Horrified by the moms who photoshopped their stepsons out of the picture. Proud stepmom of a 21 year old daughter and I actually try to photoshop her INTO pictures since she no longer lives near us.
I did something similar as a kid with my step siblings! I didn't have photo shop, and we forgot a camera on a trip while they were visiting. So I found a picture we tool on another trip, and cut out photos of everyone and glued them onto the original. I did a good enough job that at a glance, it looks legit. I just really wanted my whole falmily together.
Anyone who does that is absolute trash and doesn’t deserve to be a parent or spouse. I don’t even care, I’ll say it. And I will guarantee their biological children will probably not talk to them after they turn 18 and move out.
I am an amputee and my neighbors have stolen my Uber Eats orders three separate times. Only once was I able to get them to give it back after loudly banging on their door until they answered, they denied it until I told them I had them on camera then tried to gaslight me that it was just a misunderstanding. Stealing food from a disabled stranger is low but stealing food from a disabled person you say hi to every morning is sociopathic.
If I were you (I sincerely do not know if you use prosthetics or not), I'd bang on their door w/ prosthetics, and then bang their heads, bc I find this a good use too 😂
@@rafaelasabchucalovato9439 lol, I do have a prosthetic leg. That's a funny image of me taking off my prosthetic leg to bang on the door and threaten them with it while hopping around on one foot. The thing weighs 10lbs, that's a hell of a weapon. I do agree that I need to keep my distance from the sociopaths next door. At least they are only renting, they'll be gone soon enough.
Got married in 2012, had a 7 year old step daughter. Couldn't stand having a step daughter..... so I adopted her and made her one of my 5 babies. She's 18 now and I love that kid more than anything
I agree 100% Given the circumstances of the first 7 years of her life, I wanted her to know without a doubt that she finally has a dad that loves her. As predicted, her mother and I are no longer together, but at least she knows she has a dad for the rest of her life. But hey, thanks for the comment..... and the rolling eyes lol
My step mom did something like that photo but she did it with a family statue for my dad for father's day. My brother and I got my dad a cowboys sticker for his PS4 not sure how but that made her angry, then she handed him a wrapped gift and once he opened it there revealed a family statue of a mother(her) a father(him) and a daughter(my step sister) hugging together. My dad looked confused and ask where's me and my brother on the family statue to which she replied"it's a family statue and only family is to be on it". I can't really say what happened next sense they started to yell at each other and I had to take my brother and step sister to a different room but one led to another and me and my brother were forced to be sent back to our mom early.when we were packing up out of anger my step mom grabbed a knife and popped my unicorn floaty(I brought it cause their apartment had a pool) because I was taking too long deflating it.once we're all packed she tries to come with us so she could fight my mom but my dad talked her out of it and told her to stay at the house. It's been 3 or 4 years sense I've last seen my dad but the last time I've been over to his house I saw that family statue right next to their new with my half baby brother in it,but my brother and I are nowhere in that family statue and she makes it clear as day. It's just her, my dad,my step sister(I have nothing against her),and my half baby brother(nothing against him) and at the bottom it reads"the perfect family". My dad still pretends that day never happened and says the me and my brother are grown and that he's finally ready to be a father just not for us but for my half brother and my half sister(from his baby mama) so I don't care anymore. He's gonna live his life and I'm gonna try and live mine with my mom and brother by my side.
@@darkwings869 oh wow, that is completely awful!!! I am so sorry to hear that. That statue should have been thrown away. That is completely disgusting!!! That woman SCREAMS insecurity. I honestly believe that is why some women act like that. Is pure insecurity, what a sad excuse of a “woman”.
My stepmother made sure there were no pics of me in her and my dad's house. "She didn't have enough room for me in her collage frames"...so I had portraits done and gave my dad a framed one. She hung it in the basement
@@domina7909 my dad would always say he didn't have any pictures of me and my brother so my mom bought photos of us and gave them to my dad but while we were visiting I never saw the hung up and wondered where they were,until I was playing with toys with my stepsister and we found a box under her bed.Inside was all the pictures my mom gave him and when we questioned him all he could say was there wasn't any room on the wall sense it was covered with my half sister(from my dad's babymama) and my half brother(from my dad's new wife and my stepmother)
OMG the destroyed glass art!! I Googled this. Apparently the artist chose not to fix her art. It is left as it was damaged. The title now is ‘damaged’ and there is a video of these parents and kids on continuous stream playing beside the art piece. What on earth were these women thinking???
My guess is this: "Ok, Jimmy, you and Billy just play with that EXPENSIVE looking piece of art while Mommy records you on her expensive iPhone! Oh don't worry who made it, it's just like LEGOS! If it breaks, they can put it back together again!" Ignorant a-hole woman...
I think that last video of the screaming lady was old and the internet tracked her down and her Dad wasn’t black. They posted a pic of her and her dad.
yeah those really got me..the amount of rejection those kids must feel. those women don't deserve to be moms (in my opinion) if they treat their SO's children that way. They should want to be closer to their stepchildren, not want to exclude them from their own family.
When she said the kid is aloha, I thought she meant the kid was Hawaiian . Lol. Either way she is definitely racist . It’s funny how racist ppl can say such hateful things and not care how it makes the other people feel but once you call them a racist, they get so butthurt about it
As a half sister I would disown my mom if I found out she ever edited my oldest brother out of a picture. And as a step mom I can’t even imagine want my step daughter removed from a picture. That’s trash human behavior.
There’s a huge post about this particular photo where there was text receipts from the other mum discussing that she didn’t want her son in a couple of the photos… there’s so so so much more to the story than what is depicted in this video
I'm a step kid and my step father treats me like his own child I have two little step siblings and they're like real family to me. I'm happy to know that there's more step parents like him and you out there. Thank you for being an amazing step parent to your kids.
@@SageKittyDraws You and Mandi S will get a kick out of this-- my Mom remarried when I was 19 so I didn't grow up with my step-siblings, all older than me. At first we always did several group photos, my Mom with me and bro, step-Dad with his kids, then all of us, etc. When I was 20-something, at a wedding, I walked into a room and someone was taking a photo of my step-siblings all together. I waited until I knew they had a few, but then I jumped right in the middle with my arms out, jokingly like "I'm in with you all now too!" Of course people taking the photo got that too. We were all laughing and it is still (I'm 50s now) a family-favorite photo, framed in many homes. 😁 At our ages, it was understandable to sometimes do some "bio-family" photos, but with kids this young this does sicken me. And even our family still always had MORE photos of the whole group together!
My father's ex-wife is batshit crazy and used to call DFS on my mother because she treated him well and he would always call her (my mother) mom or momma. He is now 26 and way closer to my mom. He lives alone so my mom comes by and helps him clean his place and meal prep with him.
The fact that that sweet little boy is sitting BY HIMSELF says everything….there is clearly favoritism there, and I wouldn’t be surprised if she’s a shit mom to him. I feel so bad for that little boy! I don’t understand it, if you are going to marry or be with someone who has children, they are now YOURS!! Also, I am not one for hitting other people, and especially women…..but damnit, I would have given that guy a free pass to slap those self entitled shots who kicked his pizza.
Right?? And she has to give the bullshit (I love my stepson) Bitch. No you don't. It's so obvious just by looking. Makes me so sad. You know she leaves him out of so many things and family things
This is exactly what causes the news stories like that little 5 yr old boy who recently was murdered and abused by step parents for NO GODDAMN REASON. Stepchildren are not yours by blood, but they are yours by duty.
Exactly this. The step mom is Disney level awful for several reasons. The fact that the kid is positioned so far away says sooo much. The fact that she says she loves the pictures but also just wants ones with her own kids proves that she still thinks of him as separate and not apart of her family; as lesser than her own kids. If those kids ever saw the pictures of them being photoshopped out that would ruin them emotionally, no matter how young they are that would damage them so badly. But nothing makes me angrier than the dads allowing it!! The one text she’s talking to the dad and he says “sure love.” Shame on you for marrying or being with someone that doesn’t love your child like their own, but more importantly it is your job to put that child first in any and every situation.This is why you hear so many horror stories about step-parents. People of divorce, you do deserve to be happy, but not at the expense of your child. You made the decision to have a child, you made the decision to get divorced (by signing papers) you do not get to be with a new woman that comes before your kid. They are only with you for 18 years, their happiness and emotional well-being is your responsibility until they are an adult. Be better.
I saw in another comment that a stepmother wasn't allowed by the boy's biological mother to post pics on her Facebook with the son in them.. I wonder if that's what's going on for the first one? At least in that one, it looked like they meant for him to be included..
I know EXACTLY what Walmart that last lady was at. This is not the first time people in that neighborhood have called the cops on people who think someone is "illegal." It happened to me when I was 14 and trying to buy hand tools for a school project, and it made me terrified of the Glendora Police. No matter how many times I gave them my vital information, they didn't believe me and they got incredibly aggressive with me. It took a store clerk who saw what was going down to step in and keep them from arresting me. Even then, the only reason they left me alone was because she started screaming at them. I haven't been back there in almost a decade. People like her are a lot of the reason why people are moving OUT of Glendora. The city is full of people like her, and it sucks because so many of the people leaving have lived there almost their whole lives. Also, this lady works at the local Dennys. She once served me and my mom and was not only horrendously rude to us but took her sweet time getting us the bill, which she basically threw at us. At first, I was like, "Oh, she's just having a bad day. I get it." But as a person who's not white-passing, I get why she was such a jerk now.
I would confront her and call her out to her face.. Seems she probably has a short temper and she'd cause a scene at her work and get herself fired. Lol. And I'd feel no regret. Fighting fire with fire in her case would just leave HER with the bigger fire. She could probably use some bad karma.
Step parents like that woman are horrible. One year (when I was still with my ex) I secretly organised a photo shoot with our kids and his older son, and gave him the prints framed for Christmas. He literally cried. I organised it with his son’s mother to make sure the kids had co-ordinating outfits. It’s not hard to be a decent step parent.
i love how the guy in the car defended the man. i’ve had many racists encounters when i was a teen at my first job and no one ever stood up for me like that it has definitely influenced me to be there for people who are being attacked. props to you whoever you are.
I’m so sorry, no one deserves that. And I’m sorry no one stood up for you. I’ve had men and women be sexist towards me and men sexually harass me at my jobs. I wish people could just be better humans.
@@e.j.o.4400 It was not the dad, I think it was the photographer. Didnt she say in the next post that she had the photographer's permission cause they did not take any photo without the stepson?
@@itmattersnot1216 yo that's an escalation. Yeah she's a bitch for not wanting the stepson in the picture but does not mean she is abusing that kid. And it never mentioned if the father was ok with it. She could have went home and showed the pics and him pissed.
I'm not normally one to support violence, but if a bunch of mean girls kicked those pizza's out of my hand I simply would not be responsible for whatever ensued after that.
I work in a museum and that one with the kids playing with the glass sculpture got my blood boiling because unfortunately this is NOT an exception. We have contacts with artworks on a daily basis even with security guards telling people not to touch and clear signage that tells people not to touch 🙄 If an art piece is in a museum it probably is worth thousands if not millions of dollars and you are going to risk breaking it because you feel like touching it? It baffles me.
My dad is an artist with really bad distance vision. The number of times he has set off a silent alarm and someone ran up yelling "STEP BACK FROM THE CANVAS" because he got caught up and wanted to get a closer look at a detail or brush-stroke... >_< I really, REALLY don't understand why anyone would ever touch a painting or sculpture in a museum though. Thank goodness my dad got eye surgery though, and can see everything so much better from the right distance!
@@ladygrndr9424 Oh yeah! Accidents happen and you shouldn't be yelled at. Actually I believe yelling at visitors is extremely unprofessional. They should give a warning and if they see the warnings are not taken seriously then they should approach the person and discuss. We also offer tours at my museum were people with low vision can request a visit with an interpreter who can help describe the artworks and they have works that are more tactile so they would bring in the equipment (gloves and things like that) to allow the visitor to touch specific works that would not be damaged when handled properly.
I've always had the urge to touch things that fascinate me. I like feeling connected with my surroundings. It's a part of how I appreciate, acknowledge, and gather extra information on things. I definitely get having the urge to touch things. I really don't get acting on an urge without care about both immediate and long term consequences. I don't get acting on vandalism with the intent to destroy property 'just because,' like it's not the worst form of theft. I don't get standing around watching your kids vandalizing property like you're not responsible for what they are doing. It's just maddening.
Don’t they make the parents pay for what they did? They should charge them whatever that piece of art should cost! How will they learn to discipline their kids if they get away with things like this?
Right, what a turd 😂 I just wish these fools would actually realize how ridiculous they are making themselves look, but they usually will die thinking they were right. It's so lame. I still lost it at the 'aloha' part though 🥲 AND ALOHA lol wut
As a stepchild who always experienced pictures being taken in two sets, one with me and one without me in it, i can only see now how fucked up that truly was. It always left me with some “off” feeling that i never understood. Until today i struggle with my stepmothers underlying rejection. Its just sad. I would never accept such a behavior towards a child of mine. If you cannot love the children of your spouse that have been in his life before you were, then go get another partner!
I think you meant to say "towards" instead of torwarts. hahaha thats a good one though. I do agree that its terrible and so hurtful of these step moms, how do they deserve the title of step MOM in the first place if they arent considering the child as one of their own. I would never be so mean as to want to exclude my step child let alone do it, I wish they would see and actually care about the painful message it sends the child and how awful rejection from a parental figure can feel. My father rejected me my whole life and favored my brother, in fact his entire side of the family did the same, and it really scarred me, I still have such low confidence and self esteem when I get around them, and Im in my 40's. Its caused me to avoid contact with them while my brother has an amazing relationship with all of them. They even have memories that were with me that they accidentally replaced me with my brother, in , and dont even realize it, when they bring them up, in front of me and say "remember when.....was at ....and we ran into them. They dont even realize its me they ran into and they casually bring it up, and its very hurtful. Shame on those insensitive women
I can only imagine how that feels. To take 2 sets of photos where 1 of those sets you're standing by watching as your not included feeling weird as to why they're doing this.
Dude, first and foremost, I'm sorry that's happened to you. You actually lived through my worst nightmare. I remember being around 5 and asking my dad (and not long after asking my mom as well), actually scratch that, no asking! Straight up telling them: if you have children with your new girlfriend, just forget I'm your child! I will not accept them as siblings and you'll be dead to me! Dad agreed and thirty years later still no children with her and mom had her tubes tied after I had been born so... Now, why did I say that to them? Because I hated the way my cousins were treated by their dads once they started a "new family", I always felt terrible for them (years later I found out my sister had told both of our parents pretty much the same thing I told them on a different occasion). Also, was your dad OK with this? If so, did you ever speak up? Sorry for the wall of text, but this spoke to me on a personal level.
Oh no that sucks. It can take years to comprehend the things that happened to us as kids. I hope you have a happy family now. Have a great day- from one internet stranger to another.
This is why museums put their art behind floor to ceiling barriers. It’s sad that people can’t just admire their art with their eyes and not their hands ☹️
I Think they were both for that TicToc Crap, both were being filmed. I Hope they both got charged, a Big fine & Jail Time. Ruining someone else's property! No Respect!👹
And if those obnoxious people actually wanna try touching art pieces, idk if it's open to public but years ago i remember seeing a video showing a new type of museum made specifically to let blind people experience famous paintings, they'll have a recreation of famous paintings in this bumpy texture shape and people can freely touch them and so blind people can feel how they look like, rly fascinating i must say
The lady who made the glass sculpture made it in honor of her newborn baby. Instead of taking it down, it was renamed "Broken" and a loop of the CCTV footage was displayed next to it in the museum. Classy comeback to their terrible behaviour.
