I lost my mother when I was a child, and this was very therapeutic to listen to. My father is still alive, and I've also never pressed him for stories and information for the exact same reasons. My biggest takeaway is that I should try to open him up about it, respectfully, while I still have him. Nightpants Nation unite!
My god this was a good episode. Rory is one of my all time favorite comedians and I did not expect to be brought to tears on several occasions listening to this podcast. I can't wait for him to go on the road again because I really want to see him live. I hope you have him on again sometime!
Rory never does the same set twice, it's wild. I caught his last show in March 2020 at The Comedy Closet before covid kicked in, hoping he hits the road again soon
@@kggregorie Yeah I've seen interviews where he's stated that for a whole tour he basically did zero writing and just did entire sets that were all riffs and things that came up naturally from crowd work. And of course that was what his last special showcased and that was really awesome, so I'm pumped to get to make it to one of his shows whenever he does head back out.
Goddamn this one hit me hard. My wife was diagnosed with cancer when my kids were 3 and 1. Thank God she’s still here 5 years later, but all this stuff went through my head. I can relate to his Dad so much. Man, I already liked Rory, but this really made me a fan. What a great dude.
I have seen every honey dew episode and this one hit me in my feels the most. I lost my father at the age of 4 and my dad was 23 when he passed. I have struggled with all the same things discussed here especially when my son turned 4 it was a huge struggle for me. Almost like i was looking at myself through my fathers eyes. Thank you so much Sicklecell for all you do. Best podcast hands down.
I've always been a huge fan of Rory, but I had no clue about his past. I was just doing my dishes after a dab and crying my eyes out. Thank you, honeydew, for best conversations.
Nothing like a good cry in the morning on my way to work! As a cancer survivor and kids of my own this one hits hard, plus I feel I haven’t been able to access my emotions in a healthy way for a while. Rory’s perspective and experience helps me really appreciate what I have, thanks Ryan for putting this together…now I need to call my mom.
This podcast is the only one where I can see a guest with a name I’ve never recognized and I still watch it as soon as I can. I absolutely love how Ryan makes every person and their trauma mean something. He makes you cry laughing, or laugh while crying and it’s been helping me come to terms with my own life. Thank you thank you thank you.
I'm so sorry to hear that. My best friend Adam's mom passed away when we were 19. He and his twin sister persevered and at 44 he's still my best friend in this entire godforsaken universe. (Horrible breath though. Jesus Christ!) I wish you the best, my friend. ✌️
SAME. My father had a stroke in 1992, then Alzheimer's set in in the past few years, so I've sort of had 3 different versions of dads. But most importantly: I've had 44 years of my wacky pops. And my mom deserves a fkn lifetime achievement award or to be Sainted or something.
Yeah dude, he went 0-100 today. Maybe warm up with a joke or two before jumping into the guest's dead mom... this is the first time seeing Rory where I was more sad than happy
My mom committed suicide when I was 6 after she had my sister. Post pardon depression is horrible. Listening to the conversation about hearing your moms voice again really hit home. Sickle cell you have such a great podcast.
Hoo boy, that's heavy. I'm so sorry to hear that. I hope you and your baby sis are tight and the two of you are doing well. I have no brothers, but two amazing sisters.
Rory is seriously underrated. This was a powerful episode. I hope more of the podcast scene has him on. His standup is ridiculous. Never knew the trauma it was bread from.
Let 'em rip! It seems counterintuitive but it's so healthy and necessary. My pops is in bad shape and every two weeks or so I bawl my eyes out. It sucks ass, but the relief afterwards is unimaginable.
I learned about rory from getting doug with high and watched everything he had to offer on youtube. His story had me weeping on and off throughout the whole episode. I cant wait for him to make a come back
My wife passed away almost a year ago in May a month after our thirty-second birthdays. We were together since sixteen. She was always the one that took pictures and videos for us so I don’t have any videos with her in them. I used to give her shit about always taking those pic and vids. I’d say just be here in the moment. Now, I understand why. I only have one Live Photo of her petting alpacas where she’s laughing and a video she took of me when I was falling down drunk and she’s laughing and talking to me. Can’t see her but I can hear her. If anybody reads this, take advantage of always having a smart phone. Get those videos and pictures. Live in those moments but don’t forget to at least get some of that documentation. I wish I had. Thanks Ryan and Rory.
