Love how the mom is going crazy about her child seeing the body of another child, but sees no issue with saying every cuss word in the English language in front of her 4 year old 🤣
I've lost count of the number of videos I've seen of Karens and Darrens laying into someone for doing or wearing something inappropriate, yet every other word they say starts with "F"
Did viset florida one, Caya costa, for fishing, did need a small ferry trip, there she was, EP from trailer park, with maybe 10 kids from 0-16 all goin same way. We had, shit load of fishing gear, food, and some beer. EP not happy. Danish Hedings was making her kids look at us, interested in us, maybe the fun we was. But yes, EP did talk to captain, and the park rangers. Did see her kids over there, but we was fishing, so, we smiled, she did not like us. At all. Pretty Shure Jesus did hear about us that 14days, a lot
As a German I find those "nudity" complaints so ridiculous. It's just a body, everyone has one. Can't tell you how many naked people I've seen on beaches, not only in Germany but in every European country I've been to. It's very normal here, especially kids run around naked a lot. Some people go sunbathing topless in public parks, too. Nobody bats an eye.
Fellow German here, send them to the Baltic Coast, I haven't seen a single swimsuit, and it was fall and for me just bearable to walk in knee deep. Also, I work in Munich, I could go to the public park on my lunch break and see people sunbathing naked and nobody cares.
🤣 a couple of summers ago I witnessed the oldest, wrinkliest old dude let it ALL hang out on the neighbors balcony. When I tell you this man was COOKING in oil on the balcony, facing the street, letting his old dude's balls show in all their stretched glory... My friend and I just laughed and reoriented our seats at the balcony and wondered if the phrase " where the sun don't shine" was even applicable anymore.
@@RisWish - The woman complaining about her four year old being able to see too much of the thirteen year old is just silly. At four years old you wouldn't even care if everyone was running around nude, they have no concept of sexuality in that way. I have a feeling the four year old is going to be raised to feel ashamed of their own body though, and that is pretty sad.
LMAO! "This is my spot!" has happened to me! It's hilarious! I am a town resident, and we went to that spot many times. Apparently one day, another family who likes the spot shows up, and DEMANDS that we move. I was with my toddler son at the time and another mom friend with her kid. We just sat there, stunned and incredulous at the situation unfolding. The woman began to RAGE at us.. her teen daughter joined in. My friend and I looked at each other and - burst into laughter. Our laughing tuned out the family who stood over our picnic blanket as they shouted. Thankfully they were attracting enough attention that they became conscious of other people staring. The mother said that now they were forced to get burned in the sun because we were so selfish. The funny thing is- we were talking about leaving only minutes before they showed. If they had only approached us and politely asked how long we were staying, we would have left right away. Because of their theatrics, we decided to stay an extra half hour just because of their temper tantrum. When we got ready to leave, my friend approached a woman with two young kids and asked if they wanted to take our spot. She gratefully accepted, and had another couple of women join her. We couldn't resist looking over at where the entitled family were camped. They looked as if they would combust. Great day to be petty! 😂
Yeah, sometimes you just have to kill them with kindness. I've worked in retail for 25 years and know; the nicer (sounding lol) you are the madder they get; but there's nothing they can do about it!!🤣 take that guy for example. Karen's going to complain to management that he told her "i hope you get home safe, have a nice day" !! Management is just going to be like "wtf!" He's just being nice!! Lol 😆!!
And all the dude’s friends were cracking up too! Making the unpleasant situation a hilarious time for them, and embarrassing for Karen. Love that for them!
This! I've been a 4 year old at beaches/ pools. I can tell you what games we played in the sand, how much wearing water wings sucked, I can tell you how chlorinated water up the nose burns just as much as salt water. I cannot, however, tell you what ANYone else was wearing....because I was a 4 year old playing in water, and not an oddly threatened mom sexualizing a literal 8th grader and using their child as an excuse to be confrontational about their own insecurities.
You are formed and shaped subconsciously by images and people around you. Super young kids don't care necessarily, but when they grow up, they will already be desensitized without realizing it.
I LOVE IT when young men are minding their own business and Karen’s go all Karen on them and they just match their energy but with kindness. “I HOPE YOU GET HOME SAFE!”
I laughed when the young men starting yelling "I hope you get home safe!" What a great example of matching negativity with kindness and positivity. We really do need more of this in the world!!
Even if you don't like what someone's wearing that's a great chance to teach your kids not to stare at others. If it's your SO great chance to find out they're a creep.
This is so true. Since I was a child my dad would glare at me threateningly if there were anybody nearby who were ‘different’ like people with physical disabilities or even people in wheelchairs. This glare conveys ‘don’t stare and don’t ask stupid questions’. Even as an adult, i would automatically turn my gaze away when I see ‘special-looking’ people because I even still feel afraid of being scolded by my dad 🤣🤣. I didnt think this was weird until I went out with a group of friends and I was the only one averting my gaze.
As a European, I find it hilarious how offended some Americans get over beach attire. Being topless or wearing a thong is perfectly acceptable on most beaches, not to mention there are actual nudist beaches where you can let it all hang out and no one is weird about it.
Right! I’m American and I still don’t understand why guess it’s some sexist shite where they want to control what women wear cause men can’t control themselves 🙄 but honestly also as a a woman it’s just so annoying to constantly have ur body sexualized as a minor or a woman
people can wear whatever makes them comfortable to the beach....who cares?!?! I'm a 51 year old who goes to the water park literally every Sunday. I wear swim trunks and a top....I see women all the time wearing next to nothing. And you know what? GOOD 👏🏻 FOR👏🏻 THEM👏🏻! With everything else we have to worry about in this world, this is quite literally the SMALLEST PROBLEM. ugh.
I dont think anyone should tell other people what to wear (unless they asked for advice) I do think there is a level of covering up. I’m fine with what people choose to wear. (This isn’t meant to sound negative, and I don’t mean to start stuff) Everyone has their own opinions.
I can remember neighbors reporting my mother for allowing my 4 yr old and 2 yr old sisters play in the sprinkler in "our" back yard just wearing the undies. Karens have been around forever! This was over 50 years ago.
I want to thumbs your comment up a lot. I would've ask that you watch your kids. In my neighborhood, we had and still have two registered sex offenders. As a kid, I would pretend my mom called me when one of the local pedos approached the front yard. Thankfully it was a gated home, so he couldn't reach me... but still. 🥺😞 I don't have a pool anymore due to sick f^
The nudity one with the kid is so relatable. I'm a British/US dual national raised by an American mother/British father, but my whole family other than my parents are state-side. I grew up cross-cultural and between both counties, but I also spent time in mainland Europe. My mother still tells me about the time when I was two or three years old and running around almost naked on my grandma's front lawn in Florida, playing in the sprinklers. Some neighbour woman literally walked out of her house to tell my mother to put more clothes on me (a literal toddler) because it was "inappropriate" (I was wearing swim bottoms but no top). My mother got so mad because this person went out of their way to say this to her. Super glad I was raised by a woman who stood up to this, especially in the 90s. If you have an issue with a 3-year-old child being topless while playing in 110-degree heat, supervised by adults, in their own front yard, you're the issue. The woman apparently said she was trying to "protect" me. If she really wanted to "protect" me, she'd have made sure I had sunscreen and water. Far too many people, particularly in the US I've noticed, have such a complex about naked bodies. Funny how many of the same people bitch about religious face/head coverings (double standards much?). In cultures where nudity is more normalised, bodies are less fetishised and sexualised, which creates a much healthier relationship with the natural human anatomy both within the self and socially. People who have major issues with nudity ought to consider why that is.
Realistically speaking, the sunscreen is probably what these "concerned" people should actually be worried and yelling at people about. I've seen far too many red and peeling kids and adults.
@@twilightingX its control imposed over the young and feminine with the excuse of pedophiles. There are so many backwards laws in the united states that limit the rights children have to autonomy and their own sense of self, like most European countries have, but they say its to 'protect' them.
I am European too and it is very common that small kids are topless, sometimes even bottomless. Like I dont understand the problem. Like especially when I watch what some teen girls wear on social media or the way they picture themselves and nobody cares about it. But they care that children wear swim suit like honestly I am happy I live here. People are normal lol. We have Karens too here dont worry, especially old grumpy people. But I do not meet them very often.
As an American, I was never bothered by nudity (until recently but that's due to either a mental illness or a trauma response, I've had anxiety attacks related to being around nudity) and I really don't get why some people care. Especially when it's a child! A toddler running around without a shirt is only the parents' concern, making sure they've got sunscreen. And my only concern with religious head/face coverings and heavy clothing is that those who wear them may overheat in the summers, but then again they probably know how to prevent that, so it is none of my business
Karen: complains about her 4 yr old son being exposed to sight of girl in a thong at a beach Also Karen: exposes her 4 yr old son to a LOT of obscene language 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
“You need to cover up cos my sons, and/or husband is looking at you”…. Well that’s on them then isn’t it? If they can’t go about their business without having their eyes glued to someone’s body, then the fault lies with them
Jesus Himself said, if you can’t stop looking, pluck out your eyes: “If thy eye offends thee, pluck it out.” I’ve heard that the Koran has a similar scene with the Prophet. People seem to forget/ignore these passages.
I can hardly wait for a time when women aren't responsible for the behavior of men. How about let them have all the consequences of a wayward libido? The things we can't wear, the places we can't go alone or in small numbers, the things we can't say or be careful of the way we say things just because it "gives a man ideas." I'm sick of it! A real man knows how to control himself in every way.
This is absolutely hilarious. As a scandinavian I've never heard anybody complain over swimsuits on the beach or nudity for that matter. I do not understand why Americans sexualize every piece of clothes women are wearing. 🤯 Nobody in America complain about what men wear on the beach or anywhere else. STOP CONTROLLING WOMEN 😯
Actually, a lot of Americans (I am American) would complain if a man wore a thong swimsuit or a Speedo. I have heard them. I have the benefit of having spent part of my childhood in Europe and think they're ridiculous, but they will do it!
That’s because they’ve sexualized women in ads and in movies and in everything that cost money. And it just moved into society. They’ve been doing this for decades. Idk since when.
@@It-is-me...Melsie A woman does not wear a thong for her own sake. She is seeking attention. If you ask any woman why they would wear a tiny string thong to the beach they will never tell you "because It's comfortable", they will say it's "because I'm hot and have a nice ass so might as well show it off while I'm young."
