I really hope this video gets through to some people. I do not see how anyone could watch Brian speak from the heart, and feel like they hate him for being himself.
Thank you for sharing, Brian. It makes me think about my own life and knowing who I have to be careful about sharing such sensitive information. And Cenk is a true friend.
What a beautiful conversation. So refreshing to see healthy, humble, and heart-centered diversity being discussed from real thoughtful, emotionally intelligent men.
I'm a straight Black man, but I found this discussion fascinating with all the things a mixed couple has to think about to live a "normal" life. I can relate to some of the things in the conversation, and I'm blown away by the other parts of the conversation.
The best part was no hangups so jokes even a little controversial can flow freely. Comedy is about laughing at ourselves. When thin skinned conservatives want to sling zealotry and bigotry one direction, then can't handle the reflection in the mirror, comedy dies. Comedy is a tool to humanize EVERYONE via understanding we are all flawed and quirky. This hiatus of stand-up comedy all so homosexual Trump gets to pretend KGB agent daughter Melania couldn't resist his microscopic pickle, flappy chest, old man smells and magnificent hairpiece? Let the Gay Donny Jokes Fly! Gay comedians need to ruthlessly go after Peter Thiel and his gay denial puppet Cadet TwinkySpurs.
You find great joy, in how prejudiced people are, that they think that people look/behave/act a certain way, depending on their sexuality, and how this preposterous idea is the accepted mainstream? You're delighted, that Cenk (and all of Hollywood) is massively prejudiced against gay people, in that way, and how no one in this video, challenges it, but instead reaffirms it? How no one sees any problems, with asking "how gay" a character should be played, as if that is even a thing?
This was an awesome conversation! Thank you, Brian, for feeling so comfortable publicly coming out this way. Good job to all! And break a leg at your next audition, Brian!
And as a multiracial person from Ohio, I can understand his husband not wanting to be in Ohio, because if you aren't in the main Cities, it has gotten rough for minorities and goodness gracious I couldn't imagine the life of someone that was in the LBGTQI community and a minority. But I am glad that Brian as a someone married to them is doing everything he can to relate. My wife does this for me and it isn't easy.
What struck me about this is that maybe we're getting nearer the point where someone's sexuality, is unsurprising and uninteresting and irrelevant, and a coming out isn't necessary.
Brian, I really appreciate your vulnerability. It’s so wonderful. My cousin David passed a few years back. He called himself my Notorious BGC (Big Gay Cousin) and when I took him to Faces in Sacramento there was a straight kid that kept telling him not to be scared thinking David was straight. Most of my life people have assumed I’m gay because I’m pretty and I have a lot of feminine qualities. I am who I am. I really felt a sense of joy when you explained the conversation you had with your husband. It’s really cool that you trust each other. I hope you found the best place to live! I Love Your Spirit!!!
We strive for a world where they won't have to feel brave enough or have any reason at all to explain themselves to anyone. They would just be, like everyone else.
Keep evolving Brian Unger. Straight white guy in Texas here, missing the Lincoln Douglass Legacy, supporting your freedom to love who you love. You're a good dude.
I had a similar thought as Cenk. "What? Your gay?" I didn't think he was straight either, I didn't think anything. I just remember him as a history channel presenter from a long time ago. I thought nothing. It's like hearing a cereal mascot is gay. Honestly, I really don't consider people beyond their screentime.
@@katsetuis5ryan600 If this was the only time I'd seen him, I'd have to disagree. He maintained a jovial, same-ol'-friendly attitude with Brian while asking questions, seemingly from a genuine curiosity. What words would YOU use to describe him?
Brian used to be a daily treat on Tyt. It’s nice when old school welcomes back all its first hosts and guests. It’s kinda neat Brian didn’t feel like he needed to tell anyone anything. I hope he is comfortable enough in his skin to try out for the parts he’s not typecast into.
Brian! Hello! 😊🙌🏼 We met at the premiere of ‘Hedwig’ with John Cameron Mitchell. Good to see you defending your life and people you love. Love and light to you and yours! ❤️ (We talked about my grandmother being one of the first women to have a radio show, Akron, OH)
I think it is courageous for a gay person to come out of the closet with all the prejudice there is to face. Actors should be able to play any straight or gay role regardless if they are gay or straight based on their talent for the role, not sexual orientation. Great examples are Neil Patrick Harris and Nathan Lane. They are both terrific actors and can play any role they want because they are so talented. Anything they do is believable based on talent, period. I hope gay and straight actors aren't typecast based on orientation.
