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Olivia is so beautiful and you are both doing so well. Mummy Lempies, please support her neck and back, she is only 2 months and she needs this support . It may seem like she is supporting herself but it is a strain on her. She could suddenly throw herself back and this is not good.
You will feel her getting stronger around 3.5 months, when she can support herself. Love you all
Hi Lempie, baby looks good. Sorry to hear that that she is refusing your breast milk because of yeast infection on the tongue. I just wish you had someone with experience around you to give you some useful tips/guidance. Parental skills are not born with. You learn them as you go, however, somethings can be avoided with a little guidance. Now she definitely did not get yeast infection from coming through the birth canal ( which can happen) because you had a c-section. Therefore I am inclined to think that it’s because her tongue has not been cleaned. A clean soft damp cloth is wrapped around one of your finger and you gently clean her tongue at least daily perhaps around bath time. It remove the whitish coating and essentially prevents the tongue from developing that white coating in the first place and subsequent discomfort which as you are learning affects feeding. You will see how it stays moist and pink, because it affects how the food taste even. Just as us adults clean the tongue when cleaning the teeth ( I might be assuming here), it impacts the taste of the food. Please I am in no wise criticizing, but I don’t like when people say the baby is beautiful , don’t worry. Yes she is beautiful, but the admiration doesn’t fix the problem. Each one teach one and when you can avoid a problem why not. A ounce of prevention is better than a pound of cure. Also it is written “ a wise man listens to counsel “. No need for analyzing breast milk, it is not that serious. I’ll tell you what a lab instructor often told her class while we were training to be a nurse and was leaning how to use the ventilator and various other equipments, she said “never get so sophisticated that you bypass simple home remedies” and still today after some 30 years, it resonates with me. Stay safe and be very observant, you will be a pro by the 2nd one. 🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂
Spiritual Joy, you are living up to your online name. You have offered such sound advice without being condescending or passing judgment . I am a new mom myself. (Baby is 2.5 months) and family was not around the first 2 months so I tried to remember what my mom would do and I would apply it. Yes. I clean baby’s mouth but with a wet cotton wool daily. I should probably switch to muslin cloth.
Thank you spiritual joy!!!
@@ithankgod5733 You are most welcome. Knowledge is power and for lack of it….. People perish.
Support her neck and her back, it’s very important, she is still young.
Lempies is just doing lempies* with her milksituation.
Lempies ntowele lyepeyi na Olivia....
Take care of baby's neck and back so.. don't leave her like that.
Mukwata pombunda ngwee to ukililitha othingo yomunona shoo wemutula komapepe eeee kala wemusapoota kuku.
Please support her head and back when you hold her upright.
But the baby is now old enough to be held without supporting the head. I think we should respect that she knows what she is doing people, with all due respect...
@@lifebalance870 the baby is not yet 3 months old.
I just feel that every mother knows what is good for their child and oftentimes the general time frame of what each baby should be doing when and how does not apply to all babies. And as you noticed, the baby was well adjusted to how she was being held, her head was sturdy meaning that she is fine. I also find that it is very easy to give advice, but I have found that often times I should just trust that the person being advised knows what they are doing. We should put ourselves in the other person's shoes. Lempies has opened her life to us which I think is very brave considering the reaction she received after she posted feeding Olivia. Granted, she is set in her ways, but that does not give us the right to contribute in a way that will make her retreat from us. Let us be supportive, and if we have something to say, perhaps send a personal message through her personal Instagram messaging system. I am saying all this because I really felt for her the last time. And being a mother myself I know how painful it is when people who mean well give you feedback that makes you lose self confidence as a new mother. I say this with all due respect to you🙏🏽
Lempie, please hold that baby's back until she is at least close to a year old; she will suddenly lift her head and back up. You will for sure drop her when she does that! You probably need someone to show you how to handle your newborn baby! By the way, she is such a beautiful baby girl!
I Hope you treat your HUSBAND SUPER WONDERFUL & NICE for his first FATHERS DAY!!!!!
Formula is fine, as long as she's eating. I hate when the medical community forces new moms the Breast Milk Cult! She apparently does not like the taste anymore and that's ok. The baby is running the show now, and her comfort is king. Relax mama..
I wish u had an elderly woman to support u...plse support her neck.. u really r a nu mom. Jus be open to learning u wil make it.