My husband and I were vacationing with our children in Mexico one year and we had gone out early to get a good place where we could stretch out on a beach chair, with a nice shade umbrella to gaurd from the overexposure to the sun as my husband had extremely sensitive and pale skin and burned even with sunblock on. He was somewhat Photosensitive to the suns UV rays as was our 6 year old daughter. We settled in and I lubed up my daughter and husband with sunscreen so my daughter could swim. About 2 hours later a family from Germany came up to us and the husband said, "This is our spot, can you please move". In a very annoyed tone. I replied, Excuse me but we've been here since 10am and no one was here, and we asked others sitting close if anyone had taken this spot and they all said "No"... He quickly snapped at me and said, "well, we were here yesterday and this is the spot we choose to sit so you have to move." I started to laugh because I thought, he can't really think that just because he sat here yesterday that it means they get this spot everyday. About then a waiter walked passed and the German man called him over... He told the waiter, "Can you please tell these rude entitled Americans that this is our spot... we had it all day yesterday and now they won't move.". The waiter looked at us then over to him and said, "I'm sorry sir, there is no assigned seating here. It's first come first serve so I'm not authorized to tell them to move. They guy started bitching in German to his wife and they walked away. But by that time all the lounge chairs were taken... in the time it took him to stand there demanding that we move he could have grabbed a spot right net to us or a few chairs down but he was insisting on that particular spot. When he walked away he made the mistake of calling me a Bitch and that didn't set well with my husband. So he walked over to the guy who was still complaining in German and told him if he ever called me a bitch again or said anything else to me in that manner he'd show him how entitled we were. Later that day my daughter was hungry and tired so my husband took her for a bite to eat and a nap. All of our things were on the chairs and table, the usual things, sunblock, a few good books and a drink I ordered just before I went for a dip. My surrong, and towels were on the chairs ... I walked down to the beach and swam for a bit and when I returned that asshole had dumped all of our things onto the sand and grabbed the chairs and umbrella stand and moved it over just slightly as if we wouldn't notice. I didn't say anything to them but I did go and get the Hotel Manager and she escorted me back to the beach. By this time my husband was back with our daughter and was arguing with the guy for moving our things and taking the chairs. The manager told him he couldn't just take other peoples items and toss them aside and take their seats. But this guy refused to move...he argued with the hotel manager and after a few minutes of that crap I just said, let the assholes keep them. We picked up our belongings and started to move down to find a spot in the sand. An older couple was getting ready to leave and offered their spot to us because they weren't going to be back that day. So these fools had to sit right next to us and after a few minutes of that uncomfortable situation they got up and left bitching under their breath. The next morning bright and early they were there in that very spot so I grabbed the beach chairs and umbrella right next to them and moved it as close as I could without being in their actual space. It drove them crazy... they ended up moving these chairs a ways away from us so we just moved our chairs back into that spot and had a great vacation for the rest of the week. Moral of the story is... nobody owns the beach. You don't get to tell people where they can sit or not sit. If you were there and someone else get there first then do liek everyone else does. Find a different spot.
I simply just don't understand how someone thinks they're entitled to a specific place on a beach because they were there yesterday, also.....what different does it make? It's the same ocean 20 yards down the way.....same kind of sand....same temperature....etc. Just people being on vacation and having to mark their territory somewhere where they aren't entitled to anything at all.
@@TheRustyAntlers Exactly, and I'm shocked the dude didn't pee on it to mark his territory. As you said, there was a huge stretch of beach where they could have walked and gotten a place because when they first arrived not every spot was taken. In the time it took this guy to argue with us he and his family could have been sitting comfortably out of the sun and enjoying their vacation. It's a crazy world with a lot of crazy people in it. We were out of the country in the Caribbean and foreigners typically are nice or just won't engage you but the ones that hate Americans are very vocal about it.
@@gazz3867 Yea people do it a lot. They just put their towels one day on the chairs by the pool and they leave them here for the rest of the vacation. I dont understand why there isnt any rule for this. I would just take these towels and throw them in the pool or somewhere. Like what the hell is this behavior lol.
we went on a family holiday to ibiza "the family side, not clubbing" with my 10yo son and 7yo son and husband, at least 6 women of varied ages sunbathing topless on the beach.my sons looked, saw and then asked if they were allowed to do it. i replied with "well you three are topless so whats wrong with them being topless" they shrugged and started playing. literally no one cared, everyone just got on with their day. i dont understand this thing with americans and being offended over clothing
Love this! Kids don't care unless they're taught to do so! It's only when the adults in their lives make a big thing out of something natural that it becomes an issue. Not teaching children that human bodies are fine, normal, and natural is far more dangerous.
@@tarb96 id much rather them know what natural bodies look like, that they all look different and thats ok. than them get a warped idea from watching porn when theyre older. it also teaches them that it doesnt matter what a woman wears she is still to be respected
A lot of us don't care, having been raised by sensible parents. I was raised in the Midwest, Missouri. There was an unofficial nude swimming area in our town and my father would take us as kids, then later as a teen my friends, sisters and I would go. Other people would swim wearing clothing but there was no judgement either way.
I was thinking the same thing! A girl in a bikini (even a revealing one) is less of a concern for my 4-year old than a lack of emotional control and a poor vocabulary is.
But also, she could choose to ignore it... instead she is bringing attention to it and teaching her 4y/o how to sexualize women. Dope parenting skillz.
@@rachelhightops5261 dangerous ground to suggest a single mom is less than perfect. 😉 Parenting is hard all on its own and it becomes infinitely harder alone and without guidance while letting your emotions drive.
Not the beach but at our neighborhood pool the HOA president made a "rule" that women (especially teens) couldn't wear bikinis. He really thought the neighborhood was gonna be on his side is the best part. All the parents responded by asking"why are you looking at children in the first place hm?" or "who is gonna determine what is to much skin....for children" He responded by saying "wEll I doNT wAnT mY yOunG dAuGHteR aSkInG whY wOmeN aRe naKed"......he isn't the president anymore😊
HOAs always seem to attract the control freaks, dictators and those who fancy themselves the standard of perfection that all others should aspire to become.
When you said "some of you have never been to Europe and it shows" i laughed so much because as an Italian (and so as an European) i was watching till that moment as if all those TikTok were trolling Karens and not true, i was so confused wondering what was the problem with those people ahahahahah
I've never been to Europe (only been outside the Continental USA once, for about 2 hours, in Windsor, Ontario), but it wouldn't bother me to see someone going topless or nude at a beach. I don't understand all these people who still think the human body is "dirty" or obscene. We're all born naked so what's the big deal. We all have the same basic equipment (it might be rearranged differently or another size) but some people s ideas of "morality" is incomprehensible.
as someone who's grown up in a beach town their entire 30ish years of existing, I am really looking forward to this episode! i've definitely encountered a lot of beach karens (people have moved my entire beachday set up to take my spot when i went to the bathroom, lots of littering, people screaming at each other over parking spots, surfers getting into brawls over waves, drunk ppl gettined fined, panicked people peeing on jellyfish stings [don't do that lol], dramatic "rescues" due to ppl ignoring riptide signs, seagulls stealing my unopened family-sized Cheeto bag + devouring it while I helplessly watched on, another time a seagull stole a PB+J from my hand + scratched me badly, the list goes on! Seagulls can be quite karen-ish lol). thanks for a new video Charlotte! so proud of how far you've come ❤
My favorite beach memory was a seagull taking a ziploc bag of carrots while me and my 5 yo at the time chased it. I was born many miles from the ocean. I didn't know. I was worried about the bird eating the plastic. Bless those of you in San Diego who watched me run around after a seagull for like 5 minutes one time. (Bird dropped the bag eventually, miraculously)
as a german i can only laugh at all of this. that shit would never fly here and the police would have laughed at the women or maybe even fined her for blocking the emergency line with stupid nonsense.
I love the enthusiasm of the dude as he ranted the cuss words of “HAVE A GREAT DAY! Like he defused the situation with kindness, she literally is the villain by default.
It's not just the beach. A few years ago, I was in Humboldt Redwoods State Park (California) in August, chatting with one of the rangers at the entrance, when this woman walked up and started complaining about the algae in the nearby river (typical for late summer). The ranger and I were both taken aback when she asked "why can't you just dump chlorine in it?"
It's sad because I know the moms are trying to protect their sons from potentially predatory behavior. Maybe they have their own traumas, but projecting isn't parenting. No one is trying to seduce their kids. But by not addressing their son's gawking, they're actually enforcing the "boys will be boys" mindset. Which real predators use to silence their victims. Now these boys won't understand when they're exhibiting OR experiencing that type of violation. I wonder about the male figures in their lives, they must be slacking off on teaching them respect and self control. Some parents do the most to avoid parenting their own kids.
Thing is that their little children don’t care. Not until their mother makes it a big deal anyway. A normal child that age doesn’t think about those things unless somebody puts those thoughts there.
AGAIN, for the people in the back! #preach! The lengths these people will go to, in order to avoid actually PARENTING thier children, and most often thier boy children, is truly astounding... 🙄😑
I live in a beach town and one day these people tried to hold their wedding at a public beach. I got to the parking lot and was unloading my surfboard when I saw them blocking off the beach entrance with caution tape. I asked what was going on and they said it was a wedding and it wouldn’t take long. (Keep in mind, this is a PUBLIC beach that cannot be reserved for private events… also you can’t block off a public space with caution tape.) I was pissed but also didn’t want to interrupt a wedding… so I waited about 10 minutes and then went under the tape and through the entrance. They were holding the wedding IMMEDIATELY on the other end of the walkway so I dipped to the side as quickly as I could and then I surfed directly behind their ceremony and hopefully got into their pictures. If you want a private wedding, hold it at a private venue.
THIS. There is nothing more obnoxious than people who try and commandeer a public beach because they're arrogant and too goddamn cheap to book a private venue. You just get married like everyone else and then people clap for you in their bathing suits, simple and pleasant enough.
In most public parks/ beaches, it's illegal to hold large gatherings like a wedding without a permit due to liability. But they can't restrict public access to that beach/park, that's super illegal. It's public property, no one should be restricted from usage.
@@romeunleashed2- If you're below the high tide line it is public domain. My sister's husband's family has two stilt houses right on the beach in Malibu plus an empty lot right next to them (which is just beach...but without a house.) Literally on the beach. The tide and waves come up below them. It's in a gated, private community too. But anyone can still come and be at the beach if they are below the high tide line. So yeah the family can have private wedding on their private beach area but anyone could walk along the beach or sit down or do whatever as long as they are within the tidal zone.
My favorite part about the beach is that MOST people mind their own business while also being vigilant. I've had fellow beach-goers look out for us while also just leaving us alone. At the beach you mind your business but also pay attention. Just be a buddy at the beach ❤
I love staring at people silently without expression until they leave me and my friends alone. They put so much effort to come up with explanations and witty retorts, screaming at the top of their lungs, trying to embarrass you in the hopes that you will do not as they ASKED you but as they TOLD you to do, and you just nullify it all by acknowledging that they exist but ignoring their wishes completely. The indifferent approach is something I learned by growing up goth and metal head... aka. "weird!" 🙄
alas, that only works if you're male. for any female-presenting individual, silence is often taken as acceptance/submission and if you're not fast enough people *will* grab you and/or otherwise put their hands on you. speaking from experience.
@@headraline UGH I hate this! Sometimes the situation doesn't call for anything other than a blank stare but you're right! Why is my lack of a verbal response taken as weakness or the invitation to berate me?
@@headraline I've had success with just laughing my head off. The giggles become self-sustaining pretty soon. People tend to give up pretty fast. And laughter is good for your health.
i went to the beach with my mom once and i told her not to swim too far out or she would be stung by a jellyfish. so she started making fun of me and screaming "come and sting me jellyfish!" and then she was immediately stung by a jellyfish lol
When I was in Greece I had to buy a swimsuit for the beach, they asked me if I wanted to purchase the top, too.🙃 Those "Karens" are just Jelly. Thanks for the laughs this morning!
That's because some stores sell the top seperately we do wear tops in Greece. You can't be nude in a beach. There are seperate beaches that allow nudity iirc.
@@evgeniamiskaki3199 yes. you are right. I did wear my top and bottoms in Greece and did not go to a nude beach which are in the states also in designated areas.
In the US, bikini tops and bottoms are often sold separately. I prefer this actually because my top and bottom size aren't the same. I have to purchase a larger size for my boobs than my butt. If they were sold as sets, I'd have to buy two sets or have a too small top or too big bottom.