Yes, sooooo courageous meanwhile, little kids in Palestine and Syria are running for their lives from sniper fire and laser guided missiles. So brave.. 🤡
@@woke_malecat Meanwhile, there is misery everywhere in the world. How do you find the energy to get through whatever your agenda is? You pick yours and let others pick theirs.
@@AimeeAimee444 when I was ateenager. in the 70' ( yeah I'm older but point that this was way before the marriage equality act, ) my lounge singer sister had a gay pianist who going to marry ( civil ceremony?) his boyfriend, and seeing they were both family friends and accepted by my folks ( in that era, that's fairly progressive, bless em) and I asked about it and she said, " what two people do in the privacy of there bedroom is....NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS !!! " Not right or wrong, not good or bad, not my book says this. It precludes any of those arguments. ( same answer when I asked about how much money she made and who she voted for!) So to hear your response, reminded me of an awesome women who I still love and miss and are grateful to for her for her common sense. Now if everybody just MINDED THEIR OWN BUSINESS ( talking to the " Karen's" and the religious right) we'd all be better off. So thank you, it's pretty simple huh?
@@theodery2712 I’m very touched that you shared so much of yourself by my simple response. I was a child of the 1970’s and yes, we were taught to not ask specific questions because it’s rude and none of your business. Thank you for responding thoughtfully. You brought me back to a time where we’d help the neighbor but never got into their private lives unless they chose to share. Sending you love and light! 😊🙌🏼🤍
Amen, I can totally relate as a gay man who has no outside clues that I’m gay. It’s somewhat of a double edged sword really, men or boys who are obviously gay faced hostility and ridicule as a defacto, expected part of their existence, but I didn’t experience that. The pain that gay men who have personalities that are perceived as being an average straight male comes later in life, in the form of losing friendships and family relationships you put a ton of work into over years, or even decades- when those people find out the truth, and you face the devastation of being thrown away entirely, or being slowly pushed out and alienated in an awkward and slow death of connectedness (which is the worst to me, to be honest) and lastly, questioning where you stand with whoever is left, suspicious of whether or not they’re genuine based on how the first two treated you. Basically, it’s a “pay now, or pay later” platform- either way, you’re going to be hurt in massive ways, and it’s going to alter how you perceive everything, and change your life experience permanently. Sad it’s that way, but that’s the reality you will live as a gay man.
@@brandynuance7791 thank you for replying. As is the norm, I failed to be able to elaborate in a way that would effectively communicate all points that were relevant to the experience, but I try my best. ❤️
I like all 3 of you more for having seen this. I think I'm also on the same bus as you guys in the idea that there has been a tendency to take identity politics too far lately on both sides.
"Where can we live that you will feel less conspicuous just because of your skin colour..." got news for you two. NOT IN THE US. Any person of colour I have spoken to who has moved to most European countries tell me the same thing.... "It just doesn't seem to effect how people see us anymore."
Why should anyone have to introduce themselves as straight or gay. Just except them as a person who might have ideas that could see things in a different light.
Well it is more than a bedroom issue. There are also public displays of affection, which back in the 70s I had an issue with but I have learned to live and let live. I'm from a small town and never saw a gay couple or even thought about gay people. Moved to Vancouver The West End in the early 80s, which was know as the gay side of town unbeknownst to me or my girlfriend. It was odd for me too walk down the street and see 2 guys in an alcove kissing. The 1st time I saw that I was aghast. Every single person I worked with was gay. Personally have no sexual attraction to men but I now understand people are allowed to be attracted to and enjoy the people they want to be with as long as they are consenting adults. Why anybody would be attracted to stinky, burping, farting hairy bristly males is beyond my understanding. If I were a female, I am pretty sure I would be gay! Women are just so much more sexy than men. I think it's the boobs ha ha!
Love him more for being gay? This video was supposed to be about race in america but Cenk made it all about HIS shock and awe that he's talking to a gay man.
Too many people are uncomfortable with a world that is complicated. When we first start learning about something new, we fit them into stereotypes and then as we learn more, a more complicated image emerges. For people who don’t (or won’t) learn more, stereotypes are all they understand.
Dammit, Cenk, I was watching this at work and now I have to explain to the whole room why I am over here braying like a donkey at " are you married to Webster?" LMAO
Really, my beloved Cenk. People don't usually say Hi, I'm gay... For some of us sexuality is personal and sacred...not a topic for general conversation.
