HE LED ME ON, BUT HE REFUSED TO MARRY ME AFTER THREE CHILDREN || Justice Court EP 164
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This woman should have been prepared before coming to the court. The man was smart enough to get a backup from a lawyer, who not only came to court with him but apparently prepared him on how to present his case. However, I still think it is of high necessity to invite the children for a one-on-one discussion to ascertain the truth about the molestation allegation. Judge Fumi couldn't bear with the woman😢
That's because judges don't judge base on emotions. Judge Fumi has heard such untrue accusations from women through her years of doing the job. The court has told her what to do, take it to the criminal court. There are so many NGOs that will help her. But which mother wouldn't cry out for such a thing not until now
@@osas3857 exactly and still seem bothered he didn’t marry her.
Some mother's keep quiet because of cultural beliefs and fears of being labelled a bad woman who wants to destroy "their son"; especially, as in this type of case, where there are no evidence to prove the case apart from verbal narrations. This is why paedophiles get away with their nonsense. It's so sad Judge Funmi couldn't talk on this, with a little patience, with the lady; to advise her on how to protect her kids, if she is sure of her allegations on the man, though there are no evidences she could show right there! I feel really disturbed!
@@bolanlesekoni8856true
Untill someone took the case on if they valid evidence.
This woman major issue is the man not marrying her
Why is it that the lady is not given the opportunity to express herself completely, I actually feel for this woman, she might not be completely correct but there is an iota of truth in her words, how can she prove this type of stuff? This is why many rape victims die in silence, the ppl in the court are not really seeing through her pain
It's rather annoying that they, the audience, most of whom are women castigated her. I'd be embarrassed is that was me. It's sad.
The audience was annoying, but this is a lesson to everyone out there if a man does not love you enough to marry you, he should not be given access to what married men are entitled to, the woman was so careless and brainwashed to have allowed such a man impregnated thrice if the first one was a mistake the 2 issues that followed were not, in fact, the woman was not really SMART ENOUGH
Seems people are hardly aware that court room is no place for emotional perspectives. She couldn’t proof anything. How I wish she could provide evidence. He would have been reprimanded to jail straight. She didn’t come prepared so one can’t blame the Judge.
Again I hear a lot of am not interested in your marriage, whatever happened or you do is your business, men should be asked to compensate women after separation or divorce otherwise they will take it out on the kids. The court should investigate and allow the lady to speak.
You are sooooooo right. I don't know how people claim that she must give proof. If it was something that was done in the light where everyone can see it then it can be proved, but because it's a heinous and sick act, of course it will be done in secret.
Child molestation is a very terrible offense. I expected the honorable judge to refer the alleged kid for professional counseling to ascertain the allegation. Or even asking to speak with the child. Also instead of asking the lady to take d kids to his father's house, why not meet at a neutral location? This judgment really worried me, what if mum is telling the truth? Scary 😢
My take, too, on this matter. I feel sad about this outcome. The said child may be in for further abuse and won't be sure if she could open up to mum about it again, now she must be a little older, if it is true their Dad have a problem comporting himself!
@@bolanlesekoni8856 I agree with you. Even if someone is malicious, child molestation allegation MUST be investigated. I didn't see this here, the mother was dismissed and even scolded. I shudder to imagine it's true. As for the mum, I'm surprised she is asking for funds . Most alleged victims of child molestation from father, the mother RUNS away with the kids especially if there is a diabolical element to it. But here she was suing and asking for funds from the alleged abuser, the whole story is sad and crazy
That's Nigerian law they judge in their own view not the truth but I'm not siding any one d Lady might be lying too but y not counsel the children
You guys are forgetting these are the man’s kids too and because things are not working out between them she wants to mess the man up
I can see that the Man was so smart in presenting his case. It's quite unfortunate that the lady doesn't have any evidence to proof & no one to back her up. And l think the Judge was only concerns & rules about the rights on the children which is okay.
They are still under age so why can’t they call and question the kids and know if they where really brainwashed or not…my heart bleeds to even see women laughing in that court room
Seriously speaking, am disappointed in the women clapping and laughing. For the first time ever, am not pleased with Fummi's judgement.
She followed the law, she did right with no sentiment. I love her judgement.
The judge ruled well.
The lady in question should have proof when coming to Court. I don't support the idea of rubbishing your partner to your kids, it's so immature. Don't drag your children to anything that they are not old enough to handle.
Statement of fact! She'll realise the damage she's caused for herself in the future.
So you believe that the woman encouraged her children to rubbish their father but you don’t believe her on the molestation allegations 🧐
@@jeniferjohnson3448 I had a cousin who took a second wife because of the first wife's malicious and heinous characters. She used her children especially the daughter against him as in this case. But when the daughter got married she realised the damage her mother had caused her after discovering those things her mother used to tell her about the father were lies and fictions. Now she is not in good terms with the mother. I was there when the daughter arranged people to beg her father for forgiveness.
