Dave Ramsey helped me get out of debt. The only debt I have now is my house! Keep up the great work "If you will live like no one else, later you can live like no one else.”
It took me a year and a half once to pay off the smallest debt and when that debt was paid off, that money rolled over to the next highest debt until the last biggest debt was paid off. Also, there is no shame in going to a food bank to help with groceries. Groceries are expensive. Food banks are for the working poor also. I volunteer at my churches Giving House which we take donations of clothing and small household items, etc. Don't be ashamed to check out places by you. Don't worry about getting yourself some help. We all need it at times.
I have a lot of respect for you. Your a mom (As am I) your a UA-camr (As am I) you are a gig worker (As am I) and I know how hard it is to make these ride along videos at the same time as balancing life. I also have a lot of respect for you being honest and open with others about your debt situation. No one, unless they do this line of work knows how hard doing these ride along videos. You are doing amazing, don't worry about your life with others, you'll get to your target. Don't forget about rest time for yourself.
❤you are wise l admire your pressing on and making it happen accomplishing alot piece by piece l pray for you your family every day wanting all your hearts desires to manifest 🙏🔥💪 your a blessing to many here 💕
Digging out of a hole is way harder but doable with hard work and grit. I paid off debt too with Uber doing rides share back in 2016. Cleared all debts in 16 months doing Uber eBay side work and a FT job. It was no life but totally worth it. Glad I did it. Currently debt free minus the house. Keep pushing on in time you will be able to add that extra money for a fun money and trips
I would LOVE it if you would do a video on how to get out of debt. I feel like I’m spinning my wheels, pun intended lol. But yes PLEASE do a video on this ❤
You are doing so much better thank you think, and you do not look frumpy! You are a hard worker, amazing mom, and have determination to accomplish your goals. Your value as a person is at least as much as anyone in Macy's, and probably more than most of them.❤ As for my journey, my husband and I did the baby steps too. I had a hard time seeing the light at the end of the tunnel, but eventually things started moving and it was all worth it. We are saving to get a home on a couple acres or so, in Oregon. We want more space and less neighbors. Slow down if you need to, but❤ keep reaching for your dreams. You'll get there, and achieving your dreams is worth more than any shopping trip to Macy's.
I am trying to pay of 3 of my debt that has been holding me back for last 2 years. I am budgeting a portion of my dashing income towards paying of each of these 3 debts. Everybody in gigwork is trying to achieve similar goals. I wish Everybody the best of luck and don't give up, keep on persevering and dashing to achieve your dreams! Chin up and stay positive and keep smiling! Things will get better, you will see the light at the end of the tunnel!
❤❤❤Love this channel!! ❤❤❤ I wanted to cry with you but I'm all out of tears for crying over my own woes!😅😅😅 But instead of crying for you, I prayed. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 I prayed for you and all of us going through financial situations and anything that makes us sad and or stressed. Thank you so much for always being real with us. It makes my whole day when I get a notification of your posts! ❤❤❤🥰🥰🥰🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Recently started watching your videos while at my day job, also doing DD on weekends myself and the struggle is real. Similar to how you felt in Macy's I have a coworker that brags about her online shopping hauls (at least once a week) it's triggering honestly. I def give you props!
try more food banks, food is so dang expensive now, i have been going to foods banks again starting 2 months ago, after not going since 2020 when i was laid off, sunday i gratefully received a huge amount of canned goods, and i need to lose weight so i am trying to eat less.
I had a $1000 car fix bill..dashed a lot as a second job and payed it off in January. Now I just bought tires for same car..now need to pay off that bill.
I would love to see a video on how your paying the debt off. One thing I try to do is monthly add the change amount so your working with whole dollar amounts
Yes, I’d definitely like to see a debt-crunching/budget video 👍🏻 I also work side jobs in addition to my regular job. It seems all I ever wear is my work uniform or my pajamas at night. In other words, I never get to wear my “regular clothes”, so now any time I get the chance, I will wear them when I go out on the side jobs (grocery orders) so I can feel a bit nicer. I really hate when I go from my main job straight to orders, cuz then it’s like I’m blasting out to all where I work 😒
I don't like non tippers but the food is not free these lowlife app companies are pocketing most of the fees. We need to have gangsters like Tony XUprano and Dara the Exploiter pay drivers fairly legislation needs to get passed.