My god this was heavy, but fantastic. Love me some Rory, and his insights into his relationships with his parents is impressive. Keep em coming, Sicklecell!!
Not many podcasts make me tear up and then laugh hard. I love this podcast. Rory is a masterful comedian. He didn't plug his special Live without fear. Its on YT and brilliant. Totally improved comedy special. Its wonderful.
I need to listen more, genuinely listen more. To my my family, to my friends, and to strangers who may need someone who just takes the time to connect and listen.
Never any less excited for a new episode! Much love for every one of you at night pants Nation! Touch my night pants through the fence. Remember if no one has told you today I love you an your worth it!
This was such an amazing episode, and I’m so appreciative for how open Rory was about his feelings and understanding at every age and stage of this. My dad is dying of Alzheimer’s, and these grieving parent episodes help so much to process the intense feelings. Thank you Sickler. p.s. good to see Rory back on a Toozdee…5 stars, fuck the crabfeast
So many of us are living what you're going through. My mil and fil were both in the local nursing home at the same time, both with alzheimers. My husband and I got through it by laughing after we visited. It was either that or cry. We found the funny in every visit with them....believe me it was horrible most times. It really got us through. Good luck and remember....find the funny!
I'm right there with you, friend. After having a stroke in '93 my pops eventually devolved into Alzheimer's a few years back. He's still hanging in there at age 80 but it is soul-crushing to watch. But anyhow, enough of that. Much love and strength. ✌️
This was such a good and beautifully hearbreaking episode. Was definitely note expecting this when I saw that Rory was the guest. Such an honest and humble dude and I didnt' know any of this backstory.
I'm 29, I have a 4 year old daughter and 7month old son. this episode has me on the verge of tears. I cant imagine losing my wife or me knowing soon I will be gone and out of my kids life.
1:05:15. Shit. That just really hit home. A friend mine is like this. So many people passed when she was young. Her dad, uncle, aunt. When her mother passed not so many years ago, she was utterly inconsolable. Still goes through it on an almost daily basis. And yet here I sit, and while both my grandmothers have passed on, I’ve never dealt with a “premature” or unexpected death in my life. And when they passed, I was on the opposite side of the world dealing with a totally different life. It’s never been something I’ve had to confront up close. And yet at some point, I will have to. And I’ll be totally unprepared, save for hearing gems like the ones Rory is putting out there. I’m very glad she’s my friend. Besides being a wonderful person, I think she’ll really be able to help me gain some perspective when I have to go through it. She’s trained in it. She has a rare and valuable view of the whole thing, while I have almost nothing to go on.
im watching these backwards because of how your playlist is sorted but man, some of these are tear jerkers and empathetically strong n then you got those moments im laughing just as hard as you are. you said some people troll you on that laugh n i dont know why, i hear it n its great it makes ME want to laugh for no reason. im glad you got this pod cast going, first source of content i saw of you was with Tom on his moms house episodes, im looking forward to binging more honeydew
My father died when I was 12, but I didn't know him well. That's the year I learned he beat my mother. It's why she left him. I've hated him since. I'm 58 now. This episode fired off something in me that's different from what I've carried for the last 46 years. Thanks, gentlemen. I appreciate this show.
As an artist, I can confidently say that everyone should paint. Even if you think you suck at it, go paint. Make it big. Work quickly. Don't think. See what happens. Great episode!
I am adopted. Was never a secret, to make a long story short… I was 22 spoke to my mother for the first time…. At 23 I joined the Marine Corps, at 24 was in Japan and felt something off. I called home. I called my adopted mother and asked what was wrong, she had no idea. I told her I’d call back in 3 days. I called, and found out my biological mother died around the time I called home. I get all the stories from ya’ll. I feel for all of you. I’m glad I was raised the way I was. I have or had two older biological brothers. One is a piece of shit…. And one is dead. I had met both a few years ago. Fuck em.
I lost my mom at 13 to breast cancer. That feeling of understanding that life is short and I need to make it special is a constant thing in the back of my mind. And I think of the age she was when she died with the idea that if I go beyond that, it's extra innings.
