3/4th of the list was emotional manipulation, the other quarter is physically immature habits. The reason many women (and men) fail to see the obvious is due to the oxytocin and dopamine that they allowed to flood their brains since the moment they met. Ladies if you want to avoid falling into these traps Jason laid out you can start by avoiding almost all physical contact and those deep long conversations till you are engaged. Oxytocin is released every time you engage in physical touch, and it blinds you to faults. You get one shot at marriage, and a whole lifetime to hug and kiss after. Don't screw it up by engaging in actions that bond you before you see the other person as they are. (This goes for men too)
Fornication has become the default custom due to the high divorce rate and unjust no-fault divorce laws. Telling single young adults to not fornication is a waste of time. They don't trust marriage... with good reason. The solution is fixing marriage. Then fornication will quickly reduce.
thank you so much Jason for also incorporating info about psychology & relationship abuse into your message with terms like "red flags" and "gaslighting"... everyone needs to hear this... you & Crystallina are my inspiration... thanks for spreading this sanity-saving info
Thanks Jason. I bought your (and Crystalina's) book "How to find your soulmate without losing your soul". I've read a few chapters and it's very helpful and I depth and includes the 10 guys to avoid. Thanks.
I've been to all of those places in Poland that you mentioned. World Youth Day 2016. It is a very worthwhile pilgrimage! Do it, if you have the chance!
Jason, I come from Good parents and a Dad. do you have a video on "Top 10 Girls to Avoid" Honestly brother all I ever hear about is how worthless and dangerous guys are and how much they screw up. Got any positive encouraging messages for guys ? Encouraging things for us that might be celebrated and heralded as good? or is our life marked solely by duty? I'm in a Mens personal growth group, lead even by a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, he's been doing his work for over 10 years helping repair and build back relationships and even he said he has yet to talk to a guy who found himself fulfilled BECAUSE he was married.Help us out man, what's a guy to do to BECOME that attractive husband, whats his worth, why's it worth it to him to get married, why is it good for society for men to be married? wheres the benefit to the man for the man to be married? Tell us the Good news man, encourage us please? All i've ever heard for 20 years is Don't, Don't Don't so I'm left with Avoid Avoid Avoid and that will make you Holy. yet then when it came to wanting a relationship it was because of what i did NOT do that lead to the relationship not working out.
Frfr the only thing I know to do to make my self an attractive man is by earning money and exercising my body. Besides that it’s just following the don’ts which is mostly just how I act in general I seem to have issues with my self worth too, it all seems too much like the worth of a husband is more utilitarian than anything, at least the advice I get seems that way. If I were to die tomorrow and be buried under an unmarked gravestone I don’t think I’d be too sad about it
Jason, please do a video about what it means when men want you to meet their Mother and have dinner with his family🎩 💐and from men’s perspective at their different ages as teenagers, young adults, adults, older divorced, etc....is it the same?
What happens if you're the girl that allows the flip-flopping. ? What do you suggest when you hold on to hope? When you see more of the good? Have you considered attachment styles with this behavior? What are your thoughts of fear of intimacy? How to take responsibility.
From the book " To Save a Thousand of Souls " by fr Brett Brannen I believe one of the problems in the Church today is that many people are in the wrong vocation. Many people have grown up unaware that they have a vocation, much less that they should be asking God to reveal it to them. And there are many unhappy, unfulfilled, dissatisfied people. As a general rule, people flourish in their correct vocation! Flourishing does not just mean they are happy. It means they are steadily growing in holiness, they are fulfilled, and they are becoming the person God wants them to be. Fr. Brian Bashista, vocation director of the Diocese of Arlington, Virginia, underscores that vocation is less about personal choice and more about discovery.
