I was adopted at 4 weeks old. I never knew my birth family, but my parents celebrated my adoption day every year. So I grew up knowing I was adopted and made to feel special by having my own special day. It was like 2 birthdays a year. Your doing great! So happy for y'all.❤️
I think y'all can definitely take credit for her personality and happiness!!! People say their baby is a reflection of their parents. Y'all are SO happy and she can feel that!
I mean..... but she's already behind on major milestones because she is kept in a carrier 24/7. They aren't doing as good as they could be with a baby they picked out and rejected other infants for😂
@@kimberlyjones2343 they are doing good. They’re first time parents. Give them a break . I don’t think this comment was necessary. Because they are doing their best. No one’s perfect.
I adopted two girls and they are now 22 and 23 - but I barely remember that I didn’t give birth to them. They are just mine. They always knew they were adopted and I’d drop pieces of their stories day by day when they were ready. They were never told they were “special” to be adopted or anything like that - it simply was their own amazing story. Your planned approach to dealing with this sounds perfect.
I completely agree with your little by little, age appropriate, explaining how your daughters came into being yours. I have a family member who wasn’t told important information about one of her parents until she was 12 years old and already struggling with some mental health concerns. It really messed her up for many years and I wish that they’d just been honest with her, gently and little by little instead of springing it on her like that. She’s an adult now and knows how loved she truly is ♥️♥️♥️
It’s insane how happy one can be for two people they don’t even know! Watching you guys talk about Story made me smile the whole video! She’s adorable!
you absolutely can take credit for having a happy baby! you are raising her in a happy environment! You can feel every ounce of joy beaming out of you both!
My husband was adopted and a few months after they adopted him, the adoption agency called them and asked if they were willing to go through the process again because they had an expectant mother they would be a good match for. They ended up with two under two. You never know what your timeline will be until it happens
My four adopted daughters when they were 2,3,4 and 5, when I would go somewhere with them…they would let everyone know that they were adopted. They were so happy about it, because I told them that they were chosen by my husband and I and that God put them in our lives. 😘❤️🙏🏼🌺
I got chills when Dallin said he would tell you do it for story. The whole time y’all were going through this God knew your little miracle was coming. So happy for y’all and Bella you are just glowing!
Please don’t tell her “your birth mother loved you so much she gave you up” I know several adoptive children that didn’t want anyone to love them so they didn’t give them up or leave. Also, start telling her now that she is adopted so it’s natural for everyone. Congratulations!
I absolutely love the fact that y'all have done an open adoption. It is so clear how important having a family is to you both, and how important your family is to you, and the fact that Story's adoption is open gives you a chance for an even bigger family. It also makes room for Story to get so much more love, and that's so beautiful, and I think it encompasses everything you both stand for as parents; love, joy, family, appreciation, and support. It is so wonderful to see how happy you and Dallin are being parents to Story, Bella. You have been so strong for so long, and you've been through so much, and you deserve to enjoy this time with your daughter. Story is the luckiest baby girl in the whole world to have you both as her parents
@@maggyc8344 it means the birth mother has kept the line of communication open with Bella and Dallin, and wants to be a part of Story’s life still (in whatever way they all agree on). It means she’ll have contact with them. A closed adoption would mean they wouldn’t even know her name, and she doesn’t want contact.
You guys literally have been glowing since the day she was put in your arms. Not only is sweet little Story going to have you guys tell her how much she was desperately wanted and loved but she's going to get to see it in these videos. And I correctly guessed her age the other day when she was in the stroller grabbing her feet giggling I was like oh she's almost 5 months or she's 5 months I've had a lot of kids lol. And I think you guys should take credit for her being such a happy baby genetics play a small part but you have put your all into making her happy and she is. Keep enjoying every little bit. All I ever think of is your song missing pieces and realizing that she is literally the pieces that was missing part of your family. She's beyond beautiful and oddly enough somehow looks like both of you. But her smile in those giggles coming from being secure and knowing that her needs are always going to be met that you guys are always there. Really that's all a little baby looks for is that Mommy and Daddy are there or just Mommy or just daddy whatever but she barely cries because you guys have learned to read her cues and you're able to make her happy very quickly. You guys are doing an amazing job. And like I said someday you're going to get to show her these videos the heartache and all. And then the pure joy that she brings to every minute of your life.
@@phoebegray7994 Open is some relationship between the birth family and adopted parents, the amount is depending on the family and closed adoption is no information is exchanged at all and the records are closed.
@@phoebegray7994open means that the biological parent(s) could still be involved in the baby’s life just not as a parent. a closed adoption is no contact at all !
I had an ovary issue at 18 and was told I would never get pregnant. So never thought I would and just managed that. And when I turned 35 out of nowhere became pregnant. Was in shock and had my first, then two years later had my second. So yes you just never know and we just have to live with the how its meant to be and whatever happens will be how it was meant to be. And yess her name is wonderful. Absolutely perfect. And you are all bonded it is very clear. You just keep on bragging. She is the best xo
I think this might be my favorite video of you guys so far because I can just tell how unbelievably happy you guys are at this stage of life. I smiled this entire video lol. I love that you guys are her parents!
You guy’s absolutely can take credit for Story’s personality! You’ve raised her in abundant amounts of the most genuine love, and all she’s known is smiles and laughter, even during night time feeds you guys are so so so happy. She feels that, she notices that. That is what has played a role in her personality. There are traits obviously that don’t come from you guys but her being a happy cheerful baby does actually have part to do with your personalities and what she’s exposed to ❤
Personality is a mix of genetics and environment, they have partial credit, but her birth mother is the person who takes credit for giving her life and half of her biology
of course you take credit for Story being so happy. it’s you. i’m telling you it’s you. it’s Dallin’s love for Bella and him looking at Bella like she’s the moon throughout the whole video. it’s Bella lighting up when she’s talking about her baby. it’s Dallin saying he’s not a morning person but he still loves morning with her. all that energy is why your baby is happy. love.