I worked at the Bennigan’s on 4th street off of Gandy Blvd from 2003-05. My wife and I met while we worked there and have now been together for going on 20 years. The Turkey O’toole sandwich and potato soup were the best.
It’s insane how many load orders come across to drivers. How can anyone expect a person to live on that with using their own vehicle and fuel? Not to mention paying 100% taxes being a 1099 contractor. Hang in there lady!
You delivered to macys, thats the company I work for. Have been working for them for 22+ years now. I work for the macys in Maine , though. Your impression of macys and it’s type of shopper is a little off, at least from my experience. While it’s true that the cosmetic and jewelry sections seem to attract “middle income” shoppers, we also have what’s called “Backstage” in the store which is sort of a store within the store that has very inexpensive merchandise from all departments, that anyone can purchase, that rivals Walmart prices. This is the first time I have commented on your post and enjoy your videos. I’m not sure where your debt has come from because I haven’t seen it mentioned in your videos and I seldom read comments but I respect your determination to pay it down and hope better days are ahead for you. Have you considered doing other videos besides food deliveries? Food reviews, cooking meals, etc. it would be nice to see some variety to your videos. Thanks for reading my comment. Fan from Maine.
Good seeing you. I think you would make a great stand up comedian. You make me laugh in a good way. I’m trying to figure out how I can move to Virginia Beach from Arizona. I just got home from caregiving. 9:20 Monday. 74 and still working part time. Things are tough for everyone.
You got this! I need pay off my first mortgage so I can live comfortably after losing my husband in April Half my dashing money goes for helping achieve it soon
You are awesome mama. I too struggle with debt and have stepped back to try and see and do things from a different perspective. God bless you. I have been subscribed to your channel for a while I love your honesty.Thank you for being who you are.❤
I would watch that video..I am OCD with my record keeping because it is imperative that I get the write offs and I'm paying the bills but there always is SO much of a cost to me. I need all of the advice and instruction that I can get. I never thought that I would be here.
I'm here for any videos you want to post. I've been DD'ing to pay off debt/save and watching Dave Ramsey too. I'm hoping by letting him play while I sleep it'll be like subliminal messaging. Lol
Exact text book of my day, too. Rained and I've not passed my minimum of 77$ for the first time. Like, the last 3 days I haven't hit my minimum and the mortgage is due in 3 days. For the first time in 2 years, I'm no longer top dasher....oh well. I got so mad, i even did a short video of the B.S. I'm also going through with DD. Hope the rest of your doordashes are better paying.
I would bring snacks for dashing and not buy sodas and food when out. I'd cut out the dog grooming also for awhile. That seems like an unnecessary expense.
He is part shih tzu, so he has long hair that grows very fast and has to be groomed. I've tried to do it myself and failed miserably. I even cut his skin. Never doing that again.
Let me tell you something 😊 ... You are doing an amazing job taking cate of your family so don't you dare look down on your self. Those same people standing around dpraying perfume and hawking makeup in Macys would probably switch with you in a heartbeat just to have the freedom and mobility gig work offers. Im retired from corporate and enjoy gig work much more. On top of that there's someone right now wishing they had babies waiting for them at home to go love on. Lastly, your pay off one bill then the next is a great idea. Your interest will go down faster and i think the only faster way would be debt consolidation for one monthly bill 🤔. I LOVE YOUR HUSTLE and believe that it will get better 😊.
Queen of Frumpiness? What happens when there is more than one Queen in a kingdom? lol It's funny because I was just thinking, right before you said that, that I have an "outfit" similar to yours. Which would be sweats and a tshirt and Birk sandals. 🤣
girl you are not alone, my friend who use to be so beautiful and thin, gained a bunch of weight and doesnt bother with make up unless she is going to work or somewhere nice, i became frumpy the last 10 yrs, when your busy and tired who wants to dress up, i went to bank today with no bra on, i was wearing a busy pattern shirt so you couldnt tell, but some days i am glad i have clean clothes on because thats is all i feel like doing
You are good with videos. Perhaps you might consider doing cooking videos. I find a lot of cooking videos get a lot of subscribers. Maybe something like Great Meals on a Budget>Or Learn to Cook with Me. People love cooking videos and Animal videos.
