Corey Feldman: They Abused Me, I Learned to Forgive

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  • Опубліковано 6 лют 2025
  • Corey Feldman (The Goonies, Stand By Me, The Lost Boys) opens up about his abusive childhood, grappling with the deaths of so many of his friends, and his spirituality. He discusses what he remembers from his early days of acting, why he wishes he had the option to say no to fame, and the abuse he suffered at the hands of his predators and his own parents. Corey reflects on the healing nature of being a parent, how his life has changed since finding sobriety, and the thought patterns he uses to achieve forgiveness for those who have hurt him. He explains being of service as a form of therapy, his love of philosophy, and the exchange of energy he experiences during his performances.
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  • @koolaid3816
    @koolaid3816 2 роки тому +1166

    I have a great Corey Feldman story, of how he was very protective over me when I was 15 at a hollywood collectors show. This was the late 90’s. My sister was the manager of a hotel they were holding it at. I was asked if I would want to take money for Corey. I was a very naive 15 year old. I wore a probably not very appropriate dress. I went into his hotel room to get him. He was so nice and right if the bat was such a gentleman. Then I spent the weekend taking money for him from the fans that were buying memorabilia. There was going to be a party at one of the celebrities homes ( or hotel idk) to watch Vincent prices House of Wax as one of the stars from that movie was there. Some of the older actors had made inappropriate remarks aboit me, and asking if I was going to this party, was Corey taking me to this party. He told them all no I certainly wasn’t. Corey very nicely said to me basically yoi are a very nice young girl, you don’t have any business going , it will only be trouble for you. Take a look at my life and keep being good, don’t do drugs don’t get into trouble. You are too nice of a person fur all that. Will always love him , a true gentleman honestly. Looking back that weekend could have gone very differently

    • @nickcc2003
      @nickcc2003 Рік тому +35

      Well if it's a true story that's great

    • @koolaid3816
      @koolaid3816 Рік тому +87

      @@nickcc2003 you know I wish I could find pictures from that weekend! Oddly enough 2 years later Corey Haim did that same show, and I didn’t help him out but I did go and get pictures with him because my sister still helped run the event. I have that picture! But not any with Corey Feldman and I really had the best time with him ❤️

    • @dubyabalthazar4598
      @dubyabalthazar4598 Рік тому +52

      Oh wow...wut a lovely story. Very heartwarming to hear as a mother❤

    • @michele36618
      @michele36618 Рік тому +44

      Yes things could have gone very differently. Looking back at things I’ve said the same thing about things I’ve done. I’m so glad he was there to watch out for you ! Sounds like a genuine guy

    • @loveme77527
      @loveme77527 Рік тому +46

      Tbh, he saved you!❤

  • @kirkoglesby6175
    @kirkoglesby6175 2 роки тому +226

    Last year at the age of 49 I finally opened up about my abuse as a child. It started at age 6 and didn't end until I was 16. The physical and mental abuse ended last. Molestation ended a few years before. The crazy part is I had a career as a Soldier of over 15 years. I wanted to protect others in ways I never was. Healing and love to all.

    • @jadeariellevaughn4695
      @jadeariellevaughn4695 Рік тому +9

      Thank you kirk

    • @shilorich4646
      @shilorich4646 Рік тому +9

      I am so happy that you have come to terms with your pain and faced those demons head on because that's how you triumph over them. Thank you for your service, hero.

    • @kirkoglesby6175
      @kirkoglesby6175 Рік тому +5

      Thank yall as well.

    • @tamirule4216
      @tamirule4216 Рік тому +6

      Thank you Kirk ,for your service and for breaking the cycle ❤

    • @sweigh72
      @sweigh72 Рік тому +4

      As a survivor of familial childhood sexual abuse I wanted to send you love and healing. I too have gone into a career as a Proffesionaly Qualified Youth Worker to protect young people. It took me a long time to get to a place where I feel safe within my own life and relationship but I go there. Take Care peace and love from the UK ❤️xx

  • @yeahright3733
    @yeahright3733 2 роки тому +519

    He seems genuinely sober and at peace. Child abuse is horrific.

    • @buttlord4204
      @buttlord4204 Рік тому

      He's not been sober at all in a loooong time, if he's ever been.
      His bandmates say that no, he doesn't drink. But pills, and powders, he's got them coming out his eyeballs.
      Cocaine, opiates, benzos...
      They said he is addicted to 4-5 substances... He doesn't pay them, doesn't pay for hotels for them in tour, refuses to hire loaders/unloaders, and forces the girls to do all this work - none of which he helps with - because all his $$$ goes up his nose or down his throat, in pill 💊 form

    • @Willdaman1975
      @Willdaman1975 Рік тому

      This guy is garbage he wants people to give him 10 million really . He loves people worshipping him

    • @Sophia-x4q
      @Sophia-x4q 8 місяців тому

      These human being people keep labeling 'child' have biological need evident in their ability produce sperm. My question is if they are too young to fak then why is their body doing that? They can't fak girls their age (12yrs plus) or grown women bcos that will be using a woman as a masturbation device to dump his garbage. So...

    • @mori-7090
      @mori-7090 7 місяців тому

      Reading up on him I unfortunately found out he ended up becoming an abuser himself. Go look up "Corey's Angels"

    • @MichelleKenyon15
      @MichelleKenyon15 12 днів тому

  • @BPR20231
    @BPR20231 6 місяців тому +40

    When the MeToo movement happened and the newest documentary “Quiet on Set” was released, I remember thinking Corey Feldman has been screaming this about Hollywood forever! Directors, producers, agents so many that poison this entertainment industry! Such a real human after all the adversity! Great interview