We adopted our daughter 36 years ago. From the time she could listen to stories, we told her the story of her adoption. It was always just a part of her life.
Me too. I always knew, but I am happy not to have known my birth mother in the mix. It’s not always a good thing. My mother is my mother. My father is my father.
When they tell you it goes fast. What they dont say is it isnt just fast, it SCREAMS by. My daughters are in their 40s now and it really was just yesterday with grown kids of their own. Seriously. Dont blink. Having children is a blessing. But the real secret no one tells you is, grandchildren are the biggest joy you will ever experience. Just wait.
You are 100 percent correct, it goes by so quick. I still can’t believe my son is 35, my daughter is 34 and watching them grow into wonderful adults is the biggest blessing.
My daughter made a scrapbook about her adopted children’s birth story. Pictures include the birth parents, the country/place they were born, and all the pictures that make sharing their story with them. This is like a picture book when they were small, and an actual reading book as they grew older. She also kept a blog about them on a site which printed those posts in a book each year. As a grandparent, I made sure to set aside a family heirloom for each one of them so the have a connection to my parents and grandparents. Our lives are filled to overflowing with these amazing children. ❤️
@@jkmycko1 actually the vast majority of adoptees that grew up in a healthy home disagree with YOU. we still all have trauma from being given up among other things.
When you say you wish you could take credit for her being a happy baby you absolutely can. She is happy because she is so loved and has amazing parents. Take all the credit for every smile and every laugh ❤
We met our baby when he was 25 months old and adopted by 3. Today he is 23 years old...I still see him as that chunky little boy. He knows he was adopted. He knows he has a humongous family and is loved very much.
You’re her parents so you can definitely take credit for her personality, how happy she is has a lot to do with how cared for and nourished she is ❤❤❤😊
Actually as an adoptee who found my birth parents when I was 21 I can say that nature plays a bigger part than nurture. My parents gave me a wonderful life and my birth parents gave me my personality
@@realcanadiangirl64 that’s nice, they said their baby is happy and always smiling though. They can definitely take credit for that, means she’s comfortable & taken cared of. Has everything to do with them & not her bio parents.
I love this video! My daughter has always known she’s adopted and it has been the best thing! It’s always been her story and she is so proud of being adopted and knows that it means so many people love her! She’s 10 now and knows being adopted makes her so special!!
After seeing these guys go through some of the hardest times, it is so beautiful to see one moment that totally flips their life around. It brings hope in everyone's life. All we need is that one moment :)
You guys radiate joy! I kept finding myself smiling while watching this. So happy for you guys! Story is beautiful and you guys are the best parents for her!
I am from the UK, and I came across your adoption video by accident, and boy I am so glad and happy I did. You two were born to be parents. Story is 100% a reflection of you both, she is precious, happy and just gorgeous. I am enthralled watching your little family, and look forward to your journey together. Story’s little face just lights up when she sees her Mummy or Daddy, which in turn makes me smile. Thank God you found each other, it was meant to be. Love you all xxx
I absolutely love watching your videos with story. When you adopted her and posted that video I got so emotional. My son is 5 months old on the 2nd of June. Time is going so fast. My boy is a super happy boy too. I did IVF as a single women and watching you guys helped my so much, your strength is incredible
First--every single thing about this beautiful baby you have, is so spiritual, and so God sent!! The story about your daughter is just so incredibly amazing! And the fact that you had picked out her name before she was even born, is truly unbelievable! The entire situation is just so meant to be, and so God sent! And, you can totally take credit for your beautiful daughter's happiness, BC she can feel how extremely happy you are to have her in your lives!! SHE IS HAPPY BC OF U BOTH!!!
I was also adopted and my parents were always so open and honest about it starting when I was young. Made me appreciate it even more and be thankful for the family God gave me. They saved my life. Forever grateful and I’m sure that Story will be so thankful she has both of you as her amazing parents. So happy for you guys, you’re doing great!
Reg Happy baby comment 14:08 - i think you CAN take credit for it. You want her there and her presence - and she can likely feel it. She is loved and wanted (speaking from personal experience struggling a lot in my 20s ad 30s realizing I wasnt wanted like so many others) no worries im okay and thriving now - but have decided to not have kids of my own. So when I see young loving parents like this - it makes me happy to know some parents are deserving and the kid is off to a great start. Love your content - very wholesome. Keep going.
I'm so excited to watch your adventure unfold. It's like watching a UA-cam channel about my life 18 years ago 😊 Infertility, domestic infant adoption, domestic toddler adoption, decided to try embryo adoption and it worked, then I decided to carry a surro baby for friends and THEN, 17 years after going off birth control (3 months after giving birth to surro baby) we got pregnant with a bio baby 🤯 Life is crazy.
Guys, you can take lots of credit for her happy go lucky personality, it’s a lot because of the joy you have parenting her 🥹♥️ love all of your stories!😍
There is nothing I love to see more than two people so incredibly happy who have gotten what they’ve been wanting and praying for for so long❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
All the heartache and pain add to the depth of Story’s story and have allowed her to have such loving wonderful parents. You guys are amazing she’s so lucky to have you.
as someone who is starting to try for a baby soon and is nervous about having a newborn this video was so nice to see. I feel like there is so much negativity about having children on the internet these days and you guys just exude happiness. I am sure the wait made you that much more appreciative of all the ups and downs of parenthood but thank you for sharing your happiness!
