Growing Into Marriage (w/ Adam Woolard)
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- Опубліковано 16 жов 2024
- It's Valentine's day, and we have your favorite couple ready to talk about their love. Hannah and Adam share that they are not planning their wedding yet, but instead are diving in couples therapy to help them grow into marriage, and avoid being a negative statistic. They discuss their experience over the last 5 weeks of therapy, and share some of the ways that it has changed their relationship, prepared them for a healthy marriage, and helped them be a better partner. There are plenty of practical takeaways here that you won't want to miss!
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Wonderful to see two people who are interested in emotional intelligence and creating an amazing life together - you are doing the work to bring your best selves to your relationship
I am so glad you 2 are really taking this marriage seriously. My husband and I have been married for 31 yrs and recently I have become bedridden and alot of people have asked him how can you deal with her I would have left her a long time ago. Shows how many people would be married if they were in my case.
Hanna growing into the person she is meant to be in her next 'season of life' - love this!!
Please do more podcasts like this!! This was the best one yet! So helpful 🫶🏼
Halfway through and I'm loving this! Love attachment theory and I'm so glad you found a good therapist!!! Hannah, I've always hoped you could make connections like this for yourself b/c its been clear thay you value authenticity. Just so happy for you both and wishing you more and more healing within! Thank you for sharing this.❤
I love how you are so truthful and raw, I loved this episode so much. You are Brave and You are worthy and enough as you are. It’s such a journey to get there and I’m so happy for you both❤🎉
I have watched every episode & I think this is probably my favorite! Love when you have Adam on; you guys are the sweetest & are definitely each other’s happily ever after🫶🫶
Love when Adam is on! So appreciate the way you guys communicate with each other!
This was such a good episode!! I totally related with how you both feel!!
Wow such a great podcast episode! You all should really do more of these together. Love you both!!!
❤❤❤ Awesome episode. Love it when you have Adam on.
Please share more really loved this !! Like every week or month
This was INCREDIBLE. Thank you so much for sharing. Please share your Dr's name so I can read more about her. You may have said it at the beginning, but I want to refer back to this episode and would love if the Dr's name is notated . I want to read more about her. She sounds incredible. Yes, please share more.....thank you!!!! I am single and I still find all of this information invaluable xo
This was incredible. I would love to learn more and get all the information possible
Thanks a lot for sharing ❤. I learnt a lot and took lots of notes to help me now and in d future
And this is how you do it ❤ thank you for being open and honest. May your union be a blessing to others to be able to see Gods love through you both as well as together. Thank you Hannah thank you Adam 😊
Thank you both so much for your vulnerability in sharing your story. This is great and coming at a great time for me. ❤
Love this…I’d love to learn more about your therapy work!! Do you go in person? How long are your couples counseling? How did you land on this therapist that you love?
Wow this was so good!
I wonder if you or your therapist is willing to share the “story script” resources or point other people in the right direction. Great stuff :) thank you for sharing this. I love seeing more men embrace this too.
I love that you both shared this journey. I can relate to you so much. Hannah sharing her anxiety and feeling "crazy" as well as unlovable and a burden is what i work in in therapy. I am grateful you speak so openly about mental health. I feel like we are so similar. I have ADHD as well. Diagnosed at 49. I co-created emotionally unavailable relationships with avoidants with narcissist behaviors that matched my childhood. I have anxious attachment but have done years of personal work to be more towards secure attachment. Im so happy you are bringing light and sharing hope and joy that work and vulnerability can make relationships last and be wonderful. God's love is what i saw today in you two.
I am a 2 time lymphoma survivor and am not in an emotionally connected relationship. I feel alone but this podcast lifted my spirits. I can see how 2 people with awareness can really shift the dynamics. Thank you for sharing such a positive message. Im so happy for you both! Joy just pure joy!
Great podcast I really admire you and Adam. All couples should go through therapy before marriage.
Cant wait for you to share who your therapist is. This was so eye opening and refreshing.