Lol, honestly most people have no clue that I'm gay. I came out of the closet in elementary school by the forth grade. I remember clearly I was out of school for a week and came back and some of my friends were upset and said that these other kids said that they said I was queer and gay and they told them shut up or else he isn't gay. I looked at my friends and said why did you do that. They responded that it was wrong insulting. I told them clearly no I took no offense I am very much gay, queer take no offense, they were shocked. They said why didn't you tell us I responded you never asked, and honestly they just accepted it. Secretly after three of the five friends wrote me letters shortly after stating that they had crushes on me. I have never hid the fact I was gay. When I was 19 my best friend had been through a horrible abusive divorce and decided that to help her and her two sons it would be easier if she moved in with me, because she wouldn't have any bills and I had a big home in the country with alot of acreage in better school district. After two years of them living with me she asked me to raise the boys with her as their father. It's been the greatest honor of my life. They are grown adults now and we're still best friends and roommates, she is my straight female life partner. Now we both have dated over the years and find it funny when people tell me your wife is cheating on you or tell her I'm cheating with a man no less. For us it has been who's business is it how we lived our lives. I legally adopted the boys as soon as they both turned 18. I am masculine but I also wear everywhere I go a rainbow planet pendant several ancient Greek and Roman rings that all are part of gay history. I have tattoos on each shoulder one says homosexual in Japanese because I spent a good amount of time there and the other is the symbol for "The Sacred band of Thebes" anyone who asks about them I'm very blunt honest about the meanings. It amazes me how many people get upset like it is my responsibility to shout to them I'm gay even though I don't hide it in any way. Just because they don't assume that I'm gay doesn't mean I need to wear a giant label saying it so they are aware. People assume things and then blame the person when they are wrong just like my ethnicity. I am 6'2" 180lbs blonde hair a bit more brown now with gray on sides peppered in hazel eyes and light skinned, I don't speak with a accent except certain words that I try avoiding because I'm self conscious. They assume that I'm 100% white American in reality I'm French Moroccan and spent more time growing up in tribal West Africa and southeast Asia then in the USA. My grandmother Jewish her daughter my mother became Baptist and my father Muslim. I was raised mainly with grandmother and father with Sephardic Judaism and the Muslim religions simultaneously. My name that honestly gets shortened or confused in the USA is the only thing that gives away a big clue of ethnicity but in the USA they don't use accents officially so it just says David Ari Amir Roark Young and it is hard explaining that my first name is David Ari Amir not middle or last just first and most computer programs don't fit it so it's automatically shortened to just David Young usually or David Roark Young. So why should it be my responsibility to explain my ethnicity or my sexuality to others and what gives them a right or reason to be upset because they assumed wrong. Please forgive me for spelling and grammar mistakes also rambling I had a stroke and it effected my writing amongst other things. Thank you.
@@NothingEverywhereNow I know I ramble on that's why I apologize for it it is something that it's occurred since I had a stroke but I do see the humor and thank you
Yours is the kind of real story that I love to know. My grandson's story is similar although he is still a student. He is also a poster child for diversity--both visible and invisible.
@@wallofgratitude lol I'm not a youngster but not old yet (depending on how old the personality you ask is). I started early, and I'm actually a student again because I want to get my master's degree in geology and in chemistry, for my own enjoyment to help me understand gemstones even more in-depth. I live my life and my grandmother and her sister were the two greatest influences in my life so I have no doubt your grandson is very lucky to have you. Sadly they are no longer here but always in my heart and mind.
@@NothingEverywhereNow I thought about it overnight and I think that I go on so much about it because I am tired of people being upset with me because I don't wear a giant sign saying I'm gay and they assume I'm straight expecting me to apologize like I intentionally mislead them because they assume gay men don't hunt fish like classic cars motorcycles are feminine and I don't fit the stereotypes in thier minds. Also I never came out of the closet really because I was never in it I was kissing boys when I was in the second grade and I got crushes on other boys and on Valentine's Day I let them know that if not before I never hid who I was and have always been the same way. People didn't pick on me because I would fight and was good at it and it became they were afraid of being called out for getting beat up by the queer kid and somehow that's worse than being queer to kids at that time in the hierarchy but also I was attractive tall and had countless times if someone entered the restroom while I was in it it was either the had a crush wanted no one to know or wanted to fight me and I never lost a fight or would date someone who would not be openly seen dating me. So that is why I write so much on it because it has happened so many times and I am tired of it. I'm sorry for rambling spelling grammar mistakes I had a stroke it effected my writing amongst other things. Thank you.
