In Fr.Rippergers talk on the "4 Stages of Courtship" he says couples courting should not hold hands until they are engaged. Once couples start touching each other it creates bonds psychologically, and since there is no strong commitment, there can be much pain when there is a breakup.
Is there a channel that addresses purity, chastity, waiting for adults. Especially those of us who previous relationships included kissing, sex etc. How to navigate an adult world, I am not teen or uoung adult on my parents sofa or at college etc.
Romans 12:1 .... you will give your bodies as a living offering, holy, pleasing to God, which is the worship ... 1 Corn 6:15 Dont you know your bodies are part of Christ... sin outside the body except sexual immorality....
I'm sorry, but if when I was 12 I found out that my Future Husband was hooking up with another girl, I really wouldn't care. My husband's sexual past is not something that bothers me. Obviously whoever else he was with at some random point in time was NOT "The One". He chose to be with ME, not any of those other women. Also, I find it a bit stereotypical and flat out not correct when Jason talks about men vs women when it comes to sexual drive and desire. All of his videos make it out to be that boys/men are the ones who just think about sex 24/7 and they try to lure these innocent girls/women into having sex with them, while these women want to be chaste so very, very badly, but they love their boyfriend and cave in and give him what he wants in order to keep him and not have him break up the relationship and move on to some other, more promiscuous, girl. That is just SUCH a dumb stereotype. From personal experience, I can tell you that when I was dating a guy that I really loved and wanted to stay with and possibly get married one day, MY desire to get physically intimate JUST as much as the guy. The times that I did "give in" and have sex, it was MY own decision to do so, because I was just as "worked up" sexually as he was. It is such an outdated idea that men are more into sex and want it all the time and women are trying to stay "pure" and only have sex to appease their boyfriend. NOPE. And in more than one previous relationship, I was actually the one who had a higher sex drive, and wanted to have sex more often than my partner. And I know for a fact that I am NOT the only woman who has been in been in this position. The image of the sex-obsessed man and the innocent woman who wants to guard her "purity" and falters only when the man wears her down. Come on now. Get with the program. WOMEN LIKE TO HAVE SEX!
He never said women didn't want to have sex. Of course as humans we all have these desires as both men and women. Whether that be the girl asking the boy or the boy asking the girl for sex it is still wrong outside of marriage since it doesn't communicate what sex was meant to be. Sex is giving of one's self to the other communicating with your body that you love all of them and will be there for them both mentally, physically and emotionally. Without marriage, sex is a lie with your body since you communicate that you want all of the other without the promise, stability and commitment of being there for one another forever.
Thanks so much for this Jason!!
As a young adult, this is a great help!
God bless 🙏
thanx alot jason God bless your work
In Fr.Rippergers talk on the "4 Stages of Courtship" he says couples courting should not hold hands until they are engaged. Once couples start touching each other it creates bonds psychologically, and since there is no strong commitment, there can be much pain when there is a breakup.
This was really good! Thank you, Jason! Where can I submit a question for you?
Exactly! Me too
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Thank you Jason! You're helping so many people🤗
Is there a channel that addresses purity, chastity, waiting for adults. Especially those of us who previous relationships included kissing, sex etc. How to navigate an adult world, I am not teen or uoung adult on my parents sofa or at college etc.
Theology of the Body Institute by Christopher West talks about chastity for adults
@@LouisaSimone Thanks so much. I'll check it out.
Is this available in Spanish?
This is good for 💝 valentine
Romans 12:1 .... you will give your bodies as a living offering, holy, pleasing to God, which is the worship ...
1 Corn 6:15 Dont you know your bodies are part of Christ... sin outside the body except sexual immorality....
2nd like and 1st comment I think?
I'm sorry, but if when I was 12 I found out that my Future Husband was hooking up with another girl, I really wouldn't care.
My husband's sexual past is not something that bothers me. Obviously whoever else he was with at some random point in time was NOT "The One". He chose to be with ME, not any of those other women.
Also, I find it a bit stereotypical and flat out not correct when Jason talks about men vs women when it comes to sexual drive and desire. All of his videos make it out to be that boys/men are the ones who just think about sex 24/7 and they try to lure these innocent girls/women into having sex with them, while these women want to be chaste so very, very badly, but they love their boyfriend and cave in and give him what he wants in order to keep him and not have him break up the relationship and move on to some other, more promiscuous, girl.
That is just SUCH a dumb stereotype. From personal experience, I can tell you that when I was dating a guy that I really loved and wanted to stay with and possibly get married one day, MY desire to get physically intimate JUST as much as the guy. The times that I did "give in" and have sex, it was MY own decision to do so, because I was just as "worked up" sexually as he was.
It is such an outdated idea that men are more into sex and want it all the time and women are trying to stay "pure" and only have sex to appease their boyfriend.
NOPE. And in more than one previous relationship, I was actually the one who had a higher sex drive, and wanted to have sex more often than my partner. And I know for a fact that I am NOT the only woman who has been in been in this position.
The image of the sex-obsessed man and the innocent woman who wants to guard her "purity" and falters only when the man wears her down.
Come on now. Get with the program. WOMEN LIKE TO HAVE SEX!
He never said women didn't want to have sex. Of course as humans we all have these desires as both men and women. Whether that be the girl asking the boy or the boy asking the girl for sex it is still wrong outside of marriage since it doesn't communicate what sex was meant to be. Sex is giving of one's self to the other communicating with your body that you love all of them and will be there for them both mentally, physically and emotionally. Without marriage, sex is a lie with your body since you communicate that you want all of the other without the promise, stability and commitment of being there for one another forever.
He directly addressed your first point at 3:43. Just because YOU don’t have a problem with sexual past most people do. It causes drama and insecurity