Amen because she's a stranger to that baby at least she doesn't owe him love but that's his father and if he doesn't save him she maybe the monster but he is the enabler when it's your own child I think that's so much worse
I can't IMAGINE removing a step child from a photo. Ever. We have foster kids and they are always included in any family photos. Kids need unconditional acceptance
Having the step child removed is disgusting and anyone willing to do that for her has no morals. I definitely wouldn’t want that person in my life if they resent my kid and don’t want him around and in photos. I not only have pics of my stepdaughter/ daughter in my home I have pics of both her and her mama up in my house. She and I have a civil relationship and all our kids are grown.
She got married so this means she has at least some morals. People think I'm the most evil bastard ever because of the fact that I'm direct and assertive; passive-aggressive people tend to be confused by this; as such, I love animals, art, piano music, making videos of my cats and my dog screwing around; I also would not become involved with a single parent due to paternity fraud issues and the complete lack of legislation in the area of step-parent rights. If my spouse died, for example, and the biological father somehow gained custody of his child (custody taken from me) I could end up paying child support to the biological father in order to help him raise his own child (this can and does happen). To most women, I am the most rancid piece of shit in existence because I won't willingly take on the burden of another person's responsibility; as such, I couldn't fathom photoshopping step-children out. Am I disgusting as well? Would you regard me as a moral person?
The second woman who wanted her stepson removed from the picture, she's already positioned her stepson so far away from her she clearly has no love for the child.
Man, as an artist who's displayed work before at a gallery, I got really upset about the person destroying the sand castle and then the people letting their kids rip apart the glass piece! Not to mention the person "fixing" "trash" art! Some artists struggle with feeling good about their art, myself included! It's never good to insult art without actually being constructive. Just make your own stuff instead of messing with others' work! And never ruin someone's hard work because it isn't funny in the slightest!
Agreed! My artistic talent ranks right up there (down there?) with my musical ability which is to say that it has not been exercised, nourished, or encouraged very much. And even I would not think to destroy someone else’s work even if I didn’t think it that good. If you can’t admire the art, at least admire the effort. Have participation trophies taught us nothing?! (That last line is a joke but there is merit in honoring the attempt.)
I thought the "trash" art was much better than the fix personally. Just cause one person doesn't like it, doesn't mean nobody likes it. I just can't figure out why people are so entitled and think destroying something "for views" (or whatever, but they were filmed both times) is funny.
@@j.munday7913 the "trash" art has a sense of personality to it, unlike the "fixed" art. This is why "fixing" art is bad, it takes away the intent of the original artist! Don't like the "trash" art? Don't look at it. Just move along
I'm pretty sure the "fixing the trash" art is someone "fixing" it by changing the gender of the character. Took me a bit to realize it, but I've seen some pretty weird people on twitter hating the opposite gender for no reason other than them just loving one gender and feeling like it's superior over the other. I feel like this is their intention here. Which is not only really gross but also highly disrespectful of the artist.
“Don’t call me racist my dad is black!” Aaaand? Lol omg the level of racism AND entitlement coming from that lady is mind blowing. Tell me you’re racist without telling me you’re racist. I present, this Karen.🤦🏻♀️
Not to mention saying he "belongs in Mexico" while simultaneously asking if he's from Africa? Like, what? Any more weird racist stereotypes to throw out there lady? Oh wait, you think he "punked somebody" for the work uniform he's wearing? Like he's "stealing people's jobs?" Alright. Yikes.
I felt so angry listening to that part, I wish I could have punched her! That is one wicked, evil, sadistic, devilish, horrific, ugly, and every bad word on earth, and every language! I have never felt so much hate for someone I don’t know. How can someone be so mean to another person like that 🤦🏻♀️? I shouldn’t feel like this, but I hope something happens to her, and not something good. I hope by having this post on social media got her what she deserves. Omgosh that really upset me for that poor man 😔.
I'm 22. My step mom has been in my life since I was about 6. She has been more of a parent to me than either of my biological parents. She took me in day one. She treated me and loved me as if I was her own. Some step parents need to realize you choose that child(ren) when you chose their parent. I'm so glad I was blessed with that wonderful woman! I would not be the person I am today without her unconditional love and support. It just blows my mind how awful some step parents are to their step children.
After those kids broke the glass art piece, the artist decided against repairing it, instead renaming it "Broken" and installing a small screen next to it that plays the footage of the kids breaking it. Amazing!😂 I do still hope the parents had to pay for it or were charged with vandalism or destruction of property or SOMETHING🤬
@@CrystalRuizEnriquez Chad: A phrase describing a stereotypical young urban white male, typically single and in his 20s. This phrase is usually used to denote stereotypical "Chad" behavior which is ususally derogatory. Guy 1: "I just saw this dude pump out 100 push ups, then shotgun a beer." Guy 2: "What a Chad." by WilltheThrill March 19, 2018 Urban Dictionary. So the term is completely inappropriate and its use demonstrates absolute ignorance.
The woman changing the baby's diaper in Old Navy is the reason why we all should have been practicing good hand washing hygiene and carrying hand sanitizer before COVID.
@@amsteensberg1653 still doesn't give you permission to change diaper like that. It goes same for women who change diaper at restaurant table and leave the dirty diaper next to their plate. Every restaurant has a toilet.
Jeez... I once had to change my baby's nappy in a shopping centre corridor at night - the available toilet was not remotely large enough. I carried a baby change mat with me so just got right down to it it and then used hand sani and then went back into our restaurant. It never occurred to me to invade an adjoining business to do this - it was not ideal, but the job got done with minimum fuss. You are not entitled to change your kid on other peoples' goods, people.
I've had people try to change their babies on a restaurant table, then when we ask her to use the restroom where there is a functional changing table she gave us crap 🤦🏻♀️
I’m not a step parent, but We do have custody of my husband’s youngest siblings. I would never remove them from photos, and my family always invites them to family functions. To exclude a child is gross.
Yeah, that was disgusting, in both of the instances that were shown. If you want some pictures with just your kids, there will be plenty of time to do so. Like years of time. These women apparently lack the mental capacity to understand how this going to make the step-child feel, or perhaps they simply don’t care. It’s very depressing. I hope these ‘mothers’ got called out for it in their original posts.
It does feel super mean, speaking as the step child. My father's new wife had him convert to Catholicism and claim me as deceased to the church, I think it's a technicality because having children implies he's been married and divorced before, which is a no go to convert? Not sure about why, but it stung when I found out .. but I'm not suprised, she excludes me from gatherings and stuff. I just miss my dad at this point.
I read about the sand sculptures one 3:40. It was a big deal, it wasn't a local artist temporary exhibit (though that would still be bad). It was in Egypt and was if I recall correctly a very old historical sculpture. They didn't just destroy art, they destroy history.
The stepchild comes with the person you marry. If you can’t love the child then you shouldn’t marry the parent. People like that should find childless partners. Selfish and cruel.
@@crystalh450 In both cases step son is older than the biological children, Check that again! And if it ever was the way you said, it is still wrong to throw the rage on the child. He would not be at fault, his dad would.
I feel like I should be one of the people who advocate for step-parents: not only did my stepdad raise me from a very young age and encouraged me to call him dad, when he and my mom split up, I decided to go live with him and he made provisions to protect me in case he got married to someone that might want to put me on the sidelides (he didn't! he married a wonderful woman that treats me with far more love than my mom ever did!)
Wow you really lucked out two times with step parents But when I think about it, your dad is really great and thoughtful. No wonder he could choose an equally nice partner. Good for you mate.
I'm so sorry your mom was that way and so glad your (step)dad stepped in and cared for you! I used to work at a school and there was this boy, he always seemed a little neglegted, holes in his clothes, stains, dirty laundry, sometimes no (good) food for the breaks etc. Turns out he had two more siblings. His mom sometimes just wasn't there. Her boyfriend tried to take Carr if then as best as he could but they didn't live with him and he didn't have much money, so it wasn't easy. He fought for custody of the kids and eventually made them live with him permanently. I don't know if he got to adopt them (I left the school before that happened) but the kids loved him dearly and I was so glad. From that day he came in better clothing and always had decent food, even his grades got better. But poor guy had to go through so much, his mother abandoning him and being gone for weeks at a time without an explanation etc... He was in elementary school. So sad but still a happy ending! And jzddis to the boyfriend for stepping in!! (none of the three were his kids but they were long enough together that the kids knew him as a father figure, the boy even called him dad!)
He should have called the cops on her “Yes, hello officer. There’s a batshit crazy women, screaming, cussing and harassing people in the parking lot. Can you come get her?”😂
@@Maray182 "And she has threatened to block in my WORK TRUCK while I am working on the outside of your local Walmart store." "Yessir, she's on the other line right now..." lol
I have a step mom and she’s the sweetest most patient person I ever met. I lost my mom when I was young but still remember being close to her (I don’t really remember specific memories tho). When my dad wanted my brother and I’s blessing for him to start seeing our step mom we said yes as it would not be fair to him. He still loves my bio mom deeply but he’s already been through so much and if he feels close to another it’s not our place to not support when he has supported us all this time. I’m so happy we did say yes tho because my step mom truly became my second. I’m so thankful she is there to support and cherish us. She is not ashamed to be a step mother and she herself has two other kids from a prior marriage. She makes it a point to never replace our mother but instead be a figure in our life we can turn to when needed. I wish everyone was as lucky to have a step parent like that and I hope that for those with no support system bio or no that they have strength to love themselves so that one day that love would extend to another and they would find true happiness with true family ❤
I felt bad for the guy but the lady's crazy talk maid me feel 💯 smarter. And videos like this just gives me more reason to hate people lol but love her videos. 👏👏👏
I never understood why racists think that knowing someone who is black makes them not racist....like don't they realize that that statement is in itself racist because it shows they lump them all together. Like do they not consider the fact that by their logic then, if they hate any white people they have ever met they they hate their own race. 🤦♂️🤦♀️🤦 such twisted logic. I legit have a theory that racism actually causes the brain to not function properly or vice-versa
@@SoManyRandomRamblings Because racists literally wouldn't associate with or even be friends with people of another skin color? Isn't that how it works?
@@kathiekalara6 No that’s not really how it works, a racist can be friends with anyone of any race or colour, and they’ll be racist because they think it’s justified since they “know a person from that.” Which is grouping together a race, which is racist.
@@kathiekalara6 well obvious racists I suppose. Then there are the other racists that have "friends" who are another race as long as they "know their place." The boss who said they are friends with their black coworkers but in the background are actively making sure they aren't promoted or get raises and get the worst tasks.
As per the millionaire who cut down the trees to improve his view, here in Australia similar things have been done by people wanting better ocean views (from cutting to poisoning trees) and the local councils reacts by either putting giant billboards explaining what has happened in the spot and even saying for every tree cut or poisoned we will plant 2 more trees and the billboards won't come down until they are fully grown. Some councils either put billboards or hessian screens and even one place in Sydney I think put up stacked shipping containers and then had an artist paint trees on to them (with the ocean in the background). A lovely "fuck you" to those who think they are entitled to do that shit.
I planted trees when I worked for a local council, as part of my job. Planted a whole heap and two weeks later a strip about 4m x 5m were gone. Replanted, happened again. The view they wanted? A boat ramp on the other side of the channel. No billboards in those days, just never replanted.
The story behind the step mom was she was told by the ex wife to not post her son on their fb she was being petty twords her ex husband an etc but that's what i remember hearing
I could never ever imagine my stepfather doing something like this. He loves us all equally and I've come to regard him as not only a father but a lifelong friend. He was the man who stepped up and raised me. I couldn't imagine a life without him in it and he always tells me the same.
The lady calling on the “illegal” guy. Most racist person I’ve seen in a while. Obviously I know their out there and it happens and just doesn’t get caught on tape as often but oh my god actually seeing and hearing what these people say is insane
Algorithms - I see them all the time. I’m also Mexican and so those kind of videos are very common on my feeds. Side note; I’ve had people ask me if I spoke English -- I speak 4 languages ✊🏾🤓
Is it possible to call the cops if somebody offends you and blocks your car like that? Can this "lady" be brought to court for this? I'm not from the US, so I've got no idea, but according to the multiple videos of such karens I assume that nothing could be really done to them Truly sad
The Amazon delivery person who stole the package, pretty soon they won't be able to do that. My fiance is an operations manager for Amazon and they are installing multiple cameras inside and outside of the delivery vans, its already been implemented in some states and being done currently in others but will be nationwide soon. For driver safety and anti-theft as well.
Thank gods, they should have implemented that a very long time ago. I've had medical equipment stolen, multiple times, one time recently, had a prescription stolen. Luckily it was just stool softening pills for my grandmother, just as a test.
My daughter’s step mom is AMAZING and would never ever make her feel like anything less than her own child. As the birth mom, props to all the awesome stepmoms out there.
And I don’t understand these stepmoms at all, not even a little. It makes me wonder what wrong with their partners… if I was with someone who made a request like that, I would raise hell. If my kid isn’t welcome, neither am I. Kids deserve better than that, all of them, all the time.
The step kid photoshop story hit home. My husband's ex girlfriend excluded his autistic son because he was different, and told my husband she didn't want to have children with him because she didn't want an autistic child. To say the least, my husband was heartbroken at the time. It was incredibly cruel. It is especially shocking to me when these people are usually parents themselves. They should understand more than anyone else these things aren't anyone's fault, particularly the kids. Well her loss is my gain. I have the privilege of being a mom-part-2 for three wonderful individuals. They are honestly the best and funniest people I have ever known. I think my step son with autism won't ever be able to live on his own, but he is honestly so funny he makes me cry with laughter all the time. I'm really very lucky
Thank you for this… I am Autistic and still live at home and felt shame for it for a long time. Good to know people like you exist. Thanks for sharing your story.
@@AurielArts thank you, I greatly appreciate your perspective! I would like to add that there's no shame in living at home. In many countries, you'll find multigenerational homes are the norm! That type of support system is really priceless. So no worries, just continue growing and you'll find your own path!
Some people just don’t want to understand how desability works…I have a friend who has a son with a severe disability, with years of doctors and exams they found out he has a rare genetic desease, but his grandparents on the father side spend years saying there was nothing anormal with the boy and he just needed prayers 🤷🏻♀️ nothing wrong with praying and seen his disability with naturality, but that is different then not admitting he has a severe condition and need lots of professional help. Of course the ex of your history is way worse then those grandparents, they were in denial, she is cruel.
Finishing up my 15th year in Spec Ed with ASD/MoCI/SCI students. Every day, someone makes me laugh/want to tear my hair out. Their way of seeing the world often shows me things I’d never thought of before. I love my job!! 🥰
I felt like screaming when I saw that art piece get destroyed. I can't even begin to imagine how the artist must have felt, she spent so long creating those wings only for irresponsible parents to let their kids run around and destroy it.
If me and my sisters ever acted like this, our dad would whoop our butts. We were taken to alot of different places at very young ages, flea markets, yard sales, thrift shops, antique shops, train shows, malls, stores, museums, ect. So were taught how to behave from a very young age.
I was a step-parent to my ex-husband's daughter. I never had an issue with her. Years after we divorced I found out from the child we share that my ex told his daughter that it was HER fault we got a divorce. As soon as I found that out I called to let her know that was absolutely NOT true. I still can't believe he would tell his child that. Even if that were the case, why in the world would you put that on your child? I guess you might understand why we are not together.
