This was the best follow-up from the show. Grown adults, open communication, and transparency. They both know what they want without bending on their beliefs. Two good people overall.
I love the way this young lady is into her God / faith and won’t shake it for nothing. It is true when the word said, believer should not be yoked with an unbeliever. It can become uneasy as no one really wants to let go off their spiritual beliefs. Wish them luck but I say to the young lady…Never let go off God. The stance I take is that I don’t need to search for the truth of something I can never see physically. All I need to do is believe by faith because faith is believing in that which I cannot see regardless. I choose to believe by choice as I have nothing to loose but everything to loose when I exit this world and what if I confirm that there is indeed a God who will judge me of my life on earth. But if there was no God I have nothing to loose but if there is and I did not believe or wavering I would have lost out. All the best ❤
Finally two mature people my goodness can’t everyone be just like them. Bring more people like them, Arlette, no games no immaturity, no waste of time. We need people like them to be more intentional, transparent, mature, and honest.
@@DaCaptain44 Right. How Arlette gonna get her views if we don't have some Dr. Elom-type dudes on the show every now-and-then 😂 there needs to be a balance.
Facts!! Both are interested in knowing each other , Seems like that had deep intellectual convos neither one talk about how Much pressure need to be applied and How their DMs are Popping none of that Nonsense
No no no children. Adults don't believe in things and accept that the belief itself is true. Adults go the extra mile and seek evidence to PROVE that what they believED in was either true or false. If I KNOW something with certainty, I no longer need to profess I BELIEVE in it. Words mean everything. Words are what your pastors use to rob you of your time and hard earned money. But maybe some of you are into that type of stuff rather than using the gray matter between your ears. As it is written, "For the time will come when they will not endure sound DOCTRINE; but after their own lusts shall they heap to themselves teachers, having itching ears; And they shall turn away their ears from THE TRUTH, and shall be turned unto FABLES." With your beliefs, your imaginations will stop you from nothing your heart desires. No boundaries equals no order. It's not too late to exchange your faith/beliefs for THE TRUTH.
Marvin truly knows how to carry himself & comes off as very secure in who he is. That’s how a real man moves. And he doesn’t bend to others because he’s on his own spiritual journey. Very internally strong dude 💯
I'm not gonna lie; this was an unlikely duo! Despite them just deciding to be friends, this was my favourite match so far. I love their maturity and openness. I also loved his initiative to take her on a date. I wish the best for both of them!
This was my favorite follow up episode so far! Maturity. Respect. All of it. Both beautiful people who genuinely seem to want to understand each other.
@asdfxcvbn746 EXACTLY! Treat each other right and enjoy life together! That's all it is to it!! All this praise God exactly how I praise him and all this other stuf is straight wild. Do you and let ppl do them! who knows, after a person see how things go when you worship, they may wanna try it later down the line. don't make them have to agree to try right out the gate or it's a deal breaker, let them see how it goes over time😢 and even if they don't come around to it at all, that's kool too long as the person is treating you right. Stop putting all these roadblocks in the way to make you end up missing out on having a great person in your ljfe
He is the ONLY guy who did the right thing and had the date immediately, and she's the only woman who wasn't solely clout chasing and canceling plans. Also, the only match that seems to have both individuals mature and level-headed. I wish they weren't incompatible in religious values.
I feel like the experiment is less about them finding love and more about them finding out what they like, what they need to work on, evaluating their own preferences, etc.
Although this initial match did not work out, Marvin and Alexis are a great example of two people that are ready for a relationship. It's great that Alexis was true to herself and recognised that she needs someone of like faith, never try to force it. The respect, mutual understanding, maturity, intellectual curiosity and willingness to communicate clearly shows that they are both serious about their dating journey, best of luck to them.
Such a mature conversation. I’m glad, she is rooted enough in God to test the spirit by the spirit, talk to him, and come to a final conclusion on her own. She is a sweetheart. And he was very respectful.
A mature conversation requires us to put forth what we KNOW rather than what we BELIEVE. Belief is the catalyst to one's own demise. Sadly y'all will run with whatever your pastors tell you rather than use the gray matter between your ears. And y'all wonder why these pastors be molesting their congregation. Blind leading the blind. As it is written, "We walk by faith, not by SIGHT." Any astute disciple would use wisdom to determine that to not have SIGHT is the equivalent of being blind. In the spiritual sense, being blind is being a believer/having faith rather than knowing GOD. However, the wise use faith as a tool to seek and find. Not to remain in faith but rather to produce fruit which is THE TRUTH and not the belief one started with. However it's also written, "How long, ye simple ones, will ye love simplicity? and the scorners delight in their scorning, and fools hate KNOWledge?"