You both are so meant for each other🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻Awesome teamwork and commitment, love it 👌Super excited for You both and The journey ahead , Lotzzz of Love ,Blessings and Prayer from South Africa ❤🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🇿🇦
You are so adorable & such a strong girl Hannah, to me from my observation going all the way back to that Bachelorette stuff. Wished I could have seen you on Special Forces. That was no easy encounter 😳. You 2 should be really proud of yourselves ❤. I’m out of a pretty heartbreaking ending of a relationship that I felt was very hopeful. He ran when the feelings got too serious, that whole attachment stuff from a very sad alcoholic abusive mom, communication was not learned there. He went back to a long term abusive relationship, I’m sure of it, because it WAS FAMILIAR stuff to him, whereas our connection made him uneasy. You just validated my thoughts in regard to this.
Great episode! Great advice. Look for a man who looks at you like Adam looks at Hannah.😊
This was truly inspiring! Thank you
I love Hannah!!! ❤ so proud of her
Hannah you are such a great communicator. You are able to communicate ideas and her feelings very well. Loved this episode!
I shared this podcast with my friends cause it was really eye opening. I had no idea about attachment styles and I fit one tee. Crazy. Def would love to hear more about therapy talk 😊
So good!!
Good job. Talk specifics though, in your podcast, is my advice. Therapy is trendy these days and the jargon starts to mean nothing. But when you talk about the curtains etc… that matters and makes it more interesting to listeners.
was thinking of the exact same question before your producer asked it- glad he chimed in!
Missed seeing you smile like this Hannah!
People need to realize that angels and demons have a lot to do with relationships and chemistry. So often when you feel “sparks” and “butterflies”, and a strong pull toward someone, it’s just your demons and angels wanting to two to unite so they can challenge you and make you grow. The angels want to bring you up, the demons want to take you down. They test you. These strong pull relationships are educational, but often toxic and involve narcissistic personality types. Most don’t end well. A mature relationship is when it’s not about chemistry, it’s about trust, respect, friendship, common values and love.
I don't miss a podcast and me and Michael are thinking of starting a podcast channel for us some time and maybe have steph Pappas on and you two are cute together and happy Valentine's Day
Ask yourself and Adam, "If for some reason gor forbidden became totally reliable for him to lift u out of bed and take you to the bathroom day in and out, would you stay? And if that answer is yes truly, I would stay and be here for anything no matter what.. then that is a relationship you want to keep. If you are going to be in a relationship it's not I'm mad and leaving that is not a relationship
Has your therapist published any books?
Jesus is the answer. He fills us with his Holy Spirit and Love. People wander around looking for meaning/love/fulfillment/peace/reassurance etc.. Trying to mend their wounds, looking for root causes for their problems. Jesus is all you need.
Hannah and Adam are Christians and are rooted in Faith. But that doesn't mean as humans we don't struggle and need help to understand our struggles. Who do you think gave us doctors and medicine? God..and that's just one example.
It's healthy and totally ok to need earthly help when you're a Christian. What doesn't work is cohabitation and sex before marriage. The exciting healing journey they're on can only be amplified by purity. You don't have to be a virgin to choose purity.
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Im sick of the commercialism of valentines day!!!! Everyone saying happy valentines, when ive been single for 3 years and doing trauma councelling, it aint appropriate 😢thanks
Why does the production fella have a shoe on his desk!!
Is Adam just a yes man? I get a vibe from him that he just wants to be with Hannah, and will say/do whatever he has to do to be with her and make her happy, but doesn’t really have much of his own personality. Does anyone else feel this?
Very difficult to understand how she has such low self-esteem. She has a wonderful family; very supportive parents. She's achieved a lot of incredible things, and yet she needs all this therapy.... Wondering if something bad happened to her in very early childhood that she has no memory of?
Yes, she dives deep into this in her book God bless this mess. There was a very tragic and traumatizing murder in her family as a small child that changed her family and also talked a lot about striving for perfection. I highly recommend it if you want to know about her life.
Sorry but i feel hannah is not appreciating this amazing man
How did Shawn pleasant Dayton ohio dating go? He is a narcissistic 😂 only cares for himself 😮🎉
Please learn to speak without saying “like” so often.