf.
Always trust your gut, it's a spiritual download showing you people's true colors.
i understand this to an extent. But also, you cant drag everyone around you into your personal disputes. It should only apply to major things.
This can quickly turn into you being the center of everyone else's world. Thats not healthy.
@@black_horse_lover2655 depends on the severity of the case
@PrettyGirlDiscernment
Exactly
I mean I know of a couple who the guy was ex friends with the girls stalker (he didn't know what his friend was doing at the time) and the
Couple are now happy, connected and very similar. I was also skeptical at first but sometimes it's in these circumstances that good things happen.
I know it's a bit off topic but the title made me think of this. But I guess the difference is the stalker and his friend (the girls bf) are no longer friends and they cut contact around the same time.
The kicker is the bfs other ex friend gossiped about her and they cut him off too. They actually confronted him together. So the whole friend group (3 of them) was problematic except him
@alessshorts wow that's crazy
Foreal
Maybe the Opp friend knows you’re all up in your feelings because she looks better than you
@@King_OKH and what if we look better?
It's not about looks smh
kids