I was thinking this too. I’m not sure if he wants to be chased by a woman because he kept saying how she pursed him when she went on his blind date segment lol
@@zimasajamExactly. He obviously didn’t want to hurt her feelings on the show, and then he felt like he had to commit after that by at least going on one date. If he truly was attracted to her, he would’ve made way more of an effort to spend time with her
I can tell he wasn’t initially attracted to her but still went out with her anyway because he doesn’t know how to properly reject someone. He’s coming up with every excuse in the book to justify his actions except for the actual truth
@@kingofmykraft1447 Terrance isn’t slow he’s literally does electrical work and probably licensed. he just don’t like her or don’t want used for free dates.
Somebody get this man a speech therapist. He has sooo much potential. He seems kind hearted and truly a good person. He needs confidence and communication training
Definitely lacking confidence because there's no way he fumbled and then making excuses about being uncomfortable with male friends. Like CLAIM YOUR SPOT
I don’t think Terrance’s segment should have been blind. All the women had already watched the show and knew what he looked like so the contestants were more at an advantage than him. Eye contact and conversation really helps foster the beginning stages of connecting and he missed out on that with the way the episode was styled.
There's a difference between wanting a relationship (Terrance) and being READY for a relationship (NOT Terrance). Bro, if you can't plan dates and communicate your feelings properly to a woman, you are NOT ready. Period. We the Real Men Committee do not accept your excuses after you've been given so many chances.
We not gonna sugarcoat this shit...he ain't into her! She needs to take the sign. I don't care what anyone says about "people must learn how to communicate" f all of that. If we really want something like a opportunity to go on a cruise for free or we want to talk to someone, it will happen even if you're nervous. He ain't into her like that. Just move on man. Because I don't respect a man who just goes along with a woman because he don't wanna hurt her feelings. That's what I call the bf and gf relationship these days. He don't wanna tell her he don't want marriage but he don't wanna lose access to reliable sex with her.
@@BloodLeopard-rm8wg Yes! LOL! Everything checked out with Terrance and this young lady except for the her passing the visual eye test. Terrance is not physically attracted to her and he didn't want to come out and say it. Men don't like hurting women feelings.
I been said Terrance does not need help finding love. Height is not that much of an issue in the real world. He even said his last relationship ended bc he was not ready for marriage. He just seems very passive/ doesn’t take initiative.
So true height isn't as much of an issue as people make it out to be it just makes the initial interactions a little abrasive sometimes and even that's not that serious. It's usually people insecurities around height that make height a problem and not the height itself.
Terrence is a laborer worker, he does welding and electrician. That is not an easy job. It’s a sweaty, dirty, exhausting manual labor job. He doesn’t have the type of job where you can get off work and go somewhere else really without showering. It’s also a dangerous job, so there is no texting during work hours. In my opinion he’s a Saturday Sunday type of dude. During the week you could probably just get a good FaceTime call from him ❤️ I have Union men in my family.
good points here. Also I never heard of you HAVE to text a girl EVERY DAY before 9pm or else you are a bad boyfriend. Like where did that become a rule? I guess I'm getting old or?
Good points. I generally didn't think of that. Not sure if he explained that in this video but yeah that can be another reason for him to chat later on after decompressing from work. We tend to think most have office positions that can just go straight from the office to happy hour..
I have two plumbers in my family Son and grandson The work is very lonely.yet I'm very proud of them I don't think they have time to meet Potential mates except for when they're actually in your homes with a service call. Tradesmen actually make much as doctors With the on call hours being just as bad. My son/ grandson calls me at 8 or 9 at night still at work.... Because that's when a lot of customers at home or the overtime emergencies happen. If she's a Christian why hasn't she found somebody in her own church. My son says women at the bank turn their nose up at him except for when they go see his bank account😂
Arlette INTENSLEY looking at Terrence as he talks just to swing around and say "Can you elaborate on that" had me weak. She ain't understand a word that man was saying lol, but I like how she is still always professional about it.
The social dynamic between these two is what created the oil and water effect. Brotha Terrance seems to be a slow reactor TO conversation and she appears to be an engaging thinker and conversationalist.
As much as I love this show, it spotlights how dysfunctional dating is. Everyone wants good communication but no one communicates. People judge every single thing!! This is why things are so hard because we can’t get out of our own way. Smh
I’m torn about having only new people appear in season 2. There are a few participants who didn’t find anyone who I would like to see get matched-up… Except for Dr. Elom, he is way too verbose.
@@Gerald_Nathaniel Nah… the doc needs his own episode like Terrance had. As long as the women know it’s Dr. Elom in advance, that would be an entertaining show for Arlette to do!
I think very simply put, he is just not feeling her. Terrance is so nice that he doesn’t want to let her or US down so he was coming up with any excuse as to why it’s not going to work. When he finally had a valid point he ran with it.. they are both very nice people and both deserve to find their perfect match!
exactly how i feel too. Initially, she did like him and was open to possibilities of trying out on a date. Her interest in him dropped way too much and that's a deal breaker for most women if men can't create the spark they want
NO!! he isnt nice. he has the personality of a tree, sounds lie he is always high, he is disinterested, has no energy, he is so plain i dont even know why anyone will wanna be with him. He sounds like the type of guy who likes to be babied and mollycoddled....a pampered mommy's boy!! There is no way in hell ill support any woman going out with this guy
I think Terrance wants a relationship but lacks the experience and wherewithal to sustain one… He also has a very low level vocabulary and could use some classes ……His comprehension skills need a boost … maybe Arlette can do a relationship school , cuz some of these men just need fine tuning
He’s not attracted to her. He is too nice to just be transparent. You can tell when he chose her on the blind date and saw her he didn’t have the same reaction he did with the eliminated women
I don’t think he wasn’t attracted to her physically but rather felt like she wasn’t genuine he just didn’t know whether she was genuine about her interests in him or even genuine in who she says she is. behind the curtain she was confident and selling herself but when she came out she wasn’t as confident. she is very very passive aggressive and I’m not saying she is a horrible person-what I am saying is that passive aggressiveness makes ppl hard to connect with and they don’t feel like safe spaces because you don’t know which is really them and how they really feel about things.
Hey Man, Say Man... Terrance, you maybe soft spoken, but I can see you are a real genuine person and very wise as well. There's a very special lady that will find you soon. Keep being yourself Bro.💪🏾
Terrance has some growing up to do. The mumbling and laid back thing isn’t a personality trait, it seems like a defense mechanism. It’s not a an excuse for the indecision and passive intentions. Pace is one thing but the lifestyles in this match are incompatible. Also, if you pay attention to her responses on the episode, she wasn’t entirely truthful herself. She had very clear boundaries and he wanted her to compromise them rather than working with her in a way that affirms her boundaries. The questions he asked were interesting on the show but the dealbreakers weren’t addressed and it ruined this match as well. In the end, it’s a journey. And I’m excited for Terrance because he’s bringing a beautiful heart and intention toward his search. Minor tweaks and he’ll be in a beautiful union. But you MUST process and communicate your emotions Terrance.
Facts. I'm a grown man and wouldn't want my daughter to bring him home. Eventually I feel like a woman would get tired of him and want a stronger man. It's a lot of women out here who are naturally submissive to guys like me because of how I carry myself. Being short is one thing but when you have it together in other places then it makes up for what u lack.
I can tell from the beginning of this video bc the first 5 minutes he wouldn’t look at her he had some stuff to get off his chest but since he so nice he ain’t gonna say how he truly feel
She had me at the first half of the show. Terrence clearly needs help with communication. However, her calling him insecure because she hangs around male friends that like her and blocking him is definitely a bit immature. Another thing is, if she wasn’t available for calls after 9, why was she out partying with her male friends while drinking. Doesn’t seem very Christian like and she was asking for him to be a disciple. That’s just weird to me. I hope that Terrence fixes his communication issues and that he finds a great woman, he is still very sweet & humble.