Are you attacking the higher interest rates first ? Have you considered opening up another credit card that has 0% balance transfers? Might be worth looking into!
It’s so weird how we view ourselves vs how other people see us - I remember some ignorant idiot in your comments said you looked like a spoiled housewife who’s husband bought them 2 phones 😂 You don’t look frumpy at all. Also most people who shop at Macys are probably in debt too.. I remember hearing somewhere that despite it making the debt worse, a lot of people will shop when they’re stressed or depressed even if it puts them in more debt.
Yes, l have a debt of one credit card that l cant totally clear it off because a few monthly bills get automatic payments from it and l pay way more then the minimum it says so l don't ruin my credit score however until that miracle happens l do my best 👍🙏
Hope you are good with the gas being high. I feel like I use so much when I work. Gas is crazy and going higher. How area your car repair cost going. It is also super hot and I need my air on all day. I’ve been working more nights and less days to save gas.
This company is a very good scam for the driver. You paying for commercial insurance, for gas and service car and they make the profit. It is good for the 6 mouth and after that even if you are a top dasher you still not make enough money to support your business expenses
@Mr.Wilson57 I guess million is more important for the people who wrote the agreement policy!!! They are the people who claim to be working people who literally and legally robbery who actually doo that work driving and risk there life and own personal property, stolen purchase power slowly spread out over long time. This way you don't realize
I understand how you feel but don't compare yourself to other peoples lives especially at Macys they probably have the most debt out of anyone lol... Have you ever contemplated maybe going back to school part time for a certificate or degree in something that you'd enjoy and make a higher wage? Anyways, love your encouraging videos
Dave Ramsey helped me get out of debt. The only debt I have now is my house! Keep up the great work "If you will live like no one else, later you can live like no one else.”
It took me a year and a half once to pay off the smallest debt and when that debt was paid off, that money rolled over to the next highest debt until the last biggest debt was paid off. Also, there is no shame in going to a food bank to help with groceries. Groceries are expensive. Food banks are for the working poor also. I volunteer at my churches Giving House which we take donations of clothing and small household items, etc. Don't be ashamed to check out places by you. Don't worry about getting yourself some help. We all need it at times.
Watching your older videos because I am new here. Great job. 👍👍🌺🌺
I have a lot of respect for you. Your a mom (As am I) your a UA-camr (As am I) you are a gig worker (As am I) and I know how hard it is to make these ride along videos at the same time as balancing life. I also have a lot of respect for you being honest and open with others about your debt situation. No one, unless they do this line of work knows how hard doing these ride along videos. You are doing amazing, don't worry about your life with others, you'll get to your target. Don't forget about rest time for yourself.
❤you are wise l admire your pressing on and making it happen accomplishing alot piece by piece l pray for you your family every day wanting all your hearts desires to manifest 🙏🔥💪 your a blessing to many here 💕
I would love a budget video from you! I’m trying to stay motivated
Digging out of a hole is way harder but doable with hard work and grit.
I paid off debt too with Uber doing rides share back in 2016. Cleared all debts in 16 months doing Uber eBay side work and a FT job. It was no life but totally worth it. Glad I did it.
Currently debt free minus the house. Keep pushing on in time you will be able to add that extra money for a fun money and trips
Dave Ramsey knows!!! I’ve been hustling right along with you! My snowball started at $25 and I watched it grow. You got this!
Dave Ramsey's baby steps changed my life. I am debt free except my mortgage and am currently on baby step 6. Keep up the great work!
I used the snowball method to buy off my large debt in my 30s
I'm 66 now debt free. Good luck! It really does work.
I would LOVE it if you would do a video on how to get out of debt. I feel like I’m spinning my wheels, pun intended lol. But yes PLEASE do a video on this ❤
Yes, I would love to see your financial planning video! Thanks for another entertaining video!
Macy's shiny floors make me feel like my shoes are too dirty to be walking around on them.
