I’m adopted and I definitely think the best advice I can give to parents who adopt is to be open with her but if she ever doesn’t want to talk about her adoption and her feelings towards it, don’t force her to open up. She will when she’s ready ❤️
I agree. Our daughter still hasn't opened the letter her birth mother left her and has never wanted to meet her. We have shared everything we knew and answered all her questions in her teens, but since then she never mentions her adoption. And that is okay.
True, because if there is a good relationship. Some adoptees prefer never to know about their adoption. It's too hurtful to imagine belonging to anyone else.
Our 31 yo daughter is adopted and at 3 years-old she would tell you "I'm special 'cause I'm dopted" We talked with her being adopted from day 1. I love watching you and your journey with Story. Good bless you three!❤
How can anyone ask if Dalin didn't want to be a dad. He is an amazing dad and you can see how much her worships story and Bella. You seem amazing parents and story is one happy girl which confirms it ❤❤❤❤
Fellow adoptive mama here. You're doing an amazing job with Story and her birth mama. Adoption is ALWAYS born out of loss. You realize that, and are educating yourselves on adoption related traumas, and thats awesome of you. We are still learning about different traumas with our kiddos as they go through different ages and stages. Its not always easy but its so worth it! Love you guys!
After our bio children left home, Hubby and I adopted a toddler from China. She’s a young woman now, and has always LOVED the fact that she was adopted (chosen) by us! She DELIGHTS in telling her adoption story to anyone who’s interested. So the good news is, not all adoptees are bothered, or hung up on that fact. 😊
We foster adopted our two kids. They are siblings. We have been open and honest with them since the beginning. They don't have issues with it. They are actually are proud of their story. I believe it's how you handle the situation.
I couldn’t agree more! My girls are 22 and 23 - both adopted, always knew they were adopted and their stories, have met birth family members in Russia, and zero trauma - honesty and openness are key IMHO
I was adopted at 10, I have no adoption trauma. My trauma is from foster care and my case workers from social services which were universally evil people that didn't care if I was safe only that I wasn't burdening their case work.
@@valiasa-di6hrI’m adopted and i would say personally for me i have a lot of abandoned trauma. I’m 50 and have had this my entire life. My adopted parents have always been honest with me so i never knew not being adopted. Adoption abandonment trauma is very real. Thank you for commenting this. ❤️
Some of these assumptions are just weird, but I'm really glad you guys addressed adoption trauma! At first I was a little jealous of how "easy" your parenting journey has seemed but I realized you had more than a difficult journey to getting there and even if it's easier than some you deserve it and I truly think you guys are so appreciative of Story and all that she brings. It's great, and I tried to brush that chip off my shoulder😅
You guys to me seem to be the best, caring, loving parent that Story could have! Things happen for a reason and Story was meant for the two of you❤ I would love to watch more long videos from you ❤
Fellow adoptive mom here. You guys are great. Although parenting is never easy, when your road to parenting is long or hard, you do tend to enjoy the harder times because you realize they are still a blessing you could have missed. Our daughter is now 8, she's known every day that she's adopted. She has rough moments where she misses her bmom, even though we've had her since birth. Every child deals with this separation in their own way. Recently, she was upset because she's the only one in her class that's adopted. You deal with the questions and feelings the best way you can and with as much honesty as they can handle as they grow. Our girl now knows all the reasons for her adoption and why her bmom chose us, but there are days we still get asked those questions. You keep doing what you're doing. Those who haven't gone through the process will never understand the training and classes you went through to help your child along her path to cope and understand her story. Per other comments, those of us who have gone through the process think you guys are doing great. Congratulations! Enjoy your child and parenthood. Some days will be easier than others, but they all will be blessings.
I am adopted. My birth story is a crazzzyyyy one! The world is beyond blessed that you both exist and are able to provide such a beautiful life and so much love for a child! Everything happens for a reason. Bless you both! ❤❤
❤ my 13 yr old is adopted. We took the approach of it being something to celebrate and how we got to choose to be her parents. Thank you for being so open with your journey to become parents and as parents. Happy Thanksgiving!!
I'm studying to be a preschool teacher and I tell you that baby talk is actually incredibly important for babies, they develop lenguaje much easier if parents talk to them in that sweet tone.❤
Im flabbergasted at some of the questions that people ask! No-one is a perfect parent 100% of the time and you learn something new every day! Story is a dear little girl being raised by 2 parents who obviously love her to bits and has an extended family of loving, pro-social human beings who are not afraid to share their emotions! These experienced parents will help you guys throughout your parenting journey to be the best Mum and Dad you can be. I wouldn't worry a jot about what other people think because only your relationships with Story and to a smaller extent, at least for now, the relationship she has with her birth mother, will define the adult she turns out to be! I had 5 kids who are now aged between 31 and 41 and I'm a Grandma now, but my only living grandchild is 18, and I miss all the grandchildren who I never got to meet. I would have loved to have had a granddaughter to do girly things with, but I don't and babies are SUCH a joy when they are well loved as Story is. Sometimes I'll watch Tik Toks of happy babies chuckling away, and somehow I found you 3, and I am enjoying watching how Story changes with every new video. Don't sweat the small stuff and keep doing what you're doing. You have a wonderful little family and enjoy every moment! From country NSW Australia.