Oh my gosh. The video Bella made on May 29th is the very first video I watched of you two. What a lovely journey it's been. Thank you for sharing your joy.
Time flies, at 6 month she already can have baby cereal. Enjoy, take lots of video clips and photos both. I took lots of photos, but wish I had little video clips of just my kids alone crawling, walking, talking, etc. their mannerisms, their tiny voices and how it changes and more. I see the love you have for Story shine through. So happy for you.
Story has a beautiful story. My goodness God moved heaven to give you Story, some people wait 10 years for an adoption. You guys got blessed with the best and you are an inspiration for others. I love my adopted daughter so so much. She's an adult now but the love I have for her is beyond anything I could have ever imagined. Again Story looks like you guys especially Bella and she is so happy and loving. All her cute litte noises, her smiles and her joyful soul is pure gold. You have a beautiful family. ❤
Y'all have a happy baby because you are happy parents, babys can feel what you feel and all she has ever felt from you is love and happiness every single second you've had her, LITERALLY every second!! She is a product of her environment! ❤❤❤❤❤
I literally cry every time I watch one of your videos now that you have Story. As someone who struggled with poi I know all too well the struggles of infertility. Most infertility can be helped but when it’s an egg problem there are really limited options and that’s so hard. That fear and heartache of truly not knowing if your dream will ever come true. I love seeing how genuinely happy you all are after such a hard journey. Not many parents truly understand that feeling of everyday feeling like Christmas. My husband and I always say that everyday just feels like Christmas morning and is such a blessing. Even the hardest of times just feel like the hugest blessing. Infertility is so so hard. But the rainbow after the storm is so bright. And to tell of your story is to tell of Him!
I am sorry to burst your bubble but I have THE BEST five adopted children ❤😊. I love you guys and hearing about Story’s journey into your life. We do have 5 adopted kids and they always knew the word ADOTED. There was never a sit down break the news moment for us in their adoption. Keep up the vlogs they bring me such joy. Hugs….
I love seeing y’all so happy! Not only have you been blessed but so has Story! Prayers to her birth mother for giving y’all such a beautiful gift! She’s an angel 😇 ❤
She deserves to light up after the IVF!! And she’s a beautiful little girl and I love seeing the way Bella lights up and you light up as parents We have a couple in our church the adopted a little boy and is he got older he looks like his adopted dad in the older he gets the more he looks like him. So hopefully story will look more and more like you guys the older she gets because, I can see You guys in her
My daughter was born on July 11th after 12 years of infertility a true blessing. I loved watching this q&a because I feel all of this to my core. I could talk about my sweet baby 24/7 🥰 congratulations guys! It’s truly THE BEST 😉
My babies were all very happy unless they were sick or overly tired. They were great sleepers so I feel very fortunate. I do believe babies feed off of their parent’s temperament. They mirror our facial expressions and sense if we are stressed etc. I feel like Story feels your love and happiness. You both are amazing parent’s and your joy is a wonderful thing! 💕
I practiced attachment and parenting before it had a name. I wore my babies all the time probably up until the point that they were kicking my knees lol And they rarely cried because they had constant comfort I was actually thinking about that the other day growing up and (three of them are technically adults) I don't remember crying fits or really any difficult times besides my second son who never slept literally just never slept and he's 21 and he still doesn't sleep. But even then he wasn't crying he was just laying with us. My kids call me a hippie parent😂
Ok so y’all are the CUTEST COUPLE!! I feel like Story coming into your lives she made your guy’s relationship just like so cute (I mean it’s always cute) but like y’all all seem so happy & bubbly & I’m so happy for y’all! It’s truly an inspiration! Love y’all!! 🩷:))
I’m late, but wow. What a beautiful testament to the power of pushing through hardship, trying your best to remain positive, and holding on to hope. The story of her birthday is magical. She was always meant to be yours 🥹 congratulations to you both
This is a lovely video hearing you and Dallin answering and opening your hearts about Story. She's gorgeous and am happy she has come into your life and helped to make you more complete. Enjoy and love every minute as 5 months already and you are all so in love and a family now.🎉🙋👶♥️👩❤️💋👨
I’ve been really enjoying watching your journey and seeing your Story unfold! I am over the moon happy for all three of you and I just wanted to say you guys are “the best”! Thanks for sharing
🥰 I used to have a full length mirror hanging in my bathroom, but when I had my 1st baby, I moved the mirror to my bedroom just so I could see myself holding and rocking my daughter until she fell asleep in my arms. Those were the times that I enjoyed the most! You are both the most wonderful parents! And it's easy to see the joy and contentment that she feels with you! Thank you for sharing your videos! So many of us love you guys!! You have a beautiful family! ❣️❣️❣️
The most beautiful parents! The joy and love you share is palpable; thank you so much for sharing! My husband was adopted, and his parents told him his adoption story frequently. They would tell him as part of bedtime; a real-life bedtime story! I can only imagine how loved and safe he felt each night, knowing he was chosen, hoped for, and sooo loved- just like Story!! 🩷
That whole thing about “just relax” and “oh now you will probably get pregnant” always upset me… so many people say inappropriate things to infertile folks. And my son is now 24 so things haven’t changed! Btw she is one of the cutest babies I’ve ever seen!! Enjoy her; it speeds by so quickly!!