The problem of the woman in the justice court is because the man didn't marry her officially after 3 kids. I blame her for having children out of wedlock. Wedding should come first.She was allowed to be led on!
@@inubaye2030 Why do you have to fabricate a story just to support your intentions? You have revealed your intention with the conclusion you gave. I must say that this is a very sick conclusion. Are you suggesting that because it happened that way in your fabricated story, the same applies to this woman? This is a very sick conclusion.
So, because men rape women and it is the norm, if any man comes forward to say otherwise, your type will say he is lying because in your case every situation always happen one-way and cannot happen differently.
The fact of this matter can only be revealed if further investigation is carried out. No one knows the truth of this matter. Anyone who carefully listened to this man's defense on the matter will ask for further investigation.
The proof will come after the man has defiled the child and even at that his people will be covering it up. No mother will like her child to be exposed to such abuse.
Note that at the end the judge was a bit cautious in spire of her aggressive reaction to the lady. She wanted school visits, visits at the parents house, visits with the father with the mother around then the child can spend over night with the father alone.
Overnight with the father to do what? If the child does not want to spend overnight with the father no one should force her to do so. In fact she must not be encouraged to do so.
This guy came with a lawyer for a reason, he’s guilty, madam take you children and disappear , I’m sorry will be too late if he continues to abuse his children and destroy them.
Did you hear the lawyer when he was from the Childs Rights Agency. He's not a defence lawyer.
You are so quick to jump into conclusions. The lady was unable to prove the abuse on the children. The court investigated the allegation
I feel pity for this lady,this man never loved her from the onset. He only came back just to manipulate and use her to get children .
If everyone writes her allegations off and one of the children gets molested or even falls pregnant from incest is that when she will be believed?
I think Judge Funmi should have insisted on an investigation of the allegations, possibly by referring her to child protection services to look into it. In the meantime just allow SUPERVISED visits till the issue is settled
The judge obviously was not interested in the allegation of molestation, how will the woman prove to the court that her child was molested, what evidence were they asking her to present, it will have been fair if the judge gave room for proper investigation
Nigerians are funny people sha. So it's now the courts duty to conduct investigations? when she was asked who did she report the case to what did she say?
The court knows when someone wants to waste their time. As a witness if she had taken the incident more seriously and reported to the authorities when it happened, then there could even be a basis for an investigation.
Who's this fool, do you know what court means? Evidence is priority over fact. Fact without evidence is nullity folk
@@henryspence3656 so you no fit make your point without insulting someone.. Didinrin
@@akokobalucky-nv9so oya mabinu ore didirin
The case of child molestation need to be investigated. That's very serious.
Why should he have access when there’s an issue of child sexually molested.
The lady talks like she’s educated but unfortunately she isn’t. You can’t be complaining that he refused to marry you and be alleging molestation or abuse of your kids and also demanding upkeep while denying him access all in one breath. She has to press charges if she’s sure of her allegations. She needs to see a lawyer to get her acts together next time. Know what you want before bringing him to court asking for upkeep.
Thank you @nelsonodigili6261. I'm surprised for people's reaction toward the man. How will she be angry that a man who molests his own daughter, refuses to marry her? If she is so sure the man is a child molester, then she needs to run far from such a man, not bringing him to court for refusing to marry you and child welfare. The court has a procedure. If you don't have evidence, you can't get judgment except the man own up to it. Crying crocodile tears in court will not give you what you want
@@elvis4best I believe the judge saw thru all these allegations. I am intolerant to issues of rape and child molestation, but this case showed she just wanted to purnish the man for not finding her worthy for marriage. Maybe if she had patience and played her game well, she would have achieved that desire.
Unfortunately, she cooked up tales of molestation, yet, she wanted the man to marry her. We need to listen to what she isn't emphazing. Great judgement.
Her main anger is because he didn't get married to her, this woman is something else.
many of them plenty for street, with good English but nothing dey there head...
She was more interested in marrying the man
Lawyer not even seated up in a professional manner.
She's vindictive seeking revenge, the devil is a learner compared to this woman. 😢
1. Only God knows who is telling the truth between both parents.
2.The lady mentioning that he led her on without marrying her just shot herself in the leg.
3. The Judge should consider that the man is married and the children may face maltreatment from their Dad's wife if they eventually start visiting him alone.
You can ask God to reveal who's telling the truth to you. If you were to be a Judge, you'll ask God to reveal the truth to you or you'll work with evidence before you.
Yes she was very foolish to keep talking about he led me on. It made it look like she is trying to punish him by lying. God help them
This court is not thinking of the children at all. If they had they would have carried out an investigation. African justice in display to the world.
Carrying out investigation is the Police Job. That is the reason criminal matters MUST be reported to the Police. Police is the one that will refer the matter to court of jurisdiction with appropriate charges. The Judge educated you all on this, but you all are emotional rather than following due process to get justice.