Hello Lempie, I am a mom of two but I never had a problem but I want to help so I can pray and I want to ask if you changed your diet? I also heard of gripe water so you can ask if that would help.
God bless you.
I went through the same thing with my son. I was so frustrated and depressed. I ended up switching to formula. I just couldn't take it anymore. It was really mentally exhausting 😭😭😭 it's so sad when the baby won't breastfeed
Keep holding her back and neck you are trying just support those areas at all times. You will get there.hard work pays off beautiful princess👸
Research and review your own diet to see if something you are eating is giving your milk a weird taste and inducing a reaction to Olivia's digestive system. Strong foods can do that...like garlic, cabbage, cruciferous vegetables, onions, etc. Good luck, stay strong, and connected with your baby. Auguri, ciao ciao.
Hi Lempie
Thank you for being honest about the challenges that you are having as a new mum.
You will get there, so don’t be too hard on yourself. I picked up that your are tired and perhaps a little disappointed in yourself for not achieving full breastfeeding. Not all baby latch on and take to the breast especially if the mum is not relaxed and anxious. Someone recommended that you look at what you are eating and to try gripe water. This is a good idea if you haven’t done so already. Formula feeding is absolutely fine, so don’t be too hang-up about it. If baby is growing, thriving and gaining weight at the right pace then I think all will be well. It is good that you seek advice from the health care professionals. Don’t be pressured and distress because your lovely baby pick up on and will become unsettled and fretful. Lempie my dear- it would be a good idea if it is possible to invite your mum or a close caring friend or relative to come and stay with you, Ale and your lovely baby for a while to help and support you. I feel it for you. Take care of yourself my dear. I pray the grace and blessings of our awesome God will surround you and your family.🙏🏽💐
I concur with dear, inviting mum, or a close relative would be the best, and it should be done as soon as possible
Could mot see the baby's face but can tell she's a wonderful baby. You need to really hold that baby's back because suddenly she can just throw herself backwards. She needs the support, she cannot support herself as yet, After all she is only 2 months old and very fragile.
I would look into some of the foods & spices you are eating. Maybe there is a reaction she gets when she is drinking the milk. That's just a suggestion! Happy Saturday !👩🏽🦱
Olivia is so cute. She looks just like her Dad..
Ouwete Lempie kuume..
Kehe watula babiky kepepe, okwaako koye kumwe nakumukwate lwokomapepe ee... cs shaa ndele ti inyenge uuka konima ota dhikuka omugonga so she can injury herself..
Ondi muhole uunene noshitenya shetu shoka.
Olivia is my elder sister 's name(our first born)
Stay blessed...
Hello my as much as I do love this family, I was very nervous looking at the video...please do always support her neck and back...all the best, you will learn as you go along
Just a question guys... Maybe I missed it but why is she not breastfeeding directly?
Because she's not making enough milk. But it's her choice. She's fine.
She so gorgeous. You are doing wonderful job mama❤️❤️
Brestfeed baby on d brest 🇹🇹🇹🇹
Trini peep
Oh Lempies, I am so sorry you're going through this. It's frustrating I can see. Hang in there, I am sure all will be fine. You got this.👌🏾and baby Olivia soooo beautiful and just adorable man😍
Baby is so precious!! I pray everything works out soon so you guys can enjoy this new chapter in your life!
Support her neck
Hi Lempie I have experienced the same thing with one of my babies and it turned out that her tongue was tied, there is another name for it. So that prevented her from sucking rh breast but the bottle was fine because the whole made it easy for milk to flow out. This is something my husband had as a baby as well. I am from the Caribbean but had my baby in the US since I was living there for a few years. The doctors in at hw states didn’t pick it up but I did by examining the babies mouth. I took her to a dentist that confirmed it. When she was 8 mouths we clipped the tongue and she’s ok can suck on anything now. So the tied tongue if not addressed early will prevent her from sucking ice cream properly and make a mess on herself. Kissing when she’s older will be a big problem as well.
I don’t usually comment but you guys are lovely people that I just thought I should share this with.