Wingstop improved with their wait time
You’re so relatable! love your content
You are doing so much better thank you think, and you do not look frumpy! You are a hard worker, amazing mom, and have determination to accomplish your goals. Your value as a person is at least as much as anyone in Macy's, and probably more than most of them.❤
As for my journey, my husband and I did the baby steps too. I had a hard time seeing the light at the end of the tunnel, but eventually things started moving and it was all worth it. We are saving to get a home on a couple acres or so, in Oregon. We want more space and less neighbors.
Slow down if you need to, but❤ keep reaching for your dreams. You'll get there, and achieving your dreams is worth more than any shopping trip to Macy's.
I was a cook at Bennigan's. I miss that place! Cheddar's is good too.
Yes, would love to see a debt/budget video!
Thanks!
Thank you 🥰
I'm watching this on a Sunday so, Happy Sunday MM & everyone!
I am trying to pay of 3 of my debt that has been holding me back for last 2 years.
I am budgeting a portion of my dashing income towards paying of each of these 3 debts.
Everybody in gigwork is trying to achieve similar goals.
I wish Everybody the best of luck and don't give up, keep on persevering and dashing to achieve your dreams!
Chin up and stay positive and keep smiling! Things will get better, you will see the light at the end of the tunnel!
❤❤❤Love this channel!! ❤❤❤ I wanted to cry with you but I'm all out of tears for crying over my own woes!😅😅😅 But instead of crying for you, I prayed. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 I prayed for you and all of us going through financial situations and anything that makes us sad and or stressed. Thank you so much for always being real with us. It makes my whole day when I get a notification of your posts! ❤❤❤🥰🥰🥰🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
I would love to see the budget video. I want to make a budget but I don't even know where to start lol.
Gas is 4.00 how do people not tip or dd raise their base pay. Like th ? DECLINE!! Lol
I think getting yourself a soda or snack is ok. I think you have to feel like you are getting something to enjoy during all your struggle.
Recently started watching your videos while at my day job, also doing DD on weekends myself and the struggle is real. Similar to how you felt in Macy's I have a coworker that brags about her online shopping hauls (at least once a week) it's triggering honestly. I def give you props!
You give me so much motivation. I seriously watch you dash while I am dashing just to keep me going some days.
try more food banks, food is so dang expensive now, i have been going to foods banks again starting 2 months ago, after not going since 2020 when i was laid off, sunday i gratefully received a huge amount of canned goods, and i need to lose weight so i am trying to eat less.
I purchased a new vehicle and I pay the monthly payment doing Doordash 3 days per week.
It works for me.
I had a $1000 car fix bill..dashed a lot as a second job and payed it off in January. Now I just bought tires for same car..now need to pay off that bill.
doordash needs to raise the base pay. Especially with the market we’re in right now and how expensive the GAS is🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
Frumpiness!! Hahaha I totally understand and I relate to what you are saying! I hate going to the expensive stores
Just subscribed. I like your videos. I hope your channel grows.
I would love to see a video on how your paying the debt off. One thing I try to do is monthly add the change amount so your working with whole dollar amounts
Yes I would like to see a debt/budget video.
Taking my dog to the groomer was $80 per groom. A $40 clipper set and a UA-cam tutorial and that expense is gone.
Yes, I’d definitely like to see a debt-crunching/budget video 👍🏻 I also work side jobs in addition to my regular job. It seems all I ever wear is my work uniform or my pajamas at night. In other words, I never get to wear my “regular clothes”, so now any time I get the chance, I will wear them when I go out on the side jobs (grocery orders) so I can feel a bit nicer. I really hate when I go from my main job straight to orders, cuz then it’s like I’m blasting out to all where I work 😒
Yes please I’m also trying to get out of debt I love your videos
I declined so many bad orders Sat it was ridiculous!! People want food for free with low pay and high miles smh . Do the best you can as you are :)
I don't like non tippers but the food is not free these lowlife app companies are pocketing most of the fees. We need to have gangsters like Tony XUprano and Dara the Exploiter pay drivers fairly legislation needs to get passed.
I worked at the Bennigan’s on 4th street off of Gandy Blvd from 2003-05. My wife and I met while we worked there and have now been together for going on 20 years. The Turkey O’toole sandwich and potato soup were the best.