Not that rare, but they are certainly a minority, especially when the girl is beautiful, the beauty often goes to their heads. Which is unfortunate because they have no idea of the competition they have. I value girls with this type of personality, they are my preference without a doubt. Assuming that you are the girl from the photo if you have this kind of personality, you can leave the Insta.
This is probably one of the most mature adult conversations I’ve heard in a minute. This is a hard topic to navigate and you two look like you’ve done it marvelously. Bravo and good luck on your dating journey ❤️💕
I don’t think he seems gay. I think we need more exposure to a variety of masculine aesthetics. He reminds me of the guys in my office, really manicured and precise. He seems thoughtful. She is also extremely intuitive and emotionally intelligent- she knows what she needs in a relationship and can ask for it! How wonderful?!! This couple gives me hope for the state of relationships in our culture. They nurtured that so sweetly 🥰
Standing ovation for Arlette you’re spoiling us❤. Wow, I’m impressed with them both. Very mature, respectful, positive and intentional. I just would say the whole “friend” thing is wild 🤷🏾♀️ let them go and move on to someone who matches what you want.
This is by far my favorite catch up episode!!! The maturity was chef’s kissssssss🙌🏽 they are both very great people and I hope they find someone for them!!
I feel like Alexis was fishing for him to ask her out again, I really do think she is feeling him a lot but she's so strong in her faith that it bothers her and holds her back from him ultimately.
They have good energy between them. They are both very thoughtful and sincere with their intentions too. It is ironic they actually have qualities that make them great for each other.
5 months ago you made a decision to do something different and that 5 years of UA-cam really paid off! YOU ARE AWESOME I SEE YOU GROWING SO MUCH BIGGER!! 💓
Definitely!! God doesn’t make men shit to lead it’s your upbringing and morals, values and integrity your parents apply in you. It’s through your ancestors which apply within your parents. Military helped him also with discipline and he accepted the discipline. That’s why I think is a part of him so serious 😅
The better question is: "do you believe a man can lead without the God that YOU were brainwashed to believe in?" Don't bother going on dates with non-churchgoing men if you can't answer that question.
This was such a good episode. When she asked his permission to speak on a topic because she didn’t want to violate their understanding. MATURITY. They are definitely worlds apart from other interviews I have seen. Close second is Reia and Marcus. 🥰
He’s a good guy. I really appreciate the transparency in this episode and the emotional intelligence exuded. There were a lot of people in the comments dissing him because of he’s not overly religious like the other contestants. Black people are not a monolith. Learn how to respect various perspectives without dissing people.
Amazing follow-up. Made me emotional because this is rare. I love you both with the love of Jesus. God bless you all. He’s a gentleman and she’s a wife in this description.
This was so mature, and I love it. The transparency and being cordial despite differences. Being open minded, giving it a try and not wasting each other's time. Chef's kiss
Wow, these two are the biggest example of not to judge a book by its cover I've dealt with in a while: I had the impression that he couldn't be any less non-plussed by her (or women in general) during the show, yet he's been extremely deferential to her in this video. And she's very thoughtful as well. Wow! Thanks for what you do Arlette, I think you're repairing young, jaded, hearts, one balloon at a time!
No cap I do relate to the face Marvin have it’s kinda like a defense mechanism to prevent being socially awkward but ends up being socially awkward lol
This is a lovely combination. We are ALL on our journey. Respect people’s differences. He was super respectful he is not obligated to believe in God. I hope they remain friends.. he is good catch also!
Absolutely, beautiful.... God sends you people to assist with that walk .... I love it! Alexis is wholeness, beauty, she is a wife... A proverbs 12:4 type of queen.... Her husband is on his way and I'm glad she has discernment on her course,❤✨🧘🏽♀️
This was a great one, probably the best catch up yet! They both were mature and thoughtful of one another which was refreshing to see. Seems like they would be a perfect match, but they’re just not equally yoked and that’s ok. I hope they continue to get to know each other and build a friendship.