The comment/assumption about romanticizing parenthood is unfair - you had to work so hard for little Story, it gives you a deep appreciation for even the tougher moments. I struggled to conceive and I genuinely think it’s made me a better parent because I am so appreciative of my little one and always stop to remember this blessing. You are also SUCH positive people, so of course you’re going to make it look amazing - you are amazing people!!! I’m so so happy for you both ❤❤❤
No parent knows everythinadoption or not. We have 10 grandkids and only one is adopted from birth. It has never been a secret and she is free to feel and talk about it anytime. She is ours just like all the others. No difference at all. All children are blessings…I never mention to anyone that she is adopted. Not that I’m keeping it a secret but that I truly do not think about it. When she talks about her birth parents we simply say (and we mean it) we are thankful for them. They did what they thought was best for her and not just what made them feel less guilty. They were unselfish!! Everyone in her world has loved her to pieces and she is a joy like all our kids and grands are!! Congratulations to your sweet family!! You are doing it just right…enjoy every single minute. 💗🥰
Oh WOW! Some of those questions were SO harsh! I am wondering if they are from people who don't watch the channel or are scammers! I have only been watching you for almost a year but the energy you put into having a baby and being real on here was what kept me around! Story is beautiful, loved so much, and all the haters can leave! Love you guys!
The comment assuming you guys 'glorify' or romanticize parenthood is so annoying and obviously came from someone outside the infertility community (typical). Of course you romanticize it, look what you went through to get here! I honestly feel children of parents who suffered inferility are so lucky, they get a version of parents that are just so grateful to be parents. You guys are awesome
Guys, I had to just pause your video to tell you from someone who is adopted and is now 63 years old, I suffered absolutely No Trauma Whatsoever during my childhood and into my adulthood, I had the Best Parents Ever, Just Like Your Little Story Belle….now back to the assumptions, which I think some of them are ridiculous, I read the comments when you post and I get so annoyed with some comments that people just assume and have no right to even make those assumptions, I always comment back to those people as an adopted adult That Had A Great Childhood…🇦🇺🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻…people who comment are only seeing a snippet of your Life, which gives them No Right To Comment…. I Am So Happy You Put That Out There For All The Trolls To Hear…..💕💕
I am adopted. I have known all my life, and I’m 52. I’ve never wanted to know my biological family. I feel so blessed that my parents chose to be my parents… I actually met my biological aunt this year. God bless her, but I doubt I’ll ever speak to her again. I have no adoption trauma. Just feel blessed and loved by my parents.
Im adopted and i am 19 i knew i was adopted my whole life i dont remember when i was told I feel like I just always knew I was adopted at two and i dont feel like i have any sort of adoption trauma or abandonment issues ive always seen my parents as just my Parents they may be curious but just know every situation is different i love yall and u guys are amazing
Della vlogs. I’m pretty sure if all the biological parents think and act like you all the children in the world will have to be happier and safer. People like you are the parents the children deserve. God bless you both of you with your beautiful baby Story Belle.
As someone who is adopted by my moms husband, and who I call dad, I can genuinely look back on my life and acknowledge that it was better because my dad adopted me. My life would have taken a completely different route and been awful because of who my biological dad is. Adoption can be a HUGE blessing. I don’t know story’s circumstances but you guys are obviously phenomenal parents and love her, and truly that is a blessing in and of itself. You guys are doing incredible💗
I also romanticize parenthood and that works for me. Others need to vent or focus on the hard stuff and that works for them. 🤷🏼♀️ either way that works for you is the right way.
I agree I completely romanticized it and have for 23 years and I've had some pretty wild curves throwing my way My oldest is autistic and severely intellectually disabled. Not things you plan. But I truly tried to enjoy every minute and I'm glad I have two that moved into college dorms this year and it feels like someone's like taking part of your heart and chucking it. But I can say that I don't look back and feel like I didn't take advantage of every minute that I could. Also college is expensive not just the college itself but their whole life while they're in college is expensive.
Wishing you all the very best , as Story is such a blessing and she’s very loved by you both. She’s a beautiful contented baby, who has everything she’ll ever need. Most of all the love you all have for each other. Sending fond wishes from Scotland
If you ever fly through Kansas City, their new airport has a gender neutral bathroom (really nice stalls with doors and sides all the way to the floor and shared sinks) and I saw a couple changing a baby TOGETHER and I'm obsessed with the idea now.
Start telling her now, how lucky you were to get to adopt her. Tell her that her birth mother loved her too. Just keep saying that there are just more people who love her now. We always talked honestly, calmly and with love about her adoption. She really wasn't too traumatized by it.
Parenthood is easy for you guys because you are rich. It's sad but it's true. Most of us other moms would also be a lot less stressed if money wasn't an issue. Imagine the possibilities? They can afford to take classes to better thier parenting, they would never have to worry they couldn't afford more diapers, story will be able to be in any sport she desires, go to collage. Most of us parents can't garuntee any of those things for out kids. Of course they "glorify parenting" they are happy, healthy, successful people. They have things very easy, they are incredibly blessed and lucky.
Again this is all assuming but based on what I can see. I know they are healthy bevause they have the resources to stay fit, I know thier happiness is genuine for this reason.