My wife was diagnosed with leukemia in labor and delivery 12 hours before our son was born. She died 15 months later. Our son is now 6 yrs old. I was a single father with no help no family for almost 4 years. Id love to talk to him about some shit from his perspective
It wasn't until recently I learned the reason it was called "The Honeydew"...i didn't get it - I love Honeydew! Apparently when I was a toddler I would just annihilate a melon.
We need a guest host (Tom, Josh, Nadav, Christina, etc.) to reverse the role so we can hear more Sickler stories. The Triple Crown Riot story kills me every time.
Ryan is the one that helps the storyteller become so engaged though! It would be hard to replace how great he is at conducting the flow and pulling emotions and info from the story.
@@sethcarpenter8309 Tom would be my only pick of those; Tom is where Ryan got his start, so it would be fitting. Josh is inexperienced and Christina is god-awful
bit.ly/ryansickler
Thank you for this podcast, it’s truly a gift. You have a special, gentle, and kind way of interviewing; highlighting the lowlights!
I lost my mother when I was a child, and this was very therapeutic to listen to. My father is still alive, and I've also never pressed him for stories and information for the exact same reasons. My biggest takeaway is that I should try to open him up about it, respectfully, while I still have him. Nightpants Nation unite!
It's too late when you're dead, to speak to your family and get your thoughts out there
🌙👖
Definitely do just remember questions open hearts and accusations harden them
I lost my mom at 13 and my dad died when I was in my 20s. Talk to him. Do it while you can.
Happy Toosdee y'all!
Rory is THE most underrated comic imaginable! Insane how good and original he is live! lol
Full blown tears. As a mom, this is such a powerful message ab cherishing it all.
You know what's crazy? I pay for a Patreon account for the HD and STILL listen on here every Tooesdee because old habits die hard. 🤣🤣
Rory has been my favorite comedian for a long time. I love seeing him in anything.
Rory Scovel is my favourite comedian, so thank you, Ryan! This podcast was so emotional. I loved it.
Never fails on the HoneyDew, bawling followed directly by laughing. Thank you Ryan for these stories and thank you Rory for sharing your experiences.
Comedians have the best perspectives! Well, maybe sometimes they aren't the healthiest, but they're so unique and observant.
@@MikeP2055 So true, I think that's why I like it, relatable and approachable. Celebrities I can root for and support.
My god this was a good episode. Rory is one of my all time favorite comedians and I did not expect to be brought to tears on several occasions listening to this podcast. I can't wait for him to go on the road again because I really want to see him live. I hope you have him on again sometime!
Rory never does the same set twice, it's wild. I caught his last show in March 2020 at The Comedy Closet before covid kicked in, hoping he hits the road again soon
@@kggregorie Yeah I've seen interviews where he's stated that for a whole tour he basically did zero writing and just did entire sets that were all riffs and things that came up naturally from crowd work. And of course that was what his last special showcased and that was really awesome, so I'm pumped to get to make it to one of his shows whenever he does head back out.
Goddamn this one hit me hard. My wife was diagnosed with cancer when my kids were 3 and 1. Thank God she’s still here 5 years later, but all this stuff went through my head. I can relate to his Dad so much. Man, I already liked Rory, but this really made me a fan. What a great dude.
I have seen every honey dew episode and this one hit me in my feels the most. I lost my father at the age of 4 and my dad was 23 when he passed. I have struggled with all the same things discussed here especially when my son turned 4 it was a huge struggle for me. Almost like i was looking at myself through my fathers eyes. Thank you so much Sicklecell for all you do. Best podcast hands down.
I've always been a huge fan of Rory, but I had no clue about his past. I was just doing my dishes after a dab and crying my eyes out. Thank you, honeydew, for best conversations.
Nothing like a good cry in the morning on my way to work! As a cancer survivor and kids of my own this one hits hard, plus I feel I haven’t been able to access my emotions in a healthy way for a while. Rory’s perspective and experience helps me really appreciate what I have, thanks Ryan for putting this together…now I need to call my mom.
Saw Rory Scovel and got ready for a bunch of laughs. Didn't expect to be crying at this episode.
Everyone has a story. Not just those at the very top
Great episode Sickler. You both are so self aware and honest about your vulnerabilities. Thank you.
What a compelling and touching story. Thanks for sharing with us Rory.
Great, great episode. Lots of laughs and quite a few tears. I love Rory.
This podcast is the only one where I can see a guest with a name I’ve never recognized and I still watch it as soon as I can.
