I love you mum, don't forget me
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- Опубліковано 23 сер 2024
- Brought to you by the Agency for Integrated Care - AIC Singapore.
"There are so many things I never thought of. I wasn't prepared because I didn't know what it would take."
For the last five years, Paul has been the main caregiver for his elderly mother who is living with dementia. What is it like to care for someone who might not even remember who you are?
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With our aging population, this guy is a model to us of the younger generation. Because that is what we want when we become the ones sitting in wheelchairs.
One day, our parents will become our children. What a heartwarming story, I wish the both of them great health and happiness. Kudos to Paul for being such a loving and caring son.
So sweet. Not every child will do this for their parents and may even find their parents a burden, kudos to the son and I hope everyone will cherish their family members more, not only when something bad happens to them.
Those who dont go through it wont know. His mother is still more fortunate. She can walk. Shes not paralysed frm strokes or anything serious illness. But dementia in the long run robs a person of everything. Memory, health and the caregivers suffer the most.
Kid who are devoted to their mom for long time!!
Salam dari batam 🇮🇩 🇮🇩 🇮🇩
This cause me to tear. A great role model. He's lucky to be able to take care of his mom as he's an entrepreneur, running his own business. Most of us would have have very little choice but to send our parents to eldercare homes while we work. Nonetheless, an inspiring piece.
You are such a doting and loving son, an aspiration to the younger generation. I'm sure that even though she has trouble recognizing you at times, you are etched at the back of her mind. I admire your positive outlook regardless of how challenging it is. I wished I had more time to spend with my late mum who battled through cancer and had dementia during the later stages. Nevertheless may god bless you and your mum and ease everything for the both of you ♡
So heartwarming, bring tears to my eyes remembering of my late grandma who also suffered from dementia and enjoys eating the fillet-o-fish burger from Mac’s, times we spent together in the past indulging in our fav fast food. Please keep well
He can be real proud of himself, doing something that many people don't and even never have a such "idea" in the head, especially in those so called "developed" countries. Sir, be proud of yourself, your mother should be proud too, to have you as son, you deserve the happiness by doing so, sharing it with your beloved mother. He's a good model for those in the same situation of taking care of their old parents.
oh god this is so precious............ bless this guy he's so sweet
i am proud of you ... we are all proud of you. love, from Kuala Lumpur , Malaysia
I rarely comment on UA-cam, but this video makes me do it. This video is really touching, I cried a lot while watching it. In my country, we don't say "I love you" to our parents and vice versa that often (maybe it's just me, but that's what I feel), maybe because that phrase sounds so cheesy in my mother tongue (I'm Vietnamese by the way). And I've just said it after watching this video. It's such a painful process to see our loved ones getting older and weaker, and these moments like these are absolutely gold. And I'll say "I love you" to my future kids every day. Thanks so much for this meaningful and touching video.
In Chinese culture too, love is shown by action rather than spoken words, received by the heart and not just heard.
The saddest thing is when our parents fails in their memory. The best thing we can do is to treasure, care and love them as much as possible when they are in good health.
What an amazing son and a human being. God bless Paul and his mother.
this is lovely to see. this inspires me want to do appreciative things with my mum.
So heart warming to see this good son. Hope more children will be like you. May God bless you this good son and mother.
Love and take care of your parents guys. No matter the age, love them
He really loves his mother. Good filial son.
It’s never easy when our roles switched. But we become more appreciative of the love we so much taken for granted before.
Give this man a crown 👑.
🙇🏻♂️🫡 🙌🏻
As a caregiver for my grandpa, I can really empathise. It isn't easy and there are days when you'd rather be in their shoes. You'd rather suffer instead of them and it pains you to see them forget you or feel like a burden to you. Dementia is a painful disease for us, the people who love the patient. Stay strong, there is always a community that you can rely on.