@@NothingEverywhereNow your fine I get it daily actually your wrong on one thing lol I have not written any books about being gay but actually written three books, textbooks and references the first two are on the magnetic and electrical properties of gemstones crystals and minerals and the third is on biasterism the star effect in gems that only appears when light comes from behind the gemstone so if not into the heavy science of gemology they're great for helping insomnia. Lol thank God apparently I'm good at lectures since they always fill up but helps contributing to my being long winded as well and no I'm not a old man yet I'm under fifty lol and even though I lecture routinely I am back in school for my master's in chemistry and geology I have others but these will help me understand gems in other ways and it's fun to me. Yes I'm that insane that it is fun to me.
I can relate to this because I grew up in a time when it wasn't safe to come out. People were nervous about losing their job or home. I find it refreshing to see young people being okay with anyone's sensuality. This does raise the question to people like me, who didn't deny but didn't put it out there. I am of course more attune to all the laws being enacted against GLBTQ. I was so hopeful that we would just be judged as people who happen to be part of GLBTQ community.
I'm a big fan of Brian on Always Sunny and have seen him on TYT for years now but I had no idea he was gay. Also, I'm with Cenk on his identity politics take
Good for you, man. Thanks for having the courage to share, Brian. ❤
Wonderful segment guys, these need to be the type of conversations to be had that can make positive evolving changes again.
I really hope this video gets through to some people. I do not see how anyone could watch Brian speak from the heart, and feel like they hate him for being himself.
Thank you for sharing, Brian. It makes me think about my own life and knowing who I have to be careful about sharing such sensitive information. And Cenk is a true friend.
What a beautiful conversation. So refreshing to see healthy, humble, and heart-centered diversity being discussed from real thoughtful, emotionally intelligent men.
Fantastic interview! Happy Brain felt comfortable to open up the way he did.
Love this conversation. May the guys running things get better and stop being afraid.
I'm a straight Black man, but I found this discussion fascinating with all the things a mixed couple has to think about to live a "normal" life. I can relate to some of the things in the conversation, and I'm blown away by the other parts of the conversation.
14 minutes of real humans acting like humans. Truly moving.
One of the most real things I have seen.
The best part was no hangups so jokes even a little controversial can flow freely. Comedy is about laughing at ourselves. When thin skinned conservatives want to sling zealotry and bigotry one direction, then can't handle the reflection in the mirror, comedy dies. Comedy is a tool to humanize EVERYONE via understanding we are all flawed and quirky. This hiatus of stand-up comedy all so homosexual Trump gets to pretend KGB agent daughter Melania couldn't resist his microscopic pickle, flappy chest, old man smells and magnificent hairpiece? Let the Gay Donny Jokes Fly! Gay comedians need to ruthlessly go after Peter Thiel and his gay denial puppet Cadet TwinkySpurs.
Thank you for the authentic, heartfelt discussion.
This entire conversation has brought me so much joy
You find great joy, in how prejudiced people are, that they think that people look/behave/act a certain way, depending on their sexuality, and how this preposterous idea is the accepted mainstream? You're delighted, that Cenk (and all of Hollywood) is massively prejudiced against gay people, in that way, and how no one in this video, challenges it, but instead reaffirms it? How no one sees any problems, with asking "how gay" a character should be played, as if that is even a thing?
Love me some Brian Unger. Have been a fan for ages. This interview confirms what I've always suspected: he's also an incredibly nice guy.
What a great discussion. Well handled by all.
Awesome conversation. We need more platforms like The Young Turks, where facts and truth matter. It's so refreshing to watch.
I love this so much. beautiful supportive moment amongst grown men. We need to normalize this.
Thank you for sharing Brian, been a fan since HTSGTS. ❤️ from southern Ohio!
Always refreshing to hear a real conversation. Thanks so much!
didn't expect to be teared up now. love you guys.
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This was an awesome conversation! Thank you, Brian, for feeling so comfortable publicly coming out this way. Good job to all! And break a leg at your next audition, Brian!
And as a multiracial person from Ohio, I can understand his husband not wanting to be in Ohio, because if you aren't in the main Cities, it has gotten rough for minorities and goodness gracious I couldn't imagine the life of someone that was in the LBGTQI community and a minority. But I am glad that Brian as a someone married to them is doing everything he can to relate. My wife does this for me and it isn't easy.
What struck me about this is that maybe we're getting nearer the point where someone's sexuality, is unsurprising and uninteresting and irrelevant, and a coming out isn't necessary.