  • @tamara2176
    @tamara2176 2 роки тому +656

    Thank you for holding the kind of space for Corey that not many others have been able to hold. For a man who has been publicly pigeonholed and scrutinized for as long as most of your listeners have been alive, both you and Jonathan have built the kind of container that folks like Corey can drop into and be immediately seen as Human (with a capital H), fallible, and lovely, all at the same time. I'm 47 years old and so I had optics into Corey's life on film as he made them, which I loved and enjoyed. As a latch-key kid with the TV constantly on, I would watch all of my favorite movies on cable after school. Through The Lost Boys, Goonies, and License To Drive, Corey felt like the cool older brother that I wish I had. Much later when the gossip mags and media decided that he was irrelevant, I fell into the trappings of letting the media's sinister narrative smudge my views on him - which is a shame because after he courageously came out with his story, it was received by some as a cash grab at fame again. The system failed him tremendously and crippled our ability to see beyond the forced narrative that had been thrust under our noses. If he were our friend or family member, we would have been 100% on his side. As it happens, I actually had the pleasure of sitting next to Corey last year while I was on the job photographing one of his favorite guitarists at the Whisky A Go Go from the balcony. I was too shy to say hello, but I was nonetheless in awe of sitting next to someone who against insurmountable odds, faced many a dark night of the soul and now lives as a beacon of hope for others who have experienced similar traumas. Thanks again, Mayim and Jonathan!

  • @vanitycalamity2195
    @vanitycalamity2195 2 роки тому +529

    Mayim, this is the most respectful, intelligent, thoughtful interview I've ever seen Corey involved in. ❤️. He has so much to say and sadly, seldom times is he allowed to even finish a thought before he's rudely treated.
    Thank you for being kind.

    • @tamirule4216
      @tamirule4216 Рік тому +3

      Greatest ❤

    • @DeathCultMurphy
      @DeathCultMurphy Рік тому

      Well kinda. As soon as he brings up abuse she spins the convo 180 to some other stuff! I got a bit of a shill for Hollywood vybe. Am I missing something?

    • @eddierascalhaskell4954
      @eddierascalhaskell4954 Рік тому +1

      @@Timboyxxx Watch a few videos where he's not being interviewed...it becomes a whole lot clearer the type of wretched soul Corey Feldman is.

    • @Timboyxxx
      @Timboyxxx Рік тому

      @@eddierascalhaskell4954 Yeah but... That wretchedness was put inside him by abusers.. Although I didnt know there was this apparent side to him.. Hes obviously quite strange.. What is an example of his wretchedness?

    • @eddierascalhaskell4954
      @eddierascalhaskell4954 Рік тому +7

      Theres way too much to list here. I suggest looking around UA-cam, specifically videos by Bobby Wolfe and interviews with Scott Schwartz. They arent hard to find.

  • @williamirwin4154
    @williamirwin4154 2 роки тому +95

    I met Corey Feldman at a Starbucks in Oklahoma City and he graciously took a photo with me and my family. I posted it on Facebook with great joy and every year when it pops up on my memories, we celebrate Corey Feldman Day. I don't remember what day it is and I never know when it's coming. It's a joyful surprise every year. Edit: it just happened! June 10th

  • @liveloveresell2886
    @liveloveresell2886 2 роки тому +326

    My heart aches for Corey. He didn’t ask to be famous or to be the voice for abused children. Having your name synonymous with such a tragic narrative must be such a tough weight to carry day after day. The fact that he has the strength to keep fighting and be so gracious to others and have such a warm and welcoming heart shows there are beautiful souls in this world. He was an amazing guest and appreciated that you gave him a safe space to be honest and candid❤

    • @maximusprime3459
      @maximusprime3459 2 роки тому +18

      Haim never asked to be violated by Fraudman's best friend either...

    • @maximusprime3459
      @maximusprime3459 2 роки тому +8

      @@blue-calla Fraudman's best friend was Dominic Brascia. He assaulted Corey Haim...its weird that I actually have to spell it out but...clearly you're on the spectrum, and its difficult to use hand puppets in a situation like this...maybe you'd comprehend it more clearly that way.

    • @blue-calla
      @blue-calla 2 роки тому +2

      @@maximusprime3459 wrong. Haim was Feldman’s best friend. Perhaps if you Iearned how to fact-check, you wouldn’t trigger yourseIf as often and throw temper tantrums on YT. Lol.

    • @malkaz9167
      @malkaz9167 2 роки тому +7

      @@blue-calla Why is a put down necessary?

    • @blue-calla
      @blue-calla 2 роки тому

      @@malkaz9167 facts don’t care about your feelings. Being that you’re also triggered by facts, you should get with the commenter above to Iearn to cope.

  • @janetlucas2343
    @janetlucas2343 2 роки тому +731

    The industry owes Corey a HUGE apology. He is a Super hero.

    • @chrisloftness5276
      @chrisloftness5276 2 роки тому +14

      That's funny.

    • @janetlucas2343
      @janetlucas2343 2 роки тому

      @@Xfhcgnjffhjmjvfg What does that have to do with pedo's raping?

    • @janetlucas2343
      @janetlucas2343 2 роки тому

      @@chrisloftness5276 Being raped by pedo's is hilarious.

    • @Xfhcgnjffhjmjvfg
      @Xfhcgnjffhjmjvfg 2 роки тому +1

      @@janetlucas2343 He has women who are down and out on their luck and want to be famous living with him and controls everything they do down to what they wear and eat. They must have sex with him. Look it up yourself. Check out his rules that these 20 something young girls have to abide. He himself is a sexual predator.

    • @chrisloftness5276
      @chrisloftness5276 2 роки тому

      @@janetlucas2343 You thinking that nut job is some kind of super hero is funny.

  • @sreneethomas
    @sreneethomas Рік тому +10

    Can we just talk about how great Corey F looks for his age!! I grew up with Corey, and keep forgetting his age. But I thought about it in this interview and then thought wow! He looks great!