Two of my children are adopted. It was the most amazing and difficult thing any of us had been through, but what an amazing blessing. Now our little boy is married with two little girls of his own and happy and successful. Our daughter is a happy, healthy, busy grad student. People tend to be judgemental when it comes to parenting, moreso when your children are adopted. Follow your instincts, enjoy your little girl. Don't let anyone steal that happiness from you. She is clearly dripping in love from the two of you every moment. That's what's most important. You seen like a wonderful family
I was adopted and have had no trauma. My adoptive parents helped me understand that they chose me. I could share with whomever I wanted to or not. It was neat when I met other friends who were adopted too. And over the last 12 years or so I’ve been in touch with my birth mom. All has been positive!! Love her to the moon and back and I’m sure all will go well. xo
You two are very transparent, which is good. Some of the silly things people assume are funny and ridiculous. I live in Sun City, so I can totally relate to the weather change we're having right now. You guys are doing a good job, keep going. 😊
The most important thing Story will know about her adoption is that she is the love of her mommy and daddy's heart. How could she not? It's there for the world to see.
Saying “no” to protect them is healthy. Saying “no” just to say no or cause drama is unhealthy. I know you’re going to be protective and kind and adventurous parents. You’ll set boundaries until they are challenged and then make up the rules as you go. You will be wonderful at it.
Romanticising parenthood 😂😂😂I had wonderful babies and that was my experience with all 3 of my sons it’s probably because my first son had to be resuscitated at birth so I was privileged to be a mother second son is a rainbow baby so I embraced every last moment and loved even the hard bits & my last son was a twin and we lost our daughter but to have the privilege of leaving the hospital with just one baby and to go home with him was nothing short of a miracle could’ve wallowed but that would’ve gained me nothing I would’ve missed all the special magical moments it actually gave other women around me a well when they had babies they would call screaming why did you make this look beautiful and easy because for me it was I took every negative and made a positive ❤
They don’t have the same struggles which affect the majority of people with young children so you need to remember that when watching them. Also, they have an infant so the questions surrounding discipline seem nonsensical.
My youngest son is adopted and has always known. He’s biologically my great nephew and I’ve had him since he was 18 months old! ❤ He does have issues sometimes but I am here to help him navigate through it!! And I do have all my 5 sons baby teeth saved 😬
I was adopted as a baby like Story. If you ever have any questions and want to know how I feel from my perspective, I’d love to talk! Love you and your family
I was adopted at 3 years old and my adoptive parents have always been open about it with me so it was always a normal part of me and never something I felt bad about or ashamed of. I had a closed adoption due to the circumstances so I did not learn all the details until I was older but I now have contact with my birth mom and have a great relationship with both my adoptive and birth parents. As I got older I did get curious about my birth parents and my family but always felt comfortable asking questions and talking about it with my adoptive parents and that was extremely helpful for me, so my best advice from an adoptee would be to just be open and honest and create an environment where she feels comfortable talking and asking questions which I know you guys already have down! I know some adoptive parents try to close their child off from their birth parents/family and In my opinion that just creates a barrier between adoptive parents and the child. I wouldn’t change a thing about my story and I know you guys will create the perfect environment for Story to thrive!!🤍 Adoption is beautiful!
At 1 point you might run out of diapers It is a thing to have a few cloth diapers and pins. Comes in handy while one runs to wally world. Adoption is a real blessing for everyone concered. Done right it can be done well. 😊 I planned my 1st kids birthday. It was huge. I spent 2 months planning baking and getting presents. She doesnt remember any of it. But i do. Worth it.
You can be a friend and a parent at the same time, I have actually found that it requires less discipline and is easier because your not always mean and grumpy, you enjoy being with your kids and they like being with you and if they are out of line they realize it hurts and affects both of you so it happens much less ( I have a young kid and teenager)
Assumptions and questions aside (I actually started following only just before your adoption story when UA-cam recommended ), it’s been beautiful watching your family story. I have no real input to contribute, I just wanted to send you the biggest love from london 🇬🇧 Side note.. Bella is an all out extravagant Christmas girl.. full stop. Story joining in at this stage is a mumma sharing that joy with her girl 🎄
I’m a first time mommy and my Bebe is 3 months old! Hearing Story in the background makes miss my baby West soo much. He’s asleep for the night 💤 It’s hard when they’re sleeping and you just want to snuggle them! 😂
I never had to adopt, but I just think that when you start talking to Stella, we adopted you sweetheart because we truly deeply loved you and wanted you and tell her the same story of her mother how much she wanted a better life for her baby because it’s all just positive reinforcement for her, and you guys you take a lot of flak from people I think you’re the sweetest couple ever and I think you’re the best parents ever keep it up guys ❤
Someone that says what they say that is wrong because they are jealous;due to what I’ve seen you two are Great Parents! Story will never need or want for Anything or Need for or Want Love due to the two of you as parents!
I’m 45 and was adopted. Mine was closed (as that’s the way it was back then). I can say I don’t feel like I was traumatized at a. I just met my birth family a year ago. I can say that I now realize something was missing but I didn’t realize it. They look like me, act like me, have similar tastes and hobbies as me. It’s great. I have two adopted girls. Our open adoptions makes it so they can know things about their birth family. See pictures, talk to them and some day meet them (before they become adults)
A really cool thing about Story being adopted is you have video of how happy you were to have her. And how much you love her and what she means to you and your life.