@@pearlofthedarkage She took it really well. I do think it made her feel better. I am just sad that she carried that with her for that long. If I had known sooner I would have contacted her right then and there. She and I didn't maintain any kind of relationship, but we aren't against each other either.
Thank you so much for communicating with her. It’s horrible what your ex said to your stepdaughter, which is his daughter that he said something scummy to (if scummy even is a word lol). You are so sweet ❤️ and I hope you and her keep in touch!
My stepdad raised me from about the age of 4. When they got divorced when I was 16 he said I was the cause of of a lot of their fights. He also never asked me or my older brother to visit him after the divorce, just cared about my younger brother and sister (his bio kids). When he had a heart attack he called and insisted my little brother and sister come to the hospital so he could say goodbye in case he didn't make it. Being a step kid sucks. Worst part is everyone says you're all the same but you know it's not true.
I hate that yall had to go through that. I am adopted and my siblings are 9 years younger and I'm the golden child. I am also the only one adopted 🙂 but this could also be because I did give them their only grandkids
Just a quick note: I just recently discovered your channel, and am not lying when I say I've binge watched you for this entire past week while away on a work trip. Heaven sent, you are. Had me cackling so loudly in my hotel suite the neighbours called reception to ask if I'm alright! NB/watching out of order so commenting on an older vid. Love from another petty redhead from Australia 🇦🇺 🤪
@b m I have no idea. I think I was too loud and it was a noise complaint but reception were kind enough to just act like it was concern lol. Cheap hotel with thin walls
@b m yeah. But keep in mind I have a loud laugh, so maybe it's just me lol. I was hysterically laughing over one video or other so who knows. The phone rang and reception asked if I was ok... said someone was concerned that something was wrong 🤣
I don’t have a step kid. My son (who is the product of his mother’s first marriage) is simply my son. I have been his dad since he was 5 and he is now 20 and serving in the US Army! He’s my SON and I would never think of cropping him out of the pictures with my kids from my first marriage. Do better people.
My exes kids (all over 18) were always welcome to stay whenever they needed it, rent free. One didn't like me but that's okay and he was just as welcome as the others. Another got out of prison and I got him a complete set of "I've not just got out of prison" clothes and he stayed as long as he liked. I did draw the line at his using my razor, though. I gave it to him and got myself a new one. I'm so mean!
My dad was not my sister’s bio dad, and he raised her as his own, I didn’t even know we were half siblings until I was in my teen years, he never treated us any differently. Not all step parents are the same. 😒 what an awful human being.
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Same here. My mom was the one who told me that my dad was my stepdad. My dad never said it.
@ me too. He never mentioned it. She did when I was little. I was always treated just like my brother. It didn’t matter he wasn’t my biological father. What mattered was that he loved me and raised me as his own daughter. I never went looking for the other guy. I figured if he didn’t want me then I don’t want him now.
I know a couple who they are each other's second marriages. The wife said that her kids started calling her second husband "dad." She says it's because he was more of a dad to them than their biological father.
I hope that your sister can say the same, because I know growing up with a step parent and everyone telling me that he treated me like his daughter when in reality that wasn't the case. I knew as soon as my little brother was born that we were treated differently especially when coming from my step dad. It wasn't until I was in my late teens that my step dad let it be known that he was constantly on my case because he felt that he needed to protect his son from me and he never saw me as a part of the family; I was just a previous child from another guy who would never accept him because he wasn't my blood. I never accepted him because he was the reason why I didn't have a relationship with my older brother and as soon as my other brother was born, I was casted out because I was 4 years older and was "hard to handle." Growing up, the family dynamic was where I took care of everyone else because they thought that I was going to live with them for the rest of their lives and they never taught my younger brother how to do for himself until I moved out. As we both grew up into adulthood and we talked, he was surprised by how I saw our childhoods because from his viewpoint, he didn't see anything wrong with how I was treated due to him being raised in that environment. No one asked, and I know that your relationship with your family is hopefully vastly different from mine because at the moment, I'm in no contact with pretty much all of them, but I just wanted to say something on the behalf of the people who are in a similar predicament to me. It's a great thing though that you can say that he didn't treat her different from your view!
i'm a step-child and my step-father is one of the most important figures in my life. i don't even refer to him as my step-father, he's just one of my dads and i love him to bits
As someone who had a step-father that every time we took family pictures made sure I was always on the end so he could fold the pictures so I wasn't seen. I found this out one day while visiting him at work and saw the pictures and asked where I was, I received no response. I can completely relate.
Wow! That’s so horrible! Step parents who act like trash ARE trash!!! Most important aspect of being a parent wether biological, step or adopted is UNCONDITIONAL LOVE..... if it’s real or pure regardless of how kids act... in the future they will finally realise how lucky they were to have someone genuine in their lives. If ur parents r evil? REMOVE Yourself from their toxicity but never cut them out of your life..... always leave the door open BUT let them know the conditions upon entry❤️🙏
I’m a step mom, and that little girl is my whole world. I’d never in a million years try and erase her from our family photos. I feel so badly for that kid :(
The lady calling the cops on the guy she said “looks illegal”… this happened to my kid when he was 13. He was retrieving two bags of aluminum cans (to donate to the local animal shelter) from a neighbor’s house up the road… a couple who had just moved into the neighborhood a week prior called the cops and said there was “an illegal” walking around our neighborhood. Within 5 minutes we had numerous squad cars cruising around looking for my poor kid, who was scared out of his mind when they came and questioned him. He just wanted to help the shelter animals. 😐😑💀
@@AmeZakiri it really was. I felt so bad for my kid and could tell that one of the cop was upset about it too. He kept apologizing to us even though it wasn’t his fault.
@@RisaBeesa I'm so sorry to hear that. Your poor kid. My older child's father, whose background is Portuguese/Indian/English, was once pulled up by cops here in Australia, whose line of questioning clearly indicated they though he was an Indigenous Australian. He was on his way back from the shops (5 min away) with milk for me, a then breast-feeding mother. Because their communications network was so primitive at the time, they saw his name pop up and detained him for an hour and a half. He was on their system because two years earlier he had been the VICTIM of a hold-up at knife-point. When he finally got home I was out of my mind with worry. He has never committed, let alone been charged, with any crime. We had no mobile phones at the time. I wanted to make a complaint, but he wearily told me not to. That was the day I learnt a) that the story was his to tell, not mine, and b) that this was not the first time this had happened to him. Imagine what actual Indigenous Australians go through. I'm so glad the cop in your case was sensitive and apologetic. Profiling is a scourge - and it should NEVER be used to allow paranoid racists to harm children :-(
@@dontbefatuousjeffrey2494 oh wow, that’s such a scary experience and I’m so sorry he has dealt with it on multiple occasions. I live in the US and don’t know much about Australia and how they treat Indigenous Australians but I’m going to go educate myself on it. 😔
@@RisaBeesa Thank you, love. We do NOT have a good history of how we have treated our Indigenous sisters and brothers, I am ashamed to say. All the Murri and Koori people I have known have helped me understand a lot about this country. I love my home and wouldn't give it up for anything, but it was built on stolen ground, I do want more people to know about this. I would also love to know that your son is not being treated the way he was any more. He sounds like a lovely boy
My stepdaughters call me their bonus mum. Love that they see me in this light. I couldn't have kids (physiology reasons) and appreciate each day that I'm so blessed to have the opportunity to be their mum.
Those girls that destroyed the sand sculpture are the filthiest.. what a vile thing to do. People who cant appreciate or respect art, need to take their drugs in an alley, not a museum... if its not drugs, then dude, wtf is their excuse. I hope they got charged and put in jail for a couple weeks. I can't imagine how cheated the artist felt
Fun facts: 1) that's not in a museum, it's a hotel lobby. 2) Its a teenage girl who was trying to make a viral video with her friend. 3) Both girls involved were arrested, but not charged and the hotel management invited them back to be educated on the artworks cultural meaning. 4) The hotel flew the original artist back and had the statue repaired within 3 days. Was what the girls did awful? Yes. But it's not exactly a cute look to make assumptions of them being drug addicts or that drugs must be the reason someone would commit vandalism and conflating bad actions with being a bad person or being a bad person with being a drug user.
Same for the family that let their kids ruin the glass art. I mean, they probably weren't on drugs, but still presented such lack of respect for other people. Art takes so much time and effort. It's not okay to think this is okay.
@@sammy3207 yea, those people seemed plain disrespectful to the core, those other girls seemed high or atleast egging eachother on, ya know? The family..... that was complete negligence.... The girls had rotten brains, the family had smooth brains. mouth breathers and slow blinkers...
@@empresssquee9020 I get that, i guess i'm coming from a place where I've seen my old friends change and lose respect, and egg eachother on.... I didn't mean to offend, truly
How horrible of that mother that was letting her kids destroy artwork. She has no respect or regard for someone’s hard work. That’s no way to teach children respect Those wings were beautiful. I hope she was held accountable.
I was a stepmom in my 20s & I loved that little boy so much! My whole family did. I worked a lot to help give him a great life. I'll never forget, one day, a coworker said to me "I don't know why you work so much to help support that kid. He's not even yours." I cannot imagine going through life be as selfish as that person. I cannot have kids, so I cherished every second I had with him.
I found so weird when people act like step parents shouldn’t see the step kids as their ow…In my country the health insurance’s are legally forced to accept kids and step kids of the employees of the companies who hire the insurance, once I heard some coworkers complaining that was absurd the step kids were covered and parents of the employees were not. Of course the employees would like to have their parents covered as well, but I don’t find illogical that minor step kids are covered by law, because they are suppose to be treat as they were biologically kids of who raise them…I don’t understand why people value only genetics that much.
I know I'm not the only one mad about the park ranger. He won his lawsuits against them! "Whistleblower in Snyder tree case moves on to a new job, wins settlement with park service"
Sadly, this also happened: A former National Park Service official who improperly helped Washington Redskins owner Daniel Snyder cut down more than 130 trees to improve a river view at his Potomac, Md., estate has been chosen by the Trump administration to be one of the agency’s highest-ranking leaders.
I can never understand those stepparents that refuse to see their partner's child(ren) as human beings that deserve the same love and respect as their biological children. If you see the child as subhuman or if you see them as competition... If you resent the child for their existence, you don't continue the relationship with their parent. You don't put a child through that, it messes with their mental health to the point that they will believe that something is wrong with them that they cannot be loved or are not deserving of love. There is a case that bothers me... It was discussed on a podcast called Suffer the Children (or a similar name) where a stepmother smothered her little stepdaughter because she was jealous that the bio dad (stepmom's SO) doted on his little girl. The thing is that this little girl's mom had died and she had looked up to and trusted her stepmom who had put on a show at first of actually living and caring for her before she killed her. This sort of thing can be avoided by the person getting out of the relationship with their SO who has a child... Why continue a relationship with somebody if you hate their child?
It's really horrible but if she was sneeky enough it's possible her SO didn't even know how much she hated her stepdaughter. I wasn't raised by my stepmother but she didn't like treated me different than her bio kids etc. And it really did have an affect on me. Because of the way she treated me I ended up feeling very insignificant, and burden, and just not good enough. I still sturggle with feeling that way and I can't imagine how much worse it could have been if I was raised by and lived with my dad and stepmother. I was only with them every other weekend and 6 extra weeks during the summer but it really did affect me. My stepmother probably would have wanted to Photoshop both my sister and I out photos if we had any family photos. Heck even though she's better now got therapy and got to the bottom of why she acted so horrible to me and sister. She and my dad still have very few picture of me up around their house and a ton of her kids and my dad and her's kid and other family members. So I notice that and still hurts sometimes
My stepfather treated me like trash. I was always called racist and horrible things (Im asian and hes white) I was basically the house maid to my mother's new family. I've wanted to kill myself since 12years old. I'm just getting in the way of my mother's new family.
@@lucielafai It gets better. Once you are old enough to move out, you can choose who your family is and it is really awesome to get to surround yourself with people you love and who love you back. Hang in there.
A a psychological study I read a long time ago about these people. From my understanding some step parents show such terrible attitude because they have either insecurity issues either have a very possessive nature. They usually project those feelings onto the step kid, because the step kid is a reminder that their significant other had a serious romantic past they were not part of. They treat that child as a potential treat to their happy ending. Either because it ruins their imaginary picture perfect family image, or they think their spouse may go back to their previous relationship since they have something significat to return to, or they are just very jealous an "outsider" is getting the same love they deem only they deserve. What I question the most is why is the biological parent even accepting such actions? I always think the parent in question deep down regrets their previous life choices so they indirectly look for excuses to no longer be part of the kid's life now they have a "second chance".
I'm also a very proud stepmom. That is completely horrible. My happiest day was when he called me mom completely all his choice. I cried soooo many happy tears. Stepmoms and stepdads rejoice!
Did anyone else notice that the last lady said, “My little nephew is Italian, Mexican and Aloha”?! Wow that’s a new one. As if she couldn’t get anymore ignorant 🤦🏼♀️ What’s next? “I’m not racist. My brother is Irish, Floridian and Adiós!” 😒
Irish, Floridian and Adiós 😂 😂 😂 😂 Which is slightly related to Norwegian, Texan and Órale 😂 I can't with these people for real. It's not that difficult to educate yourself, but I guess they choose to be assholes
this made me feel a little bit better. i hope the dispatcher on the phone was like "yeaaaah ma'am, an officer is coming to arrest you rn. just hang tight, k?" xD would have been a winner for me
I cant imagine the heartbreak those kids would feel to know their stepmother had them photoshopped out of the pictures.... they'll feel like an outcast in their own home
My heart dropped seeing someone actually went through with photoshoping that baby boy out of the picture, and my heart dropped even lower seeing the step mom has it as her Facebook profile. Just goes to show how much she does not care for him. And if I were the husband I'd leave her so fast. She's rotten.
That mom photo shopping her stepson was horrifying. As a child who's parents are divorced and I haven't seen my dad in 9 years, I hope everyone has a stepfather/stepparent as amazing as mine that accepted me no matter what.
Oh I'd like to think that putting the halloween footage online would get that kid in trouble, but the fact a 9 or 10 year old thought not only to take the entire bowl but then flip off the camera, makes me think they aren't getting any proper discipline at home.
That's horrific, that someone just looked a wheelchair user in the eye and then stole his crate of water because he couldn't chase him. I'm astounded... That's like watching a short elderly lady having difficulty getting the only top shelf item, and then taking that top shelf item and walking off. Just fucking cruel.
I'm a bonus mom, not a stepmom. I'd never do this to my "step" kids. There's nothing wrong with getting photos with each child individually but to have them removed from a photo is completely effed.
I like this idea if she needed to do something for her extended family. I personally would never have removed him either, and why in the one is he sitting so far away??
I only get my step kids every other weekend. I treasure our pictures and miss them terribly. My bio kids are same way. It's so hard being a blended family, they need time with their bio mom too though.
I am always suspicious of anyone who supposedly cannot love a non biological child "the same." That's's not love in my book that is wanting or needing to be ruled by hormones. Rats are better parents than that. 😒
I'm 36 and have infertility issues and my fiancee has 2 boys and I have fallen in love with them. Miss them everyday they are gone. Get em for 1 weekend a month. The oldest is 16 and the youngest is 13 and I'm glad to have them in my life. Been watching them grow up the last 5 years with my nieces and nephews and its been an amazing experience. I can't imagine being this callous. Sad thing is I see this shunning behavior in grown adults more than I should.