This judge is not fair to the lady. Give her time to talk same like you are giving the lawyer and the man.
A talk without prove is just talk, and the man and the lawyer just have extra time to talk because they are trying to defend the man against the allegations that the woman throw
She used episode 1 to talk and she didn't have time to talk?
Why will the Judge not allow this woman to really say her concerns. Was she bought over by these people? This is so unfortunate. Why bully the lady to silence. This is very bad
The judge has to investigate abuse case of the father on his daughters first, before you can grant him custody, you are bullying that lady. Just because she can’t prove it doesn’t mean it didn’t happen, those children are at risk.
The Judge doesn't have to do anything, this is a civil case, if she had presented evidence she would have referred them to DPP. A Judge can't rule on emotions
She just wanted to get to her baby daddy through the molestation allegations. She just want to have her way and run him down.
She is a woman’s scorned, before they came to court she went to Child Rights they investigated nothing , Justice Court investigated nothing , its all about the Children and they have become collateral damage. The decision was fair.
@divinelovebenjamin522 we know your type. I won't insult you.
Why is it very hard for some people to understand the fact that child's molestation issue is beyond this court jurisdiction. Judge Funmi can't make judgement on this matter and that is why she told her to go to the criminal court with evidence and the criminal court will do the needful to the man. There is nothing to be done in the court without evidence (s) . Therefore, stop bullying the judge for doing her job rightfully. I felt the woman pain as well and I will advise her to take the criminal aspect of the case to the criminal court with evidence (s) for further judgment
You are not smart... How did an allegation turn into a fact?
I feel so bad for this lady, it's as if everyone is against her. She has her reasons for not granting this man access to her children, she alone knows what she saw but probably couldn't get the chance to get proper evidence, I believe she's trying to protect her girls based on their father's behaviour & I don't blame her for that. The judge has been sounding like she had taken sides already right from the beginning of the case & that's not fair. That woman should have been guided properly on how to get professional help for her girls. Unlike the previous cases, I'm not satisfied with this judgement.
She was asked to prove, she couldn't, when the judge insisted she immediately went to: " He led me on and refused to marry me", that tells you her real train of thought, the accusations were a mask. A scorned woman should not use her children as a weapon against the father. This is the correct judgement, until she can prove her accusations. All she has done is defamation of the man's character which is an offence also.
court is not by emotions is by fact
@@jackgruner923 fact but why did the judge ask for proof when the woman was accused of brainwashing the kids, she started questions without prove, remember the man said he has been talking with the register, for me something is behind this case, I don't want to say much but the judge never allow the lady to express herself, in Nigeria there is no justice, is girl child not a male child, cousion should have apply on this case
Court works on evidence
Is that the reason why he left with the man car?
I honestly feel sorry for the lady, why is the Judge so concerned about the welfare of the children and not the well-being of the children🤦🏾♀️; she contradicted herself so much on this case, how can she care about the psychological impact of the children but not willing to let the children have a supervised visitation with the children, it’s very obvious the judge considered the woman a liar and made her judgment even before this hearing.
The Judge lost it when she said “you can see people answering you”. It’s very obvious she was sentimental about the case and already aligned with the man.
The judge was so concerned about the proof of the alleged molestation as tho she has the jurisdiction to even talk on it.
Sidebar, what does the lawyer mean by the “man was afraid to go to court initially”……if he had nothing to fear why is he sacred of a civil court🧐🧐🧐
Your observations are very valid. Judge Funmi did not judge this case well. You could see she antagonised the lady throughout her testimony. As an officer of the state, more is expected from her.
She don’t consider her a liar. She have to prove her case. Is that simple. She can also take the man to criminal courts
That woman is so bitter that he don't have any intention of marrying her anymore and that's literally why she is instigating hatred and all that
Madam, anybody can say anything. Some women are terrible liars and wicked. If you make allegations, you have to prove it.
Now, she alleged that the father was molesting the child but want his money and marriage, you didn't think about that?
The woman was obviously bitter because the guy did not marry her.
She followed the law, She did right.
If she can prove everything she is saying, the court will grant her her petition. The judge acted based on evidence. She should prove her case not with mere words.
Why didn’t the Judge ask the man if he can prove the text messages from the daughter as he claims
Lawfully, the law cannot enforce claims that lack credibility, proof and evidence. When it comes to issue like this the whole world will raise eyebrows. I pitty for men who question this judgement.
She needs to take the molestation case to criminal court. This is not the venue for her case
I think the way the judge shut down the woman continuously was wrong. Sure, the case of molestation could not be tried in Justice court but the judge could have addressed the later in a more reassuring manner. Molestation is something that is quite difficult to prove but is not enough reason to completely write off the woman’s concerns. As someone who watches a lot of court shows, paternity, couple, personal injury, divorce court etc. i can say there are some pointers as to whether someone may be honest or not and you can see from the mom’s body language that she was defiant and felt really helpless and kept emphasizing on her fears.