I romanticize my mother hood I love every single moment gm even the hard ones and I am the same way so I can relate a lot to this being just so happy to finally have a baby. Story is one lucky baby beautiful family ❤
you both are the cutest parents and no one should ever just make up any assumptions about you and thats one thing i never do because carma always comes back and its not so fun either you both seem to know what your doing and are doing so well and thats all that really matters, i am so sorry for all the negative talk you both get but thats how life is sadly but god bless you all
It is amazing what some peoples assumptions are. You have both said many times Story will know she is adopted. Keep on been the best parents you can be. Blessings to you all.
I had 2 children and I can relate with story being so good because my son was so good, then I had my daughter she was so colicky it wasn’t her fault but I had both sides of it so I am so happy for y’all for Story she is such a happy baby
I would do my best to ignore people who leave question able comments, most of the people who follow you trust you and your judgements when it comes to Story or your life!!
Every assumption is not how I see you two, ever. You 3 are fun, sweet & inspiring. I homeschooled & wish I had done it for more years. I highly recommend! Cheers 🇨🇦
Love this for you guys. So Happy cried and laughed with you from the beginning. You guys Are really so cool and chilled and I hope the Very best for you. Hope God Bless you for years and Years forward ❤️
you guys are so lucky!! in my culture, if someone adopts a baby it means they’ll be blessed! who knows, Bella might be able to bring a new blessing to the fam! 🤍🤍
People think you used a surrogate because Story looks like you guys! Well EXACTLY like YOU mama! And the older she gets she just looks more and more like you! How amazing!!
First of all people need to mind their own business. Every parent is different and does their own thing their own way. No one way is the wrong way. You have to do what is right for you guys and your little family. Never mind all the negative people out there that are miserable in their own lives. Be happy, you can see how happy that little girl is and the wonderful life she is living. Enjoy every minute of that beautiful baby she’s going to grow up fast. You are good parents never forget that!! ❤
My husbands birthday is november 8th❤. I would enjoy every minute of Story they grow up fast. I loved 1 to 4 years. My little girl is 14 now and time flew by fast so enjoy it.
Noooo guys it's actually good to keep all the baby teeth!!!!! It can help with certain serious illnesses God forbid she did ever end up with one of those illnesses I have all my daughter baby teeth her Dr told us from the beginning to keep them if we can etc
Yall are so cute, I’m checking in on you as I haven’t seen your vlogs since you brought story home and she is just perfect ❤such a beautiful baby!! I hope that yall adopt another lucky baby soon ❤
The nighttime rule is one my husband and I have too! Just disregard everything said in the nighttime, you become a different person lol. You guys are doing amazing 😊❤️
I have two adopted brothers. They know who there birth parents are, and they have no wish to have a relationship. They have no negative feelings about them, they just do not consider them family. I would 100% say they have no adoption trauma
I’m adopted and I definitely think the best advice I can give to parents who adopt is to be open with her but if she ever doesn’t want to talk about her adoption and her feelings towards it, don’t force her to open up. She will when she’s ready ❤️
I agree. Our daughter still hasn't opened the letter her birth mother left her and has never wanted to meet her. We have shared everything we knew and answered all her questions in her teens, but since then she never mentions her adoption. And that is okay.
True, because if there is a good relationship. Some adoptees prefer never to know about their adoption. It's too hurtful to imagine belonging to anyone else.
Our 31 yo daughter is adopted and at 3 years-old she would tell you "I'm special 'cause I'm dopted" We talked with her being adopted from day 1. I love watching you and your journey with Story. Good bless you three!❤
How can anyone ask if Dalin didn't want to be a dad. He is an amazing dad and you can see how much her worships story and Bella. You seem amazing parents and story is one happy girl which confirms it ❤❤❤❤
Fellow adoptive mama here. You're doing an amazing job with Story and her birth mama. Adoption is ALWAYS born out of loss. You realize that, and are educating yourselves on adoption related traumas, and thats awesome of you. We are still learning about different traumas with our kiddos as they go through different ages and stages. Its not always easy but its so worth it! Love you guys!
After our bio children left home, Hubby and I adopted a toddler from China. She’s a young woman now, and has always LOVED the fact that she was adopted (chosen) by us! She DELIGHTS in telling her adoption story to anyone who’s interested. So the good news is, not all adoptees are bothered, or hung up on that fact. 😊
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We foster adopted our two kids. They are siblings. We have been open and honest with them since the beginning. They don't have issues with it. They are actually are proud of their story. I believe it's how you handle the situation.
Our oldest son is adopted. We were honest from the beginning. He is 22 years old and does not have adoption trauma. It’s all how you handle it.
That’s true
Exactly. All 4 of my children are adopted from foster care and we’ve had all from infancy. They all love hearing their adoption stories.
I couldn’t agree more! My girls are 22 and 23 - both adopted, always knew they were adopted and their stories, have met birth family members in Russia, and zero trauma - honesty and openness are key IMHO
I was adopted at 10, I have no adoption trauma. My trauma is from foster care and my case workers from social services which were universally evil people that didn't care if I was safe only that I wasn't burdening their case work.