  • @MzTeddyluv
    @MzTeddyluv 2 роки тому +159

    That was a good episode. I've followed Corey for many years being an 80s kid myself, and I obviously don't know what goes on behind closed doors, but this is the most "healthy" he's appeared to be in a very long time - and that honestly makes me feel relieved and grateful. I also really appreciated his views, his spirituality, and as always, his honesty. I hope his life continues on a positive trajectory

  • @nicolemeece9485
    @nicolemeece9485 2 роки тому +164

    I'm an addict who is in early sobriety and therapy and group therapy and I just released so many tears listening to Corey and it just grabbed my soul and reached my heart deeply because I could relate to so much yet he gave me so much hope that I never had seen before. It was a Godsent that I watched Mayim's podcast today. God bless you guys🙏♥️

    • @indigo-twin8459
      @indigo-twin8459 Рік тому +10

      May I wish you strength and love and light on your journey. Congratulations on starting your sober journey. You aren't alone, and you got this!
      ~ Indigo-Twin/Hales

    • @willfade7994
      @willfade7994 Рік тому +7

      God bless you. Never give up! The world is your oyster. You can do it.
      🌹

    • @GirlMomma
      @GirlMomma Рік тому +5

      You got this battle, my friend! I just know it, you've got this! You are so strong, And you are more than worth it! ❤

    • @phillyjilly
      @phillyjilly Рік тому +4

      Keep going, u can do this!!!!!!

    • @Tricia2023
      @Tricia2023 Рік тому +4

      Being 15 years clean and sober myself what I can tell you is… You got this ! First and foremost Learn to deal with all your emotions as they arise good and bad Tell the devil when it comes knocking or your drug of choice comes knocking to F@&k Off ! and take one day at a time ! Life is amazing being clean and sober even the worst days clean are way better than my best day high and thats the Gods honest truth 🙏❤️🙏 God Bless you !

  • @madonnapoco3881
    @madonnapoco3881 2 роки тому +70

    I had a huge crush on Corey Feldman and Corey Haim. Their posters were all over my room. I have followed his story closely and my heart breaks for what he has gone through. I am so glad to see him so healthy and doing so well. He is so eloquent and intelligent and it does my heart good to see him thriving.

  • @conversationswithkat5710
    @conversationswithkat5710 2 роки тому +79

    I’m so proud of Corey! No one wants to hear this stuff, but they NEED to hear this stuff, because it’s still happening, and we need to protect our children.

    • @eddierascalhaskell4954
      @eddierascalhaskell4954 Рік тому

      Futt Corey Fraudman

    • @HoldenNY22
      @HoldenNY22 Місяць тому +1

      I think because the Abuse of Men is taken less seriously than the abuse of Woman. Also, probably because it was Gay Sexual Abuse that is not allowed to be talked about because of the Power of the LGBT Community.

  • @toriphillips7045
    @toriphillips7045 2 роки тому +148

    Oh my gosh, I was literally thinking about how awesome it would be to have Corey on the show! I was rewatching "The Lost Boys" and thinking about how great he was as a child actor, especially in "Stand By Me", my favorite coming-of-age movie of all time. My favorite parts were definitely you two discussing child stardom at that time, his philosophy to let go of grudges that hurt you rather than the people who hurt you, and the way he raised his son. I'm so excited that he was able to talk about his experiences. Thank you so much!

    • @jenniferedwards9005
      @jenniferedwards9005 2 роки тому +8

      Same. I was just thinking the other day how she should have him on.. it'd be a great interview. And it was.

    • @darlenesaldana6665
      @darlenesaldana6665 2 роки тому +4

      Me too. Interesting.

    • @lauriethomas4145
      @lauriethomas4145 2 роки тому +2

      Me too!

    • @lisamariealaniz7538
      @lisamariealaniz7538 2 роки тому +1

      Truth I agree 💯

    • @angelisa368
      @angelisa368 2 роки тому +5

      You manifested him! Me too! I’ve been thinking lately, where’s Corey Feldman these days. And here he is!❤

  • @DANCERHYTHMEVOLUTION
    @DANCERHYTHMEVOLUTION Рік тому +17

    As a 1982 child, I have to say I did grow up on all Coery's movies. It is so sad what he went through as a child actor. Thank God for him getting sober and him having a chance to have a very healthy family.
    I will pray for him continue his life as he has other things left to do on the earth.

  • @taras6578
    @taras6578 2 роки тому +67

    This is one of my favourite episodes. He looks really healthy and I was quite impressed with how articulate and intelligent he was. Loved the dynamic of the three of you guys talking.

  • @fbueller
    @fbueller Рік тому +22

    It’s so refreshing to see a long form interview where Corey sounds rational and sane! So many of the short media clips featuring Corey over the last decade have made him look crazy! Thank you for this, Mayim and Jonathan!

  • @troods8110
    @troods8110 2 роки тому +118

    For some reason, whenever I have seen Corey, since a young kid, he's always had this sweet, almost innocent aura about him. His smile, his eyes, have always told a story. It's very sad what they all went through. I understand having to forgive. Forgiveness is really bloody hard! Grief, anger, holding onto grudges.. who does that hurt? Forgiveness isn't for the person or persons that hurt you, it's for your own healing. I have so much respect for him.

  • @n.l.vannstallings4664
    @n.l.vannstallings4664 Рік тому +33

    God bless this man. He's put himself out there, so vulnerable, in order to shed light on the industry.

  • @highlander723
    @highlander723 2 роки тому +160

    It was an absolute crime what happened to him and a lot of other child actors. there was no justice for him none at all. He may have forgiven people but I haven't and it's times like this I really wish the punisher was a real person.

    • @lounakin
      @lounakin 2 роки тому +15

      I hate the fact that I enjoyed his work so much back then without knowing what was going on. It feels so exploitative!