Thank you! Somebody said it! Every one in the comments are being one sided (her side) & isn’t paying attention to every single detail that is coming from both of their stories. I’m not saying that he isn’t wrong for not planning the dates, yes communication is best but she acts like she is on a tight schedule every single day to where she can’t just do anything spontaneous w/o it being planned out. Like he said, she didn’t have issues going out with guys getting tipsy. Another thing, I get her saying that he sounds insecure but if she truly paid attention to him, it’s definitely giving he’s been cheated on, because on his blind date segment, he asked that question about if they cheated before & asked it more than once. And for her to tell him that the guy “friend “ wanna be more than friends, it sounds like she was trying to make him jealous. Also let me add, just because she’s all holy rolley doesn’t mean she’s a saint. She’s giving “sneaky “ vibes to me
I don’t blame Terrance for not wanting to wait 30+ minutes for his date to arrive. If he made the effort to show up on his work clothes, it means he was trying.
He wasn't the problem he wasn't interested in her because she had guy friends dude🚩🚩🚩......that's why he never took the initiative to plan a date with her......
lol I can tell who commented before finishing the whole video!! I was mad at Terence in the beginning too but as the video progressed, she was CLEARLY in the wrong! Getting tipsy with guy friends who like her but doesn’t want Terence to text her after 9pm? Meanwhile his work schedule makes him get out of work late sometimes and gives little wiggle room to communicate before 9pm. She’s approaching dating like an entrepreneur opening her schedule for booking appointments at specific times of the month! 😂😂 He’s so calm and laidback and although her voice is calm, she seems like she may be short-tempered too. I hope they both find love with someone who they’re compatible with. He’s more spontaneous and she has a rigid schedule, only for new men in her life lol. Not the friendzoned ones.
She had some flaws in her ways too but Terrance ain't that into her look wise and he just need to be real and say that. The excuses he used was cop outs just to not say what the real reason was.
@@elleurfavoritestvegan1550 I agree with you. She’s a beautiful woman but I think him being so nice, he was gonna go with the flow even though she may not be his type. But then her red flags gave him valid reasons to say why he disappeared.
I watched the entire video and still believe that Terrance was mostly in the wrong. He did not take the initiative to plan dates, did not communicate well, jumped to conclusions, and didn’t ask enough questions to address his concerns. The lady clearly has a trusting relationship with male FRIENDS. She clearly doesn’t like them like that. Terrance is a new person in her life and I can understand her not wanting to communicate with a male that she doesn’t know well during booty call hours because she doesn’t know his intentions. Also, Terrance asked her why he should pick her during the show so I don’t understand his issue with her asking why she should continue to day him. I also don’t understand why he has a problem with her wanting to date a disciple as a Baptist. Discipleship isn’t a denomination, it’s a lifestyle as a follower of Christ like she said. Nonetheless, I’m still rooting for BOTH of them to find love ❤
I noticed when Terrance did the blind date and it was down to the last two women, he asked "what made them interested in him?" They gave a general response without saying they were attracted to him. And this woman kept referencing "we and us" more than "I and me" when describing her interest in him. So I knew this was going to go left.
Terrace is laid back but he's not stupid. Lady likes to plan to the t but hangs out drunk after 9 with her guy friends who like her. Red flags on both plates. Terrace just needs a strong uncle to lift his confidence. Get ready for better (on both sides).
Ppl judging Terrance definitely didn’t watch this show til the end. He definitely kept tryna spare her. Because the ending told it alllllll & now it makes sense why he was tip toeing around shawty lol.
Thank you I'm glad I'm not the only one that noticed that. I tryna figure out what people talking bout, saying that he dropped the ball, he dodged a bullet, she had to many red flags, and I bet she don't talk that way off camera.
We were all rooting for you Terrance!! Whyyyyyy! Please 🙏 plan the dates and be excited about them to show the woman that you are truly interested. Be communicative about your work schedule and try to get to know the women you are courting. Have fun with the dates and understand the woman’s time. I wish you two the best!
You wanted the good brother to settle because most women reject him do to his height. Hell Naw. She is no top choice anything. This is not prime pickings. He treated the Narwhal as it should be treated. Then to top is off, she is a liar. All that on the set cap is too see-through.
She was 30 mins late, bro left and came back. She compared him to men in her DM's, she says no calls past 9pm even though he gets off @ 6:30, she admits her male friends like her and says he's insecure for feeling weird about that, she blocked him on everything for being late to a date.
Terrance, you need to be more assertive sir. That laid back stuff only works with women for so long. You need to show initiative and leadership. Be an alpha and PLAN THE DATES. Clock is ticking.
Yea broski ain’t assertive at all! And doesn’t take initiative as a man. He just following behind the woman. I don’t think he actually wanted her tho. When you really want a woman you gone make sure you on point no matter what
Nothing wrong with him being laid back Simple, you alpha males chase women who ain’t even tradition women and you fully attract gold diggers, so what if she planned dates doesn’t mean anything, she needs to go gym and look after her health, it’s always a man’s fault I like that his laid back women ain’t even virgins or traditional at all , dating wasn’t even a thing before it was courting, then marriage, people chat to much rubbish about how a man should be but don’t even do their history of how women are meant to be or how things were 70 - 80 years ago I’m a Man I don’t deal with this alpha male talk On top of that she lost and made a mistake because she talking about god etc so why doesn’t she go find a godly man
Let me say this for all women if you have a guy friend and he likes you on any level beyond friendship is NOT a friend... understanding what a true friend is separates the unwanted confusion ‼️💯
💯 I'm sorry l did not like her, she comes across as butter wouldn't melt and l'm sure she has a really sweet side but l think she played a lot of mind games and people miss it because of how well she articulates her crap. She would manipulate the life out of Terrance and constantly put him down. He don't need her type
She has a strong personality, Terrance is a bit more chill and laid back, some women perceive that as a lack of confidence but really it's a sense of impatience on the other side. She has guy friends, She has options, so she was probably empowered to leave the situations since it wasn't exactly what she wanted. Regular dating things. We have to gauge compatibility sooner in the dating stage
After watching his blind date, I feel he definitely should've gone with contestant #2. But truthfully, while dude does seem like a genuine person, I feel like he lacks a bit of confidence and has some slight communication problems. Sometimes the nice / good dudes aren't always the most confident due to personal reasons. While they did have a lot in common, the commonalities just weren't compatible. I hope bro either gets in contact with one of the other contestants from his segment or eventually finds someone for him in the future. He does deserve it and hopefully that person will be able to get him out of his shell more! Keep pushing T 💪🏼💯
If contestant #2 didn't have a bestie ex-boyfriend, he would have chose HER. And after seeing who that was, I KNEW he should have gone with her!!! I loved (I think her name is Ivory) her since I saw her on an episode... and I IMMEDIATELY thought they would make a great match 😌
I could be wrong but I think two reasons he picked her and not number 2. Reason one number 2 was still friends with an ex. And another reason is when asked about favorite food number three mentioned she’s half Salvador. A lot of black men are into lighter skin mixed women. He probably heard that and had an image in his head of what she looked like. And she came out not the image he had.
It’s just crazy how they both bring up facts to the table and they both super calm and chill no raise of voice tone and shit… this my fav episode of all times
Basically it's a lack of communication and Terrance as a man not being assertive enough! I think they should try again! Denisha is A GROWN WOMAN and she knows what she wants!
I just want to say that I really love Arlette and her genuine expressions cause she be reacting the same way I would, to some of the things these people be saying. Like oooo…what you went to the comedy show on your own?! Damn T sounds like you fumbled the bag my boy. Still rooting for everyone to find love. This show is so entertaining.