I absolutely love how Ryan makes every person and their trauma mean something. He makes you cry laughing, or laugh while crying and it’s been helping me come to terms with my own life. Thank you thank you thank you.
I am also a member of the dead moms club since 19 yrs old. Thanks for sharing your ups and downs with us all :-)
I'm so sorry to hear that. My best friend Adam's mom passed away when we were 19. He and his twin sister persevered and at 44 he's still my best friend in this entire godforsaken universe. (Horrible breath though. Jesus Christ!)
I wish you the best, my friend. ✌️
I love Rory! So happy to hear his story. He is a legend!
This toosdee made me close to tears 3 times
Only Ryan sickler can get me so interested in people I barely know. He's so good at talking to people.
Rory is definitely one of those people; he's underrated as a stand-up.
Interesting interview! What is going on with his beard? I can't stop looking at that clump of hair on the side.
He needs to trim it lol
@Ryan Sickler Is a true listener ✌️💜
Scovel's stand up is amazing. Gatekeeper Rogan hasn't had him on yet, maybe that's the problem
Man this is a great podcast. I’m very appreciative to have such amazing parents that are still alive. Thank your Ryan and Rory!
SAME. My father had a stroke in 1992, then Alzheimer's set in in the past few years, so I've sort of had 3 different versions of dads. But most importantly: I've had 44 years of my wacky pops.
And my mom deserves a fkn lifetime achievement award or to be Sainted or something.
Honey dew means alot to me I appreciate you Ryan and appreciate all you people watching him. Gets me through beginning of my week
There have been some heavy Honeydew stories but this one hits hard, especially since today is my mom's birthday. My heart goes out to you, Rory.
Yeah dude, he went 0-100 today. Maybe warm up with a joke or two before jumping into the guest's dead mom... this is the first time seeing Rory where I was more sad than happy
Started out crying! Thanks Sick!
I knew it was going to be an emotional episode when I was already tearing up in less than 5 minutes of Rory being on…..
Rory Scovel in ANYTHING, ah-yes please!
So touched by Ryan and Rory on this one. Made me cry. Perfectly opened up for the both of them.
Thought provoking podcast. I feel real lucky that even though I had a rough upbringing I still had both parents and they did the best they could.
My mom committed suicide when I was 6 after she had my sister. Post pardon depression is horrible. Listening to the conversation about hearing your moms voice again really hit home. Sickle cell you have such a great podcast.
>Post pardon
Lmao
@@clownbaby6882 real funny dick. Autocorrect got me. Sorry.
@@clownbaby6882 no need to make fun, it’s postpartum big will for future reference
Hoo boy, that's heavy. I'm so sorry to hear that. I hope you and your baby sis are tight and the two of you are doing well.
I have no brothers, but two amazing sisters.
Rory is seriously underrated. This was a powerful episode. I hope more of the podcast scene has him on. His standup is ridiculous. Never knew the trauma it was bread from.
This is the first episode I've had to literally fight back tears
Let 'em rip! It seems counterintuitive but it's so healthy and necessary. My pops is in bad shape and every two weeks or so I bawl my eyes out. It sucks ass, but the relief afterwards is unimaginable.
Absolutely amazing episode. Love rory and his story and genuineness was astounding.
This show consistently presents someone I’m unfamiliar with and makes me identify with them. Thank you Mr. Sickler
Rory is the GOAT. I've seen him live three times and he's never not been hilarious.
@@harleybqrazy he's good but he's not the GOAT, not even top 100
LOVE TOOSDAY!!!!
Toosdeh
I like Rory Scovel now.
Thanks for sharing your story man, and thanks to Stickler for having this space to share it. 🙌🏻
I learned about rory from getting doug with high and watched everything he had to offer on youtube. His story had me weeping on and off throughout the whole episode. I cant wait for him to make a come back
Already listened to the audio version, and I have to say this was one of your best episodes. You always get people to open up in the best ways.
I went from JRE, to YMH, to mostly just Sickler... Love it!