    • @angelaholmes8888
      @angelaholmes8888 2 роки тому +10

      Corey is truly a good person to forgive those who hurt him but I definitely never will

    • @OnederfulHealing
      @OnederfulHealing 2 роки тому +6

      I understand the forgiveness perspective and how it frees a person to love others more than I knew was possible, and to allow myself to be loved like I never knew was possible.
      The way it started for me was by first forgiving myself. The way I have spoken to myself my entire life has been so abusive. I didn't know how to love myself. The first step was to forgive myself and tell my little child self that she was innocent. And then to change how I speak to myself. Because I deserve better.
      After I did that, without even trying...I just suddenly realized that my resentments were dissipating.
      To be fair, I was also doing other spiritual things. I've been having a spiritual awakening over the past several years. But I had been very stuck in this. And the very important key steps were forgiving myself so I could start loving myself.
      I send love and light to all of you. 🕊️🧘🏻‍♀️🤟💜🌻🥰

    • @paulan7218
      @paulan7218 2 роки тому +5

      @@angelaholmes8888 pretty sure Cory realizes that forgiveness is for yourself not for the perpetrator

    • @anthonyrickdelight
      @anthonyrickdelight 2 роки тому

      @@paulan7218 Hello

  • @proudmarinemomma827
    @proudmarinemomma827 2 роки тому +54

    I was a 70’s kid and so grew up watching Corey. Well, Corey and Corey ❤. He’s a survivor and has turned out to be a great man and survived the awful childhood and what he had to endure. For those who claim he’s lying; no one comes out with those kind of traumas and wants to be scrutinized by it. He’s been able to tell his truth and bring awareness to it. Education and awareness is what helps others to heal and to help prevent these situations. Adults looking out for children, is a necessity in this world. We have to protect and speak out against the evil; otherwise it won’t stop.

    • @nightwing1984
      @nightwing1984 Рік тому +1

      Thing is, he puts more emphasis on Corey Haim's abuse than his own. Nobody seems to see that.
      I sympathize with whatever abuse he endured but he keeps that vague. Also, it doesnt help that he never admits that he set Haim up with TWO of his abusers, then claims Haim was a WILLING participant of his own abuse.
      Make it make sense.

    • @JordanS215
      @JordanS215 Рік тому +1

      ​​​​@@nightwing1984Everyone sees it, but its ridiculously obvious why.
      His BFF is dead, as a result of child sexual torture,, and can't speak up for himself. How hard is that to understand?
      Your comment shows that you don't understand how children being sexually abused can behave. Smh Haims' behavior was text book,

    • @armcollector5856
      @armcollector5856 7 місяців тому +1

      ​@@JordanS215well.... is it hard to understand that they were not bf's? They didn't like each other & that's a known fact on each part so many interviews of both them saying it & why. Not to mention it wasn't for corey f. To speak on haims abuse when he asked him specifically not too. So go catch up on some facts before asking other ppl bout whatever u just said ( that is a lie ) also I'm a 70's baby & loved them both, I feel for Feldman's abuse but he don't really speak bout his abuse as much as he does bout his so called bf abuse!

    • @JordanS215
      @JordanS215 7 місяців тому

      @@armcollector5856 they were best friends but, even if they weren't, nothing you said changes the fact that how Haims' behavior was text book.
      Lol @ 70s baby... thanks I needed a laugh today.

    • @armcollector5856
      @armcollector5856 7 місяців тому

      @@JordanS215 either way I still have love for corey f. Loved him & haims movies, dream a little dream license to drive, wasn't trying to come off bad just saying they weren't best friends & I do feel bad for Feldman &, what he went through. Anyways hope u have a great day.

  • @robinedwards8796
    @robinedwards8796 2 роки тому +48

    I am in my mid-40s and grew up watching Corey Feldman (& Mayim). I LOVE THIS INTERVIEW!!! My favorite movie character of Corey's was when he was on The Burbs with Tom Hanks (I really hope Tom Hanks isn't one of those Hollywood pervs).
    I'm grateful for today's message of sobriety and health. Mental, emotional, social, and spiritual.
    Bless you.

    • @sherrylelee8274
      @sherrylelee8274 2 роки тому +7

      Unfortunately Tom Hanks is one of those people 😭

    • @Okie_GiGi
      @Okie_GiGi 2 роки тому +2

      Sad but true

    • @maximusprime3459
      @maximusprime3459 2 роки тому +2

      If Tom Hanks is "one of those people" put Corey in the same boat. Funny folks forget how he set up Haim.

    • @katherinemcdonnell6333
      @katherinemcdonnell6333 2 роки тому

      He didn't set anyone up. You people who keep saying this nonsense are just pathetic. But let's just say he did "set him up". He obviously didn't know what he was doing as he was just a kid and also being molested himself. I am sure his molesters also convinced him how "normal" it is. You have a small mind that only parrots propaganda and false media narratives.

    • @maximusprime3459
      @maximusprime3459 2 роки тому +2

      @@katherinemcdonnell6333 Haim said it himself. Feldman has tried profitting off his dead friend's story. If you don't like the truth, stop replying to my comments. Simple as that, you can even hold the insults since none were thrown in your direction to begin with.

  • @dianaf6333
    @dianaf6333 Рік тому +9

    I love how Mayim respected Corey and gave this gentleman a forum to talk. Thank you

  • @gloriamaurer1518
    @gloriamaurer1518 2 роки тому +153

    Corey seems so grounded and self aware. I love this about him. I loved hearing him talk about his son and how he allowed him the freedom to choose the life he wants to live while guiding him in making smart choices. Really good episode!

    • @eddierascalhaskell4954
      @eddierascalhaskell4954 Рік тому +7

      Nah, man

    • @sarahoshea9603
      @sarahoshea9603 Рік тому +6

      Self aware is not exactly how I'd describe him, especially considering his "music career" and recent media appearances. Either he still needs some real friends or still needs some awareness, I do hope he realizes that a person doesn't need the eyes of others for validation(that's not what you get).

  • @lb8012
    @lb8012 Рік тому +65

    As Mayim and colleague were praising Corey for his parenting, I really appreciate how Corey stopped to give his wife half the credit for raising their child together. That was a really sweet little moment.❤

  • @jmo7215
    @jmo7215 Рік тому +16

    Corey has the mindset of a survivor. I'm glad he spoke his truth and found peace. I am a survivor as well. These perpetrators need to be held accountable.

  • @hazelmaylebrun6243
    @hazelmaylebrun6243 2 роки тому +47

    Thanks for having Corey on. He seems very relaxed with you. I enjoyed this so much. I'm a survivor too and I have watched Corey and prayed for him and cheered for him, and I love seeing him overcome every curveball that the darkness has thrown at him.