Gotta admit, first time a lady asked me if I sold thong swim bottoms, I was confused. Mind you, I was 16, living in Montreal with minimal beach experience outside of Canada, and never knew that in some places, tops were optional at the beach. 20 years later, it's obviously not a big deal for me anymore x)
I remember going to the shops and this 13 year old girl and her mum were there. 13 year old was wearing the most revealing outfit it was a shock at first. Did I go up to the parent and berate them, or tell the girl I didn't like what she was wearing? NOO. You mind your damn business and go about your day. At a beach, expect less clothing and be prepared to move if something is bothering you so much. People really got to make everything their business. How exhausting.
@@suemetzger5302 no, there's a difference in ogling someone you find attractive and knowing an outfit is sexy and seeing a child wear it, it's 100% NOT the same thing, like I used to wear a flared shiny black lace up pvc skirt that didn't cover my entire ass cheek to clubs in my 20's, I'd never allow a child to wear the same thing because it's risque, not because I find it sexy, but I know men do, and men ogling a child is disgusting and why would I allow my child to be ogled because she's dressed like a hussy when she's a child? As a 20 something it was bad enough, I can't tell you how many hands went up my skirt, from people I didn't know
I take my son who has autism to the beach frequently during the summers. One year we were on a secluded beach where two other women, both in their 20s (I'm in my 40s, and son is 19, and nonverbal) were wearing thongs, taking pics, laughing, and just having fun. Another family came, creepy old man was taking pics of the girls without their knowledge. So I went over, and pointed him out so they could be aware of it. One of them was a bit more vociferous than the other, and confronted the man about it. He actually said that if they didn't want to be photographed in their swimsuits that they shouldn't wear such revealing ones. That's where I got involved. I was quite attractive in my 20s, and was subject to harassment constantly when I was younger NO MATTER WHAT I WORE (sorry felt like that needs to be shouted for those in the back). I don't play when it comes to this shit, I got up, and told him that if he didn't move to the other side of the beach with his family that I would call the police, and report him for harassment. It's not your place to tell others how to dress, and nobody deserves to be sexually harassed. I was near those girls for a good hour before anyone else showed up, they were not there for attention, they were not there to steal your husbands, they were just there goofing off with each other, and laughing. In fact, the presence of the man acting weird around them changed their entire vibe, almost like they weren't there for him at all... 🙄🤔😂.
I laughed so hard when you mentioned the beach in Europe. I was there in 1979 (ages ago) and talk about eye opener. These ladies would lose their minds completely 😆
In most European countries if that 'entitled mom' would call the police because 'someone stole her beach spot', she'd have to pay a hefty fine for misuse of the police forces, the emergency phone line, etc. etc. And e.g. calling repeatedly the emergency number insisting on the police to come would simply get her arrested.
And that's how it should be. I was astounded the police showed up at all and wonder why they did. Do police just come for everything in America? And people get no penalty for calling for things that aren't crimes or emergencies in any way? You would really think they have more important things to do, especially with their high crime rate...
I am European and I would say our police officers would not even bother to react to such a call lol. The moment she would say "somebody stole my spot on the beach" they would just say u f kidding me and hang out.
When Americans go to other countries and act entitled. I was at the beach where an American tourist came on the beach dictating that people can't cook there and acting all Kevin. This is a typical thing to do on the beach and it's in Jamaica. Needless to say after he got a few serious stares he walked back to his guest house.
That sounds like so much fun. The only thing that bothers me when people eat and drink at the beach. They leave their trash that's only thing I complained about lol.
It's supposed to be that way here in the US too. I wonder if the cops were bored that day and thought the trip out would be funny. Like "Oh god... we got a karen guys. Who wants to ride along?"
Especially when one of them was sexualising a 13 yo regarding their 4 yo. Like, a 4yo doesn't care, he just wants to build sandcastles and be chased by waves and shit. And while some 13 yo's bodies develop faster than others a grown woman, who knows she's 13, shouldn't be sexualising her any way. It's creepy AF. Her name being Felicia was just too perfect. And her friend oozed like she thought she was ridiculous and idk if she was laughing or trying to not be associated with her. By Felicia, indeed. Lol.
I was once waiting outside for the passport office to open up. A few other people showed up and were waiting behind me, then a Karen and a Ken come up to me, walking past all the other people, and say that they should be the first ones in line because they had been in the parking lot and were the first ones there. I didn't even have to say anything before the guy behind me started berating this couple and saying that if they weren't outside the doors then they don't have any spot to claim. This guy was my hero and Karen and Ken had to go to the back of the line
As a Brazilian, I was very confused about the discussions about swimsuits. We wear bikinis with so little cloth that I'm surprised that I didn't care at all... until my American friend was shocked when she saw it and LITERALLY BLUSHED, she was so shocked and she wanted to go away before her boyfriend got there. I refused and tried to argue that it's normal, that I - too - was wearing a similar bathing suit. She called me horrible names and decided to go somewhere else - we're no longer friends.
Don't feel ashamed for rocking a swimsuit! As simple of an answer as it is, she was probably just jealous. People do weird things like this out of jealousy all the time.
Why wear anything at all in that case? There isn’t an argument for “decency” anymore. I bet you wouldn’t have the same attitude if you saw a bunch of old nearly naked men walking around everywhere leaving nearly nothing to the imagination.
@@darklordsauron3415lol you’ve clearly never been to beaches in Europe 😂 literally more old naked people then anything else but yeah people of all ages and attractiveness being half or completely naked is really not that big of a deal. It’s a beach what are you supposed to wear? A turtle neck?
@@Alonepistachio Beach is one thing, you could say that’s where such a thing is expected, but do those same people then walk around everywhere else after the beach in the same manner?
I hate how I was raised lol because of that and my being a feminist, my mind is always kind of in battle about these things. I know to not judge people's appearance, etc. and it doesn't matter what a person wears (unless they're literally walking around nude trying to like hug people(and usually even those people have mental problems))...but I can still hear a voice in the back of my mind saying something stupid like "they're too young to be wearing that" or "they really shouldn't be wearing that" or "they think they look so good" and I hate it because it's my mother's voice. She's shamed me all my life about the way I've dressed(which is pretty conservative save for a few v-neck shirts from like target). She was always telling me to cover up my cleavage, show some self-respect, change the color of my bra so it wouldn't show as much, wear a different kind of bra so that it wouldn't show, no short-shorts(jokes on me now because I can't wear them even if I wanted to, damn these thighs lol), stop showing my lower back when I bend over and my shirt goes up, don't let people see my body, etc. (It got so that whenever we went shopping for clothes, if I saw something that I knew she would say no to, I wouldn't even think to try it on, much less bring it to her to ask if I could get it; I just automatically knew, 'no, that looks "whorish," she would get mad') So yeah, I have to constantly kick those thoughts down and instead think "oh wow look at them, they look amazing" or "look at how much fun they're having with their spouse/family" or "yeah if I looked like that I'd want to show it off too"(lol) or "wow look at them, they are so confident, and they should be!" I'm 30 something and just getting comfortable wearing sleeveless shirts, short-shorts(ish, they're shorter than the shorts I used to ever wear lol)and a bikini because I always felt so self conscience(and of course I also had no self-confidence and hated my body). Safe to say that I no longer talk to my parents...I'm better off, trust me. Also, usually when we go to the beach, we mostly mind our own business(it's pretty fun so it's not hard lol) unless something's happening like last time a girl had gone missing(thankfully she was found, I was so happy for her and her family that I was so very close to crying because I couldn't even imagine the torture the family went through while she was missing).
My niece is a beach Karen, I was on a beach and it was so hot out and in turn the sand was hot so I wore flip flops. As you know flip flops kick up sand and my niece was had her spot right near our coolers. When I went to the coolers she freaked out and snapped at me saying "stop wearing f***ing sandals near me." I told her that she can either move or deal with it because she is the one that decided to set her stuff near the coolers.
Hey, Charlotte. I just want you to know you're making a difference. When my thoughts turned dark, you gave me a distraction and saved my life. Thank you. Truly.💜
As a European surfer what I've come to be aware of are not Karens but Chads, especially in the summer months (they don't bother visit the beach after August). Even if they have the whole beach to themselves, they'll invariably come near the surfers and start complaining/ranting to the lifeguards. O, and those times a riptide takes them out and we help them, they're deeply offended. With us. For saving them.
Oh my gosh. My husband and I just had a conversation about how this was the season of butts for swimsuits! They were everywhere! It was so funny to watch people get all flustered about it.
I'm so over our culture and shame for women in thongs or g-strings at public beaches and shame on men that wear nylon/lycra shorts or bikini bottoms our culture and fashion needs to change/evolve in this regard and I am part of that change I wish to seek. Too much shame on men for wearing bikini bottoms. We all like to see butts and boobies, it's beauty and it's humanity.
I adore the thought behind the classic Southerner sayings "Well, bless your heart" and "Aren't you the sweeted thing." It's all in the subtle context. ;)
One thing I hated about going to the beach or park growing up. Were the crazy entitled moms expecting others to feed their kids. Just because your kids are playing with us, it doesn’t mean our parents are suddenly responsible for them. Just because my huge ass family brought plenty of food for us, doesn’t mean you are entitled to our food Karen. One beach Karen even tried pull this at a church bon fire. She ran when our pastor approached her, I guess she knew she would burst into flames if he shook her hand.
I am calling bull on that story. It began rather believable but there is no way that cops would show up for a "spot" on a beach and adding MORE cops (back up) to the story just pushes it right into baloney territory.
I'm from England and have been around the countries closest to me a lot. It's common to see topless sunbathers or kids running around with only a pair of undies or without anything on. It's so weird to demand others to cover up, or to enforce your rules and views on to someone else. You're literally outing yourself that you see something sexual about it. I just don't get that behaviour or entitlement - it never occurs to these people that their way might be the wrong way or it doesn't fucking matter at all
There was a story on another vid ages ago where Karen told a couple of young women to cover up or move to a new spot because her husband was staring at them in their swimsuits. They told her she should tell her husband not to perv on women half his age, or maybe *they* should move to a different spot.
That's awesome, and the perfect response. Why do people get more upset with the women rather than the boys/men who are doing the oogling?? Perfect example of girls/women being blamed /held responsible for boys/mens bad behavior.
@@CrazyPlantLady911 - reminds me of another Karen who confronted a small group of teens/young women sitting in a park wearing shorts and short tops, because her husband had bought binoculars to perv on them and now he wasn't paying her any attention. ps he was perving on them from a flat across the road from the park.
I grew up on Vancouver Island in BC, Canada. It was a pretty hippie area. At the local swimming hole where everyone went people would wash their clothes, bathe, swim, and BBQ in the summertime. Because some people's wells would run dry. It was clothing optional. You'd see naked bodies from babies to to adults, to grandma's & Grandpas! Which I have to say was actually good for us girl's body image as grew up! To see a naked mom not embarrassed of her stretch marks bathing her baby was actually beautiful Three day long BBQ parties were pretty awesome too! Lol
The whole stealing the spot at the beach reminds me of a parade I went to. My friend and I went to a parade to see her cousin who was in it. It was a downtown Kansas City St Pats parade and she said it’ll be crowded so we need to go early. We get there one hour early and find a spot to sit and no one is there yet. Eventually people show up and the sidewalks are crowded behind us. When the parade starts the lady behind us wants us to move so her and her kids can sit there. Uh no. I didn’t drive 30 minutes to get here an hour early and then move because you waited till the last minute. I have kids and I get it. They want to be up front. Their mom should know that too. She immediately acted like a total twunt and that we took her spot. We told her to show up earlier next time. She kept complaining. Actually got a cop. We told him what happened. The people around us told him we were there first. He told her to either find a new spot or stand in back. She got mad and left.