I completely agree it's so insensitive to say. And yes it does happen I know five or six people it's happened to in the middle of adoption they got pregnant. However there are different circumstances everyone knows what they've been through everyone knows she has low egg supply The odds of it happening are minuscule so why rub sand in the womb when it comes to that when they are literally glowing beaming over the moon happy about this little girl
Hi Bella, Dallin and Story, happy 5 months Story Belle. It so sweet that Story and Alessi share the same birthday. It is so nice to see you both so happy talking about your daughter. ❤
I said in another comment that she has been happy from birth so it's inherently her character. She is adorable. You are both always happy, chatting to her & smiling, which helps. I can't remember myself always being that happy with my boys. So carry on, you're doing fantastically.
Dallin and Bella, You can take credit for Story's personality and temperament. She is the happy baby that she is because of all of the love that you two have for her and show her. In turn she can feel all your love, this making her the very happy baby that she is. What a blessing she has made for your life and you have made for hers. 🥰 💖 😘💕
I am so happy for your precious family!!! Story is so blessed to have you both. And you to have her. We have adopted our 3 children ,All open adoptions. Two sons and one daughter. God answered our prayers in his timing, I understand the waiting and love. It has been a beautiful journey, From adopting them at birth, and our son 4 months old. They are now 29, 28 and our daughter 23. I am about to be a Mimi for the first time. So excited for the next chapter. Psalm 113 is a scripture the Lord gave me on the way to the hospital when our daughter was being born. 🥰
It’s the birthday that brings happy babies! My daughter Kamryn was born May 29th 2010 so she’s now 13 but she too was the happiest baby never cried and is still so easy, so happy and never gets upset. Story will be the same she’s got 2 terrific parents that love her to pieces!
She will be 6 months on my birthday. She definitely needs a 1/2 birthday day celebration.She is so beautiful and so happy to see your journey with her and your amazing parents.
Gosh you guys are too cute! Bella’s excitement followed by the sideways glance to you bc she knows she giddy and then keeps going anyways….it brings the biggest smile to my face! Precious! I love how much you lover your little girl!
The way my hand immediately reached to touch wood when Bella said that story is the happiest baby!! (I don’t know if it’s a thing in all cultures or it’s just something we Indians do, but we touchwood when we don’t want something to get jinxed)
Story has the best parents! I’m so happy she came to them! Also I’ve never seen Dallin angry once he has good temperament! That’s good to see because it shows you two will be good parents
You can absolutely take credit for her happiness and disposition. Story can feel your love and your dedication toward her. You are happy and loving parents. She is a blessed little girl. ❤
These parents are like ANY KIDS DREAMMMMMM PARENTS!!!!!!! STORY IS SOO LUCKY AND THEY ARE SO LUCKY!!!! God definitely blessed this couple w this baby !!! God knew they deserved a huge win ❤❤❤❤❤
I was adopted at 4 weeks old. I never knew my birth family, but my parents celebrated my adoption day every year. So I grew up knowing I was adopted and made to feel special by having my own special day. It was like 2 birthdays a year. Your doing great! So happy for y'all.❤️
I love this idea
I was adopted and had a special day too. So when we adopted our 2 children, we made sure they had a special day too.
We call that our Gotcha Day
I was six weeks old and my parents did the same thing. ❤
@@nancydunn7092a family i know adopted 3 boys. And on the adoption day they call it the gotcha day ❤
I think y'all can definitely take credit for her personality and happiness!!! People say their baby is a reflection of their parents. Y'all are SO happy and she can feel that!
Yeah babies and kids are a lot more intuitive than people give them credit for
I mean..... but she's already behind on major milestones because she is kept in a carrier 24/7. They aren't doing as good as they could be with a baby they picked out and rejected other infants for😂
@@kimberlyjones2343What milestones?
@@kimberlyjones2343 they are doing good. They’re first time parents. Give them a break . I don’t think this comment was necessary. Because they are doing their best. No one’s perfect.
@@kimberlyjones2343Its probably very beneficial for bonding though especially since they didn’t get to go through pregnancy together.
I adopted two girls and they are now 22 and 23 - but I barely remember that I didn’t give birth to them. They are just mine. They always knew they were adopted and I’d drop pieces of their stories day by day when they were ready. They were never told they were “special” to be adopted or anything like that - it simply was their own amazing story. Your planned approach to dealing with this sounds perfect.
Me too! I forget I didn't give birth to my adopted daughter
I completely agree with your little by little, age appropriate, explaining how your daughters came into being yours. I have a family member who wasn’t told important information about one of her parents until she was 12 years old and already struggling with some mental health concerns. It really messed her up for many years and I wish that they’d just been honest with her, gently and little by little instead of springing it on her like that. She’s an adult now and knows how loved she truly is ♥️♥️♥️
It’s insane how happy one can be for two people they don’t even know! Watching you guys talk about Story made me smile the whole video! She’s adorable!
Story was, without a doubt, meant to be with you two.
Tbh she also looks alot like them. I don’t know what it is but I see Bella in her
Yes❤
100%!
@@melaniebuhler7277same I cannot believe these ppl
@@Em_tingsi thought i was tripping . glad to know i’m not the only one who saw that . ❤
I love how much y’all love her. Bella hasn’t stopped smiling since she got her baby 💕
I’m adopted myself and just to see this perspective just makes my heart so full thinking about my parents ❤️
Same! I don’t know anything about my biological parents though. ❤
Same ❤️
Same!
Right I think being adopted says Alot like for 1 it tells you that you were wanted by the ones who adopted you.. that's what I think!!
I 💯 % agree with this I'm adopted myself and seeing this side of it is just amazing!
you absolutely can take credit for having a happy baby! you are raising her in a happy environment! You can feel every ounce of joy beaming out of you both!
