And really how much work is the woman really doing when they are no kids involved.😂😂😂😂 To me, the hardest part of taking care of our home is when a home is filled with kids.
I saw a quote once along the lines of “If you give a person the power to feed you, they also have the power to starve you” and I think that’s SO true. Relationships are never guaranteed to be permanent and feelings can change at the drop of a dime. Never ever willingly put yourself in a situation where you’re vulnerable. I hate hearing stories like this where the marriage ends and the wife is left with absolutely nothing especially when they have kids together. ALWAYS protect yourself and look out for yourself. It has nothing to do with not trusting your husband and women need to stop letting people guilt them into thinking that.
The Iorny is your a woamn and saying this.... Women initiate Divorce most of the time...get the kids and the Man is stuvk putting his life together Paying alimony. and she gets the House.... Why should men even get married?
And that’s fine but then she should’ve insisted to work a side job to make that money. Not see her husband’s health suffer and and refuse to downsize to make things easier. She’s trash
This woman is purely a thief...she could have come clean.....I know my wife saves money and sets it aside, but I also know that if push comes to shove she got something in the stash for the family. This is a message for men, study finances and do not hand over full control over your bank account.
Erin… I usually try to rock with you, but you took the ENTIRELY wrong lesson from this. The man did nothing wrong in this situation and got taken advantage of and what you took away from it was “WOMEN PROTECT YOURSELF” How about “women, dont be dishonest with your husband. “? WTF?!
When you're in a marriage you both are one flesh a team. If you are entrusted with the stewardship of the finances the expectation is that you will operate in good faith. Not telling your husband about money you saved for yourself and calling it an escape is stealing. Its stealing from yourself. No matter how the women try to flip it, that was dishonest and deceptive against someone who has loved you consistently for almost a decade.
Erin are you kidding me? this woman was clearly deceitful and a thief. that’s almost worst than having someone off your mate so you can collect the insurance money.
Um, are we not gonna mention that if and when the divorce happens she will file for alimony too. So during the marriage this guys wife stashed cash then after the marriage still wants him to pay for being his wife. The mom should have been giving her advice on what to do so to never lose the man that is killing himself to provide a pampered life for her.
16:31 , I’m w/ bro on the end.. yall tripping. Just cuz we married don’t mean you can take money out of our joint account for a rainy day, escape fund, whatever you wanna call it. That’s stealing, especially when you hiding it. The fact she doing that let you know it was malicious intent behind it
What about while you're home? Think of creative ways you and your husband can build on those finances. Like investing, maybe a side business, etc. She proved that she is a liability and not an asset. And the fact that none of the females were able to think from the other side her hold her accountable is baffling. Because would you keep that same energy if it was the man stashing away money for the last 8yrs off of the woman's dime and when ish got hard he bailed?
I feel like a lot of people in this situation are not married. If you are married you will get half of what they got anyway, and if they making enough for you to be a stay at home, you gonna have enough to feed/take care of yourself and children. And even then communication is KEY
She do understand, you just want to make excuses for her because shes pretty. She believes that its not stealing because your money is our money. If the roles were reverse she would cry to high heaven and feel justified in her current beliefs.
I also wonder what these females would say if the same thing happened but the man hid money from the woman. Cause it seems like they're leaning towards its not a big deal.
At the end of the day how can you blatanly decieve your spouse. I agree make sure you have your but if you have to decieve your partner to do so why be with them? The issue is married ppl are playing the game because of the fear of being played.
Yes there will be friction, because what purpose does she have getting a job? Does the family needs it? How does this change our everyday lives & routines? Do your person duties to man, children, house & priorities matter & how? Are you independent or interdependent?!? What will you be doing with your time & money going forward?!? Friction definitely!!!!
For one thing it’s not the size or the look of the house,it’s the size of the love that’s in the house. Damn Erin you sound real materialistic on this one. but I’ll tell you this all that material stuff that you talking about the white refrigerator can all be taken away from you with a blink of the eye.so now tell me who are you without all this material stuff who are you?
But these are the same women who flip out when a dude suggests a pre-nup.
THIS ‼️
And really how much work is the woman really doing when they are no kids involved.😂😂😂😂
To me, the hardest part of taking care of our home is when a home is filled with kids.
I saw a quote once along the lines of “If you give a person the power to feed you, they also have the power to starve you” and I think that’s SO true. Relationships are never guaranteed to be permanent and feelings can change at the drop of a dime. Never ever willingly put yourself in a situation where you’re vulnerable. I hate hearing stories like this where the marriage ends and the wife is left with absolutely nothing especially when they have kids together. ALWAYS protect yourself and look out for yourself. It has nothing to do with not trusting your husband and women need to stop letting people guilt them into thinking that.
If they were to divorce he would more than likely be put on alimony and spousal support b0z0 🤡
What in the world are you talking about?