Baby Olivia she is beautiful and growing so fast. Hope she will be fine
Hi lempie , when my baby was about two months she cried so much , if I tell you right now that she would literally cry from 10 in the evening to 4am in the morning you would think I’m exaggerating, in between those hours she would only sleep fir like 20 minutes or less , by the way I only breastfeed her since birth .. it wasn’t even a thing her not wanting my milk but as she really ate so well , she never likes the bottle anyways wether I pumped my milk or formula, for some reason i found a solution took her to the doctor and she got some colic drops and it improved, that’s my experience, all the best with Olivia ❤️
Lempie, You are a new mother try not to be to worried , as long as Olivia is getting fed with the formula she will be fine stop worrying over breast milk , i have had three children and the youngest is forty yrs. and all my children were on formula. don,t take it as a bad thing . You are a good mother you are doing the best for your child. Try to get some rest when you can . and stop over thinking the milk,
As an engineer I would try to eliminate all other factors. Like the apparatus you are using to pump the milk.
But as a first test I would try the milk and formula myself and give it a taste comparison test.
Then I would send the formula through the whole apparauts for milk pumping and try it on the baby.
Perhaps you can get milk from the breast without the apparatus into the same bottle you prepare and or feed formula with?
This would cut out influence from materials in the apparatus or cleansing chemicals you use on it but not the formula vessels.
Waau..beautiful baby girl 👶
Whatever happened to expectant oatents baby books that give you tips on how to take proper care of your baby? For example, how to clean the baby's tongue and how to hold the baby properly?
Maybe a book on how to hold a baby would help. Her head and neck should be supported.
Oh my word, she is so beautiful, I just love you guys🙏❤️❤️❤️
Aaaaw! Olivia is so beautiful. How lovely to see you with Olivia being comforted by her mama and hanging onto your every word. 🙄💝 . Each and every day as Olivia develops she becomes aware just as you also become aware of her personality and understanding whether she is out of character. Your precious Olivia is unique with her personality and her little feeding ways. As long as she is not losing weight and does not have any infection as examined by the midwife, doctors etc then try to enjoy her personality. When my baby in his 3rd week had white on his tongue (42years ago🙄) my nurse told me to wrap a little muslin on my clean little finger add a few drops of glycerine on the muslin and swipe his tongue with it. Of course it was tricky to do but it worked. I will keep in touch. Love and blessings👏👏💝
Mama lempie en oliva .how's the morning my people 🇳🇦 ?
Muchas felicidades!
Wow congratulations Ma'am sorry for that experience but just continues feeding beautiful beloved olivia more love😍😍😍😍😍😍😍
Did your diet change? Certain foods can cause baby to experience gas when she drink the milk. Lempies, praying for resolution, God bless. You all a such good and loving parents, Try to rest when baby is resting. It does gets better, been there.🙏🏾
Hi Meme Lempie and Nona Olivia , ? Olivia nkelo otandi galikana wu kale nawa. kundeni tate Alle
The baby is beautiful. God bless you all.
Hi Lempie , what you going through is common nowadays , I relate it to food tht might change the taste of your milk . So due to taste the only thing that could have kept her taking breast milk is the bond development during feeding contact on breast . The bottle itself is not natural, so it cuts off that bond. Nowadays if the baby starts to refuse breast milk , she will no longer likes it take it. I know how frustrating but it's her choice. Keep on try but don't even try to starve her to get her taking breastfeed milk. Not every child are enjoying breastfeed because some can start refusing at early weeks or months after birth. Some may be like breast milk and few months after introduce to powder milk they make start to choose ( powder or breast milk). Just be strong, accept and support his choice. It's normal.
BABY GIRL IS SO BEAUTIFUL 😘 sending big hugs 🤗
You need to get your mother-in-law to come and help you.
Congrats! ❤️ Beautiful baby 😍
Hi Lempie! Being a mother isn't and never was an easy role! You're doing very well, we learn every day! God bless and guide you! xx
The baby is beautiful ❤️🥰🥺🥺 She must come home #Namibia
Young babies sometimes have gripes which will cause them to cry a lot and their toes will sometimes curl with the pain. Usually this goes away after 3 months and there are products on the market which help.
I really feel for you during this time. Please don't give up, slow but steady wins the race. Always seek your mom's wise counsel on these things as they ALWAYS KNOW BEST. ALL the best to you, hubby and little Olivia.
Que fofura é a Olívia. 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰😍😍😍😍😍😘😘😘😘🇧🇷🇧🇷🇧🇷🇧🇷🇧🇷
❤so adorable Little Lempie ,she is growing fast. Never be too hard for yourself sisi. Enjoy the journey with your princess 👸🥰💗. Your blessed
Lempies...believe me your life will not be exactly what you're used to for the next 18yrs or so 😆😆😆..it will be a lovely journey though♥️♥️♥️💙💚💙💚
Mmmm you do need to connect with other moms nearby for sharing and learning... I'll send you details and you can take it from there....