My husband was adopted and a few months after they adopted him, the adoption agency called them and asked if they were willing to go through the process again because they had an expectant mother they would be a good match for. They ended up with two under two. You never know what your timeline will be until it happens
My four adopted daughters when they were 2,3,4 and 5, when I would go somewhere with them…they would let everyone know that they were adopted. They were so happy about it, because I told them that they were chosen by my husband and I and that God put them in our lives. 😘❤️🙏🏼🌺
I got chills when Dallin said he would tell you do it for story. The whole time y’all were going through this God knew your little miracle was coming. So happy for y’all and Bella you are just glowing!
Please don’t tell her “your birth mother loved you so much she gave you up” I know several adoptive children that didn’t want anyone to love them so they didn’t give them up or leave. Also, start telling her now that she is adopted so it’s natural for everyone. Congratulations!
I absolutely love the fact that y'all have done an open adoption. It is so clear how important having a family is to you both, and how important your family is to you, and the fact that Story's adoption is open gives you a chance for an even bigger family. It also makes room for Story to get so much more love, and that's so beautiful, and I think it encompasses everything you both stand for as parents; love, joy, family, appreciation, and support. It is so wonderful to see how happy you and Dallin are being parents to Story, Bella. You have been so strong for so long, and you've been through so much, and you deserve to enjoy this time with your daughter. Story is the luckiest baby girl in the whole world to have you both as her parents
Can’t agree more. What a loving thing to do. Story is blessed. 🙏🙏
Sorry but can you explain what’s an open adoption?
@@maggyc8344 it means the birth mother has kept the line of communication open with Bella and Dallin, and wants to be a part of Story’s life still (in whatever way they all agree on). It means she’ll have contact with them. A closed adoption would mean they wouldn’t even know her name, and she doesn’t want contact.
@@claradonivan5106 not just birth mother, all birth family. open adoptions are the way to go if possible!
You guys literally have been glowing since the day she was put in your arms. Not only is sweet little Story going to have you guys tell her how much she was desperately wanted and loved but she's going to get to see it in these videos. And I correctly guessed her age the other day when she was in the stroller grabbing her feet giggling I was like oh she's almost 5 months or she's 5 months I've had a lot of kids lol. And I think you guys should take credit for her being such a happy baby genetics play a small part but you have put your all into making her happy and she is. Keep enjoying every little bit. All I ever think of is your song missing pieces and realizing that she is literally the pieces that was missing part of your family. She's beyond beautiful and oddly enough somehow looks like both of you. But her smile in those giggles coming from being secure and knowing that her needs are always going to be met that you guys are always there. Really that's all a little baby looks for is that Mommy and Daddy are there or just Mommy or just daddy whatever but she barely cries because you guys have learned to read her cues and you're able to make her happy very quickly. You guys are doing an amazing job. And like I said someday you're going to get to show her these videos the heartache and all. And then the pure joy that she brings to every minute of your life.
The energy and happiness Bella has talking about this shows how much she is meant to be a mother! So so happy for you guys!
Never seen parents so high on love! Soooo sweet ❤❤
Open adoption is a beautiful thing! My family is tied together by open adoption and it’s like an extended family and so special!
Sorry this may sound dumb what is the difference between open and closed adoption
@@phoebegray7994 Open is some relationship between the birth family and adopted parents, the amount is depending on the family and closed adoption is no information is exchanged at all and the records are closed.
@@phoebegray7994open means that the biological parent(s) could still be involved in the baby’s life just not as a parent. a closed adoption is no contact at all !
Thanks for that clarification @@alliegreenbean
I had an ovary issue at 18 and was told I would never get pregnant. So never thought I would and just managed that. And when I turned 35 out of nowhere became pregnant. Was in shock and had my first, then two years later had my second. So yes you just never know and we just have to live with the how its meant to be and whatever happens will be how it was meant to be. And yess her name is wonderful. Absolutely perfect. And you are all bonded it is very clear. You just keep on bragging. She is the best xo
I think this might be my favorite video of you guys so far because I can just tell how unbelievably happy you guys are at this stage of life. I smiled this entire video lol. I love that you guys are her parents!
You guy’s absolutely can take credit for Story’s personality! You’ve raised her in abundant amounts of the most genuine love, and all she’s known is smiles and laughter, even during night time feeds you guys are so so so happy. She feels that, she notices that. That is what has played a role in her personality. There are traits obviously that don’t come from you guys but her being a happy cheerful baby does actually have part to do with your personalities and what she’s exposed to ❤
Personality is a mix of genetics and environment, they have partial credit, but her birth mother is the person who takes credit for giving her life and half of her biology
@@DuckduckobtusegooseAbsolutely. As an adoptee who found my birth parents I'm more like my birth family.
of course you take credit for Story being so happy. it’s you. i’m telling you it’s you. it’s Dallin’s love for Bella and him looking at Bella like she’s the moon throughout the whole video. it’s Bella lighting up when she’s talking about her baby. it’s Dallin saying he’s not a morning person but he still loves morning with her. all that energy is why your baby is happy. love.
We adopted our daughter 36 years ago. From the time she could listen to stories, we told her the story of her adoption. It was always just a part of her life.
Me too. I always knew, but I am happy not to have known my birth mother in the mix. It’s not always a good thing. My mother is my mother. My father is my father.
When they tell you it goes fast. What they dont say is it isnt just fast, it SCREAMS by. My daughters are in their 40s now and it really was just yesterday with grown kids of their own.
Seriously. Dont blink.