When you said "is she complaining to the manager of the beach about the seagulls?" My first thought was "i know right? the seagulls ARE the manager of the beach!"
as someone who grew up in Europe, spent countless summers on the beaches in different countries bordering the Mediterranean Sea ..... I'm just shaking my head here
Yup. I know the USA isn't Europe butt (pun intended), I like seeing small swimsuits on men and women because it shows they have confidence and that's really inspiring.
As I just replied to someone else, I can say as a mom of a now adult son that not making a big deal out of those things when they're young makes THEM not make a big deal out of it when they're older. Maybe they feel a little jealous? I can understand, it's hard to get older after you've had kids and watch your body change,but its on you how you react. Taking down other people isn't okay.
This reminds me of an article when most covid restrictions were lifted everyone wanted to go to the beach and there was this one mom complaining to a news paper about the audacity of people going to the beach right after covid, while she was at the beach at the same time.
The lady with the 4 year old was hilarious, swearing like a trooper then complains about someone's swimsuit. Especially as the woman sitting next to her is trying to hide.
Something similar happened to me. My friends and I were at an empty beach. Laying on our towels smoking a blunt listening to music. Some lady and her 2 kids literally set up their stuff about 10 feet in front of us. We were surprised. The whole beach empty and she decides to sit in front of us. We put out the blunt. I was annoyed. So we put on bitch by queen herby 🌿 after about the second chorus. She finally picked up and moved her stuff and children really far. Mission accomplished. Blunt relit 😎
As someone who lived in Italy for almost five years, it was a culture shock seeing how prudish people got over swimsuits. Like I couldn't wear two pieces anymore because they were "too revealing" and made to feel ashamed of my body. Worst way to enter puberty.
There was actually a very similar complaint to the first one I read about the beachfront resort I work at. Too many seagulls and the traffic was bad around the 4th of July which is one of the busiest holidays in the United States for beach towns.
My dad was stationed in Germany, we were young. Nude, partially suited, speedos, it was so normal. When we came back to the States, it was a culture shock.
IKR. Guys cover up way too much at the beach in the USA, women do too but a lesser extent. The shame is all on guys to not wear skin tight or bikini bottoms for men to the beach and I say I'm putting an end to that. Men's swimwear is too boring and men need to wear less. Women need to wear less too, we're all so ashamed at being human and it's really bad for us mentally.
I'm from the UK. Nudity in children is NOT sexual! Bodies are nothing to be ashamed of; if you don't like people's choice in beach wear that's your problem. Mind your own business. 😤
You see it all the time here at swimming pools, and no one makes a big deal about it. It's just kids swimming. My friend and I took her boy to the beach and we've seen a lot of little girls with no top. No one makes an issue of it.
From a European who spent the endless summers of my childhood on French beaches - these types of reactions leave me bewildered - because IT'S A BEACH! People don't go full head to toe in clothing to a beach! If you're sensitive to swimwear then why go to a public beach and spew hate on everyone who comes within earshot! Oh my!
Exactly right. People go to the beach in as little to no swimwear as possible because it's hot out, we want to get a tan and stay cool and go in the water and dry off quickly and yeah we want to see other people's bodies in swimwear. We're all human, and we've all seen other people naked before, get over yourselves.
From Latin America and grew up in south Florida, it is hilarious how often tourist from the north (gringos) try to claim the beach or try to tell other what to wear
I'm Greek-American now living in Greece for the past couple of decades. In Greece, many of the beaches we've been to are known to be topless. There are some nude beaches too though I've not been to them. My first summer here we went to Zante (a/k/a Zakynthos). We were on a beach & my husband wanted to take a picture of me on the sand with the view of the mountain behind me. It took what seemed to me, like the longest time for him to take one picture! What I didn't know is there was a guy in his mid-40s who was just a few feet behind me and he was taking off his trunks. He waited for the man to leave before taking the picture. 🤣
I have an EP story on the beach! I went on vacation with my girlfriend and family. I was/am going through divorce, so I spent a lot of time alone on the beach just enjoying the views and getting used to being alone without having to take care of my husband and family. I've got my earbuds in, a great spot, the water and sunset was amazing.( Panama City Florida) when a group that was a wedding party and photographer. With the ENTIRE beach opened they decided to stop directly in front of me. Like 10ft in front of me so my view of that lovely ocean was this wedding party. It was like I wasn't even there. They weren't even taking pics!! Just standing talking!! So I take my camera out and start taking pictures of them after trying to get their attention, the new hubby finally sees, does not apologize. They take off their flip flops and leave them in that spot and walk over like 3ft.....I was so 😡 upset. I actually shed a tear as a wedding being literally shoved in my face was too much. But I didn't move an inch. So disrespectful!! So if you are a wedding planner/photographer please keep in mind others that are around your perfect backdrop.
A kid from the Balkans here, we did not use to wear swimming trunks until the age of 3 or 4. Kids that young have no concept of sexuality, do your homework Karen!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Half my family is Balkan but I was born in the UK. I was allowed to be without a swimsuit as a young toddler on the beach but the backlash my parents got was pretty significant. I understand every country had its own norms but there's no need to sexual use children or police other people's bodies like that
I live near the beach in Italy and in summer all the city go there... But also tourists. One time there's been people pretending that we move our "ombrellone" because they wanted that spot, none of the people on the beach listen to them, and they were angry that nobody spoke English... Funny day
I have lived in a tourist town all my life that has a beach. I’ve encountered so many Karen’s. I was told by a whale of a woman that I’m too big and that only skinny folks should be at the beach and how no one wants to see my rolls. I was 14. This woman was way larger than me. So I turned right around to look at her and asked “so why are you here?” Idk if she forgot her own weight or was just delusional.
WTF I'm sure she was jealous someone was daring to do something she would never allow herself to. "my self esteem is destroyed, why are you happy?" saying that to a child too? WTF
Sorry that happened to you she definitely was projecting her own shit onto you, I hope you didn't let it get to you. To walk up to a teenage girl you've never met, then proceed to body shame her, is an all-time low, she had to feel pretty stupid when you asked "Then why are you here?" 😜
When you make it "bad" to have a body, then you create a very weird culture. Of course when appropriate, the beach, art, etc. Raise your boys to respect others and none of this would be an issue.
Tbh I think it should be courtesy to keep the thongs in the bedroom and not at the beach and I'm a woman myself. I believe in appropriate swim wear it really shouldn't give people an excuse just to wear strings is my point. I would never go up to someone but really there should be a common decency so I think both were at fault in my opinion.
Love how the mom is going crazy about her child seeing the body of another child, but sees no issue with saying every cuss word in the English language in front of her 4 year old 🤣
Exactly. Sounds like she was super jealous of the 13 year old. Her and her friend were Karens.
And make no mistake if a parent swears in front of their child on a regular basis that child will grow up to swear I am living proof
The irony is that he's probably way more interested in swear words at that age than anything an older girl might do (other than swear, lol).
I've lost count of the number of videos I've seen of Karens and Darrens laying into someone for doing or wearing something inappropriate, yet every other word they say starts with "F"
Did viset florida one, Caya costa, for fishing, did need a small ferry trip, there she was, EP from trailer park, with maybe 10 kids from 0-16 all goin same way. We had, shit load of fishing gear, food, and some beer.
EP not happy. Danish Hedings was making her kids look at us, interested in us, maybe the fun we was.
But yes, EP did talk to captain, and the park rangers.
Did see her kids over there, but we was fishing, so, we smiled, she did not like us. At all.
Pretty Shure Jesus did hear about us that 14days, a lot
As a German I find those "nudity" complaints so ridiculous. It's just a body, everyone has one. Can't tell you how many naked people I've seen on beaches, not only in Germany but in every European country I've been to. It's very normal here, especially kids run around naked a lot. Some people go sunbathing topless in public parks, too. Nobody bats an eye.
@@romeunleashed2 I 100% agree. Why are you sexualizing a child? Just look away!
Weve seen your porn and music ...
Have you ever played the tourist game german or American?
Fellow German here, send them to the Baltic Coast, I haven't seen a single swimsuit, and it was fall and for me just bearable to walk in knee deep. Also, I work in Munich, I could go to the public park on my lunch break and see people sunbathing naked and nobody cares.
🤣 a couple of summers ago I witnessed the oldest, wrinkliest old dude let it ALL hang out on the neighbors balcony. When I tell you this man was COOKING in oil on the balcony, facing the street, letting his old dude's balls show in all their stretched glory... My friend and I just laughed and reoriented our seats at the balcony and wondered if the phrase " where the sun don't shine" was even applicable anymore.
@@RisWish - The woman complaining about her four year old being able to see too much of the thirteen year old is just silly. At four years old you wouldn't even care if everyone was running around nude, they have no concept of sexuality in that way. I have a feeling the four year old is going to be raised to feel ashamed of their own body though, and that is pretty sad.
LMAO! "This is my spot!" has happened to me! It's hilarious! I am a town resident, and we went to that spot many times. Apparently one day, another family who likes the spot shows up, and DEMANDS that we move. I was with my toddler son at the time and another mom friend with her kid. We just sat there, stunned and incredulous at the situation unfolding. The woman began to RAGE at us.. her teen daughter joined in. My friend and I looked at each other and - burst into laughter. Our laughing tuned out the family who stood over our picnic blanket as they shouted.
Thankfully they were attracting enough attention that they became conscious of other people staring. The mother said that now they were forced to get burned in the sun because we were so selfish.
The funny thing is- we were talking about leaving only minutes before they showed. If they had only approached us and politely asked how long we were staying, we would have left right away. Because of their theatrics, we decided to stay an extra half hour just because of their temper tantrum. When we got ready to leave, my friend approached a woman with two young kids and asked if they wanted to take our spot. She gratefully accepted, and had another couple of women join her. We couldn't resist looking over at where the entitled family were camped. They looked as if they would combust. Great day to be petty! 😂
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The guy aggressively telling Karen “I HOPE YOU GET HOME SAFE, HAVE A NICE DAY” cracked me up 🤣
Yeah, sometimes you just have to kill them with kindness. I've worked in retail for 25 years and know; the nicer (sounding lol) you are the madder they get; but there's nothing they can do about it!!🤣 take that guy for example. Karen's going to complain to management that he told her "i hope you get home safe, have a nice day" !! Management is just going to be like "wtf!" He's just being nice!! Lol 😆!!
And all the dude’s friends were cracking up too! Making the unpleasant situation a hilarious time for them, and embarrassing for Karen. Love that for them!
As a former pre-school teacher I have yet to meet a four year old who cared what someone wore on a beach unless it was paw patrol themed....
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This! I've been a 4 year old at beaches/ pools. I can tell you what games we played in the sand, how much wearing water wings sucked, I can tell you how chlorinated water up the nose burns just as much as salt water. I cannot, however, tell you what ANYone else was wearing....because I was a 4 year old playing in water, and not an oddly threatened mom sexualizing a literal 8th grader and using their child as an excuse to be confrontational about their own insecurities.
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You are formed and shaped subconsciously by images and people around you. Super young kids don't care necessarily, but when they grow up, they will already be desensitized without realizing it.
@@SaraKkkkkkkk how is that relevant? It is actually a good thing to be desensitized to other people's bodies.
I LOVE IT when young men are minding their own business and Karen’s go all Karen on them and they just match their energy but with kindness. “I HOPE YOU GET HOME SAFE!”
I laughed when the young men starting yelling "I hope you get home safe!" What a great example of matching negativity with kindness and positivity. We really do need more of this in the world!!
Yeah this is the wholesome vibe we need
Even if you don't like what someone's wearing that's a great chance to teach your kids not to stare at others. If it's your SO great chance to find out they're a creep.