Because of the way they both handled themselves here together and the fact they agreed to be amicable actually makes it almost seem they could be in relationship
I like that she’s true to herself and her spirituality, but she’s human at the same. We need more religious people like her. She’s not being extremely judgmental, she sees him as a human.
I'm gonna keep Marvin lifted in prayer. God is working on him. The way they looked at each other and encouraged and respected each other's position was awesome. I don't believe God is finished with them.❤❤
I love seeing intelligent people interact kindly, for all to see❤. This was too sweet, even tho it didnt work out, theu are so kind and respectful. Im here for normalizing this type of enlightening communication between people ❤
You can’t run a three legged race of faith with someone content to cheer from you on the sidelines. Avoid being unequally yoked. Much respect to both of them to nipping it in the bud. 👏🏾
This is a great example of effective communication people. Neither of them assumed something about the other, they both were vulnerable and transparent about what they felt. I love it.
People criticize this show but it’s good for people that are really trying to find the person they want to be with. I don’t see anything wrong with this format. If you’re not the type of person to go on a show like this that’s fine, but I don’t think people should be criticized and shamed for going on the show.
This was so beautiful and encouraging to watch both at the same time. I was in a similar situation like this a year ago and it was so jard to walk away from because the person was so amazing minus a relationship with God. What i loved about then is that they stood their grounds abd didnt go into it inspite of their differences, cause it would have been such a difficult situation. Kuddos to them and I wish them all the best ❤
Nice to know there are at least two contestants that have the maturity and respect to be able to have a date, and conversations without the clout chasing , shade and general mess. Had to watch it twice for the positivity factor.
I love how they talk to each other even though they agree to disagree . I wish a lot of the others could have a health conversation when communicating.
Best update you all have had yet. They tried it, they enjoyed it , but it was just an underlying layer they just couldn’t come to an agreement with at this time and that is fine. Things such as religious and political views can mean more to some people than others…especially if you’re seeking something long term. Loved it
Definitely the best follow up to date. They respected each other’s thoughts and feelings. Didn’t waste time or pretend like they were looking for someone, just to get clout.
Definitely the best follow up interview so far. I was really just wanting back to back pop the balloon episodes, but this interview has kind of changed my mind 🤔🔥
Emotional intelligence and spiritual maturity is a thing. Two grown folks indeed and to hear a woman speak like that! That's just the icing on the cake for me. Alexis is Class!!! 😇😇😇😇😇😇😇
I like this, in my opinion it’s bringing a lot of melanated people together. Just opening up lines of communication and helping see the importance of mutual respect.
They really like each other but religion is very important in a relationship and for them to identify that before hopping in something serious was very smart for them to wait until they can find a mutual ground with each other. Very mature people!!!!
This was the most mature and reasonable follow up I've watched yet. They had a date talked about life and where they are at and made a decision to be platonic, this is definitely my favorite episode.
Finally, an adult follow up. I was confused why she matched with him when it was clear from the jump they wouldn’t be yoked spiritually. We are all at varying levels of maturity in our spirituality, however when dating, not believing in the same God should be a non-starter. They both seem sweet and I hope they find a match soon. More specifically, I hope Alexis is firm enough in her faith to make that requirement in her mate a nonnegotiable.
💯💯💯 it seems like maybe she's willing to settle or shift her own foundation for the sake of being partnered. But then Marvin also seems indecisive or unsure about a lot of things in his life and also could use therapy around his childhood trauma/wounding.
@TSidez At first glance, your statement appears to convey wisdom. However, to the trained EYE, it certainly lacks any substance. You stated, "I hope Alexis is firm enough in her faith..." You lack understanding of what faith is and what it should not be. Faith is a tool to be used but not a desired state to remain in. It is written, "We walk by faith, not by SIGHT" According to the spiritual understanding, who are the ones who have NO SIGHT? It is the blind who have NO SIGHT. As it is written, "Blind lead the blind..". Hence why y'all are being robbed naked by all your pastors. As it is written, "For the time will come when they will not endure sound DOCTRINE; but after their own lusts shall they heap to themselves teachers, having itching ears; And they shall turn away their ears from the truth, and shall be turned unto FABLES."
Finally 2 ppl that r not using this show for just there own selfish personal gain.....n I love that the things they said during the show was actually true n not some bs for the camera good job
This was the best follow-up from the show. Grown adults, open communication, and transparency. They both know what they want without bending on their beliefs. Two good people overall.