@@valiasa-di6hrI’m adopted and i would say personally for me i have a lot of abandoned trauma. I’m 50 and have had this my entire life. My adopted parents have always been honest with me so i never knew not being adopted. Adoption abandonment trauma is very real. Thank you for commenting this. ❤️
Some of these assumptions are just weird, but I'm really glad you guys addressed adoption trauma! At first I was a little jealous of how "easy" your parenting journey has seemed but I realized you had more than a difficult journey to getting there and even if it's easier than some you deserve it and I truly think you guys are so appreciative of Story and all that she brings. It's great, and I tried to brush that chip off my shoulder😅
You guys to me seem to be the best, caring, loving parent that Story could have! Things happen for a reason and Story was meant for the two of you❤ I would love to watch more long videos from you ❤
Fellow adoptive mom here. You guys are great. Although parenting is never easy, when your road to parenting is long or hard, you do tend to enjoy the harder times because you realize they are still a blessing you could have missed. Our daughter is now 8, she's known every day that she's adopted. She has rough moments where she misses her bmom, even though we've had her since birth. Every child deals with this separation in their own way. Recently, she was upset because she's the only one in her class that's adopted. You deal with the questions and feelings the best way you can and with as much honesty as they can handle as they grow. Our girl now knows all the reasons for her adoption and why her bmom chose us, but there are days we still get asked those questions.
You keep doing what you're doing. Those who haven't gone through the process will never understand the training and classes you went through to help your child along her path to cope and understand her story. Per other comments, those of us who have gone through the process think you guys are doing great.
Congratulations! Enjoy your child and parenthood. Some days will be easier than others, but they all will be blessings.
I am adopted. My birth story is a crazzzyyyy one! The world is beyond blessed that you both exist and are able to provide such a beautiful life and so much love for a child! Everything happens for a reason. Bless you both! ❤❤
I really want to hear your story
@@arafaislam164 it's a novel, really. I could write a book. Lol.
@@lindahodgkinson5281maybe you should 🤗 I’d love to hear it too.
❤ my 13 yr old is adopted. We took the approach of it being something to celebrate and how we got to choose to be her parents. Thank you for being so open with your journey to become parents and as parents. Happy Thanksgiving!!
I'm studying to be a preschool teacher and I tell you that baby talk is actually incredibly important for babies, they develop lenguaje much easier if parents talk to them in that sweet tone.❤
Lenguaje lol
Exactly baby ease is universe ❤
Im flabbergasted at some of the questions that people ask! No-one is a perfect parent 100% of the time and you learn something new every day! Story is a dear little girl being raised by 2 parents who obviously love her to bits and has an extended family of loving, pro-social human beings who are not afraid to share their emotions! These experienced parents will help you guys throughout your parenting journey to be the best Mum and Dad you can be. I wouldn't worry a jot about what other people think because only your relationships with Story and to a smaller extent, at least for now, the relationship she has with her birth mother, will define the adult she turns out to be! I had 5 kids who are now aged between 31 and 41 and I'm a Grandma now, but my only living grandchild is 18, and I miss all the grandchildren who I never got to meet. I would have loved to have had a granddaughter to do girly things with, but I don't and babies are SUCH a joy when they are well loved as Story is. Sometimes I'll watch Tik Toks of happy babies chuckling away, and somehow I found you 3, and I am enjoying watching how Story changes with every new video. Don't sweat the small stuff and keep doing what you're doing. You have a wonderful little family and enjoy every moment! From country NSW Australia.
I’m with you 👌🏻🙌🏻🙏🏻
I agree! Some of the comments are so ridiculous! These two are amazing parents ❤
The comment/assumption about romanticizing parenthood is unfair - you had to work so hard for little Story, it gives you a deep appreciation for even the tougher moments. I struggled to conceive and I genuinely think it’s made me a better parent because I am so appreciative of my little one and always stop to remember this blessing. You are also SUCH positive people, so of course you’re going to make it look amazing - you are amazing people!!! I’m so so happy for you both ❤❤❤
No parent knows everythinadoption or not. We have 10 grandkids and only one is adopted from birth. It has never been a secret and she is free to feel and talk about it anytime. She is ours just like all the others. No difference at all. All children are blessings…I never mention to anyone that she is adopted. Not that I’m keeping it a secret but that I truly do not think about it. When she talks about her birth parents we simply say (and we mean it) we are thankful for them. They did what they thought was best for her and not just what made them feel less guilty. They were unselfish!! Everyone in her world has loved her to pieces and she is a joy like all our kids and grands are!! Congratulations to your sweet family!! You are doing it just right…enjoy every single minute. 💗🥰
Oh WOW! Some of those questions were SO harsh! I am wondering if they are from people who don't watch the channel or are scammers! I have only been watching you for almost a year but the energy you put into having a baby and being real on here was what kept me around! Story is beautiful, loved so much, and all the haters can leave! Love you guys!