  • @IntelligentQuotient-s6g
    @IntelligentQuotient-s6g 2 роки тому +14

    Everyone kinda loves Corey Feldman, they can't help it! He has been a part of the 80's world we all loved so much! Thanks Corey for all your hardworking throughout the years! You are appreciated. Keep being you!

  • @visualthinking
    @visualthinking 4 місяці тому +3

    I am so glad a clip from this brought me here for the full interview. Tabloid culture makes Feldman out to be a caricature. Holy crow! What a warm, giving, well-spoken man! So thankful for the time, space, and great questions Mayim and Jonathan extended to Corey. Time very well spent.

  • @dharmawannab
    @dharmawannab 2 роки тому +41

    How great it is to hear Corey speak so freely and honestly. Thanks for having him on the show. I have a lot of similarities to some things he has been through and was struck with how profound and eloquently he spoke about them.

  • @LourdesS
    @LourdesS Рік тому +13

    I don’t share many ideas with Mayim but I cannot take away how respectful and open she is to other’s stories and thoughts. Hats off! ❤

  • @marisamartinezolivera
    @marisamartinezolivera 2 роки тому +122

    This episode has moved me to tears. Happy ones for him, because after his struggles with drug addiction, alcoholism, beeing abused..even even with all the shadows around him, he’s a SURVIVOR, in caps, so brave to openly expose and learnt to forgive the horrendous child sexual abuse that seems is tragically common in entertainment industry as is sexism and sexual assault against women.
    And sad tears for me, remembering not so long ago when in front of the coffin of my brother after his suicide I melted in tears into the deepest and saddest hug of all my life with his childhood’s best friend, a brave man who had lost two brothers because heroin overdose..This episode..Broke my heart. Even after living in Europe, not being his age and barely known Corey before. Somehow this episode has left a very bitter taste and restlessness in me.

  • @sageflower2680
    @sageflower2680 2 роки тому +13

    I love listening to Corey Feldman. I am in my early 60's and remember those days. I have always admired him for being strong and speaking up. I have always thought he is intelligent and truthful. I think he would be an interesting person to hang with. His words has helped me with my recovery from abuse.

  • @judigearhart2517
    @judigearhart2517 2 роки тому +39

    I love that Corey has the philosophy to think and pray for others above yourself. I also believe that is the key to your own happiness.

  • @darrenmiller6927
    @darrenmiller6927 2 роки тому +23

    Lovely, absolutely beautiful! "The voice of one crying in the wilderness". Thank you, all 3, for your transparency. Ironic, Myìam and Corey grew up giving in the entertainment industry, healed and turned inward to heal, then turn around and serve us all on a much deeper level. I too suffered severe abuse and grew up choosing, drugs, promiscuity, workaholism, and also battled mental and emotional disorders, not the least of which is PTSD. God has been very kind, and His grace is real. What "manna" from heaven watching your show has been today. I got triggered a bit for sure, but increadibly, subsequently, I became more relaxed and inspired the more you all talked. We all have something to give, and for us survivors those of us who break the silence survive, but then thrive and can help facilitate the healing of others. Thank you for your inspiration, for facilitating my further healing, your encouragement, and your inspiration. I feel less alone having watched. God bless, and much love from northern California.

    • @MayimBialik
      @MayimBialik  2 роки тому +2

      Thanks so much for sharing, Darren. We're very happy to have you here! 🫶🫶🫶

  • @harveymoore4984
    @harveymoore4984 2 роки тому +15

    Corey Feldman and You Mayim was truly a Wake up Episode.. Thank You .. Learn So Much

    • @MayimBialik
      @MayimBialik  2 роки тому +1

      So glad you enjoyed this one, Harvey!! 🧠🫶

  • @joysnow3779
    @joysnow3779 2 роки тому +9

    Thank GOD for the truth coming out.
    Thanks for the light, the love & unity.
    Thank you Corey, Mayiam, Jonathan.
    Thanks for everyone who is kind, self-reflective, honest and trying to do good in this world. You are seen & important.
    May god bless us all & let love rise!

  • @martaardesi2056
    @martaardesi2056 2 роки тому +68

    I found this episode incredibly and deeply touching. The honesty, vulnerability, sensitivity and love that Corey put out there is uncanny. It’s very inspiring and beautiful.
    Thank you very much for all the amazing “human work” you are doing, Corey. It’s so special and worthy. ❤️🥰😍
    And thank you guys for another spectacular episode, you are amazing. This podcast is a lifesaver and brings into the world so much joy, love, wisdom, compassion, kindness and empathy… thank you, thank you, thank you very much indeed. All the blessings to you all. ❤️🫂😘❤️

    • @MayimBialik
      @MayimBialik  2 роки тому +6

      🧠🫶🧠🫶🧠🫶

    • @pixxburgh420
      @pixxburgh420 Рік тому

      ​@@MayimBialikI agree do you think theres jewish over representation in Hollywood's pedo circles?

  • @TWBarb
    @TWBarb 2 роки тому +19

    This is the most beautiful and humble conversation and I am honored to have this platform to listen. I have a warm fuzzy feeling and bet Corey, Jonathan, and Mayim give amazing hugs! ❤

  • @NomaD569
    @NomaD569 2 роки тому +17

    What an AMAZING episode. I laughed, I cried, I definitely reflected. Two of my FAVORITE actors at the same time, talking about life. Couldn't get any better. GREAT JOB!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @patinab1955
    @patinab1955 4 місяці тому +3

    Wow, what a great interview. I have not heard much about Corey in recent years & he looks to being his true self (mentally & physically). Last I knew of him was a reality show he did some years ago. He seems much better together & on a positive path both personally & professionally. ❤ 🎉

  • @abby32186
    @abby32186 2 роки тому +18

    What a gem. A pure soul. Don't ever change man, keep doing you.

  • @Myladybug70
    @Myladybug70 2 роки тому +10

    I remember when Corey was talking about how he was going to be exposing Hollywood. I really think he started the ball rolling. I remember this profound feeling that he was going to change the trajectory of a lot of lives. I’m so happy that he is loving life. Thank you for being you Corey!