Dear Sir; my late dad similar like your loved one. Myself and my brother took turn to look after my aging dad. Not easy; but looking back. It is a journey, that I can proudly tell myself and my kids, that I looked after my dad when he needed us most. Do treasure with your loved one when he or she is still alive. I still can remember that while my late mother was still around, I always kissed her on the forehead before I go back my house; which is next block. My late mom was shy off by my kisses and since both of my parents have left me due to old age. I do have happy memories with them while they were alive. So, treasure your loved ones when they are still around. David, singapore
A very fillial son. Very fortunate for the mommy
*God bless Paul from here to eternity for his endless love and caring for his mum and this is such an inspiring story*
What a lovely blessing of a son ❤
this just shows us to love our parents even more as they have sacrificed everything for us to have a better life and when they are getting older, we should be looking after them :)
It's very tough to be caregiver to a mum with dementia. Auntie is very blessed to have such a filial son...many would end up in nursing home. This wonderful young man deserves our respect & a role model for young people
God bless to this guy and her mom. May this journey is and will be wonderful and full of love. To this guy: you are doing great stuff here! All these moments are and will be priceless. 😊
Great respect to you Paul!!
We did this with my mom before she passed away also. This man is precious ❤
Congrats to Paul such a good son and your mom too for such a long and fruitful life. It’s not easy living with an elderly dementia person you are such a role model to many people👏 God bless you 🙏
Mum is everything we can have in this world..
Gone thru this long ago , serving my grandma. Alot of energy n showering love to handle, dementia patience Alot of attention n everyday is new experience to handle n cate for them.
Good job brother. You are not alone. Its pretty rewardimg, responsiblity to serve yr loving mum.
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He is a good son
My mom is 96 n I know how tough it is for us caregivers. Glad to see Paul doing all this. God bless!
God Bless Yr Mom and Give U strength to take care of her ...
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Can tell that he love his mom so much 🤩🤩🤩😍😍😍😍😍
I remembered our business school took us to old folks home as our group assignment and everything on that day hit me. I literally in tears listening to all the auntie uncle grandma grandpa stories from their own family abandon them, can't take care of them due to their jobs or sent them to old folks home without reason only to be told they will be back to pick them up but 10-20 years later they still remain at the old folks home and still waiting for their child return. As an obedient son myself It really got me like.. how on earth ppl do this to their parents.. Some grandpa even told me, "I just want to be back at my home.. a heartwarming home".. I broke down.. but that was the easiest assignment as there's no report to hand in yet the most painful eye opening life experience I've ever felt not as a student but as a child.
Well done you they have looked and loved us since the we were born. I looked after my parents over the course of 30 yrs. Such a good son
what an angel. much merit. heartwarming to see filial piety is alive and well. wishing mother and son all good things.
Not many sons including me will have this patience for take care their mothers... Mister, have a respect from me... You're the greatest son... Your mother so so much lucky having a good son like you 👍👍👍
It’s Soo heart warming…u r the seeetest…May you be blessed in abundance…with your mum by your side ..you will grow in your heart…you will be filled with lots of love …Mum and dad is something I never had growing up 🌹❤️
The easy way is just to throw the mum to the helper but he didn’t do it, the most important things is to spent time
With ur love ones
You are such a wonderful son brother. Your mother is blessed to have you.
Love is patient, love is kind...
God bless you both
❤.’Every sec counts…’ Thanks…. for reminders to spend time with my ageing mum.
This is both heartbreaking and beautiful. A clear testament of true love between a mother and son. When I watched this, I thought of the statement, “paradise lies at the feet of Mothers.”
I will take care of my parents too... Thanks for sharing. You both stay safe and stay blessed always.
Your mum is lucky to have such a loving and caring son. The time you are spending with your mum is precious and you will cherish it forever. All the best to you and you mum.
God this makes me want to cry. May God bless them and help them in these times
That’s a good looking man taking care of his old sick mom
You’re a good son she’ll always have! All the best to you both!
Bro you do the right thing with all your heart,God will blessing you.Good job bro.
Very good son 👍🏻❤🙏🏻
You are a good son, I admired you for your love to your mom. When I saw your video, its remind of my mum too when she was alive sitting on the wheelchair.