The comment assuming you guys 'glorify' or romanticize parenthood is so annoying and obviously came from someone outside the infertility community (typical). Of course you romanticize it, look what you went through to get here! I honestly feel children of parents who suffered inferility are so lucky, they get a version of parents that are just so grateful to be parents. You guys are awesome
Guys, I had to just pause your video to tell you from someone who is adopted and is now 63 years old, I suffered absolutely No Trauma Whatsoever during my childhood and into my adulthood, I had the Best Parents Ever, Just Like Your Little Story Belle….now back to the assumptions, which I think some of them are ridiculous, I read the comments when you post and I get so annoyed with some comments that people just assume and have no right to even make those assumptions, I always comment back to those people as an adopted adult That Had A Great Childhood…🇦🇺🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻…people who comment are only seeing a snippet of your Life, which gives them No Right To Comment…. I Am So Happy You Put That Out There For All The Trolls To Hear…..💕💕
I am adopted. I have known all my life, and I’m 52. I’ve never wanted to know my biological family. I feel so blessed that my parents chose to be my parents… I actually met my biological aunt this year. God bless her, but I doubt I’ll ever speak to her again. I have no adoption trauma. Just feel blessed and loved by my parents.
Im adopted and i am 19 i knew i was adopted my whole life i dont remember when i was told I feel like I just always knew I was adopted at two and i dont feel like i have any sort of adoption trauma or abandonment issues ive always seen my parents as just my Parents they may be curious but just know every situation is different i love yall and u guys are amazing
We owned a restaurant and we made sure that the men’s room had a diaper changing area. It was so appreciated by dads.
Della vlogs. I’m pretty sure if all the biological parents think and act like you all the children in the world will have to be happier and safer. People like you are the parents the children deserve. God bless you both of you with your beautiful baby Story Belle.
I am an adoptee, and a most enlightening book to read for adoptees and parents is The Primal Wound by Nancy Newton Verrier. Story is gorgeous.
As someone who is adopted by my moms husband, and who I call dad, I can genuinely look back on my life and acknowledge that it was better because my dad adopted me. My life would have taken a completely different route and been awful because of who my biological dad is. Adoption can be a HUGE blessing. I don’t know story’s circumstances but you guys are obviously phenomenal parents and love her, and truly that is a blessing in and of itself. You guys are doing incredible💗
I also romanticize parenthood and that works for me. Others need to vent or focus on the hard stuff and that works for them. 🤷🏼♀️ either way that works for you is the right way.
I agree I completely romanticized it and have for 23 years and I've had some pretty wild curves throwing my way My oldest is autistic and severely intellectually disabled. Not things you plan. But I truly tried to enjoy every minute and I'm glad I have two that moved into college dorms this year and it feels like someone's like taking part of your heart and chucking it. But I can say that I don't look back and feel like I didn't take advantage of every minute that I could. Also college is expensive not just the college itself but their whole life while they're in college is expensive.
Bellas voice is beautiful! I love The della family, You guys are such an inspo. ❤
Wishing you all the very best , as Story is such a blessing and she’s very loved by you both. She’s a beautiful contented baby, who has everything she’ll ever need. Most of all the love you all have for each other. Sending fond wishes from Scotland
If you ever fly through Kansas City, their new airport has a gender neutral bathroom (really nice stalls with doors and sides all the way to the floor and shared sinks) and I saw a couple changing a baby TOGETHER and I'm obsessed with the idea now.
Start telling her now, how lucky you were to get to adopt her. Tell her that her birth mother loved her too. Just keep saying that there are just more people who love her now. We always talked honestly, calmly and with love about her adoption. She really wasn't too traumatized by it.
Parenthood is easy for you guys because you are rich. It's sad but it's true. Most of us other moms would also be a lot less stressed if money wasn't an issue. Imagine the possibilities? They can afford to take classes to better thier parenting, they would never have to worry they couldn't afford more diapers, story will be able to be in any sport she desires, go to collage. Most of us parents can't garuntee any of those things for out kids. Of course they "glorify parenting" they are happy, healthy, successful people. They have things very easy, they are incredibly blessed and lucky.
Again this is all assuming but based on what I can see. I know they are healthy bevause they have the resources to stay fit, I know thier happiness is genuine for this reason.
@@margauxevans4298a lot of ignorance in your comment. You’re projecting.
Two of my children are adopted. It was the most amazing and difficult thing any of us had been through, but what an amazing blessing. Now our little boy is married with two little girls of his own and happy and successful. Our daughter is a happy, healthy, busy grad student. People tend to be judgemental when it comes to parenting, moreso when your children are adopted. Follow your instincts, enjoy your little girl. Don't let anyone steal that happiness from you. She is clearly dripping in love from the two of you every moment. That's what's most important. You seen like a wonderful family
I was adopted and have had no trauma. My adoptive parents helped me understand that they chose me. I could share with whomever I wanted to or not. It was neat when I met other friends who were adopted too. And over the last 12 years or so I’ve been in touch with my birth mom. All has been positive!! Love her to the moon and back and I’m sure all will go well. xo
You two are very transparent, which is good. Some of the silly things people assume are funny and ridiculous. I live in Sun City, so I can totally relate to the weather change we're having right now. You guys are doing a good job, keep going. 😊
The most important thing Story will know about her adoption is that she is the love of her mommy and daddy's heart. How could she not? It's there for the world to see.