Maybe this one is covered under one of those 10 but be aware of a guy with unjealed emotional trauma especially from childhood. They can be amazing beautiful human beings, kind, caring, Godly etc but this issue with cripple they ability to truly love and grown in general. You're might have to prove your love to them before they will begin to open up. Which means youre on your own in this "relationship "until he's satisfied if he ever is. He is full of doubt mistrust not cause he's a bad guy but cause he doesnt know how to move forward he is stuck. He is likely to just want someone who soothes him not someone who encourages him to seek help or change. Especially if the issue relates to him mother. Amazing beautiful people, who will make fantastic husbands if they change but not if they dont. A wounded bird with a broken leg doesnt lose it beautiful but if its wound doesnt heal it can never be all its meant to be, what it was created for, it cant soar, it has to settle less than, it will always feel unfulfilled.
the thing ... i do not change to get a good soulmate or wife ... i change for the glory of god... if you try to change because of woman... you are on wrong path....
Jason, what about "bait and switch" relationships where the man pretends to be a good guy during courtship... then turns manipulative and selfish after the wedding. THAT is why couples choose to fornicate; they don't trust one another because of all the deceit.
My band and I professionally produced a brand new song in Chicago that we posted today on UA-cam that sheds light on betrayal trauma and sexual addiction. Please click on the sleeping tiger to the left and it will take you right to the song. Thank you for listening, if you do.
A lot of good work you guys do. However, it’d be nice if you did a video on true Catholic masculinity instead of shaming men as the bad guys and thus cultivating more feminist hatred for men
Guys to reject are those who think there God’s gift to women-there brainless morons. The true macho man is one who is loving,compassionate,forgiving,(which is flaming hard),showing mercy,being there for his girlfriend or wife. The perfect man is to be Jesus as best as you can be. Only those with a few brain cells missing use foul language. Plus swearing is a sign of laziness and ignorance. God bless ladies who are looking for a good boyfriend then to husband. The strongest woman who ever lived was Mary. She is Queen of Heaven. That means even the greatest angel’s submit to her. Even God himself obeys his mum. That’s truly beautiful. Praise Jesus and Mary always!!!
Jason Evert, until the scandal of the high divorce rate is remedied... fornication will continue to be the default custom... and with good reason. Fornication is EASY to remedy with marriage. But divorce is an expensive, lifelong headache...especially when children are involved. To fix fornication: fix divorce.
Jason, don’t get me wrong, I love the content and what you’re trying to do for The Church. But I have one issue. I think that you are neglecting the state of men at the moment. For decades men have been destroyed by the feminization of society through things like feminism that have perverted the natural male and female roles that God has gifted us with. Throughout that time men have also been told to just “be better men.” Without any sympathy for never growing up in an environment to know what exactly that means, or how exactly we should act to do that. The gynocentric way of viewing male-female relations is a perversion of the good and natural one that God gave us. We need to be holy and God-fearing men, but we should be reviewing the support to do that from the partners which God chose for us, not getting brown beaten by them and called weak or “not man enough” whenever we try to.
10 girls to avoid - the one in love with her dog - the one who wants to visit 30 countries before 30 - the one who just wants free dinner/ride - the one who is in her 20s and acts like 16 - the one who uses the word "chauvinist" - the one who doesn't want to wait until marriage - the atheist - the flip-flopper - the "i don't want kids" - the one with artificial nails wait a second, if you avoid any girl, you're not a man
Jason, Can you please explain in another video, “Are men able to be friends with women💃🏼or are they strictly for relationships, with women they are attracted to🎩💃🏻💐👀? ... as well as for attractive men, both attractive man and woman said, “It’s a curse”... They weren’t devout practicing, but Roman Catholics, very pretty, and he was GQ model-like appearance & way back then, sinners