The dude getting the pizzas kicked out of his hands; I feel so bad for him. But it reminded me of when I was in the 6th grade. I was bullied and picked on pretty bad. One day we were waiting to be let into the classroom after lunch. It had rained and one of the popular girls swung her leg back to kick one of those big red balls at me. The ball was in a good sized mud puddle. When she swung her leg forward her foot connected with the ball but her leg kept going. Then her other foot slipped and she landed flat on her back in the mud puddle. 🤣🤣🤣 Karma took her out. And the ball missed me too. 🤣🤣🤣 Moral of the story? Don't be a jackass.
I'm a stepmom of a 10 year old boy and after my husband, he's the best thing that has ever happened to me. His mom on the other hand is the kind of mom who photoshops him out of pictures and only wants kids with her boyfriend... no kid deserves that kind of treatment, but at least his dad and I are here for him❤️
If someone kicked my pizza for no reason, I’d pick the boxes back up. And then throw the pizza at the person who kicked it and the people who laughed. I would be so angry. That behavior, in my opinion, is unacceptable. Nobody messes with my food.
The package delivery system in other countries really confuses me. It looks almost like an invite to steal packages from someone's porch. Delivery drivers will come up to your door to personally hand you the package in my country. If you happen to be away from home, your package gets dropped off at a pick-up point, usually located in a store nearby. You need to show ID or order confirmation to pick up your package. This way, packages never get stolen :D
Same... I lived in the states for 2 years and when they delivered packages, they always put them in between that little fly-net-door and the real actual door and i was always sooo baffled that they d do that... Like... Literally anyone can come and take that?! We lived in a relatively good neighborhood but still... Mind boggling
Yeah, I'm genuinely not sure if it's a bad thing or not. You hear about porch pirates and stuff like that driver who steal stuff but I've never had anything stolen from my porch and I've never heard from anyone in real life who had it happen either. It obviously does happen but I wonder how prevalent it actually is, do I just live in a weirdly theft-free place? Is it something that gets talked about way more than it happens? No idea. I mostly wish there was a way to do a "dont deliver if not home" on truly irreplaceable packages and have them leave the rest, because when I have had to go pick something up it was always the dumbest, most easily replaceable things and really important/expensive things got left on the porch.
in my country all parcels go to pick up points or lockers (you get a text with the code to the locker) if delivered by the post and home delivery is really expensive. courier companies deliver home generally but even they won't leave parcels unattended, they just try to re-deliver the next day or take it to a pick up point. i imagine our weather conditions play a part, you can't really leave parcels outside to -20C weather. the fact that in america parcels are just left outside freaks me out too :D
With the lady calling the cops on the Hispanic dude, hurts my heart. Imagine someone talking about you like this. Imagine knowing people hate you because of what you can't change.
Also her saying "my dad is black". Not only might that be a total lie but anyone can be racist to anyone, even their own race. I've had black friends that have been excluded from market stalls because they weren't black enough. I've known white people being racist towards other white people.
I felt so bad for the dude getting the pizzas kicked out of his hand by that disrespectful little twat. Not gonna lie had he or some female friend hauled off and slapped her I would have looked the other way. She should have to pay for every single one
@@Max-fr6ny They are all Malicious, yes but the point of my comment was that the lady featured at the end of the video is ignorant as all hell and thinks that because her dad is black she can't be racist 🙄 it's upsetting that people think like this
I’m 38 and my eldest stepdaughter (21) just immigrated from Mexico. We visited my parents out of state and actually set up family photos with her. A fun little modern family-her dad and I, her, my parents (whom she never met), and their dog. I’m blowing up a photo and hanging it on our wall, and so are my parents! Love her. The more the merrier, I say!
My older sister was a single mum and unfortunately passed away 2 years ago. My twin sister and her husband adopted her kid (my nephew) and have always treated him like their own! Mad respect to my brother-in-law for treating my nephew like his own son. The 2 are now best buds! That stepmother who had the kid removed is disgusting!
As a step daughter to a wonderful stepfather I can say my stepfather was so proud of me he took pictures at everything I was involved in even my wedding because he was afraid the photographer would miss something. Those 2 women are horrible.
I remember hearing about that lady that called on the guy she thought "looked illegal". I think she got charged for a false police report or something. That B was definitely crazy.
There's a reason the C.A.R.E.N act exist. Deal with false reports that are race related. I can't recall where it was, I think CA but could be wrong. (Edit: I looked it up, it was in San Francisco. So I did have the right state.)
I feel so bad for those stepsons! When my dad got primary care of 6-year-old me and my 2-year-old brother, we moved in with him and my stepmom. We called her by her first name because our mother was still involved in our lives, but she basically started parenting us right away. When my first little (half) sister came along and began learning to talk a year or so later, my brother and I started calling my stepmom "Mom", since my little sister had started calling her by her first name as well! A second little sister and 27 years later, we've had our typical mother-daughter differences, but I've never felt like my mom thinks of my brother or I as any different from or less than her two "biological" daughters. Whenever she introduces us, it's as her children. She likes to say that she got a "starter family kit" when she met my dad. Love you, Mom!
I'm concerned the kids that broke the glass sculpture weren't even let off with a warning. That's straight up vandalism and that mom didn't even stop them.
I would have sued her had I been that artist. Sued her for every penny that she had so she had no choice but to give up her kids so someone else could raise them better
It's not the kids fault though. They seems pretty small and probably never got taught any boundaries... And if my mom stood there filming me s a kid I would assume what I'm doing is funny. The mom on the other hand is fully responsible and shlould be charged....
Seems like the guy who kicked over the pizza boxes immediately positioned his face perfectly for a nice kick. Gotta wish that opportunity had been taken advantage of.
Does anyone else have a lot of respect for the guy in his car who defended the man in the last video against the racist Karen? That guy is who we all need to aspire to be.
No one is exempt from being racist. It’s literally judging someone of another color or ethnicity than and treating them with hatred that’s raciest. It doesn’t matter if you daddy’s brothers girlfriend cousin on her mamas side is the same as the person you’re being hateful to, it just probably means that they don’t like you because of your backhanded comments and facebook posts.
Hfs that racist woman is something else! Edit: I was told once, years ago, by two black women , I'm white, that I was racist. I asked what I had done, as I hadn't said a word to them. They said I was following them. They had taken the better part of half an hour to talk and walk, slooooooowly, towards the exit of the store. I was just going one register at a time, counting money, according to the lil sheet I had to follow. I said nothing, just wrote numbers down, and I was screamed at by these women cuz they ain't never stolen nothing in they life and neither their mama nor their mama's mama has neither! Umm, okay 👌
Well put, Lyndsy. Thank you. This should go in the dictionary to define it. Show this to EVERY racist (ESPECIALLY those who think they are not racist). :)
@@ashley_smith I have also been screamed at for being racist, because I was asking questions, in order to make SURE that I never did anything that came close to looking like a racist. Imagine that. I like to show respect to people on an individual basis unless/ until they prove themselves unworthy of respect. So much for trying to do things the right way.
Pretty sure she was in California so would have to check the statutes to be certain buuut; in just about any state in the union when a citizen removes someone's freedom of movement, blocks them in, prevents them from freely going about their way they could be charged with crimes in the kidnapping portion of the code. Gotta be careful out there Karen.
"It's your fault that you didn't inquire." ... lady, are you telling me that, if he'd outright asked "Am I the father?" That you wouldn't have gone off-the-deepend pissed at him?
Just a week ago I had someone steal all of my IV medicine that was delivered (it was just fluids and potassium, but I needed it). I was so upset. Stop taking what’s not yours people, you never know if it something super important! Those poor parents, and the sad thing is they most likely tossed the clothes the family needed.
I'm an 81 year old disabled woman. I can't tell you how many times I've been mistreated by society. Society is getting worse. I can tell you this with absolute certainty.
Seeing stepmoms treating step kids like that while my husband said for Christmas "It would not really be Christmas cuz your son will not be with us". I AM BLESSED 😂
When you spoke about bullying it broke my heart. I was a bullied kid and now, coming up on seventy years old, it still burns when I recall that time in my life. I’m sorry you were bullied in middle school and I thank you for speaking up about it.
I know what you mean. I am 43 now, I was 10 till 12 when I was bullied and when I think about it....still a black deep hole that will never really heals.
Horrified by the moms who photoshopped their stepsons out of the picture. Proud stepmom of a 21 year old daughter and I actually try to photoshop her INTO pictures since she no longer lives near us.
We love to see it!
I did something similar as a kid with my step siblings! I didn't have photo shop, and we forgot a camera on a trip while they were visiting. So I found a picture we tool on another trip, and cut out photos of everyone and glued them onto the original. I did a good enough job that at a glance, it looks legit. I just really wanted my whole falmily together.
@@fleurpouvior2967 you don't realise how wide of a smile this has brought onto my face
Anyone who does that is absolute trash and doesn’t deserve to be a parent or spouse. I don’t even care, I’ll say it. And I will guarantee their biological children will probably not talk to them after they turn 18 and move out.
I do hope the father's divorced them if not they are cucks.
I am an amputee and my neighbors have stolen my Uber Eats orders three separate times. Only once was I able to get them to give it back after loudly banging on their door until they answered, they denied it until I told them I had them on camera then tried to gaslight me that it was just a misunderstanding. Stealing food from a disabled stranger is low but stealing food from a disabled person you say hi to every morning is sociopathic.
Be careful…they seem like they are just two excuses from being child murderers
People who don't give a fuck at this level are sociopathic and potentially dangerous. You probably should interact with them as little as possible.
If I were you (I sincerely do not know if you use prosthetics or not), I'd bang on their door w/ prosthetics, and then bang their heads, bc I find this a good use too 😂
@@rafaelasabchucalovato9439 lol, I do have a prosthetic leg. That's a funny image of me taking off my prosthetic leg to bang on the door and threaten them with it while hopping around on one foot. The thing weighs 10lbs, that's a hell of a weapon.
I do agree that I need to keep my distance from the sociopaths next door. At least they are only renting, they'll be gone soon enough.
How low
Got married in 2012, had a 7 year old step daughter. Couldn't stand having a step daughter..... so I adopted her and made her one of my 5 babies. She's 18 now and I love that kid more than anything
That took a sharp turn in the right direction. I was worried for a split second. 😊
You're a good man sir 😇
Had us in the first half, not gonna lie 🙈
U don’t have to adopt someone to love them as your own🙄
I agree 100% Given the circumstances of the first 7 years of her life, I wanted her to know without a doubt that she finally has a dad that loves her. As predicted, her mother and I are no longer together, but at least she knows she has a dad for the rest of her life. But hey, thanks for the comment..... and the rolling eyes lol
As a step mom, I will never understand removing a child from a family photo. It’s not a FAMILY PHOTO without the whole FAMILY!!!?!???
I agree completely
My step mom did something like that photo but she did it with a family statue for my dad for father's day.
My brother and I got my dad a cowboys sticker for his PS4 not sure how but that made her angry, then she handed him a wrapped gift and once he opened it there revealed a family statue of a mother(her) a father(him) and a daughter(my step sister) hugging together. My dad looked confused and ask where's me and my brother on the family statue to which she replied"it's a family statue and only family is to be on it". I can't really say what happened next sense they started to yell at each other and I had to take my brother and step sister to a different room but one led to another and me and my brother were forced to be sent back to our mom early.when we were packing up out of anger my step mom grabbed a knife and popped my unicorn floaty(I brought it cause their apartment had a pool) because I was taking too long deflating it.once we're all packed she tries to come with us so she could fight my mom but my dad talked her out of it and told her to stay at the house.
It's been 3 or 4 years sense I've last seen my dad but the last time I've been over to his house I saw that family statue right next to their new with my half baby brother in it,but my brother and I are nowhere in that family statue and she makes it clear as day. It's just her, my dad,my step sister(I have nothing against her),and my half baby brother(nothing against him) and at the bottom it reads"the perfect family".
My dad still pretends that day never happened and says the me and my brother are grown and that he's finally ready to be a father just not for us but for my half brother and my half sister(from his baby mama) so I don't care anymore. He's gonna live his life and I'm gonna try and live mine with my mom and brother by my side.
@@darkwings869 oh wow, that is completely awful!!! I am so sorry to hear that. That statue should have been thrown away. That is completely disgusting!!! That woman SCREAMS insecurity. I honestly believe that is why some women act like that. Is pure insecurity, what a sad excuse of a “woman”.
My stepmother made sure there were no pics of me in her and my dad's house. "She didn't have enough room for me in her collage frames"...so I had portraits done and gave my dad a framed one. She hung it in the basement
@@domina7909 my dad would always say he didn't have any pictures of me and my brother so my mom bought photos of us and gave them to my dad but while we were visiting I never saw the hung up and wondered where they were,until I was playing with toys with my stepsister and we found a box under her bed.Inside was all the pictures my mom gave him and when we questioned him all he could say was there wasn't any room on the wall sense it was covered with my half sister(from my dad's babymama) and my half brother(from my dad's new wife and my stepmother)
OMG the destroyed glass art!! I Googled this. Apparently the artist chose not to fix her art. It is left as it was damaged. The title now is ‘damaged’ and there is a video of these parents and kids on continuous stream playing beside the art piece. What on earth were these women thinking???
My heart hurts for that artist, but what a power move.
My guess is this:
"Ok, Jimmy, you and Billy just play with that EXPENSIVE looking piece of art while Mommy records you on her expensive iPhone! Oh don't worry who made it, it's just like LEGOS! If it breaks, they can put it back together again!"
Ignorant a-hole woman...
I have so much respect for the artist, leaving the piece as is, to be a teaching moment. What an amazing soul. 10 of 10.
I hope they were charged with paying the value of the painting!
They wouldn't have been as proud of their sons if they'd gotten a FAT bill for the destroyed artwork.
Wow. That last lady was insane. i'm glad that other guy was standing up for him. It's people like this that make me lose faith in humanity
I think that last video of the screaming lady was old and the internet tracked her down and her Dad wasn’t black. They posted a pic of her and her dad.
It’s almost like racist people KNOW being racist is a bad thing🤷🏽♀️
And where was this insane women you ask? Why, she was standing outside of ....WALMART!!!! How very appropriate.
Bless that guy. I'm just sorry he had to say anything whatsoever
Seriously, though!!
As a “stepmom” I could NEVER imagine treating my”step”sons like that. I have always considered them as my kids. I love them just the same.
Same. Stay at home step dad. There is no "step" anything. I'm dad #2
Finding out these people exist makes my soul hurt.
You know damn well, you could. And you probably do. You just don't see it.
@@beultra3083 Right?! I mean....my heart is in my throat right now for that poor kid. That woman and that 'father' should be so ashamed of themselves.
yeah those really got me..the amount of rejection those kids must feel. those women don't deserve to be moms (in my opinion) if they treat their SO's children that way. They should want to be closer to their stepchildren, not want to exclude them from their own family.
The fact that the last Karen doesn’t know the difference between “hola” and “aloha” adds a whole new layer of comedy to it 🤣
When she said the kid is aloha, I thought she meant the kid was Hawaiian . Lol. Either way she is definitely racist . It’s funny how racist ppl can say such hateful things and not care how it makes the other people feel but once you call them a racist, they get so butthurt about it
And here I thought she was ignorant and trying to say she had a Hawaiian family member? She'd be racist to them too anyway!
