Building a Stable Meditation Practice

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  • @MagisterialVoyager
    @MagisterialVoyager 5 років тому +1065

    Points I've learned from this video:
    1.) Start slow, much like how old cow pees, haha.
    2.) Not every meditation is the same. Embrace it.
    3.) Practice small as well, like drops of water falling into big container. In the end, it'll accumulate.
    4.) Formal practice of meditation: plan it in your day; 10 minutes, 30 minutes, etc.
    5.) Informal practice of meditation: meditate anywhere as you go on with your day.
    6.) Let go of expectation of what sort of meditation you'll have. That expectation itself might be problem and lead to you to stop meditating.
    7.) "I will try my best to meditate". Use this approach when you do meditation.
    8.) "It's okay if my meditation is not good. It's about the practice, not the result."
    9.) Have balance: trying your best, but also not too lose in the practice.
    10.) Meditation is impermanent. It'll fluctuate.
    11.) In the end, it'll be something big, steady, and endless. But until that, we must practice to get there.
    12.) Progress of meditation sometimes cannot be felt immediately. But you'll see progress.
    13.) It's OK to feel like you haven't improved, though.
    14.) Don't expect too much.
    15.) Do it bit by bit.
    16.) Do it formally and informally.
    17.) Don't fixate your mind on the experience.
    18.) Step by step, just do your best to meditate.

  • @elwiwi69
    @elwiwi69 6 років тому +479

    I suffer from OCD and depression, and meditation saved my life so many times.

    • @iceydaywalker9198
      @iceydaywalker9198 6 років тому +40

      Azar Subs same, pretty severe stuff. Since believing more in Buddhism, I’m starting to believe that I can truly overcome much of this mental torment. Peace to you.

    • @Yaotl-1
      @Yaotl-1 6 років тому +13

      That's exactly why I'm looking into meditation. Severe OCD sufferer. How long did it take for meditation to help the anxiety?

    • @shinnok4941
      @shinnok4941 6 років тому +20

      El lobo I feel you mate. I also suffer from OCD, tho I'm quite happy now, because I've had harder times with it. I've tried to meditate, but stopped due to high expectations and inconsistency. Starting again. Meditation will help you observe the intrusive thoughts and gain more control. Don't worry - you are not alone.
      P.S. Check out Sam Harris on meditation.

    • @samantharajapaksha6937
      @samantharajapaksha6937 5 років тому

      Good teaching methard of meditetion thenks

    • @gk411
      @gk411 5 років тому +1

      Well done to you sir, keep up the good fight .om ☺🙏✌📿🌼

  • @manjaribanerjee6308
    @manjaribanerjee6308 6 років тому +83

    The most appreciable aspect of the monk's speeches is the simplicity,clarity and understandability put together

  • @godislove8050
    @godislove8050 7 років тому +191

    So wise, gentle and funny. He takes the STRESS out of meditating. 😇 Peace be with you.

  • @pilot.wav_theory
    @pilot.wav_theory 4 роки тому +72

    This man is such a treasure, hes one of the least flashy and esoteric spiritual teachers, very practical methods and simple way of explaining them. Thank you, much love!

  • @ThuLe-eh1xe
    @ThuLe-eh1xe 4 роки тому +15

    I dreamt of him last night in my sleep. He was standing, looking at me smiling happily, luminous. I saw him on the cover of the book in the bookstore, but I never had the chance to study what he taught. Now is the time.
    He is kind and funny. I will watch him more on youtube.

  • @meagoodwoman
    @meagoodwoman 7 років тому +173

    I am deeply grateful for these videos! Please keep up the good work.
    It is a real joy to listen to his compassionate wisdom.

    • @rajputwarrior7
      @rajputwarrior7 7 років тому

      Aditi Sharma indeed but not many are aware of this. the word must be spread.