AMEN, AMEN, AMEN !!!🙏💪🤝✌️
❤ Thanks for having this conversation.
Brian, I really appreciate your vulnerability. It’s so wonderful. My cousin David passed a few years back. He called himself my Notorious BGC (Big Gay Cousin) and when I took him to Faces in Sacramento there was a straight kid that kept telling him not to be scared thinking David was straight. Most of my life people have assumed I’m gay because I’m pretty and I have a lot of feminine qualities. I am who I am. I really felt a sense of joy when you explained the conversation you had with your husband. It’s really cool that you trust each other. I hope you found the best place to live! I Love Your Spirit!!!
Wow! I coulda had Brian Unger this whole time?! 🤯🤦♂
😂😅😊
Cenk IS the best, OF COURSE! "..oh, so you're married to Webster?" HILARIOUS!! Great conversation with feeling and humour.
Gay people deserve respect for being brave enough to say, ‘this is who I am’.
We strive for a world where they won't have to feel brave enough or have any reason at all to explain themselves to anyone. They would just be, like everyone else.
Keep evolving Brian Unger. Straight white guy in Texas here, missing the Lincoln Douglass Legacy, supporting your freedom to love who you love. You're a good dude.
I loved this moment between these men. ❤
That was wonderful! Thank you so much! I watch Yellowstone and will look out for Unger.
Kudos to Brian and really to all of you. It was very positive and it was real. Have a good one you all.
What a great interview. Cenk struggled for a minute but he recovered great and they ended up making an excellent point.
Good on ya brother! embrace who you are. this was far too wholesome lol
You guys. You guys. Just thanks. Thanks for all of it. ❤
The part when Cenk and Ben laughed about Webster and Brian's response is hilarious!
Ben almost cried. I loved it.
I Love this man SO much!!❤🎉
Leaves Cenk speechless:
Cenk: I have a million things to say about this
Good conversation!
I've been a huge fan of Brian for quite some time. Be well, Brian!! Keep it real!
I had ZERO idea Brian was gay either. Cenk's shock was same as mine, he just casually mentioned it. 😂
I love these conversations.
I had a similar thought as Cenk. "What? Your gay?" I didn't think he was straight either, I didn't think anything. I just remember him as a history channel presenter from a long time ago. I thought nothing. It's like hearing a cereal mascot is gay. Honestly, I really don't consider people beyond their screentime.
Love Brian, so happy he has someone special to share his life with. Didn't know he was married to a guy, but that changes nothing.
Brian is awesome. Congrats on finding your forever plus one!
This was great. What a guy. And Cenk is so curious, caring, considerate.
Those words don't describe him
@@katsetuis5ryan600 If this was the only time I'd seen him, I'd have to disagree. He maintained a jovial, same-ol'-friendly attitude with Brian while asking questions, seemingly from a genuine curiosity. What words would YOU use to describe him?
I love you guys. ❤
I am just as surprised as Cenk right now. Wow. Had no idea!!! :)
Love this interview ❤
I love this 🎉🎉 I like how he responded because who love is who ❤️
This proved that some people have a serious expectation of what "gay"means, we're not a monolithic community.
LMFAOOOOO’ I love how real Brian is - thank you for coming out being transparent !!🎉
“My life is an open book. I just choose not to read aloud.”
too bad...cuz most people don't read so well. Ya...they recognize the words. But all those words strung together...😵💫
All these years i had no idea either!
Brian used to be a daily treat on Tyt. It’s nice when old school welcomes back all its first hosts and guests.
It’s kinda neat Brian didn’t feel like he needed to tell anyone anything. I hope he is comfortable enough in his skin to try out for the parts he’s not typecast into.
Awesome good to be yourself. Support here
Brian! Hello! 😊🙌🏼
We met at the premiere of ‘Hedwig’ with John Cameron Mitchell.
Good to see you defending your life and people you love.
Love and light to you and yours! ❤️
(We talked about my grandmother being one of the first women to have a radio show, Akron, OH)
That was so fun, and so funny! I had never seen Old School. I just now subscribed to TYT in solidarity with Ana!
I wish “How the States got their shapes” was still on… History and Brian…. What more could I ask for!!
Only if he studied bird law.. Kidding aside, more power to Brian. Heartfelt moments in this one.
From the bottom of my ❤, wishing you and your hb a happy life.
Best coming out ever!