@@Idkmybffaj Right?? Do these people even listen to the bs spilling out of their mouth? It always somehow leaves me in a stupor
"I'M NOT RACIST, MY DAD IS BLACK"
That's not how racism works lmaoooo.
I was going to question "what ethnicity is Aloha" but you definitely beat me to the matter.
As a half sister I would disown my mom if I found out she ever edited my oldest brother out of a picture. And as a step mom I can’t even imagine want my step daughter removed from a picture. That’s trash human behavior.
There’s a huge post about this particular photo where there was text receipts from the other mum discussing that she didn’t want her son in a couple of the photos… there’s so so so much more to the story than what is depicted in this video
I'm a step kid and my step father treats me like his own child I have two little step siblings and they're like real family to me. I'm happy to know that there's more step parents like him and you out there. Thank you for being an amazing step parent to your kids.
@@SageKittyDraws You and Mandi S will get a kick out of this-- my Mom remarried when I was 19 so I didn't grow up with my step-siblings, all older than me. At first we always did several group photos, my Mom with me and bro, step-Dad with his kids, then all of us, etc. When I was 20-something, at a wedding, I walked into a room and someone was taking a photo of my step-siblings all together. I waited until I knew they had a few, but then I jumped right in the middle with my arms out, jokingly like "I'm in with you all now too!" Of course people taking the photo got that too. We were all laughing and it is still (I'm 50s now) a family-favorite photo, framed in many homes. 😁
At our ages, it was understandable to sometimes do some "bio-family" photos, but with kids this young this does sicken me. And even our family still always had MORE photos of the whole group together!
My father's ex-wife is batshit crazy and used to call DFS on my mother because she treated him well and he would always call her (my mother) mom or momma. He is now 26 and way closer to my mom. He lives alone so my mom comes by and helps him clean his place and meal prep with him.
@@kyrospire9665im not understanding this are there missing words or wrong words in there 👀
The fact that that sweet little boy is sitting BY HIMSELF says everything….there is clearly favoritism there, and I wouldn’t be surprised if she’s a shit mom to him. I feel so bad for that little boy! I don’t understand it, if you are going to marry or be with someone who has children, they are now YOURS!!
Also, I am not one for hitting other people, and especially women…..but damnit, I would have given that guy a free pass to slap those self entitled shots who kicked his pizza.
Right?? And she has to give the bullshit (I love my stepson)
Bitch. No you don't. It's so obvious just by looking. Makes me so sad.
You know she leaves him out of so many things and family things
This is exactly what causes the news stories like that little 5 yr old boy who recently was murdered and abused by step parents for NO GODDAMN REASON. Stepchildren are not yours by blood, but they are yours by duty.
I blame the males who's married to those monsters and remain married to them.
Exactly this. The step mom is Disney level awful for several reasons. The fact that the kid is positioned so far away says sooo much. The fact that she says she loves the pictures but also just wants ones with her own kids proves that she still thinks of him as separate and not apart of her family; as lesser than her own kids. If those kids ever saw the pictures of them being photoshopped out that would ruin them emotionally, no matter how young they are that would damage them so badly. But nothing makes me angrier than the dads allowing it!! The one text she’s talking to the dad and he says “sure love.” Shame on you for marrying or being with someone that doesn’t love your child like their own, but more importantly it is your job to put that child first in any and every situation.This is why you hear so many horror stories about step-parents. People of divorce, you do deserve to be happy, but not at the expense of your child. You made the decision to have a child, you made the decision to get divorced (by signing papers) you do not get to be with a new woman that comes before your kid. They are only with you for 18 years, their happiness and emotional well-being is your responsibility until they are an adult. Be better.
I saw in another comment that a stepmother wasn't allowed by the boy's biological mother to post pics on her Facebook with the son in them.. I wonder if that's what's going on for the first one? At least in that one, it looked like they meant for him to be included..
I know EXACTLY what Walmart that last lady was at. This is not the first time people in that neighborhood have called the cops on people who think someone is "illegal." It happened to me when I was 14 and trying to buy hand tools for a school project, and it made me terrified of the Glendora Police. No matter how many times I gave them my vital information, they didn't believe me and they got incredibly aggressive with me. It took a store clerk who saw what was going down to step in and keep them from arresting me. Even then, the only reason they left me alone was because she started screaming at them. I haven't been back there in almost a decade. People like her are a lot of the reason why people are moving OUT of Glendora. The city is full of people like her, and it sucks because so many of the people leaving have lived there almost their whole lives.
Also, this lady works at the local Dennys. She once served me and my mom and was not only horrendously rude to us but took her sweet time getting us the bill, which she basically threw at us. At first, I was like, "Oh, she's just having a bad day. I get it." But as a person who's not white-passing, I get why she was such a jerk now.
sue her
I would confront her and call her out to her face.. Seems she probably has a short temper and she'd cause a scene at her work and get herself fired. Lol. And I'd feel no regret. Fighting fire with fire in her case would just leave HER with the bigger fire. She could probably use some bad karma.
I'm so, so sorry to hear this.
@@CallMeGameGirl Oh, she already has bad Karma coming. No doubt about it.
Omg r u serious I’ve never seen someone I know in these I can’t wait til I do
Step parents like that woman are horrible. One year (when I was still with my ex) I secretly organised a photo shoot with our kids and his older son, and gave him the prints framed for Christmas. He literally cried. I organised it with his son’s mother to make sure the kids had co-ordinating outfits. It’s not hard to be a decent step parent.
i love how the guy in the car defended the man. i’ve had many racists encounters when i was a teen at my first job and no one ever stood up for me like that it has definitely influenced me to be there for people who are being attacked. props to you whoever you are.
I’m so sorry, no one deserves that. And I’m sorry no one stood up for you. I’ve had men and women be sexist towards me and men sexually harass me at my jobs. I wish people could just be better humans.
But she is not racist. "Her dad is black" 😂😂😂
@@ogkpopper And I'm pretty sure that's a lie 😂
@@MikaMoonlight Oh I'm pretty sure too, I'm being sarcastic 😂
Yeah.
Her: “I’m not racist”
Also her: “this man doesn’t belong in Glendora bc he’s Mexican”
Breaks my heart!!!🤬
The fact that the dad was cool with removing his son from the photo is absolutely disgusting.
This!!! What kind of father would allow this?
@@e.j.o.4400 It was not the dad, I think it was the photographer. Didnt she say in the next post that she had the photographer's permission cause they did not take any photo without the stepson?
@@e.j.o.4400 One that'll let her torture and abuse that kid as well. 🤬
@@itmattersnot1216 yo that's an escalation. Yeah she's a bitch for not wanting the stepson in the picture but does not mean she is abusing that kid. And it never mentioned if the father was ok with it. She could have went home and showed the pics and him pissed.
And that's how you get divorced. smh disgusting
I'm not normally one to support violence, but if a bunch of mean girls kicked those pizza's out of my hand I simply would not be responsible for whatever ensued after that.
Agreed!
Agree 💯
Sometimes, some people need a kick in the head. Seems to be lacking these days and i don't like violence either, but this would be excusable.
Damn straight! I would be throwing hands!
Personally I’d ask them if they’d rather buy me some new pizzas or be charged with assault
I work in a museum and that one with the kids playing with the glass sculpture got my blood boiling because unfortunately this is NOT an exception. We have contacts with artworks on a daily basis even with security guards telling people not to touch and clear signage that tells people not to touch 🙄 If an art piece is in a museum it probably is worth thousands if not millions of dollars and you are going to risk breaking it because you feel like touching it? It baffles me.
My dad is an artist with really bad distance vision. The number of times he has set off a silent alarm and someone ran up yelling "STEP BACK FROM THE CANVAS" because he got caught up and wanted to get a closer look at a detail or brush-stroke... >_< I really, REALLY don't understand why anyone would ever touch a painting or sculpture in a museum though. Thank goodness my dad got eye surgery though, and can see everything so much better from the right distance!
@@ladygrndr9424 Oh yeah! Accidents happen and you shouldn't be yelled at. Actually I believe yelling at visitors is extremely unprofessional. They should give a warning and if they see the warnings are not taken seriously then they should approach the person and discuss.
We also offer tours at my museum were people with low vision can request a visit with an interpreter who can help describe the artworks and they have works that are more tactile so they would bring in the equipment (gloves and things like that) to allow the visitor to touch specific works that would not be damaged when handled properly.
I've always had the urge to touch things that fascinate me. I like feeling connected with my surroundings. It's a part of how I appreciate, acknowledge, and gather extra information on things. I definitely get having the urge to touch things. I really don't get acting on an urge without care about both immediate and long term consequences. I don't get acting on vandalism with the intent to destroy property 'just because,' like it's not the worst form of theft. I don't get standing around watching your kids vandalizing property like you're not responsible for what they are doing. It's just maddening.
Don’t they make the parents pay for what they did? They should charge them whatever that piece of art should cost! How will they learn to discipline their kids if they get away with things like this?
Her nieces are Italian, Mexican and ALOHA. That’s how you know she’s lying
And claims her dad is black but never says she is.
That had me cracking up! AND ALOHA!!!!
Right, what a turd 😂 I just wish these fools would actually realize how ridiculous they are making themselves look, but they usually will die thinking they were right. It's so lame. I still lost it at the 'aloha' part though 🥲 AND ALOHA lol wut
And her uncle is Klingon
@@lewc3413 lmao
As a stepchild who always experienced pictures being taken in two sets, one with me and one without me in it, i can only see now how fucked up that truly was. It always left me with some “off” feeling that i never understood. Until today i struggle with my stepmothers underlying rejection. Its just sad. I would never accept such a behavior towards a child of mine. If you cannot love the children of your spouse that have been in his life before you were, then go get another partner!
I think you meant to say "towards" instead of torwarts. hahaha thats a good one though. I do agree that its terrible and so hurtful of these step moms, how do they deserve the title of step MOM in the first place if they arent considering the child as one of their own. I would never be so mean as to want to exclude my step child let alone do it, I wish they would see and actually care about the painful message it sends the child and how awful rejection from a parental figure can feel. My father rejected me my whole life and favored my brother, in fact his entire side of the family did the same, and it really scarred me, I still have such low confidence and self esteem when I get around them, and Im in my 40's. Its caused me to avoid contact with them while my brother has an amazing relationship with all of them. They even have memories that were with me that they accidentally replaced me with my brother, in , and dont even realize it, when they bring them up, in front of me and say "remember when.....was at ....and we ran into them. They dont even realize its me they ran into and they casually bring it up, and its very hurtful. Shame on those insensitive women
I can only imagine how that feels. To take 2 sets of photos where 1 of those sets you're standing by watching as your not included feeling weird as to why they're doing this.
Dude, first and foremost, I'm sorry that's happened to you. You actually lived through my worst nightmare. I remember being around 5 and asking my dad (and not long after asking my mom as well), actually scratch that, no asking! Straight up telling them: if you have children with your new girlfriend, just forget I'm your child! I will not accept them as siblings and you'll be dead to me! Dad agreed and thirty years later still no children with her and mom had her tubes tied after I had been born so... Now, why did I say that to them? Because I hated the way my cousins were treated by their dads once they started a "new family", I always felt terrible for them (years later I found out my sister had told both of our parents pretty much the same thing I told them on a different occasion). Also, was your dad OK with this? If so, did you ever speak up? Sorry for the wall of text, but this spoke to me on a personal level.
Oh no hope you are fine
Oh no that sucks. It can take years to comprehend the things that happened to us as kids. I hope you have a happy family now. Have a great day- from one internet stranger to another.
This is why museums put their art behind floor to ceiling barriers. It’s sad that people can’t just admire their art with their eyes and not their hands ☹️
You're so kind. I love that you called it "admiring". My description would have been way less generous
Or without barriers, but a security guard in every room. Which I enjoy a lot more than the barriers.
I Think they were both for that TicToc Crap, both were being filmed. I Hope they both got charged, a Big fine & Jail Time. Ruining someone else's property! No Respect!👹
@@basstrammel1322 Many popular museums have volunteers in every room to make sure the art is not disturbed. Smaller museums may not have that option.
And if those obnoxious people actually wanna try touching art pieces, idk if it's open to public but years ago i remember seeing a video showing a new type of museum made specifically to let blind people experience famous paintings, they'll have a recreation of famous paintings in this bumpy texture shape and people can freely touch them and so blind people can feel how they look like, rly fascinating i must say
The lady who made the glass sculpture made it in honor of her newborn baby. Instead of taking it down, it was renamed "Broken" and a loop of the CCTV footage was displayed next to it in the museum. Classy comeback to their terrible behaviour.
The only thing worse than this evil step mother, is the evil father who allows his son to be treated this way.
Amen because she's a stranger to that baby at least she doesn't owe him love but that's his father and if he doesn't save him she maybe the monster but he is the enabler when it's your own child I think that's so much worse
I'm pretty sure the one where they got confirmation was between the mother and the photographer, not the Father.
I can't IMAGINE removing a step child from a photo. Ever.
We have foster kids and they are always included in any family photos. Kids need unconditional acceptance
How is this allowed by the father?
Thank you for being a foster parent, and a good one at that!
Same. I have two adult men in my life who I have been a second mother to since they were 16. I am SO proud of them and want them in every pic.
@@muimina- these are the type of women who harm their step children.
@@francescaoconnor2314 that’s really nice and you and others are the type that restore faith in humanity (sorry I wrote humanitarian first try)
"he looks illegal"... after that, you just don't argue anymore. Just get this woman viral so everyone can recognize her
I wanted to see her get arrested for filing a false police report.
I think she looks illegal. Have you seen her outfit? Where is the fashion police when their are needed the most?
@@FineHupeline hahahaha!!! NICE!
@@FineHupeline AGREED! :D
@@FineHupeline - BWAHAHAHAHAHA!! 😂😂
Having the step child removed is disgusting and anyone willing to do that for her has no morals. I definitely wouldn’t want that person in my life if they resent my kid and don’t want him around and in photos. I not only have pics of my stepdaughter/ daughter in my home I have pics of both her and her mama up in my house. She and I have a civil relationship and all our kids are grown.
She got married so this means she has at least some morals. People think I'm the most evil bastard ever because of the fact that I'm direct and assertive; passive-aggressive people tend to be confused by this; as such, I love animals, art, piano music, making videos of my cats and my dog screwing around; I also would not become involved with a single parent due to paternity fraud issues and the complete lack of legislation in the area of step-parent rights. If my spouse died, for example, and the biological father somehow gained custody of his child (custody taken from me) I could end up paying child support to the biological father in order to help him raise his own child (this can and does happen). To most women, I am the most rancid piece of shit in existence because I won't willingly take on the burden of another person's responsibility; as such, I couldn't fathom photoshopping step-children out. Am I disgusting as well? Would you regard me as a moral person?
She did t have him removed from all the pictures, just some.
The second woman who wanted her stepson removed from the picture, she's already positioned her stepson so far away from her she clearly has no love for the child.
I think she purposefully asked the kid to sit there so it would be easier to photoshop him out later. So toxic and sad.
Man, as an artist who's displayed work before at a gallery, I got really upset about the person destroying the sand castle and then the people letting their kids rip apart the glass piece! Not to mention the person "fixing" "trash" art! Some artists struggle with feeling good about their art, myself included! It's never good to insult art without actually being constructive. Just make your own stuff instead of messing with others' work! And never ruin someone's hard work because it isn't funny in the slightest!