Well said 👏🏾
Agreed
I so agree. Was just saying the same thing. Maybe just maybe for these two. They do seem to be feeling one another
I love the way this young lady is into her God / faith and won’t shake it for nothing. It is true when the word said, believer should not be yoked with an unbeliever. It can become uneasy as no one really wants to let go off their spiritual beliefs. Wish them luck but I say to the young lady…Never let go off God. The stance I take is that I don’t need to search for the truth of something I can never see physically. All I need to do is believe by faith because faith is believing in that which I cannot see regardless. I choose to believe by choice as I have nothing to loose but everything to loose when I exit this world and what if I confirm that there is indeed a God who will judge me of my life on earth. But if there was no God I have nothing to loose but if there is and I did not believe or wavering I would have lost out. All the best ❤
Disagree. He allowed her to disrespect him
She has such a kind and put together spirit and he seems humble and down to earth.
All of them❤
@@MsHnBK Yes, Arlette is doing a great thing by putting this together and being poised and thorough with the guests through this process.
Why is he not kind and put together as well?
Right & if u look at her from the first look u would think she be a bitch ....can't judge the book by its cover
@@iAdden Just different things I noticed about each person.
Finally two mature people my goodness can’t everyone be just like them. Bring more people like them, Arlette, no games no immaturity, no waste of time. We need people like them to be more intentional, transparent, mature, and honest.
Yeeeeessss!!!
Nah we need a little messy here and there for entertainment lol
@@DaCaptain44 Right. How Arlette gonna get her views if we don't have some Dr. Elom-type dudes on the show every now-and-then 😂 there needs to be a balance.
@@natesamadhi33 you feel me! I need some true characters standing in that line 😂😂😂
PIN THIS COMMENT!! 👏👏👏👏👏
I love the respect and maturity. This is what adults do!
Facts!! Both are interested in knowing each other , Seems like that had deep intellectual convos neither one talk about how Much pressure need to be applied and How their DMs are Popping none of that Nonsense
@chipstowe2490 agreed 💯
yes 🙌🏾
He can't pass on her
No no no children. Adults don't believe in things and accept that the belief itself is true. Adults go the extra mile and seek evidence to PROVE that what they believED in was either true or false.
If I KNOW something with certainty, I no longer need to profess I BELIEVE in it. Words mean everything. Words are what your pastors use to rob you of your time and hard earned money. But maybe some of you are into that type of stuff rather than using the gray matter between your ears. As it is written,
"For the time will come when they will not endure sound DOCTRINE; but after their own lusts shall they heap to themselves teachers, having itching ears;
And they shall turn away their ears from THE TRUTH, and shall be turned unto FABLES."
With your beliefs, your imaginations will stop you from nothing your heart desires. No boundaries equals no order. It's not too late to exchange your faith/beliefs for THE TRUTH.
This woman is a gem. Somebody will put a ring on her finger.
Yeah she seems really nice,speaks well, I didn't like him, canceling on her at last minute was foul, probably like white women
@@erickanewexactly cause he chose the one closer to the WW
This was the maturest interaction out of all of em.
I love how careful she was with her words. Showed great emotional maturity
She’s really beautiful, respectful and mature
She is beautiful. I don't understand those eyelashes at all.
Arlette has been WOOORRRKIING lol all these drops. I love it
We love a working Queen ❤☺️
she needs her own show!
She’s a great host 💯
@@rae2443she has her own show
@@rae2443this is her own show
Marvin truly knows how to carry himself & comes off as very secure in who he is. That’s how a real man moves. And he doesn’t bend to others because he’s on his own spiritual journey. Very internally strong dude 💯
Factsss can tell he’s a stand up dude
The noises arlette makes when displaying excitement for others is so feminine and sweet. Every time hear it I Can’t help but smile 😂
We goooot a maaaatch!
Yup that’s why she’s married
Sameeee😂
@@pacifique3943my fave part😂
@@Lorenzo-e7m yep. Someone (and by someone I mean a famous African singer) wifed her up real quick.
I'm not gonna lie; this was an unlikely duo! Despite them just deciding to be friends, this was my favourite match so far. I love their maturity and openness. I also loved his initiative to take her on a date. I wish the best for both of them!