User name checks out. 😄
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I Love this 🤣
This is so true. Since I was a child my dad would glare at me threateningly if there were anybody nearby who were ‘different’ like people with physical disabilities or even people in wheelchairs. This glare conveys ‘don’t stare and don’t ask stupid questions’. Even as an adult, i would automatically turn my gaze away when I see ‘special-looking’ people because I even still feel afraid of being scolded by my dad 🤣🤣. I didnt think this was weird until I went out with a group of friends and I was the only one averting my gaze.
@@farahalmasy I hope your dad allowed you to ask "stupid" questions in private, later. It's how we learn.
As a European, I find it hilarious how offended some Americans get over beach attire. Being topless or wearing a thong is perfectly acceptable on most beaches, not to mention there are actual nudist beaches where you can let it all hang out and no one is weird about it.
Right! Exactly my thought 🤦🏻♀️
Yepp. My 3 year old grandson wears his pants only on the way to and from the lake. The second we arrive, every piece of clothing drops.
Right! I’m American and I still don’t understand why guess it’s some sexist shite where they want to control what women wear cause men can’t control themselves 🙄 but honestly also as a a woman it’s just so annoying to constantly have ur body sexualized as a minor or a woman
@@romeunleashed2 because they were taught to police how they dress for men
I'm LOLing very hard as well, as in Brasil is also very common to use tiny beach attire.
“The sand was low quality” is the BEST Karen complaint ever!! Even Mother Nature needs to get it’s manager!! Go complain to God, Karen!! 🙄😂🙄😂
I laughed SO hard at that comment! 😂
“Oh no… the aeration of minerals and animal remains is not perfect” 😩🤭
people can wear whatever makes them comfortable to the beach....who cares?!?! I'm a 51 year old who goes to the water park literally every Sunday. I wear swim trunks and a top....I see women all the time wearing next to nothing. And you know what? GOOD 👏🏻 FOR👏🏻 THEM👏🏻! With everything else we have to worry about in this world, this is quite literally the SMALLEST PROBLEM. ugh.
Amen!!👌🏼 I wanna go to the water park every Sunday, too!!
@@bratalie9227 right? Sounds fun
Yes AMEN!
I dont think anyone should tell other people what to wear (unless they asked for advice) I do think there is a level of covering up. I’m fine with what people choose to wear. (This isn’t meant to sound negative, and I don’t mean to start stuff) Everyone has their own opinions.
The paedos do.
I can remember neighbors reporting my mother for allowing my 4 yr old and 2 yr old sisters play in the sprinkler in "our" back yard just wearing the undies. Karens have been around forever! This was over 50 years ago.
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Wow , my kid still does that
Why was she looking over your fence to begin with?
I want to thumbs your comment up a lot.
I would've ask that you watch your kids. In my neighborhood, we had and still have two registered sex offenders. As a kid, I would pretend my mom called me when one of the local pedos approached the front yard. Thankfully it was a gated home, so he couldn't reach me... but still. 🥺😞 I don't have a pool anymore due to sick f^
Your mom was the best.
Love the guy jumping around yelling at the Karen " I hope you get home safe! Have a great day!" We need more of this
As a Brazilian I can’t help but chuckle… I wonder how horrified they would be here.
I came to the comments just to find a fellow Brazilian to laugh with! 🤜🤛
i had the same in my mind. ^^
Whyyyy? Please explain
@@exoking65 most Brazilian women wear tiny bikinis, and speedos are super common for men as well.
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The nudity one with the kid is so relatable. I'm a British/US dual national raised by an American mother/British father, but my whole family other than my parents are state-side. I grew up cross-cultural and between both counties, but I also spent time in mainland Europe. My mother still tells me about the time when I was two or three years old and running around almost naked on my grandma's front lawn in Florida, playing in the sprinklers. Some neighbour woman literally walked out of her house to tell my mother to put more clothes on me (a literal toddler) because it was "inappropriate" (I was wearing swim bottoms but no top). My mother got so mad because this person went out of their way to say this to her. Super glad I was raised by a woman who stood up to this, especially in the 90s. If you have an issue with a 3-year-old child being topless while playing in 110-degree heat, supervised by adults, in their own front yard, you're the issue. The woman apparently said she was trying to "protect" me. If she really wanted to "protect" me, she'd have made sure I had sunscreen and water. Far too many people, particularly in the US I've noticed, have such a complex about naked bodies. Funny how many of the same people bitch about religious face/head coverings (double standards much?). In cultures where nudity is more normalised, bodies are less fetishised and sexualised, which creates a much healthier relationship with the natural human anatomy both within the self and socially. People who have major issues with nudity ought to consider why that is.
Realistically speaking, the sunscreen is probably what these "concerned" people should actually be worried and yelling at people about. I've seen far too many red and peeling kids and adults.
As a British person, can relate. I don’t get why some American culture is so prudish. Yet so much guns and violent in movies and in real life.
@@twilightingX its control imposed over the young and feminine with the excuse of pedophiles. There are so many backwards laws in the united states that limit the rights children have to autonomy and their own sense of self, like most European countries have, but they say its to 'protect' them.
I am European too and it is very common that small kids are topless, sometimes even bottomless. Like I dont understand the problem. Like especially when I watch what some teen girls wear on social media or the way they picture themselves and nobody cares about it. But they care that children wear swim suit like honestly I am happy I live here. People are normal lol. We have Karens too here dont worry, especially old grumpy people. But I do not meet them very often.
As an American, I was never bothered by nudity (until recently but that's due to either a mental illness or a trauma response, I've had anxiety attacks related to being around nudity) and I really don't get why some people care. Especially when it's a child! A toddler running around without a shirt is only the parents' concern, making sure they've got sunscreen. And my only concern with religious head/face coverings and heavy clothing is that those who wear them may overheat in the summers, but then again they probably know how to prevent that, so it is none of my business
Karen: complains about her 4 yr old son being exposed to sight of girl in a thong at a beach
Also Karen: exposes her 4 yr old son to a LOT of obscene language 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
“You need to cover up cos my sons, and/or husband is looking at you”…. Well that’s on them then isn’t it? If they can’t go about their business without having their eyes glued to someone’s body, then the fault lies with them
Say it louder for the people in the back whooo!
@@OceanSongBird6355 right? It’s just so difficult for some people to comprehend
Jesus Himself said, if you can’t stop looking, pluck out your eyes: “If thy eye offends thee, pluck it out.” I’ve heard that the Koran has a similar scene with the Prophet. People seem to forget/ignore these passages.
why doesn't she get mad at her husband for staring at girls in thongs
I can hardly wait for a time when women aren't responsible for the behavior of men. How about let them have all the consequences of a wayward libido? The things we can't wear, the places we can't go alone or in small numbers, the things we can't say or be careful of the way we say things just because it "gives a man ideas." I'm sick of it! A real man knows how to control himself in every way.
This is absolutely hilarious. As a scandinavian I've never heard anybody complain over swimsuits on the beach or nudity for that matter.
I do not understand why Americans sexualize every piece of clothes women are wearing. 🤯
Nobody in America complain about what men wear on the beach or anywhere else. STOP CONTROLLING WOMEN 😯
Actually, a lot of Americans (I am American) would complain if a man wore a thong swimsuit or a Speedo. I have heard them. I have the benefit of having spent part of my childhood in Europe and think they're ridiculous, but they will do it!
If anything, men are policed more because anything outside of trunks are "g@y" 🙄. Women have way more variety.
That’s because they’ve sexualized women in ads and in movies and in everything that cost money. And it just moved into society.
They’ve been doing this for decades. Idk since when.
@@It-is-me...Melsie A woman does not wear a thong for her own sake. She is seeking attention. If you ask any woman why they would wear a tiny string thong to the beach they will never tell you "because It's comfortable", they will say it's "because I'm hot and have a nice ass so might as well show it off while I'm young."
That's what happens when you're in a country founded by puritan fundamentalists
My husband and I were vacationing with our children in Mexico one year and we had gone out early to get a good place where we could stretch out on a beach chair, with a nice shade umbrella to gaurd from the overexposure to the sun as my husband had extremely sensitive and pale skin and burned even with sunblock on. He was somewhat Photosensitive to the suns UV rays as was our 6 year old daughter. We settled in and I lubed up my daughter and husband with sunscreen so my daughter could swim. About 2 hours later a family from Germany came up to us and the husband said, "This is our spot, can you please move". In a very annoyed tone. I replied, Excuse me but we've been here since 10am and no one was here, and we asked others sitting close if anyone had taken this spot and they all said "No"... He quickly snapped at me and said, "well, we were here yesterday and this is the spot we choose to sit so you have to move." I started to laugh because I thought, he can't really think that just because he sat here yesterday that it means they get this spot everyday. About then a waiter walked passed and the German man called him over... He told the waiter, "Can you please tell these rude entitled Americans that this is our spot... we had it all day yesterday and now they won't move.". The waiter looked at us then over to him and said, "I'm sorry sir, there is no assigned seating here. It's first come first serve so I'm not authorized to tell them to move. They guy started bitching in German to his wife and they walked away. But by that time all the lounge chairs were taken... in the time it took him to stand there demanding that we move he could have grabbed a spot right net to us or a few chairs down but he was insisting on that particular spot. When he walked away he made the mistake of calling me a Bitch and that didn't set well with my husband. So he walked over to the guy who was still complaining in German and told him if he ever called me a bitch again or said anything else to me in that manner he'd show him how entitled we were. Later that day my daughter was hungry and tired so my husband took her for a bite to eat and a nap. All of our things were on the chairs and table, the usual things, sunblock, a few good books and a drink I ordered just before I went for a dip. My surrong, and towels were on the chairs ... I walked down to the beach and swam for a bit and when I returned that asshole had dumped all of our things onto the sand and grabbed the chairs and umbrella stand and moved it over just slightly as if we wouldn't notice. I didn't say anything to them but I did go and get the Hotel Manager and she escorted me back to the beach. By this time my husband was back with our daughter and was arguing with the guy for moving our things and taking the chairs. The manager told him he couldn't just take other peoples items and toss them aside and take their seats. But this guy refused to move...he argued with the hotel manager and after a few minutes of that crap I just said, let the assholes keep them. We picked up our belongings and started to move down to find a spot in the sand. An older couple was getting ready to leave and offered their spot to us because they weren't going to be back that day. So these fools had to sit right next to us and after a few minutes of that uncomfortable situation they got up and left bitching under their breath. The next morning bright and early they were there in that very spot so I grabbed the beach chairs and umbrella right next to them and moved it as close as I could without being in their actual space. It drove them crazy... they ended up moving these chairs a ways away from us so we just moved our chairs back into that spot and had a great vacation for the rest of the week. Moral of the story is... nobody owns the beach. You don't get to tell people where they can sit or not sit. If you were there and someone else get there first then do liek everyone else does. Find a different spot.
I simply just don't understand how someone thinks they're entitled to a specific place on a beach because they were there yesterday, also.....what different does it make? It's the same ocean 20 yards down the way.....same kind of sand....same temperature....etc. Just people being on vacation and having to mark their territory somewhere where they aren't entitled to anything at all.
@@TheRustyAntlers Exactly, and I'm shocked the dude didn't pee on it to mark his territory. As you said, there was a huge stretch of beach where they could have walked and gotten a place because when they first arrived not every spot was taken. In the time it took this guy to argue with us he and his family could have been sitting comfortably out of the sun and enjoying their vacation. It's a crazy world with a lot of crazy people in it. We were out of the country in the Caribbean and foreigners typically are nice or just won't engage you but the ones that hate Americans are very vocal about it.