The 75th anniversary of the Palestinian Nakba, which means "catastrophe," is on May 15th. The 1948 founding of Israel was preceded and accompanied by a massive ethnic cleansing operation to remove as many of the Muslim and Christian inhabitants as possible. During Israel's "war of independence," over 750,000 Palestinians were driven from their homes, never to be allowed to return. Hundreds of towns were razed; villagers were massacred. Their very existence on the land was nearly wiped from history as Israel built new towns over the ruins. This devastating humanitarian disaster is given almost no attention in American history books or by the mainstream news media even though it is essential in understanding the ongoing violence in Israel-Palestine and the Middle East in general. Palestinian refugees and their descendants living in the West Bank and Gaza continue to live under an Israeli military occupation funded by American taxpayers at over $10 million a day. Israeli forces continue to violate human rights on a regular basis, with multiple cases of assault, abduction (in some cases, of children), and invasion taking place in the past two months. It is essential that we educate our communities and demand an end to the use of our tax dollars for killing and destruction. Here are some things you can do: *Share our short summary "How Palestine Became Israel" article with people who are new to the issue. *Order a Nakba Pack or Nakba Pack Lite, which contain various printed educational cards and brochures that you can distribute at events, churches, libraries, etc. *Watch and share Occupation 101, an award-winning documentary film on the root causes of the Israeli-Palestinian conflict. *Post about the Nakba on Facebook and Twitter. *Check to see what your local newspaper wrote about this tragedy, and write a letter to the editor with the facts they omitted. *Call your Congressperson and give them your opinion about this issue. *Learn about the Boycott, Divestment, and Sanctions movement and get involved with a local chapter. *As always, thank you for your ongoing efforts for peace and justice. -The If Americans Knew Team
Jason why are you as a man making videos for women and antagonizing your fellow man ? Why not make a video for the guys and say „be this man and the women will follow“
As a guy, this video is great to use to better practice NOT being those types of guys to avoid.
yeah! 😂 I think the same.
3/4th of the list was emotional manipulation, the other quarter is physically immature habits.
The reason many women (and men) fail to see the obvious is due to the oxytocin and dopamine that they allowed to flood their brains since the moment they met. Ladies if you want to avoid falling into these traps Jason laid out you can start by avoiding almost all physical contact and those deep long conversations till you are engaged.
Oxytocin is released every time you engage in physical touch, and it blinds you to faults.
You get one shot at marriage, and a whole lifetime to hug and kiss after. Don't screw it up by engaging in actions that bond you before you see the other person as they are.
(This goes for men too)
Fornication has become the default custom due to the high divorce rate and unjust no-fault divorce laws. Telling single young adults to not fornication is a waste of time. They don't trust marriage... with good reason. The solution is fixing marriage. Then fornication will quickly reduce.
thank you so much Jason for also incorporating info about psychology & relationship abuse into your message with terms like "red flags" and "gaslighting"... everyone needs to hear this... you & Crystallina are my inspiration... thanks for spreading this sanity-saving info
Best to avoid these types of girls as well.
"What's good for the goose is good for the gander."
Thank you for this video! You have mentioned very good tips! Can you please make a video on types of qualities to look for in a man?
Thanks Jason. I bought your (and Crystalina's) book "How to find your soulmate without losing your soul".
I've read a few chapters and it's very helpful and I depth and includes the 10 guys to avoid.
Thanks.
I've been to all of those places in Poland that you mentioned. World Youth Day 2016. It is a very worthwhile pilgrimage! Do it, if you have the chance!
Jason, I come from Good parents and a Dad. do you have a video on "Top 10 Girls to Avoid" Honestly brother all I ever hear about is how worthless and dangerous guys are and how much they screw up. Got any positive encouraging messages for guys ? Encouraging things for us that might be celebrated and heralded as good? or is our life marked solely by duty? I'm in a Mens personal growth group, lead even by a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, he's been doing his work for over 10 years helping repair and build back relationships and even he said he has yet to talk to a guy who found himself fulfilled BECAUSE he was married.Help us out man, what's a guy to do to BECOME that attractive husband, whats his worth, why's it worth it to him to get married, why is it good for society for men to be married? wheres the benefit to the man for the man to be married? Tell us the Good news man, encourage us please? All i've ever heard for 20 years is Don't, Don't Don't so I'm left with Avoid Avoid Avoid and that will make you Holy. yet then when it came to wanting a relationship it was because of what i did NOT do that lead to the relationship not working out.
Frfr the only thing I know to do to make my self an attractive man is by earning money and exercising my body. Besides that it’s just following the don’ts which is mostly just how I act in general
I seem to have issues with my self worth too, it all seems too much like the worth of a husband is more utilitarian than anything, at least the advice I get seems that way. If I were to die tomorrow and be buried under an unmarked gravestone I don’t think I’d be too sad about it
you are so on point my dude.