Arlette is a class act. I'm digging the growth of this platform. The maturity of the conversations is definitely a breath of fresh air.
This guy is stoic lmao. I think its his personality plus the air force in him too
This was my favorite follow up episode so far! Maturity. Respect. All of it. Both beautiful people who genuinely seem to want to understand each other.
Arlette is giving us real life glimpses into how hard it is to make worthwhile authentic connections out here in these dating streets.
So very true. I keep trying to explain THIS to ppl but now I can just show them.
dating could be really simple, but women overcomplicate it.
@@asdfxcvbn746 ding ding ding!
@asdfxcvbn746 EXACTLY! Treat each other right and enjoy life together! That's all it is to it!! All this praise God exactly how I praise him and all this other stuf is straight wild. Do you and let ppl do them! who knows, after a person see how things go when you worship, they may wanna try it later down the line. don't make them have to agree to try right out the gate or it's a deal breaker, let them see how it goes over time😢 and even if they don't come around to it at all, that's kool too long as the person is treating you right. Stop putting all these roadblocks in the way to make you end up missing out on having a great person in your ljfe
@@JocTillery ikr
He is the ONLY guy who did the right thing and had the date immediately, and she's the only woman who wasn't solely clout chasing and canceling plans. Also, the only match that seems to have both individuals mature and level-headed. I wish they weren't incompatible in religious values.
It's hard to not be incompatible when a bible-thumper thinks you're "broken" and wants you to bible-thump with her.
God damn... religious incompatibility.
All these religions cause divisions amongst humans, nothing beats spiritualism
@@ILoveTheAllCreatorexactly 😒 mama made ass religion
Exactly ✔️ 💯
I feel like the experiment is less about them finding love and more about them finding out what they like, what they need to work on, evaluating their own preferences, etc.
This is why I love to see return cast members! Expect Dr Elom lol
They act as if they already know their preferences.
If you have that mentality you’ll be single forever .
That's dating
Although this initial match did not work out, Marvin and Alexis are a great example of two people that are ready for a relationship. It's great that Alexis was true to herself and recognised that she needs someone of like faith, never try to force it.
The respect, mutual understanding, maturity, intellectual curiosity and willingness to communicate clearly shows that they are both serious about their dating journey, best of luck to them.
Being friends is the first step. Good vibes with these two, wishing the best for them.
Grown folks right here handling business with grace and respect for each other.
The way they showed mutual respect is what I admire. You can tell they both are very mature compared to most of the catch ups.
I like that they went on a date right afterwards. Not straight to social media posting pics and etc talking bout "I'm busy."
I love his communication style. Direct, easy to understand and respectful.
Such a mature conversation. I’m glad, she is rooted enough in God to test the spirit by the spirit, talk to him, and come to a final conclusion on her own. She is a sweetheart. And he was very respectful.
Yassssss!!!
Wasn't much to test. He was forthcoming about his faith (or lack there of) on the show.
A mature conversation requires us to put forth what we KNOW rather than what we BELIEVE.
Belief is the catalyst to one's own demise. Sadly y'all will run with whatever your pastors tell you rather than use the gray matter between your ears. And y'all wonder why these pastors be molesting their congregation. Blind leading the blind.
As it is written, "We walk by faith, not by SIGHT."
Any astute disciple would use wisdom to determine that to not have SIGHT is the equivalent of being blind. In the spiritual sense, being blind is being a believer/having faith rather than knowing GOD. However, the wise use faith as a tool to seek and find. Not to remain in faith but rather to produce fruit which is THE TRUTH and not the belief one started with.
However it's also written, "How long, ye simple ones, will ye love simplicity? and the scorners delight in their scorning, and fools hate KNOWledge?"
Alexis seems like she has internal peace. She’s silent the entire time others are speaking. Not even a peep. That’s rare.
Not that rare, but they are certainly a minority, especially when the girl is beautiful, the beauty often goes to their heads. Which is unfortunate because they have no idea of the competition they have. I value girls with this type of personality, they are my preference without a doubt. Assuming that you are the girl from the photo if you have this kind of personality, you can leave the Insta.
💯 rare 🎉
This guy. This ain't tinder@@depitrius
Besides when she whispered “stop swinging”
Arlette the only one who don’t look different 💀
I thought it was just me. The women always look so different. I do not be recognizing these people.