I think it is courageous for a gay person to come out of the closet with all the prejudice there is to face. Actors should be able to play any straight or gay role regardless if they are gay or straight based on their talent for the role, not sexual orientation. Great examples are Neil Patrick Harris and Nathan Lane. They are both terrific actors and can play any role they want because they are so talented. Anything they do is believable based on talent, period. I hope gay and straight actors aren't typecast based on orientation.
Yes, sooooo courageous meanwhile, little kids in Palestine and Syria are running for their lives from sniper fire and laser guided missiles. So brave..
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@@woke_malecat Meanwhile, there is misery everywhere in the world. How do you find the energy to get through whatever your agenda is? You pick yours and let others pick theirs.
@@wallofgratitude Gas station sold Horny Goat weed.
@@woke_malecat What are you waiting for?
Go there and help them?
I did 6 years ago..... but i don't want to to die
@@dr.fjoer_the_crazy_scienti5841 nah, i’d rather walk the pride festivities whilst waving pride flags. So brave.
This was a nice moment
He never mentioned it... because it doesn't matter.
Exactly!
*because it’s nobody’s business*
@@AimeeAimee444 when I was ateenager. in the 70' ( yeah I'm older but point that this was way before the marriage equality act, ) my lounge singer sister had a gay pianist who going to marry ( civil ceremony?) his boyfriend, and seeing they were both family friends and accepted by my folks ( in that era, that's fairly progressive, bless em) and I asked about it and she said, " what two people do in the privacy of there bedroom is....NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS !!! " Not right or wrong, not good or bad, not my book says this. It precludes any of those arguments. ( same answer when I asked about how much money she made and who she voted for!) So to hear your response, reminded me of an awesome women who I still love and miss and are grateful to for her for her common sense. Now if everybody just MINDED THEIR OWN BUSINESS ( talking to the " Karen's" and the religious right) we'd all be better off. So thank you, it's pretty simple huh?
@@theodery2712 I’m very touched that you shared so much of yourself by my simple response.
I was a child of the 1970’s and yes, we were taught to not ask specific questions because it’s rude and none of your business.
Thank you for responding thoughtfully. You brought me back to a time where we’d help the neighbor but never got into their private lives unless they chose to share.
Sending you love and light! 😊🙌🏼🤍
@@AimeeAimee444 thanks Aimee, same wishes for you.
Welcome home, Brian.
Amen, I can totally relate as a gay man who has no outside clues that I’m gay.
It’s somewhat of a double edged sword really, men or boys who are obviously gay faced hostility and ridicule as a defacto, expected part of their existence, but I didn’t experience that.
The pain that gay men who have personalities that are perceived as being an average straight male comes later in life, in the form of losing friendships and family relationships you put a ton of work into over years, or even decades- when those people find out the truth, and you face the devastation of being thrown away entirely, or being slowly pushed out and alienated in an awkward and slow death of connectedness (which is the worst to me, to be honest) and lastly, questioning where you stand with whoever is left, suspicious of whether or not they’re genuine based on how the first two treated you.
Basically, it’s a “pay now, or pay later” platform- either way, you’re going to be hurt in massive ways, and it’s going to alter how you perceive everything, and change your life experience permanently.
Sad it’s that way, but that’s the reality you will live as a gay man.
I will always support you and I don't know you I support love all the time
For what it’s worth- thanks for sharing 💜😊
@@brandynuance7791 thank you for replying.
As is the norm, I failed to be able to elaborate in a way that would effectively communicate all points that were relevant to the experience, but I try my best. ❤️
Love this 💙💙
Loved this, Thanks 👍
Thank you for sharing your opinions with us. Thank you Brian for choosing us to "Come out" to. You are a BOSS 😮❤️🍻👍😎
BEAUTIFUL!😍
Right there with you Cenk. I was like “wow that took a turn”😅😅😅😅
This was sooooo lovely! And Cenk- i thought the exact same thing at the end. Love you guys
I like all 3 of you more for having seen this.
I think I'm also on the same bus as you guys in the idea that there has been a tendency to take identity politics too far lately on both sides.
"Where can we live that you will feel less conspicuous just because of your skin colour..." got news for you two. NOT IN THE US. Any person of colour I have spoken to who has moved to most European countries tell me the same thing....
"It just doesn't seem to effect how people see us anymore."
Why should anyone have to introduce themselves as straight or gay. Just except them as a person who might have ideas that could see things in a different light.
Well said, he is the same just has different views.❤
That's how you do it. Your bedroom is no one business. However be happy and free Brian you not hurting anyone .