Heartbreaking, this reminds me of my late grandma 🥲
We are actually going through the same thing now with my mother in law... It's not easy when she has forgotten most of us, even my hubby... She will ask my hubby where is his mum? 🤧 It's really heartbreaking but we'll try to be there for her whenever we can... This is such a brave story and I an hoping we can too... 🙏
It makes me cry so hard. What a loyal and loving son which makes me ache even more as I remembered how my own brother had to be scolded into speaking to our dying mother with dementia too, on the phone, as she longed to hear from him who seldom called and if lucky she would get to see her son while in transit for an hour in between 10 years apart. I wish my mom had a son like Paul.
Parents who fuss and worries over their children, when they are young, please remember them with gratitude and don't abandoned them because they become a burden.
Just love this man the way he approach and think in taking care of his mother..full of positivity.. Take everything in a progressive, patience, happy, loving and enjoying strides.. Just like looking after a kid.. Very touching.. Not easy.. If u have go through before as caretaker, u will know and we ourself have to be self motivated and full of love at heart to do so..😘😇😉on daily basis.. Not easy...
Heartwarming and heartbroken at the same time, this is beautiful.
This made me tear up, what a fillial son. Caring for a dementia patient is never easy, really thumbs up to you:’’) hope ahma will be healthy and happy, and also hope there will be another video on ahmas 90tj birthday :)
It’s very hard and I appreciate you doing what you’re doing because I do the same it was a big undertaking and it’s also very scary because you give up your life to take care of them and then at the same time you become old yourself it’s hard to realize them not being the person that they were and I struggle with that others find it easy but it’s like used to do this and they told him to remember and it’s hard for me so continue what you’re doing and I praise you
You are one of a kind. May god give you all the blessings.
Bless your heart for being such a caring son and also to MothershipSG for producing this sort of program .
Such a loving and caring Son,good job spend time ,its not easy its tough,but end of the day you know this is the best thing in life to give parents Love,God bless you guy,keep up the good friendship with your Mother.
My tears just follow along your screenshot that only five minutes play
Your mum is so lucky to have you! Keep up the great love!
He is a very filial son👍Jia you and god bless him and mum💪💪💪💪
Commenting to boost! This deserves more views, well done Mothership!
The title brought me here, just reading it I know the content will make me cry
A good person indeed.
Bro you're awesome 👌 I feel very guilty. My mum is in Malaysia & I'm living in Australia. I just moved from New Zealand. It has been a hard journey. Poor choices & circumstances beyond my control. God bless you bro.
bless him and his mum🥺🤍
Thanks for sharing such intimate moments with us. God bless Auntie and her son.
Bless his heart for going all out to help and accompany his mum. Wish them two the best and may God bless them with many more years together
very heartwarming and inspiring. You are a great son Mr Paul
May God make it easy for both of you. 😂Cried buckets as we also have our aging parent that we tried to care for as best as we could. We swore that our mom will remain at home in our loving care as long as she lives forever.❤
you're a good son and I miss my mum too 😢😢
So heartwarming. Sending you and your mom lots of love and strength
Patience and strength be yours brother. 👍🙏
Jibai, i fking cried sia knn
I watched it again n again .... U are such a good son. May God give u strength to take care of yr mom bro💪.... Miss my mom so much. She passed away 6 month ago.
Very touching! Admire his strength!
I just love watching children taking care of their mum, Regardless....
Beautiful son....beautiful story of love and care...
Loved their interactions. Inspired by his love for his mum too.
My respect to this guy a lot can even do what you did
Very Good Son .
Living with a dementis parent is not easy. As a son, and only child, I find it difficult to handle.
Respect.
Beautiful heart
I cried non stop😢
Loving son
Can tell he is speaking from his heart
God Bless Him and his Mum 🙏
Salute
May God bless you and your mom, Paul
God Bless You.
Beautiful love
God bless you, Paul..
This reminds me of my grandpa 👴. 😢 The process of him not remembering all of us is so sad, every time I had to tell him who I am and he just smile and nod his heart. He got lost so many times cause kept running out of the house. Kept saying we didn't let him eat when he already ate so many meals.
They both are blessed!!😊
Hi Paul, i follow your tik tok and im so glad your story has so much coverage now. Your relationship with your mum is so loving and fruitful and ive been inspired by you for months now :) All the Best good sir you and your mom deserve the world!!
I lose my mum when I was 17, and being the only child I can understand this a lot