No, no no. This couldn't have been Germans. There would have been TOWELS to reserve the spot. =P
@@gazz3867 Yea people do it a lot. They just put their towels one day on the chairs by the pool and they leave them here for the rest of the vacation. I dont understand why there isnt any rule for this. I would just take these towels and throw them in the pool or somewhere. Like what the hell is this behavior lol.
Should have told him “do I look like 1939 Poland?”
we went on a family holiday to ibiza "the family side, not clubbing" with my 10yo son and 7yo son and husband, at least 6 women of varied ages sunbathing topless on the beach.my sons looked, saw and then asked if they were allowed to do it. i replied with "well you three are topless so whats wrong with them being topless" they shrugged and started playing. literally no one cared, everyone just got on with their day. i dont understand this thing with americans and being offended over clothing
And that is how you do it...mike drop.
Edit: Mic drop. LOL
Love this! Kids don't care unless they're taught to do so! It's only when the adults in their lives make a big thing out of something natural that it becomes an issue. Not teaching children that human bodies are fine, normal, and natural is far more dangerous.
@@tarb96 id much rather them know what natural bodies look like, that they all look different and thats ok. than them get a warped idea from watching porn when theyre older. it also teaches them that it doesnt matter what a woman wears she is still to be respected
A lot of us don't care, having been raised by sensible parents. I was raised in the Midwest, Missouri. There was an unofficial nude swimming area in our town and my father would take us as kids, then later as a teen my friends, sisters and I would go. Other people would swim wearing clothing but there was no judgement either way.
Wow! Your family went on holiday to Ibiza? Thanks for sharing!
funny how the mom who was so pre-occupied with her son's purity seeing a body part, was shouting ugly profanities to the other mom
I was thinking the same thing! A girl in a bikini (even a revealing one) is less of a concern for my 4-year old than a lack of emotional control and a poor vocabulary is.
Yep… that was what I was thinking too.
I was about to comment on that too! So ridiculous 🤦♂️
But also, she could choose to ignore it... instead she is bringing attention to it and teaching her 4y/o how to sexualize women. Dope parenting skillz.
@@rachelhightops5261 dangerous ground to suggest a single mom is less than perfect. 😉 Parenting is hard all on its own and it becomes infinitely harder alone and without guidance while letting your emotions drive.
I loveeeee how the kids yelled, have a great day! I hope you get home safe!
Sooo petty perfect in that situation
Not the beach but at our neighborhood pool the HOA president made a "rule" that women (especially teens) couldn't wear bikinis. He really thought the neighborhood was gonna be on his side is the best part. All the parents responded by asking"why are you looking at children in the first place hm?" or "who is gonna determine what is to much skin....for children" He responded by saying "wEll I doNT wAnT mY yOunG dAuGHteR aSkInG whY wOmeN aRe naKed"......he isn't the president anymore😊
HOAs always seem to attract the control freaks, dictators and those who fancy themselves the standard of perfection that all others should aspire to become.
This is a very satisfying ending.
Omg belly buttons 😨the scandal
Shame your keyboard broke in the mIdDle oF yoUr tyPing
When you said "some of you have never been to Europe and it shows" i laughed so much because as an Italian (and so as an European) i was watching till that moment as if all those TikTok were trolling Karens and not true, i was so confused wondering what was the problem with those people ahahahahah
Yeah ooo
I've never been to Europe (only been outside the Continental USA once, for about 2 hours, in Windsor, Ontario), but it wouldn't bother me to see someone going topless or nude at a beach. I don't understand all these people who still think the human body is "dirty" or obscene. We're all born naked so what's the big deal. We all have the same basic equipment (it might be rearranged differently or another size) but some people
s ideas of "morality" is incomprehensible.
Love how you added (Italy is in Europe) to make sure even Americans get your point. 🤣
I keep looking at your hoodie like "wow I need that exact one!"
Watching Felicia’s friend cover up as her friend yells about thongs was hilarious lol. I thought she was going to crawl under her towel. Poor gal.
She probably wished it was an invisibility cloak
She looked SUPER uncomfortable.
@@stephaniekice2475 she did. You know she was thinking 'shut up.'
She even did a face palm. Probably the last time she goes to the beach with Felicia. I hope they aren't sisters! My heart went out to that poor lady.
Felicia's friend was almost busting out of her top, but I guess that's ok because she knows her lol
as someone who's grown up in a beach town their entire 30ish years of existing, I am really looking forward to this episode! i've definitely encountered a lot of beach karens (people have moved my entire beachday set up to take my spot when i went to the bathroom, lots of littering, people screaming at each other over parking spots, surfers getting into brawls over waves, drunk ppl gettined fined, panicked people peeing on jellyfish stings [don't do that lol], dramatic "rescues" due to ppl ignoring riptide signs, seagulls stealing my unopened family-sized Cheeto bag + devouring it while I helplessly watched on, another time a seagull stole a PB+J from my hand + scratched me badly, the list goes on! Seagulls can be quite karen-ish lol). thanks for a new video Charlotte! so proud of how far you've come ❤
An entire family size bag of Cheetos!! That's crazy! 😂😂😂 Watching helplessly nooooooo not the Cheetos! ☹️ Stupid seagulls! 😑😂
Seagulls do that because people have been feeding them lol, good thing bears don’t fly lol
PLEASE get footage of seagulls seagulling like that so Charlotte can react to it! 😅
My favorite beach memory was a seagull taking a ziploc bag of carrots while me and my 5 yo at the time chased it. I was born many miles from the ocean. I didn't know. I was worried about the bird eating the plastic.
Bless those of you in San Diego who watched me run around after a seagull for like 5 minutes one time.
(Bird dropped the bag eventually, miraculously)
Oh how id love to hear the stories you must have XD
As someone who lives in Florida, these are hilarious and accurate.
as a german i can only laugh at all of this. that shit would never fly here and the police would have laughed at the women or maybe even fined her for blocking the emergency line with stupid nonsense.
Seriously...calling the police because "Its not fair"? What are you, 5 years old? I find it so bizarre!
The fact that they entertained it and CALLED BACK UP. wtf is actually wrong with this county.
I love the enthusiasm of the dude as he ranted the cuss words of “HAVE A GREAT DAY! Like he defused the situation with kindness, she literally is the villain by default.
It's not just the beach. A few years ago, I was in Humboldt Redwoods State Park (California) in August, chatting with one of the rangers at the entrance, when this woman walked up and started complaining about the algae in the nearby river (typical for late summer). The ranger and I were both taken aback when she asked "why can't you just dump chlorine in it?"
I'm European and quite amused that these moms work this hard to not have to tell their sons that staring is rude and to control themselves or go home.
And those boys grow up to be creeps, and mom can't understand why no nice woman will have them.
It's sad because I know the moms are trying to protect their sons from potentially predatory behavior. Maybe they have their own traumas, but projecting isn't parenting. No one is trying to seduce their kids. But by not addressing their son's gawking, they're actually enforcing the "boys will be boys" mindset. Which real predators use to silence their victims. Now these boys won't understand when they're exhibiting OR experiencing that type of violation. I wonder about the male figures in their lives, they must be slacking off on teaching them respect and self control. Some parents do the most to avoid parenting their own kids.
Thing is that their little children don’t care. Not until their mother makes it a big deal anyway. A normal child that age doesn’t think about those things unless somebody puts those thoughts there.
AGAIN, for the people in the back! #preach! The lengths these people will go to, in order to avoid actually PARENTING thier children, and most often thier boy children, is truly astounding... 🙄😑
The day we stop looking is the day we die.
I live in a beach town and one day these people tried to hold their wedding at a public beach. I got to the parking lot and was unloading my surfboard when I saw them blocking off the beach entrance with caution tape. I asked what was going on and they said it was a wedding and it wouldn’t take long. (Keep in mind, this is a PUBLIC beach that cannot be reserved for private events… also you can’t block off a public space with caution tape.)
I was pissed but also didn’t want to interrupt a wedding… so I waited about 10 minutes and then went under the tape and through the entrance. They were holding the wedding IMMEDIATELY on the other end of the walkway so I dipped to the side as quickly as I could and then I surfed directly behind their ceremony and hopefully got into their pictures.
If you want a private wedding, hold it at a private venue.
As soon as Charlotte sees this, she's going to give you an award. I don't know if I could've been that chill.
THIS. There is nothing more obnoxious than people who try and commandeer a public beach because they're arrogant and too goddamn cheap to book a private venue. You just get married like everyone else and then people clap for you in their bathing suits, simple and pleasant enough.
In most public parks/ beaches, it's illegal to hold large gatherings like a wedding without a permit due to liability. But they can't restrict public access to that beach/park, that's super illegal. It's public property, no one should be restricted from usage.
@@romeunleashed2 Depends on where you are. In Hawaii, for example, all beaches are public.
@@romeunleashed2- If you're below the high tide line it is public domain. My sister's husband's family has two stilt houses right on the beach in Malibu plus an empty lot right next to them (which is just beach...but without a house.) Literally on the beach. The tide and waves come up below them. It's in a gated, private community too. But anyone can still come and be at the beach if they are below the high tide line. So yeah the family can have private wedding on their private beach area but anyone could walk along the beach or sit down or do whatever as long as they are within the tidal zone.
My favorite part about the beach is that MOST people mind their own business while also being vigilant. I've had fellow beach-goers look out for us while also just leaving us alone.
At the beach you mind your business but also pay attention.
Just be a buddy at the beach ❤
I love staring at people silently without expression until they leave me and my friends alone. They put so much effort to come up with explanations and witty retorts, screaming at the top of their lungs, trying to embarrass you in the hopes that you will do not as they ASKED you but as they TOLD you to do, and you just nullify it all by acknowledging that they exist but ignoring their wishes completely. The indifferent approach is something I learned by growing up goth and metal head... aka. "weird!" 🙄
alas, that only works if you're male. for any female-presenting individual, silence is often taken as acceptance/submission and if you're not fast enough people *will* grab you and/or otherwise put their hands on you. speaking from experience.
@@headraline UGH I hate this! Sometimes the situation doesn't call for anything other than a blank stare but you're right! Why is my lack of a verbal response taken as weakness or the invitation to berate me?
@@headraline I've had success with just laughing my head off. The giggles become self-sustaining pretty soon. People tend to give up pretty fast. And laughter is good for your health.
i went to the beach with my mom once and i told her not to swim too far out or she would be stung by a jellyfish. so she started making fun of me and screaming "come and sting me jellyfish!" and then she was immediately stung by a jellyfish lol
That first story where the sand dissapointed Super Mom made me laugh out loud. These ppl!
When I was in Greece I had to buy a swimsuit for the beach, they asked me if I wanted to purchase the top, too.🙃 Those "Karens" are just Jelly. Thanks for the laughs this morning!
That's because some stores sell the top seperately we do wear tops in Greece. You can't be nude in a beach. There are seperate beaches that allow nudity iirc.
@@evgeniamiskaki3199 yes. you are right. I did wear my top and bottoms in Greece and did not go to a nude beach which are in the states also in designated areas.
In the US, bikini tops and bottoms are often sold separately. I prefer this actually because my top and bottom size aren't the same. I have to purchase a larger size for my boobs than my butt. If they were sold as sets, I'd have to buy two sets or have a too small top or too big bottom.