Agreed! My artistic talent ranks right up there (down there?) with my musical ability which is to say that it has not been exercised, nourished, or encouraged very much. And even I would not think to destroy someone else’s work even if I didn’t think it that good. If you can’t admire the art, at least admire the effort. Have participation trophies taught us nothing?! (That last line is a joke but there is merit in honoring the attempt.)
I thought the "trash" art was much better than the fix personally. Just cause one person doesn't like it, doesn't mean nobody likes it.
I just can't figure out why people are so entitled and think destroying something "for views" (or whatever, but they were filmed both times) is funny.
@@j.munday7913 the "trash" art has a sense of personality to it, unlike the "fixed" art. This is why "fixing" art is bad, it takes away the intent of the original artist! Don't like the "trash" art? Don't look at it. Just move along
I'm pretty sure the "fixing the trash" art is someone "fixing" it by changing the gender of the character. Took me a bit to realize it, but I've seen some pretty weird people on twitter hating the opposite gender for no reason other than them just loving one gender and feeling like it's superior over the other.
I feel like this is their intention here. Which is not only really gross but also highly disrespectful of the artist.
Never fix anyone’s art, that’s blasphemy
“Don’t call me racist my dad is black!” Aaaand? Lol omg the level of racism AND entitlement coming from that lady is mind blowing. Tell me you’re racist without telling me you’re racist. I present, this Karen.🤦🏻♀️
Not to mention saying he "belongs in Mexico" while simultaneously asking if he's from Africa? Like, what? Any more weird racist stereotypes to throw out there lady? Oh wait, you think he "punked somebody" for the work uniform he's wearing? Like he's "stealing people's jobs?" Alright. Yikes.
I felt so angry listening to that part, I wish I could have punched her! That is one wicked, evil, sadistic, devilish, horrific, ugly, and every bad word on earth, and every language! I have never felt so much hate for someone I don’t know. How can someone be so mean to another person like that 🤦🏻♀️? I shouldn’t feel like this, but I hope something happens to her, and not something good. I hope by having this post on social media got her what she deserves.
Omgosh that really upset me for that poor man 😔.
Also I have NEVER heard anyone talk or act like this in Europe, is it an American thing?
I wanted to see what happened when the cops showed up!
Don't forget her nephew who's part aloha
I'm 22. My step mom has been in my life since I was about 6. She has been more of a parent to me than either of my biological parents. She took me in day one. She treated me and loved me as if I was her own. Some step parents need to realize you choose that child(ren) when you chose their parent. I'm so glad I was blessed with that wonderful woman! I would not be the person I am today without her unconditional love and support. It just blows my mind how awful some step parents are to their step children.
After those kids broke the glass art piece, the artist decided against repairing it, instead renaming it "Broken" and installing a small screen next to it that plays the footage of the kids breaking it. Amazing!😂 I do still hope the parents had to pay for it or were charged with vandalism or destruction of property or SOMETHING🤬
If I remember correctly, that piece was worth a lot of money too. The parents are such horrible people.
That artist is a real chad
@@ScaraGucci what do you mean?
@@CrystalRuizEnriquez Chad: A phrase describing a stereotypical young urban white male, typically single and in his 20s. This phrase is usually used to denote stereotypical "Chad" behavior which is ususally derogatory.
Guy 1: "I just saw this dude pump out 100 push ups, then shotgun a beer."
Guy 2: "What a Chad."
by WilltheThrill March 19, 2018
Urban Dictionary.
So the term is completely inappropriate and its use demonstrates absolute ignorance.
@@ScaraGucci how so?
The woman changing the baby's diaper in Old Navy is the reason why we all should have been practicing good hand washing hygiene and carrying hand sanitizer before COVID.
And why you should ALWAYS wash what you buy before wearing it. I worked retail for a lot of years...you have NO idea how unhygienic people can be.
Always have and I always wash my clothes before wearing it the first time. I dont trust people to be as clean as myself lol
@@amsteensberg1653 still doesn't give you permission to change diaper like that.
It goes same for women who change diaper at restaurant table and leave the dirty diaper next to their plate.
Every restaurant has a toilet.
Jeez... I once had to change my baby's nappy in a shopping centre corridor at night - the available toilet was not remotely large enough. I carried a baby change mat with me so just got right down to it it and then used hand sani and then went back into our restaurant. It never occurred to me to invade an adjoining business to do this - it was not ideal, but the job got done with minimum fuss.
You are not entitled to change your kid on other peoples' goods, people.
I've had people try to change their babies on a restaurant table, then when we ask her to use the restroom where there is a functional changing table she gave us crap 🤦🏻♀️
I’m not a step parent, but We do have custody of my husband’s youngest siblings. I would never remove them from photos, and my family always invites them to family functions. To exclude a child is gross.
Yeah, that was disgusting, in both of the instances that were shown. If you want some pictures with just your kids, there will be plenty of time to do so. Like years of time. These women apparently lack the mental capacity to understand how this going to make the step-child feel, or perhaps they simply don’t care. It’s very depressing. I hope these ‘mothers’ got called out for it in their original posts.
It’s super mean :(
Yeah that's messed up!!
It does feel super mean, speaking as the step child. My father's new wife had him convert to Catholicism and claim me as deceased to the church, I think it's a technicality because having children implies he's been married and divorced before, which is a no go to convert? Not sure about why, but it stung when I found out .. but I'm not suprised, she excludes me from gatherings and stuff. I just miss my dad at this point.
@@wildlilly That's horrible. I really hope you realize how they treat you says nothing about you and everything about them.
I read about the sand sculptures one 3:40. It was a big deal, it wasn't a local artist temporary exhibit (though that would still be bad). It was in Egypt and was if I recall correctly a very old historical sculpture. They didn't just destroy art, they destroy history.
The stepchild comes with the person you marry. If you can’t love the child then you shouldn’t marry the parent. People like that should find childless partners. Selfish and cruel.
Completely agree with everything you said
This 100%
This--and also I blame the parents willing to marry someone who would treat their kids like that. They're trash too tbh...
@@crystalh450 In both cases step son is older than the biological children, Check that again! And if it ever was the way you said, it is still wrong to throw the rage on the child. He would not be at fault, his dad would.
Amen!
I feel like I should be one of the people who advocate for step-parents: not only did my stepdad raise me from a very young age and encouraged me to call him dad, when he and my mom split up, I decided to go live with him and he made provisions to protect me in case he got married to someone that might want to put me on the sidelides (he didn't! he married a wonderful woman that treats me with far more love than my mom ever did!)
That was nice to read after how dissapointed the step mothers in this vid made me.
Wow you really lucked out two times with step parents But when I think about it, your dad is really great and thoughtful. No wonder he could choose an equally nice partner. Good for you mate.
Good on ya! That's a lovely story, I'm so happy for you. 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
That is so precious.
I'm so sorry your mom was that way and so glad your (step)dad stepped in and cared for you!
I used to work at a school and there was this boy, he always seemed a little neglegted, holes in his clothes, stains, dirty laundry, sometimes no (good) food for the breaks etc. Turns out he had two more siblings. His mom sometimes just wasn't there. Her boyfriend tried to take Carr if then as best as he could but they didn't live with him and he didn't have much money, so it wasn't easy. He fought for custody of the kids and eventually made them live with him permanently. I don't know if he got to adopt them (I left the school before that happened) but the kids loved him dearly and I was so glad. From that day he came in better clothing and always had decent food, even his grades got better. But poor guy had to go through so much, his mother abandoning him and being gone for weeks at a time without an explanation etc... He was in elementary school. So sad but still a happy ending! And jzddis to the boyfriend for stepping in!! (none of the three were his kids but they were long enough together that the kids knew him as a father figure, the boy even called him dad!)
Im glad the last guy stood up against the racist woman. These “karens” deserve jail time 😫
He should have called the cops on her “Yes, hello officer. There’s a batshit crazy women, screaming, cussing and harassing people in the parking lot. Can you come get her?”😂
@@Maray182 "And she has threatened to block in my WORK TRUCK while I am working on the outside of your local Walmart store."
"Yessir, she's on the other line right now..." lol
they should make a new law, the karen law, punishable by jail time and fines. People should not be able to get away with being this awful.
I have a step mom and she’s the sweetest most patient person I ever met. I lost my mom when I was young but still remember being close to her (I don’t really remember specific memories tho). When my dad wanted my brother and I’s blessing for him to start seeing our step mom we said yes as it would not be fair to him. He still loves my bio mom deeply but he’s already been through so much and if he feels close to another it’s not our place to not support when he has supported us all this time. I’m so happy we did say yes tho because my step mom truly became my second. I’m so thankful she is there to support and cherish us. She is not ashamed to be a step mother and she herself has two other kids from a prior marriage. She makes it a point to never replace our mother but instead be a figure in our life we can turn to when needed. I wish everyone was as lucky to have a step parent like that and I hope that for those with no support system bio or no that they have strength to love themselves so that one day that love would extend to another and they would find true happiness with true family ❤
“Aloha” has me dying.
You can’t make up this level of ignorance.
The only people whose race is Aloha is Adele & Lionel Richie.
*helloooo*
Italian, Mexican and ALOHA. She had me rolling on the floor
Girl saaame that cracked me up. I’m sure if she met me she would tell someone “I saw a namaste yesterday, her English was very bad”
Must be illegal
”I'm not racist! My newphew is italian, mexican and aloha!”
Well that's a new sentence I never wished to hear.
the aloha part really sent me. Since when has aloha been an ethnicity? That lady was nuts
I felt bad for the guy but the lady's crazy talk maid me feel 💯 smarter. And videos like this just gives me more reason to hate people lol but love her videos. 👏👏👏
"Don't call me racist my dad is black," is worst than, "some of my best friends are black."
I never understood why racists think that knowing someone who is black makes them not racist....like don't they realize that that statement is in itself racist because it shows they lump them all together. Like do they not consider the fact that by their logic then, if they hate any white people they have ever met they they hate their own race. 🤦♂️🤦♀️🤦 such twisted logic. I legit have a theory that racism actually causes the brain to not function properly or vice-versa
@@SoManyRandomRamblings Because racists literally wouldn't associate with or even be friends with people of another skin color? Isn't that how it works?
@@kathiekalara6 No that’s not really how it works, a racist can be friends with anyone of any race or colour, and they’ll be racist because they think it’s justified since they “know a person from that.” Which is grouping together a race, which is racist.
she is gross and a racist.....her actions are racist.
@@kathiekalara6 well obvious racists I suppose. Then there are the other racists that have "friends" who are another race as long as they "know their place." The boss who said they are friends with their black coworkers but in the background are actively making sure they aren't promoted or get raises and get the worst tasks.
Very proud of my 2 now grown step girls. I tell them all the time. Love them very much.
As per the millionaire who cut down the trees to improve his view, here in Australia similar things have been done by people wanting better ocean views (from cutting to poisoning trees) and the local councils reacts by either putting giant billboards explaining what has happened in the spot and even saying for every tree cut or poisoned we will plant 2 more trees and the billboards won't come down until they are fully grown. Some councils either put billboards or hessian screens and even one place in Sydney I think put up stacked shipping containers and then had an artist paint trees on to them (with the ocean in the background). A lovely "fuck you" to those who think they are entitled to do that shit.
🤣I love this.
That is brilliant!
They don’t deserve a view even it is fake. I ‘d prefer a huge billboard full of people mooning🤣
@@mortician403 that's petty......I love it! 😆
I planted trees when I worked for a local council, as part of my job. Planted a whole heap and two weeks later a strip about 4m x 5m were gone. Replanted, happened again. The view they wanted? A boat ramp on the other side of the channel. No billboards in those days, just never replanted.
Plot twist: "Mexican", "Italian" and "Aloha" are her nieces NAMES, not races.
I lost it when she said Aloha 😂😂😂
I'm sure the internet will find out who this racist is
Yeah and her dads name is black
Yo Mexican, where's Italian? .... oh, she's with Aloha...
HAhahaha i was like "Aloha".... dear whatchu smoking?
“Don’t tell me I’m racist cause my little nephew is Italian, Mexican and ALOHA…”
Let that sink in 😂😂😂
hahha. ah yes, i remember my Hawaiian friends telling me they are known as aloha hahaha
The story behind the step mom was she was told by the ex wife to not post her son on their fb she was being petty twords her ex husband an etc but that's what i remember hearing
@@kasssmith5292 what?
Wow. I am Hawaiian and I have never heard people call Hawaiians "Aloha" as a race. It must be a regional thing.
I was wondering if I was the only one who heard that. I was all WTF lady..... Just no all over.
I could never ever imagine my stepfather doing something like this. He loves us all equally and I've come to regard him as not only a father but a lifelong friend. He was the man who stepped up and raised me. I couldn't imagine a life without him in it and he always tells me the same.
The lady calling on the “illegal” guy. Most racist person I’ve seen in a while. Obviously I know their out there and it happens and just doesn’t get caught on tape as often but oh my god actually seeing and hearing what these people say is insane
Algorithms - I see them all the time. I’m also Mexican and so those kind of videos are very common on my feeds. Side note; I’ve had people ask me if I spoke English -- I speak 4 languages ✊🏾🤓
@@andreatobonlira3247 NICE!🤩also hey sorry for asking but do you mind telling what some of the language’s you are?….
Is it possible to call the cops if somebody offends you and blocks your car like that? Can this "lady" be brought to court for this? I'm not from the US, so I've got no idea, but according to the multiple videos of such karens I assume that nothing could be really done to them
Truly sad
The Amazon delivery person who stole the package, pretty soon they won't be able to do that. My fiance is an operations manager for Amazon and they are installing multiple cameras inside and outside of the delivery vans, its already been implemented in some states and being done currently in others but will be nationwide soon. For driver safety and anti-theft as well.
Thank gods, they should have implemented that a very long time ago. I've had medical equipment stolen, multiple times, one time recently, had a prescription stolen. Luckily it was just stool softening pills for my grandmother, just as a test.
dude i had one if them deliver an empty bubble wrap and take a PICTURE OF IT AS PROOF OF DELIVERY.
Best knews I've heard all day more ppl need to know....
So many people have cameras now on their porches so it amazes me that they are still so brazen with the theft.
how's your fiancé feeling about working for the devil though?
My daughter’s step mom is AMAZING and would never ever make her feel like anything less than her own child. As the birth mom, props to all the awesome stepmoms out there.
Being a stepmom for 11 years of a now 18 and 21 year old son: this made me cry.
@@mariellepenning3129 ❤️❤️❤️
I love her so much, I call her my wife-in-law. 😂
I am a stepmom to two amazing young humans (15 + 16) and this made me cry a little
I love thissss! Doing it for the babies.
Aww, I love this!
And I don’t understand these stepmoms at all, not even a little. It makes me wonder what wrong with their partners… if I was with someone who made a request like that, I would raise hell. If my kid isn’t welcome, neither am I. Kids deserve better than that, all of them, all the time.
Same here so many of these parents keep letting these losers into their kids lives and it breaks my heart seeing these kids be hurt like this… 😢
The step kid photoshop story hit home. My husband's ex girlfriend excluded his autistic son because he was different, and told my husband she didn't want to have children with him because she didn't want an autistic child. To say the least, my husband was heartbroken at the time. It was incredibly cruel. It is especially shocking to me when these people are usually parents themselves. They should understand more than anyone else these things aren't anyone's fault, particularly the kids.
Well her loss is my gain. I have the privilege of being a mom-part-2 for three wonderful individuals. They are honestly the best and funniest people I have ever known. I think my step son with autism won't ever be able to live on his own, but he is honestly so funny he makes me cry with laughter all the time. I'm really very lucky
Thank you for this… I am Autistic and still live at home and felt shame for it for a long time. Good to know people like you exist. Thanks for sharing your story.