    • @mohamedanas1152
      @mohamedanas1152 7 років тому

      I watches sandeep maheswari but that's not enough I think this is best

    • @yogirajsonkamble
      @yogirajsonkamble 6 років тому

      Aditi Sharma yes

    • @vaibhavwadekar635
      @vaibhavwadekar635 5 років тому +1

      Ma'am Please Search For Vipassana Meditation... and get information about it..this is only answer of all human Problems.. tqsm

  • @jenslumbye7996
    @jenslumbye7996 2 роки тому

    This is the absolute epithet of a 'feel good video', if ever I saw one! With one of the most 'human' people you can find on the Internet. Sic dixi

  • @nyimalhamo7856
    @nyimalhamo7856 6 років тому +74

    Re meditation on regular basis ...
    The 2 minutes you do is more beneficial than the 20 minutes you don’t.
    Bit by bit, as Rinpoche advises.

  • @mizofan
    @mizofan 6 років тому +26

    drip drip drip fills bucket. don't grasp with high expectations. oak grows from little acorns. step by step. enjoy the experience, don't worry about the result. thank you once again. i do feel better with this video.

  • @mariamaiso376
    @mariamaiso376 2 місяці тому

    Muchas gracias Venerable Mingyur Rinponche 🙏🏻💎

  • @daanhendriks2606
    @daanhendriks2606 7 років тому +99

    Thank you. For everybody who starts meditating these videos are very important. Stay focused on the practice of meditation not the goal you want to reach with meditation (i want to be more relaxed, i want to be enlightened etc. etc.).
    After a while you notice you don't need a goal anymore, you just meditate.

  • @mich_n_mikii
    @mich_n_mikii 6 років тому +15

    i have only been able to meditate for 5min until yesterday i did 10min! it feels so good!

    • @carlhammill5774
      @carlhammill5774 5 років тому +2

      duration is human constraint imposed by our ego. Don't fall for that trap. Instead start to drop narratives in your head about who you think you are and see who you actually are, don't follow any guru (be completely free in your quest for true self awareness) and be present regardless of location or situation. Meditation in its pure form.

  • @swapnilnl2622
    @swapnilnl2622 3 роки тому

    I like this man... He is so genuinely normal, common man like us

  • @lindagidlund9981
    @lindagidlund9981 3 роки тому +1

    To me the most important point is that the "meditation experience is impermanent' - your next experience is your next - the previous experience is gone - in the past - be in the present.

  • @TeraMangala
    @TeraMangala 4 роки тому +1

    Gratitude is not only the greatest of virtues, but the parent of all the others.

  • @healingmelody112
    @healingmelody112 4 роки тому +10

    Whoever is reading this now, remember:
    You are the light! You are unique and worth it! You are blessed to be in your body and experience all that is!
    Blessings to all beings!
    Love and Light!

  • @maximillian227
    @maximillian227 7 років тому +100

    Thank you for your dedication to keep releasing more teachings Mingyur and everyone involved!

  • @jennyxie5382
    @jennyxie5382 7 років тому +46

    Let go of expectation . Try my best ~.~ This is so nice.

  • @monikaliessem7361
    @monikaliessem7361 2 роки тому

    I think humanity is surfing collectively into challenging times in the next months. So I feel the Buddhist community is wisely preparing us to letting go..... 😊👍Thank you and lovely greetings from Germany 🌻

  • @pHazedwan
    @pHazedwan 7 років тому +11

    Every night I listen to sleep mediation videos. I doesn't feel sufficient but I feel more patient than I was before and much more mindful than I was.

  • @editeisabelfaria2014
    @editeisabelfaria2014 4 роки тому

    Yongey Mingggyur Rinpoche THANK YOU! Namastê.

  • @thethnin8820
    @thethnin8820 3 роки тому

    This somehow remind me not to have expectations rather I should have enjoyed the process itself going ...thank you so much, sending gratitude from Myanmar

  • @experiencesharingwithdeepa7862
    @experiencesharingwithdeepa7862 3 роки тому

    Guru ji ko prnaam🙏

  • @cdavis5303
    @cdavis5303 7 років тому +16

    this helps sooo much! that was my problem. I was expecting too much and would get discouraged. I can do this! step by step! thanks for this!