Gotta admit, first time a lady asked me if I sold thong swim bottoms, I was confused. Mind you, I was 16, living in Montreal with minimal beach experience outside of Canada, and never knew that in some places, tops were optional at the beach. 20 years later, it's obviously not a big deal for me anymore x)
I remember going to the shops and this 13 year old girl and her mum were there. 13 year old was wearing the most revealing outfit it was a shock at first. Did I go up to the parent and berate them, or tell the girl I didn't like what she was wearing? NOO. You mind your damn business and go about your day. At a beach, expect less clothing and be prepared to move if something is bothering you so much. People really got to make everything their business. How exhausting.
@@GieLee159 same
I don't say anything, but I do judge silently. Parents allowing children to wear sexualizing clothing is gross.
@@jenni8982 absolutely agreed
@@jenni8982 that's what's different in Europe, it's a body if you see it as a set toy that's on you , like Charlotte said Europe has nudity all over
@@suemetzger5302 no, there's a difference in ogling someone you find attractive and knowing an outfit is sexy and seeing a child wear it, it's 100% NOT the same thing, like I used to wear a flared shiny black lace up pvc skirt that didn't cover my entire ass cheek to clubs in my 20's, I'd never allow a child to wear the same thing because it's risque, not because I find it sexy, but I know men do, and men ogling a child is disgusting and why would I allow my child to be ogled because she's dressed like a hussy when she's a child? As a 20 something it was bad enough, I can't tell you how many hands went up my skirt, from people I didn't know
I take my son who has autism to the beach frequently during the summers. One year we were on a secluded beach where two other women, both in their 20s (I'm in my 40s, and son is 19, and nonverbal) were wearing thongs, taking pics, laughing, and just having fun. Another family came, creepy old man was taking pics of the girls without their knowledge. So I went over, and pointed him out so they could be aware of it. One of them was a bit more vociferous than the other, and confronted the man about it. He actually said that if they didn't want to be photographed in their swimsuits that they shouldn't wear such revealing ones. That's where I got involved. I was quite attractive in my 20s, and was subject to harassment constantly when I was younger NO MATTER WHAT I WORE (sorry felt like that needs to be shouted for those in the back). I don't play when it comes to this shit, I got up, and told him that if he didn't move to the other side of the beach with his family that I would call the police, and report him for harassment. It's not your place to tell others how to dress, and nobody deserves to be sexually harassed. I was near those girls for a good hour before anyone else showed up, they were not there for attention, they were not there to steal your husbands, they were just there goofing off with each other, and laughing. In fact, the presence of the man acting weird around them changed their entire vibe, almost like they weren't there for him at all... 🙄🤔😂.
Good you confronted him, I like the way you reacted and kind of hope he learned something from it too (although I dont assume it)
I laughed so hard when you mentioned the beach in Europe. I was there in 1979 (ages ago) and talk about eye opener. These ladies would lose their minds completely 😆
In most European countries if that 'entitled mom' would call the police because 'someone stole her beach spot', she'd have to pay a hefty fine for misuse of the police forces, the emergency phone line, etc. etc. And e.g. calling repeatedly the emergency number insisting on the police to come would simply get her arrested.
That is why I think this story is made up. There is no way she called 911 and the police came because someone "stole" a spot at the beach.
And that's how it should be. I was astounded the police showed up at all and wonder why they did. Do police just come for everything in America? And people get no penalty for calling for things that aren't crimes or emergencies in any way? You would really think they have more important things to do, especially with their high crime rate...
I think the police were just extremely bored and had nothing else to do
I am European and I would say our police officers would not even bother to react to such a call lol. The moment she would say "somebody stole my spot on the beach" they would just say u f kidding me and hang out.
"The sand was not good quality..." LMAO
When Americans go to other countries and act entitled. I was at the beach where an American tourist came on the beach dictating that people can't cook there and acting all Kevin. This is a typical thing to do on the beach and it's in Jamaica. Needless to say after he got a few serious stares he walked back to his guest house.
That sounds like so much fun. The only thing that bothers me when people eat and drink at the beach. They leave their trash that's only thing I complained about lol.
WTH is happening in the USA? Here in the the UK that Karen whose spot was ‘stolen’ would have been charged for wasting police time.
Same here in NY. Wonder what state it was in.
It's supposed to be that way here in the US too. I wonder if the cops were bored that day and thought the trip out would be funny. Like "Oh god... we got a karen guys. Who wants to ride along?"
@@Wandervenn LOL I can totally see that. "Anybody need a laugh?"
@@mala3isity which would also make sense when the one guy said he had to call backup. Like "Yep, Jerry is going to want to be here to see this."
Ikr
It’s the friend trying to cover up with the towel from embarrassment 🤣🤣
as a european, i find american's sexualization of clearly non-sexual nudity to be quite creepy tbh
as an American I actually 100% agree with you
America is just a creepy perverted country tbh
As an American, I agree with you.
same. American, especially straight cis people, are obsessed with sex and sexualise anything and everything under the sun, literally.
Especially when one of them was sexualising a 13 yo regarding their 4 yo. Like, a 4yo doesn't care, he just wants to build sandcastles and be chased by waves and shit. And while some 13 yo's bodies develop faster than others a grown woman, who knows she's 13, shouldn't be sexualising her any way. It's creepy AF. Her name being Felicia was just too perfect. And her friend oozed like she thought she was ridiculous and idk if she was laughing or trying to not be associated with her. By Felicia, indeed. Lol.
I was once waiting outside for the passport office to open up. A few other people showed up and were waiting behind me, then a Karen and a Ken come up to me, walking past all the other people, and say that they should be the first ones in line because they had been in the parking lot and were the first ones there. I didn't even have to say anything before the guy behind me started berating this couple and saying that if they weren't outside the doors then they don't have any spot to claim. This guy was my hero and Karen and Ken had to go to the back of the line
Goodness! Great story. Applause for the outspoken man.
As a Brazilian, I was very confused about the discussions about swimsuits.
We wear bikinis with so little cloth that I'm surprised that I didn't care at all... until my American friend was shocked when she saw it and LITERALLY BLUSHED, she was so shocked and she wanted to go away before her boyfriend got there. I refused and tried to argue that it's normal, that I - too - was wearing a similar bathing suit. She called me horrible names and decided to go somewhere else - we're no longer friends.
Don't feel ashamed for rocking a swimsuit! As simple of an answer as it is, she was probably just jealous. People do weird things like this out of jealousy all the time.
Good for you, you don't want friends like that
Why wear anything at all in that case? There isn’t an argument for “decency” anymore. I bet you wouldn’t have the same attitude if you saw a bunch of old nearly naked men walking around everywhere leaving nearly nothing to the imagination.
@@darklordsauron3415lol you’ve clearly never been to beaches in Europe 😂 literally more old naked people then anything else but yeah people of all ages and attractiveness being half or completely naked is really not that big of a deal. It’s a beach what are you supposed to wear? A turtle neck?
@@Alonepistachio Beach is one thing, you could say that’s where such a thing is expected, but do those same people then walk around everywhere else after the beach in the same manner?
Karen's problems always have to be solved by someone else - if you don't want your son to see it, you should take him away from there.
A dog named Shark is a bad idea at the beach.
😂😂😂
That is an awesome idea!
😅🤣😄😂
Challenge accepted 😌
What a legend to think of that 😭🤣
I hate how I was raised lol because of that and my being a feminist, my mind is always kind of in battle about these things. I know to not judge people's appearance, etc. and it doesn't matter what a person wears (unless they're literally walking around nude trying to like hug people(and usually even those people have mental problems))...but I can still hear a voice in the back of my mind saying something stupid like "they're too young to be wearing that" or "they really shouldn't be wearing that" or "they think they look so good" and I hate it because it's my mother's voice. She's shamed me all my life about the way I've dressed(which is pretty conservative save for a few v-neck shirts from like target). She was always telling me to cover up my cleavage, show some self-respect, change the color of my bra so it wouldn't show as much, wear a different kind of bra so that it wouldn't show, no short-shorts(jokes on me now because I can't wear them even if I wanted to, damn these thighs lol), stop showing my lower back when I bend over and my shirt goes up, don't let people see my body, etc. (It got so that whenever we went shopping for clothes, if I saw something that I knew she would say no to, I wouldn't even think to try it on, much less bring it to her to ask if I could get it; I just automatically knew, 'no, that looks "whorish," she would get mad')
So yeah, I have to constantly kick those thoughts down and instead think "oh wow look at them, they look amazing" or "look at how much fun they're having with their spouse/family" or "yeah if I looked like that I'd want to show it off too"(lol) or "wow look at them, they are so confident, and they should be!"
I'm 30 something and just getting comfortable wearing sleeveless shirts, short-shorts(ish, they're shorter than the shorts I used to ever wear lol)and a bikini because I always felt so self conscience(and of course I also had no self-confidence and hated my body).
Safe to say that I no longer talk to my parents...I'm better off, trust me.
Also, usually when we go to the beach, we mostly mind our own business(it's pretty fun so it's not hard lol) unless something's happening like last time a girl had gone missing(thankfully she was found, I was so happy for her and her family that I was so very close to crying because I couldn't even imagine the torture the family went through while she was missing).
My niece is a beach Karen, I was on a beach and it was so hot out and in turn the sand was hot so I wore flip flops. As you know flip flops kick up sand and my niece was had her spot right near our coolers. When I went to the coolers she freaked out and snapped at me saying "stop wearing f***ing sandals near me." I told her that she can either move or deal with it because she is the one that decided to set her stuff near the coolers.
As the mother of a 4yo I feel confident saying that they don’t give a crap about what swimsuits people are wearing lol. Bodies are just bodies!
Traffic?
On the way to the Beach?
On the first Summer Holiday?
*Clutches pearls*
Hey, Charlotte. I just want you to know you're making a difference. When my thoughts turned dark, you gave me a distraction and saved my life. Thank you. Truly.💜
Yes, Novympia, Not Even Emily, Shunchan, and this channel are my personal foils to all the morbid/creepy stuff I watch too much of on youtube.
As a European surfer what I've come to be aware of are not Karens but Chads, especially in the summer months (they don't bother visit the beach after August). Even if they have the whole beach to themselves, they'll invariably come near the surfers and start complaining/ranting to the lifeguards. O, and those times a riptide takes them out and we help them, they're deeply offended. With us. For saving them.
Oh my gosh. My husband and I just had a conversation about how this was the season of butts for swimsuits! They were everywhere! It was so funny to watch people get all flustered about it.
I'm so over our culture and shame for women in thongs or g-strings at public beaches and shame on men that wear nylon/lycra shorts or bikini bottoms our culture and fashion needs to change/evolve in this regard and I am part of that change I wish to seek. Too much shame on men for wearing bikini bottoms. We all like to see butts and boobies, it's beauty and it's humanity.
Aggressive compliments and well wishes are a thing I've seen a couple times now and I'm all for it.
''Killing them with kindness'' is something to live by haha
I adore the thought behind the classic Southerner sayings "Well, bless your heart" and "Aren't you the sweeted thing." It's all in the subtle context. ;)
@@mala3isity yeah, but that's not AGGRESSIVE lol.
One thing I hated about going to the beach or park growing up. Were the crazy entitled moms expecting others to feed their kids. Just because your kids are playing with us, it doesn’t mean our parents are suddenly responsible for them. Just because my huge ass family brought plenty of food for us, doesn’t mean you are entitled to our food Karen. One beach Karen even tried pull this at a church bon fire. She ran when our pastor approached her, I guess she knew she would burst into flames if he shook her hand.
Shouldn’t that entitled mum be fined for wasting police time? They could have been dealing with civilians actually in danger or in fear but no
I am calling bull on that story. It began rather believable but there is no way that cops would show up for a "spot" on a beach and adding MORE cops (back up) to the story just pushes it right into baloney territory.
I don't know, they might be lazy officers looking for an excuse to procrastinate.