They get super done up for the show like it’s their birthday or prom, then look CLOSE to their regular selves on the catch up 😂
@@TheFitTechGuy facts lol
I figured out one of the reasons why! I think it’s because we are watching them from the side angle 🤔
@@Brittaney1300 😂😂
This is probably one of the most mature adult conversations I’ve heard in a minute. This is a hard topic to navigate and you two look like you’ve done it marvelously. Bravo and good luck on your dating journey ❤️💕
I met Marvin on Episode 7 and our backstage interaction was so good he is a genuine person every guy on episode 7 was amazing
Man, you handled yourself so well out there King. Nothing but respect
I don’t think he seems gay. I think we need more exposure to a variety of masculine aesthetics. He reminds me of the guys in my office, really manicured and precise. He seems thoughtful.
She is also extremely intuitive and emotionally intelligent- she knows what she needs in a relationship and can ask for it! How wonderful?!!
This couple gives me hope for the state of relationships in our culture. They nurtured that so sweetly 🥰
Bw unable to know the difference between a gay man and a straight man
Sorry what are you responding to?
Who said he was gay? And they are not a couple, they are just friends, they both literally said that in the video
@@_Amarin that’s what I’m trying to understand.
He seems like he swings both ways
Standing ovation for Arlette you’re spoiling us❤. Wow, I’m impressed with them both. Very mature, respectful, positive and intentional. I just would say the whole “friend” thing is wild 🤷🏾♀️ let them go and move on to someone who matches what you want.
They’re so mature and handled this so well ! Very refreshing!
This is by far my favorite catch up episode!!! The maturity was chef’s kissssssss🙌🏽 they are both very great people and I hope they find someone for them!!
I feel like Alexis was fishing for him to ask her out again, I really do think she is feeling him a lot but she's so strong in her faith that it bothers her and holds her back from him ultimately.
Exactly! I think he is feeling her too but doesn’t want her to think she can change him or lead her the wrong way. I really like their vibe together.
They should just be friends
I don’t believe it’s her faith. I feel she said that because she understands that he isn’t interested in taking it further with her.
yes i do think that she like him he kept saying every thing first but she wanted to say another date one day
Bingo!!
They have good energy between them. They are both very thoughtful and sincere with their intentions too. It is ironic they actually have qualities that make them great for each other.
5 months ago you made a decision to do something different and that 5 years of UA-cam really paid off! YOU ARE AWESOME I SEE YOU GROWING SO MUCH BIGGER!! 💓
“Do you believe a man can lead without God?” that’s an amazing question and the type of question that need to be asked on dates
Definitely!! God doesn’t make men shit to lead it’s your upbringing and morals, values and integrity your parents apply in you. It’s through your ancestors which apply within your parents. Military helped him also with discipline and he accepted the discipline. That’s why I think is a part of him so serious 😅
The better question is: "do you believe a man can lead without the God that YOU were brainwashed to believe in?" Don't bother going on dates with non-churchgoing men if you can't answer that question.
The answer is yes. Plenty men have done it before in the past.
@@9525joethe answer is incorrect the man can for sure lead you right to hell
@@TyroneGladden🙄
Shout out to Arlette what an incredible host, her feminine energy is so radiant. Always smiling ,always well dressed !!
BRAVO 👏🏾
This was such a good episode. When she asked his permission to speak on a topic because she didn’t want to violate their understanding. MATURITY. They are definitely worlds apart from
other interviews I have seen. Close second is Reia and Marcus. 🥰
He’s a good guy. I really appreciate the transparency in this episode and the emotional intelligence exuded. There were a lot of people in the comments dissing him because of he’s not overly religious like the other contestants. Black people are not a monolith. Learn how to respect various perspectives without dissing people.
exactly
Amazing follow-up. Made me emotional because this is rare. I love you both with the love of Jesus. God bless you all. He’s a gentleman and she’s a wife in this description.
This was so mature, and I love it. The transparency and being cordial despite differences. Being open minded, giving it a try and not wasting each other's time. Chef's kiss
I think everyone looks “different” because the angle during the “Pop the balloon” video is from the side and the catch up video is a front view.
Naaaahhh. There are big differences in hair styles and clothing styles.
We generally get the same angle at the point they match.
@@Radiance230Buts she looks the same from her episdoe
@@Sheabuttahbaby agreed she looks the same
I really like them both. Two adults actually acting grown, while communicating and being transparent yet accepting.