Did anyone realize the father did not say anything about it after just debunking. I would expect that if you are completely innocent, that is the first and major thing you would address because it’s a disgusting claim that you molest your kids. Even the guy’s lawyer did not mention it.
The judged shut the lady down over and over again and it would bruise her confidence.
Imagine how difficult it was to mention this in public and the judge left angrily too. Normally they would agree on a monthly allowance and the school fee and all that, but she was too upset. I think the court could have handled it better and maybe help guide her to start an investigation through the proper channels instead of shut her down continuously.
You're right. I do not agree with the Judge. She kept on shutting the lady up, but allowed the man to speak freely. She's obviously biased.
When you bug down the court with narratives that are not part of your original claim, it amounts to waste of court time. Her matter is for children upkeep which is a civil matter. The matter on child molestation (even though all her stories do not substantiate it. What everyone focuses on is the headline - Child Molestation) is criminal and the process for that is different. Judge educated her on how to approach that, but she kept on with it wanting to use that to keep baby daddy away from his children. I believe the Judge could read in between the lines. If the lady was sure of her criminal story, she would have reported to the Police for investigation. It is the Police that will charge the matter to court. That is the process. I believe the Judge was lenient, when you bring up a story and the judge told you how to approach the matter to get justice and rather than focusing on the main issue you brought to court you keep distracting the court with issue that the court does not have jurisdiction over, your case might be dismissed. People need to be educated and the Justice Court is doing a great job. Domestic Violence, Child Molestation and other criminal matters MUST be reported to the Police for Investigation before charging it to Court. That is the process in Nigeria.
Her real pain was that "He led me on and did not marry me". She is trying to have a upper hand by making the accusation. The way she is pained, if the accusation was true, the man will be in jail by now. She wants the man to pay for upkeep while continuing to deny him the right to see his children.
Exactly abuse happens close to home. 💔💔.
How is she supposed to prove this molestation accusation? Even of the kid is interviewed privately, they will say the mum has coached her. Tell me how she can prove it, I’m really interested in knowing
I'm truly disappointed in this ruling, this lady is expressing her concern over her kids safety and the judge keeps shutting her up. How can the kids be safe with the man.
Her kids safety and the man as you said? You actually mean their father whose blood they all carry
@@michaelwhite8768 werey... you never see papa wey dey rape pikin...most especially one he didn't raise up personally. make unna no dey talk like say unna no know say there are different kind of pple in this world
@@akokobalucky-nv9solet her prove it that the molestation truly occur. Audio, video recording, CCTV footage etc can be planted in the room to show that truly, there was a molestation
@@akokobalucky-nv9so looks like you are running mad on Social media. Don't run naked in the street
Ok lets turn the table. The man could as well say that the woman is molesting the only son as he has witnessed it.
He could stick to the story the way this woman did throughout the session. What then would say?
I guess your response would be that it's a lie because he wants to get back at the mother right? Funny
Let her provide evidence that's all.
The lady was not giving a fair treatment by the judge. She was supposed to be allowed to air her mind.she didn't say anything at all
Yes you are very right how can she give access to a man that want to molest her daughter the lawyer have told the man what to say,I will stop watching the program if this is how she would judge this case I have been following her for long
It looked like the children had been brainwashed, said the lawyer. Funmi couldn’t caution him as there was no evidence that this was the case.
Its very sad 😢.
No one cares about her feelings.
Its sad how the Judge is trying to bully this lady to silent, this lady kept insisting there's child molestation. I will advise this lady to seek help child protection agency.
You can help her file her case. She's alleging something she can't proof, she is alleging that he was abusing her child and she didn't mention it to anyone, not like they're married officially during this period. Not even her family members.
She's even a principal offender looking at her action and in lieu of S.7 of the criminal code because she aided the husband to escape the punishment of the law when he concealed the alleged act of child molestation.
When you come to court any allegation you don't have evidence for, keep it to yourself. It dilutes your case. The court will only rule on issues with facts. She is doing her job in that regard. She shouldn't have come to court. Her advisers did her wrong. If you want child support, you must be willing to share access. At the moment she came to court, so issues have overtaken each other. The court will make a ruling.
If you must allerge be ready to prove it....
There’s no bulling madam, I don’t know why ladies don’t face fact. If na the man is with the kids and she came to the court, that’s would be the same judgement. She’s only creating emotional blackmailing. Haven’t you seen situation where mother killed the career of their children using their daughters to sell beer and mess around with customer for their purposes ?
She's alleging without evidence..
The Judge is trying to advise her.
Why didn't she report the allege case of child molestation before now?
Am not supporting child molestation. Note
Some people lacks insight and significantly paranoid. Equal access is a fair judgement. Well done your Honour.