He ain't into her. I don't respect men like him. He want sexual access to her and pretends to like her and go on dates for that reason but we all know if we want to spend a lifetime with someone or not. Be honest man. Tell her you ain't ready or you feel she isn't the one
@@bellezaiconik yeah💯 all that other stuff he was saying about disciples and her having guy friends ect was all bs 🤦🏾♂️ he was just making stuff up lol
Terrance done went from hero to villain in one swift follow up. But in all fairness, it seems like he just wasn’t into her and was too nice to tell her.
Terrance u are a wonderful guy true love can sometimes be in the strangest places although u might give out just don't give up..i sensed this young lady wasn't going to be compatible with you but your "life partner" awaits you ask God to send you both to each other and he will..Good Luck my friend!!
Wait y’all before yall comment that Terrance is wrong.., watch the whole video. I see where he is coming from more. But I definitely understand shawty too
Dating don't work no more for most people strictly cause of scheduling, lack of mutual communication & understanding, AND women & men are entertaining too many other people at the same time. 80% of men & women are fucked in this society when it comes to dating and finding someone long term. All the sex in the world won't satisfy most people cause that's not the end all be all. It's a black pill ALL of us have to swallow (PAUSE ⏸)
Yall were rooting for Terrace, I would’ve popped his balloon too & it’s bcus of his lack of confidence, lack of showing dominance, openness to dating who tf ever, talking like he’s the hardest working in the room, etc & this f/u proves my point, he seems to be seeking a relationship bcus he is lonely, not bcus he is the type to lead someone or make changes in his life to fit someone else into it.
I love Terrance and would love to go out with him. I’m not in Phoenix, though. And even more important, I’m not Christian or religious in any aspect. I’m a fan, though, and I’m rooting for him! 💕
@@TSidezRight but majority of everyone blaming him in the comments no one is pointing out the red flags she had like guy friends that liked her and then she contradicted herself when Arlette asked her if she was sure her male friends views her as a friend.....
@@raicardoburgess5773 What can I say? Some guy's are cattle, that women put little bells on around their necks and a nice lil cage around them too, then the woman leaves to find some other animals in the mean time and if not, they come back to the farm. Some are put to slaughter others are not. Men do the same thing, it's a two way street.
Somebody confirm for me if Arlette has a Psychology degree because the way she intentionally listens and mediates, i just know she has to have a side career in some sort of counseling!! Love how she handles the catch ups and the dating shows
@shuzennn no, I know 😂 it's just the level of which she handles the conversation. It's not often seen. especially in other episodes, some hosts try to be more drama filled. She's very poised and treats the guests well, I love it!
@@MaryMac04 I think it's just the direction she wants for her show and probably the vision for the show too, she naturally seems very classy as well. They do have a few shady moments but overall you can tell they aren't going for trashy and drama for the views. She is doing well, I can't stand the trashy drama filled content.
@cynie2323 right I get that my comment was a compliment because they do the show so well in comparison to other shows. I definitely love the show and how she carries herself
Blocked him for no reason, numerous of male friends, doesn't want him to call after 9 but is out after 9 with male friends, etc...TERRANCE DODGED A BULLET!
lmao she's beyond childish, and watching this show has shown me how irritating american women are. Every little small thing is such a exaggerated "issue"....to the point of delusional 😅
I’m surprised a lot of people not seeing that. They just go straight to judging the man actions. I just think he lost interest, coming from someone that’s laid back
Terrance needs to date in his league, he is not assertive and seems very simple minded. This woman is smart, poised, and confident; she requires a true leader.
She's defintley not above his league, ran thru in college, he friends on ig looks like hipster doofisis, whyte female friends using her to feel cool, overweight, uses filters in all her photos. There's plenty that puts her in the "D" league!
Hey guys, I usually do not comment, but I feel we are not doing enough to support Arlette's channel. We're giving her the views, but let's hit the subcribe button! Keep doing good, Arlette. You are a great moderator and listener and have an amazing show, which I see most people replicating here on UA-cam. But class is not sold. All the best to you, your husband and the entire production team.
I seen the other ones. The hosts have no talent, no communication skills or charisma. She has all of them, that’s why I keep watching her show, but have not watched the other ones again.
I am itching to call Terrance immature, but I will say that he is just shaped by his unique journey through life and means well! He needs to learn to 1) see things from other's perspective, 2) understand what is being communicated to him, and 3) communicate/express himself clearly and proactively, amongst many other things!
aw man. i just wanna say that she held firm to her boundaries and i appreciate seeing that. a piece of unsolicited advice to the singles out there: communicate. never assume. so much conflict can be resolved by just saying what's on your mind. also, guys: please plan the 1st date. let's create sustainable black love as a collective!
Terrance, YOU mesed up! If you treated this relationship like you treat your hair this could have been a great relationship! You asked many great questions during the blind date and fizzled out horribly! This young lady is responsible and serious about being married and you wasted her time! A woman of value has boundaries and you don't deserve her. Now this young lady needs her own blind date segment! 😂
it seems like people didn't watch the whole video before commenting, its clear that she said and did things that turned him off and that's why he fell back. Unfortunately he doesn't have the balls to say that clearly so he drops little hints of the things she did to make him not pursue her. Even the way she tried to gaslight him around 31 minutes saying men aren't intimidated by her male friends and THEN says how a guy in the friend group likes her. No one is okay with that, I could go on but it'll fall on deaf ears
Lol it really did… she explained what a disciple was and clearly said its not a religious title but the walk you have, the practice…. And he still didn’t understand that 😂😂
Mine too honestly. Maybe because I’m a basic Christian😂. If someone told me they were a disciple I would have thought they were like some sort of super holy Christian. Like the strict ones who are always trying to convert people and cover their heads in church. When it turned to her going out and partying and drinking with all her male friends who she said likes her then calling him insecure for not being uncomfortable I was even more confused. I feel like a Christian would understand that. Or maybe I’m crazy. Life long Christian here, choir practice, Wednesday bible study Christian…. However I too turn up 😂😂😂 so I don’t tend to lead with I’m super holy because it’s in my heart, not all of the time in practice so no judgement on my part. But I can understand the confusion
The first disciples are the chosen followers of Christ. So any denomination can have a discipleship. That’s where he was confused. But yes I agree, it seems like she still has a lot of growing to do in life and with her religion. So does he.
This show has shown how much people struggle with simple communication.
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Yes. I agree!
Nah that’s facts
Yes
Lol yes.
Arlette did everything she could for Terrance - he needs to stand on this own now
I was thinking this too. I’m not sure if he wants to be chased by a woman because he kept saying how she pursed him when she went on his blind date segment lol
Yall must didn’t hear what this female was saying in this video…yall talking about what arlette did for him 😂that mane dodged a big bullet fashoo
He just didn't like her, remember it was a blind date. Most men like the appearance of women. He probably didn't like hers
@@zimasajamExactly. He obviously didn’t want to hurt her feelings on the show, and then he felt like he had to commit after that by at least going on one date. If he truly was attracted to her, he would’ve made way more of an effort to spend time with her
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Terrance may not plan dates but he keeping every retwist and barber appointment cause baby that edge stay crispy and them locs stay neat and clean. 🤣
Girl OKAYYYY!!!😂😂👏🏽👏🏽
Right 😂😂😂
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Wellll!! Say sum😂😂
Plot twist: he lining and retwisting his own shit 😂😂😂
I WAS ROOTING FOR YOU TERRANCE. WE WERE ALL ROOTING FOR YOUUUU😩😩😩😩😩😩
@@vic902 lol in Tyra Banks voice
Tiffany is my cousin in real life. .lol😂
He on his own now, we can’t be defending him no more 🤣🤣
@Iwilldoyes oh wow lol how she doing? What she doing? Is she modelling? Tell her hi from the UK, I enjoyed watching her
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One thing I know, no one is ever too busy. We make time for what's important to us
Yes!