This is such great advice, it is very hard to have the strength to follow it.
Spot on 🎯
Jason, this was very helpful. Thank you very much!
Jason, please do a video about what it means when men want you to meet their Mother and have dinner with his family🎩 💐and from men’s perspective at their different ages as teenagers, young adults, adults, older divorced, etc....is it the same?
This is great! Thank you. Very helpful!
Thank you so much for a perfect and very needed talk!! God bless you!
What happens if you're the girl that allows the flip-flopping. ? What do you suggest when you hold on to hope? When you see more of the good? Have you considered attachment styles with this behavior? What are your thoughts of fear of intimacy? How to take responsibility.
Wonderful bro! How about a "Top 10 girls to avoid"? 😎 God bless ✝️
I needed this. I just got dumped by a potty mouth because I told him he needed to stop and go to Confession. He called me prude.
Glad to hear it's over! You deserve so much better.
From the book " To Save a Thousand of Souls " by fr Brett Brannen
I believe one of the problems in the Church today is that many people are in the wrong vocation. Many people have grown up unaware that they have a vocation, much less that they should be asking God to reveal it to them. And there are many unhappy, unfulfilled, dissatisfied people. As a general rule, people flourish in their correct vocation! Flourishing does not just mean they are happy. It means they are steadily growing in holiness, they are fulfilled, and they are becoming the person God wants them to be. Fr. Brian Bashista, vocation director of the Diocese of Arlington, Virginia, underscores that vocation is less about personal choice and more about discovery.
The septic tank doesn't work... Comedy gold
Maybe this one is covered under one of those 10 but be aware of a guy with unjealed emotional trauma especially from childhood. They can be amazing beautiful human beings, kind, caring, Godly etc but this issue with cripple they ability to truly love and grown in general. You're might have to prove your love to them before they will begin to open up. Which means youre on your own in this "relationship "until he's satisfied if he ever is. He is full of doubt mistrust not cause he's a bad guy but cause he doesnt know how to move forward he is stuck. He is likely to just want someone who soothes him not someone who encourages him to seek help or change. Especially if the issue relates to him mother. Amazing beautiful people, who will make fantastic husbands if they change but not if they dont. A wounded bird with a broken leg doesnt lose it beautiful but if its wound doesnt heal it can never be all its meant to be, what it was created for, it cant soar, it has to settle less than, it will always feel unfulfilled.
Thank you
the thing ... i do not change to get a good soulmate or wife ... i change for the glory of god... if you try to change because of woman... you are on wrong path....
Absolutely a great talk ❤❤❤❤❤
Love the content, could we have a chat sometime by any chance?
Jason, what about "bait and switch" relationships where the man pretends to be a good guy during courtship... then turns manipulative and selfish after the wedding. THAT is why couples choose to fornicate; they don't trust one another because of all the deceit.
I want to travel to Poland with you
What about women who still live with their parents at 45?
My band and I professionally produced a brand new song in Chicago that we posted today on UA-cam that sheds light on betrayal trauma and sexual addiction. Please click on the sleeping tiger to the left and it will take you right to the song. Thank you for listening, if you do.
So.. Wait until he comes along? But what if he never does?
How do we learn to accept this path God calls us to travel? Esp if it's alone? 😒🥺
didn't receive the ebook after sending in my email
Sorry to hear that. Please click here, and try again, then check your spam folder chastity.com/10guys
A lot of good work you guys do. However, it’d be nice if you did a video on true Catholic masculinity instead of shaming men as the bad guys and thus cultivating more feminist hatred for men
Right on the money my man
Jason Evert does not cultivate hatred for men. You are just paranoid... maybe you have unrecognized guilt feelings.
FYi the link is not working
Thanks for the heads up. It's fixed now!