  • @Haze1434
    @Haze1434 5 років тому

    It's always a pleasure to listen to someone who thinks about every word. Most do not.

  • @cloverpetalsIV
    @cloverpetalsIV 4 роки тому +2

    Mingyur has brought me happiness since I have ever found him, it's just unexplainable, his voice calms me the best when I listened to him with my eyes closed. Such a bliss, Mingyur my happy pill

  • @venindersekhon4660
    @venindersekhon4660 4 роки тому +1

    Thanks very much 🙏🙏🙏

  • @bodyandgravity559
    @bodyandgravity559 4 роки тому +1

    So much love

  • @nowornever07
    @nowornever07 3 роки тому

    Thnk yu vry much rimpoche laa..🙏🙏🙏
    Om mani padme hun..

  • @KallutoZoldyck
    @KallutoZoldyck 3 роки тому

    I like how this guy gives you rationalization and concepts rather than philosophies that don't help.

  • @mja4752
    @mja4752 3 роки тому

    Really true ! You must make room for your practice and have the support of the persons you live with .

  • @joncavanaugh9980
    @joncavanaugh9980 5 років тому +1

    You can't tell you how grateful I am for your Love and instruction, Revered Sir.

  • @frankm.2850
    @frankm.2850 5 років тому +2

    As someone who struggled with building a daily practice for a decade, YES! This is how I did it, and this is the guidance I offer anyone who asks me about meditation.

  • @jackdotson1788
    @jackdotson1788 7 років тому +25

    You have taught me much over the past 2 years. Thank you for your wisdom, insight and willingness to share them will all.

  • @actsvaibhav
    @actsvaibhav 6 років тому +20

    I am really grateful😊.. can go in meditation just by listening this magical spiritual voice
    Thanks Namaste Dhanyawaad

  • @Dybos7
    @Dybos7 4 роки тому +1

    After watching his teachings, can’t watch anyone else, His teachings are so positive and uplifting and he is able to keep me focused on what he is saying

  • @samoldfield9997
    @samoldfield9997 4 роки тому

    RIGHT NOW i AM GOING THROUGH HARD TIMES AND i HAD WATCHED THIS VIDEO BEFORE BUT STILL i CAN NOT STOP MY LAUGHTER EACH TIME I WATCH THIS. THANK YOU GURU_JI.

  • @sabitamahela
    @sabitamahela 3 роки тому +1

    Wooohoooohoooo I learned something very important about meditation ❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏

  • @MaeveTheWitchTarot
    @MaeveTheWitchTarot 4 роки тому +2

    Cant deny the practice changed and saved me 🙏♥️🧘🏻‍♀️

  • @paralmehta4981
    @paralmehta4981 4 роки тому +2

    Universe knows everything. What a right time to be able to get through your videos. I was struggling to find proper meditation video's so that I can be consistent with it and Universe showed me your video. Blessed 😇💜🙏💫

  • @tarand100
    @tarand100 4 роки тому

    Thank you, Rinpoche. You know the way. Namaste.

  • @laurasmith7421
    @laurasmith7421 5 років тому +4

    Grateful for clarity and friendliness🌱🙏🏼

  • @dulaunt
    @dulaunt 7 років тому +75

    Thanks. It has been bothering me for so long that I could never meditate out of habit. I would be dedicated for a week, then stop for months. But just recently I got inspired by a post on Reddit about the NonZeroDay policy: it doesn't matter for how long you do it, as long as you do it daily, even if it's just for a few minutes. I apply this to my desire to meditate more frequently and I think your video is a great confirmation.