I can tell he wasn’t initially attracted to her but still went out with her anyway because he doesn’t know how to properly reject someone. He’s coming up with every excuse in the book to justify his actions except for the actual truth
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Facts 💯
Facts!
Aight now Terrance, you on your own at this point
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Big time…
You RIGHT!
Maneeeee😂 dumb on his own🤦🏽🤦🏽
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I would lose my mind if i had to listen to Terrance speak everyday 😂
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Agreed. He mumbles, talks in circles and don’t be knowing what he’s talking about
Yes cause his voice just dragging ugh lol
@@ladiet75 exactly! 😂 I'm like, spit it out lol
😂😂😂 that's wrong
"I planned both dates."
*Chair swivels around*
Arlette: TERRANCE 😮
My favorite part 🤣💀
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😂😂...Terrance is too slow for Danisha. He's a horrible communicator, and she deserves better.
@@kingofmykraft1447 Terrance isn’t slow he’s literally does electrical work and probably licensed. he just don’t like her or don’t want used for free dates.
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He's slow 🐌
Now Terrance…… you been on this show for weeks getting your ballon popped and finally you get a woman and don’t plan any dates 😒
he must be don’t like her then
Man the video is 40+ mins and you posted this 4 mins ago. How yall be this fast😂
He’s very passive and women are not choosing him for that reason…
@@its9333I got to the part where he didn’t plan and I was done with him 😂
girl i am disappointed in him lmaooo, he def missed a good one
Somebody get this man a speech therapist. He has sooo much potential. He seems kind hearted and truly a good person. He needs confidence and communication training
This the one right here👆🏽👆🏽👆🏽 💯
Definitely lacking confidence because there's no way he fumbled and then making excuses about being uncomfortable with male friends. Like CLAIM YOUR SPOT
Facts that mumble talk was hell of annoying
YES! The phrase is “Too many barriers” NOT barrels.
@@nafeesamuqtasid2320lol
Idc what yall say Terrance wasn’t interested a Man knows what he wants and will go the extra mile for it…
If it was arlette he would have
@@dimitriassession2327😂😂😂 great point
Arlette doesn't want him
@@VendieSoldetrue she’s married anyway lol
Uhm?! Then don't waste ppl's time!! Be an adult!
Arlette is the epitome of class and grace! Simply, stunning!
I don’t think Terrance’s segment should have been blind. All the women had already watched the show and knew what he looked like so the contestants were more at an advantage than him. Eye contact and conversation really helps foster the beginning stages of connecting and he missed out on that with the way the episode was styled.
Yeah. It was unfair for him. I said it on that video..
Very true, plus they should’ve had one on one dates when he got to the last 3 options. That would’ve helped with the compatibility issues.
Yeah I don’t like how he was blind either
He clearly wasn't having any luck when they could see him 😂. The show tried to give him a chance.
You are so right...they had a good idea what he was like.
There's a difference between wanting a relationship (Terrance) and being READY for a relationship (NOT Terrance). Bro, if you can't plan dates and communicate your feelings properly to a woman, you are NOT ready. Period. We the Real Men Committee do not accept your excuses after you've been given so many chances.
lol the real men committee
💯 agree. He not ready!
We not gonna sugarcoat this shit...he ain't into her! She needs to take the sign. I don't care what anyone says about "people must learn how to communicate" f all of that.
If we really want something like a opportunity to go on a cruise for free or we want to talk to someone, it will happen even if you're nervous.
He ain't into her like that. Just move on man.
Because I don't respect a man who just goes along with a woman because he don't wanna hurt her feelings. That's what I call the bf and gf relationship these days.
He don't wanna tell her he don't want marriage but he don't wanna lose access to reliable sex with her.
Word
Facts. This nigga dropped the ball. He ain’t ready.
The way that Arlette responds with her facial expressions instead of words is classic!
Terrence is too much. When I was 7 I talked like that, and my mom would say, "Stop. Gather your thoughts first, then come back." 😂
Facts
Factssssssss cause man I promise I said this almost 3 mins into it
I’ve said this from the jump! 😂
That sounds like something I would say to my child when I have one!
Lol
Lol. The way Arlette said "Terrance" after the Lady said "I planned both dates" was Teacher like😂😂😅
😂😂😂 exactly
Hollering
@@condesabeatriz9303of course she brought him back on the show three times......😂
She was like "Good heavens! what did I just hear?" 🤣
@@BloodLeopard-rm8wg Yes! LOL! Everything checked out with Terrance and this young lady except for the her passing the visual eye test. Terrance is not physically attracted to her and he didn't want to come out and say it. Men don't like hurting women feelings.
Bruh said.. “she wanted me to be a disciple and I’m Baptist.” 😂
😂
😂😂😂😂oh LAWD Terence kills me 😂😂😂
These comments are killing me 😂 poor Terrance
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And kept saying it after she explained what she meant. He just wasn’t getting it 😂😂😂😂
The articulation difference here is WILD!
Terrance is no match for this woman
Right!
Alabama vs arizona/California. No match
That was actually my first thought. This would not have worked
😂😂😂😂😂
She has an angelic voice.
Isn’t it 😅
But what she say is mean. From the middle of the video, I chance to Terrance side hahaha
@@selenegama2992 wasn’t mean it was factual. Besides the facts of being cool with other men. She was honest
I think out of all the girls on this show, she spoke the best, very clear, very concise and respectful.
I agree.
I concur
Terrance messed up. Maybe he was intimidated- it kinda showed based on his response lol
She’s manipulative and a Gaslighter…. Gotta watch the whole thing.
Yeah she seems like a good girl.
I been said Terrance does not need help finding love. Height is not that much of an issue in the real world. He even said his last relationship ended bc he was not ready for marriage. He just seems very passive/ doesn’t take initiative.
Agreed too passive.
She seems assertive. I don't see where that is/should be a conflict.
Lol naaaahhh, i assume you been watching. Alot of women popped on him IMMEDIATELY. He is too passive, but height does impact somes decisions.
So true height isn't as much of an issue as people make it out to be it just makes the initial interactions a little abrasive sometimes and even that's not that serious. It's usually people insecurities around height that make height a problem and not the height itself.
Agree. It’s safe to assume the ex-fiancé is the one who proposed 😂
Terrence is a laborer worker, he does welding and electrician. That is not an easy job. It’s a sweaty, dirty, exhausting manual labor job. He doesn’t have the type of job where you can get off work and go somewhere else really without showering. It’s also a dangerous job, so there is no texting during work hours. In my opinion he’s a Saturday Sunday type of dude. During the week you could probably just get a good FaceTime call from him ❤️ I have Union men in my family.
good points here. Also I never heard of you HAVE to text a girl EVERY DAY before 9pm or else you are a bad boyfriend. Like where did that become a rule? I guess I'm getting old or?
Good points. I generally didn't think of that. Not sure if he explained that in this video but yeah that can be another reason for him to chat later on after decompressing from work.
We tend to think most have office positions that can just go straight from the office to happy hour..
I have two plumbers in my family
Son and grandson
The work is very lonely.yet
I'm very proud of them
I don't think they have time to meet
Potential mates except for when they're actually in your homes with a service call.
Tradesmen actually make much as doctors
With the on call hours being just as bad.
My son/ grandson calls me at 8 or 9 at night still at work....
Because that's when a lot of customers at home or the overtime emergencies happen.
If she's a Christian why hasn't she found somebody in her own church.
My son says women at the bank turn their nose up at him except for when they go see his bank account😂
finally someone said it
True!!!
Terrance you are down to earth, a real man. There is someone just for you be patient keep being true to yourself.
Poor Arlette had to spend half the show trying to figure out what the hell Terrance was talking about.