I have a feeling if you had your mom nearby....a support system things would be far better honey...
Hope all will settle down though...the colic months ...the adjustments...etc...
Go with your "gut feel"...as a mom that usually is the best solution👍👍👍
Lempies is a Doctor......i just don't understand she's holding the baby so long without support to the back and neck ......beautiful baby
She has a PhD. It does not mean she's an expert at rearing a newborn baby. She has a degree in some area of biology, I believe.
She is not medical doctor.She doesn’t have experience to hold properly baby, and on top off that she some kind stubborn person.
Olivia is such a sweet baby, OMG
Perhaps with a milk donation, tests will be performed and then you may know what is irritating your Little Sweetie. Milk banks analyze the milk or even have a sample analyzed at an independent lab. Is that easy where you are? There is a lactationlab.com in the US that has home testing kits (856-522-4357). Perhaps this organization can help you find an equivalent in your country. Is their a La Leche League in Europe? This organization may also help. I hope you find answers... 💖
Curious myself to solve this mystery, Lempie. Process of elimination is the easiest solution or backtracking your lifesteps. So 1st: Your pump could have bacteria or cleaning soapy residues. Test her on a simple brand new easy-to-use & easy to sterilize breast pump. Let Olivia taste test the fresh milk from this-not frozen/refrigerated. Also check your meals & their timing, Did it change? Is it more acidic or gaseous (on your end) due to dietary changes like beans or cruciferous vegetables sometimes produce gases, as well as skipping your regular meal time - breakfast being the most important for nursing moms. Next, why not try a lab privately if the above reaps no answers. Do you have a private lab you can send your breast milk sample to and pay for testing? Or do you have a chemist friend from your university years who can test it? Perhaps an allergy to the frozen milk vs fresh, if using older milk. Also check your health thoroughly, do you have a yeast infection, acidity, or any health changes that could have changed your milk? Last suggestion: Monitor yourself, incl. stress levels by meditating & getting sunny walks with baby, self-monitor as well as professionally monitor your health for Covid19, flus, temperature, ph balance. That's All I've got for now. Oh, Yes you definitely mustcclean baby's tongue with soft warm cloth gently wiping forward at bath time daily. Not sure how Paediatrician missed this instruction to both of you, or the Baby Care books on preventing yeast. She can get yeast infections above & below from ph imbalance in your diet/stress levels. Hope it helps. Good Luck!. Good on You to have the Formula as Back Up.
Ich denke, es liegt nicht an dir oder deiner Brust. Wenn man mit der Flasche das Baby füttert, hat es das Baby einfacher. An der Brust muss das Baby viel stärker säugen, bevor die Milch fließt und das ist für das Baby halt viel anstrengender. Ich würde an deiner Stelle eine "Still-Beraterin" ins Haus holen. Sie kann dir sicher helfen. Olivia ist wirklich sehr süß. Nur musst du ihr Köpfchen besser stützen.
Wow Olivia okwakoka shili and she is so beautiful, eish the hair, take care of your womb opener and the Almighty may be with you my people.
Your going to be just fine . Your baby is beautiful. I’ll be back lol. I love you guys .
Awwww....the baby looks so cute!
Maybe something you’re eating. I had to be careful what I ate.
You looking good mummy , and baby is so so cute 😍💕. You are doing well my dear , even with experience it's never easy .
Don't be too hard on yourself mama, from a fellow 🇳🇦 mama. My first baby dud not breastfeed as I had no milk at all shame. Second one thank God I had breast milk. Would suppliment a bit as the start was bit slow but we managed in the end. Do enjoy the process and the princess, you are doing a great job mama👌
She is not going to go back to brest milk again 😊
Such a sweet peaceful girl. Please take gud care of her
She gonna be alright ok.
I feel so sad 😔 now, I don't know what to do to help 🤔
Congrats, Olivia is the perfect mixture of you two, dear Lempie you and Alex are learning now how to be parents, so take it easy, you are going to have many challenges but the most important is the baby health, un fuerte abrazo desde Cuba para esta preciosa familia
Olá lempies. A Olívia é muito linda e muito tranquila.💝😍
You are becoming lighter and lighter every single day
In what way?