@@AurielArts thank you, I greatly appreciate your perspective! I would like to add that there's no shame in living at home. In many countries, you'll find multigenerational homes are the norm! That type of support system is really priceless. So no worries, just continue growing and you'll find your own path!
Some people just don’t want to understand how desability works…I have a friend who has a son with a severe disability, with years of doctors and exams they found out he has a rare genetic desease, but his grandparents on the father side spend years saying there was nothing anormal with the boy and he just needed prayers 🤷🏻♀️ nothing wrong with praying and seen his disability with naturality, but that is different then not admitting he has a severe condition and need lots of professional help. Of course the ex of your history is way worse then those grandparents, they were in denial, she is cruel.
Some autistic kids are high functioning and are quite intelligent.
Finishing up my 15th year in Spec Ed with ASD/MoCI/SCI students. Every day, someone makes me laugh/want to tear my hair out. Their way of seeing the world often shows me things I’d never thought of before. I love my job!! 🥰
As an artist, the vids of the people destroying art pieces absolutely made my blood boil
I felt like screaming when I saw that art piece get destroyed. I can't even begin to imagine how the artist must have felt, she spent so long creating those wings only for irresponsible parents to let their kids run around and destroy it.
I hope the artist hit them where it hurts...their wallets.
Honestly all it did was just make me feel sad for those kids, that those were their parents. They need better parents.
Right! That was in a museum, even. They got caught.
If me and my sisters ever acted like this, our dad would whoop our butts. We were taken to alot of different places at very young ages, flea markets, yard sales, thrift shops, antique shops, train shows, malls, stores, museums, ect. So were taught how to behave from a very young age.
I was a step-parent to my ex-husband's daughter. I never had an issue with her. Years after we divorced I found out from the child we share that my ex told his daughter that it was HER fault we got a divorce. As soon as I found that out I called to let her know that was absolutely NOT true. I still can't believe he would tell his child that. Even if that were the case, why in the world would you put that on your child? I guess you might understand why we are not together.
I'm gonna need more, if it's okay. Did she take your call well? What happened? (Also, your ex sucks for doing that.)
@@pearlofthedarkage She took it really well. I do think it made her feel better. I am just sad that she carried that with her for that long. If I had known sooner I would have contacted her right then and there. She and I didn't maintain any kind of relationship, but we aren't against each other either.
Thank you so much for communicating with her. It’s horrible what your ex said to your stepdaughter, which is his daughter that he said something scummy to (if scummy even is a word lol). You are so sweet ❤️ and I hope you and her keep in touch!
My stepdad raised me from about the age of 4. When they got divorced when I was 16 he said I was the cause of of a lot of their fights. He also never asked me or my older brother to visit him after the divorce, just cared about my younger brother and sister (his bio kids). When he had a heart attack he called and insisted my little brother and sister come to the hospital so he could say goodbye in case he didn't make it.
Being a step kid sucks. Worst part is everyone says you're all the same but you know it's not true.
I hate that yall had to go through that. I am adopted and my siblings are 9 years younger and I'm the golden child. I am also the only one adopted 🙂 but this could also be because I did give them their only grandkids
Just a quick note: I just recently discovered your channel, and am not lying when I say I've binge watched you for this entire past week while away on a work trip. Heaven sent, you are. Had me cackling so loudly in my hotel suite the neighbours called reception to ask if I'm alright! NB/watching out of order so commenting on an older vid. Love from another petty redhead from Australia 🇦🇺 🤪
why would neighbours call reception about laughing? and the reception called you to inform you of this?
@b m I have no idea. I think I was too loud and it was a noise complaint but reception were kind enough to just act like it was concern lol. Cheap hotel with thin walls
@@julianaFinn sounds really weird. like what did they say when they called? did they call the room phone?
@b m yeah. But keep in mind I have a loud laugh, so maybe it's just me lol. I was hysterically laughing over one video or other so who knows. The phone rang and reception asked if I was ok... said someone was concerned that something was wrong 🤣
I don’t have a step kid. My son (who is the product of his mother’s first marriage) is simply my son. I have been his dad since he was 5 and he is now 20 and serving in the US Army! He’s my SON and I would never think of cropping him out of the pictures with my kids from my first marriage. Do better people.
I love my step daughter. She’s such a sweet kid. Not all step parents are monsters
Bad step parents should stay in fairytales and movies
@@felicitas.c. I agree
My exes kids (all over 18) were always welcome to stay whenever they needed it, rent free. One didn't like me but that's okay and he was just as welcome as the others. Another got out of prison and I got him a complete set of "I've not just got out of prison" clothes and he stayed as long as he liked. I did draw the line at his using my razor, though. I gave it to him and got myself a new one. I'm so mean!
🙏🙏
So true. My (step) mom is FAR more pleasant and fun to be around than my birth mother.
My dad was not my sister’s bio dad, and he raised her as his own, I didn’t even know we were half siblings until I was in my teen years, he never treated us any differently. Not all step parents are the same. 😒 what an awful human being.
Same here. My mom was the one who told me that my dad was my stepdad. My dad never said it.
@ me too. He never mentioned it. She did when I was little. I was always treated just like my brother. It didn’t matter he wasn’t my biological father. What mattered was that he loved me and raised me as his own daughter. I never went looking for the other guy. I figured if he didn’t want me then I don’t want him now.
I know a couple who they are each other's second marriages. The wife said that her kids started calling her second husband "dad." She says it's because he was more of a dad to them than their biological father.
I hope that your sister can say the same, because I know growing up with a step parent and everyone telling me that he treated me like his daughter when in reality that wasn't the case.
I knew as soon as my little brother was born that we were treated differently especially when coming from my step dad. It wasn't until I was in my late teens that my step dad let it be known that he was constantly on my case because he felt that he needed to protect his son from me and he never saw me as a part of the family; I was just a previous child from another guy who would never accept him because he wasn't my blood. I never accepted him because he was the reason why I didn't have a relationship with my older brother and as soon as my other brother was born, I was casted out because I was 4 years older and was "hard to handle."
Growing up, the family dynamic was where I took care of everyone else because they thought that I was going to live with them for the rest of their lives and they never taught my younger brother how to do for himself until I moved out. As we both grew up into adulthood and we talked, he was surprised by how I saw our childhoods because from his viewpoint, he didn't see anything wrong with how I was treated due to him being raised in that environment.
No one asked, and I know that your relationship with your family is hopefully vastly different from mine because at the moment, I'm in no contact with pretty much all of them, but I just wanted to say something on the behalf of the people who are in a similar predicament to me.
It's a great thing though that you can say that he didn't treat her different from your view!
@@BreezyStreamy she can, he did. Sorry it wasn’t that way for you.
i'm a step-child and my step-father is one of the most important figures in my life. i don't even refer to him as my step-father, he's just one of my dads and i love him to bits
As someone who had a step-father that every time we took family pictures made sure I was always on the end so he could fold the pictures so I wasn't seen. I found this out one day while visiting him at work and saw the pictures and asked where I was, I received no response. I can completely relate.
I’m so sorry that happened to you. Rather than fold, you should cut him out of your life. It works both ways.
@Dawn I am really sorry for that. But you don´t need him either. Find strength and may you find a father figure that is worth your love. Good luck
My stepmother is like this... some step parents suck ass. Pardon my French.
Wow! That’s so horrible! Step parents who act like trash ARE trash!!! Most important aspect of being a parent wether biological, step or adopted is UNCONDITIONAL LOVE..... if it’s real or pure regardless of how kids act... in the future they will finally realise how lucky they were to have someone genuine in their lives. If ur parents r evil? REMOVE
Yourself from their toxicity but never cut them out of your life..... always leave the door open BUT let them know the conditions upon entry❤️🙏
Because he don’t want a step kid
I’m a step mom, and that little girl is my whole world. I’d never in a million years try and erase her from our family photos. I feel so badly for that kid :(
Why know your biological daughter should make you feel like she’s your whole world because she has your blood in her
@@jetnight88
Love has nothing to do with blood
The lady calling the cops on the guy she said “looks illegal”… this happened to my kid when he was 13. He was retrieving two bags of aluminum cans (to donate to the local animal shelter) from a neighbor’s house up the road… a couple who had just moved into the neighborhood a week prior called the cops and said there was “an illegal” walking around our neighborhood. Within 5 minutes we had numerous squad cars cruising around looking for my poor kid, who was scared out of his mind when they came and questioned him. He just wanted to help the shelter animals.
😐😑💀
Oh my lord that’s so horrible
@@AmeZakiri it really was. I felt so bad for my kid and could tell that one of the cop was upset about it too. He kept apologizing to us even though it wasn’t his fault.
@@RisaBeesa I'm so sorry to hear that. Your poor kid.
My older child's father, whose background is Portuguese/Indian/English, was once pulled up by cops here in Australia, whose line of questioning clearly indicated they though he was an Indigenous Australian. He was on his way back from the shops (5 min away) with milk for me, a then breast-feeding mother. Because their communications network was so primitive at the time, they saw his name pop up and detained him for an hour and a half. He was on their system because two years earlier he had been the VICTIM of a hold-up at knife-point.
When he finally got home I was out of my mind with worry. He has never committed, let alone been charged, with any crime. We had no mobile phones at the time.
I wanted to make a complaint, but he wearily told me not to. That was the day I learnt a) that the story was his to tell, not mine, and b) that this was not the first time this had happened to him. Imagine what actual Indigenous Australians go through.
I'm so glad the cop in your case was sensitive and apologetic. Profiling is a scourge - and it should NEVER be used to allow paranoid racists to harm children :-(
@@dontbefatuousjeffrey2494 oh wow, that’s such a scary experience and I’m so sorry he has dealt with it on multiple occasions. I live in the US and don’t know much about Australia and how they treat Indigenous Australians but I’m going to go educate myself on it. 😔
@@RisaBeesa Thank you, love. We do NOT have a good history of how we have treated our Indigenous sisters and brothers, I am ashamed to say. All the Murri and Koori people I have known have helped me understand a lot about this country.
I love my home and wouldn't give it up for anything, but it was built on stolen ground, I do want more people to know about this. I would also love to know that your son is not being treated the way he was any more. He sounds like a lovely boy
My stepdaughters call me their bonus mum. Love that they see me in this light. I couldn't have kids (physiology reasons) and appreciate each day that I'm so blessed to have the opportunity to be their mum.
Those girls that destroyed the sand sculpture are the filthiest.. what a vile thing to do. People who cant appreciate or respect art, need to take their drugs in an alley, not a museum... if its not drugs, then dude, wtf is their excuse. I hope they got charged and put in jail for a couple weeks. I can't imagine how cheated the artist felt
Some have so little respect for anyone, some even themselves.
Fun facts: 1) that's not in a museum, it's a hotel lobby. 2) Its a teenage girl who was trying to make a viral video with her friend. 3) Both girls involved were arrested, but not charged and the hotel management invited them back to be educated on the artworks cultural meaning. 4) The hotel flew the original artist back and had the statue repaired within 3 days.
Was what the girls did awful? Yes. But it's not exactly a cute look to make assumptions of them being drug addicts or that drugs must be the reason someone would commit vandalism and conflating bad actions with being a bad person or being a bad person with being a drug user.
Same for the family that let their kids ruin the glass art. I mean, they probably weren't on drugs, but still presented such lack of respect for other people. Art takes so much time and effort. It's not okay to think this is okay.
@@sammy3207 yea, those people seemed plain disrespectful to the core, those other girls seemed high or atleast egging eachother on, ya know? The family..... that was complete negligence.... The girls had rotten brains, the family had smooth brains. mouth breathers and slow blinkers...
@@empresssquee9020 I get that, i guess i'm coming from a place where I've seen my old friends change and lose respect, and egg eachother on.... I didn't mean to offend, truly
The last lady isn't racist. Her family member is a member of the "Aloha" ethnicity. LOL
Hahahahahah!!! Right?!
They come come from the country of "Alohomora". Their national pastime is unlocking things. 😉
I love the way you can’t be racist if your dad is black 🤍
@@danbasford7456 THIS makes it perfect.
How horrible of that mother that was letting her kids destroy artwork. She has no respect or regard for someone’s hard work. That’s no way to teach children respect Those wings were beautiful. I hope she was held accountable.
does anyone know if she was?
I know right? I almost cried.
The museum would not say when asked if there was consequences. It was in Shanghai, so it's possible.
Filmed it as well! Probably put it on social media thinking she would get likes. Hopefully she was caught and was made pay for the destruction.
I was a stepmom in my 20s & I loved that little boy so much! My whole family did. I worked a lot to help give him a great life. I'll never forget, one day, a coworker said to me "I don't know why you work so much to help support that kid. He's not even yours." I cannot imagine going through life be as selfish as that person. I cannot have kids, so I cherished every second I had with him.
I found so weird when people act like step parents shouldn’t see the step kids as their ow…In my country the health insurance’s are legally forced to accept kids and step kids of the employees of the companies who hire the insurance, once I heard some coworkers complaining that was absurd the step kids were covered and parents of the employees were not. Of course the employees would like to have their parents covered as well, but I don’t find illogical that minor step kids are covered by law, because they are suppose to be treat as they were biologically kids of who raise them…I don’t understand why people value only genetics that much.
I know I'm not the only one mad about the park ranger. He won his lawsuits against them! "Whistleblower in Snyder tree case moves on to a new job, wins settlement with park service"
Thanks for saving me the Google search
That's wonderfull. I was sad about him.
Oh this is soooo good! I was so angry at the entitlement and abuse of monetary power of some people, I'm so happy he won! Thanks for the info!
Sadly, this also happened: A former National Park Service official who improperly helped Washington Redskins owner Daniel Snyder cut down more than 130 trees to improve a river view at his Potomac, Md., estate has been chosen by the Trump administration to be one of the agency’s highest-ranking leaders.
@@therealjetlag thank goodness that Cheeto puff didn't get reelected. My God, that poor ranger who actually loves and cares about protecting nature.
I can never understand those stepparents that refuse to see their partner's child(ren) as human beings that deserve the same love and respect as their biological children. If you see the child as subhuman or if you see them as competition... If you resent the child for their existence, you don't continue the relationship with their parent. You don't put a child through that, it messes with their mental health to the point that they will believe that something is wrong with them that they cannot be loved or are not deserving of love.
There is a case that bothers me... It was discussed on a podcast called Suffer the Children (or a similar name) where a stepmother smothered her little stepdaughter because she was jealous that the bio dad (stepmom's SO) doted on his little girl. The thing is that this little girl's mom had died and she had looked up to and trusted her stepmom who had put on a show at first of actually living and caring for her before she killed her. This sort of thing can be avoided by the person getting out of the relationship with their SO who has a child... Why continue a relationship with somebody if you hate their child?
It's really horrible but if she was sneeky enough it's possible her SO didn't even know how much she hated her stepdaughter.
I wasn't raised by my stepmother but she didn't like treated me different than her bio kids etc. And it really did have an affect on me. Because of the way she treated me I ended up feeling very insignificant, and burden, and just not good enough. I still sturggle with feeling that way and I can't imagine how much worse it could have been if I was raised by and lived with my dad and stepmother. I was only with them every other weekend and 6 extra weeks during the summer but it really did affect me. My stepmother probably would have wanted to Photoshop both my sister and I out photos if we had any family photos. Heck even though she's better now got therapy and got to the bottom of why she acted so horrible to me and sister. She and my dad still have very few picture of me up around their house and a ton of her kids and my dad and her's kid and other family members. So I notice that and still hurts sometimes
My stepfather treated me like trash. I was always called racist and horrible things (Im asian and hes white) I was basically the house maid to my mother's new family. I've wanted to kill myself since 12years old.