Wow, these two are the biggest example of not to judge a book by its cover I've dealt with in a while: I had the impression that he couldn't be any less non-plussed by her (or women in general) during the show, yet he's been extremely deferential to her in this video. And she's very thoughtful as well. Wow!
Thanks for what you do Arlette, I think you're repairing young, jaded, hearts, one balloon at a time!
Artlette loves “love”. She just be sitting there cheesing and I be doing the same. 😂😂😂
No cap I do relate to the face Marvin have it’s kinda like a defense mechanism to prevent being socially awkward but ends up being socially awkward lol
I think this was the MOST mature catch up for the matches who didn’t work out!
This is my favorite channel for love and dating! So entertaining & perfectly produced!
Thx for the positive comment ❤
It’s the best. She’s the best host
This was the most mature one by far. I love they’re energy
This is a lovely combination. We are ALL on our journey. Respect people’s differences. He was super respectful he is not obligated to believe in God. I hope they remain friends.. he is good catch also!
I love Arelette’s fashion sense. Classy woman 👏🏾.
Absolutely, beautiful.... God sends you people to assist with that walk .... I love it! Alexis is wholeness, beauty, she is a wife... A proverbs 12:4 type of queen.... Her husband is on his way and I'm glad she has discernment on her course,❤✨🧘🏽♀️
This was a great one, probably the best catch up yet! They both were mature and thoughtful of one another which was refreshing to see. Seems like they would be a perfect match, but they’re just not equally yoked and that’s ok. I hope they continue to get to know each other and build a friendship.
Because of the way they both handled themselves here together and the fact they agreed to be amicable actually makes it almost seem they could be in relationship
I like that she’s true to herself and her spirituality, but she’s human at the same. We need more religious people like her. She’s not being extremely judgmental, she sees him as a human.
No man can lead without God. God is the head of our lives. We must be connected to him if we want any relationship to work.
True
Partnerships are better than being told what to do, Relegion doesn't have anything to do with how good someone is in a relationship.
God is a generic word which can be anything to anyone. Blind leading the blind.
@@Cadmus-s5y true
I'm gonna keep Marvin lifted in prayer. God is working on him. The way they looked at each other and encouraged and respected each other's position was awesome. I don't believe God is finished with them.❤❤
Best Match so far!!!!!! They're Both genuine and Mature! I hope it works between them!
The way there communication and respect for each other already is … man they’ll be a BOMB ass couple real solid
I love seeing intelligent people interact kindly, for all to see❤.
This was too sweet, even tho it didnt work out, theu are so kind and respectful.
Im here for normalizing this type of enlightening communication between people ❤
This girl is the most genuine to be on the show so far. Real traditional and a real feminine woman of God.
I love Arlette. She presents herself as a wonderful person. Alexis presents herself as a great person also.
What about marvin ? Lol
@@Meechie4 he does too they are all good people.
You can’t run a three legged race of faith with someone content to cheer from you on the sidelines. Avoid being unequally yoked. Much respect to both of them to nipping it in the bud. 👏🏾
This is a great example of effective communication people. Neither of them assumed something about the other, they both were vulnerable and transparent about what they felt. I love it.
She's definitely feeling him and there's a connection between them
People criticize this show but it’s good for people that are really trying to find the person they want to be with. I don’t see anything wrong with this format. If you’re not the type of person to go on a show like this that’s fine, but I don’t think people should be criticized and shamed for going on the show.
I could peacefully fall asleep to them talking- in a very good way. The energy was soothing & calm between them.
She brought the strongest testimony by who she is. Sis, 💪🏾 Love the adults being adults on here. Shout out to both of you. 👊🏾👊🏾
I love them. Maturity at its peak.
Marvin has taken time to work on himself...it's evident. Well done brother. 🫡
This was so beautiful and encouraging to watch both at the same time.
I was in a similar situation like this a year ago and it was so jard to walk away from because the person was so amazing minus a relationship with God.
What i loved about then is that they stood their grounds abd didnt go into it inspite of their differences, cause it would have been such a difficult situation.
Kuddos to them and I wish them all the best ❤
Nice to know there are at least two contestants that have the maturity and respect to be able to have a date, and conversations without the clout chasing , shade and general mess. Had to watch it twice for the positivity factor.