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen 7 років тому

      Levy I started that way too! Works like a charm :-) Mindful greetings, Simple Happy Zen

    • @PippaPPod
      @PippaPPod 5 років тому +5

      Non Zero Day. I like that. I have several chronic pain conditions. Not a day goes by that I am not in some level of pain. I also have depression and anxiety because of the pain. I started meditating in the spring and I found that it lifted my spirits. It can’t stop my pain, but meditating made my pain easier to cope with. I did it daily for almost 3 months. Then I went through a period of such severe pain it made it difficult for me to meditate. I kept trying but couldn’t get thru it because I was suffering. I even tried meditating while lying down. I found that distracting. I finally stopped after about a week of trying and being unable to get into it anymore. That was in July. It’s December now and I never started again. I wanted to but never feel well enough. My back has become progressively worse. My doctor put me on a new medication and I improved greatly! I felt like I finally got my life back and I enjoyed myself like I haven’t in many years. All of a sudden, after almost 3 weeks, the medication stopped working! And I’ve been in a severe depression ever since. My doctor does not know why the meds stopped working. And most recently my spine has gotten so bad, I can’t do much so I just stay in bed. I think meditating could help again, but I feel so defeated by everything that’s happened to me this year, I have no desire to even try again. I think if I can get a few days of meditation started, I probably might want to keep going. It’s the getting started part that is hard. Also, I was never able to sit in meditation position properly because of pain. I did the best I could. Now I can’t sit in any position that doesn’t hurt. I still listen to these videos every night before I go to sleep. I hope one day they will help me start again. Thank you, Rinpoche. I am still here learning from you and that’s good. Namaste. 🙏🏼

  •  5 років тому

    This man is the real thing! *FINALLY!!!* THANK GOD!

  • @shilpi108
    @shilpi108 3 роки тому

    I had have headache but after listening only your voice it's healing. Lott's of blessings for you.

  • @shilpi108
    @shilpi108 3 роки тому

    Best thing loving your peaceful vibrations. Learned lot from you. Omshanti

  • @sreeharims4862
    @sreeharims4862 7 місяців тому

    Thank you Rinpoche😊

  • @karmayeshe8935
    @karmayeshe8935 7 років тому +8

    Thank you Rinpoche 🌷🌷🌷

  • @ErikUlises
    @ErikUlises 4 роки тому

    they said you find things when most need it, I'm so glad i found this channel, thank you

  • @jagadishsubedi9363
    @jagadishsubedi9363 3 роки тому

    So helpful Rinpoche great lesson love you from Kathmandu

  • @johntarzen2228
    @johntarzen2228 4 роки тому

    Thank you Rinpoche.. all ur videos n teachings are inspiration for day to day life...

  • @LoganTheGeeRaff
    @LoganTheGeeRaff 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you . I use "Temple Sounds" UA-cam channel with singing bowls to help me start small and work my way up to longer videos, eventually using no videos

  • @deejaynow
    @deejaynow 2 роки тому

    Thank You teacher. 🙏

  • @lahoopratapi6841
    @lahoopratapi6841 7 років тому +5

    The day i will be in the lap of God, I will come to you to touch your feet and to thank you for teaching the world's best and sacred thing.
    I really was worried about my meditation as i love practicing meditation to find God. 💐
    And you gave me a huge help by teaching me the right way. 😄

  • @alaaahmad5506
    @alaaahmad5506 4 роки тому +1

    Best video about Meditation, Thank you sooo much, it really helps me and takes stress out of my mind, All Gratitude ❤

  • @laotsuu
    @laotsuu 6 років тому

    Mingyur Rinpoche is so charming and is such an incredible treasure to this world :) :) :)

  • @bunmeng007
    @bunmeng007 6 років тому +4

    Thanks for the advice. I think we expect too much from meditation due to its hype. I love the idea that progress is step by step

  • @viviennehamilton4127
    @viviennehamilton4127 3 роки тому

    At the grand old age of 69 I have just started to meditate. Mainly to try to still my mind which comes up with all sort of negative thoughts and I get very anxious and fearful also to try to bring down my blood pressure caused by my anxiety. I look forward to it and I think starting off slowly is the way for me ❤️ thank you thank you

    • @rajeshnadukuda643
      @rajeshnadukuda643 3 роки тому +1

      Trick is, stop reacting to your thoughts and stop judging whether the thought is good or bad. Don't try to stop your thoughts let them come and try to observe your thought as a 3rd person, then you see the change it will be wonderful. Try to make friendship with your thoughts.