Four of our seven kiddos are adopted. All are ours born of heart and body. No secrets and I am grateful for every blessing ❤
I love adoption! It’s such a beautiful thing and story is more then lucky to have parents like you!❤
Bella has such a beautiful singing voice ! So strong & pleasant to the ear! Keep singing to your daughter…🎶
Please give story a gotcha day party each year! This will show her how special she is!
Please don’t do this. She’s not a dog.
I believe story picked you both to be her forever parents ❤ you both complete her story .
Saying “no” to protect them is healthy. Saying “no” just to say no or cause drama is unhealthy. I know you’re going to be protective and kind and adventurous parents. You’ll set boundaries until they are challenged and then make up the rules as you go. You will be wonderful at it.
What about saying "no" to posting her online?
@@kelliesonntag9418that is none of your concern. If you don’t agree with it then wth are you even doing here watching their daughter?
Romanticising parenthood 😂😂😂I had wonderful babies and that was my experience with all 3 of my sons it’s probably because my first son had to be resuscitated at birth so I was privileged to be a mother second son is a rainbow baby so I embraced every last moment and loved even the hard bits & my last son was a twin and we lost our daughter but to have the privilege of leaving the hospital with just one baby and to go home with him was nothing short of a miracle could’ve wallowed but that would’ve gained me nothing I would’ve missed all the special magical moments it actually gave other women around me a well when they had babies they would call screaming why did you make this look beautiful and easy because for me it was I took every negative and made a positive ❤
They don’t have the same struggles which affect the majority of people with young children so you need to remember that when watching them. Also, they have an infant so the questions surrounding discipline seem nonsensical.
My youngest son is adopted and has always known. He’s biologically my great nephew and I’ve had him since he was 18 months old! ❤ He does have issues sometimes but I am here to help him navigate through it!! And I do have all my 5 sons baby teeth saved 😬
I was adopted as a baby like Story. If you ever have any questions and want to know how I feel from my perspective, I’d love to talk! Love you and your family
That would be really cool to see them sit down and chat with adoptees
I was adopted at 3 years old and my adoptive parents have always been open about it with me so it was always a normal part of me and never something I felt bad about or ashamed of. I had a closed adoption due to the circumstances so I did not learn all the details until I was older but I now have contact with my birth mom and have a great relationship with both my adoptive and birth parents. As I got older I did get curious about my birth parents and my family but always felt comfortable asking questions and talking about it with my adoptive parents and that was extremely helpful for me, so my best advice from an adoptee would be to just be open and honest and create an environment where she feels comfortable talking and asking questions which I know you guys already have down! I know some adoptive parents try to close their child off from their birth parents/family and In my opinion that just creates a barrier between adoptive parents and the child. I wouldn’t change a thing about my story and I know you guys will create the perfect environment for Story to thrive!!🤍 Adoption is beautiful!
At 1 point you might run out of diapers
It is a thing to have a few cloth diapers and pins.
Comes in handy while one runs to wally world.
Adoption is a real blessing for everyone concered. Done right it can be done well. 😊
I planned my 1st kids birthday. It was huge. I spent 2 months planning baking and getting presents. She doesnt remember any of it. But i do. Worth it.
You can be a friend and a parent at the same time, I have actually found that it requires less discipline and is easier because your not always mean and grumpy, you enjoy being with your kids and they like being with you and if they are out of line they realize it hurts and affects both of you so it happens much less ( I have a young kid and teenager)
I think you both are AMAZING PARENTS ! DON'T LISTEN TO JEALOUS PEOPLE. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Assumptions and questions aside (I actually started following only just before your adoption story when UA-cam recommended ), it’s been beautiful watching your family story. I have no real input to contribute, I just wanted to send you the biggest love from london 🇬🇧
Side note.. Bella is an all out extravagant Christmas girl.. full stop. Story joining in at this stage is a mumma sharing that joy with her girl 🎄
I am happy for yal. Enjoy having your daughter in your life. Don't worry about what anyone else says they are in my opinion jealous .
I love how you never talk over one another. I can actually hear both of you ❤❤
I’m a first time mommy and my Bebe is 3 months old! Hearing Story in the background makes miss my baby West soo much. He’s asleep for the night 💤 It’s hard when they’re sleeping and you just want to snuggle them! 😂
I never had to adopt, but I just think that when you start talking to Stella, we adopted you sweetheart because we truly deeply loved you and wanted you and tell her the same story of her mother how much she wanted a better life for her baby because it’s all just positive reinforcement for her, and you guys you take a lot of flak from people I think you’re the sweetest couple ever and I think you’re the best parents ever keep it up guys ❤
Someone that says what they say that is wrong because they are jealous;due to what I’ve seen you two are Great Parents! Story will never need or want for Anything or Need for or Want Love due to the two of you as parents!
I’m 45 and was adopted. Mine was closed (as that’s the way it was back then). I can say I don’t feel like I was traumatized at a. I just met my birth family a year ago. I can say that I now realize something was missing but I didn’t realize it. They look like me, act like me, have similar tastes and hobbies as me. It’s great.
I have two adopted girls. Our open adoptions makes it so they can know things about their birth family. See pictures, talk to them and some day meet them (before they become adults)
I had an adopted brother that came from a not good situation. You are doing exactly what you need to for Story.