I had to zoom in to see Arlettes face the wheels were turning in her mind trying to understand his explainations 😂
I swear my brain being maxed out
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😂
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Arlette INTENSLEY looking at Terrence as he talks just to swing around and say "Can you elaborate on that" had me weak. She ain't understand a word that man was saying lol, but I like how she is still always professional about it.
😂😂😂😂 yea bc he said a whole bunch of gibberish
LMAO
Screaming😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
He say too many “like” at least 20 “like” every time he talk.
😂😂😂
The fact that she explained it and he still said " I'm a Baptist and she's a disciple" is crazy work
he's just not all that up there lmao
Thats part he is to clueless…. His communication skills are lacking
Right I laughed so hard 😂
🤣😂🤣😂 so funny
😂😂😂
The social dynamic between these two is what created the oil and water effect. Brotha Terrance seems to be a slow reactor TO conversation and she appears to be an engaging thinker and conversationalist.
Damn Terrance, I was rooting for you..we were all rooting for you😆
😂😂😂😂 omg! If there wasnt a truer time for this!
Nah y’all forced bro on us
@@nTrubl3lmao
@@MsHumbleStar25😂😂😂😂
In the loudest Tyra Banks voice 😂😂
As much as I love this show, it spotlights how dysfunctional dating is. Everyone wants good communication but no one communicates. People judge every single thing!! This is why things are so hard because we can’t get out of our own way. Smh
Amen
You are on to something lol
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she wants to talk to from 6-9 gtho 😂then she’s wishy washy
@@dame2xdolla876no she just set a boundary since he constantly sent late night texts.
I’m sorry but Terrance sounds so immature for her. She’s beautiful and sounds genuine and more mature than him
He can’t even talk omg I was bored of listening to him yap
He needs to go to finishing school
@@guju84 😂😂 wtf
I was thinking the same thing.
“i’m a baptist not a disciple” 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️ was enough for me
Terrance will find his person and so will she. They were not right for each other. The best to them both. Thought provoking show! (the balloon one).
Ladies..this is what it looks like when... "He's just not that into you!" Stay blessed ❤
Hey pretty 🤩
Yes, sadly.
I was looking for this comment 💯💯💯💯💯
Yes, because she is too big.
No man is going to get excited over someone that size.
I don't care what I would be doing, if Arlette notification pops up, I'm tuning in without a doubt, Arllete show the best ever❤
Man, me too haha
“sorry guys! gotta go! arlette just posted a video” 😂 frfr
Relax 😊
If I'm free, I definitely try to immediately tune in and if I'm not, I definitely watch when I'm available.
Yep!
I don’t think I’ve ever heard someone use the word “like” so much in my life 😭 my head hurts. Bless his heart
Both of them
Then he started stuttering and he talk all quiet
I counted. He said "like" 33 times in two minutes.
Don't be like Risoma and have a drinking contest to his day to day speak 😅😅
@@Coachkingrod 🤣
Terrance funny af the way he was stumbling over them excuses 😂
Terrance thinking a disciple is it’s own religion got me crying 😂😂😂
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Real tears ok 😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂 That was crazy!!! And he was Dead serious about it 😮😮😢 I’m weak 🤦🏾♀️
I kinda thought so too
And him trying to explain it… I knew he was confused
I want an entire new cast in season 2. No recurring people 😅😂😂
😂😂😂
Can they pin comments here? Bc this! Should be pinned!
I’m torn about having only new people appear in season 2. There are a few participants who didn’t find anyone who I would like to see get matched-up… Except for Dr. Elom, he is way too verbose.
@@gemstone786 I'm not gonna flex...I wouldn't mind having Dr. Elom make a cameo appearance lol 😆 😂
@@Gerald_Nathaniel Nah… the doc needs his own episode like Terrance had. As long as the women know it’s Dr. Elom in advance, that would be an entertaining show for Arlette to do!
9pm booty call but runs out to the bar and gets drunk with not one but two disciples 😂😂😂
clock that tea!…clock that tea! 😂🤣😂😂😂
You see it. Verbally comparing that man to other men in her DM's trying to make him insecure, & then calling him insecure. #nastywork
Not TWOOOO DISCIPLES😂😂😂 IM FUCKING DEAD 😂😂😂😂
Tough! 😮💨
💥
From the minute she revealed herself on the show his facial expression told me everything I needed to know. He wished he picked # 2.
I think very simply put, he is just not feeling her. Terrance is so nice that he doesn’t want to let her or US down so he was coming up with any excuse as to why it’s not going to work. When he finally had a valid point he ran with it.. they are both very nice people and both deserve to find their perfect match!
exactly how i feel too. Initially, she did like him and was open to possibilities of trying out on a date. Her interest in him dropped way too much and that's a deal breaker for most women if men can't create the spark they want
He didn't even make time to meet with her long enough to meet her friends, he's judging off of her insta DMs he has really wasted her time
I agree
NO!! he isnt nice. he has the personality of a tree, sounds lie he is always high, he is disinterested, has no energy, he is so plain i dont even know why anyone will wanna be with him. He sounds like the type of guy who likes to be babied and mollycoddled....a pampered mommy's boy!! There is no way in hell ill support any woman going out with this guy
I think Terrance wants a relationship but lacks the experience and wherewithal to sustain one… He also has a very low level vocabulary and could use some classes ……His comprehension skills need a boost … maybe Arlette can do a relationship school , cuz some of these men just need fine tuning
"Imma Baptist....she's a disciple" PLEASEEEEE GET OFF MY SCREEN 😆🤣🤣🤣😂😊
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Right over the kids head 😂😂😂😂
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He took me out with that one 💀And Arlette keeping a straight face thru that 🤣🤣🤣
Complete confusion....!!! 😕
He’s not attracted to her. He is too nice to just be transparent. You can tell when he chose her on the blind date and saw her he didn’t have the same reaction he did with the eliminated women
I don’t think he wasn’t attracted to her physically but rather felt like she wasn’t genuine he just didn’t know whether she was genuine about her interests in him or even genuine in who she says she is. behind the curtain she was confident and selling herself but when she came out she wasn’t as confident. she is very very passive aggressive and I’m not saying she is a horrible person-what I am saying is that passive aggressiveness makes ppl hard to connect with and they don’t feel like safe spaces because you don’t know which is really them and how they really feel about things.
That’s exactly what it is
Thought I was the only one that saw this .
I said the same shi.
@@xKouture
Being honest she is a whole red flag though.
She still out playing the field and want to make life convenient for herself
Hey Man, Say Man... Terrance, you maybe soft spoken, but I can see you are a real genuine person and very wise as well. There's a very special lady that will find you soon. Keep being yourself Bro.💪🏾
Terrance has some growing up to do. The mumbling and laid back thing isn’t a personality trait, it seems like a defense mechanism. It’s not a an excuse for the indecision and passive intentions. Pace is one thing but the lifestyles in this match are incompatible. Also, if you pay attention to her responses on the episode, she wasn’t entirely truthful herself. She had very clear boundaries and he wanted her to compromise them rather than working with her in a way that affirms her boundaries. The questions he asked were interesting on the show but the dealbreakers weren’t addressed and it ruined this match as well. In the end, it’s a journey. And I’m excited for Terrance because he’s bringing a beautiful heart and intention toward his search. Minor tweaks and he’ll be in a beautiful union. But you MUST process and communicate your emotions Terrance.
Somebody in the comments said he gives teenage boy vibes 😂
💯
❤
Facts. I'm a grown man and wouldn't want my daughter to bring him home. Eventually I feel like a woman would get tired of him and want a stronger man. It's a lot of women out here who are naturally submissive to guys like me because of how I carry myself. Being short is one thing but when you have it together in other places then it makes up for what u lack.