I feel the exact same. You can only listen to covid talk and watch people get crushed so many times
What a great episode! He was such an awesome guest
Lost my mother 3 years ago next month, the amount of vibes I get from this one is crazy
Rorys’ crabfeast episodes were amazing and he delivered again today
My wife passed away almost a year ago in May a month after our thirty-second birthdays. We were together since sixteen. She was always the one that took pictures and videos for us so I don’t have any videos with her in them. I used to give her shit about always taking those pic and vids. I’d say just be here in the moment. Now, I understand why. I only have one Live Photo of her petting alpacas where she’s laughing and a video she took of me when I was falling down drunk and she’s laughing and talking to me. Can’t see her but I can hear her. If anybody reads this, take advantage of always having a smart phone. Get those videos and pictures. Live in those moments but don’t forget to at least get some of that documentation. I wish I had. Thanks Ryan and Rory.
Rory one of my favorite comics. His latest improv stand up shows were amazing
That was a great episode! Really helped me look at my own loss in a new way.
😭Shud up! you're crying!!!! I'm not crying. You threw these tears in my face.😭
Damnit Sickler, got me crying at work again!! Great episode!! I love allll that you do!
Rory is my favourite comedian on Earth. ❤
I just searched honeydew for a new podcast and I got blessed with one
Just found out about Rory, textbook definition of underrated genius
rory's docu-special was super good, love to see him here
Scovel! One of the best to ever do it, so damn funny
My god this was heavy, but fantastic. Love me some Rory, and his insights into his relationships with his parents is impressive. Keep em coming, Sicklecell!!
This guy has an absolutely hilarious Netflix special!! I was pleasantly surprised
Ryan or Rory?
@@brendencrowe8407 Rory
@@cys-fi6230 awesome! i’ll have to
go check it out
Check out “live without fear” on UA-cam. He did 6 nights in a row with no intent of material. It’s great!
Not many podcasts make me tear up and then laugh hard. I love this podcast. Rory is a masterful comedian. He didn't plug his special Live without fear. Its on YT and brilliant. Totally improved comedy special. Its wonderful.
Popping the collar! 🤣🤣🤣
I need to listen more, genuinely listen more. To my my family, to my friends, and to strangers who may need someone who just takes the time to connect and listen.
It can go a long way, friend. A smidge of kindness and a dash of sincerity will work wonders.
Great episode. I need to call my dad 👨 while I still have him around
Please do.
Never any less excited for a new episode! Much love for every one of you at night pants Nation! Touch my night pants through the fence. Remember if no one has told you today I love you an your worth it!
This was such an amazing episode, and I’m so appreciative for how open Rory was about his feelings and understanding at every age and stage of this. My dad is dying of Alzheimer’s, and these grieving parent episodes help so much to process the intense feelings. Thank you Sickler.
p.s. good to see Rory back on a Toozdee…5 stars, fuck the crabfeast
So many of us are living what you're going through. My mil and fil were both in the local nursing home at the same time, both with alzheimers. My husband and I got through it by laughing after we visited. It was either that or cry. We found the funny in every visit with them....believe me it was horrible most times. It really got us through. Good luck and remember....find the funny!
@@kathleenchapman3890 As the old saying goes, "We laugh to keep from crying." Finding the silly absurdity in a situation is crucial.
I'm right there with you, friend. After having a stroke in '93 my pops eventually devolved into Alzheimer's a few years back. He's still hanging in there at age 80 but it is soul-crushing to watch.
But anyhow, enough of that. Much love and strength. ✌️
@@MikeP2055 so brutal. i hope you’re making it through 🙏
Brilliant episode. Honestly cried through the whole thing.
This was such a good and beautifully hearbreaking episode. Was definitely note expecting this when I saw that Rory was the guest. Such an honest and humble dude and I didnt' know any of this backstory.
Ryan Sickler + Rory Scovel = Amazing
It's the honeydew ya'll! I turn into a telescope!
Great episode as always! 👏👏☁️😎🤙☁️
I'm 29, I have a 4 year old daughter and 7month old son. this episode has me on the verge of tears. I cant imagine losing my wife or me knowing soon I will be gone and out of my kids life.
1:05:15. Shit. That just really hit home. A friend mine is like this. So many people passed when she was young. Her dad, uncle, aunt. When her mother passed not so many years ago, she was utterly inconsolable. Still goes through it on an almost daily basis. And yet here I sit, and while both my grandmothers have passed on, I’ve never dealt with a “premature” or unexpected death in my life. And when they passed, I was on the opposite side of the world dealing with a totally different life. It’s never been something I’ve had to confront up close. And yet at some point, I will have to. And I’ll be totally unprepared, save for hearing gems like the ones Rory is putting out there.