    • @viviennehamilton4127
      @viviennehamilton4127 3 роки тому +1

      @@rajeshnadukuda643 thank you I will give this a try 😃

  • @nikosapostolopoulos7965
    @nikosapostolopoulos7965 3 роки тому

    yes ! good advice ! i do meditation every day and some days is not so good with many thoughts who makes me stop meditation earlier because thoughts makes me tired to stand by continue meditation ... so sometimes i quit continue trying ... on the other side of my mind i say that maditation is parts like when the pick up touch the disk i meditate and when is not then not so all the music is parts and not all continue ...

  • @kwancharlie
    @kwancharlie 5 років тому +6

    thank you so much, it's like a metaphor too, i can apply this not only to meditation only.

  • @hawkkim1974
    @hawkkim1974 5 років тому

    thanks Rinpoche for the wise advice.

  • @Curly_tales
    @Curly_tales 2 роки тому

    Amazing way to tell its not by force but just be at peace with it while practicing 🙏🙏Thankyou

  • @enthusiastic15
    @enthusiastic15 7 років тому +1

    i am so happy to watch your videos guruji... please make more videos about life ...in this world and in this generation we need spiritual power to lead a better life... we are believing in you.. teach us and guide us for how to overcome all hurdles in life to living in a peaceful manner.. because world needs more peace now... #from india

  • @DestroyerofBubbles
    @DestroyerofBubbles 5 років тому

    So much love sent from Scotland

  • @SimpleHappyZen
    @SimpleHappyZen 7 років тому +10

    So great and motivating, thanks for posting it! I always love listening to Mingyur Rinpoche. :-) Mindful greetings, Simple Happy Zen

  • @princessofnada87j25
    @princessofnada87j25 5 років тому +1

    5 minutes I started with 5 minutes. It has help me calm my mind and body.

  • @injujuan8993
    @injujuan8993 6 років тому

    I don’t know if this guy is a Thai person but it seems to me like he is. All Thai people I have ever met are rays of sunshine ☀️ Thanks a lot for a wonderful video 😁🐘🎈💖

  • @truthbeknown436
    @truthbeknown436 6 років тому +1

    I wanna give a HUGE thanks for your videos. The way you speak, makes me listen. I feel I'm at a point in my life where a change is necessary and through a weird string of events, I've come across your videos. You are helping me and I want to say " Thank You"

  • @jalajamenon8664
    @jalajamenon8664 3 роки тому

    Thank you Master🙏

  • @cookiemonster3147
    @cookiemonster3147 6 років тому

    This was very inspiring.
    I am glad he said that there is no problem if you are not already enlightened the next day.

  • @CICORIA977
    @CICORIA977 7 років тому +2

    I find your teaching very simple and usefull: an infromal appointment to build my meditation stable as well. No need to use buzzwords because meditation is practice.
    Thank you very much!

  • @ibrahimalexander4653
    @ibrahimalexander4653 5 років тому

    Best advice ever

  • @amitarya4894
    @amitarya4894 4 роки тому +1

    A big appreciation for your work, valuable time and effort that you are giving...thank you so much 🙏🙏👏💯❤️

  • @vaibhavwadekar635
    @vaibhavwadekar635 5 років тому

    Bhante.. i am a Vipassana Meditator learnt From the Great Vipassana Teacher S.N Goenka in the tradition of Sayagi U ba khin.
    I think I'm doing this mistake Again n again ... expecting more...So thank you So much..May your All Parmis come full fill this may make you fully Liberated.

  • @theemotionalintelligence3171
    @theemotionalintelligence3171 4 роки тому

    So simple and powerful message.
    Clear and unambiguous ways to practice meditation daily.
    Thank you.

  • @kittywampusdrums4963
    @kittywampusdrums4963 4 роки тому +1

    It's always drilled into us to keep gong and set a good regimen otherwise the bodily centered mindstream won't let us make too much progress. I found the practices at Drukama tradition to be very beneficial this way.