The lady didn't understand that the case she was trying to prove beside the actual case of child welfare can only be treated in a court that can treat criminal cases. She was just muddling up issues & wasn't ready to hear anything different from what she's made up her mind about. She's free to go to any court that can treat a criminal case & see if she can obtain retraining order. Anything other than that is chasing the shadow.
Those children must be protected at all cost. Let a proper office talk to them privately to be sure there is no abuse. Should anything happen to those kids after this you will be held responsible.
Molestation is a very private and scary crime. Ignoring it does not make it go away!!!
She wants to get back to him but in a wrong and bossy way perfect judgment.
I stand with the judge on this issue !
Molestation is a serious accusation. The court should have done thorough investigation before ruling out verdict on the poor lady.
The court cannot do any investigation without evidence
That's not case on the court. Remember is about the children welfare. The allegation is another case which she most provide strong evidence to back it up
The case of molestation just as said by the judge is a criminal case and should be handled by the criminal court. The Judge has advised her on what to do if she can prove her allegations. But untile she proves that, the father of the children has right to his children. It seems like we don't understand or didn't listen to all what Judge Funmi said.
Nothing "poor" about the lady..she is just full of hate and frustration.
She needs to present her evidence on child molestation. How do you think it’s not a cooked up lie? The law works on evidence.
She should have built her evidence after what she saw for a day like this
I think the Judge is giving freedom to the father to abuse the daughters. She needs to listen to the mother, and interview the children. The mother's insistence is gaving a message; the Judge should should be wiser in that matter.
It’s Sad how the bullied this Lady. She didn’t give her Enough Time in every situation.
So sad that an elite would find herself in this kind of situation. I find it unbelievable for her to have 3 children for a man that didn't signify any interest in marrying her! The man wouldn't have bothered coming back to her if his marriage to his legal wife has produced children. She's feeling used quite alright, but the question is what's the attraction to a man that wasn't committed to you??? I pray she finds joy. As for her allegations, like Judge Funmi said, it is hard to establish except there is evidence.
Lady, it is never too late to stand tall above your past mistakes, rise above it by first cooperating with the process outlined by the Judge, take responsibility for your action of bearing children for a man that wasn't committed to you!! Only then can you heal completely and ready to face life!!! Accept your errors of inflicting this emotional trauma upon yourself, then you are on your way to full healing and recovery. There's a man for you. Heal up and pick up the pieces of your life and become a better person.
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Good advise ❤❤❤
Madam pls watch it all over again. The judge is 100% right. The lady is so stubborn
I watched from the first video to the last, the lady said she had already vowed that she will not have children for different fathers, I think that was why she planned having three for one man.
She cannot used children to force the man to marry her, she is just bitter and wanted to get back at the man
@@taiwoolabode1788 is not only stubborn but also ignorant of what it means to have children with someone as well
No man will marry her with three children 🤣🤣🤣🤣 u de wine me!!🤣🤣🤣
We, Nigerians, should understand that what we trade in law is EVIDENCE! If what the lady is saying is true, then she should set a trap for him and capture it on camera.
The judgment did not consider the safety of the children. The judge prioritized protecting the equal rights of the parents over the serious allegations against the Dad. These allegations are strong and concerning and shouldn’t have been ignored. At the very least, the children should have been asked to establish the facts.
I'm disappointed with Judge Funmi for the first time. Those kids are witnesses, the lady should get a lawyer just like the girl and some human agency. Put those girls in different rooms and ask them questions if it truly happened because the girl could also been lying too. To the girl, you don't talk over a judge.
Am not pleased with today's judgment, or judge fummi is also having her own problem 😢
The judge told her the right thing. She should approach a criminal court if she has evidence of abuse.
Look at a lawyer looking so uncomposed and ruffled.
Juustice Funmi was fair in her judgement. A parent cannot be granted sole custody of the children unless there is proof of that the other parent is unfit to care for the children.
If truly that man did those things to those children. You can hid, but God sees you. He will not go unpunished, God is the judge of all, sooner or later you will get your reward. She should try and look for proof. God protect those children Amen.
What if the man is innocent?
At ds point I think she shud work on getting evidence to prosecute him otherwise her kids won’t get help☹️
The father who isn't raising his kids is demanding "we'll raised kids".....
Truth is this judgment isn’t fair . The lady has enough evidence and proof. All the judge could have done is to call the child in private and asked more questions to see if the truth might come out from the child. The lady is an explain of self esteem issues, nau why the man fit catch her mugu from the beginning to the end. She just doesn’t know her to express herself. The judge dey fear say lawyer dey the background.
And if it so happens that the mother has indoctrinated the child and told her what to say? How about that?
What is the evidence, do you know more than the judge?...you are just being sentimental because you are a woman.
What if the mother has brainwashed the child to say 'yes' to every molestation question asked???
@@adeyemiadeleye5428 Exactly
I believe this woman knows what she is talking about. Allegations like this should be seriously invetigated like ASAP.