Having children is a blessing. But the real secret no one tells you is, grandchildren are the biggest joy you will ever experience.
Just wait.
My.daughters r 38 qmd 37 it flies so fast its crazy . My oldest is 36 weeks pregnant and so excited for my 6th grabdbaby
You are 100 percent correct, it goes by so quick. I still can’t believe my son is 35, my daughter is 34 and watching them grow into wonderful adults is the biggest blessing.
With all the chaos in the world right now, y’all are a breath of fresh air and I’ve loved following you so much. Thank you ❤
My daughter made a scrapbook about her adopted children’s birth story. Pictures include the birth parents, the country/place they were born, and all the pictures that make sharing their story with them. This is like a picture book when they were small, and an actual reading book as they grew older. She also kept a blog about them on a site which printed those posts in a book each year. As a grandparent, I made sure to set aside a family heirloom for each one of them so the have a connection to my parents and grandparents. Our lives are filled to overflowing with these amazing children. ❤️
I'm so grateful that her birth mother decided to give her life. What a blessing, to her and to you. What a beautiful "story".
She’s still going to have abandonment issues u can’t take that away
@@Speedyskull15 I think the vast majority of adoptees that grew up in a healthy home disagree with you.
@@jkmycko1 actually the vast majority of adoptees that grew up in a healthy home disagree with YOU. we still all have trauma from being given up among other things.
That's no one's fault. These things sometimes happen.
When you say you wish you could take credit for her being a happy baby you absolutely can. She is happy because she is so loved and has amazing parents. Take all the credit for every smile and every laugh ❤
Yes, yes, yes! I was thinking the same thing!
I came on here to say the same thing ❤
The way yall radiate when talking about your daughter is just so heartwarming. So so happy for yall!
We met our baby when he was 25 months old and adopted by 3. Today he is 23 years old...I still see him as that chunky little boy. He knows he was adopted. He knows he has a humongous family and is loved very much.
You’re her parents so you can definitely take credit for her personality, how happy she is has a lot to do with how cared for and nourished she is ❤❤❤😊
Actually as an adoptee who found my birth parents when I was 21 I can say that nature plays a bigger part than nurture. My parents gave me a wonderful life and my birth parents gave me my personality
@@realcanadiangirl64 that’s nice, they said their baby is happy and always smiling though. They can definitely take credit for that, means she’s comfortable & taken cared of. Has everything to do with them & not her bio parents.
I love this video! My daughter has always known she’s adopted and it has been the best thing! It’s always been her story and she is so proud of being adopted and knows that it means so many people love her! She’s 10 now and knows being adopted makes her so special!!
After seeing these guys go through some of the hardest times, it is so beautiful to see one moment that totally flips their life around. It brings hope in everyone's life. All we need is that one moment :)
YOU ABSOLUTELY can take CREDIT FOR HER HAPPINESS.... It's Ya all's POSITIVE ENERGY flowing through her body !!!
You absolutely can take credit for her being the happiest baby! You’re amazing parents 🤎
You guys radiate joy! I kept finding myself smiling while watching this. So happy for you guys! Story is beautiful and you guys are the best parents for her!
the joy you guys have when you talk about story and being a parent is the sweetest and purest thing ever makes me so excited to be a mom someday
I love the way you both look at each other when talking about your daughter. Its such a wonderful thing to see. What a beautiful family. Amen.
I am from the UK, and I came across your adoption video by accident, and boy I am so glad and happy I did. You two were born to be parents. Story is 100% a reflection of you both, she is precious, happy and just gorgeous. I am enthralled watching your little family, and look forward to your journey together. Story’s little face just lights up when she sees her Mummy or Daddy, which in turn makes me smile. Thank God you found each other, it was meant to be. Love you all xxx
I can’t believe story is already 5 months old. She is so precious and she’s growing so fast. I can’t wait to see her first birthday video
"I wish we could take credit for it" Dallin and Bella I think you absolutely CAN take credit some for Story's temperament and happiness
I absolutely love watching your videos with story. When you adopted her and posted that video I got so emotional. My son is 5 months old on the 2nd of June. Time is going so fast. My boy is a super happy boy too. I did IVF as a single women and watching you guys helped my so much, your strength is incredible
First--every single thing about this beautiful baby you have, is so spiritual, and so God sent!! The story about your daughter is just so incredibly amazing! And the fact that you had picked out her name before she was even born, is truly unbelievable! The entire situation is just so meant to be, and so God sent! And, you can totally take credit for your beautiful daughter's happiness, BC she can feel how extremely happy you are to have her in your lives!! SHE IS HAPPY BC OF U BOTH!!!
it makes me cry to see how proud, happy, and grateful you are of Story. She really does light up you both
You guys are a breath of fresh air. God knew Story Belle needed to be with you.
When y'all said that through the hard times, you would say, "Do it for Story," I immediately cried. And now she's here!!
I absolutely balled when they said that, it was so beautiful
I was also adopted and my parents were always so open and honest about it starting when I was young. Made me appreciate it even more and be thankful for the family God gave me. They saved my life. Forever grateful and I’m sure that Story will be so thankful she has both of you as her amazing parents. So happy for you guys, you’re doing great!
Reg Happy baby comment 14:08 - i think you CAN take credit for it. You want her there and her presence - and she can likely feel it. She is loved and wanted (speaking from personal experience struggling a lot in my 20s ad 30s realizing I wasnt wanted like so many others) no worries im okay and thriving now - but have decided to not have kids of my own. So when I see young loving parents like this - it makes me happy to know some parents are deserving and the kid is off to a great start. Love your content - very wholesome. Keep going.