@@Chastityproject the link to get the ebook still isn't working :(
Brill vid..🙏
You and Andrew Tate need to do an interview together
Guys to reject are those who think there God’s gift to women-there brainless morons. The true macho man is one who is loving,compassionate,forgiving,(which is flaming hard),showing mercy,being there for his girlfriend or wife. The perfect man is to be Jesus as best as you can be. Only those with a few brain cells missing use foul language. Plus swearing is a sign of laziness and ignorance. God bless ladies who are looking for a good boyfriend then to husband. The strongest woman who ever lived was Mary. She is Queen of Heaven. That means even the greatest angel’s submit to her. Even God himself obeys his mum. That’s truly beautiful. Praise Jesus and Mary always!!!
Jason Evert, until the scandal of the high divorce rate is remedied... fornication will continue to be the default custom... and with good reason. Fornication is EASY to remedy with marriage. But divorce is an expensive, lifelong headache...especially when children are involved. To fix fornication: fix divorce.
Jason, don’t get me wrong, I love the content and what you’re trying to do for The Church. But I have one issue. I think that you are neglecting the state of men at the moment. For decades men have been destroyed by the feminization of society through things like feminism that have perverted the natural male and female roles that God has gifted us with. Throughout that time men have also been told to just “be better men.” Without any sympathy for never growing up in an environment to know what exactly that means, or how exactly we should act to do that. The gynocentric way of viewing male-female relations is a perversion of the good and natural one that God gave us. We need to be holy and God-fearing men, but we should be reviewing the support to do that from the partners which God chose for us, not getting brown beaten by them and called weak or “not man enough” whenever we try to.
10 girls to avoid
- the one in love with her dog
- the one who wants to visit 30 countries before 30
- the one who just wants free dinner/ride
- the one who is in her 20s and acts like 16
- the one who uses the word "chauvinist"
- the one who doesn't want to wait until marriage
- the atheist
- the flip-flopper
- the "i don't want kids"
- the one with artificial nails
wait a second, if you avoid any girl, you're not a man
Lordy, yes, the ten-inch artificial nails that go clickety-clack
Jason, Can you please explain in another video, “Are men able to be friends with women💃🏼or are they strictly for relationships, with women they are attracted to🎩💃🏻💐👀? ... as well as for attractive men, both attractive man and woman said, “It’s a curse”... They weren’t devout practicing, but Roman Catholics, very pretty, and he was GQ model-like appearance & way back then, sinners
The 75th anniversary of the Palestinian Nakba, which means "catastrophe," is on May 15th.
The 1948 founding of Israel was preceded and accompanied by a massive ethnic cleansing operation to remove as many of the Muslim and Christian inhabitants as possible.
During Israel's "war of independence," over 750,000 Palestinians were driven from their homes, never to be allowed to return. Hundreds of towns were razed; villagers were massacred. Their very existence on the land was nearly wiped from history as Israel built new towns over the ruins.
This devastating humanitarian disaster is given almost no attention in American history books or by the mainstream news media even though it is essential in understanding the ongoing violence in Israel-Palestine and the Middle East in general.
Palestinian refugees and their descendants living in the West Bank and Gaza continue to live under an Israeli military occupation funded by American taxpayers at over $10 million a day.
Israeli forces continue to violate human rights on a regular basis, with multiple cases of assault, abduction (in some cases, of children), and invasion taking place in the past two months.
It is essential that we educate our communities and demand an end to the use of our tax dollars for killing and destruction.
Here are some things you can do:
*Share our short summary "How Palestine Became Israel" article with people who are new to the issue.
*Order a Nakba Pack or Nakba Pack Lite, which contain various printed educational cards and brochures that you can distribute at events, churches, libraries, etc.
*Watch and share Occupation 101, an award-winning documentary film on the root causes of the Israeli-Palestinian conflict.
*Post about the Nakba on Facebook and Twitter.
*Check to see what your local newspaper wrote about this tragedy, and write a letter to the editor with the facts they omitted.
*Call your Congressperson and give them your opinion about this issue.
*Learn about the Boycott, Divestment, and Sanctions movement and get involved with a local chapter.
*As always, thank you for your ongoing efforts for peace and justice.
-The If Americans Knew Team
Jason why are you as a man making videos for women and antagonizing your fellow man ? Why not make a video for the guys and say „be this man and the women will follow“