    • @eddierascalhaskell4954
      @eddierascalhaskell4954 Рік тому

      He did absolutely nothing but smear Corey Haim's name

    • @JordanS215
      @JordanS215 Рік тому +3

      ​@@eddierascalhaskell4954you're so wrong.

    • @eddierascalhaskell4954
      @eddierascalhaskell4954 Рік тому +1

      @@JordanS215 I been following this story for a long time. I know what I'm talking about.

    • @JordanS215
      @JordanS215 Рік тому

      @@eddierascalhaskell4954 oh, please. I've been following it since Feldman was in commercials. I know both their stories I've followed since the beginning and,, after seeing him on wifeswap, ilooked into it.
      You believe the things QAnon vomit.

  • @BabyBatKing
    @BabyBatKing 2 роки тому +16

    This is another awesome episode. I enjoyed seeing Corey doing so well. He seemed the most relaxed and organized in his thought processes here. Thank you for having him as a guest.

  • @junglejolene
    @junglejolene 2 роки тому +9

    I have so much respect and admiration for Corey Fledman. He is so courageous and generous of himself for sharing his experience. It is literally life saving to find out that you are not the only one this happened to and that there is another way to go through it than to carry shame and blame yourself and keep it as a secret. When things happen to children, it is so hard to go back later and realize you need to heal that child that it happened to and realize that you didnt have the tools to get healthy about it because that part of you can tend to only be able to view it through the eyes of a child. Thank you so much Corey. I root for you and all of us.

  • @jerseygirlinvermont
    @jerseygirlinvermont 2 роки тому +8

    This is the very first time I’ve ever seen your podcast. Thank you for creating such a great space for Corey Feldman to share his story.
    What the industry does to children is absolutely monstrous, and he had enough courage to stand up and expose his own personal story of abuse on the set and in the home. They have been after him for years, and have made his life nightmarish!
    When you think about the fact that in one way or another 70% of his friends (peers) from the industry are gone. That’s a very vast number including his best friend Corey Haim.
    I’m much older than most, but I’ve seen probably all of his movies. My favorite being Stand By Me followed by The Lost Boys.
    Corey Feldman looks happy, healthy, confident and peaceful! May he continue to have peace, love and light!

    • @eddierascalhaskell4954
      @eddierascalhaskell4954 Рік тому +2

      The rabbit hole goes deeper. Corey Feldman is a scam artist and opportunist.

    • @walkinlight3380
      @walkinlight3380 Рік тому +1

      I totally agree with you and am happy to see such a respectful interview.

    • @JordanS215
      @JordanS215 Рік тому

      ​@@eddierascalhaskell4954😅😂😅😂

  • @Pistonbilly
    @Pistonbilly Рік тому +6

    He’s a decent guy, met him in Vancouver many years ago and watched him interact with a room of somewhat hyperactive fans and his patience and gratitude was very inspiring.

  • @believer773
    @believer773 2 роки тому +38

    I'm pretty sure Corey and I are the same age, he's been around as far back as my memories go. What he's been through is horrifying and even before his stories came out I always saw sadness in his eyes no matter how charismatic and good he was in his roles. It's impossible to hide trauma

  • @LuisCContreras
    @LuisCContreras 2 роки тому +4

    I almost skipped this interview, but I’m glad I didn’t. Something about this was so refreshing, touching, and insightful.

  • @wildlightarts
    @wildlightarts 2 роки тому +7

    One of my favorite scenes Corey was in was his dancing scene in Dream a Little Dream. I still remember it! I love that Corey is still dancing!! 💜🌻🎨

  • @cindisowder2182
    @cindisowder2182 2 роки тому +78

    Such a great interview. As a survivor of incest, I’ve spent my lifetime driving myself insane trying to “get it right”. I’ve felt myself as so flawed I have to makeup for everything, including my right to be on this planet. This melted my wall in a way nothing else ever has.

  • @Dessamator
    @Dessamator 2 роки тому +74

    I'd love for you to have Corey back. As a child survivor of every form of abuse, it's so great to see him doing so well! I've been a fan of his since Goonies. (⁠◍⁠•⁠ᴗ⁠•⁠◍⁠)⁠❤

  • @francinesanchez5402
    @francinesanchez5402 Рік тому +2

    My heart broke for him when he said 70% of his friends are gone. I am almost 37 and have been noticing more lines and grey hair. I see those and am grateful to be alive. I don’t want to take that for granted.
    I was attracted to this video by the title. “They abused me. I learned to forgive.” I love how that’s phrased. THEY did it. It’s their shame to bear, not yours.
    I’m not done yet with the podcast, but really enjoying it so far. Thank you for being vulnerable enough to share your stories. Now I need to check out his other stuff

  • @TeaCup_Mouse
    @TeaCup_Mouse 2 роки тому +21

    Love Corey Feldman and I’m so happy to see that he is living a happy and healthy life. All the best to him!

  • @marinareynolds2955
    @marinareynolds2955 2 роки тому +5

    Thank you Corey for having the courage to talk about the sick Hollywood "secret" that no one is supposed to talk about. Most people remain silent because they don't want to risk being harassed, threatened and bullied for telling the truth.

  • @helenfederoff7603
    @helenfederoff7603 2 роки тому +11

    Being just a few years older than you both, watching you and being entertained by you both for most of my life, I would just like to say, I'm very glad you're BOTH still here. I admire you both and I'm glad you both are alive and well and living life to your fullest. Corey .... THANK YOU so very very much for all the awesome acting in many great movies! Some of my best preteen and teen memories!

  • @jennylynnacres
    @jennylynnacres Рік тому +2

    This is my favorite Corey Feldman interview ever. I wish him continued happiness and success in all his endeavors. 💗

  • @harveymoore4984
    @harveymoore4984 2 роки тому +3

    " Nobody's going to be Responsible for You except for You but we're also not responsible for anything other than our own actions and reactions.... Love This.. thank you for speaking Corey Feldman and the Breakdown Show .. I'm still learning so much for this ...