Even his lawyer said he was afraid, when he got the latter from the court... Why is he afraid?? 😏
It’s normal to feel some anxiety when you get a letter from a court. May we never be wrongfully accused. One may still come back guilty of what one is innocent of.
The judge sounded very bias in this case. Never expected this from her
The judge was so sure the woman lied against the man…… I really feel for her. And she knew what she was talking about. Law they say is not fair…… If all she said about the man and the kids are true, God will expose the culprit before getting the chance to harm those innocent kids…..😢😢😢
If those children are molested, this woman should be penalized, why silent a fellow woman when your are a mother, will you watch your child to be molested 😢before acting
His lawyer actually trained him well,
This is the first time I’m in total opposition to Judge Fumi. This guy lawyered up for a reason.
Please help your friend and come up with a prove of a molestation crime
Because you think the law works based on emotions and gender bias. Without evidence there's no case. Judge funmi was spot on.
In this age and time one must understand that the court only passes judgment based on evidences. She couldn’t provide any proof to her claims. Don’t just get emotional and speak without being logical in comprehension.
Experts can be made to speak to yh kids. Molesting kids is a serious matter.
@@plentystuffs hence the reason you don’t just go around making claims without evidences. The man could even counter sue her for defamation of character in recompense. How I wish she had seek a lawyer for better understanding before going forward with this. She might be saying the truth who knows.
If care is not taken, this lady will still take in again for this same man. So unfortunate
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You guys don't really bond, and you keep sleeping with him to make child. Funny scene.
This man is a liar. When a person is guilty, 98% of the time they always shout and talk down on their victims.
I have mixed emotions about this one. Many young girls molested and raped by close family members and there should be extra precautions taken. However if she lied about this she is not only hurting her daughters but many girls who may want to speak up now no one will believe them.
Firstly, she said the guy only send 30 to them in Mina but the guy send more. The guy said he rented shop for her and she messed everything up under 3 months
2)She never mentioned that she ran away with the guy's car (properties)
3)During the first pregnancy, she actually lived with another man she denied she never dated but her child bearing his surname
4) She denied her husband access to his children because she claimed their father molest them in which she has no prove.
It is very clear that she is lying...she is pained because the guy didn't marry her.
Who knows why the guy's wife has not be able to conceive? Some women are dangerous very dangerous.
Going from one babalawo to another in other to ruin the life of any man in the name of marriage.
Some of them can pretend till christ come.
My advice for the guy is.....he should be very careful whenever he visit his children. The woman can set him up and make everything look real. With what is on ground, he won't be able to get out of the mess.
Thou we have some useless father but most time, this women makes many of them to be mean
The man even said she accused Azeez of child molestation also and she never reported any.
I don't knw y pple are saying judge funmi is impartial, she understood d assignment well n she knws how our gender behaves wen we are bittered! She is angry n pained d guy didt marry her honestly n d guy too cares more about the children cos he is selfsh... they are both selfish n I concur 2 judge funmis judgement n I feel d lady is manipulative...
Most Nigerians 😂, allow emotions to rule them, I read people's comments on this matter and I marvelled.
Remember that this woman brought the case of wanting the father to be responsible to the children to court, she want the man to be paying the bills but not have access to the children.
She brought up issues of molestation along the line.
She wants to eat her cake and still have it.
If she can establish a molestation case in the criminal court and send the man to jail, the first purpose will be defeated.
I wonder how the man will be able to provide for the children inside the jail.
The judgement even went in favour of her just that she was not satisfied with the condition of the father having access to the children.
Why are they clapping? The Lady has been emotionally abused just that she is not smart and love the guy tooo much. The house wife need to sue the guy for adultery. My advise to this woman is to run back to God, ask for Mercy , and serve God ...forget about this man .... don’t stop him from seeing his children... allow God fight for you. You are looking beautiful as well so it’s not too late to start again. God bless you ❤❤❤
Evidence is 9th part of the law. The lady knew she was coming to the court and should have presented any evidence to prove her case rather than just talking. In this day and age, even video evidence or audio can suffice. The court is not for sentiments or hear say, Her allegation may well be true but she could have brought the elder daughter as witness too, and she still is hanged-up on her relationship with the defender instead of insisting on the court mandating him to do the needful. I hope a lot of ladies are learning.
From following up judge funmi from the time of yore, she does not place kids in the witness box, as according to her it may cause family problems later on.
It is a difficult thing to prove child molestation and in as much as many don't have proof, it does not mean it is not happened. The children should in my opinion be safeguarded at all cost. Im glad judge Funmi is starting with school supervised visitations, definitely a good way to start and I'm glad he will have access to them gradually. There are parents unfortunately who molest their kids so being their dad doesn't mean he is not capable of such. That being said I wish the kids well and hope that they are safe.
Why can't they invite the child in question to hear from her? The testimony of child in a molestation case is very important.