@@icequeen917 for a moment, I thought maybe the other cops were there to arrest entitled mom but nothing happened to her... Too suspicious.
I was thinking the same thing. I know it's a crime to file false police report but I don't know if being called to a scene qualifies.
I think that story is BS. Part of it may be true, but I think a lot of it was embellished, especially when the cops called for backup.
“Are you Karen?”
“No, my name’s Felicia!”
“BYE FELICIA!!”
😂😂🤣🤣
The fact that the police actually came to investigate this explains ALOT about why ACTUAL criminals aren't being investigated
I'm from England and have been around the countries closest to me a lot. It's common to see topless sunbathers or kids running around with only a pair of undies or without anything on. It's so weird to demand others to cover up, or to enforce your rules and views on to someone else. You're literally outing yourself that you see something sexual about it. I just don't get that behaviour or entitlement - it never occurs to these people that their way might be the wrong way or it doesn't fucking matter at all
There was a story on another vid ages ago where Karen told a couple of young women to cover up or move to a new spot because her husband was staring at them in their swimsuits. They told her she should tell her husband not to perv on women half his age, or maybe *they* should move to a different spot.
That's awesome, and the perfect response. Why do people get more upset with the women rather than the boys/men who are doing the oogling?? Perfect example of girls/women being blamed /held responsible for boys/mens bad behavior.
@@CrazyPlantLady911 - reminds me of another Karen who confronted a small group of teens/young women sitting in a park wearing shorts and short tops, because her husband had bought binoculars to perv on them and now he wasn't paying her any attention.
ps he was perving on them from a flat across the road from the park.
@@franl155 that's just crazy.
and then who are the ones who are "controlled by their hormones"?... just saying.
@@CrazyPlantLady911 - I've looked for it again, but there are so many, and if it wasn't the lead story, there's little chance.
I love the guy aggressively blessing Karen's day! Best way to take the high road.
I grew up on Vancouver Island in BC, Canada. It was a pretty hippie area. At the local swimming hole where everyone went people would wash their clothes, bathe, swim, and BBQ in the summertime. Because some people's wells would run dry. It was clothing optional. You'd see naked bodies from babies to to adults, to grandma's & Grandpas! Which I have to say was actually good for us girl's body image as grew up! To see a naked mom not embarrassed of her stretch marks bathing her baby was actually beautiful Three day long BBQ parties were pretty awesome too! Lol
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I was literally about to make the “never been to Europe” comment while watching this AS you said it 😂
The whole stealing the spot at the beach reminds me of a parade I went to. My friend and I went to a parade to see her cousin who was in it. It was a downtown Kansas City St Pats parade and she said it’ll be crowded so we need to go early. We get there one hour early and find a spot to sit and no one is there yet. Eventually people show up and the sidewalks are crowded behind us. When the parade starts the lady behind us wants us to move so her and her kids can sit there. Uh no. I didn’t drive 30 minutes to get here an hour early and then move because you waited till the last minute. I have kids and I get it. They want to be up front. Their mom should know that too. She immediately acted like a total twunt and that we took her spot. We told her to show up earlier next time. She kept complaining. Actually got a cop. We told him what happened. The people around us told him we were there first. He told her to either find a new spot or stand in back. She got mad and left.
I do not understand why people think they should get the police involved.
@@Dove96 - I know, right? That is so ridiculous!
@@Dove96 right? Tattle to the police? On what planet?? Its bizarre! Those poor kids 😣
Loving that word. Twunt. Imma going to use it now. Thank you very much🥰🥰🥰
When you said "is she complaining to the manager of the beach about the seagulls?" My first thought was "i know right? the seagulls ARE the manager of the beach!"
as someone who grew up in Europe, spent countless summers on the beaches in different countries bordering the Mediterranean Sea ..... I'm just shaking my head here
Yup. I know the USA isn't Europe butt (pun intended), I like seeing small swimsuits on men and women because it shows they have confidence and that's really inspiring.
As I just replied to someone else, I can say as a mom of a now adult son that not making a big deal out of those things when they're young makes THEM not make a big deal out of it when they're older. Maybe they feel a little jealous? I can understand, it's hard to get older after you've had kids and watch your body change,but its on you how you react. Taking down other people isn't okay.
No way. If some young guys took pictures of my daughter at the beach, they’d be talking to the cops in cuffs, not me.
That was my impression, that they were taking creep shots of her daughter
This reminds me of an article when most covid restrictions were lifted everyone wanted to go to the beach and there was this one mom complaining to a news paper about the audacity of people going to the beach right after covid, while she was at the beach at the same time.
The lady with the 4 year old was hilarious, swearing like a trooper then complains about someone's swimsuit. Especially as the woman sitting next to her is trying to hide.
This is just one of many reason why I prefer a pool over the beach. At least those beaches that are both crowded and frequented by unruly people.
Something similar happened to me. My friends and I were at an empty beach. Laying on our towels smoking a blunt listening to music. Some lady and her 2 kids literally set up their stuff about 10 feet in front of us. We were surprised. The whole beach empty and she decides to sit in front of us. We put out the blunt. I was annoyed. So we put on bitch by queen herby 🌿 after about the second chorus. She finally picked up and moved her stuff and children really far. Mission accomplished. Blunt relit 😎
Muppet should of just smoked it..
As someone who lived in Italy for almost five years, it was a culture shock seeing how prudish people got over swimsuits. Like I couldn't wear two pieces anymore because they were "too revealing" and made to feel ashamed of my body. Worst way to enter puberty.
the people in Italy were prudish? I'm surprised.
@@mandywalker3393 when I moved from Italy to the US. My bad
LMAO "Some of you never went to europe and it shows" YES it's so funny how some americans get offended so easely
There was actually a very similar complaint to the first one I read about the beachfront resort I work at. Too many seagulls and the traffic was bad around the 4th of July which is one of the busiest holidays in the United States for beach towns.
Right? Go to a public beach on the busiest day of the year, then complain about traffic & too many people..🤦♂️
Oh the lovely entitlement of those that get to go to the beach. So funny!
If I'm at the beach and someone tells me "that is their spot". I'll pick up a hand full of sand and throw it. There I just moved your spot for you.
My dad was stationed in Germany, we were young. Nude, partially suited, speedos, it was so normal. When we came back to the States, it was a culture shock.
IKR. Guys cover up way too much at the beach in the USA, women do too but a lesser extent. The shame is all on guys to not wear skin tight or bikini bottoms for men to the beach and I say I'm putting an end to that. Men's swimwear is too boring and men need to wear less. Women need to wear less too, we're all so ashamed at being human and it's really bad for us mentally.
I'm from the UK. Nudity in children is NOT sexual! Bodies are nothing to be ashamed of; if you don't like people's choice in beach wear that's your problem. Mind your own business. 😤
You see it all the time here at swimming pools, and no one makes a big deal about it. It's just kids swimming.
My friend and I took her boy to the beach and we've seen a lot of little girls with no top. No one makes an issue of it.
@@EnchantingWings1 My sister is 14, me 21, my friend 24. Sometimes bikini, sometimes thongs, and sometimes......nothing. I hate tan lines.
"Some of y'all have never been to the beach in Europe." Facts.
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From a European who spent the endless summers of my childhood on French beaches - these types of reactions leave me bewildered - because IT'S A BEACH! People don't go full head to toe in clothing to a beach! If you're sensitive to swimwear then why go to a public beach and spew hate on everyone who comes within earshot! Oh my!
Exactly right. People go to the beach in as little to no swimwear as possible because it's hot out, we want to get a tan and stay cool and go in the water and dry off quickly and yeah we want to see other people's bodies in swimwear. We're all human, and we've all seen other people naked before, get over yourselves.
I mean France is not exactly the land of freedom when it comes to what to wear on the beach. Look what they do to Muslim women.
From Latin America and grew up in south Florida, it is hilarious how often tourist from the north (gringos) try to claim the beach or try to tell other what to wear
In the second swimsuit complaint, the woman sitting next to Komplaining Karen looked so embarrassed!
I'm Greek-American now living in Greece for the past couple of decades. In Greece, many of the beaches we've been to are known to be topless. There are some nude beaches too though I've not been to them. My first summer here we went to Zante (a/k/a Zakynthos). We were on a beach & my husband wanted to take a picture of me on the sand with the view of the mountain behind me. It took what seemed to me, like the longest time for him to take one picture! What I didn't know is there was a guy in his mid-40s who was just a few feet behind me and he was taking off his trunks. He waited for the man to leave before taking the picture. 🤣
I have an EP story on the beach! I went on vacation with my girlfriend and family. I was/am going through divorce, so I spent a lot of time alone on the beach just enjoying the views and getting used to being alone without having to take care of my husband and family. I've got my earbuds in, a great spot, the water and sunset was amazing.( Panama City Florida) when a group that was a wedding party and photographer. With the ENTIRE beach opened they decided to stop directly in front of me. Like 10ft in front of me so my view of that lovely ocean was this wedding party. It was like I wasn't even there. They weren't even taking pics!! Just standing talking!! So I take my camera out and start taking pictures of them after trying to get their attention, the new hubby finally sees, does not apologize. They take off their flip flops and leave them in that spot and walk over like 3ft.....I was so 😡 upset. I actually shed a tear as a wedding being literally shoved in my face was too much. But I didn't move an inch. So disrespectful!! So if you are a wedding planner/photographer please keep in mind others that are around your perfect backdrop.
A kid from the Balkans here, we did not use to wear swimming trunks until the age of 3 or 4. Kids that young have no concept of sexuality, do your homework Karen!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
What's up Balkans 😁
Balcans here, too. I got my first bikini top when I got my titties lol
balkan gang!!!!
Half my family is Balkan but I was born in the UK. I was allowed to be without a swimsuit as a young toddler on the beach but the backlash my parents got was pretty significant. I understand every country had its own norms but there's no need to sexual use children or police other people's bodies like that
@@Fragmented_Mask Exactly .... If it bothers you that much look away, it's not as if your head is glued .....
I live near the beach in Italy and in summer all the city go there... But also tourists.
One time there's been people pretending that we move our "ombrellone" because they wanted that spot, none of the people on the beach listen to them, and they were angry that nobody spoke English... Funny day
I love this. I wanna part 2
I have lived in a tourist town all my life that has a beach. I’ve encountered so many Karen’s. I was told by a whale of a woman that I’m too big and that only skinny folks should be at the beach and how no one wants to see my rolls. I was 14. This woman was way larger than me. So I turned right around to look at her and asked “so why are you here?” Idk if she forgot her own weight or was just delusional.
WTF I'm sure she was jealous someone was daring to do something she would never allow herself to.
"my self esteem is destroyed, why are you happy?" saying that to a child too? WTF
Sorry that happened to you she definitely was projecting her own shit onto you, I hope you didn't let it get to you. To walk up to a teenage girl you've never met, then proceed to body shame her, is an all-time low, she had to feel pretty stupid when you asked "Then why are you here?" 😜
At 3:46 that poor lady sitting next to the KAREN was so embarrassed I feel bad for her
I am dying! The very first one is a beach 20min away from me !! 😂 😂 It's actually a nicer beach too !
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When you make it "bad" to have a body, then you create a very weird culture. Of course when appropriate, the beach, art, etc. Raise your boys to respect others and none of this would be an issue.
Tbh I think it should be courtesy to keep the thongs in the bedroom and not at the beach and I'm a woman myself. I believe in appropriate swim wear it really shouldn't give people an excuse just to wear strings is my point. I would never go up to someone but really there should be a common decency so I think both were at fault in my opinion.