I’m very glad she’s my friend. Besides being a wonderful person, I think she’ll really be able to help me gain some perspective when I have to go through it. She’s trained in it. She has a rare and valuable view of the whole thing, while I have almost nothing to go on.
Omg I love Rory and bis career so much. I havent even watched this yet and I'm grinch smiling haha. Thank you for this SickWitIt Sickler
Rory Scovel's stand up is ridiculously funny.
im watching these backwards because of how your playlist is sorted but man, some of these are tear jerkers and empathetically strong n then you got those moments im laughing just as hard as you are. you said some people troll you on that laugh n i dont know why, i hear it n its great it makes ME want to laugh for no reason. im glad you got this pod cast going, first source of content i saw of you was with Tom on his moms house episodes, im looking forward to binging more honeydew
This was an amazing podcast
Ryan always comes through !
What an incredible episode. Keep it up, sickle cell!
I love you both. You deserve all the success you've achieved.
Fucking amazing episode. Definitely one of my favorites. Super relatable
My father died when I was 12, but I didn't know him well. That's the year I learned he beat my mother. It's why she left him. I've hated him since. I'm 58 now. This episode fired off something in me that's different from what I've carried for the last 46 years. Thanks, gentlemen. I appreciate this show.
6 minutes in and I’m crying. Thanks dudes
Great interview Ryan. He seems like such a cool guy. Loved him in I Feel Pretty 😍
Wasn’t planning on crying on a Tuesday afternoon, but here we are.
I lost my mom to Lupus when I was 4. Thanks for sharing Rory.
As an artist, I can confidently say that everyone should paint. Even if you think you suck at it, go paint. Make it big. Work quickly. Don't think. See what happens. Great episode!
I am adopted. Was never a secret, to make a long story short… I was 22 spoke to my mother for the first time…. At 23 I joined the Marine Corps, at 24 was in Japan and felt something off. I called home. I called my adopted mother and asked what was wrong, she had no idea. I told her I’d call back in 3 days. I called, and found out my biological mother died around the time I called home. I get all the stories from ya’ll. I feel for all of you. I’m glad I was raised the way I was. I have or had two older biological brothers. One is a piece of shit…. And one is dead. I had met both a few years ago. Fuck em.
THE HONEY DEW YALL!!!!
I lost my mom at 13 to breast cancer. That feeling of understanding that life is short and I need to make it special is a constant thing in the back of my mind. And I think of the age she was when she died with the idea that if I go beyond that, it's extra innings.
His appearance on The Eric Andre Show was just epic LOL!!
My wife was diagnosed with leukemia in labor and delivery 12 hours before our son was born. She died 15 months later. Our son is now 6 yrs old. I was a single father with no help no family for almost 4 years. Id love to talk to him about some shit from his perspective
Holy shit, man. I'm so sorry to hear this. I trust that you and your son are hanging in there.
Much love, friend. ✌️
great episode. Rory is one of the comedy greats
😭😭😭 man, this one got me!
Greenville's own. Love these two dudes....thanks for the pod.
Merry toosdee!!
Damn man I loved this one , I cried I laughed it was amazing love you guys!
The greatest!
Great episode
It wasn't until recently I learned the reason it was called "The Honeydew"...i didn't get it - I love Honeydew! Apparently when I was a toddler I would just annihilate a melon.
Great ep
Happy toosdee!
Best podcast on any channel in a while
We need a guest host (Tom, Josh, Nadav, Christina, etc.) to reverse the role so we can hear more Sickler stories. The Triple Crown Riot story kills me every time.
Oh man that’s a great idea
Ryan is the one that helps the storyteller become so engaged though! It would be hard to replace how great he is at conducting the flow and pulling emotions and info from the story.
@@EastboundAndDowns That’s why I didn’t mention Bert, hahahah. I think Tom could suffice
@@sethcarpenter8309 Tom would be my only pick of those; Tom is where Ryan got his start, so it would be fitting. Josh is inexperienced and Christina is god-awful
Tom would be an exciting guest host!!
I hope sickler blows up been listening since he was on ymh UA-cam channel this is an underrated podcast and he’s a beast of a comic on the road