Well it is more than a bedroom issue. There are also public displays of affection, which back in the 70s I had an issue with but I have learned to live and let live. I'm from a small town and never saw a gay couple or even thought about gay people. Moved to Vancouver The West End in the early 80s, which was know as the gay side of town unbeknownst to me or my girlfriend. It was odd for me too walk down the street and see 2 guys in an alcove kissing. The 1st time I saw that I was aghast. Every single person I worked with was gay. Personally have no sexual attraction to men but I now understand people are allowed to be attracted to and enjoy the people they want to be with as long as they are consenting adults. Why anybody would be attracted to stinky, burping, farting hairy bristly males is beyond my understanding. If I were a female, I am pretty sure I would be gay! Women are just so much more sexy than men. I think it's the boobs ha ha!
@@Arbadee.PayZaLee If no one knew it was a personal matter. I get what your saying.
Cenk's questions after initial shock, sounded exactly like the previous "um where to live uhm..." questions.
😂😂😂 he's so chill about it. Luv it!
Cenk, you are not alone. Love him from Sunny, and I love him more now.
Love him more for he came out. I could care less about his bedroom manners...
Love him more for being gay? This video was supposed to be about race in america but Cenk made it all about HIS shock and awe that he's talking to a gay man.
@@bhalchandraganeshbhatstude8290so why did you feel the need to tell him this lie 🤥
Too many people are uncomfortable with a world that is complicated. When we first start learning about something new, we fit them into stereotypes and then as we learn more, a more complicated image emerges. For people who don’t (or won’t) learn more, stereotypes are all they understand.
I'm with Cenk. 🤯
Dammit, Cenk, I was watching this at work and now I have to explain to the whole room why I am over here braying like a donkey at " are you married to Webster?" LMAO
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I love when people find their heart
many happy years...congratulations❣❣
I kind of wanted to hear where Nic wanted to live and felt not discriminated against
No place like that exists in the USA. It's about finding a tolerable place to live.
This was a funny, entertaining conversation! 😅🤣😂
This is one of the most Human moments ever on this channel.
I love Brian Unger! I thought he was super handsome since I saw him on IASIP as the lawyer! 💛💛💛 (family recognize family)
You know why cenk never knew? Because Brian doesn't let being gay be the definition of who he is, and that's perfect ly fine.
Best attorney in Philadelphia lol
Really, my beloved Cenk. People don't usually say Hi, I'm gay... For some of us sexuality is personal and sacred...not a topic for general conversation.
And Cenk did shame him for it. He simply said “oh… I didn’t know”
What the problem with that?
@@posefile8873 Exactly! I bet Cenk knew he would get backlash from the dumber people in the audience.
He still wouldn’t dare challenge Charlie in bird law though
Cenk never asked because it doesn't matter to him.
Yeah because he's not against people like Trump and the cult
I loved that.
In exhausted from all of it
This is awesome lol
Interesting, if unexpected, conversation. Glad I happened onto it.
Lol, honestly most people have no clue that I'm gay. I came out of the closet in elementary school by the forth grade. I remember clearly I was out of school for a week and came back and some of my friends were upset and said that these other kids said that they said I was queer and gay and they told them shut up or else he isn't gay. I looked at my friends and said why did you do that. They responded that it was wrong insulting. I told them clearly no I took no offense I am very much gay, queer take no offense, they were shocked. They said why didn't you tell us I responded you never asked, and honestly they just accepted it. Secretly after three of the five friends wrote me letters shortly after stating that they had crushes on me. I have never hid the fact I was gay. When I was 19 my best friend had been through a horrible abusive divorce and decided that to help her and her two sons it would be easier if she moved in with me, because she wouldn't have any bills and I had a big home in the country with alot of acreage in better school district. After two years of them living with me she asked me to raise the boys with her as their father. It's been the greatest honor of my life. They are grown adults now and we're still best friends and roommates, she is my straight female life partner. Now we both have dated over the years and find it funny when people tell me your wife is cheating on you or tell her I'm cheating with a man no less. For us it has been who's business is it how we lived our lives. I legally adopted the boys as soon as they both turned 18. I am masculine but I also wear everywhere I go a rainbow planet pendant several ancient Greek and Roman rings that all are part of gay history. I have tattoos on each shoulder one says homosexual in Japanese because I spent a good amount of time there and the other is the symbol for "The Sacred band of Thebes" anyone who asks about them I'm very blunt honest about the meanings. It amazes me how many people get upset like it is my responsibility to shout to them I'm gay even though I don't hide it in any way. Just because they don't assume that I'm gay doesn't mean I need to wear a giant label saying it so they are aware. People assume things and then blame the person when they are wrong just like my ethnicity. I am 6'2" 180lbs blonde hair a bit more brown now with gray on sides peppered in hazel eyes and light skinned, I don't speak with a accent except certain words that I try avoiding because I'm self conscious. They assume that I'm 100% white American in reality I'm French Moroccan and spent more time growing up in tribal West Africa and southeast Asia then in the USA. My grandmother Jewish her daughter my mother became Baptist and my father Muslim. I was raised mainly with grandmother and father with Sephardic Judaism and the Muslim religions simultaneously. My name that honestly gets shortened or confused in the USA is the only thing that gives away a big clue of ethnicity but in the USA they don't use accents officially so it just says David Ari Amir Roark Young and it is hard explaining that my first name is David Ari Amir not middle or last just first and most computer programs don't fit it so it's automatically shortened to just David Young usually or David Roark Young. So why should it be my responsibility to explain my ethnicity or my sexuality to others and what gives them a right or reason to be upset because they assumed wrong. Please forgive me for spelling and grammar mistakes also rambling I had a stroke and it effected my writing amongst other things. Thank you.