You need to hold her back and her head, because she can come back anytime.
Hi Lampie she so cute and sweet wate is her weight like she look very healthy she will be fine god bless you and baby and Ali
Lempies otukuhole ekandhona lyandje Pula komeho ndele tamuyambekwa komwene tangi🙏💓👍🇨🇩
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Am a mother of three my first born did the same too when she was about 14 weeks and my second born the same only my last born took the breastfeed well till 2 years so I understand your pain and confusion take and God bless you
Porquê não mostram o rosto dessa bebê?
Is the baby a girl or a boy?
Baby Olivia, from Botswana
Awe so wonderful, beautiful to see you holding and cuddling your beautiful daughter, continued blessings to your precious family 🙌🙏🙌
I see her holding the baby, but I haven't seen any cuddling or eye contact or cooing. At the beginning of this video, Lempie looks very stiff holding the baby and the baby doesn't look comfortable. Contrast that with the way Ale holds Olivia and interacts with her. He seems to be quite comfortable bonding with her. Maybe doing a video is stressing Lempie, and things are more warm and cuddly when the camera is off.
This baby is gorgeousssssssss
Wow she so beautiful 😍
She is soooo pretty 🥺🥺😊😊🤗🤗🇳🇦
She is super cute❤️❤️❤️😍
Everything will be okay #Lempies#
Why so quiet 🤫
Hi Lempie. I know how frustrating it is to have a baby refuse breastmilk. But you also don't have to worry too much as baby Olivia is taking formula quite well. She will pick up her weight in no days. I mean formula is there to rescue in such cases. What matters now is that she is at least taking it. Seat back and enjoy your baby. Can be a bit draining at some point.i hope she has no gas trapped in her system, coz it also gives too much of a discomfort and baby will just not stop crying.
Have the doctor check your milk for bacteria that could be affecting your baby. Also if the baby is getting yeast infection in her mouth, make sure that you’re disinfecting her bottles properly. You may be eating something that is causing allergic reaction to her. You have to be very careful with your newborn. Don’t give her that milk until you found out what’s wrong with your milk. Yes, breast milk is best for the baby, but if your milk is making her sick, you shouldn’t give it to her.
She is so gorgeous and beautiful. Do what works for you. Sleep and rest when the sleep.Do what you can when you can. You’re doing great 👍.
You need to have a good friend that have kids, so you can call them in Germany.
Yes here i am .mum of boys none of the got breastfeeded .but i thank GOD there is powered milk and here they are today Teenies ..👬👨👩👦👦💚💚
Beautiful people....baby Olivia so cute❤❤❤
Hi Lempies, ..Olivia is so cute, Sometimes babies cry during or right after breastfeeding,, it quite possible be gripe/gas. , try stopping in between her feeding and burp her , and then resume when she’s burp, that way you’ll have a better analysis of the situation. Take care of your baby my dear lady.. iTunes can wait 💕
Ondele okwa koka ee. 😍
I hope ever thing will fine it take time
Take the lead from your daughter! Her system is pure so something is wrong. You’re a biologist so that’s your new calling!…Breast milk analysis
Hi lempies....ur doing great....i know of a newborn who nvr breastfeed nor took baby formulas...she took the goats milk way better...just my 2cents
I had somewhat of a similar experience with my little one and it turns out what I was eating with definitely affecting her by causing a lot of gasiness which can be painful to an infant. So I had to make sure that I was eating all my meals on time, no takeout food, cut out dairy products (specifically cow) as well as some other dietary adjustments. So my advice would be just to monitor the types of food that you're eating make sure that they're not food that can cause gasiness and keep it as healthy as possible
Omg you your baby is so beautiful as the hair genes showing already. Oooh wow!!!!!
Ogh Lempie your baby she is so adorable and beautiful ❤️❤️🇳🇦🇳🇦🇳🇦
She's so cute 😍😍😍😍
She is such a cute baby💞💞💞
It is still not clear why you can produce/pump but not feed at the breast. Really wish you had a good midwife or experienced person to help you through this.
Hi Lempies,being a new mom is a journey, don't forget to take care of mom as well,healthy,happy mom,happy baby.Please check your diet,could be something in there she is allergic to,perhaps...All the best...
Olivia is a whole grown woman now... wow! Let me appreciate her dad and mama for taking a very good care of her .. Keep going. I like this channel so much because it shares real life events.. ❤❤❤💚💚💚