All I can say is wow! 👌🏿 I love the fact that they came into an agreement and transparency. Best follow-up so far.
I love how they talk to each other even though they agree to disagree . I wish a lot of the others could have a health conversation when communicating.
His straight face. HE be looking serious af
bruh I noticed that in the original episode. Dude barely broke a smile on it I was like damn lmfaoo
He is serious that’s why 😂
It's a military thing
Yall want black men to cheese ear to ear and do backflips
4:04 bro had the Kanye face.
Best update you all have had yet. They tried it, they enjoyed it , but it was just an underlying layer they just couldn’t come to an agreement with at this time and that is fine. Things such as religious and political views can mean more to some people than others…especially if you’re seeking something long term. Loved it
WOW! I absolutely love this. These are two grown and mature adults. I hope they actually make it!
I must say that I certainly respect this match. Very mature and refreshing and a great encouragement for me to continue watching the show.
Why does he remind me of Lawrence's character from Insecure... he sounds just like him!!! ❤
I can see both parties are ready for the commitment, ready to go all in and making things work !❤
She really likes him she wishes he was a believer like her? But what’s for her is for her and God knows best
Definitely the best follow up to date. They respected each other’s thoughts and feelings. Didn’t waste time or pretend like they were looking for someone, just to get clout.
Definitely the best follow up interview so far. I was really just wanting back to back pop the balloon episodes, but this interview has kind of changed my mind 🤔🔥
Emotional intelligence and spiritual maturity is a thing. Two grown folks indeed and to hear a woman speak like that! That's just the icing on the cake for me. Alexis is Class!!! 😇😇😇😇😇😇😇
This was a lesson..and she was amazing and patient..showed Gods love. Not being forced
Great follow-up, fantastic lesson to learn, don't try to change people. We all have our own journey, either be a part of it of it or keep it moving.
I like this, in my opinion it’s bringing a lot of melanated people together. Just opening up lines of communication and helping see the importance of mutual respect.
They really like each other but religion is very important in a relationship and for them to identify that before hopping in something serious was very smart for them to wait until they can find a mutual ground with each other. Very mature people!!!!
I love seeing them together, 💗 ,both respected each other
I likeee them! Soo mature and poise. They both deserve the best
I love these two together. Who knows what the future holds. They are very likable and mature.
Why does everyone look different!😂😂😂
Ya 🤣
Because we black we change hair styles all type of stuff lol
The camera angles sometimes don’t get their full face
She looks the same to me, but he definitely looks different lol
@@alexia8365yup
True genuine maturity , on both sides !
Arlette on way to 🐐 status she got somethin wit this 💯
Fa sho
This was the most mature and reasonable follow up I've watched yet. They had a date talked about life and where they are at and made a decision to be platonic, this is definitely my favorite episode.
Finally, an adult follow up. I was confused why she matched with him when it was clear from the jump they wouldn’t be yoked spiritually. We are all at varying levels of maturity in our spirituality, however when dating, not believing in the same God should be a non-starter. They both seem sweet and I hope they find a match soon. More specifically, I hope Alexis is firm enough in her faith to make that requirement in her mate a nonnegotiable.
💯💯💯 it seems like maybe she's willing to settle or shift her own foundation for the sake of being partnered. But then Marvin also seems indecisive or unsure about a lot of things in his life and also could use therapy around his childhood trauma/wounding.
@TSidez At first glance, your statement appears to convey wisdom. However, to the trained EYE, it certainly lacks any substance. You stated, "I hope Alexis is firm enough in her faith..."
You lack understanding of what faith is and what it should not be. Faith is a tool to be used but not a desired state to remain in. It is written, "We walk by faith, not by SIGHT"
According to the spiritual understanding, who are the ones who have NO SIGHT? It is the blind who have NO SIGHT. As it is written, "Blind lead the blind..". Hence why y'all are being robbed naked by all your pastors. As it is written,
"For the time will come when they will not endure sound DOCTRINE; but after their own lusts shall they heap to themselves teachers, having itching ears;
And they shall turn away their ears from the truth, and shall be turned unto FABLES."
The was so refreshing to watch. Love the maturity❤️
Why can’t I remember these people until I see a glimpse of their previous matching videos ? They look different esp the girls.
Finally 2 ppl that r not using this show for just there own selfish personal gain.....n I love that the things they said during the show was actually true n not some bs for the camera good job