You all need to know that court doesn't have emotions, I have been in this case and the person in question was smart enough that he played no traces, I was pained but my lawyer made me know that judgement can see your emotions through the judges but judgement can't rule in favour of your emotions...
God knows the truth but the court should be a safe place for justice. In matters as sensitive as this, there should be further investigation. I just feel there is more to just these accounts. Only God knows the truth but further investigation could reveal more.
Judge Funmi really tried with the judgement and she operated from the point of view of the Law. This is a fair judgement and I think she considered the statement of the woman.
Emotions does not fly in court , you need to prove your case.
Fact 💯
Tell them she's a bloody bastard accusing another human wrongly for shit. Thanks to Judge Fumi, she don see her type taya
100% true. Don't mind emotional Nigerians
The woman will not even allowed judge fumi to talk
Y'all saying Judge Funmi was biased or didn't hear her out - did you all listen to the advice she gave her? She asked her to take the allegation to criminal court for a judgment to be ruled. That implies she is not in a position to pass judgment for such an allegation. You, people, should not be driven by emotions - listen and learn.
This lady seemed paranoid about her own sexual abuse issue not necessarily what she ‘thought’ happened to her children from their dad. She’s being over protective of them because she has ‘solely’ raised them. Also, she’s had no relationship with the man’s family so that may be another reason since the children may have to visit that side of the family now. She needs counseling to be reassured that the children would be fine without her being present. However, if her allegations are true the man must be prosecuted to the full extent of the law just as the judge emphasized. Additionally, this lady seemed bitter because the man did not marry her and his marriage is ‘childless’, she wants to punish him for ‘abandoning’ her for the other woman. Forgetting that she had been deceptive from the beginning by taking the first pregnancy to another man.
He wanted no part in the pregnancy. He told her to abort it. He only came back because he had no other children. Plz go and listen to the part 1
Exactly
I think so too.
They're making this lady feel like she's mad which she's not they kept asking for prove of molestation of minor without allowing her talk pedophiles will go to any length to cover up their atrocities, pains me that she wasn't prepared and didn't have a lawyer
They caught paedophiles with evidences
She wasn’t smart. Asking for upkeep shouldn’t hav been her priority first but pressing charges against child
Molestation. If she built evidence and pressed charges, he will paying with his nose, go to jail and she will have full custody of the kids. Everything isn’t by emotion. Some things are by sense. They way she keeps presenting her case makes it look like she is lying
This is true justice. God bless you ma
I see comments that the judge didn't allow the woman talk, she did, she's not in charge to investigate on the matter of molestation,court needs prove oo, without prove nothing can be done, judge funmi has done her part and it's fair enough. The man is on a watch.
She was not well prepared before coming and judge Funmi did not give the woman a listening hear at all.... it's not fair😢
This woman was stupid enough to bring this case to court. She just shot herself in the foot. She could have made him beg and cry to see his children if she really wanted to punish him.
She wanted him to fund them
She didn't know it will spill this way
Investigation shld have been carried out first b4 granting the Father Access to the Father.
That Child's molestation needs to be looked into. Things are really happening out there, how can she prove it when she did not record it? I pity this woman.
The judgement is kind of hurried and should have been looked into further especially when it concerns child molestation, but as there was no single evidence to back up her claims, it's so hard to get judgement in her favour
She can still appeal if no gree with the verdict. To me, the Judge has been very fair.
The law doesn't consider emotional attachment to an accusation, it works with evidence and PROOF, not stories
@@okwunnandudi7085 You are very correct. Proof is needed to back up any claims. My gut tells me she is kinda saying the truth - If I'm right, I hope she gets justice.
@@odeyemiibukun2240 "My gut tells me she is kinda saying the truth"
Thankfully, the law does not operate on "gut" because my gut feeling is that she is lying, She also accused that Azeez man of child molestation. Basically she is angry that the ma refused to marry her and she has decided to punish him by preventing him from seeing the kids. This happens a lot. If the man is a child molester, the last thing she will be concerned about is "he lead me on"
@@easywaremy thoughts exactly, how will you commit that great offence to my children and I'll be thinking about marriage to you, I sense something fishy with the Child molestation claim. For me the woman should report it as Judge Funmi advised abeg.
I'm of the opinion that the allegation of molestation was cooked-up so as to have the court deny the man access to the kids, but then again, I'm curious as to why the man would be hesitant in appearing before the court until being assured by his lawyer that it would be to his advantage. Could his reason for being hesitant at first be due to guilt?
A lot of people are afraid to go to court. He might just have been nervous. Or think as many government services in Nigeria, that nothing may come out of it.
The molestation allegations should be further investigated though. However, she had previously accuse her first husband of same things prior to leaving him, so her account sounds fishy to me
I don't think many people would not be hesitant about appearing at a trial that they know is being televised. He will have no control of how it could go and whichever way it does go, it's going to be broadcasted on UA-cam for the entire world to see. Whether innocent or not, we see how terrible people's real life issues have been exploited in the name of entertainment. I would be hesitant too.