I used to go to that one. Potato soup and potato skins were great.
You are out there grinding for your family and your future and that is very commendable! Hang in there. Doing a video about budgeting would be great!
I'm praying 🙏 for you, Meaty Mama. I love your videos, they are so real.
It’s insane how many load orders come across to drivers. How can anyone expect a person to live on that with using their own vehicle and fuel? Not to mention paying 100% taxes being a 1099 contractor. Hang in there lady!
I got 7k of credit card debt. Trying to figure out best way to tackle it. I would love to see a video on debt payoff. Thanks
You delivered to macys, thats the company I work for. Have been working for them for 22+ years now. I work for the macys in Maine , though. Your impression of macys and it’s type of shopper is a little off, at least from my experience. While it’s true that the cosmetic and jewelry sections seem to attract “middle income” shoppers, we also have what’s called “Backstage” in the store which is sort of a store within the store that has very inexpensive merchandise from all departments, that anyone can purchase, that rivals Walmart prices. This is the first time I have commented on your post and enjoy your videos. I’m not sure where your debt has come from because I haven’t seen it mentioned in your videos and I seldom read comments but I respect your determination to pay it down and hope better days are ahead for you. Have you considered doing other videos besides food deliveries? Food reviews, cooking meals, etc. it would be nice to see some variety to your videos. Thanks for reading my comment. Fan from Maine.
Budgeting video, yes please.
Nice video 😊
I’m currently also trying to use DoorDash to pay down debt. It’s hard since I work a 9-5 and at 5 my energy is depleted.
Good seeing you. I think you would make a great stand up comedian. You make me laugh in a good way. I’m trying to figure out how I can move to Virginia Beach from Arizona. I just got home from caregiving. 9:20 Monday. 74 and still working part time. Things are tough for everyone.
You got this! I need pay off my first mortgage so I can live comfortably after losing my husband in April
Half my dashing money goes for helping achieve it soon
Toula Portokalos (My Big Fat Greek Wedding- OG Frump Girl)
I like to watch your original videos- cooking and shopping
You are awesome mama. I too struggle with debt and have stepped back to try and see and do things from a different perspective. God bless you. I have been subscribed to your channel for a while I love your honesty.Thank you for being who you are.❤
Would love to see you do a budget video
I would watch that video..I am OCD with my record keeping because it is imperative that I get the write offs and I'm paying the bills but there always is SO much of a cost to me. I need all of the advice and instruction that I can get. I never thought that I would be here.
I loved Bennigans French dip sandwich.
Im backkkkk...lol..
Still bingeing 😊❤🎉💪👍
Yes, interested in your plan. Thanks as always for sharing your adventures 😊
Great idea! I try to do the same thing, it doesn't always work but I do try
oooh, meaty...i would rather die than go into macys. you are not alone.❤
Im paying off debt same way but all the small ones first
I'm here for any videos you want to post. I've been DD'ing to pay off debt/save and watching Dave Ramsey too. I'm hoping by letting him play while I sleep it'll be like subliminal messaging. Lol
I've given up on the apps for the summer waste of gas
Exact text book of my day, too. Rained and I've not passed my minimum of 77$ for the first time. Like, the last 3 days I haven't hit my minimum and the mortgage is due in 3 days. For the first time in 2 years, I'm no longer top dasher....oh well. I got so mad, i even did a short video of the B.S. I'm also going through with DD. Hope the rest of your doordashes are better paying.
Would love a more detailed video.
Here again😊❤
Ramsey Dave she has great advice at the password, then watch you invest in stocks
I wrked at bennigans!! Cheddars is usually yummy!!
I would bring snacks for dashing and not buy sodas and food when out. I'd cut out the dog grooming also for awhile. That seems like an unnecessary expense.
Depends on the breed of dog
He is part shih tzu, so he has long hair that grows very fast and has to be groomed. I've tried to do it myself and failed miserably. I even cut his skin. Never doing that again.
Paying off debt and trying to survive...at 67 years young.
I also have a Shih Tzu and the grooming is very necessary
From macys to Walmart!!! Lol. Walmart makes me feel better!! Lol
We are going to have a great day meating mama.