@@NothingEverywhereNow I know I ramble on that's why I apologize for it it is something that it's occurred since I had a stroke but I do see the humor and thank you
Yours is the kind of real story that I love to know. My grandson's story is similar although he is still a student. He is also a poster child for diversity--both visible and invisible.
@@wallofgratitude lol I'm not a youngster but not old yet (depending on how old the personality you ask is). I started early, and I'm actually a student again because I want to get my master's degree in geology and in chemistry, for my own enjoyment to help me understand gemstones even more in-depth. I live my life and my grandmother and her sister were the two greatest influences in my life so I have no doubt your grandson is very lucky to have you. Sadly they are no longer here but always in my heart and mind.
@@NothingEverywhereNow I thought about it overnight and I think that I go on so much about it because I am tired of people being upset with me because I don't wear a giant sign saying I'm gay and they assume I'm straight expecting me to apologize like I intentionally mislead them because they assume gay men don't hunt fish like classic cars motorcycles are feminine and I don't fit the stereotypes in thier minds. Also I never came out of the closet really because I was never in it I was kissing boys when I was in the second grade and I got crushes on other boys and on Valentine's Day I let them know that if not before I never hid who I was and have always been the same way. People didn't pick on me because I would fight and was good at it and it became they were afraid of being called out for getting beat up by the queer kid and somehow that's worse than being queer to kids at that time in the hierarchy but also I was attractive tall and had countless times if someone entered the restroom while I was in it it was either the had a crush wanted no one to know or wanted to fight me and I never lost a fight or would date someone who would not be openly seen dating me. So that is why I write so much on it because it has happened so many times and I am tired of it. I'm sorry for rambling spelling grammar mistakes I had a stroke it effected my writing amongst other things. Thank you.
@@NothingEverywhereNow your fine I get it daily actually your wrong on one thing lol I have not written any books about being gay but actually written three books, textbooks and references the first two are on the magnetic and electrical properties of gemstones crystals and minerals and the third is on biasterism the star effect in gems that only appears when light comes from behind the gemstone so if not into the heavy science of gemology they're great for helping insomnia. Lol thank God apparently I'm good at lectures since they always fill up but helps contributing to my being long winded as well and no I'm not a old man yet I'm under fifty lol and even though I lecture routinely I am back in school for my master's in chemistry and geology I have others but these will help me understand gems in other ways and it's fun to me. Yes I'm that insane that it is fun to me.
I can relate to this because I grew up in a time when it wasn't safe to come out. People were nervous about losing their job or home. I find it refreshing to see young people being okay with anyone's sensuality. This does raise the question to people like me, who didn't deny but didn't put it out there. I am of course more attune to all the laws being enacted against GLBTQ.
I was so hopeful that we would just be judged as people who happen to be part of GLBTQ community.
Brian is so good in always sunny
That rocks. I love Unger , happy he is finding his stride in life. Damn good, damn funny actor.
It's the hands......drives men wild!!
I'm a big fan of Brian on Always Sunny and have seen him on TYT for years now but I had no idea he was gay. Also, I'm with Cenk on his identity politics take
Is that "The lawyer" from its always sunny in Philadelphia?
Yes
When he said "Cher tickets", I thought he meant "share" like some kind of timeshare!
Yes! Me too!
@@browneyedgirl6050 I guess since I am a gay man I knew exactly what he ment... LOL
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