Very well said I agree
I actually like how she carries herself.. very nice,well spoken,spiritual,and very attractive. May Jah keep blessing her
Terrance done told y’all he’s Baptist he ain’t no disciple
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😂 even John the Baptist was a disciple. I guess Terrance need to revisit the good book. 😂
@@Dariuslynel 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@Dariuslynel im on the floor
It's not the same "dommanation" 😂
Smh@ the dudes females give chances to.
I can tell from the beginning of this video bc the first 5 minutes he wouldn’t look at her he had some stuff to get off his chest but since he so nice he ain’t gonna say how he truly feel
“I’m a Baptist and she’s a disciple” 😂😂
I was looking for this comment! Why are we glossing over this? 😂😂😂
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Is disciple a denomination? I thought disciple was like all Christians are disciples. Seriously I’m confused 😂
This part!!!!!!! 😂
@@Hisnameistruth exactly that’s why he sounds ridiculous
She had me at the first half of the show. Terrence clearly needs help with communication. However, her calling him insecure because she hangs around male friends that like her and blocking him is definitely a bit immature. Another thing is, if she wasn’t available for calls after 9, why was she out partying with her male friends while drinking. Doesn’t seem very Christian like and she was asking for him to be a disciple. That’s just weird to me. I hope that Terrence fixes his communication issues and that he finds a great woman, he is still very sweet & humble.
Took the words right out my mouth
Thank you! Somebody said it! Every one in the comments are being one sided (her side) & isn’t paying attention to every single detail that is coming from both of their stories. I’m not saying that he isn’t wrong for not planning the dates, yes communication is best but she acts like she is on a tight schedule every single day to where she can’t just do anything spontaneous w/o it being planned out. Like he said, she didn’t have issues going out with guys getting tipsy. Another thing, I get her saying that he sounds insecure but if she truly paid attention to him, it’s definitely giving he’s been cheated on, because on his blind date segment, he asked that question about if they cheated before & asked it more than once. And for her to tell him that the guy “friend “ wanna be more than friends, it sounds like she was trying to make him jealous. Also let me add, just because she’s all holy rolley doesn’t mean she’s a saint. She’s giving “sneaky “ vibes to me
@@lakishadumas5078I agree 100%
Yup
Facts!
I don’t blame Terrance for not wanting to wait 30+ minutes for his date to arrive. If he made the effort to show up on his work clothes, it means he was trying.
Yeah.. I truly see both sides.
Listen. YOU are the woman for Terrance. I've seen your comments in previous videos. Go claim your man and save him from embarrassing himself further.
🤣🤣@@mr_knowitall
@@mr_knowitall😂😂 oh wow.. you are quite observant
Equal blame on both sides...she was late and has male friends, and he's not assertive and does not have control of the English language
Denisha's low key side eye expression told their story!! 🙏🏽
I see why he single, brother talks like a shy child, he definitely was in the wrong.
😭😭😭😂😂😂😂😂
I just left this same comment😢 still in his kindergarten era😂😂😮
Tilting his head to the side when he talks, too. He shows weakness a lot
@@cincososa😂😂😂😂
He didn’t do anything wrong that girl had too much red flags
“We can always be friends” lol 😆
This is how the other guys got there
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He wasn't the problem he wasn't interested in her because she had guy friends dude🚩🚩🚩......that's why he never took the initiative to plan a date with her......
Facts
Most likely true. Most guys end up in the friend zone this way.
True 😂
lol I can tell who commented before finishing the whole video!! I was mad at Terence in the beginning too but as the video progressed, she was CLEARLY in the wrong! Getting tipsy with guy friends who like her but doesn’t want Terence to text her after 9pm? Meanwhile his work schedule makes him get out of work late sometimes and gives little wiggle room to communicate before 9pm. She’s approaching dating like an entrepreneur opening her schedule for booking appointments at specific times of the month! 😂😂 He’s so calm and laidback and although her voice is calm, she seems like she may be short-tempered too. I hope they both find love with someone who they’re compatible with. He’s more spontaneous and she has a rigid schedule, only for new men in her life lol. Not the friendzoned ones.
Exactly 👍🏾 💯
She had some flaws in her ways too but Terrance ain't that into her look wise and he just need to be real and say that. The excuses he used was cop outs just to not say what the real reason was.
@@elleurfavoritestvegan1550 I agree with you. She’s a beautiful woman but I think him being so nice, he was gonna go with the flow even though she may not be his type. But then her red flags gave him valid reasons to say why he disappeared.
@AlesiaDiggs I can definitely see that
I watched the entire video and still believe that Terrance was mostly in the wrong. He did not take the initiative to plan dates, did not communicate well, jumped to conclusions, and didn’t ask enough questions to address his concerns. The lady clearly has a trusting relationship with male FRIENDS. She clearly doesn’t like them like that. Terrance is a new person in her life and I can understand her not wanting to communicate with a male that she doesn’t know well during booty call hours because she doesn’t know his intentions. Also, Terrance asked her why he should pick her during the show so I don’t understand his issue with her asking why she should continue to day him. I also don’t understand why he has a problem with her wanting to date a disciple as a Baptist. Discipleship isn’t a denomination, it’s a lifestyle as a follower of Christ like she said. Nonetheless, I’m still rooting for BOTH of them to find love ❤
I noticed when Terrance did the blind date and it was down to the last two women, he asked "what made them interested in him?" They gave a general response without saying they were attracted to him. And this woman kept referencing "we and us" more than "I and me" when describing her interest in him. So I knew this was going to go left.
Terrace is laid back but he's not stupid. Lady likes to plan to the t but hangs out drunk after 9 with her guy friends who like her. Red flags on both plates. Terrace just needs a strong uncle to lift his confidence. Get ready for better (on both sides).
Yeah fr. Bro dodged a bullet most def. Talking about she's friends with guys who like her 😂😂😂 man wtf lmao. Good luck to whatever simp accepts that
@@charlesdonawayiii3396 shorty said a few of them. We know that means at least 5 of them lol.
Who said she was drunk?
Interesting how she's out late and getting tipsy and drunk and talking bout she want a DISCIPLE 😂 I would've tell her I was a Baptist too 🤣🤣🤣
@@Tony_Wes 😂😂😂 ong bro, that's diabolical work
Ppl judging Terrance definitely didn’t watch this show til the end. He definitely kept tryna spare her. Because the ending told it alllllll & now it makes sense why he was tip toeing around shawty lol.
Exactly
yerp
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Omm you not lying! Watch the entire video and he dodged a bullet from
Thank you I'm glad I'm not the only one that noticed that. I tryna figure out what people talking bout, saying that he dropped the ball, he dodged a bullet, she had to many red flags, and I bet she don't talk that way off camera.
We were all rooting for you Terrance!! Whyyyyyy! Please 🙏 plan the dates and be excited about them to show the woman that you are truly interested. Be communicative about your work schedule and try to get to know the women you are courting. Have fun with the dates and understand the woman’s time. I wish you two the best!
You wanted the good brother to settle because most women reject him do to his height. Hell Naw. She is no top choice anything. This is not prime pickings. He treated the Narwhal as it should be treated. Then to top is off, she is a liar. All that on the set cap is too see-through.
She was 30 mins late, bro left and came back. She compared him to men in her DM's, she says no calls past 9pm even though he gets off @ 6:30, she admits her male friends like her and says he's insecure for feeling weird about that, she blocked him on everything for being late to a date.
Don’t give up Terrance, there is somebody out here for you! 🙏🏽
Terrance, you need to be more assertive sir. That laid back stuff only works with women for so long. You need to show initiative and leadership. Be an alpha and PLAN THE DATES. Clock is ticking.