21:02 the specific debt talk was interesting but the chick in the equinox waived at your camera. X-men Storm at Macy's was interesting too.
Let me tell you something 😊 ...
You are doing an amazing job taking cate of your family so don't you dare look down on your self. Those same people standing around dpraying perfume and hawking makeup in Macys would probably switch with you in a heartbeat just to have the freedom and mobility gig work offers. Im retired from corporate and enjoy gig work much more.
On top of that there's someone right now wishing they had babies waiting for them at home to go love on. Lastly, your pay off one bill then the next is a great idea. Your interest will go down faster and i think the only faster way would be debt consolidation for one monthly bill 🤔.
I LOVE YOUR HUSTLE and believe that it will get better 😊.
Queen of Frumpiness? What happens when there is more than one Queen in a kingdom? lol It's funny because I was just thinking, right before you said that, that I have an "outfit" similar to yours. Which would be sweats and a tshirt and Birk sandals. 🤣
I would hate all of these apartments I have houses most of the time
girl you are not alone, my friend who use to be so beautiful and thin, gained a bunch of weight and doesnt bother with make up unless she is going to work or somewhere nice, i became frumpy the last 10 yrs, when your busy and tired who wants to dress up, i went to bank today with no bra on, i was wearing a busy pattern shirt so you couldnt tell, but some days i am glad i have clean clothes on because thats is all i feel like doing
You are good with videos. Perhaps you might consider doing cooking videos. I find a lot of cooking videos get a lot of subscribers. Maybe something like Great Meals on a Budget>Or Learn to Cook with Me. People love cooking videos and Animal videos.
Are you attacking the higher interest rates first ? Have you considered opening up another credit card that has 0% balance transfers? Might be worth looking into!
It’s so weird how we view ourselves vs how other people see us - I remember some ignorant idiot in your comments said you looked like a spoiled housewife who’s husband bought them 2 phones 😂
You don’t look frumpy at all. Also most people who shop at Macys are probably in debt too.. I remember hearing somewhere that despite it making the debt worse, a lot of people will shop when they’re stressed or depressed even if it puts them in more debt.
Yes, l have a debt of one credit card that l cant totally clear it off because a few monthly bills get automatic payments from it and l pay way more then the minimum it says so l don't ruin my credit score however until that miracle happens l do my best 👍🙏
Hope you are good with the gas being high. I feel like I use so much when I work. Gas is crazy and going higher. How area your car repair cost going. It is also super hot and I need my air on all day. I’ve been working more nights and less days to save gas.
It's want not need I've driven many cars with broken ac in summer heat haha
This company is a very good scam for the driver. You paying for commercial insurance, for gas and service car and they make the profit. It is good for the 6 mouth and after that even if you are a top dasher you still not make enough money to support your business expenses
@Mr.Wilson57 I guess million is more important for the people who wrote the agreement policy!!! They are the people who claim to be working people who literally and legally robbery who actually doo that work driving and risk there life and own personal property, stolen purchase power slowly spread out over long time. This way you don't realize
You got an order from Jollibee?😀
When do you think you will pay off all your debt ?
Feb/March 2025
Does the 39 grand include your car or just cards and loans?
Includes the car
@themeatymama gotcha! Thank you! Keep on keepin it real!!! 😀
Macy's nope. Not my style. Maybe if I could afford it, I don't know.
Yo yo yo
We fell 😂😂
How do you do Ubereats , do you just download the app and start working ? Or how, any advice I would appreciate it 😊videos are so helpful !
You download the app and it will tell you what documents you need to send them.
I understand how you feel but don't compare yourself to other peoples lives especially at Macys they probably have the most debt out of anyone lol... Have you ever contemplated maybe going back to school part time for a certificate or degree in something that you'd enjoy and make a higher wage? Anyways, love your encouraging videos
I have a college degree and went to further schooling to do what I do FT during the week.
Do you have a P.o Box, if people want to send donations in?
It's strange that she's making more with door dash than ubereats.
Where do you work full time
I'm about done with doordash in my area it sucks I'm doing Walmart Spark more and I can make $150 to $200 a day
Thanks!
Thank you!
Thank you for the great content and the real-ness. You’re going to rock your goals and achieve them all. We are cheering you on!!!