I'm so excited to watch your adventure unfold. It's like watching a UA-cam channel about my life 18 years ago 😊
Infertility, domestic infant adoption, domestic toddler adoption, decided to try embryo adoption and it worked, then I decided to carry a surro baby for friends and THEN, 17 years after going off birth control (3 months after giving birth to surro baby) we got pregnant with a bio baby 🤯 Life is crazy.
I am so happy for y’all. I am still in my infertility journey and y’all give me hope.
when he said "her baby was on this earth" I lost it. 😭 I'm so happy for you two. ❤️
Guys, you can take lots of credit for her happy go lucky personality, it’s a lot because of the joy you have parenting her 🥹♥️ love all of your stories!😍
There is nothing I love to see more than two people so incredibly happy who have gotten what they’ve been wanting and praying for for so long❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
All the heartache and pain add to the depth of Story’s story and have allowed her to have such loving wonderful parents. You guys are amazing she’s so lucky to have you.
as someone who is starting to try for a baby soon and is nervous about having a newborn this video was so nice to see. I feel like there is so much negativity about having children on the internet these days and you guys just exude happiness. I am sure the wait made you that much more appreciative of all the ups and downs of parenthood but thank you for sharing your happiness!
This was so meant to be! Story is a beautiful little miracle
Oh my gosh. The video Bella made on May 29th is the very first video I watched of you two. What a lovely journey it's been. Thank you for sharing your joy.
Time flies, at 6 month she already can have baby cereal. Enjoy, take lots of video clips and photos both. I took lots of photos, but wish I had little video clips of just my kids alone crawling, walking, talking, etc. their mannerisms, their tiny voices and how it changes and more. I see the love you have for Story shine through. So happy for you.
Story has a beautiful story. My goodness God moved heaven to give you Story, some people wait 10 years for an adoption. You guys got blessed with the best and you are an inspiration for others. I love my adopted daughter so so much. She's an adult now but the love I have for her is beyond anything I could have ever imagined. Again Story looks like you guys especially Bella and she is so happy and loving. All her cute litte noises, her smiles and her joyful soul is pure gold. You have a beautiful family. ❤
Y'all have a happy baby because you are happy parents, babys can feel what you feel and all she has ever felt from you is love and happiness every single second you've had her, LITERALLY every second!! She is a product of her environment! ❤❤❤❤❤
I literally cry every time I watch one of your videos now that you have Story. As someone who struggled with poi I know all too well the struggles of infertility. Most infertility can be helped but when it’s an egg problem there are really limited options and that’s so hard. That fear and heartache of truly not knowing if your dream will ever come true. I love seeing how genuinely happy you all are after such a hard journey. Not many parents truly understand that feeling of everyday feeling like Christmas. My husband and I always say that everyday just feels like Christmas morning and is such a blessing. Even the hardest of times just feel like the hugest blessing. Infertility is so so hard. But the rainbow after the storm is so bright. And to tell of your story is to tell of Him!
I am sorry to burst your bubble but I have THE BEST five adopted children ❤😊. I love you guys and hearing about Story’s journey into your life. We do have 5 adopted kids and they always knew the word ADOTED. There was never a sit down break the news moment for us in their adoption. Keep up the vlogs they bring me such joy. Hugs….
Lol good parents always think their kids are the best
I love seeing y’all so happy! Not only have you been blessed but so has Story! Prayers to her birth mother for giving y’all such a beautiful gift! She’s an angel 😇 ❤
She deserves to light up after the IVF!! And she’s a beautiful little girl and I love seeing the way Bella lights up and you light up as parents
We have a couple in our church the adopted a little boy and is he got older he looks like his adopted dad in the older he gets the more he looks like him. So hopefully story will look more and more like you guys the older she gets because, I can see You guys in her
My daughter was born on July 11th after 12 years of infertility a true blessing. I loved watching this q&a because I feel all of this to my core. I could talk about my sweet baby 24/7 🥰 congratulations guys! It’s truly THE BEST 😉
My babies were all very happy unless they were sick or overly tired. They were great sleepers so I feel very fortunate. I do believe babies feed off of their parent’s temperament. They mirror our facial expressions and sense if we are stressed etc. I feel like Story feels your love and happiness. You both are amazing parent’s and your joy is a wonderful thing! 💕
I practiced attachment and parenting before it had a name. I wore my babies all the time probably up until the point that they were kicking my knees lol And they rarely cried because they had constant comfort I was actually thinking about that the other day growing up and (three of them are technically adults) I don't remember crying fits or really any difficult times besides my second son who never slept literally just never slept and he's 21 and he still doesn't sleep. But even then he wasn't crying he was just laying with us. My kids call me a hippie parent😂
Ok so y’all are the CUTEST COUPLE!! I feel like Story coming into your lives she made your guy’s relationship just like so cute (I mean it’s always cute) but like y’all all seem so happy & bubbly & I’m so happy for y’all! It’s truly an inspiration! Love y’all!! 🩷:))
You can both take credit for her being a happy baby, all her needs are being met and it is showing through her happy personality🥰😘
I’m late, but wow. What a beautiful testament to the power of pushing through hardship, trying your best to remain positive, and holding on to hope. The story of her birthday is magical. She was always meant to be yours 🥹 congratulations to you both
This is a lovely video hearing you and Dallin answering and opening your hearts about Story. She's gorgeous and am happy she has come into your life and helped to make you more complete. Enjoy and love every minute as 5 months already and you are all so in love and a family now.🎉🙋👶♥️👩❤️💋👨
Take credit for her happy ways. You have given her a loving kind life and you are both beautiful people.