The Iorny is your a woamn and saying this.... Women initiate Divorce most of the time...get the kids and the Man is stuvk putting his life together Paying alimony. and she gets the House....
Why should men even get married?
And that’s fine but then she should’ve insisted to work a side job to make that money. Not see her husband’s health suffer and and refuse to downsize to make things easier. She’s trash
This woman is purely a thief...she could have come clean.....I know my wife saves money and sets it aside, but I also know that if push comes to shove she got something in the stash for the family. This is a message for men, study finances and do not hand over full control over your bank account.
Erin… I usually try to rock with you, but you took the ENTIRELY wrong lesson from this.
The man did nothing wrong in this situation and got taken advantage of and what you took away from it was “WOMEN PROTECT YOURSELF”
How about “women, dont be dishonest with your husband. “?
WTF?!
Bingo!!👏.
Men after watching this even though I am a woman I see why I only have male friends women cant be trusted we are super selfish
@ the end of the day, she stole that $$$$. Embezzlement
after doing all the math including the time frame of him losing his job she near stole 50Gs roughly smh
When you're in a marriage you both are one flesh a team. If you are entrusted with the stewardship of the finances the expectation is that you will operate in good faith. Not telling your husband about money you saved for yourself and calling it an escape is stealing. Its stealing from yourself. No matter how the women try to flip it, that was dishonest and deceptive against someone who has loved you consistently for almost a decade.
Shawty on the end in the blue pants is untrustworthy. I always see her making excuses for foul shit women be doing. She wicked
She telling him stop adding shit but that’s literally what she was doing the whole conversation 😂
The ladies looked crazy for the first time to me they don't make sense😂😂
It wasn’t her money!!! They keep saying her savings
7:47 she can’t be serious 😂
Erin are you kidding me? this woman was clearly deceitful and a thief. that’s almost worst than having someone off your mate so you can collect the insurance money.
Erin is probably the type of woman that is deceitful and dishonest. Stop looking at these chicks beauty and thinking they virtuous.
#Rico understands
Um, are we not gonna mention that if and when the divorce happens she will file for alimony too. So during the marriage this guys wife stashed cash then after the marriage still wants him to pay for being his wife. The mom should have been giving her advice on what to do so to never lose the man that is killing himself to provide a pampered life for her.
No possible, she wants the daughter single like her so they both can say men aint ish. Self fulfilling prophesy.
9:05 , her comparing this woman stilling money from her husband to car insurance 😂 wtf
13:45 , she want him to answer the question the way she want him to answer it
16:31 , I’m w/ bro on the end.. yall tripping. Just cuz we married don’t mean you can take money out of our joint account for a rainy day, escape fund, whatever you wanna call it. That’s stealing, especially when you hiding it. The fact she doing that let you know it was malicious intent behind it
What about while you're home? Think of creative ways you and your husband can build on those finances. Like investing, maybe a side business, etc. She proved that she is a liability and not an asset. And the fact that none of the females were able to think from the other side her hold her accountable is baffling. Because would you keep that same energy if it was the man stashing away money for the last 8yrs off of the woman's dime and when ish got hard he bailed?
It’s not her money she stole it
Bro has to be crazy to be on a panel with Keisha’s smh
I feel like a lot of people in this situation are not married. If you are married you will get half of what they got anyway, and if they making enough for you to be a stay at home, you gonna have enough to feed/take care of yourself and children. And even then communication is KEY
What insurance does the men have. ???
Everyone is off on this topic
The bold head girl Erin just can't understand
She do understand, you just want to make excuses for her because shes pretty. She believes that its not stealing because your money is our money. If the roles were reverse she would cry to high heaven and feel justified in her current beliefs.
chick with the green glasses os worst case scenario.
So you can’t work a Job, keep your house clean and cook dinner lol
I also wonder what these females would say if the same thing happened but the man hid money from the woman. Cause it seems like they're leaning towards its not a big deal.
At the end of the day how can you blatanly decieve your spouse. I agree make sure you have your but if you have to decieve your partner to do so why be with them? The issue is married ppl are playing the game because of the fear of being played.
Yes there will be friction, because what purpose does she have getting a job? Does the family needs it? How does this change our everyday lives & routines? Do your person duties to man, children, house & priorities matter & how? Are you independent or interdependent?!? What will you be doing with your time & money going forward?!?
Friction definitely!!!!
Erin, she plays the fence with topics(Sagittarius #great, but feminist-city_gurl vibes, & she's married 🤦🏽♂
For one thing it’s not the size or the look of the house,it’s the size of the love that’s in the house. Damn Erin you sound real materialistic on this one. but I’ll tell you this all that material stuff that you talking about the white refrigerator can all be taken away from you with a blink of the eye.so now tell me who are you without all this material stuff who are you?
Bro why is this chick shooting her sooooo much bait?!?!?!