I'm just getting in the way of my mother's new family.
@@lucielafai It gets better. Once you are old enough to move out, you can choose who your family is and it is really awesome to get to surround yourself with people you love and who love you back. Hang in there.
It is far more f'ed up that the biological parent is ignoring how their child is being treated because they don't want to be alone.
A a psychological study I read a long time ago about these people.
From my understanding some step parents show such terrible attitude because they have either insecurity issues either have a very possessive nature. They usually project those feelings onto the step kid, because the step kid is a reminder that their significant other had a serious romantic past they were not part of.
They treat that child as a potential treat to their happy ending. Either because it ruins their imaginary picture perfect family image, or they think their spouse may go back to their previous relationship since they have something significat to return to, or they are just very jealous an "outsider" is getting the same love they deem only they deserve.
What I question the most is why is the biological parent even accepting such actions? I always think the parent in question deep down regrets their previous life choices so they indirectly look for excuses to no longer be part of the kid's life now they have a "second chance".
I'm also a very proud stepmom. That is completely horrible. My happiest day was when he called me mom completely all his choice. I cried soooo many happy tears. Stepmoms and stepdads rejoice!
Oh, that's so cute!!
Did anyone else notice that the last lady said, “My little nephew is Italian, Mexican and Aloha”?! Wow that’s a new one. As if she couldn’t get anymore ignorant 🤦🏼♀️
What’s next? “I’m not racist. My brother is Irish, Floridian and Adiós!” 😒
I was actually about to write something about that XDD T.T
Irish, Floridian and Adiós 😂 😂 😂 😂
Which is slightly related to Norwegian, Texan and Órale 😂
I can't with these people for real. It's not that difficult to educate yourself, but I guess they choose to be assholes
I know! I was like 'did she just say Aloha???' 💀💀🤣
this made me feel a little bit better. i hope the dispatcher on the phone was like "yeaaaah ma'am, an officer is coming to arrest you rn. just hang tight, k?" xD would have been a winner for me
I cant imagine the heartbreak those kids would feel to know their stepmother had them photoshopped out of the pictures.... they'll feel like an outcast in their own home
They probably already have a sense it, unfortunately...
Women like that shouldn't be allowed to have kids at all Bio, Step, Foster or Adopted
The kids already do i promise you. The fact they felt comfortable even asking tells you what kind of step parent they are. Total Garbage.
My heart dropped seeing someone actually went through with photoshoping that baby boy out of the picture, and my heart dropped even lower seeing the step mom has it as her Facebook profile. Just goes to show how much she does not care for him. And if I were the husband I'd leave her so fast. She's rotten.
That mom photo shopping her stepson was horrifying. As a child who's parents are divorced and I haven't seen my dad in 9 years, I hope everyone has a stepfather/stepparent as amazing as mine that accepted me no matter what.
Oh I'd like to think that putting the halloween footage online would get that kid in trouble, but the fact a 9 or 10 year old thought not only to take the entire bowl but then flip off the camera, makes me think they aren't getting any proper discipline at home.
I feel like he knew who he was taking the sweets from, like he was taking revenge or something.
Unfortunately I wouldn't be surprised if the parents actually encouraged his behavior.
Makes me think that he’s being neglected and/or abused at home. That’s what causes this kind of behavior. He’s an angry kid
Meh, looked staged.
His parents would probably bail him out
That's horrific, that someone just looked a wheelchair user in the eye and then stole his crate of water because he couldn't chase him.
I'm astounded... That's like watching a short elderly lady having difficulty getting the only top shelf item, and then taking that top shelf item and walking off. Just fucking cruel.
Then he got hit by a car, that’s asking for bad karma to come at you
The dude getting his pizzas kicked has way more self control than I do. I would've thrown hands as a reflexive response to that bs
I would have too! That was unnecessary and rude!!!
Same. I would hit both women and tossed the phones
I'm a bonus mom, not a stepmom. I'd never do this to my "step" kids. There's nothing wrong with getting photos with each child individually but to have them removed from a photo is completely effed.
I like this idea if she needed to do something for her extended family. I personally would never have removed him either, and why in the one is he sitting so far away??
I only get my step kids every other weekend. I treasure our pictures and miss them terribly. My bio kids are same way. It's so hard being a blended family, they need time with their bio mom too though.
I am always suspicious of anyone who supposedly cannot love a non biological child "the same." That's's not love in my book that is wanting or needing to be ruled by hormones. Rats are better parents than that. 😒
Cute I know someone who calls their stepchildren their bonus kids I find it adorable.
I'm 36 and have infertility issues and my fiancee has 2 boys and I have fallen in love with them. Miss them everyday they are gone. Get em for 1 weekend a month. The oldest is 16 and the youngest is 13 and I'm glad to have them in my life. Been watching them grow up the last 5 years with my nieces and nephews and its been an amazing experience. I can't imagine being this callous. Sad thing is I see this shunning behavior in grown adults more than I should.
The dude getting the pizzas kicked out of his hands; I feel so bad for him.
But it reminded me of when I was in the 6th grade. I was bullied and picked on pretty bad. One day we were waiting to be let into the classroom after lunch. It had rained and one of the popular girls swung her leg back to kick one of those big red balls at me. The ball was in a good sized mud puddle. When she swung her leg forward her foot connected with the ball but her leg kept going. Then her other foot slipped and she landed flat on her back in the mud puddle. 🤣🤣🤣 Karma took her out. And the ball missed me too. 🤣🤣🤣
Moral of the story? Don't be a jackass.
If I was this guy, I would have picked up the pizzas and threw them into those stupid girls faces. Sometime, I'm ashamed being a girl....
@@yazdhenab. Lol I was just thinking about doing that too
I'm so happy for you!! ❤
Score!!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@yazdhenab. Don't be ashamed, there are always foul eggs in the barn.
I'm a stepmom of a 10 year old boy and after my husband, he's the best thing that has ever happened to me. His mom on the other hand is the kind of mom who photoshops him out of pictures and only wants kids with her boyfriend... no kid deserves that kind of treatment, but at least his dad and I are here for him❤️
If someone kicked my pizza for no reason, I’d pick the boxes back up.
And then throw the pizza at the person who kicked it and the people who laughed. I would be so angry. That behavior, in my opinion, is unacceptable.
Nobody messes with my food.
The package delivery system in other countries really confuses me. It looks almost like an invite to steal packages from someone's porch.
Delivery drivers will come up to your door to personally hand you the package in my country. If you happen to be away from home, your package gets dropped off at a pick-up point, usually located in a store nearby. You need to show ID or order confirmation to pick up your package. This way, packages never get stolen :D
Yeah I find it strange too.
You have to sign a waiver to have them just leave it, because you know we're too busy to go to a drop off point.
Same... I lived in the states for 2 years and when they delivered packages, they always put them in between that little fly-net-door and the real actual door and i was always sooo baffled that they d do that... Like... Literally anyone can come and take that?! We lived in a relatively good neighborhood but still... Mind boggling
Yeah, I'm genuinely not sure if it's a bad thing or not. You hear about porch pirates and stuff like that driver who steal stuff but I've never had anything stolen from my porch and I've never heard from anyone in real life who had it happen either. It obviously does happen but I wonder how prevalent it actually is, do I just live in a weirdly theft-free place? Is it something that gets talked about way more than it happens? No idea. I mostly wish there was a way to do a "dont deliver if not home" on truly irreplaceable packages and have them leave the rest, because when I have had to go pick something up it was always the dumbest, most easily replaceable things and really important/expensive things got left on the porch.
in my country all parcels go to pick up points or lockers (you get a text with the code to the locker) if delivered by the post and home delivery is really expensive. courier companies deliver home generally but even they won't leave parcels unattended, they just try to re-deliver the next day or take it to a pick up point. i imagine our weather conditions play a part, you can't really leave parcels outside to -20C weather. the fact that in america parcels are just left outside freaks me out too :D
With the lady calling the cops on the Hispanic dude, hurts my heart. Imagine someone talking about you like this. Imagine knowing people hate you because of what you can't change.
I sure hope the police used a taser to remove the disorderly person behind that truck...
Honestly so sad
Also her saying "my dad is black". Not only might that be a total lie but anyone can be racist to anyone, even their own race. I've had black friends that have been excluded from market stalls because they weren't black enough. I've known white people being racist towards other white people.
That's everyday life for people who don't fit others standards as normal
I felt so bad for the dude getting the pizzas kicked out of his hand by that disrespectful little twat. Not gonna lie had he or some female friend hauled off and slapped her I would have looked the other way. She should have to pay for every single one
She would've been blessed with these hands. 🥊 🥊
just a suggestion: sometimes it"s ok to hit a woman
Bet she'd've called the cops if she got smacked up
She felt way too comfortable doing that. Some individuals would've buried her alive under the picnic table.
@@phobos_0935 Yeah, no, it is NOT. Ever.
8:20 Omg I feel terrible for the guy with the pizza I get terrible empathy so this makes me want to cry
That lady at the end that is severely ignorant to how racist she is being makes me so sad. We have to share the planet with people like THAT?! 🤯
These people are not ignorant, they are malicious.
@@Max-fr6ny They are all Malicious, yes but the point of my comment was that the lady featured at the end of the video is ignorant as all hell and thinks that because her dad is black she can't be racist 🙄 it's upsetting that people think like this
I honestly don't think her dad is black either, I think she's full of it and says shit like that to defend her awful bigotry.
@@craftycatqueen5531 I totally agree!
What lady…?
I’m 38 and my eldest stepdaughter (21) just immigrated from Mexico. We visited my parents out of state and actually set up family photos with her. A fun little modern family-her dad and I, her, my parents (whom she never met), and their dog. I’m blowing up a photo and hanging it on our wall, and so are my parents! Love her. The more the merrier, I say!
My older sister was a single mum and unfortunately passed away 2 years ago. My twin sister and her husband adopted her kid (my nephew) and have always treated him like their own! Mad respect to my brother-in-law for treating my nephew like his own son. The 2 are now best buds! That stepmother who had the kid removed is disgusting!
As a step daughter to a wonderful stepfather I can say my stepfather was so proud of me he took pictures at everything I was involved in even my wedding because he was afraid the photographer would miss something. Those 2 women are horrible.
I remember hearing about that lady that called on the guy she thought "looked illegal". I think she got charged for a false police report or something. That B was definitely crazy.
0 self-awareness or self-preservation.
There's a reason the C.A.R.E.N act exist. Deal with false reports that are race related. I can't recall where it was, I think CA but could be wrong. (Edit: I looked it up, it was in San Francisco. So I did have the right state.)
@@Excalibur-Sonic Yep, San Francisco. It "gives people the right to sue a 911 caller in civil court." Good!
I feel so bad for those stepsons! When my dad got primary care of 6-year-old me and my 2-year-old brother, we moved in with him and my stepmom. We called her by her first name because our mother was still involved in our lives, but she basically started parenting us right away. When my first little (half) sister came along and began learning to talk a year or so later, my brother and I started calling my stepmom "Mom", since my little sister had started calling her by her first name as well! A second little sister and 27 years later, we've had our typical mother-daughter differences, but I've never felt like my mom thinks of my brother or I as any different from or less than her two "biological" daughters. Whenever she introduces us, it's as her children. She likes to say that she got a "starter family kit" when she met my dad. Love you, Mom!
I'm concerned the kids that broke the glass sculpture weren't even let off with a warning. That's straight up vandalism and that mom didn't even stop them.
I would have sued her had I been that artist. Sued her for every penny that she had so she had no choice but to give up her kids so someone else could raise them better
It's not the kids fault though. They seems pretty small and probably never got taught any boundaries... And if my mom stood there filming me s a kid I would assume what I'm doing is funny. The mom on the other hand is fully responsible and shlould be charged....
the security video appears to be displayed next to the (now destroyed) artwork now.
Seems like the guy who kicked over the pizza boxes immediately positioned his face perfectly for a nice kick. Gotta wish that opportunity had been taken advantage of.
Does anyone else have a lot of respect for the guy in his car who defended the man in the last video against the racist Karen? That guy is who we all need to aspire to be.
But even he couldn't get her to put the phone down or shut up. We all need anti-Karen laws ASAP!
Yesssss, 💯
No one is exempt from being racist. It’s literally judging someone of another color or ethnicity than and treating them with hatred that’s raciest. It doesn’t matter if you daddy’s brothers girlfriend cousin on her mamas side is the same as the person you’re being hateful to, it just probably means that they don’t like you because of your backhanded comments and facebook posts.
Hfs that racist woman is something else!
Edit: I was told once, years ago, by two black women , I'm white, that I was racist. I asked what I had done, as I hadn't said a word to them. They said I was following them. They had taken the better part of half an hour to talk and walk, slooooooowly, towards the exit of the store. I was just going one register at a time, counting money, according to the lil sheet I had to follow. I said nothing, just wrote numbers down, and I was screamed at by these women cuz they ain't never stolen nothing in they life and neither their mama nor their mama's mama has neither! Umm, okay 👌
Well put, Lyndsy. Thank you. This should go in the dictionary to define it. Show this to EVERY racist (ESPECIALLY those who think they are not racist). :)
@@ashley_smith I have also been screamed at for being racist, because I was asking questions, in order to make SURE that I never did anything that came close to looking like a racist. Imagine that.
I like to show respect to people on an individual basis unless/ until they prove themselves unworthy of respect. So much for trying to do things the right way.
@@jamescurfman3284 What were the questions you asked?
Pretty sure she was in California so would have to check the statutes to be certain buuut; in just about any state in the union when a citizen removes someone's freedom of movement, blocks them in, prevents them from freely going about their way they could be charged with crimes in the kidnapping portion of the code. Gotta be careful out there Karen.
"It's your fault that you didn't inquire."
... lady, are you telling me that, if he'd outright asked "Am I the father?" That you wouldn't have gone off-the-deepend pissed at him?
Charlotte your life is so much happier and fulfilled than those bullies who probably peaked in middle school!
Just a week ago I had someone steal all of my IV medicine that was delivered (it was just fluids and potassium, but I needed it). I was so upset. Stop taking what’s not yours people, you never know if it something super important! Those poor parents, and the sad thing is they most likely tossed the clothes the family needed.
I'm an 81 year old disabled woman. I can't tell you how many times I've been mistreated by society. Society is getting worse. I can tell you this with absolute certainty.
Yes it is.
Be super careful out there!❣
I'm so sorry. I absolutely hate it when people are cruel to the elderly or disabled. I hope you have a Merry Christmas or Hanukkah this year!
Seeing stepmoms treating step kids like that while my husband said for Christmas "It would not really be Christmas cuz your son will not be with us". I AM BLESSED 😂
I want to hug all the kids whose step mothers asked for them to be taken from the photos! You are wonderful amazing kids"
When you spoke about bullying it broke my heart. I was a bullied kid and now, coming up on seventy years old, it still burns when I recall that time in my life. I’m sorry you were bullied in middle school and I thank you for speaking up about it.
I was bullied in middle school, too, and for no reason. I'm in my late 20s and still think about it.
I know what you mean. I am 43 now, I was 10 till 12 when I was bullied and when I think about it....still a black deep hole that will never really heals.
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