  • @veselinobodymoving8099
    @veselinobodymoving8099 3 роки тому

    Thank you, great energy and videos.. Good luck to all

  • @rileyvonbevern4652
    @rileyvonbevern4652 4 роки тому

    I find myself always meditating after wakeup and before sleep, during the day sometimes but the consistency, even 10 minutes helps so much

  • @yoya4766
    @yoya4766 5 років тому

    This is so helpful. I'm not new to meditating but I do get fixated on the quality of the meditation, and how I'm progressing. Actually rather impatient. This helps me let go of those false ideas. And to have a gentler, kinder approach to it and myself. Something I need.

  • @hayleychia6246
    @hayleychia6246 6 років тому +1

    Thank you so much. It helps a lot. The meditation context : just meditate and not be fixated on the result can be use in other aspects of our daily life. ❤️ ie when you have done your best in school or at work or in rs, and don’t be fixated on the results. This mindset helps to alleviate anxiety and stress. ❤️

  • @fibonachi.fibonachi.2556
    @fibonachi.fibonachi.2556 7 років тому

    John Kabat-Zinn speaks of this as well.... That you should not think of meditation as an eastern practice or something scientific whatsoever, but simply see it as a practice.... Thank you for the video, I got to a point where my diet changed and mind you this was not a conscious decision and I got attached to the experience....

  • @josemaria5296
    @josemaria5296 6 років тому

    Thank you so much Mingyur

  • @jaik9321
    @jaik9321 2 роки тому

    Great insights on meditation ...very useful for humans to want to get Bliss

  • @AdamAdam-qq2ev
    @AdamAdam-qq2ev 6 років тому +1

    Thank you for your kindness teaching, I'll try your mates to meditation. 🙏🙏🙏

  • @sharadabharaty4370
    @sharadabharaty4370 7 років тому +6

    Thank you very much. it's simple clear and we'll defined guidance .

  • @simoncrooks7441
    @simoncrooks7441 4 роки тому +1

    Thanks,

  • @ggzz7203
    @ggzz7203 7 років тому

    thank you so much rinpoche... tashi delek🙏

  • @razisimrazisim6931
    @razisimrazisim6931 5 років тому

    God bless you

  • @JMRolf1
    @JMRolf1 7 років тому

    As silly as it seemed to me at first, the cow analogy really was useful. I wish I had found these videos earlier on in my spiritual exploration. You really hit the nail on the head concerning the disconnect between expectations about meditation and its effects for young practitioners like myself. Subscribed.

  • @dhruva49
    @dhruva49 6 років тому

    THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU. THIS WAS MY PROBLEM AND SO BEAUTIFULLY YOU HAVE GIVEN THE SOLUTION.

  • @PARAM1411
    @PARAM1411 3 роки тому

    Wow 🙏 Thanks a lotfor helping me to understand what meditation actually is .

  • @ramswarooppatiwal1635
    @ramswarooppatiwal1635 6 років тому

    I am deeply grateful for this video and very useful guideline ...

  • @onemorething123
    @onemorething123 2 роки тому

    Personally, the meditations that have benefitted me the most took place on days when the meditation was 'bad'. I learned to use the bad experience as part of the meditation, to accept it as it is.

  • @thutopstpr
    @thutopstpr 7 років тому +6

    simply explained. So great

  • @mtm00
    @mtm00 5 років тому

    Light-hearted pointing much appreciated.

  • @shelbyregisterrn108
    @shelbyregisterrn108 5 років тому +1

    Very good advice for a beginner ❤️

  • @philip-at-tube
    @philip-at-tube 5 років тому

    A good time for me to watch this video, a timely reminder, thanks. 🙂

  • @mingmarsherpa6784
    @mingmarsherpa6784 5 років тому

    Lama la Kyabsuchee 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @PaoloBrunoThyLight
    @PaoloBrunoThyLight 7 років тому +2

    Gratitude!