After watch I agree with you but he was taken a back from her
Yea broski ain’t assertive at all! And doesn’t take initiative as a man. He just following behind the woman. I don’t think he actually wanted her tho. When you really want a woman you gone make sure you on point no matter what
Nothing wrong with him being laid back Simple, you alpha males chase women who ain’t even tradition women and you fully attract gold diggers, so what if she planned dates doesn’t mean anything, she needs to go gym and look after her health, it’s always a man’s fault I like that his laid back women ain’t even virgins or traditional at all , dating wasn’t even a thing before it was courting, then marriage, people chat to much rubbish about how a man should be but don’t even do their history of how women are meant to be or how things were 70 - 80 years ago
I’m a Man I don’t deal with this alpha male talk
On top of that she lost and made a mistake because she talking about god etc so why doesn’t she go find a godly man
@glecservices3114 Yeah, we can tell you're not an alpha because you typed a paragraph full of excuses and no responsibility. Stay single.
@@jlaw346how so?
Let me say this for all women if you have a guy friend and he likes you on any level beyond friendship is NOT a friend... understanding what a true friend is separates the unwanted confusion ‼️💯
This comment needs to be pinned to the top.
💯 I'm sorry l did not like her, she comes across as butter wouldn't melt and l'm sure she has a really sweet side but l think she played a lot of mind games and people miss it because of how well she articulates her crap.
She would manipulate the life out of Terrance and constantly put him down. He don't need her type
I have male friends too and if they like me l know they aren't true friends they just hoping for a moment of weakness.
Exactly, patiently waiting to get in. And she probably letting them buy her food and drinks, wining and dining her.
I love how she speaks ❤ she’s very clear, communicates well and her tone is so calm and relaxing
And then there’s Terrance. Can’t understand a word he says! Lol
She has a strong personality, Terrance is a bit more chill and laid back, some women perceive that as a lack of confidence but really it's a sense of impatience on the other side. She has guy friends, She has options, so she was probably empowered to leave the situations since it wasn't exactly what she wanted. Regular dating things. We have to gauge compatibility sooner in the dating stage
After watching his blind date, I feel he definitely should've gone with contestant #2. But truthfully, while dude does seem like a genuine person, I feel like he lacks a bit of confidence and has some slight communication problems. Sometimes the nice / good dudes aren't always the most confident due to personal reasons. While they did have a lot in common, the commonalities just weren't compatible. I hope bro either gets in contact with one of the other contestants from his segment or eventually finds someone for him in the future. He does deserve it and hopefully that person will be able to get him out of his shell more! Keep pushing T 💪🏼💯
ppl always say confidence... can you clarify what you mean? he couldn't plan a date, how is that linked to confidence?
If contestant #2 didn't have a bestie ex-boyfriend, he would have chose HER. And after seeing who that was, I KNEW he should have gone with her!!! I loved (I think her name is Ivory) her since I saw her on an episode... and I IMMEDIATELY thought they would make a great match 😌
#2 was a better fit!!!!
Right on the money G,respect to the homie Terrance tho for sure
I could be wrong but I think two reasons he picked her and not number 2. Reason one number 2 was still friends with an ex. And another reason is when asked about favorite food number three mentioned she’s half Salvador. A lot of black men are into lighter skin mixed women. He probably heard that and had an image in his head of what she looked like. And she came out not the image he had.
Lmaooooooooooooooooo I can’t breathe after the disciple vs Baptist conversation.
Childish lol
Terrance is a 419
Listen, I was thinking the same thing! like we not just gonna slide past what he just said. 😂😂😂
I really struggled to hold it together after that conversation
They are definitely unequally yoke.
It’s just crazy how they both bring up facts to the table and they both super calm and chill no raise of voice tone and shit… this my fav episode of all times
😂 Psh shi*..
@@Ayomide-nn4yn I know I don’t care 😂
Basically it's a lack of communication and Terrance as a man not being assertive enough! I think they should try again! Denisha is A GROWN WOMAN and she knows what she wants!
I just want to say that I really love Arlette and her genuine expressions cause she be reacting the same way I would, to some of the things these people be saying.
Like oooo…what you went to the comedy show on your own?! Damn T sounds like you fumbled the bag my boy. Still rooting for everyone to find love. This show is so entertaining.
She seems like she genuinely liked him but he was playing games. You make time for who you really want. No excuses Terrance
Well said!
I really don't think he wanted her
He ain't into her. I don't respect men like him. He want sexual access to her and pretends to like her and go on dates for that reason but we all know if we want to spend a lifetime with someone or not.
Be honest man. Tell her you ain't ready or you feel she isn't the one
How old are you ?😊
He wasn’t playing games, sounds like you need to grow up
Terrance I can’t stick up for you anymore. This is where you apply pressure
Agreed
He didn’t want her lol
@@daneatz1995i said the same thing. If a man want someone he’s proactive. Period
@@bellezaiconik yeah💯 all that other stuff he was saying about disciples and her having guy friends ect was all bs 🤦🏾♂️ he was just making stuff up lol
“Apply pressure” 🤣🤣🤣 who else am i thinking here…
Terrance done went from hero to villain in one swift follow up.
But in all fairness, it seems like he just wasn’t into her and was too nice to tell her.
I wouldn’t say he was trying to be nice, he wasn’t man enough to be honest with her and not waste her time
Definitely not into her!!!!!!
😂😅😅😅😅
You either die a hero or live long enough to see yourself become a villian ~Darknight
Terrance u are a wonderful guy true love can sometimes be in the strangest places although u might give out just don't give up..i sensed this young lady wasn't going to be compatible with you but your "life partner" awaits you ask God to send you both to each other and he will..Good Luck my friend!!
After the disciple vs Christian conversation, I can't even focus on the rest of the interview 😂
Facts
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Right I headed straight to the comments 😂😂 I read and listened the rest of video 😂😂
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Cringe
"You blocked him on what?"
"Everything."
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😂😭💔 by the way the girls sounded a bit tough at some points 😏
Listening to him everyday would literally drive me to death. God bless him.
Sounds like he’s been punched in the throat
Yall be having poor Arlette being a counselor 😂😂
I just love Arlette! Keep growing and glowing. Often imitated but never duplicated. Your show is the best hands down! 🎉❤
Actually she took the idea of her show from a Nigerian woman who has been doing this, so if anything, she's the one imitating, but it's all good.
@@joynay444 Arlette & BM's version is tweaked and improved, so "fair use" rules are in full effect. 😎
Wait y’all before yall comment that Terrance is wrong.., watch the whole video. I see where he is coming from more. But I definitely understand shawty too
Dating don't work no more for most people strictly cause of scheduling, lack of mutual communication & understanding, AND women & men are entertaining too many other people at the same time. 80% of men & women are fucked in this society when it comes to dating and finding someone long term. All the sex in the world won't satisfy most people cause that's not the end all be all. It's a black pill ALL of us have to swallow (PAUSE ⏸)
fr everyone on Terrence neck because he can't plan dates. When what she did is actually toxic behavior.
Yall were rooting for Terrace, I would’ve popped his balloon too & it’s bcus of his lack of confidence, lack of showing dominance, openness to dating who tf ever, talking like he’s the hardest working in the room, etc & this f/u proves my point, he seems to be seeking a relationship bcus he is lonely, not bcus he is the type to lead someone or make changes in his life to fit someone else into it.
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No rebuttal here. The fellas took a “rizoma” level “L” with Terrance waffling this lady’s time.
What was a carefree, lack of initiative we mistook for humility
Too many red flags with her
Yeah I think he just want's to be coddled and get laid without having to put in any work.
I love Terrance and would love to go out with him. I’m not in Phoenix, though. And even more important, I’m not Christian or religious in any aspect. I’m a fan, though, and I’m rooting for him! 💕
nah y'all trippin terrance was looking bad in the beginning, but by the end of the episode my guy might've dodged a bullet
He absolutely dodged a bullet.