  • @violetnoyes
    @violetnoyes Рік тому +1

    Corey Feldman - always my favorite - still my favorite! You are awesome, and if I ever have the opportunity to meet you in this life, you are just going to have to deal with meeting me! Keep on keeping on - your journey is truly a blessing to the people of this world.

  • @lightheartedchipmunk2513
    @lightheartedchipmunk2513 Рік тому +5

    Being a kid in the 80s I remember praying to meet the two Coreys.... still love them the same. Love yous

  • @loriwickham4977
    @loriwickham4977 4 місяці тому +1

    This was one of my favorite interviews, Mayim and Jonathon. I’m grateful you had the space for Corey. He’s a thoughtful, kindhearted, intelligent man who deserves to pursue his dreams.

  • @laurene1389
    @laurene1389 2 роки тому +3

    WOW, I am genuinely so impressed by how articulate and intelligently Corey Feldman speaks and how self-aware he is. The media has portrayed him so differently (shocker) especially in recent years. He has been through so much...abuse, losing so many of his friends...it's pretty amazing how he has come through it all.

  • @sadboi7537
    @sadboi7537 2 роки тому +7

    Corey is the man. Loved him since I was a young kid and am still a fan three decades later. 👍

  • @belkyhernandez8281
    @belkyhernandez8281 2 роки тому +10

    This guy is one of my favorite actors. I wish I saw him more in front of the camera.

  • @blumoon3100
    @blumoon3100 Рік тому +5

    I feel like Stand by Me and The Goonies is to those kids what The Sandlot is to us younger kids. Corey is amazing and his career speaks volumes for his abilities to fight through.

  • @nancylong8237
    @nancylong8237 Рік тому +5

    It was so painful to see him go through that phase were nobody was telling him he had no real musical industry potential but the media used him by displaying him on talk shows to be ridiculed.
    I'm happy he's in a good place now. Finally!!

  • @kimberlyphillips671
    @kimberlyphillips671 10 місяців тому +1

    Mayim thank you so much for having Corey Feldman on your show. I've been a fan of him and his work all the way back to Bad News Bears. He is a wonderful human being. I too am a survivor & truly appreciate that he had the courage to let the world know.

  • @anegar3
    @anegar3 2 роки тому +4

    Corey Feldman is a national treasure. Thanks for this wonderful interview. I encourage everyone to go to his show if he comes by your town!

  • @Lrrogers35
    @Lrrogers35 4 місяці тому +1

    Wow! Thank you, Mayim This was long overdue. I have never seen Corey in an interview sounding so normal and articulate. Thank you so much. This was awesome. You guys did a great job!! 👏

  • @jenniferbassfirstchannel
    @jenniferbassfirstchannel 2 роки тому +7

    So many people do much of Hollywood let him down. He’s such a talented guy actor artist etc. I hope Corey Feldman will make a huge comeback like he had in lost boys and his other movies he deserves a Oscar for his films! My favorite film of him is dream a little dream

  • @dash-x
    @dash-x 2 роки тому +11

    I’ve adored Corey since I can remember,! I love the safety and understanding he has here with you. Not just the compassion but that you get it in a way many probably could t. ❤️ Thank you for this and giving him a voice!
    The fact he’s still here, and with such a positive outlook after the abysmal treatment and shaming even in recent years. Soo many owe him an apology even those in journalism. He deserves justice and compassion ❤️🫶🏻

  • @Art.is.for.everyone8
    @Art.is.for.everyone8 2 роки тому +14

    I hope he continues to be content and at peace. Def a huge part of my childhood. Its disgusting what was done to him by so many people.

  • @pontitaireLuczak222
    @pontitaireLuczak222 Рік тому +9

    A really cool interview with Corey. A supportive platform for Corey to speak his truth with genuine understanding. Making waves towards the end of child abuse.

  • @melisaco79
    @melisaco79 2 роки тому +7

    My absolute favorite Breakdown to date in a tie with Wil Wheaton’s Breakdown! Love, love, LOVE Cory Feldman he’s a great guy, phenomenal actor. I enjoyed this, truly.❤

    • @MayimBialik
      @MayimBialik  2 роки тому +3

      The highest praise!!! Thanks so much for the feedback! 🧠🫶

  • @rockyroad3665
    @rockyroad3665 Рік тому +5

    Mayim thank you for giving a platform for Corey to speak his truth about his life and experiences in the industry. My heart goes out to him for the abuse he endured. He deserves another great movie role.

  • @katmalone817
    @katmalone817 2 роки тому +7

    I met Corey one time and he was the nicest person. I totally geeked out and probably rude he was so gracious. i had posters all over my childhood walls. I hope the best for him.

  • @alexmaples516
    @alexmaples516 4 місяці тому +1

    Im a year late too this one but being born in 1980s Dublin Ireland 🇮🇪 we watched all this legends movies..
    Better late than never on finding this gem of a podcast..❤

  • @barbdowns1
    @barbdowns1 2 роки тому +6

    I’m so happy to hear about Cory Feldman’s life and successes! This was a great episode - thanks so much for sharing!

  • @laurengraff7490
    @laurengraff7490 Рік тому +1

    Digging the direction you are moving in, Corey

  • @mcc.o.4835
    @mcc.o.4835 2 роки тому +10

    This was a great conversation. Glad to see Corey is doing well. He's become very wise.

  • @fresnobear63
    @fresnobear63 Рік тому +1

    Oh, my goodness. This has to be the best interview with Corey Feldman. He was so natural and intelligent. In the industry a person can and is often lost on who do they want me to be. It was very nice to see and hear.

  • @Jpab1205
    @Jpab1205 2 роки тому +9

    Thoroughly enjoyed this interview. He seems so genuine and real. I’ve watched his career over the years and glad to hear and see him come out on top with forgiveness and love at the forefront of his everyday life. Wish him well and hope to see more of him in movies/TV. THANK YOU

  • @grantgilbert2822
    @grantgilbert2822 2 роки тому +12

    As a survivor of myself, if I ever meet him, I would tell him, survivor to survivor, that he is seen and that he has value. I’m no celebrity by any means, but I feel like Corey is the kind of guy who is a lot wiser than people give him credit for. I hope he’s doing well and has found his happiness. Thanks Mayim, for this interview. We need more kindness like this in society today.