I’ve been really enjoying watching your journey and seeing your Story unfold! I am over the moon happy for all three of you and I just wanted to say you guys are “the best”! Thanks for sharing
The way that dallin looks at Bella! I want that! Story is precious, congrats to you!!🎉
Me and Story girl share a birthday!!🩷 I love seeing how happy you both are! You’re so deserving of being her parents!🩷
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I used to have a full length mirror hanging in my bathroom, but when I had my 1st baby, I moved the mirror to my bedroom just so I could see myself holding and rocking my daughter until she fell asleep in my arms.
Those were the times that I enjoyed the most!
You are both the most wonderful parents! And it's easy to see the joy and contentment that she feels with you!
Thank you for sharing your videos! So many of us love you guys!! You have a beautiful family!
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This makes me so happy I literally am crying. I’m so beyond happy for you guys. You deserved this so so much!!! ❤❤❤❤
The most beautiful parents! The joy and love you share is palpable; thank you so much for sharing! My husband was adopted, and his parents told him his adoption story frequently. They would tell him as part of bedtime; a real-life bedtime story! I can only imagine how loved and safe he felt each night, knowing he was chosen, hoped for, and sooo loved- just like Story!! 🩷
This is seriously such a sweet video. You can tell you both love her so darn much. ❤
You can take credit for that happiness because you are Story's loving parents, I am so happy for her and you
That whole thing about “just relax” and “oh now you will probably get pregnant” always upset me… so many people say inappropriate things to infertile folks. And my son is now 24 so things haven’t changed! Btw she is one of the cutest babies I’ve ever seen!! Enjoy her; it speeds by so quickly!!
I completely agree it's so insensitive to say. And yes it does happen I know five or six people it's happened to in the middle of adoption they got pregnant. However there are different circumstances everyone knows what they've been through everyone knows she has low egg supply The odds of it happening are minuscule so why rub sand in the womb when it comes to that when they are literally glowing beaming over the moon happy about this little girl
You both absolutely ooze love for that little girl, that's why she is so happy. You are brilliant parents.
Yes you can take credit for her being happy and content, her needs all met sometimes before she even realizes it. Y’all are doing a great job! 💕
Story has the best parents!! You both such a blessing and story is so lucky to have the both of you❤❤
Hi Bella, Dallin and Story, happy 5 months Story Belle. It so sweet that Story and Alessi share the same birthday. It is so nice to see you both so happy talking about your daughter. ❤
I said in another comment that she has been happy from birth so it's inherently her character. She is adorable.
You are both always happy, chatting to her & smiling, which helps. I can't remember myself always being that happy with my boys. So carry on, you're doing fantastically.
You guys are so good to her. She’s lucky to have you. Thank you for sharing your journey ❤
Proof that God is always working behind the scenes! Never give up hope and always keep your faith you guys are very blessed 🩷
They’re both so very excited to talk about it!! I love it!❤
Dallin and Bella, You can take credit for Story's personality and temperament. She is the happy baby that she is because of all of the love that you two have for her and show her. In turn she can feel all your love, this making her the very happy baby that she is. What a blessing she has made for your life and you have made for hers. 🥰 💖 😘💕
I am so happy for your precious family!!! Story is so blessed to have you both. And you to have her. We have adopted our 3 children ,All open adoptions. Two sons and one daughter. God answered our prayers in his timing, I understand the waiting and love. It has been a beautiful journey, From adopting them at birth, and our son 4 months old. They are now 29, 28 and our daughter 23. I am about to be a Mimi for the first time. So excited for the next chapter. Psalm 113 is a scripture the Lord gave me on the way to the hospital when our daughter was being born. 🥰
It’s the birthday that brings happy babies! My daughter Kamryn was born May 29th 2010 so she’s now 13 but she too was the happiest baby never cried and is still so easy, so happy and never gets upset. Story will be the same she’s got 2 terrific parents that love her to pieces!
She will be 6 months on my birthday. She definitely needs a 1/2 birthday day celebration.She is so beautiful and so happy to see your journey with her and your amazing parents.
You guys are the reason she is so happy, she senses your joy ❤❤❤❤❤
I’m glad Story will know she’s adopted but also very VERY wanted. And I hope the open adoption means she has connections to her bio family
Gosh you guys are too cute! Bella’s excitement followed by the sideways glance to you bc she knows she giddy and then keeps going anyways….it brings the biggest smile to my face! Precious! I love how much you lover your little girl!
The way my hand immediately reached to touch wood when Bella said that story is the happiest baby!! (I don’t know if it’s a thing in all cultures or it’s just something we Indians do, but we touchwood when we don’t want something to get jinxed)
We do that in America too except we knock on wood
Knock on wood is in NZ too. If it’s gets that far you know if a WORLDWIDE saying. Lol
Story has the best parents! I’m so happy she came to them! Also I’ve never seen Dallin angry once he has good temperament! That’s good to see because it shows you two will be good parents
You can absolutely take credit for her happiness and disposition. Story can feel your love and your dedication toward her. You are happy and loving parents. She is a blessed little girl. ❤
I am so so so happy to see Bella this happy !! It brought a huge smile to my face. I am beyond happy for you guys.
The May birthday babies are the best babies ever ❤ I have I have 4 . My son and daughter and 2 grandkids ❤
These parents are like ANY KIDS DREAMMMMMM PARENTS!!!!!!! STORY IS SOO LUCKY AND THEY ARE SO LUCKY!!!! God definitely blessed this couple w this baby !!! God knew they deserved a huge win ❤❤❤❤❤