Someone that says what they say that is wrong because they are jealous;due to what I’ve seen you two are Great Parents!
You are great parents! Keep learning and growing, just when you figure it out, you are learning something else💝
A really cool thing about Story being adopted is you have video of how happy you were to have her. And how much you love her and what she means to you and your life.
My wife and I adopted and is no different than having your own kid because the kid is yours. Great job you two
I romanticize my mother hood I love every single moment gm even the hard ones and I am the same way so I can relate a lot to this being just so happy to finally have a baby. Story is one lucky baby beautiful family ❤
you both are the cutest parents and no one should ever just make up any assumptions about you and thats one thing i never do because carma always comes back and its not so fun either you both seem to know what your doing and are doing so well and thats all that really matters, i am so sorry for all the negative talk you both get but thats how life is sadly but god bless you all
It is amazing what some peoples assumptions are. You have both said many times Story will know she is adopted. Keep on been the best parents you can be. Blessings to you all.
I had 2 children and I can relate with story being so good because my son was so good, then I had my daughter she was so colicky it wasn’t her fault but I had both sides of it so I am so happy for y’all for Story she is such a happy baby
We also had infertility for 2 and a half years and we never put the baby down and love Them so so Much !
I would do my best to ignore people who leave question able comments, most of the people who follow you trust you and your judgements when it comes to Story or your life!!
You are wonderful parents. My son is 40 and also adopted. We have a close bond.
Every assumption is not how I see you two, ever. You 3 are fun, sweet & inspiring. I homeschooled & wish I had done it for more years. I highly recommend! Cheers 🇨🇦
Love this for you guys. So Happy cried and laughed with you from the beginning. You guys Are really so cool and chilled and I hope the Very best for you. Hope God Bless you for years and Years forward ❤️
Love you both- some people are super judgy but I love you sharing your lives with us
No way did you drop an AG1 ad into this??!! Oh my cringe 😮 🤦🏼♀️
They're getting paid. They have to.
Get past it.
@@mariannp5014jelouse of content creators huh
I think you’re “energetic relaxed” because of your energy I see while watching your videos.
She said you can make your own later but he made it
you guys are so lucky!! in my culture, if someone adopts a baby it means they’ll be blessed! who knows, Bella might be able to bring a new blessing to the fam! 🤍🤍
The joy and love that the 3 of you radiate is contagious. Enjoy every moment of your little one. They grow up so fast.
People think you used a surrogate because Story looks like you guys! Well EXACTLY like YOU mama! And the older she gets she just looks more and more like you! How amazing!!
Talk normal to her!! My cousin spoke baby talk to their son so much that he had to go to speech therapy for years.
I know kids that have to deal with that too.
Your being a positive parent Thank you so much for showing us positive snipits❤ of you day and happy smiles of that precious little lady.
First of all people need to mind their own business. Every parent is different and does their own thing their own way. No one way is the wrong way. You have to do what is right for you guys and your little family. Never mind all the negative people out there that are miserable in their own lives. Be happy, you can see how happy that little girl is and the wonderful life she is living. Enjoy every minute of that beautiful baby she’s going to grow up fast. You are good parents never forget that!! ❤
Her little baby coos are sooo adorable ❤
Special video I think people ask you guys because Story looks like the both of you she is such a happy baby shout out to the both of you
Last answer was the BEST 😊
I love to hear baby noises in your home 🎉 ❤❤❤ Story seems to be having a 🎉in the background lol sounds adorable 🥰
My husbands birthday is november 8th❤. I would enjoy every minute of Story they grow up fast. I loved 1 to 4 years. My little girl is 14 now and time flew by fast so enjoy it.
Noooo guys it's actually good to keep all the baby teeth!!!!! It can help with certain serious illnesses God forbid she did ever end up with one of those illnesses I have all my daughter baby teeth her Dr told us from the beginning to keep them if we can etc
WHO USES THOSE CHANGING TABLES IN THE BATHROOM???? DISGUSTING!!
My son’s 1.5 almost 2 and I don’t know everything, I learn something new about him everyday
Parenthood is the best 🥹 I feel the same way Bella!!!!
My favorite adoption book from when so was little was Tell Me Again about the Night I was Born by Jamie Lee Curtis ❤️ you should check it out!
I was adopted when I was 5 and I don’t have any problems being adopted. I’m glad that I got adopted
Yall are so cute, I’m checking in on you as I haven’t seen your vlogs since you brought story home and she is just perfect ❤such a beautiful baby!! I hope that yall adopt another lucky baby soon ❤
You’re doing fine!!! I just want to see kind of like a silent day with Story wearing a go pro lol
The nighttime rule is one my husband and I have too! Just disregard everything said in the nighttime, you become a different person lol. You guys are doing amazing 😊❤️
I love how you guys are parenting in out camera 🎥 ❤🥰🥰🫀🎉🎉
There is a changing table in the men’s room at Cracker Barrel
Wow, people do make some crazy assumptions. Loving watching Story grow. ❤❤❤
Your family is absolutely adorable❣️🤗
You both are amazing parents! ❤
I have two adopted brothers. They know who there birth parents are, and they have no wish to have a relationship. They have no negative feelings about them, they just do not consider them family. I would 100% say they have no adoption trauma