  • @hopecolegio2662
    @hopecolegio2662 2 роки тому +8

    I just love Corey Fieldman! We are birthday twins. I enjoyed the podcast so much, I was smiling from ear to ear watching him. How he was talking and what he was saying was so inspiring. He made statements that really open my eyes and made me think. Hearing what he had gone through as a child broke my heart and I’m so happy that he survived and is doing great things. He is such a terrific person.

  • @Funkybassuk
    @Funkybassuk Рік тому +2

    “Yeah, well this one… this is my wish, this is my dream… and I’m taking it back.” ♥️
    Always a cool guy and I wish him all the best.
    The ‘Burbs is also a personal favourite cult classic.

  • @imagine2010mjm
    @imagine2010mjm 2 роки тому +10

    Been watching your show for quite sometime and I really enjoy it. However....this particular episode is by far the BEST! I can’t tell you how riveting this interview with Corey was. He is such a class act! What a talent and humble human being. The chemistry you both have together is amazing. You got my attention! You are like a breath of fresh air. Keep up the good work-appreciate your time and energy. Peace n ❤ to you!

  • @jilltran5916
    @jilltran5916 Рік тому +2

    What Corey says about forgiveness really hits home to me. It made me think and reflect on how i handle trauma also. Thank you for having him on your show!

  • @louisejohnson6057
    @louisejohnson6057 2 роки тому +7

    Often kids who are actively being abused, or were abused as children, will turn to drugs, including alcohol, to either block memories out, or to numb themselves as much as possible to what they are enduring in the now. Some people who are suffering from undiagnosed mental illnesses may self medicate with drugs as well. My mum's bipolar diagnosis didn't come until her late 40's, before this she self medicated with alcohol. She gained her sobriety through hard work, an iron will, and because she wasn't suffering anymore with uncontrollable symptoms that overwhelmed her innate coping skills. So often you will hear that people with addiction issues are childhood abuse survivors, and it's so f♤cking infuriating. Thank-you for sharing your stories Cory. I'm really sorry that you were so badly used and abused by those walking, talking, dung heaps. I'm so very glad that you're still with us, and that you've chosen to make it an intrinsic part of your life to make people aware of what has/is happening to children in this industry. ✌️❄️🇨🇦❄️

  • @peppercat8718
    @peppercat8718 Рік тому +2

    Thank you for letting the guests finish their sentences and stories. That’s refreshing and so I am a new subscriber ✌🏻

  • @MicheleAndRandy
    @MicheleAndRandy 2 роки тому +5

    Such a big fan of his movies. When my daughter was 4-5, we were buying CDs at a record store in Granada Hills and my daughter excitedly told me the boy from Goonies was right across from us looking through music. I think we both geeked out. Should’ve asked for an autograph but I didn’t want to bother him. I’m sure we lingered in the store longer than we needed to.

  • @whocares4464
    @whocares4464 2 роки тому +7

    Man I didn't think I would be saying this but Corey is actually looking very good and healthy in this video! Good job man was kinda worrying about you but look heathy man

  • @ellies9471
    @ellies9471 Рік тому +3

    I’ve always been a fan of his. He is so likable,down to earth, and funny. So sad what he went through in his early life and yet so amazing that he is so composed and well put together and well spoken. I truly enjoy listening to him speak. So many actors on talk shows and during interviews can’t seem to put a sentence together without saying “um” every few seconds which is so annoying. Corey on the other hand is a joy to listen to, though his stories are heartbreaking. Thinking back to all the movies I saw him in, often playing a sassy, bratty little kid it is hard to believe that someone would pick him to attack.

  • @fr514
    @fr514 10 днів тому

    Excellent chat. His comments about kids at adult parties or in adult company is so on point. Looking forward to the Peele/Feldman project.

  • @Pray4All
    @Pray4All 2 роки тому +13

    This is so great having Corey on your show. I believe him . And he seems like a great guy.

  • @JillianBernstein-wh2xq
    @JillianBernstein-wh2xq 4 місяці тому +1

    I really appreciate how Mayim does not waste her energy on trying to make herself camera ready. I appreciate seeing a real face. Thank you Mayim :)

  • @reneepolin6549
    @reneepolin6549 2 роки тому +5

    I Love Corey's transparent authenticity .It's not selfish to pray for a day of peace

  • @JB-be1tm
    @JB-be1tm Рік тому +1

    You guys are great hosts. I found your channel being a Feldman fan. The way you allow your guests to speak is sadly not found on many channels. I'm looking forward to watching more of your shows!

  • @KerliaRockwood
    @KerliaRockwood 2 роки тому +12

    One of my favourite episodes so far. I looove seeing Corey thrive and back on the scene on peoples hearts and minds. There’s been a trend lately of quality people from our nostalgic past getting their due here lately after being typecasted by Hollywood and discarded, and the business now giving them a seat at the table after the PUBLIC has made it clear they never left ours and they are absolutely still marketable and desired. Corey is one of those. And I hope Peele is just a first step.

  • @christianhadsell8915
    @christianhadsell8915 Рік тому +1

    Love you Corey!!! As I've told Our new Podcast Queen, you're my childhood. A license to drive, goonies and lost boys, they were massive summers, giving my friends and I things to pretend and play these adventures like you in the movies. You inspired our imaginations and we felt connected to you as kids. You're like a spirit brother. You're loved world wide. Your #1 dedicated FanHomo!

    • @christianhadsell8915
      @christianhadsell8915 Рік тому +1

      Corey remember that I do believe what you been through and saw. I also know how people can be and have not a doubt that what you say was your reality. I know first hand how it feels to be unheard, and doubted. I know how lonely it feels. I love you my bro bro. You're NOT ALONE.