The judgment is fair. On curiosity, from all angles, I am also curious why she did NOT officially report the allegations of molestation in the past when she found out about it? why wait until now when you needed upkeeps from the man??? It appears in her body language that she is bitter towards the man and can go to any length to deny him access to their kids. It is well o!
I also think it was cooked up and I don’t think he was hesitant because of guilt because he has gone to human right to complain. I don’t think if he was guilt he will take himself to human right.
@@yp6206I don't think the man is in town.
As a mother l can see it in her eyes she's saying the truth about this, the judge should take this seriously, she has no bitter with him but she's protecting her kids
This is quite sad, she didn’t have any proof to back up her claims. The day of reckoning is coming and the truth will prevail either for the man or the woman.
The day of reckoning for all spouses that falsely accuse their partners and want to destroy them because of selfish reasons. I encourage everyone with genuie cause for action to report their matters to the Police for investigation and consequently charge the matter to court. That is the process to getting justice in Nigeria. This is not a matter of emotion or sentiment.
Something is not right with the way the judge has handled this case
There's nothing wrong with the judge verdict.
What's wrong with it?
What is wrong with you people. She has been told to take the case to criminal court
Custody can’t be deny except she brings evidence she kept saying he led me on, how do u still want to marry a Man U said molested the kids she actually confused her case
She doesn’t get, the judge is really taking her time advice and guide her but she doesn’t want to listen.
I feel the lady is more pained than the man did not marry her than the welfare of the children.
In a nutshell, the whole brouhaha is about him not legally getting married to her.
Exactly!
It a brouhaha cos it not your sister or daughter
Hmmm... I have very mixed feelings as Judge Funmi already mentioned that there are cases where women do this to hurt their spouses in Part 1. However, I also feel the pain in the woman's eye, shes hurt and worried. Although this is not a criminal court, so Judge Funmi has systematically advised her on exactly what she needs to do to restrain him and persecute him. I hope she got it.
I don't think the lady got the advise. Because she was just talking over the judge. Judge funmi was being nice today. The lady has already made up her mind on what she wanted to hear. If the lady is lying the guy should sue her. That's a big allegation. If she isn't lying, she should be able to prove it. Not just claim.
The judge know best, again the man did not come with a lawyer, the lawyer is a case working from child welfare and they must have heard the allegations from the lady and discovered that is was a bundle of bushit from an angry ex, we all know that she is angry that the man did not married her, she mentioned it multiple times.
If the man molested the child, she would not be concerned about not being married to the man.
This judge this judge I am absolutely a
Heartbroken
This woman is not being truthful. She should go to the criminal court with the "Child molestation issue ". She only brought the welfare of the children to court. You cannot deny him access to his children, expect him to pay for upkeep and come to court saying all sorts of things and accusing him because you were given a platform to talk.
No access, no welfare.
Thank God the Judge is a woman. If it were a man now we might say the judge was been biased.
Nice judgement ma. Make person no go pour sand sand for your garri.
If you ask me, this man used this lady to get children knowing fully well he was not going to marry her. I really feel for this lady.
Am not comfortable wit judgment,
Go ahead and appeal it.
Nigerian Lawyer! Said I tell him.....😂is it I tell him or I told him?
"We've been talking, I tell him things he's supposed to do". He's correct. His sentence is present continuous.
'Been talking' not "we talked"
A wife acusing her husband of his biological children of molestation is a weighty one that should not be overlooked .Either true or not the man should be ashamed No smoke without fire
This case is very unfair. I actually believe the woman. Judge Funmi didn't do well in this case. Even if he is given visitation rights, they should be supervised. The court should also have the children spoken to. She is in real pain, and as a good mother, she is protecting her children.
The same man that she kept insisting used her and not marry her. Listen well to what she said, she was more upset that he did not marry her
@dwinaj I would be upset if I gave him 3 children and he didn't marry me after promising for so long. But from she has made the allegations, we don't know, whether true or false, care should be taken for those little girls.
Ok lets turn the table. The man could as well say that the woman is molesting the only son as he has witnessed it.
He could stick to the story the way this woman did throughout the session. What then would you say?
I guess your response would be that it's a lie because he wants to get back at the mother right?
Let her provide evidence that's all. The judge asked her to go to a criminal court to give that a short. But trust me it would most likely not fly. It's not the court responsibility to investigate matters it's a place you come to prove matters with evidence to achieve a goal.
Why are you so biased against the man just because the woman said he molested the children. Why hasn't the woman reported the case to the police? When asked she said she told her family. Is her family now the law.
Let's learn to keep emotions aside and stick the facts. No Court in the world will convict this man without evidence. The judge told her to go to criminal Court where she can get a restraining order and where he can be prosecuted and jailed if found guilty. What else do you want the judge to do. What elseeeeeeee.