@@TSidezRight but majority of everyone blaming him in the comments no one is pointing out the red flags she had like guy friends that liked her and then she contradicted herself when Arlette asked her if she was sure her male friends views her as a friend.....
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He might have dodged with this one but that doesnt excuse his passive behavior and lack of communication
@@addicted2truth408Exactly💯
Uhuh. He didn't like her like that. Makes sense because I didn't get that energy from him once they saw each other face to face.
U correct... it's like he got tricked into it
Yup, love is definitely not blind
He regret letting go number 2
When he Saw Ivory he wanted to leave with her. Maybe Arlette can see if they can match and date then hopefully live happily ever after 🎉🎉🎉
The ones he rejected ...will not take him...to be a rebound...na.
I wish it wasn't blind, just to see who he would had pick.
Arlette asking ALL the good questions!
Her husband is in her friend group. Mark my words.
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Y’all don’t wanna let us out the Friend zone to be Great
@@raicardoburgess5773 What can I say? Some guy's are cattle, that women put little bells on around their necks and a nice lil cage around them too, then the woman leaves to find some other animals in the mean time and if not, they come back to the farm. Some are put to slaughter others are not. Men do the same thing, it's a two way street.
She definitely is a playa
Lil ms disciple huh??? Its giving sneaky 😈
Somebody confirm for me if Arlette has a Psychology degree because the way she intentionally listens and mediates, i just know she has to have a side career in some sort of counseling!! Love how she handles the catch ups and the dating shows
You don't need a degree for that
@shuzennn no, I know 😂 it's just the level of which she handles the conversation. It's not often seen. especially in other episodes, some hosts try to be more drama filled. She's very poised and treats the guests well, I love it!
@@MaryMac04 I think it's just the direction she wants for her show and probably the vision for the show too, she naturally seems very classy as well. They do have a few shady moments but overall you can tell they aren't going for trashy and drama for the views. She is doing well, I can't stand the trashy drama filled content.
@cynie2323 right I get that my comment was a compliment because they do the show so well in comparison to other shows. I definitely love the show and how she carries herself
@@MaryMac04 Yeah absolutely, I was just adding to your comment that she just seems naturally very classy degree or not. Love that.
Blocked him for no reason, numerous of male friends, doesn't want him to call after 9 but is out after 9 with male friends, etc...TERRANCE DODGED A BULLET!
Oh damn she did that. She won’t even nun
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More like a rocket
lmao she's beyond childish, and watching this show has shown me how irritating american women are. Every little small thing is such a exaggerated "issue"....to the point of delusional 😅
I wrote the same thing 11 hours later. Terrance Dodged a Narwhal! He make too much good money to settle for a 3.7 out of 10.
Awww......Terrence is a cutie and he is so manerable. I wish him luck with dating. Your princess is out there, be patient.
damn, Terrance is passive but towards the middle/end of this video, he really dodged a bullet. HUGE BULLET 😵😵
I’m surprised a lot of people not seeing that. They just go straight to judging the man actions. I just think he lost interest, coming from someone that’s laid back
Same here
He def peeped game
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She definitely played that role half way through the interview. But the other half showed the person she really was. She’s manipulative
Terrance needs to date in his league, he is not assertive and seems very simple minded. This woman is smart, poised, and confident; she requires a true leader.
Damn. Simple minded sheesh. But I get what you're saying however he is an electrician.
She's defintley not above his league, ran thru in college, he friends on ig looks like hipster doofisis, whyte female friends using her to feel cool, overweight, uses filters in all her photos. There's plenty that puts her in the "D" league!
You really think he's not in her league?? Smh.
What about yo baby daddy tho??
Is she ???
Hey guys, I usually do not comment, but I feel we are not doing enough to support Arlette's channel. We're giving her the views, but let's hit the subcribe button! Keep doing good, Arlette. You are a great moderator and listener and have an amazing show, which I see most people replicating here on UA-cam. But class is not sold. All the best to you, your husband and the entire production team.
Thank you for this! Just subscribed!
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I seen the other ones. The hosts have no talent, no communication skills or charisma. She has all of them, that’s why I keep watching her show, but have not watched the other ones again.
Damn Arlette we should've given T that date to choose between the two oh well Season2 😂😆 I'm here for it all "PTBOFL" is my show!!
this is the result of both people settling..neither like each other like that
Exactly he didn’t make any moves because he was not attracted
Exactly they both weren't feeling each other just getting away from loneliness for one and getting clout for the other
I am itching to call Terrance immature, but I will say that he is just shaped by his unique journey through life and means well!
He needs to learn to 1) see things from other's perspective, 2) understand what is being communicated to him, and 3) communicate/express himself clearly and proactively, amongst many other things!
Spot on‼️
Terrence has the personality of a tree!
aw man. i just wanna say that she held firm to her boundaries and i appreciate seeing that. a piece of unsolicited advice to the singles out there: communicate. never assume. so much conflict can be resolved by just saying what's on your mind. also, guys: please plan the 1st date. let's create sustainable black love as a collective!
Well stated. Don't assume.
Don't assume destroys almost all the negative bullshit that happens in relationships
ohh yeah her firm boundaries of hanging out with male friends after 9pm? lmfaooo
Terrance, YOU mesed up! If you treated this relationship like you treat your hair this could have been a great relationship! You asked many great questions during the blind date and fizzled out horribly! This young lady is responsible and serious about being married and you wasted her time! A woman of value has boundaries and you don't deserve her. Now this young lady needs her own blind date segment! 😂
it seems like people didn't watch the whole video before commenting, its clear that she said and did things that turned him off and that's why he fell back. Unfortunately he doesn't have the balls to say that clearly so he drops little hints of the things she did to make him not pursue her. Even the way she tried to gaslight him around 31 minutes saying men aren't intimidated by her male friends and THEN says how a guy in the friend group likes her. No one is okay with that, I could go on but it'll fall on deaf ears
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Facts. Had she been really attracted to him she never would have set the 9pm vibes. She friend zoned him with that statement
4:57 did u not hear this part right in the beginning??? Terrence fell back before anything even started. Good bye
I agree 1000%
You are absolutely correct!
The disciple conversation just went over his head. 😂😂😂
Lol it really did… she explained what a disciple was and clearly said its not a religious title but the walk you have, the practice…. And he still didn’t understand that 😂😂
Yeahhhh it just confirmed that he just claims Baptist
I think he just brought that up to make it seem like she was some kinda religious fanatic to justify him stepping back. 😂
Mine too honestly. Maybe because I’m a basic Christian😂. If someone told me they were a disciple I would have thought they were like some sort of super holy Christian. Like the strict ones who are always trying to convert people and cover their heads in church. When it turned to her going out and partying and drinking with all her male friends who she said likes her then calling him insecure for not being uncomfortable I was even more confused. I feel like a Christian would understand that. Or maybe I’m crazy. Life long Christian here, choir practice, Wednesday bible study Christian…. However I too turn up 😂😂😂 so I don’t tend to lead with I’m super holy because it’s in my heart, not all of the time in practice so no judgement on my part. But I can understand the confusion
The first disciples are the chosen followers of Christ. So any denomination can have a discipleship. That’s where he was confused. But yes I agree, it seems like she still has a lot of growing to do in life and with her religion. So does he.
I clicked this video so fast, smoke almost came from my fingers! 😂
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Lol!! That part😂
SAME!!!
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😂, now I need a new screen protector, becuz mine shattered 😂
She was really kind in letting him know he didn’t understand the disciple comment, i would’ve just screamed
If he says “like” one more time!! 😂
I swear!!!😂
I was looking for this comment 🤣🤣
This comment!!!! I was LIKE sir!!! I couldn’t deal with that lol
For real!!!!!! 🤪
It sucks because he could use that voice of his in a sexy way but nooooooo it's "like" "um" Idk" ect